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The Modern Wonder Woman In 2007, 86 percent of teenage births were to unwed mothers. Here’s how one young mom is trying to change the stereotypes and her future. STORY AND PHOTOS BY DANA MORRIS

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Sleep- when the baby naps, you nap.

Map it out- although plans may change, try to plan ahead, it makes it easier to stay focused.

Remember- tomorrow is a new day.

Talk- to your husband or boyfriend, and talk to your mother; remember: she was a mom to a baby too.

Take- some time alone.

Love- the life you are given. Sometimes things don’t work out the way we plan, but there must be a reason.

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Inside Kellyâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Bag of Tricks

1. Snacks 2. Baby wipes

3. Extra clothes 4. Toys

5. Books 6. A bottle or sippy cup

8. Diapers 9. Cell Phone 10. Blanket

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7. Band-Aids


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