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Well I'm here to tell you that is exactly how it works. She says those things with her eyes, with her legs, with her arms, and with her body movements. She is sending out signals with her body language that she is interested in you. When you catch a glance from across the room and she holds eye contact she is saying, "I'm attracted to you, I'm available, and I want you to talk to me!" If you are unsure that signal was meant for you, smile at her. If she smiles back she has just told you, "I am interested in you, come over here and talk to me so we can get to know each other.". In face to face conversation, the words you say only account for ten percent of the total mes-sage. Thirty percent is vocal, describing your tone of voice and inflection. The rest of what is said is non¬verbal. Sixty percent of what you say is done through non verbal communication; body language. As hard as we try to hide our feelings towards a person, our body language will betray us and tell the world how we really feel about them. Yes, it would be nice if that beautiful blonde across the park would approach you. In our society, that just doesn't happen. It's not socially acceptable for a woman to approach a man. Ultimately it is up to the guy to make the first move, but in reality a woman will have already given over a dozen signals before most guys make their first move. Women send out these signals to attract guys they are interested in, but are able to save face and avoid public rejection by sending subtle hidden signals. If a guy turns down her signal of advance, there was no harm done, she was not on public display. She does not have to take that walk of shame back to her friends after getting the cold shoulder from you. She leaves that up to the guy. If he is interested he will pick up on her signals and come talk to her; he takes all the risk of embarrassment. The problem is most guys don't know what to look for. Most guys don't pick up on those signals of advance she is sending. The single most important aspect of being able to recognize these signals is eye contact. The concepts you will learn in this book all center around eye contact. Why is eye contact so important? It is how we know a woman is interested. Anything and everything you do in interacting with women is directly related to body language and eye contact. Eye contact with any woman will tell you everything you need to know. All body language is important, but eye con¬tact and maybe a little smile will tell you what you really want to know. It tells you, "I'm interested in you and I'm available." Now of course, you will use body language to do a variety of things: get her interested in you, create attraction, and skew a conversation in your favor. This is all done with body language, but it's her eyes that are telling you, "I'm interested and I'm available."


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