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Wouldn't it be great if you knew how to get the guy you want? Do you have trouble finding someone who meets your needs? Do you feel sometimes that you are never going to be able to settle down with Mr. Right? Sometimes women feel like they spend half their lifetimes looking for the right guy, and then when they find him, he slips through their fingers. If you feel like you are chasing an impossible dream when it comes to your love life, it's time to ask yourself a few pointed questions. The answers may help you find a new perspective on the dating game and learn how to get the guy you want. Are you looking for the right guy-too right? Sometimes the Mr. Right you're looking for doesn't really exist. If you have completely unrealistic expectations for what you need in a guy, you may be living in a dream world. The more rigid your checklist for the "perfect" guy, the less likely it becomes that you are going to find him. It's almost impossible to find all the ideal characteristics in one single package. Rich? Handsome? Brilliant? Compassionate? Right-handed? Something's got to give! And if you ever find someone who seems to meet your impossibly high expectations, it's just a matter of time until he lets you down. No one can comfortably stay on that high a pedestal. Demanding perfection - that's not how to get the guy. Are you looking for the wrong guy? Or maybe perfection isn't your problem - maybe it's just the opposite. Sometimes women are attracted to "bad boys." You may find it thrilling that a guy seems a little dangerous. What's cute today may be downright scary tomorrow. Have you ever dated a guy that everybody warned you about, but you told yourself that you could change him? Maybe it would be simpler to find a guy who doesn't have to be your next project. You're not likely to change someone's basic character, and you can face a lot of frustration in the act of trying. Looking for trouble - that's not how to get the guy. Are you looking in the right places? Maybe your expectations of a man are pretty realistic. You're looking for a nice guy, who doesn't have to be either perfect or a wounded bird to fix. You just want someone who is compatible with you. So why are you looking for a guy that your roommate's metal-head boyfriend recommends, when you're an opera buff? If you want to find a guy with whom you're compatible, increase your odds by looking in the types of places you would normally want to hang out. Want an artistic type? Join your local little theater group or take a continuing ed art course at the university. If you absolutely hate spectator sports, maybe your local sports bar isn't an ideal place to meet and greet. While compatibility isn't the only thing that makes for a successful relationship - we all like


the spice of the unfamiliar, increase your odds by starting with some basic points of compatibility. Looking in the wrong places - that's not how to get the guy. Once you know who you're looking for and where you're likely to find him, the rest is just a matter of using your feminine charms to get his attention -- and that's a story for another day. So examine your expectations, do any needed attitude adjustments, and show that you know how to get the guy you want.

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