News of The Respite Inn 2016 Edition
906 Lee Lane - Concord, California 94518 925.686.5758 - www.therespiteinn.org
Board of Directors Dick Dennin
Sister Mary Grace Puchac
Staff of The Respite Inn Susan Carty
2016 Message From the President: The Respite Inn has always held a special place in my heart. The Respite Inn provided a fun and safe place for our daughter, Amy, to spend many weekends filled with fun, laughter and love. Amy loved respite (as she called it) and always looked forward to her visits. Time at the Inn allowed Amy to explore life without mom and dad and to enjoy her friends, including the extra special staff. Every Friday drop off, Amy asked the same three questions: who is working overnight; who are the guests and where are we going. Every Sunday pick up the questions: when am I coming back and how long am I staying. In January, our world was turned upside down by Amyâ€™s diagnosis of stage 4 lung cancer. Even worse was the realization that we were going to lose her; it was terminal. While Amy was not fully aware of her illness, she knew something was wrong. Amy was worried that she could no longer go to respite because she was sick. However, her worries were for naught. The Respite Inn staff welcomed Amy with the same love and support they had always provided. The support provided to Paul and me was unbelievable. Quite simply, we could not have survived the most devastating time of our lives without the staff of The Respite Inn. Amy continued to visit respite until she was no longer physically able; however, the staff visited our home, brought food, sent cards and made sure that Amy knew she was loved. Amy passed away on September 9, 2016, eight months after diagnosis. I realized that the staff of The Respite Inn are so special to me because they are like part of our family. Mere words cannot express our heartfelt gratitude for The Respite Inn and the wonderful staff. Thank you for everything you are and everything you do. Our relationship with The Respite Inn has not ended, even though Amy is no longer a guest. The Respite Inn is a very joyful place filled with happiness and love. We are all very blessed to have The Respite Inn, no one more than Amy, Paul and me. I wish you a happy and healthy 2017. Love,
Deborah Wilhelmus President of the Board The Respite Inn
Dear Families and Friends of The Respite Inn: My heart is filled with deep gratitude to all who help each and every day to carry out the mission of The Respite Inn. This includes our staff, our donors, our volunteers, our board of directors, our families, regional centers, and our community at large. I am continually inspired by the richness each group brings to The Respite Inn. There were many achievements in 2016: • If you look into our backyard, you’ll notice a circular structure with a dome on top. This is a yurt and it is finished. Hooray!!! This structure is powered by solar energy and will be used as a relaxation room and also a recreational activity room for our guests. • In our 27-year history, we broke our record of serving the most families; 95 guests were served with 1512 overnight sessions served. • Maureen, Ellee, and a parent attended the International Respite Conference in Scotland, and gave a presentation about The Respite Inn. We gained insight about innovations in respite services throughout the world. We will be adding some of these to our program. • Guests are racing around the backyard with three new three wheelers. Two are selfpropelled by leg movement and one is self-propelled by arm movement. Guests who’ve never been on a bike are enjoying learning a new skill. • A Kenetico soft water system and water purifier system were installed. The soft water system helps guests who typically don’t like the sensation of water pressure on their skin when taking showers. In addition, the water purifier improves the quality of the drinking water for our guests. • The Respite Inn has finally come into the 21st century on the technology side of things. Thanks to Jay Masunaga and his many hours of volunteer work in technical support and consultation, we are able to distribute newsletters through email. He has many helpful ideas to help us with communication through different technology avenues. These are only a few of many events that have happened throughout the year. In the near future, we are looking into getting iPad tablets for our guests for communication and also for games. We are in the first stages of installing outside exercise equipment. This equipment is specially geared for individuals with developmental disabilities and also for those who are wheelchair users. It is such a pleasure to work at The Respite Inn, where everyone comes together to make all these dreams come true. With Gratitude,
Maureen Wright Executive Director
Meeting each other for the first time at The Respite Inn. Anna Lee and Raquel enjoy the various activities offered here. Away from the Inn, Anna Lee enjoys cooking while Raquel is happy to watch the latest movie.
Eddie is here showing off his captivating smile in our 49erâ€™s room. Sports is his passion especially basketball, football and baseball.
Josh enjoys listening to his favorite musician Blake Shelton. There is never a dull moment when Josh is in the house.
Joey is an absolute Raiders fan. He is still going to cheer on games even while quarterback Derek Carr recovers from his broken fibula.
Pamela Randle is one of our newest staff members at The Respite Inn, having joined us in April of 2016. Get to know Pamela better.
Where did you grow up? I grew up in the tiny town of West Helena, Arkansas. What brought you to California? I moved to Pitssburg in 1991 to try something different. Do you have any siblings? I have an older sister that lives in Dallas and an older brother that lives in Virginia. Even though we live so far apart, I’m lucky to be able to see them regularly. You mentioned that you love to travel. Where is your favorite place to go? Disney World. I love the Magic Kingdom. My family generally goes every two years. I absolutely love It’s a Small World. Ironically, I’ve never been to Disney Land.
Pamela’s favorite... Food Holiday
Mexican -- chimichanga with all the fixings Thanksgiving
The Preacher’s Wife
“Yes Lord” by Brian Courtney Wilson
We know you love to cook for us at The Respite Inn. What is your favorite thing that you love someone else to cook for you? Seafood is my favorite, especially crab legs, oysters, lobster and shrimp. It’s gotta be done in a true Southern boil. If you could go anywhere, where would it be? Paris. I would love to see the Eiffel Tower and enjoy amazing French food. Do you have a New Year’s resolution for 2017? Yes; to continue focus on being healthy and being whole spiritually, physically and mentally. What is your favorite thing about being at The Respite Inn? Interacting with guests is just an amazing experience. I love their bright smiles. What makes The Respite Inn special? Compared to a day program, there’s a lot available to guests. There’s better teamwork which results in a better experience for the guest.
2016 Donors Al Accurso
Knights of Columbus Councils:
3265, 6039, 10414, 13179, 13195
Gary and Carol Bonfiglio
James and Maryilyn Brennan
Thomas J Long Foundation
Michael and Terri Chauss
Robert and Connie Musante
Douglas and Erin Clough
Contra Costa ARC
Saint Timothyâ€™s Episcopal Outreach Ministry
CPHHCD Concord/Pleasant Hill
Rick and Connie Schempp
Richard and Diana Dennin
Soroptimist Int. Diablo Vista
East Bay Services
to the Developmentally Disabled
Betty Ann Erpen
Cris and Luis Espejo
Lt. Col. Henry and Lesly Fairtlough
Michael and Charisse Wan
White Pony Express
Vera and David Franklin
Debbie and Paul Wilhelmus
Sarah and Herb Wilson
Maureen and Tim Wright
In Loving Memory Chris Bennett Mark Ehni
Beatrice Villasenor Scott Brown Darlene and Aaron Browning Nicole Burrows Thomas Dudeck Mr. and Mrs. Wade Judge Martin Kane
Amy Wilhelmus D. Elisabeth Amyett Donna, Tom, Chelsea and James Ancona Robert and Bambi Barker Sue Bengert Jessica Bowman Arnold and Adele Brooks Jeanne Chun-Turano Christina Currington Dan, Barb and Danielle Denis Diana Ficklin Mary Hatch and Family John and Christa Herrmann Eva Hisquierdo Delia, Joe, Jarod and Breann Hoffman
Michele and Dave Hurrelbrink Karen Johnson Sandy and Lois Kaya Marcia Keefe Christine Kiernan Cyndia Lee William and Susan Manning Elizabeth Marroquin Phyllis Miller Bill and Ann Mobley Christine Richardson Janine and Vernon Sanders Elizabeth Sandoval Marty, Liz and Charlotte Sandoval William and Lynn Sanford Ann Solomon Barbara Strehlitz Anna and Emma Wilhelmus Jason and Alisa Wilhelmus Kenneth and Beth Wilhelmus Rachel Zeiph
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