Vermont Maturity May-June 2021 Issue

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May/June 2021 Issue


Pet Food Warehouse: The Source for Everything a Pet Lover Needs Vermont Hiking Opportunities Will I Ever be Able to Retire? The Importance of a Plan Have a Good Think About Learning after Retirement

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Vermont Hiking Opportunities

by Clover Whitham

Have a Good Think About Learning after Retirement


Will I Ever be Able to Retire? The Importance of a Plan by Kirk Shamberger

by Dr. Carolee Duckworth


Helping Someone Give up the Car Keys by Tracey Shamberger


3 Tips to a Happy Downsizing of Your Home by Ben Durant


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Pet Food Warehouse: The Source for Everything a Pet Lover Needs n September of 1983, Jonathan and Kim Lash

business, eventually becoming the company’s general

opened Pet Food Warehouse in a small retail

manager. A self-deprecating sort, Kevin describes

space in Winooski. Almost four decades later,

himself as the quintessential “jack of all trades and

the company has grown to two significantly

master of none.” When Kim decided it was time to

larger spaces in South Burlington and Shelburne

retire in 2019, it was only natural that she would sell the

while remaining true to their mission statement: to

business to Kevin and his wife Stephanie.

improve, enhance, and enrich the lives of all pets in our community. Although the majority of their customers

Kevin is happy to be at the helm of the business. “We aim to educate pet parents on the benefits and

are cat and dog owners, PFW also caters to those with

proper use of quality products,” he said. “We strive to

birds, fish, reptiles and other small mammals.

source excellent, high-quality merchandise. Our staff

Kim Lash lead the company as the sole owner and

provides care, passion and family values to every pet and

president for 24 years after the sudden passing of her

pet parent. It’s just like our tag line says: we care about

husband Jonathan in 1995. Kim leaned on Kevin Eddy

your pets!”

who had been hired as a warehouse hand in 1989 and

Today, Pet Food Warehouse has almost 50 employees

had quickly established himself as a key employee and

and Kevin is proud that many have been with the

member of the PFW family. Kevin took over as food

company for two decades or more. The South Burlington

buyer and began overseeing the distribution side of the

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nutritional needs of pets. In addition, PFW now sells supplements with homeopathic herbs and CBD products. “Treats and chews are always a great seller,” said Phil Trussell, PFW Accessory Buyer and Advertising Coordinator “because people like to have a snack on hand for training purposes or just to reward their animals.” PFW suggests healthier chews like Bully Sticks, Water Buffalo Horns, or raw frozen marrow bones rather than rawhide or synthetic nylon chews. a self-service pet wash with two elevated tubs and all

In addition to taking care of the nutritional needs

the fixings for a spruced-up pup. The store on Shelburne

of pets, PFW caters to their psychological needs. Old

Road in Shelburne was recently expanded and renovated

favorites like Nylabones, Kong rubber toys, and tennis

for an improved shopping experience.

balls are still available for your canine companion,

Pet Food Warehouse has a wide variety of food for

but Phil notes that there are wider offerings now. “We

dogs, cats, and other animal companions. When they

have learned more over the years about the needs and

opened, customers generally had to choose between dry

stimulations of the minds of our pets,” he said. “We

kibble and canned food but these days, the options have

carry self-engaging and interactive puzzle toys and every

increased to include grain-free recipes, some of which

type of crinkle, squeak, honk, or rattle that will bend the

can include legumes, as well as freeze-dried, dehydrated,

ear or wag the tail of an inspired pet.”

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Pet Food Warehouse has programs to

in forever homes. One example of this outreach is the

help their long-time customers save money. All sales,

Pronature Pal program which pays adoption fees, food

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customer’s account and accumulate to be used for future purchases with no expiration date. The staff at Pet Food Warehouse attend monthly training sessions and are always on the lookout for new opportunities to learn how to better serve their community. They are open to suggestions of new products from customers, as long as the products are in line with their mission to improve, enhance and enrich the lives of pets. The pandemic has obviously forced the company to make some changes, including the addition of contactless pick-up. In February, they launched an on-line service where customers can set up an account and

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order food, treats and accessories to be delivered to their homes or picked up at the Williston Road location. Vermont Pet Food and Supply is owned and operated by PFW, and is a distribution center, running operations out of a warehouse in South Burlington. As Pet Food Warehouse has been embracing and servicing the pets in Chittenden County, Vermont Pet Food and Supply has applied the same philosophy throughout

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Vermont Hiking Opportunities


by Clover Whitham

ake a plan, take a hike. Hikers of all abilities have several excellent resources

to plan their next adventure. The Green Mountain State, of course,

has an abundant selection of hiking options. The hardest

part may not be navigating the terrain but deciding which trail to try next. Luckily, Vermonters have several helpful tools to map out their adventures. Available resources include local websites and trail guides, downloadable apps, books and outdoor clubs.

snowshoeing and even paddling trails. Users will find

Below is a sample of resources that cover trail systems

detailed descriptions of the trails as well as see photos and

statewide. In addition to these, many Vermont towns and

comments posted by other hikers.

counties maintain trails as well. Check with your local town office or conservation group to find hidden gems in your own hometown.

Hike the Parks The Vermont State Parks website has an easy-to-read guide of the hiking trails at state parks. Users can find parks in their region and then see trail details including mileage, difficulty, estimated hiking time, terrain description and whether the hike is kid friendly. Hikes at Vermont State Parks range from easy lakeshore trails to steep climbs up Vermont’s tallest peak, Mount Mansfield. See the guide at hiking.html.

Locally Made and Verified Interactive Maps Trail Finder is a homegrown and free interactive mapping site of more than 700 trails in Vermont and New Hampshire. The website can be used to find hiking and walking trails, as well as biking, cross-country skiing,

The website also offers information about attractions and businesses near hiking destinations. Trail Finder is now overseen by the Upper Valley Trails Alliance in collaboration with other partner organizations. Trail managers help create and manage trail information on the website so users can be confident descriptions are accurate. Trail Finder users can create an account to track their hikes, earn virtual badges and make lists of future hiking plans. See more at

This Club Knows Hiking For more than 100 years, the Green Mountain Club has been encouraging people to enjoy Vermont’s mountains. The club founded and maintains the Long Trail, which runs the length of the state and is the oldest long distance hiking trail in America. Today the club also maintains the section of the Appalachian Trail in Vermont and trails in the Northeast Kingdom. In addition to all that, it is a great resource when planning a hike. The Green Mountain Club publishes several maps and guidebooks including the Day Hiker’s Guide to Vermont. Vermont Maturity | May/June 2021 | 13

On the club’s website there are trip planning resources and suggested hikes. The club also maintains two visitor centers where

While online tools are excellent for planning hikes and for education, physical maps and guidebooks are still encouraged for on-the-trail consultation. Protect yourself

hikers can find more information, plus rental cabins for

from spotty cell service, technical malfunction, and

overnight hikes. Though curbed by Covid-19 in the last

inaccurate information by seeking out physical guides.

year, the Green Mountain Club also hosts group hikes.

Most Vermont bookstores and outdoor gear retailers sell

Green Mountain Club members support the

guidebooks and maps, and the state parks and visitor

efforts and enjoy additional benefits. See more at

centers often have paper maps. The Green Mountain

Club’s guidebooks and waterproof maps can be found in

There’s an App For That Of course, there are trail map apps available for smartphones. Vermont trails can be found in the database

stores and on the club’s website.

Accessible Vistas and Trails Not all of Vermont’s peaks and scenic vistas require

in the San Francisco-based AllTrails app, which claims

a rugged hike to enjoy. Some are accessible by car or

to be the world’s largest collection of trail guides. An

wheelchair. Paved toll roads, converted rail trails, and

account is required to use the searchable database, which

wheelchair friendly boardwalks are among the options.

lists 635 trails in Vermont. Maps can be accessed free of

Find a list of accessible trails compiled by the Green

charge, but paid subscriptions allow maps to be printed

Mountain Club at

and other benefits. Find more info at

Suggested Hikes BARNES CAMP LOOP, STOWE, 1.5 MILE LOOP From the Green Mountain Club: “The loop starts at the historic Barnes Camp on the new ADA accessible boardwalk then continues on the white-blazed Long Trail. In 0.3 miles, turn right to follow blue blazes towards the picnic area. At the next intersection, hikers can head towards the picnic area for lunch, or continue to the right following the blue blazes towards a river crossing that can be difficult in high water conditions. After the river, follow the trail to the intersection with the Long Trail, where you will turn right to follow the white blazes back to Barnes Camp.”

MT. PHILO, CHARLOTTE, .75 MILES TO TOP, 3.8 MILES OF TRAILS TOTAL Mt. Philo State Park offers drivable and hikable access to the top of 968-foot-tall Mt. Philo. The hike to the top of Vermont’s first state park is relatively short and moderate, about 1 to 1.5 hours according to Trail Finder. The reward 14 | May/June 2021 |

at the summit is a stunning view of Lake Champlain and the Adirondack Mountains. More info: Vtstateparks. com/philo.html


STOWE PINNACLE, STOWE, 3.5 MILES According to Trail Finder: “The Stowe Pinnacle Trail warms up on a false-flat grade for about 0.5 miles before ascending a steep staircase-like climb through a mixed hardwood forest. Halfway up the trail, there is


an overlook spur with views to the west of Mount Mansfield. The trail

the CCC Road, an easy winding

then continues on a short distance to

gravel road incline for about 1 mile

the Hogback Trail junction. The trail

(or take a bisecting shortcut called

then levels out a bit and treks through

Eagle’s Cut Trail to CCC trail) to the

a thinner forest up to a bald rock

Sunset Ridge Trail. About a half mile

summit. Mount Mansfield looms to

up the moderately difficult Sunset

the northwest and Mount Hunger to

Ridge trail you will find the Cantilever

the south; on clear days other Green

Rock side trail, a short but rocky hike

Mountain peaks are visible as well.”

from the intersection to see a massive

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Will I Ever be Able to Retire? The Importance of a Plan


by Kirk Shamberger

nstead of asking yourself, what might provide me

with the best rate of return, you should be asking

yourself, what will guarantee me the most income? Running out of money in retirement is the

biggest concern for most people I work with. Your

longevity requires more income and more consideration of other elements of retirement. There may be things

you had not considered in your plan; hidden housing costs, uncovered health care expenses, long-term care, children who need help, losing a spouse, etc. Generally speaking, the healthier you are, the longer you will live and the more money you will need in retirement. I wanted to see my own longevity and went to a website called (Livingto100.

erode your income over time, with a risk of outliving

com/calculator/age). I used the calculator to estimate

your money.

how long I would live and what impact that may have

If you expect to live longer than most, you will have

on my retirement savings, both in terms of not outliving

to stretch your retirement savings further. Diversifying

my money, but also in terms of living a meaningful life,

your portfolio is a good way to create a personal pension

which in my case could last three decades. The results - I

or guaranteed lifetime income.

have a life expectancy to age 98, living 19 years longer

Retirement is better when individuals can define

than most and spending hundreds and thousands

not only what their retirement might look like but also

of dollars more. Longevity is something that can be

use this vison to plan and set expectations relative to

planned for and often yields pleasant surprises.

their resources. There are investment strategies that can

The goal as you near retirement is to preserve and

be used to help a retiree (or soon-to-be retiree) build

accumulate, not speculate. In simpler terms, you have

financial bridges to retirement, even if they fallen behind

money that is known and money that is not known.

in their savings.

Money that is known would be cash, annuities (income),

According to the Federal Reserve (December 2020),

social security, insurance, pension, etc. Generally,

nearly 70% of Americans are concerned that they do not

these would be considered guaranteed monies. Money

have enough money for retirement.

that is not known would be stocks, bonds, real estate,

A new client recently told me, “When I realized I

commodities like gold & silver, etc. These are not

had to retire on what I have accumulated, that’s when

guaranteed and may fluctuate in value and affect or

it became real.” That epiphany might literally mean monetizing everything you own and living on a budget;

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Many people have bought into their own narrative

the difference between wanting to versus needing to. I have found that most people have time to catch up, but

or belief system and are frightened and feel (or know)

they need a good roadmap that they understand and can

they are not prepared. As a result, they do nothing or

use to implement positive alternatives. Unfortunately,

just put it off for another day. I hope that is not you.

most of us will not make changes until the pain of

When I ask people what they want, the answer is

staying the same is greater than the pain of change.

always the same; a reliable and predictable income for as

And this is especially true when it comes to financial

long as I or we live. Would you like to feel more secure about your future,

decisions. But it is incumbent on you to find out where you are before it is too late. What does “retirement” mean? One idea of

your retirement, your longevity planning? Change is the difficult part, even if you know it is better for you. Having

retirement might be to stop working altogether, travel

enough or more money is simpler than you know if you

and have fun. For another it might mean working a

have the right plan and are willing to follow it. VM

part-time job or volunteering. But for many others, the idea of “retirement” is far off. I think the real questions Kirk Shamberger is a partner with C.K. Financial Resources and has over 30 years of experience in the financial services industry specializing in retirement strategies. He may be contacted at Kirk Shamberger 802-238-8187 or

are: Can I afford to retire? Have I socked away enough? How much do I need and how long will it last? How do I figure all of this out? And what, specifically, do I need to do in the meantime to preserve what I have and what do I need to do to catch up and be prepared?

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3 Tips to a Happy Downsizing of Your Home


by Ben Durant

t has been a long, tough year for us all. During this past year of isolation at home, many of us are coming to realize that there is an elephant in the room; that our home that we have spent

Buy Some Stickers You can buy color coded stickers at most any pharmacy or office supply store. The Avery Color Coded

decades in, no longer truly fits our needs. But despite

stickers cost a few bucks and will help you organize the

the realization that perhaps there’s better living out

contents of your home.

there, it’s really, really, really hard to move. So, to carry

Green = Keep and move with me.

on with our elephant metaphor, our elephant friend

Blue = Give to family or friends.

can lend us another good analogy… How do you eat an

Yellow = Sell or donate

elephant? One bite at a time. Start small, start with what

Red = Items that are no longer

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wanted and not donate-able.

Now that you have a system, start making some

children. Sometimes it is our own kids that are the least

decisions and tag your stuff. It isn’t a big deal; you’re just

willing to accept change. Perhaps they cannot imagine

placing some stickers.

any other place to have Thanksgiving or the idea of

Go to Open Houses There is no commitment needed here. Just give yourself permission to look around. It is no different than buying a pair of shoes. Sometimes it takes trying on a few new pairs until you realize that your old pair are not giving you the support you need. If you give yourself the permission to educate yourself, you might find that it can open your eyes up to some possibilities.

Build a Support Network

leaving their childhood neighbors is heartbreaking. These emotions can take over and they may not be able to recognize that you are living in a place that no longer serves your needs. Find people who will be supportive and just start talking about the process. We have all been so distant from our friends and acquaintances with COVID, perhaps this is just the reason to reconnect with people. So there, you have three easy ways to start the process of relocating or downsizing. It is not hard to eat an elephant if you start with one bite at a time. VM

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Have a Good Think About Learning after Retirement by Dr. Carolee Duckworth

“Say what?” Did you just mumble

Rose Boop arrived at Trident Technical College

this question to yourself when you read the title of this

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You have your own reasons to respond this way. Your reasons may go something like this... “Learning is just for kids.” “I already went to school and learned

if “they” found out she had never finished High School? What if “they” wouldn’t let her in the door? School had been a horrible experience for Rose. “I

everything I need to know.” “I can’t learn anymore; my

can’t remember one single happy day when I was

mind isn’t up to it.” “Why would I even think about

in school,” she shared. She had been shy and easily

going back to school now when I couldn’t wait to get out

intimidated as a girl. She recalled with horror one day

of school when I was a kid?”

when she was required to recite from the front of the

There was a time when Rose Boop would have agreed with you...

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her, along with 130 of her peers from the Levi plant in

herself into a learning machine, out to fill herself full

Charleston, was her sudden loss of employment after 30+

after a lifetime of fasting.

years. The plant in Charleston was closing. All work was

Five weeks later, Rose completed all the preparatory

to be shipped abroad, where labor was cheaper. One day

work to gain entrance to her choice of certificate or

she had a job, the next day her job was gone... eliminated.

degree programs at the college. Her children and

Rose needed to work; she needed the income. And if

grandchildren proudly attended her graduation from

she ever wanted to work again, she recognized that she

College Prep. From there she advanced forward into the

would have to learn a skill beyond what she knew how

Horticulture Degree program, a field that had always

to do: attach the collars to shirts. To be employable, she

been her first love. Eyes aglow, she would wax poetic

needed a skill that was relevant in the current workplace.

about the joys of mastering the names of all the bugs,

That first day of “class” was an eye-opener for Rose.

learning how and why things grow, and developing skills

Surrounded by her friends, all of them “back in school”

that would transform her into the master gardener she

after 20 or 30 years, her quick mind grabbed hold. She

had always dreamed of becoming, with all the expert

discovered that, in fact, learning came easily to her.

knowledge she needed to back her up.

And she learned everything twice, because whatever

What had Rose discovered that changed her from

she mastered, she then passed on to the others in her

fearful to fierce? From stumbling to searching? From

group. Now that she saw what she could do, she set about

muddled to masterful? From cautious to curious? Who

learning with vigor. And she discovered that there were

knew who this new Rose was!? And what does that say

so many things she wanted to learn. She transformed

to the rest of us, now, at this moment in our lives?

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problems. You have had a lifetime of organizing your

Rose’s transformation was all about discovering the very real joy and power of learning when you take

time. And you are far less likely to get completely and

charge of it yourself and make it a part of your life

utterly distracted by that little redheaded girl sitting in


front of you in math class. Beyond these obvious but important changes, are

What’s So Great About Later-in-Life Learning?

these five key benefits of later-in-life learning:

To open your mind to the possibilities of later-in-life learning, a major point to grasp is that school was school. That was then and this is now. You were a different

Later-in-Life Learning Stimulates, Feeds and Fuels the Mind Clearly, learning is good for your mind. It is

person then. So, it all will be different this time.

stimulating and can be exciting. In contrast to early

For one thing, you now know yourself better.

school learning, where one of the main issues was

You are less likely to be intimidated or cowed. You

keeping you and your classmates in your seats and quiet,

know what you’d like to learn and why, so you’ll have

while pouring knowledge into your heads, later-in-life

motivation at a level you never experienced before.

learning can be varied and self-directed. You can take

Your brain has developed now. You are logical. You

charge of it and customize it to yourself. Later-in-life

will bring to the table your own way of tackling

learning can be exploratory, starting off in one direction, or three, then changing direction later, or adding

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directions, or combining several directions into an intriguing whole.

Later-in-Life Learning Improves Memory Function & Promotes Brain Health Research studies are clear that learning leads to improved memory function and brain health. Memory is improved as connections are strengthened between different parts of the brain. The more cognitively demanding the learning task, the higher the brain benefit. Learning a language is a particularly good form of “built-in exercise” since it involves juggling back and forth between two or more languages. Playing music also improves brain health and increases emotional engagement. To flip the coin to the other side, there is the ominous prospect of “use it or lose it.” Why let your brain get flabby when it can be so much fun to keep it sharp with learning?

The Notion that Older Brains are Less Capable of Learning is a Myth If you are worried that your more mature brain lacks the capacity to learn, think again. Important research out of Duke back in the 70s reversed that myth, although these essential findings are not as generally well-known as they should be. The myth that our brains only diminish with age grew out of chronological research, where seniors were compared to young people at a single point in time. The Duke studies used the longitudinal method by comparing individuals to themselves across time. The Duke studies reversed the myth of declining cognitive function in maturity. In fact, the Duke researchers found that “the branching of dendrites increases with age, and the connections between distant brain areas strengthen. These changes enable the

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aging brain to become better at detecting relationships

stimulate those “feel good” endorphins. When learning

between diverse sources of information, capturing the

revolves around you as “the doer,” and not as the

big picture, and understanding the global implications

receptacle into which content is poured, the entire

of specific issues. Perhaps this is the foundation of

experience changes.

wisdom. It is as if, with age, your brain becomes better at seeing the entire forest and worse at seeing the leaves” (Harvard Health Publishing, August 2017). The results of these studies completely refuted the findings of the chronological studies. Looking across

Later-in-Life Learning Keeps You Relevant and Interesting Learning engages you in problem solving, invention

time, when we are compared to our own selves, our

and focused pursuit. When you become the explorer,

cognitive functioning actually increases.

the instigator, the director, and otherwise the person

Later-in-Life Learning Feels Good Learning something new, or even learning

in charge of your learning adventures, you will have stories to tell and fascinating developments to pass on. Your conversation with family and friends, including across generations, will be enriched, along with your social interactions. You will feel interesting because you

something old in a new or better way, is “hard fun.”

are interested. And so you will be interesting in your

And hard fun is, well, hard. But it is also fun. As


our knowledge and skill levels increase, we relish the rewards of advancing accomplishment. And we

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✔ What are your options of what and how to learn?

Start by asking yourself these ten questions and jot down the results. Prepare to surprise yourself. ✔ What is something you’ve always struggled with?

Learn it now and celebrate victory. ✔ What is something you struggle with now? Learn

fully how to do it and end the struggle. ✔ What is something that would make your world

larger? Take your learning abroad. ✔ What is something that piques your curiosity? Dig

in, then keep on digging. ✔ What is something active you would love to do

well? Exercise your brain and your body at the same time. ✔ What is something of beauty? Learn to create it, or

to appreciate it more fully. ✔ What is something of spirit? Deepen your spiritual

practice through study and contemplation.

✔ What is something creative? Learn to give voice to

your story and color to your visions. ✔ What is something to learn together? Pick a

learning partner, or several, and pursue an area of learning together. What is something to pursue for purposeful work? Learn to do well what you would most love to do as work, either to earn income or just for the pleasure of it. This article was part one of a two article series. Part two Learning Opportunities You May Not Know About will be published in the Vermont Maturity July/August issue. VM Dr. Carolee Duckworth helps workers transition from on-site work opportunities to online employment. She co-authors the QuickSwitch series, Shifting Gears to Your Life & Work After Retirement and the co-authors the Your Great Trip series guidebooks for taking immersive, fully independent trips with confidence. All books are available on Amazon. To contact Carolee Duckworth, email her at


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Helping Someone Give up the Car Keys by Tracey Shamberger

Driving in old age can be controversial. Those who show proficiency can stay mobile and independent. Old age, by itself, is not a reason to stop driving, but there are certainly challenges to driving, as we get older. Recognizing signs that an aging loved one might no longer be able to drive safely is important. Answering these questions may help you decide if you need to initiate a conversation with an older driver about driving safely: ✔ Have you noticed dents or scratches on their vehicle? ✔ Has the driver received a ticket or driving violation? ✔ Have they been involved in a near-miss or crash? ✔ Are they getting lost or confused about where they

are going?

✔ Do familiar routes seem unfamiliar? ✔ Have they been advised to stop driving due to a

health reason? ✔ Are road signs overwhelming or confusing? ✔ Are they taking a medication that could affect

driving safely? ✔ Are they driving well below the speed limit?

Can they see at night? If these signs are apparent, how do you start a conversation about giving up the car keys? Considering the potential consequences of a serious accident may help you overcome your hesitation to act. It can be difficult

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MOURNING BEHAVIOR Is mourning natural? Consider the fact that it isn’t only people who mourn. Scientists have watched what they call “mourning behavior” in animals as well. The famous biologist Konrad Lorenz studied geese and learned that when one partner of an adult pair of geese dies, the other one mourns. First, the remaining partner tries to find where the other one has gone, searching everywhere. Even though the goose may be a strong, fullgrown adult, all of a sudden it

starts running away from even the youngest and weakest geese. Usually very pushy and aggressive, it becomes very shy and won’t approach human beings or go to its feeding place. Although it has been away from its parents and siblings for a long time, it goes back to them again, acting much younger than it really is. Other biologist who study monkeys and apes say they’ve seen similar kinds of mourning behaviors among those animals


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and awkward to broach the subject to be sure, but it is imperative if the outcome means someone life could be at stake.

Have Realistic Expectations Make sure your expectations are realistic. If you

Be Prepared Think about the conversation before you have it. Prepare ahead of time to how you will respond to their questions, anger, and emotions. Be specific with your concerns and have examples if necessary. Involve outsiders like their doctor, friend, family members, counselors, the DMV, etc. In many ways, it is important to be ahead of the game, to be prepared.

Consider Their Point of View Consider how the situation looks from their point of view. Some people may have been driving for over 50 years and that feel that not driving is more than a loss of freedom. It may be part of their identity, affecting where

assume that one discussion will resolve the matter, you could be sorely disappointed. Given how emotionally charged the driving issue can be, you may need to think of this as a process that might take adjustment and time. Consider this a first step a way to get the issue on the table so it can be brought up another time.

Understand Your Role It is not up to you to convince the person that they need to give up driving, even if you think it is true. It is important to respect their right to weigh in and make their own decision. They need your support.

Be Diplomatic Be mindful of when to have a conversation and do

they live, who they see, and what interests and activities

not come on too strong. You may feel a sense of urgency

they enjoy. To you, this decision might be a matter of good

but be patient. If you jump right in with, “You have to

sense and safety. However, for them it might represent a

stop driving now!” you might create stress and cause the

loss of independence.

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person to tune out. Starting the conversation again might be difficult if you get off on the wrong foot. Try not to assume they are not aware. Chances are if

There are five area agencies on aging located

you have noticed that they are not driving safely they are

throughout Vermont to respond to the needs of older

probably aware of it too. You will be more successful if

Vermonters and their caregivers. They work together

you ask questions like “How do you think you’re driving

to provide a consistent package of services statewide

is going?” Listen and try to work through their concerns.

including options for caregiver support, health insurance

They may respond by pointing out practical reasons

counseling, transportation options, volunteer services,

they cannot stop driving with responses like “How will

senior nutrition programs, options counseling, adult day

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Acknowledge concerns but try not to jump in with

resources for seniors. AARP Vermont can be contacted by

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calling 866-227-7451 or visiting The National Association of Area Agencies on Aging

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