MAY 24, 2019 | THELEAVEN.ORG
FAMILY LIFE
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Give your children the gift Mr. Rogers gave us: time By Deacon Tony Zimmerman Special to The Leaven
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ome years ago, during a trip back East to visit family, my wife decided to call the public television station in Pittsburgh, which was the home to “Mister Rogers’ Neighborhood.” She asked if an episode of the show was being filmed that day, hoping that our young daughters could meet Mr. Rogers. She was told that there was no producTOOLS FOR tion that day. HowevFAMILIES er, we could bring the Growing as children and they could Disciples of see where the show Jesus was produced. Upon our arrival, we were surprised to hear that Mr. Rogers had called in and that he came in to visit our children. Soon he appeared with the trademark cardigan sweater and the tennis shoes he wore on every show. He brought out all the puppets and began conversing with our children in each puppet’s voice. He gave us a tour of the set. There was no hurry in the visit. Each child left with pictures and a treasured childhood memory. His message of the importance and specialness of each person was lived out in making time to come and visit with us that day. My wife and I left the television station with a valuable example and challenge for our family life: Look for ways to affirm the unique and special gift that God has given each family member. As we all begin the summer and vacation season, consider
these possible ways to affirm the goodness in your children: 1. Plan to be spontaneous and open to moments when your child comes into your presence. Being willing to put aside all the usual distractions and spend time with them says to your child: “You are special and important to us.” 2. Learn how to “play.” Whether it’s a tea
party with dolls, a card game, a game of catch, a walk around the neighborhood, or water fights with a Super Soaker, do what gives your child delight. Revel in the laughter and squeals of delight. 3. While it might be messy, invite your children to help prepare waffles or pancakes for a weekend breakfast. 4. Even time spent lying in the grass and
imagining what each cloud seems to resemble is time well spent. 5. As you end the day with bedtime prayers, ask each person to remember and thank God for one thing that gave them joy that day. Don’t be surprised if, in later years, you see these moments of family joy repeated in your children’s families.
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