9 Effective Ways to Heal Your Relationships and Marriage
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“Marriage is a lottery, but you can't tear up your ticket if you lose.” In relationships and marriages, it is common to encounter problems and disagreements. But if those problems reach a certain point that you start to build a rather unhealthy relationship, it’s time to make good effort to heal it. The first thing that you have to remember is that there is no turning back and part of being in it entails the responsibility of preserving the bond. Just like in the quotation above, putting oneself into a relationship is like gambling – you may win or lose. But the difference is you cannot just move on right away after you lose. You have to get back and patch things up. Thus, if your marriage or relationship is on the brink of breaking down, follow these effective ways to heal it: 1. Double your communication. Talking and communicating are not just about obligation. It is more of a prerogative on the parties involved. Even healthy relationships have arguments and disagreements but it does not necessarily mean that you stop communicating with each other. So the next time you fight over something, just talk it over and everything will be fine. 2. Make your time together worth it. Remember that you do not only spend and allot time with your friends and family, it is also equally important to have some for your partner, especially when the relationship is turning sour. The purpose of this one is to make sure you are still enjoying each other’s company even in the period of adversity and misunderstanding. 3. Show some respect for your partner. Healthy relationships are characterized primarily by the respect you show for your partner. This means that whenever you take on fights and disagreements, always hear your partner out. Bear in mind that the marriage or relationship is not a battlefield. 4. Maintain interest to one another. After going through rough times due to misunderstandings, problems, and differences, take time to recall all the happy moments you have with your partner. After which you have to weight things and ask yourself if there is still interest for the other half. If you want to keep the relationship running after a bad break, show your partner that you’re still interested. 5. Emphasize equality. Healing relationships entails that no partner is above the other. Even if your partner is at fault, don’t think that it’s him/her who needs to make it up the whole time. You have to show equality if you want to heal those wounds. Do it by telling your partner that everything can be settled and that whatever differences you have, it can be offset and patched up. 6. Being sensitive can actually help. What you need to do is keep a keen eye on everything that’s going on. If you think there’s a looming problem, determine it and find ways to prevent it from destroying the relationship. If damage has already been done, heal it by doing something out of your devoted sensitivity. 7. You must learn to hear. Unhealthy relationships are built due to the insistence and assertiveness of one partner and the pessimism and subtlety of the other. You know for a fact that you can always give your voice out whenever there are
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issues in the relationship. However, you have to balance it with the ability to hear your partner out. If you can’t, there’s no hope for reviving a good relationship. 8. Ask yourself why the relationship is becoming unhealthy. If you find it confusing, take time to think it over. Allow you to meditate, be alone, and then ask again, “what went wrong?” Sometimes, people don’t realize the importance of letting things sink in. Avoid making any rushed decisions in your relationship by asking the right questions. 9. Finally, the best way to heal a wounded relationship is to reassert love. Enough said.
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App for Meditation and Relaxation from http://www.WhatIsListening.com “Awesome nature sounds, Healing melodies, Binaural Beats, Meditation music, Relaxation music and more for you to de-stress, sleep better, or simply just relax, let go and let be!” Daily inspirations from blog at http://www.WhatIsListening.com/blog/
Cool meditation app with nature sounds and music that you will like all in one app, constantly being updated! Stop. Pause. Listen to the music in the air! Anytime you like to relax, simply fire up this app and choose the music or melodies you like Cool meditation app Simply awesome! New melodies, music, sounds will be added based on users feedback. Tell us what you like to see in your app! “Awesome Nature Sounds and Melodies: For Meditation, Zen, Relaxation, Binaural Beats, Nature Sounds, Healing and more!” Download and install from appstore link: http://itunes.apple.com/app/awesome-nature-musicsounds/id443134328?mt=8
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Awesome MuMu - Fun, Cute Game from http://www.AwesomeMuMu.com Every night a little girl called Yingying with golden hair will sit on top of her house roof together with a large, cute and mystical creature called MuMu. The little girl has a BIG dream, and always dreaming of flying high up grabbing all the jewels and treasures in the sky.
MuMu owns a magical wand and grabs colorful gems and treasures in the sky for Yingying. Each of the treasures represents a “life gift” which you can hang up on Yingying's Tree of Life. You will find the lucky double fish, beautiful peaches, lovely hearts, rare four clover leaf, golden birds, grapes, glittering stars, and lucky coin!!! The collection of treasures is hung on the mystical Tree of Life – the more there are on the tree, the more luck and fortune it will bring to everyone who sees them or receive them!!! Download and install iphone and ipad app from http://itunes.apple.com/app/awesome-mumu-picking-treasures/id428211621?mt=8
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