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this medicine had benefitted everyone on praise. You also tell people about it. Although accord with health and fitness. And a whom I have tried this medicine and received it is very cheap & harmless, it is a tip (totka) in splendid one!

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DOMESTIC PSYCHOLOGICAL CONFUSIONS AND IT’S TRIED CERTAIN TREATMENT Given below are wrangled letters from troubled and hopeless families & their resolvedanswers.Do send a reply-envelope; complete address should be written. Do not expect a quick reply. problem with you. It is wrong to consider that you are always right. If you create a balance My child was mentally weak; he seems fine now between your thinking and personality,so it but still he cannot do any task regularly. He is would be easy to correct others and everybody living with us and we are depending upon our will not against you. father’s pension. All younger children of mine IMPRESSIVE PERSONALITY are married. He suffers from inferiority complex that get me married. I have seen a girl for his marriage; hopefully she will approve. Will his I have an unimpressive personality, I have problem still persist once he grows up? [Mrs. recently completed Master in Economics and Zia; Islamabad] my all friends are looking for job. But I think nobody will be ready to offer me job due to nonADVICE: Mental illness and weakness is a impressive personality. Please advise me how permanent problem which can be controlled can I be an impressive person? [Naveed; through proper treatment and care to some Jhleum] extent. Such people do not perform routine functions likenormal people throughout life. ADVICE: If somebody is looking impressive it Marriageconsists of living issues, children does not guarantee that he would be acceptable issues; and dozen more issues. Therefore, everywhere for job. Care for personality is not marriage is not the solution of such problem but bad but upto a limit. The things which matter a ratherteach him some art which will enable him lot are education and professional eligibility to bear his financial burden in life. which you have acquired. While thinking positively about your personality, you must rely upon your capabilities. Soon you will feel that EVERY ONE IS AGAINST ME others are confident about your personality. Everybody is against me; be it family or outsiders. I do not feel like meeting anyone but I DON’T LIKE IT it is difficult living in solitude. I have to tell them that they are wrong and they should correct I don’t like assistances from my wife’s relatives. themselves. Especially, my family should agree Actually we have come to Karachi from an with me. Their coldness and careless attitude is affected area and are not at peace very disturbing for me and I want to know the here.Whatever house belongings areavailable; I psychological condition of this attitude with me. am worried about them and often close the door [Naeem; Multan] again and again. Neither I allow any family member to go outsidenor do I go outmyself due ADVICE: Forced reply would be cold and to unknown fear. If I happen to go outside, I fear careless. You should be thankful to your family that somebody will enter my house. When I that they are not disrespecting you despite remain inside,I feel something wrong would be yourthis attitude. How is it possible that they happening outside. My family has restricted me should be agreeing with you on every issue? from reading the newspaper; I assume that they Are you always true in your approach? You try now consider me a mad man. [M. Ahmad; to understand that there is a psychological Karachi]

ADVICE: Any behavior which is disturbing you or other people, is unusual, and disrupting life routine is a mental problem. The only difference between normal and psycho patient is abnormal behavior ofsuch patients.Such people waste most of their time in unimportant issues and ignore the main responsibilities. You are aware of your case and can take corrective measures. Collect all your will-power &do not bound your family indoors; seeksome job or work and prepare to go outdoors to perform regular responsibilities toward your family. The people coming from affected areas become peaceful when settled in peaceful places. If such people adopt abnormal behavior even after settlement at peaceful place, there will be no denying to this fact that they are mentally sick and need proper treatment. YOU DO DRAMAS

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Advice: Your symptoms are pointing towards the disease of thyroid. In this disease, sleep, appetite and temperament gets affected and symptoms like headache, stomach-ache, and arthritis show. Increase in heart-rate, crying, anxiety and freaking out is also due to this. You can control all these complaints to an extent but to completely get rid of it you will have to consult an expert physician for the treatment of Thyroid.

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