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When Is a Marriage Over


™The most common reasons for a marriage ending include the following:following: ™ Infidelity ™ Falling F lli outt off love l ™ Loss of trust ™ Not meeting each other’s expectations ™ Violence


™In some ways, the question ‘when is a marriage over? over?’ is similar to ‘how how do you know when you’re in love?’. ™They’re completely different ends of the scale, l yes, b butt th there are lit literally ll h hundreds d d of different answers for both of them.


™The answer I have heard the most, for both questions questions, is ‘you you just know’ know . Think about that for a moment. ™Falling in love and ending a marriage are t two very big bi events t in i anyone’s ’ lif life, yett this ‘answer’ seems to be so clinical and bi f brief.


™In truth, there are a multitude of factors that get you to the point of ‘just just knowing’ knowing . For the purpose of this article, we’re of course going to concentrate on the latter of the two questions. ™ ™Let’s ponder it for a moment. How do you k know when h a marriage i iis over? ?


™Maybe your feelings towards the other person have changed changed. Perhaps you don’t don t feel as much for them as you once did. What has contributed to this though? ™It doesn’t just happen overnight. It could be that your partner doesn’t doesn t pay as much attention to you as you’d like. Or maybe they have different views on things such as money and kids than they did when you both said ‘II do do’.


™You really need to ponder the question in detail Does the marriage feel ‘over’ detail. over because you feel let down? ™Is your pride hurt? Is it easier just to give up, rather th th than sitit d down with ith your partner t and figure out what exactly you both want outt off the th marriage? i ?


™Now for the Marriage Advice Online answer to the question question. In our opinion opinion, a marriage is over when both partners have put everything they have into it and can look back and say they gave it their best shot. ™Can you do that? If you are reading this article my guess is that you don’t article, don t know 100% if your marriage is over, otherwise you wouldn’t wouldn t be looking for answers answers.


™In that case, I think there is at the very least a glimmer of hope for you you. ™The big ™Th bi question ti iis – are you prepared d tto fight for your marriage? If you’re already wondering d i if it iis coming i tto an end, d th then what do you have to lose?


™As I mentioned early on in this article, things like infidelity and violence are deal breakers for a lot of people, and I completely understand that that.


™Only you know if you could move forward after either of those things have occurred in your relationship, it’s not for us to tell you If things like that haven’t you. haven t occurred in your relationship, and your issue is that you don’t don t think you feel the same, you owe it to yourself and your partner to find out if that really is the case. It could be that you actually don’t know yet.


™Here is a list of questions to ask yourself right now, now and the answers should give you a better idea of your feelings towards your spouse spouse, and your feelings about the marriage itself. ™Writing these down down, along with your answers might prove useful too. After you have answered them for yourself yourself, you could answer them for your spouse too, as if they were answering them them. Be as honest as you possibly can here.


™Do you still enjoy your spouse’s company? ™ Do you still find them physically attractive? ™ Do D you trust t t them? th ? ™ Are you honest with them? ™ Do you spend enough time with them? ™ Do you feel the marriage allows you to grow individually?


™Have you told them exactly how you feel about them and the marriage? If so, so have you explained your reasoning? ™ ™Here’s another way of looking at things – if you woke k up ttomorrow and d you were no longer married and were living separately, h how would ld you ffeel? l?


™Relieved? Lost? Confused? Devastated? Happy? Now fast forward 3 months months, how do you think you’d feel then? ™Would you still feel the same? Or after h i 3 months having th tto clear l your mind, i d would ld you have regrets about going your separate t ways? ?


™If you are struggling with where to go from here an all in one solution like Amy here, Waterman’s outstanding Save My Marriage Today would help you to definitively answer this question. ™Not only that, but reading through all the practical ti l advice d i and d ffollowing ll i it would ld h help l YOU as an individual.


™It’s about much more than saving your marriage it goes into how to learn what marriage, YOU want from like and how to make yourself happy happy, regardless of your relationship status. For more information about this incredible eCourse, you can read our in depth look at it by clicking here - How To Fix a Broken Marriage ™htt // ™http://www.marriageadviceonline.net i d i li t

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