SUNDAY SEPTEMBER 23, 2012
SEPT 23: Jason Alexander, actor; Bruce Springsteen, singer and musician; Mary Kay Place, actress; Julio Iglesias, singer; Ray Charles, singer and musician; John Coltrane, musician; Mickey Rooney, actor.
CELEBRITY BIRTHDAY / ANNIE’S MAILBOX
SAY it’s your Birthday
SEPT 24: Nia Vardalos, actress and screenwriter; Phil Hartman, actor and comedian; Linda McCartney, singer and musician; Jim Henson, Muppeteer; F. Scott Fitzgerald, author.
Jack LaLanne, fitness guru; George Gershwin, composer and songwriter; T.S. Eliot, poet; Ivan Pavlov, scientist and behaviorist.
Annie’s Mailbox This advice column is written by Kathy Mitchell and Marcy Sugar, longtime editors of the Ann Landers column. Email questions to anniesmailbox@comcast. net, or write to: Annie’s Mailbox, P.O. Box 118190, Chicago, IL 60611.
SEPT 27: Avril Lavigne, singer; Gwyneth Paltrow, actress; Shaun Cassidy, actor and singer; Meat Loaf, singer and actor; Wilford Brimley, actor; Arthur Penn, director; William Conrad, actor; Jayne Meadows, actress.
Pitfalls of cosigning
SEPT 25: Catherine Zeta-Jones, actress; Will Smith, actor; Scottie Pippen, basketball player; Heather Locklear, actress; Christopher Reeve, actor; Mark Hamill, actor; Cheryl Tiegs, supermodel; Michael Douglas, actor and producer.
Naomi Watts SEPT 28: Hilary Duff, actress; Naomi Watts, actress; Mira Sorvino, actress; Janeane Garofalo, actress and comedian; Brigitte Bardot, actress and model; Marcello Mastroianni, actor; Al Capp, cartoonist; Ed Sullivan, variety show host.
James Caviezel SEPT 26: Serena Williams, tennis player; James Caviezel, actor; Linda Hamilton, actress; Olivia Newton-John, singer and actress; Kent McCord, actor;
SEPT 29: Andrew Dice Clay, comedian and actor; Bryant Gumbel, sportscaster and commentator; Lech Walesa, Polish labor leader and president.
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Saturday’s Cryptoquip: I REALLY HATE KEEPING TRACK OF MY FINANCIAL REPORTS. FOR ME, THERE’S NO TASTE FOR ACCOUNTING.
SATURDAY’S TV JUMBLE SOLUTION
FRONT NIECE SHOULD MAGPIE When he answered his phone while mountain climbing, he said — HANG ON
SUNDAY’S TV JUMBLE SOLUTION NOTION COWARD JOGGER REMOVE DOUBLE TIPPED The merger of the two safe companies was this — A GOOD COMBINATION
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Dear Annie: My daughter, “Gina,” was the first one in our family to go to college. Of course, we all were proud. She chose a school that was rather pricey, but she had some scholarships and loans. She graduated last year. In college, Gina needed me to be a cosigner on her loan. Now I am discovering the cost of doing so. Gina did not get a job right after graduation, and her bills have come due in a big way. The loan companies are demanding their money and are going to start tapping Gina’s wages. She makes just enough to get by as it is. I understand the loan companies are due their money, but they are not willing to work with Gina so she can pay an affordable amount each month. I assume they will get around to going after my wages, as well, and I can’t afford that, either, since I am a sole homeowner with my own bills. Now I know why college is so unaffordable for most people. I worry for my daughter and am not sure what to do. - Stressed in Pennsylvania Dear Stressed: We spoke with Gail Cunningham, vice president of Membership and Public Relations at the National Foundation for Credit Counseling. She said to first be sure that the threat of garnishment is real, since many states do not allow it. Here are her further recommendations: Since both you and your daughter are responsible for the debt, but neither can make the full payment, consider splitting it. Although money is tight, a shared burden lessens it. When a collector calls, ask to speak to a supervisor. Explain why you are behind in payments and your plan to resolve the situation. It is important to have a workable plan to present and not to make any promises you can’t keep. The collector’s goal is to get as much money as he or she can,
SUNDAY so it may appear that they’re not going to budge. However, it is critical that you stick to your plan, as doing otherwise will only lead to more problems. You may want to consult with a counselor at an NFCC Member agency by calling 1800-388-2227 or going online to www.DebtAdvice.org. Dear Annie: I am married to a wonderful woman who was widowed 10 years ago. She has two adult children. The daughter is planning to be married soon. My wife thinks I should be in the wedding photos with the bride and groom as if we were the parents. I disagree. Perhaps photos of my wife and me as attendees, but certainly not in the wedding pictures as if I’m the bride’s father. I am 50 years old. Her daughter is 32. We have been married for five years. Please help. - Photo Shop Dear Photo: This is up to the bride. If she wants you to be in a family wedding photo, please agree to do so. If she prefers that family photographs include only her mother, that is also OK, and we are glad to see that you are gracious enough to step aside. Make sure your wife understands that it is inappropriate for her to insist that you be in these pictures. Dear Annie: My wife is “Married to an Octopus,” and we have a very happy marriage. I’ve been with one woman my entire life, and I’m still madly in love with her. We’ve been married for more than 19 years and have a couple of wonderful children, and I still think she’s the hottest woman on Earth. I can’t keep my hands off of her, but I am respectful and only do it in private. I make her breakfast in bed at least once a week, bring her flowers often and shower her with love letters. We’re not all bad. - Happily Married Mr. Octopus