The Knot New Jersey Spring/Summer 2017

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get the look... daily fix editor’s letter ask carley haute hues top picks 8 wineries perfect for weddings secrets from real couples expert advice love stories checklist local lowdown marriage licenses and wedding announcements snapshot

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CONTENTS

fashion 226

playing for keeps mix up your look with edgy silhouettes and whimsical details

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maid for each other find bridesmaid dresses that are both affordable and fabulous

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the well-groomed groom a guide to helping your guy look (almost) as good as you

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making the grade how to determine which diamond is right for you

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veils, unveiled

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discover the prettiest styles, from traditional to trendy

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health & beauty 261

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beauty awards foolproof products to take you from your engagement to wedding day

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style 198

paper trails let your locale inspire your invites

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petal talk the most asked about wedding flowers

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the real deal on wedding cakes answers to all your frosting, flavor and topper questions

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too pretty to eat (well, almost) edible favors that are sure to leave a lasting impression

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veils, unveiled

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ELEGANT NEW LOOK, SAME EXTRAVAGANT VIEW From charming to dazzling, our beautifully-remodeled private event spaces will make your special day unforgettable.

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CONTENTS

r  eal weddings 86 anne & mike august 15, allentown

90 courtney & jason may 21, stockton

94 erin & satvik may 28, keyport

100 cassandra & steve february 13, princeton

106 sadaf & tj august 14, east brunswick

112 lauren & dan june 12, jersey city

118 simone & john august 29, chesterfield

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joy & obi may 15, berkeley heights

126 antonia & kyle september 3, moorestown

130 shirley & will november 14, warren

134 emily & jason august 21, whitehouse station

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june 7, bedminster

eat, drink and be married

142 kristine & carlo september 12, old bridge

144 nubia & dan 146

june 5, oxford

p   lanning

jen & dan

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september 6, jersey city

things to know when saying “i do” on the coastline

148 ali & josh september 2, manahawkin

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luci & nolan

162 lindsay & blake

285 savvy spending

may 21, rumson

find a photographer that clicks

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your wedding week checklist what you need to get done before walking down the aisle

315 marry melodies 321 to-dos after the “I dos”

291 eat, drink and be married

june 26, beach haven

302 snap happy

create your perfect song list

how to manage your budget

167 jesse & nicole

your final wedding tasks

a sit-down dinner isn’t your only reception option

173 tarrah & john june 5, cape may

298 vineyard vows

280 shelby & nelson

tips to having your nuptials among the grapevines

september 19, yountville, ca

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marry away in the USA host your destination affair close to home at one of these hotels

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tips for marrying on the shore

W   e know your #1 question is “How much does this cost?” so we worked with the couples to tally up their final budgets (sweat and tears not included!). Keep in mind that this total doesn’t reflect the prices of their individual wedding professionals or the quality of their work. Every couple has different priorities— while one might have spent the majority of their budget on a stellar cake, another might have splurged on their photographer or showstopping florals.

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ABOUT THE COVER

get the look... ON HER Dress, $4,500, Christian Siriano, KleinfeldBridal.com; engagement ring, $895, EffyJewelry.com; earrings, price upon request, NewYorkVintage.com

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ON HER Dress, $958, Truly Zac Posen, DavidsBridal.com; earrings, $3,500, EffyJewelry.com; shoes, Giuseppe Zanotti, courtesy of Albright Fashion Library ON HIM Suit, $595, socks, $10, Tommy Hilfiger, TommyHilfiger.com; shirt, stylist’s own; tie, $160, Olch.com; wedding band, $1,250, CrownRing.com; shoes, $750, Burberry.com

CAROUSEL CREW Jane’s Carousel, with its vibrant colors and whimsical details, felt like the perfect backdrop for our celebratory fashion shoot in this issue. Here, our whole team (including The Knot cofounder Carley Roney) strikes a group pose in front of the landmark in Brooklyn Bridge Park, New York.

ON HER Top and pants, $4,150, Rosa Clará at Elizabeth Johns, ElizabethJohns .com (Morristown), Jaehee Bridal Atelier, JaeheeBridal.com (Englewood); veil, $120, TwigsandHoney.com; engagement ring, $920, MarsJewelry.com; cocktail ring, $98, KateSpade.com; earrings, $425, OscardelaRenta.com; shoes, Manolo Blahnik, courtesy of Albright Fashion Library

PHOTOGRAPHER: STEPHANIE RAUSSER FASHION STYLING: LAURA PRITCHARD HAIR: ELOISE CHEUNG USING T3MICRO AT KATE RYAN INC. MAKEUP: LEANNE HIRSH USING VAPOR ORGANIC BEAUTY AT SARAH LAIRD & GOOD COMPANY PROP STYLING: SAM COOK AT KATE RYAN INC. FLORALS: TIN CAN STUDIOS LOCATION: JANE’S CAROUSEL, BROOKLYN, NY

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At Buona Sera Catering, we combine unrivaled service with mouth-watering food to elevate your wedding, party or other event. From the minute you meet us…until you say goodbye to the last guest…we treat every event as if it’s the most important one we’ll ever host. Enjoy the Buona Sera difference at our two beautiful locations, Buona Sera Palazzo in Ocean Township and The Berkeley Oceanfront Hotel in Asbury Park. • Five-Star Culinary Menus Customized to Each Couple’s Needs • Personal Attention to Each Event—Hosting Only One Per Day • Start-to-Finish Wedding Coordinators

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Susan Berryman Kellee Kratzer

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Tracy Everding

REAL WEDDINGS PHOTO DIRECTOR

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Kathy Nguyen

SENIOR STYLE EDITOR REAL WEDDINGS EDITOR PLANNING EDITOR NEWS EDITOR ASSOCIATE EDITOR, FASHION & BEAUTY ASSOCIATE EDITOR, REAL WEDDINGS SENIOR COPY EDITOR ASSISTANT EDITOR, RESEARCH ASSISTANT EDITOR EDITORIAL ASSISTANT, FASHION & BEAUTY EDITORIAL ASSISTANT, PLANNING SOCIAL EDITOR SENIOR DESIGNER DESIGNER REAL WEDDINGS DESIGNERS

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Lauren Kay Stephanie Cain Ivy Jacobson Esther Lee Shelley Brown Rachel Sylvester Maria Bouselli Katie Kortebein Andrea Fowler Avery Hutchinson Margaret Seaver Jessica Molinari Katelyn Baker Katie Ragan Kasey Schroeder, Kate Richter ASSOCIATE PHOTO EDITOR Sarah Love ASSOCIATE ONLINE PHOTO EDITOR Barrie Tovar MARKETING AND EDITORIAL COORDINATOR Stefany Arias

PRODUCTION VP, PRODUCTION Frank Dolphens PRODUCTION COORDINATOR Jesse Hardy PUBLICATION DESIGNER Nicole Daberkow SYSTEMS MANAGER Sheryl Ziegler SENIOR GRAPHIC DESIGNER Daryl Wills GRAPHIC DESIGNERS Katie Hover, Nicole Daberkow PHOTO PRODUCTION COORDINATOR Carly Steier PRINT QUALITY ASSURANCE Lois Brunnert Bethune

THE STUDIO @ XO HEAD OF STUDIO Nick Fortunato EDITORIAL DIRECTOR Elizabeth Roehrig DIRECTOR, ACTIVATIONS AND SPECIAL PROJECTS Alexis Jonnson PROJECT MANAGER Elizabeth Smith SENIOR DESIGNER Amanda Kocis Gallagher PRODUCER Joanna Dedvukaj ASSISTANT MANAGING EDITOR Kelley Rowland

SALES & MARKETING PRESIDENT, LOCAL MARKETPLACE Paul Bascobert, pbascobert@xogrp.com GROUP VP, LOCAL SALES John Pike, jpike@xogrp.com (212) 515-3535 PUBLISHER Carolyn Mantone, cmantone@theknot.com (888) 873-5093 REGIONAL SALES DIRECTOR Mary Lou Pernod, mpernod@xogrp.com ACCOUNT EXECUTIVES Ronni Ross, rross@theknot.com (855) 829-5726

Lindsay Carroll, lcarroll@theknot.com (201) 899-3351 Tara Ritting, tritting@theknot.com (877) 684-7381 REGIONAL/NATIONAL ACCOUNT MANAGER Rhonda Haberkamp, rhondah@theknot.com (888) 332-7815 SPECIALIST REGIONAL SALES DIRECTOR Tricia Dixon, tdixon@xogrp.com (866) 743-2278 FASHION ACCOUNT EXECUTIVE Kristy Newquist, knewquist@xogrp.com (877) 927-3070 JEWELRY ACCOUNT EXECUTIVE Nikki Spangler, nspangler@xogrp.com (877) 771-3019 BEAUTY ACCOUNT EXECUTIVE Jill Rothman, jrothman@xogrp.com (855) 753-4100 DIRECTOR OF SHOWS & EVENTS Susana Diharce, sdiharce@xogrp.com (866) 960-9909 SENIOR MARKETING MANAGER Bevin Stella, bstella@xogrp.com (212) 515-3544 STRATEGY SPECIALIST Amber Petersen, apetersen@theknot.com (888) 869-5071 VP, CORPORATE COMMUNICATIONS Jennifer Perciballi, pr@xogrp.com DIRECTOR, PUBLIC RELATIONS Melissa Bach, pr@xogrp.com MANAGER, PUBLIC RELATIONS Lauren Nolan, pr@xogrp.com

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Browse the top weddings from across America as part of our 50 Weddings, 50 States roundup. Anne and Mike, our Garden State pick, blended plenty of traditions, including a Chinese tea ceremony, bucolic backdrops and nods to Mike’s alma mater, Princeton. It’s the ultimate local inspiration. we d d i n g s

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GRAND MARQUIS GrandMarquisCaterers.com “There are not enough words to describe how phenomenal this venue is and how incredible our wedding day was. Thank you to the Grand Marquis for making our fairy-tale wedding come to life.”

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This painterly invite says “city wedding” in the most elegant way. (p. 198)

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You’re getting married! Congratulations. We love filling your head with hundreds of inspiring ideas—like destinationinspired stationery (p. 198)—as well as the practical advice you need to get your planning done. From the most effective beauty products for every wedding-related event (p. 261) to a flower primer you’ll want to tear out and take with you to your first meeting with a florist (p. 205), this issue was created to help with all your to-dos and make you feel confident every step of the way. And when it comes to fashion, we’ve got brides and grooms covered. In “Playing for Keeps” (p. 226), we used a carousel, cotton candy and other playful elements to show how edgy silhouettes, unconventional hues and unique accessories can add a touch of whimsy to your wedding look. For the guys, check out our ultimate guide to looking great, from manscaping to choosing the right menswear (p. 243). In order to make all of your ideas come to life, of course, you’ll need to think about a budget that works for you—and we’ll help with that too (p. 285). Wherever planning takes you, be sure to share your favorite wedding details with us on Instagram (#TheKnot). Now, let the dreaming begin.

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My wedding band and engagement ring are both platinum, but I’m thinking about wearing gold jewelry for my wedding. Will that work?

RUDE REMARKS A friend of ours keeps making comments about our wedding budget, wondering aloud how we’re paying for it—in front of other people. How can we deal with these types of comments? We know it’s easier said than done, but don’t let a guest with a negative or insensitive attitude affect your wedding. You shouldn’t have to defend yourself— plus, your budget is nobody’s business but yours, so don’t get into an argument about how much you are or aren’t spending. Instead, simply thank them for noticing the details of your wedding and let them know how you plan to pay for it is a personal matter between you and your families. Being polite yet direct (not to mention honest) is the best way to get your friend to drop the subject for good.

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MOM ON A MISSION My mom’s taken over our wedding guest list, but the chapel we’ve chosen for the ceremony is pretty tiny. How can we rein in her list without stepping on toes? Parents helping to pay for the wedding should have a say in how their money is spent, but there’s nothing anyone can do about how many people will fit in the chapel you’ve chosen. If your mother keeps expanding her list at the exclusion of those guests most important to you, speak up—but make sure you don’t sound like you’re placing blame. Start with, “I’m worried about the number of people we’re inviting and that the ceremony will be overcrowded. Is there a way we can compromise?” Hopefully she’ll understand the dilemma and rethink the large head count without too much pushback.

REQUESTING CASH How do we let our guests know we want to receive money instead of gifts? Asking for money as a wedding gift may seem taboo, but more couples are going that route instead of a traditional registry. We suggest using an online cash registry website like Tendr, which lets guests gift money gracefully and discreetly with a personal note of congratulations. Or you may decide you’d rather receive money to fund your honeymoon. Create an account on a website like Traveler’s Joy for guests to contribute to. Whatever route you take, post your registry preference and links on your wedding website. But keep in mind that some people still want to give you something personal or material, so give them the option to do so. >>

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You can absolutely mix metals on your wedding day. Your engagement ring and wedding band might be your most meaningful (and asked about) jewelry, but that doesn’t mean they have to stand alone or dictate your entire look. For a little fashion inspiration, let the color and details of your gown point you toward which baubles will work best for your wedding. Gold usually pairs beautifully with creamier ivory fabrics, while silver typically complements brighter whites.

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PLANNER PAINS I don’t think we can afford a wedding planner, but I’m drowning in details. I can’t even imagine how overwhelmed I’ll be on the actual day. What should I do? It’s no secret: Planning a wedding alone is hard, but hiring a planner can be pretty pricey. The good news? Most pros really can work with any budget. If a full-service planner—who’ll hold your hand through finding a florist to cutting the cake—is out of your price range, hire one either on a freelance basis (they’ll help lay the groundwork for you early on) or just as a day-of coordinator. The latter actually starts at least a few weeks before your wedding and costs a fraction of a full-service planner but is pretty priceless—the last thing you should be doing on your wedding day is worrying.

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of couples hire a professional wedding planner TRIAL AND ERROR Am I being too pushy if I bring photos of styles I like to my hair trial? Not at all. Most stylists actually love when you bring pictures for inspiration— plus, your idea of classic might be totally different from theirs. Same goes if you mention celebrities whose locks you admire. Stars change their looks so often, you might be visualizing a sleek redhead while your stylist sees a tousled blond. In addition to photos of styles you like, bring a picture of your dress along with the jewelry and hair accessories you plan on wearing, including your veil, to ensure everything works flawlessly altogether when it’s time to walk down the aisle.

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ALTAR UPGRADE We’re getting married in a church— what are some ways we can make the space feel special and personal? You don’t need much to dress up your ceremony spot, especially if the venue’s interiors are already beautiful to begin with. And remember: Your wedding party will be “decorating” the scene too. Start by checking with your church as it may have décor restrictions. If your congregation allows it, have your florist create two arrangements to mark the altar, and line the aisle with candles, small arrangements or topiaries. If flowers or candles are a no-go, a simple, personalized aisle runner can be enough to make it feel more you.

what would you do Is it necessary to list the groom’s parents on the invitation if they’re not contributing? Tell us what you think at TheKnot.com/talk ANSWER ANXIETY There are only two weeks left until my wedding and I still haven’t heard from a big portion of my guest list. What should I do? As the date draws nearer, there’s nothing wrong with following up with a quick phone call or email to get a definitive yes or no. If you’ve got a particularly trusted and helpful bridesmaid, relative or friend, ask them to help make the calls. Or have whoever added each guest to your list pitch in—if it’s your friend, it’s up to you to track him or her down; if it’s your mother-in-law’s coworker, she should make the call.

MOCKTAIL HOUR Is it appropriate to have a cocktail hour if we know a good portion of our guests don’t drink alcohol? Absolutely. A cocktail hour is a fun way for guests to pass the time between the ceremony and reception, especially if you’re planning on taking photos. In addition to a signature cocktail, you can also create a custom mocktail, which is always an unexpected and appreciated refreshment for nondrinkers. If you’re just serving beer and wine, make sure you have plenty of soda and bottled water on hand as well. Plus, you’ll definitely want enough tasty hors d’oeuvres for everyone to munch on while they sip and mingle.

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Crisp Petals invitation, $254 for 100, Petite Alma, WeddingPaperDivas.com

shimmery lids

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Rouge Volupté shine lipstick in Fuchsia Stiletto, $37, Yves Saint Laurent, Sephora.com

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fuchsia + aqua

Robe, $40, TheKnotShop.com

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Mandarino Di Amalfi eau de parfum, $225 for 1.7 oz., TomFord.com

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Boho Ikat invitation, $234 for 100, Penelope Poppy, Minted.com

chic halter

Dress, $220, Hayley Paige Occasions at Jaehee Bridal Atelier, JaeheeBridal.com (Englewood), The Wedding Store at Liz Clinton, MyWeddingatLizClintons.com (Andover), Country Way Bridal, CountryWayBridalBoutique.com (Haddonfield)

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Amazonian Clay blush in Captivating, $28, Tarte, Sephora.com

bottoms up

Copper mug, $26, TheKnotShop.com

luxe touch Clutch, $895, Marchesa, Saks.com

Nail lacquer in Red, $28, Dolce & Gabbana, Saks.com

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3 FULL BLOOM Carry an asymmetrical arrangement of muted florals tied with a chic pink ribbon for a look that’s fresh and fragrant.

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Quaint and picturesque, Braddock’s offers award winning cuisine, exemplary service, magnificent décor and a captivating ambiance. With several private dining rooms and two elegant banquet halls that host twelve to two hundred guests, Braddock’s is the place to create a lasting memory. 3 9 S M A I N S T R E E T, M E D F O R D , N J BRADDOCKS.COM

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“Lavish style in idyllic settings brings the destination wedding closer to home...� www.weddingsofdistinctionnj.com

Weddings of Distinction is a masterfully developed collection of breathtaking venues that redefine opulence. These grand estate properties are designed for a singular purpose and host the most distinguished of wedding celebrations. The bride and groom, their families and their honored guests, are assured an unforgettable experience. Each venue exhibits uncompromised excellence with an unimaginable depth of architectural and interior design detail. From the moment you arrive, you know that a once in a life time moment is imminent. Offered in the most sought after environments, brides can choose from a sprawling and lavishly designed country estate, to ocean breezes caressing two elegant and unique bay side mansions. These unrivaled wedding venues are hosts to unwavering families of distinction. In addition to our mansion estates, Weddings of Distinction spared no detail in designing a beach ceremony reception venue just beyond the dunes. Additionally, families requiring a multiple night stay can take advantage of a traditional hotel venue complete with a luxurious ballroom and delightful grounds. Weddings of Distinction are highly acclaimed destination venues without travel. Explore these incomparable venues and imagine the enduring memory your special day will be.

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85 Archertown Road, New Egypt; (609) 752-0200; LauritaWinery.com Transport your guests from New Jersey to Italy at Laurita Vineyard, a 40-acre property that offers both indoor and outdoor receptions for up to 250. The breathtaking, pastoral views of rolling hills—thanks to floor-to-ceiling windows—from the exposed brick event room make this spot great year-round, and when the weather is warm, exchange vows on the main lawn. Plus, Laurita works with a set of exclusive caterers who have created unique menus that pair with its estate wines.

225 White Horse Pike, Hammonton; (800) 666-9463; TomaselloWinery.com For a departure from the rustic look, check out the opulent Tomasello Winery. A grand foyer welcomes up to 225 guests to a ballroom decked out with crystal chandeliers and chiavari chairs. Exchange vows under a wood pergola on the patio, before inviting guests to wine and dine on a meal prepared by Tomasello’s executive chef, who will even create the cake. TIP Renting the space at Tomasello includes a bottle of wine with a custom label for your favors for all guests over 21.

9 Rocktown Road, Ringoes; (908) 788-0400; UnionvilleVineyards.com Featuring its historic home, built in 1858, as the wedding backdrop, Unionville Vineyards hosts both large and intimate weddings. After a ceremony overlooking the Home Vineyard, smaller guest lists (up to 30) can get cozy for a seated dinner in the Tasting Room and make use of the 40-foot bar for sipping Unionville’s wines. The winery also offers a 3,200-squarefoot, high-peak tent with twinkle lights for larger events from May to October. >>

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alba vineyard 269 Route 627, Milford; (908) 995-7800; AlbaVineyard.com For the best Musconetcong River Valley views, a wedding at Alba Vineyard is the way to go. Located just two miles from the Delaware River and historic Bucks County, Pennsylvania, Alba hosts all events alfresco, treating guests to 360-degree panoramas of the valley. After saying “I do” among the property’s vines, lead guests to a tented reception where they can dance and taste the red, white and dessert wines made on-site.

72 N. Bremen Ave., Egg Harbor City; (609) 965-2111; RenaultWinery.com For couples looking for a nearby destination wedding venue, Renault features a 50-room boutique hotel, championship golf course and working winery to bring family and friends together. With space for 300 and classic rustic touches, the Grand Ballroom is the popular venue at this all-inclusive property. TIP The Renault team will take care of event details including your cake, flowers and even the champagne toast with its signature bubbles.

beneduce vineyard 1 Jeremiah Lane, Pittstown; (908) 996-3823; BeneduceVineyards.com Party among the flora and fauna all yearlong in the converted greenhouse dubbed the Tropical Oasis at Beneduce Vineyard, a rural farm with 16 acres of vineyards in Hunterdon County. After a ceremony in the vineyards, up to 125 guests can dance into the night on the stone patio and grab drinks at the 14-foot antique wood bar where bartenders serve estate vino. TIP Beneduce only books Friday and Sunday weddings.

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1090 Route 206, Shamong; (609) 268-6731; ValenzanoWine.com This South Jersey–based winery has three reception locales for parties of up to 250 guests, including a converted farmhouse for intimate gatherings (up to 50) and the newly renovated Vintner’s Pavillion (up to 160), perfect for summer celebrations. But the Tuscan-inspired Winemaker’s Ballroom really says “wine country.” It boasts a stone fireplace, patio surrounded by vineyards and easy access to the barrel room for a one-of-a-kind cocktail hour.

3619 Route 94, Hamburg; (973) 823-9463; CavaWinery.com Set among the rolling hills in northwest New Jersey, Cava Winery boasts plenty of rustic charm with a few odes to the owner’s Italian heritage, including grape varieties like Sangiovese. Wed among the vines with 130 guests, who can celebrate in a tent on the lawn or inside the ballroom. Plus, Cava’s entire wine selection is available by either glass or bottle, and the house chef will create a menu full of perfect pairings.

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what are some other ways couples can personalize their flowers? Think beyond the actual blooms. We recently had a bride who had wood boxes made with the couple’s names and wedding date burned into the side. It was super cute and totally fit their theme.

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now let’s talk about the bouquet. what are some unique ways to wrap it? The most special wraps come from things that have special meaning to the bride, like ties from their fathers or leather from their fiancé’s leather crafts. These things have a way of really enhancing the sentiment.

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what’s the biggest piece of advice you find yourself telling couples? Enjoy the planning. The day comes and goes so quickly. When couples enjoy the entire process, they’ll have even more great memories to look back on. how can couples incorporate local and seasonal blooms into their arrangements? Be inquisitive. Ask what’s in season. Couples are often surprised to hear what’s available during New Jersey’s different seasons. A good number of farms supply gorgeous tulips and peonies in the spring and dahlias in the fall. We love using nontraditional items too, like funky gourds and seasonal fruits in the fall to add both a cool texture and color.

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TwistedWillow Flowers.com

and be honest, what really happens to flowers postwedding? It kills us to have to throw anything away. If guests cannot take flowers home, we encourage our couples to donate arrangements to nursing homes or hospitals. It’s the best feeling to see someone’s face light up with an unexpected gesture like that.

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Make an inspiration board, then talk to your florist about what you like (or loathe) about the pictures. Alternating between types of centerpieces adds depth to the room and balances out costs on reception flowers. Trust your vendors—they’re professionals for a reason.

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what are some ways couples can personalize their stationery? Color, typeface and design choices help represent couples just as businesses represent themselves through great branding. Couples can opt for something traditional, like a custom monogram, or more unique, such as using nontraditional materials like leather or wood inspired by a hobby. One of my favorite quotes from a recent client was: “I love how you can make paper look like people.” could you share a creative save-thedate idea you’ve executed? Use letterpress coasters as save the dates. It adds contrast when opening the envelope.

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what about an invitation suite? Mixing materials and printing methods builds depth and excitement. One of my favorites included a letterpress invitation printed in two colors with a beautiful light green watercolor wash, a wood enclosure card, leather tags and even vintage stamps we curated for the design. wow—what would you say is trending? Fine printing methods are still coveted, but they’re paired with more exciting designs and bold color palettes. We’re also moving toward a more mature, grown-up style of calligraphy that’s less bouncy than years past. finally, can you share one pro tip? Don’t lose sight of the ultimate function of stationery: to get guests the information they need and return accurate responses so you can plan. And it can be beautiful too. heck out more local wedding pros C at TheKnot.com/marketplace

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how do you set yourself apart? Almost every couple we meet with wants to make sure we aren’t over the top. The DJ industry has developed a label of being more focused on themselves than the client. But our focus is on adapting to them. Not only will a couple have full communication with their event host and DJ, but also with me to ensure a complete sense of confidence. what should a couple look for when searching for a potential DJ? It’s all about the vibe. Similar to your first date, you want to feel a connection, a level of comfort and excitement about a future relationship. With all the time associated with prepping for a wedding day, you want to make sure you really like the person you’ll be working with throughout the entire process. what are some tips for a great playlist and a packed dance floor? Start off slow, build energy and incorporate all the guests with songs a majority of people will know and love. But keep in mind a wedding is a living, breathing entity. Sometimes what a couple thinks will work on the dance floor misses the mark. Be open to your DJ reading the crowd and playing what will ensure a packed floor. Oh, and alcohol. You can’t forget the alcohol.

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let’s talk lighting. any tips for illuminating the dance floor? Don’t overdo it. Think about what your images will look like. What if everything looks purple and blue because of an abundance of lights? Sometimes it’s not what looks great in the moment but what it will look like after the fact. Less is more. MEET

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Mix it up. A great playlist includes songs for all age ranges, especially if a majority of your guests are in their 50s and 60s. With a good DJ, you can always sneak in metal or country even if you think it might not work. Give your DJ the option to read the crowd and go off script if it will keep people on their feet.

great tip. what about song requests from guests? The couple can select to take requests or not. Personally, we’re all for it as long as the song works with the client’s vibe. But one time we had a guest come up to us with a selfproduced rap in hand. You can guess if we played it or not! and are there any overplayed songs you’re sick of hearing? Honestly there isn’t one. Whether it’s the new “it” song or an old standby, if it puts guests in the mood, it won’t get old. I bet that many of the packed dance floor pictures we see of guests going crazy would be to the songs you would think we’re sick of hearing. any last tips for to-be-weds? Spend your money on things that really matter to the overall success of your wedding. As you search for pros, you’ll find the industry is full of businesses, which can become overwhelming. Ask your friends and family who they’ve worked with. It may look huge, but when you boil it down, there’s a small circle of excellent pros for you. iscover more tips and trends from D your area at TheKnot.com/newjersey

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Even after showering Susan with incredible Christmas presents while celebrating the holiday with her family, Henry produced another large gift bag for her that he insisted be opened last. Inside the bag, Susan was met with a box, then another within that, and another after that. When she reached the last one, Henry popped the question as the box revealed a custom ring he had made with Susan’s grandmother’s diamond. “I love that it happened with my mom, dad and sister there,” Susan says of the moment. “All you need is the right person to make a proposal perfect.” The ring: custom

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“I was very surprised, but in hindsight I should have known something was going on,” Cortney says looking back on her quiet dinner with her boyfriend of five years, Jason, before he popped the question. Post-meal, the couple headed to “meet friends,” a ruse to get Cortney into an empty hotel room that Jason had prepped with champagne for the big moment. “I thought it was very strange that no one was in there,” she says. Once she took off her jacket, Jason dropped to one knee. The ring: custom

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Though over a decade had passed since they first met in the dorms at The College of New Jersey, Lauren and Frank returned to their alma mater to tour all their college haunts. They happened upon Malaga, the Spanish restaurant where they had their first date over paella and sangria, and went inside. “The waiter fancily poured us sangria,” Lauren says of her last memory before Frank proposed with a sapphirestudded ring. “In the moments that followed, I think we both ‘blacked out.’ I was so overwhelmed with love and happy tears.” The ring: Terrace Jewelers Find more amazing photographers in your area on p. 344

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THEIR STORY BRIDE Anne Lin, 36, works in finance GROOM Michael (Mike) Treadow, 30, works in finance HOW THEY MET At work WEDDING STYLE Rich purple tones and rustic tree elements made for a whimsical and dreamlike celebration. —Allie Volpe

The reception featured two centerpiece styles. The first was manzanita tree branches scattered with delicate purple blooms and hanging amaranth. Deep blue, textured tablecloths added richness to the look, while light purple napkins gave the tablescapes a fresh pop of color.

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Anne wore her hair down with loose curls. “I wanted a natural style that didn’t make me look too different,” she said. “I know how much Mike loves my hair down, and so I tried to find a style that kept my hair out of my face but was still romantic and fancy.”

Mike’s boutonniere consisted of a single purple orchid accented with sprigs of greenery.

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Anne dressed in a red qipao with gold heels for the traditional Chinese tea ceremony.

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The second centerpiece style was overflowing arrangements of hydrangeas, thistle, seeded eucalyptus, pale purple roses and baby’s breath clustered in wood logs. Table numbers were framed in purple and displayed on birch stumps. In lieu of favors, the couple donated to the American Cancer Society.

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BRIDE Courtney Rozsas, 31, a restaurateur GROOM Jason Hoffmann, 32, works in insurance and financial services HOW THEY MET In biology lab at Albright College WEDDING STYLE Courtney and Jason planned a rustic farm wedding with stylish contemporary twists. —AV

Sometimes the first time really is the charm—as was the case with Courtney’s Galia Lahav dress, the first she tried on. The lace bodice of her dropped-waist gown gave way to a full blush tulle skirt embellished with pearls and crystals. “The icing on the cake was he drew me in the dress,” she said. “It was an experience I’ll never forget.”

Florals, including fiddlehead ferns, peonies and local wildflowers, were grown especially for the wedding day.

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Fall florals, berries and branches covered in lights dripped from the wood rafters of the reception barn. “Our guests entered and their jaws dropped,� Courtney says. During the cocktail hour, guests enjoyed tiny treats such as mini Jack and Cokes with burgers and fries, and mini margaritas and tacos.

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Satvik wore customized purple and black Nike hightop sneakers for the Jewish ceremony.

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THEIR STORY BRIDE Erin Tinkel, 28, a social worker GROOM Satvik Patel, 28, in business operations for Big Ten Conference HOW THEY MET In high school WEDDING STYLE The couple planned a vibrant, multicultural affair that wove both Jewish and Hindu customs throughout two colorful ceremonies. —AV

“We combined both ceremonies into one giant day so all of our guests, regardless of faith, could celebrate both traditions equally,” Erin says. Instead of riding in on a horse (a Hindu tradition), Satvik arrived at the ceremony in a custom go-kart.

“It was pretty special that we were able to use the same structure for both the chuppah and mandap,” Erin says.

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For the Hindu ceremony, Erin wore a white silk sari from India with red and gold embellishments, gifted to her from Satvik’s mother. She also accessorized with jewelry passed down from his grandmother, like her tikka (headpiece), bracelets and earrings. Her bridesmaids donned matching teal and gold saris.

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The couple had their first dance to Louis Armstrong’s “La Vie en Rose,” which was featured in WALL-E, Erin’s favorite movie. “It’s played during a scene where WALL-E is totally and hopelessly in love with EVE, and we hold that scene close to our hearts,” she says.

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Cassandra wore a beaded, ivory sheath and a fur stole to keep warm. “I felt like an art deco, Gatsby starlet,” she said.

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The bridesmaids carried full bunches of dark pink and purple blooms and seasonal greens.

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BRIDE Cassandra Morris, 33, a voice actor GROOM Steve Ruchelman, 36, a music producer HOW THEY MET Backstage at a concert venue in Boston where Steve was performing WEDDING STYLE Cassandra and Steve’s unique venue played a key role in creating a whimsical Gatsbyesque vibe for their charming winter wedding. —AV

“It almost felt like getting married in an art museum,” Cassandra says of TPC Jasna Polana. “Since we got married in February, the venue had to be impressive on the inside. It was the perfect setting for a winter wedding.”

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Vintage clocks appeared on reception tables to symbolize that this was one of the greatest moments in the couple’s lives.

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An oversize organic tapestry gave the ceremony room a cool, natural feel. “Our floral designer added tons of greenery in front of it, so it made the tapestry look like it was coming to life,” Cassandra says. A white runner led her down the aisle to Steve, and an antique wood desk served as a backdrop for their vows.

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The couple topped their naked red velvet cake with bride and groom PEZ dispensers.

CASSANDRA & STEVE’S WEDDING INGREDIENTS Baskets of fresh fruit on beds of winter greens were the focal point of the tablescapes. “We didn’t want anything to be too over the top, so we really balanced the sparkly fabulousness of my dress and the abundance of food and drinks with natural centerpieces and the timeless venue,” Cassandra says.

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Because peonies, Sadaf’s favorite flower, aren’t available in August, the couple substituted the fluffy bloom with garden roses in ivory and blush for the bridal bouquet.

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“I wanted to create an environment for the guests where they felt transported somewhere completely outside of the city,” Sadaf said of the ceremony.

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THEIR STORY BRIDE Sadaf Ali, 31, a municipal credit analyst GROOM Timothy James (TJ) Morbelli, 33, a corporate credit trader HOW THEY MET At work WEDDING STYLE Timeless mauve, gray, cream and gold hues brought Sadaf and TJ’s rustic-glam nuptials to life. —AV

The ceremony was held under a draped pergola, flanked by soaring sprays of branches and clusters of white flowers. “Since this was the first time most of my Pakistani family and friends were going to attend a ceremony in this manner, I wanted to make sure it was going to be an experience for them,” Sadaf says.

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Sadaf’s mother and younger sister picked out her wedding dress on a trip to Pakistan. Working with her criteria of a one-piece gown in mauve or dusty rose and detail work in both gold and silver, the two had a dress handmade. Due to the gown’s intricate beading, the final creation weighed 15 pounds.

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After weeks of searching for the perfect design and coming up blank, Sadaf created their floral invitation suite herself.

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The four-tier wedding cake, which housed classic red velvet as well as vanilla with Nutella frosting, was covered with buttercream ruffles and finished with a cascade of fresh pink roses and ivy. The escort cards were displayed in metal branch frames, which also served as favors.

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Reiss; groomsmen: Zara

STATIONERY

Design: DIY; printing: Envelopments.com; paper: PaperPresentation.com Towers of Flowers

RENTALS

CATERING La

Bonbonniere Bake Shoppe; Shezan Banquet Hall

CAKE & DESSERTS

ChocaL8kiss

MUSIC Ceremony:

Sweet Harmony; reception: DJ Chad/ Global Desi DJs

ACCOMMODATIONS

The Heldrich; Hyatt Regency New Brunswick REGISTRIES Bed Bath & Beyond;

Pottery Barn

HONEYMOON Cape

Town; Seychelles Islands; South Africa GUESTS 220 BUDGET $$$ (see key, p. 10)

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Savor Your Every Moment With Us

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The ceremony, with the Manhattan skyline as a backdrop, featured a standout Turkish rug down the aisle.

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BRIDE Lauren Walker, 33, director of content distribution and marketing at Scripps Networks Interactive GROOM Daniel (Dan) Baynes, 30, electrical engineer at Bloom Energy HOW THEY MET Skiing in Vermont WEDDING STYLE With shades of green and geometric shapes, Lauren and Dan created a modern bohemian look that was both natural and nautical for their day. —AV

Lauren’s inspiration for the centerpiece designs came from images of florals in concrete vases she found on Pinterest. The vases were filled with white peonies, olive branches and other greenery. From there, she sought out gold geometric holders for small votive candles, and terrariums completed the look.

The custom invitations— complete with a map of Jersey City—were letterpressed on thick beveled stock.

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Lauren and her bridesmaids carried loose arrangements of olive branches and peonies. The stems were kept long to add to the wild look.

“Even though we were getting married in a metropolitan area surrounded by lots of buildings, it was important to me that it felt organic, with lots of greenery and sunlight,” Lauren says of the décor. Live music, Italian dishes, cookies and ice cream, as well as late night truffle fries, added to the celebration.

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AMAZING ELEGANCE Gorgeous Ballroom • Crystal Chandeliers High Ceilings • Beautiful Gardens Ceremony • Personalized Service

D. BECKER PHOTO

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LAUREN & DAN’S WEDDING INGREDIENTS CEREMONY & RECEPTION SITE

Battello, Jersey City

PHOTOGRAPHY

Kelly Kollar Photography EVJ Wedding Co. Floral & Event Design Leak (friend)

OFFICIANT Bennett

GOWN Watters, Designer

Loft, New York City SHOES Zara

CONSULTANTS FLOWERS Karma

VEIL Designer Loft

ENGAGEMENT & WEDDING

RINGS Mavito Fine Jewelry EARRINGS Dana

Rebecca Designs

HAIR Erin Taylor Hair

MAKEUP Lucas Bowman DRESSES Show Me Your MuMu

J.Crew

BRIDESMAID MENSWEAR

STATIONERY Invitations: Swell

Press Paper; escort cards: Minted.com RENTALS &

Levain Bakery

CATERING Battello

CAKE

MUSIC Musicians Services;

DJ: Adam Subtract’em

ACCOMMODATIONS

The Westin Jersey City Newport

REGISTRIES

Crate & Barrel; West Elm; Williams-Sonoma HONEYMOON Absolute Travel GUESTS 183

Lauren wore a fitted, ivory lace gown with a sheer neckline and open back. “This dress felt like I was wearing pajamas,” she said. “I could definitely get low in it—and I did!”

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50 years of bringing families together

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August 29 • Chesterfield

simone &

john

“We both fell in love with The Inn at Fernbrook Farms instantly,” Simone says. “It had exactly the look and feel we were after: romantic, rustic, natural and not too frivolous.”

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THEIR STORY BRIDE Simone Cheng, 28, a clinical psychology doctoral student GROOM John Soat, 28, a graphic designer HOW THEY MET Through a mutual friend WEDDING STYLE The couple’s eclectic celebration combined subtle nods to their Chinese and European backgrounds with their rustic farm setting for a sweet day that was all their own. —AV

The ceremony, which was officiated by a Buddhist monk and included a guided meditation, was held in a clearing between towering trees. The altar included a Buddha, Jesus and small framed photographs of deceased family members. A white mirror featuring an illustrated portrait of the couple hung from a tree near the ceremony site.

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SIMONE & JOHN’S WEDDING INGREDIENTS CEREMONY & RECEPTION SITE

The Inn at Fernbrook Farms, Chesterfield PHOTOGRAPHY Jesse Pafundi/Golden

Hour Studios

FLOWERS Janet Makrancy

Weddings & Parties Kenjitsu York City

OFFICIANT Toshikazu

GOWN Gemma Kahng, New HEADPIECE Janet Makrancy

Weddings & Parties Doyle & Doyle J.Crew

MENSWEAR Groom: The Kooples;

groomsmen: Topshop Letterpress Orchestra

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STATIONERY Sesame

CATERING &

at Fernbrook Farms A friend of the family designed Simone’s wedding dress, which featured lace, crochet flowers, beads and scalloped lace peeking over the neckline. Her bridesmaids wore knee-length mint-blue dresses, and her bridesman donned a charcoal-gray tux with a blue tie to match the women.

WEDDING RINGS

BRIDESMAID DRESSES

CAKE The Inn

MUSIC Central Park

REGISTRIES Crate & Barrel;

NewlyWish.com

HONEYMOON Thailand

GUESTS 115 BUDGET $$$ (see key, p. 10)

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BEN YING PHOTOGRAPHY

An Elegant Expe rie nce Fe w C ould Provide

EAGLE OAKS Golf & Country Club Weddings Bar/Bat Mitzvahs Golf Outings Charity & Corporate Events Private Parties

Glatt Kosher Catering Available 20 Shore Oaks Drive, Farmingdale, NJ | 732.938.9696

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May 15 • Berkeley Heights

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Joy’s bouquet was a feminine combo of blush peonies, Sahara roses, soft pink spray roses, and ivory and blush roses.

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Joy’s nieces were her flower girls. She assembled their flower crowns herself.

THEIR STORY

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BRIDE Joy Adaeze, 32, a fashion blogger and cofounder of Curl Sistas Hair GROOM Obi Okere, 32, cofounder of Curl Sistas Hair HOW THEY MET At Rutgers University WEDDING STYLE Joy and Obi were married in a grand, elegant affair tied together with soft purple and blush tones, regal metallics and odes to their Nigerian backgrounds. —AV

Swedish artist Oana Voitovici created a playful illustration of the couple for their invitations. “We loved working with Oana so much that we hired her to create our programs and menus,” Joy says. That personal touch added to the romantic aura of the day, from the ceremony in Obi’s childhood church to reception menu featuring some of the couple’s favorite dishes.

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JOY & OBI’S WEDDING INGREDIENTS CEREMONY SITE St. Paul’s Episcopal

During the reception, Joy and Obi changed into custom blue and gold Nigerian ensembles, and the DJ played Nigerian Aftobeats music all night. “It was a perfect touch for our reception,” Joy says.

Church, Jersey City RECEPTION SITE Berkeley Plaza, Berkeley Heights

PHOTOGRAPHY

Iris Mannings Photography Intellect Media

VIDEOGRAPHY

CONSULTANT Valencia

Wills/Exclusive Events

FLOWERS A Touch

of Elegance Floral & Event Design Rev. Thomas Murphy

Kleinfeld Bridal, New York City Blanca Veils, Etsy.com Mischka

OFFICIANT

GOWN Dennis Basso, VEIL

SHOES Badgley

ENGAGEMENT RING Moda

Diamonds

HAIR Danielle Wright Hair

Stylist MAKEUP Dre Brown

BRIDESMAID

DRESSES Jenny Yoo, Nordstrom

MENSWEAR

Groom: Nexus Esq; groomsmen: Men’s Wearhouse Market

STATIONERY The Fluffiness RENTALS LaSar Linens; Tanya

Melkumov

CATERING Berkeley Plaza

CAKE GoodieBox Bakeshop

MUSIC

Ceremony: Yukiko Tanaka; reception: DJ Topaz TRANSPORTATION

Service

Santos VIP Limo

ACCOMMODATIONS The Westin

Jersey City Newport

HONEYMOON Paris &

Rome GUESTS 155 BUDGET $$$ (see key, p. 10)

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September 3 • Moorestown

antonia &

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“We wanted a site that had a vintage and rustic feel to it, and one that let us put our own touch on our event,” Antonia says.

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The art deco invitations were influenced by Antonia’s dress.

THEIR STORY

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BRIDE Antonia Alfeo, 27, a psychologist GROOM Kyle Cobb, 29, an engineer HOW THEY MET On OkCupid.com WEDDING STYLE Antonia and Kyle decked out their rustic, vintage affair in rich burgundy hues and organic accents. —AV

The bride wore a vintageinspired, champagne gown with a crystal-embellished ivory tulle overlay and beaded cap sleeves. Instead of a veil, she wore a beaded floral headpiece. Kyle wore a tuxedo with a black vest and bow tie. He also wore a vintage watch that his best man inherited from his great-grandfather— “for good luck,” Kyle says.

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Each centerpiece was given its own personality thanks to an assortment of vintage vases. The flower design differed from table to table, with white and burgundy accent blooms and seeded eucalyptus remaining the focal point of each. “We wanted centerpieces that were natural and flowing,” Antonia says.

Moorestown Community House, Moorestown PHOTOGRAPHY Alison Hobelmann/Alison

Dunn Photography Florist

FLOWERS Michael Bruce

OFFICIANT Rev. Bryant Heisinger/

The Marriage Man

GOWN Maggie Sottero,

Bridal Garden, Marlton Amazon.com

HEADPIECE

SHOES Jessica Simpson

ENGAGEMENT RING A. Brandt + Son WEDDING RINGS Bride: Oro Spot, Etsy.com;

groom: Amazon.com EARRINGS Crystal Avenues, Etsy.com

HAIR &

Dollface by Monica Various

MAKEUP

BRIDESMAID DRESSES

MENSWEAR Men’s Wearhouse

STATIONERY Minted.com

RENTALS

Center Stage Entertainment; Sensational Host Caterers Inc.

CATERING

Host Caterers Inc.

CAKE Sweet T’s Bakeshop

MUSIC & PHOTO BOOTH

Entertainment

Sensational Center Stage

FAVORS Amazon.com

TRANSPORTATION Albert’s Transportation ACCOMMODATIONS DoubleTree Suites by

Hilton Mt. Laurel

REGISTRIES Amazon.com;

Macy’s GUESTS 165 BUDGET $$ (see key, p. 10)

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YOU set the date...WE create the dream!

Call today for an appointment. 201.939.9233 • Fax: 201.939.6118 • 122 Moonachie Ave., Moonachie, NJ 07074

www.TheGraycliff.com

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November 14 • Warren

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Shirley’s bouquet was a feminine arrangement of white roses and ranunculus with pale pink and green accents.

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THEIR STORY BRIDE Shirley Kim, 26, social media manager at Clarifai GROOM William (Will) Fong, 31, cofounder and CTO at Boxed.com HOW THEY MET At work WEDDING STYLE Soft pastels and a cheerful bunting motif tied Shirley and Will’s whimsical wedding together. —AV

Inspiration for the bunting motif came from the couple’s invitation suite, which featured a colorful banner design and two little lovebirds. “We wanted our wedding to reflect us,” Shirley says. “We’re classic, simple and pretty silly, so we made sure our wedding was the same.”

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SHIRLEY & WILL

Guests sat at a single long table for the family-style dinner. The couple created the white, silver and gray banner that hung overhead. Candles and small arrangements of white and pink florals lined the table. “We wanted everyone to dine at the same place and feel a sense of connection and unity,” Shirley says.

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“Our piggy bank favors were a real hit!” Shirley says. “Our friends all have them somewhere in their houses filled with coins.”

SHIRLEY & WILL’S WEDDING INGREDIENTS CEREMONY & RECEPTION SITE

Stone House at Stirling Ridge, Warren

PHOTOGRAPHY

Claire Photography Florist

FLOWERS

Cassi Linda’s

OFFICIANT Rev. Aaron Chung

GOWN Hayley Paige, Jaehee Bridal

Atelier, Englewood Zara

HEADPIECE

SHOES BCBG Max Azria

ENGAGEMENT & WEDDING RINGS

Sun Chung Jung Kim

HAIR &

MAKEUP Eun

MENSWEAR Black Lapel

STATIONERY Minted.com BOARD Amazon.com

SIGN-IN

RENTALS &

CATERING Stone House at Stirling Ridge CAKE

Bakery

Palermo’s Custom Cakes & MUSIC Zenrgy Productions

FAVORS 4imprint

HONEYMOON Hawaii

GUESTS 85 BUDGET $$ (see key, p. 10)

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Emily carried a colorful array of sunflowers, dahlias, poppies, wheat, Queen Anne’s lace, cornflowers, astilbe, orange gomphrena, and white tansy.

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Emily customized her strapless, A-line gown by adding cap sleeves.

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THEIR STORY BRIDE Emily Robinson, 27, an elementary school teacher GROOM Jason Meland, 27, a foreign language curriculum coordinator at a charter school HOW THEY MET Through a mutual friend WEDDING STYLE The couple evoked a welcoming feeling with bright, colorful hues and seasonal wildflowers. —AV

Emily wore the same veil and single pearl necklace her mother wore for her wedding 35 years earlier. “It was so meaningful to me to get to wear pieces of my family’s history on my wedding day,” she says.

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Emily allowed her nine bridesmaids to choose their own dress style in the same yellow hue. “We really wanted our wedding to be filled with bright, happy colors inspired by wildflowers,” she says of her decision to dress her attendants in the sunny shade. “Plus, it really made their wildflower bouquets pop!”

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CEREMONY SITE St. John’s Episcopal

Church, Somerville RECEPTION SITE The Ryland Inn, Whitehouse Station PHOTOGRAPHY Jeff and Erin Youngren/

The Youngrens Flowers

FLOWERS

Twisted Willow

OFFICIANT Rev. Ron Pollock

GOWN Pronovias, New York City

Betsey Johnson

SHOES

ENGAGEMENT RING 77

Diamonds WEDDING RINGS Leo Carroll Jewelers

HAIR HARU Salon and Spa

MAKEUP ORÉ Makeup Design

BRIDESMAID

DRESSES Union Station, New York City MENSWEAR Jos. A. Bank

Robinson Press Design Group CAKE

Bakery

STATIONERY

SIGN-IN BOOK Anderson CATERING The Ryland Inn

Palermo’s Custom Cakes & MUSIC Ceremony: Carolina

Toth; Janet Stone; Joe Meland; John Plesniarski; reception: Silver Arrow Band FAVORS Janet Marie Felted Goods, Etsy.com TRANSPORTATION D&G Limousine ACCOMMODATIONS Bridgewater Marriott REGISTRIES Anthropologie; Crate & Barrel;

Pottery Barn; Williams-Sonoma

HONEYMOON

Mauritius and Réunion Islands GUESTS 150 BUDGET $$$ (see key, p. 10)

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Acres and acres of

Dreams

Surrounded in beauty and nestled on 258 private acres in Somerset Hills, the Basking Ridge Country Club is the perfect place to create everlasting moments and cherished memories. Our sophisticated atmosphere and sweeping views make a breathtaking setting for any ceremony or wedding reception. With fireplaces in every room, discover our commitment all season long. With your vision in mind, we will make your dreams a reality. 185 MADISONVILLE ROAD, BASKING RIDGE, NJ 07920 • 908-953-8092 • BASKINGRIDGECATERING.COM Under Delicious Heights management

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June 7 • Bedminster

mollie &

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THEIR STORY BRIDE Mollie Stern, 27, a graphic designer GROOM Garrett Kasica, 27, a sales manager HOW THEY MET In college WEDDING STYLE Mollie’s love for tea inspired a vintage garden tea party theme for the couple’s romantic day. —AV

Garrett and his father built the linen-draped birch chuppah for the ceremony, which Garrett’s sister also used for her wedding. Dried lavender plants lined the aisle leading to the altar, while the wedding party looked on in grey, blush and cream outfits.

Mollie’s bouquet was a lush, oversize collection of textured greenery and fluffy pink peonies.

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Guests were gifted vintage handkerchiefs, sourced by Mollie, to use during the ceremony.

MOLLIE & GARRETT’S WEDDING INGREDIENTS To fit in with the day’s vibe, Mollie opted for an ivory lace dress with a silk slip layer. The neckline and deep V-back featured scallop lace. “It had a 1920s feel to it,” she says. Garrett wore a custom-designed gray suit with Mollie’s initials embroidered into the jacket.

CEREMONY & RECEPTION SITE Fiddler’s

Elbow Country Club, Bedminster PHOTOGRAPHY Christy Smethers/

Christy Nicole Photography

VIDEOGRAPHY

Live Picture Studios Floral & Event Design

FLOWERS Karma OFFICIANT New

Jersey Beautiful Weddings

GOWN Marisa

Bridals, Kleinfeld Bridal, New York City VEIL Kleinfeld Bridal

Trump

SHOES Ivanka

ENGAGEMENT & WEDDING

RINGS Bentley Diamond BRACELET Henri

Bendel

HAIR Rachel Pullen

Grace Moreno-Vasquez DRESSES Various

MAKEUP

BRIDESMAID

MENSWEAR My.Suit

STATIONERY Lavender & Love Creative RENTALS Trunk Vintage Rentals &

CATERING

CAKE Fiddler’s Elbow Country Club DESSERTS Asalt & Buttery

MUSIC

Ceremony: Jaclyn Duncan Music; reception: Touch of Class

REGISTRIES Anthropologie;

Bed Bath & Beyond; Crate & Barrel HONEYMOON Iceland GUESTS 130 BUDGET $$$ (see key, p. 10)

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The Riverside Pavilion A romantic ballroom where you will experience impeccable standards while dining and dancing in timeless elegance‌ Our service, ambiance and cuisine are exceptional! Our experienced wedding professionals will handle every detail of your special day, from rehearsal dinner, ceremony, and wedding reception to deluxe overnight accommodations and the postwedding brunch. We welcome you to enjoy our beautiful hotel and premier wedding venue!

2349 West Marlton Pike | Cherry Hill, New Jersey 856.382.6120 | www.cherryhillweddings.com

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September 12 • Old Bridge

kristine

During the nuptials, the couple included the traditional Filipino veil and cord ceremony.

&

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photography by Off BEET Productions at Grand Marquis

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It took Kristine months to find the perfect pair of shoes. Ultimately she fell in love with studded nude Valentinos.

KRISTINE & CARLO’S WEDDING INGREDIENTS CEREMONY & RECEPTION SITE Grand

Marquis, Old Bridge

THEIR STORY

The couple decorated their garden-themed reception with twinkling votives and a mix of high and low centerpieces. The lush floral arrangements included ranunculus, stock, dahlias and garden roses in shades of white and blush, along with accents of seeded eucalyptus and hanging amaranth. “I wanted to create an unforgettable environment for not only us, but for our guests,” Kristine says.

VIDEOGRAPHY Off BEET Productions

Laurelwood Designs

FLOWERS

OFFICIANT Rev. Jarret Johnson

GOWN

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BRIDE Kristine Ibanez, 26, works in digital marketing and e-commerce GROOM Carlo Dimagmaliw, 28, a CPA HOW THEY MET In junior high school WEDDING STYLE Kristine and Carlo wanted their ballroom wedding to evoke the enchanted romance of A Midsummer Night’s Dream. —AV

PHOTOGRAPHY

Off BEET Productions

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Kate Testa/

Kelly Faetanini, The Wedding Suite, Nordstrom VEIL Nina, The Wedding Suite, Nordstrom SHOES Valentino

ENGAGEMENT RING

Diamond Dream Jewelry & Apparel WEDDING RINGS Venus Jewelers JEWELRY Nadri HAIR &

MAKEUP Beauty by Mary G

BRIDESMAID DRESSES David’s Bridal MENSWEAR Men’s Wearhouse STATIONERY Invitations: Favor-It;

programs: Linda Dang, Etsy.com; escort cards: Minted; menu cards: Vistaprint SIGN-IN BOOK Hobby Lobby &

CATERING Grand Marquis

RENTALS CAKE

Palermo’s Custom Cakes & Bakery MUSIC & PHOTO BOOTH SoundSurge

Entertainment

FAVORS Chocolate Carousel

TRANSPORTATION

Limousine

Santos VIP

ACCOMMODATIONS Renaissance

Woodbridge Hotel

REGISTRY Wanderable.com

HONEYMOON LUX* South Ari Atoll, Maldives GUESTS 200 BUDGET $$$$ (see key, p. 10)

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nubia &

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Nubia wore an ivory lace sheath dress with a sheer back and a classic Queen Anne neckline.

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THEIR STORY BRIDE Nubia Ducasse, 30, a forensic scientist GROOM Dan Hvidding, 33, a consultant HOW THEY MET Online WEDDING STYLE Nubia and Dan decorated their rustic antique store venue with navy, blush and gold. —AV

“One of our favorite activities to do together is antiquing,” Nubia says. “To get married surrounded by so many beautiful antiques and in such a rustic setting was a dream come true.” They even topped the cake with a piece of wood Nubia found in a park—they cut it into a disc and burned their initials in it.

Mason jar escort cards doubled as favors—and beverage glasses throughout the night.

CEREMONY & RECEPTION SITE

Jack’s Barn, Oxford

PHOTOGRAPHY

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NUBIA & DAN’S WEDDING INGREDIENTS

VIDEOGRAPHY Danfredo Photos +

Films

CONSULTANT Frungillo Caterers

FLOWERS DIY/Blooms by the Box;

Costco

OFFICIANT Kimberly Powers

GOWN Sincerity Bridal,

Bridal, New York City

RK

ENGAGEMENT

RING Michael Gabriels, Etsy.com WEDDING RINGS Jyakiyoshi, Etsy.com HAIR &

MAKEUP Salon Chloe

BRIDESMAID DRESSES David’s Bridal MENSWEAR Groom: Justin’s Menswear,

Jersey City

STATIONERY DIY

BOOK Jenga CATERING &

Caterers

CAKE

Frungillo

MUSIC Colorblind Productions

FAVORS DIY &

SIGN-IN

RENTALS Jack’s Barn

TRANSPORTATION

ACCOMMODATIONS Courtyard

Lebanon

REGISTRY HoneyFund.com

HONEYMOON Thailand GUESTS 120 BUDGET $$ (see key, p. 10)

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September 6 • Jersey City

jen &

Jen’s dress included a crumb-catcher neckline and full tulle skirt.

dan engaged: 15 months

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The four-tier vanilla cake, with chocolate filling and vanilla buttercream icing, featured Swiss dots, satin ribbons and fresh white roses.

JEN & DAN’S WEDDING INGREDIENTS CEREMONY & RECEPTION SITE

Maritime Parc

PHOTOGRAPHY Matthew

Fred Lee Films

THEIR STORY

VIDEOGRAPHY

FLOWERS Bride & Blossom

OFFICIANT Rabbi David Berkman

GOWN

Eve of Milady, Kleinfeld Bridal, New York City

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VEIL Kleinfeld Bridal HEADPIECE

Thomas Knoell Designs, Kleinfeld Bridal SHOES Badgley Mischka

ENGAGEMENT

& WEDDING RINGS Sackowitz Jewelers HAIR Styles on B Hair

MAKEUP

Stacie Ford Weddings Makeup Artistry BRIDESMAID DRESSES Various

MENSWEAR

Groom: Alton Lane, New York City; “I have a slight obsession with black-and-white stripes and polka dots, so we incorporated them in unexpected ways, from the invitations and programs to my bouquet and Dan’s socks,” Jen says. The couple wed beneath a chuppah decorated with manzanita and olive branches, cream hydrangeas, white Tibet roses, cream vendela roses and eucalyptus to add an organic element to the otherwise preppy décor.

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STATIONERY

Invitations: Paper Source; escort cards: Soiree Custom Paper Co., Etsy.com Linen

CATERING &

RENTALS BBJ

CAKE Maritime Parc

MUSIC Ceremony: The Velveteen Ensemble;

reception: Jason Craig Band PHOTO BOOTH Inside Out Limo

TRANSPORTATION My

ACCOMMODATIONS Hyatt Regency

Jersey City on the Hudson

REGISTRIES

Bloomingdale’s; Crate & Barrel; Sur La Table HONEYMOON Italy & Paris GUESTS 210 BUDGET $$$$$ (see key, p. 10)

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The envelopes for the letterpress invitation suite featured custom floral watercolor liners and were addressed with matching calligraphy. “The custom envelope liners were really my inspiration for the whole day,” Ali says of the blush and berry hues that were included in the design.

Each bridesmaid wore a different blush dress. “They all looked beautiful together,” Ali says.

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COASTAL CHIC WEDDING DESTINATION Intimate and unique bayside settings with the simple elegance of a coastal chic design, The Reeds is the most desirable seaside wedding destination at the southern New Jersey shore.

2017

STONE HARBOR’S ONLY LUXURY BOUTIQUE HOTEL & BAYFRONT WEDDING DESTINATION

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PHOTOGRAPHY

Jessa Schifilliti/Love & Light Photographs Hand-painted elements were used throughout the day, including the custom illustration of the ceremony chapel on the menu cards. “Have the day reflect you, have fun and when the day finally comes, enjoy every single moment because it’s over in a blink of an eye,” Ali says.

VIDEOGRAPHY Willow Tree Films FLOWERS Katydid Floral Design & Signature

Events

OFFICIANT Robert Corcoran (family

friend)

GOWN Anne Barge, Elizabeth Johns,

Morristown

VEIL Elizabeth Johns

Loeffler Randall

SHOES

ENGAGEMENT & WEDDING

RINGS George Press Jewelers EARRINGS

BHLDN

HAIR Bridesmaids: Unveiled by Anna

MAKEUP

Make Me Up Eva

DRESSES Various

BRIDESMAID

MENSWEAR Groom: Hugo

Boss; groomsmen: Bonobos

STATIONERY

Invitations: Smock, Ink.Papery; programs: Minted.com; calligraphy: Mary Kate Moon RENTALS Ocean Tents

Makers Caterers

CAKE

CATERING Merri-

The Bake Works

MUSIC Band: Russ Bennett Band/Hank Lane

Music; DJ: Alex Karu

TRANSPORTATION

Mike’s Affordable Shuttle Bus ACCOMMODATIONS Bonnet Island

Estate; Daddy O Hotel Restaurant; Holiday Inn Manahawkin/Long Beach Island

REGISTRIES

Pottery Barn; Restoration Hardware; Williams-Sonoma

HONEYMOON Hawaii

GUESTS 160 BUDGET $$$$$ (see key, p. 10)

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INTRODUCING SEA ISLE CITY’S NEWEST WEDDING VENUE...

Sea You Down the Isle!

COPYRIGHT © TAM

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8600 LANDIS AVENUE, SEA ISLE CITY, NJ | (609) 263-3627 | EVENTS@BREAKWATERSSEAISLE.COM

BREAKWATERSSEAISLE.COM

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Victorian splendor at the Beachfront Ballroom.

ENCHANTED CELEBRATIONS

LAUREN SCHWARZ PHOTOGRAPHY

HOFFER PHOTOGRAPHY

CAPE MAY CONVENTION HALL Located steps away from the waves of the Atlantic Ocean, the Cape May Beachfront Ballroom combines the best qualities of indoor and outdoor events in a state-of-the-art venue. We customize weddings, rehearsal dinners and brunches on a year-round basis to meet your desires and budget. Our staff takes great pride in delivering exceptional service. We will work with you to ensure that your wedding is unique, memorable, and fun. Enjoy unlimited flexibility in choosing your own vendors, including caterers, musicians, and wedding coordinators.

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HOFFER PHOTOGRAPHY

To schedule a private tour call 609-884-9565 to speak with our Event Sales Specialist.

714 Beach Avenue, Cape May, NJ | pdevlin@capemaycity.com | DiscoverCapeMayNJ.com

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THEIR STORY BRIDE Luciana (Luci) DiMaggio, 25, a crisis recovery advisor GROOM Nolan Doyle, 29, a family service specialist HOW THEY MET On the swim team at Fairleigh Dickinson University WEDDING STYLE The college sweethearts tied the knot in a farm wedding full of vintage touches. —AV

During her dress search, Luci took to the internet to find a wedding gown designer who fit the laid-back aesthetic of their wedding. She purchased an ivory dress with intricate beading from an Australian designer, and local tailor Rosann Tailoring provided alterations.

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The bridesmaids and groomsmen wore vintage-inspired outfits to coordinate with the antique-filled venue. Vintage photographs from family members’ weddings were displayed at the reception, while the treasures of Luci and her mother’s antiquing, like the ring pillow, filled the day’s decor.

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WALK ON WATER Unique reception and ceremony space suspended over the Atlantic Ocean

EV E N TS

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C ATER I NG 2017

1 Atlantic Ocean, 4th Level, The Playground, Atlantic City, NJ 609-343-9902

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High ceilings and exposed rafters added to the rustic feel of the reception. String lights and garlands provided romance and whimsy.

The couple served a lemon-flavored naked cake topped with freshly cut lavender from Luci’s mother’s garden. “It was important for everything about the day to be unfussy, which included my hair and makeup,” she says. She opted for natural makeup and wore her brown locks in a half-up style with two braids.

LUCI & NOLAN’S WEDDING INGREDIENTS CEREMONY SITE St. Andrew’s by-

the-Sea, Allenhurst RECEPTION SITE The Water Witch Club, Highlands PHOTOGRAPHY Robert and Elisabeth

McKay/McKay Imaging Photography FLOWERS Katydid Floral Design &

Signature Events Steven Wisner

OFFICIANT Rev.

GOWN Bo & Luca; tailor:

Rosann Tailoring, Allenhurst Hoffman

SHOES Gucci

VEIL Mara ENGAGEMENT

RING Joel McFadden Designs WEDDING RINGS Bride: David Yurman; groom: Butter

Lane Antiques

HAIR Kiki’s Nail Boutique

BRIDESMAID DRESSES Various MENSWEAR Groom: Brooks Brothers;

groomsmen: Men’s Wearhouse; ties: Original Penguin Invites

STATIONERY BP

RENTALS Party Rentals Ltd.

CATERING Merri-Makers Caterers CAKE

Bakery Entertainment

Palermo’s Custom Cakes & MUSIC Mission Dance REGISTRIES Anthropologie;

Bed Bath & Beyond; Restoration Hardware HONEYMOON Majorca, Spain GUESTS 130 BUDGET $$$ (see key, p. 10)

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W E D D I N G S at the L I G H T H O U S E

Daymark is just steps away from the Barnegat Lighthouse in Long Beach Island. Have your ceremony at one of the most visited attractions in Barnegat Light, and walk to Daymark for your reception. We feature fresh, local seafood; farms; and creative cocktails with endless views of the Barnegat Bay.

DAYM A R K L B I . CO M BARNEGAT LIGHT, NJ • 609.494.2100

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Lindsay’s flowy gown featured lace sleeves, a deep V-cut back and intricate beadwork. She paired it with a Juliet cap and cathedral-length veil for the ceremony.

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BRIDE Lindsay Messina, 29, a senior research analyst at the NYC Department of Education GROOM Blake Abbot, 33, a physical education teacher at Middletown Public Schools HOW THEY MET When Lindsay began taking tennis lessons from Blake’s father WEDDING STYLE The couple took an understated approach to gilded-age glam that Lindsay describes as “The Great Gatsby meets shabby chic.” —AV

After a traditional ceremony at the same church where Blake’s parents wed, the couple and their guests headed to their riverside venue for a whimsical cocktail hour with suspended florals, summer-inspired eats and a local musician. “I love the wedding cocktail hour and consider it a highlight of the day, so we decided to extend it a bit,” Lindsay says. For the reception, a live band kept guests on their feet with Motown and classic rock hits.

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Presbyterian Church, Red Bank RECEPTION SITE Riverhouse at Rumson Country Club, Rumson PHOTOGRAPHY Robert and Kathleen

Trenske/Robert & Kathleen Photographers VIDEOGRAPHY Robert & Kathleen

Photographers

DAY-OF COORDINATOR

Backyard Bride Consulting

FLOWERS

Katydid Floral Design and Signature Events OFFICIANT Pastor Theresa Swenson GOWN Rosa Clará, Lovely Bride, New York

City

VEIL Untamed Petals, Lovely Bride

HEADPIECE Erica Koesler, Lovely Bride

Badgley Mischka

SHOES

ENGAGEMENT RING

Bentley Diamond WEDDING RINGS Spring Lake Jewelers

HAIR Denee Lockhart

MAKEUP Miranda Richards Makeup Artistry BRIDESMAID DRESSES Various

TheBlackTux.com

MENSWEAR

STATIONERY Invitations,

programs & menu cards: Invitations Ink; escort cards: Mary Kate Moon

RENTALS Katydid

Floral Design and Signature Events Rumson Country Club Boulangerie Rustic tree branches wrapped in string lights and greens hung from the ceiling, while garland-topped wood farm tables filled the reception. After dinner, the newlyweds cut into a tiered buttercream cake with cascading sugar flowers. “I had a vision for what I wanted, and the bakery absolutely delivered,” Lindsay says.

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CATERING

CAKE Antoinette

MUSIC Cocktail hour: Carl

Gentry; Billy Stone Band/Hank Lane Music GUESTS 210 BUDGET $$$$$ (see key, p. 10)

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BLISS ON THE BOARDWALK THE MOST IMPORTANT DAY OF YOUR LIFE DESERVES A SETTING JUST AS SPECIAL

Call 609.340.6826 or email emcaviney@resortsac.com to book your visit. Ask about our Special Sunday Afternoon Wedding Packages RESORTSAC.COM | 1133 BOARDWALK, ATLANTIC CITY, NJ 08401 | 1-800-772-9000

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Your Elegant Seaside Celebration Destination Just steps from the Beach in Ocean City, The Flanders Hotel is one of New Jersey’s most luxurious seaside destinations. The ornate sophistication of our ballrooms is reminiscent of early 1900s grandeur, with all the modern amenities of the present. Our award winning chef, certified wedding coordinator and expertly trained staff are dedicated to creating the wedding of your dreams.

2017

SEAN MARSHALL LIN

Beach Ceremonies - Elegant Ballrooms - Intimate Garden Rooms The Boardwalk & 11th Street, Ocean City, NJ | 609.399.1000 | www.theflandershotel.com | www.facebook.com/theflandershotel

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Both Jesse (left) and Nicole wore elegant, strapless gowns for their waterfront wedding on Long Beach Island.

June 26 • Beach Haven

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THEIR STORY BRIDE Jesse Leonard, 38, a prospect researcher BRIDE Nicole Belkin, 33, an orthopedic surgeon HOW THEY MET At a karaoke bar in Manhattan WEDDING STYLE Since both women love the beach, the couple celebrated with a relaxed affair and a weekend of activities at a beach house down the shore. —AV

Making a nine-bedroom house the home base for the week, the couple wed on the property under a flower-adorned gazebo before walking with their guests to the clapboard bed-and-breakfast, where they danced to a mix of pop and country. “We wanted to bring together the most important people in our lives,” Jesse says. “The house made it easy to entertain, then spend the week at the beach.”

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Avenue Weddings Engagement Parties Bridal Showers Rehearsal Dinners

For a unique setting, superb cuisine and extraordinary service, Avenue is the ideal beachfront location for any special occasion.

23 Ocean Avenue, Long Branch, NJ 07740

732.759.2900

www.leclubavenue.com

events@leclubavenue.com

#avenueleclubevents

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JESSE & NICOLE’S WEDDING INGREDIENTS CEREMONY SITE 101 Centre, Beach

Haven RECEPTION SITE The Gables, Beach Haven

PHOTOGRAPHY Cathie

Berrey Green/BG Productions Photography & Videography Tallent & Co. Whitcraft

FLOWERS Michele

OFFICIANT Deborah C. GOWNS Jesse: eBay.com;

Nicole: David’s Bridal

VEIL eBay.com

SHOES Amazon.com; Zappos.com HAIR Gabrielle Bassetti

Danielle Dinote David’s Bridal

MAKEUP

BRIDESMAID DRESSES MENSWEAR Menguin.com

STATIONERY Invitations: Zazzle.com;

programs: Smit & Zig

RENTALS Ocean

Tents & Party Rentals

CATERING Blue

Collar Catering; Boulevard Clams; The Gables

CAKE The Gables

MUSIC

DJ’s Available Sound and Light FAVORS eBay.com; FancyThatLoved,

Etsy.com; Quality Logo Products; SunglassVille

ACCOMMODATIONS

101 Centre; The Gables

REGISTRY

Honeyfund.com GUESTS 125 BUDGET $$$$ (see key, p. 10)

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Exquisite Waterfront Properties Impeccable Service Remarkable Food

Extraordinary Views J.P. BARRY HOSPITALITY INC.

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THE BERKELEY OCEANFRONT HOTEL The Berkeley Oceanfront Hotel boasts 238 guest rooms and five unique and luxurious ballrooms that can be perfectly tailored to accommodate any special event or wedding. Whether you are planning an ornate plated dinner for 300 or an intimate outdoor cocktail celebration for close friends, we can do it all.

732-776-6700 | 1401 Ocean Avenue, Asbury Park, NJ 07712 | BerkeleyHotelNJ.com

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“At the very last minute I asked my florist to create a floral comb made with the same flowers in my bouquet to wear with my blusher,” Tarrah says of adding a pop of color to her look. Since the ceremony backdrop included water views, the couple kept the décor simple with a birch arch accented with florals and greenery.

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The Mill at Spring Lake Heights

Your romantic lakeside wedding…a tranquil and unique setting providing the ultimate in exceptional food and service to celebrate your perfect wedding day at the Jersey Shore!

Call us at 732-449-1800 to arrange a personal tour or visit www.TheMillNJ.com. 101 Old Mill Road • Spring Lake Heights, NJ 07762 • 732-449-1800

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OFFICIANT Rev. Robert Steenrod

GOWN

Allure Romance, Paisley Bridal, Middle Village, NY

VEIL Symphony Bridal, Paisley Bridal SHOES Something Bleu, BHLDN ENGAGEMENT & WEDDING RINGS

Greenwich St. Jewelers JEWELRY Earrings: J.Crew; bracelet: Avigail Adam

HAIR &

Taffeta Hair & Makeup Design

MAKEUP BRIDESMAID

DRESSES Dessy Collection, Lotus Bridal, Brooklyn,

NY

MENSWEAR Joseph Abboud, Men’s

Wearhouse

STATIONERY Invitations &

menu cards: Smitten on Paper; programs & escort cards: Petal & Paper CATERING Congress Hall

The Bake Works

MUSIC

RENTALS & CAKE

Center Stage

Entertainment PHOTO BOOTH The Good Vibes Booth

Guests moved inside to the romantic ballroom for shore-inspired eats, whiskey cocktails and plenty of dancing. Tarrah and John took their first spin on the dance floor to Otis Redding’s “That’s How Strong My Love Is.” “The lyrics represent our relationship in the best way,” the bride says.

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FAVORS The Original Fudge

Kitchen

ACCOMMODATIONS Cape

Resorts

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la Messardière, Saint-Tropez, France GUESTS 117 BUDGET $$$ (see key, p. 10)

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Creating a lifetime of memories, one celebration at a time. OUR UN IQ U E WE D D IN G LO CATIO N S :

Berkeley Oceanfront Hotel • The Renaissance • Watermark • Sandy Hook Chapel • Waterwitch at Monmouth Hills • Elegant Tented Affairs

Falco’s Catering Will Help You Create A Look You’ll Love At Any Location! 732.660.9000

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Jersey Shore pros share some of the things you need to know when saying “I do” on the Garden State coastline. BY CLAIRE AVEN

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When you think about the Jersey Shore, do you picture your toes in the sand, ice-cream-fueled strolls along a boardwalk and charming beach towns made for lazy summer days? If so, you’re not alone. Couples from New Jersey and beyond continue to fall in love with this scenic seaside region for weddings all year-long, and it’s easy to see why. Whether you’re dreaming of marrying in a breezy beach celebration or a ballroom setting, take a look at our insider’s guide for all things you’ll need to pull off the ultimate Shore wedding. >>

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set the scene Stretching from Sandy Hook down to Cape May, the Jersey Shore encompasses about 130 miles of pristine coastline that offers a diverse landscape beloved by both locals and out-of-towners. “The Jersey Shore is best known for its miles and miles of sandy beaches and waterfront,” says Paige VanGombos of Red Bank’s Gilded Lily Events (GildedLilyEvents.com). “But just as beautiful as its beaches are the area’s quaint neighborhoods, picturesque downtowns and untouched forests and hillsides.” If you have your heart set on a seaside soiree, you’ll be able to find a beachfront backdrop that’s representative of your personalities. “Each beach is incredibly unique, so couples can wed in an area that best fits their style,” says Kelly Heyn, owner of SociaLife (SocialLifeNJ.com). “If you want a trendy beach with lots of nightlife, we recommend the historic Asbury Park or Pier Village in Long Branch. If you’re looking to host your wedding in a more quaint and intimate environment, try Spring Lake, Long Beach Island or Cape May. With the wide variety, it’s easy to find a favorite.”

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For a LOVE as Deep as the Ocean...

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Luxury Accommodations Sweeping Ocean Views ~ Fine Cuisine WEDDINGS | BANQUETS | REHEARSAL DINNERS | BRIDAL SHOWERS 1507 OCEAN AVENUE, SPRING LAKE, NJ | 732-449-7700 | BREAKERSHOTEL.COM

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“Since you're getting married at the Jersey Shore, you may be dreaming of a toes-in-the-sand ceremony,” VanGombos says . “But look into the requirements and permits before you have your heart set. Luckily there are many wedding venues on the Jersey Shore with beach ceremony locations on

According to Jennifer Simon and Laura Lark Mignano, both of Pretty Little Details (PLDEvents.com), “peak season at the Jersey Shore is April or May through October. Summers offer warm days with extended daylight, while early fall has beautiful foliage and is still warm enough to host outdoor weddings.” Kristin Polhemus, owner of Reveriemade (Reveriemade.com), adds that right after Labor Day is a great time to get married in the region. “The sun is still shining, the breeze is still warm, but a lot of the tourists have gone home," she says. "It’s what we call ‘locals summer’ and it’s such a great time to take advantage of the Shore without all the crowds.” Like all northeastern states, New Jersey weather can be unpredictable, so no matter when you choose to say “I do,” be prepared for anything. “If any part of your wedding is supposed to be outside, work with your venue and planner to create a plan B in case of inclement weather,” Simon and Lark Mignano advise.

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you set a date, take into account what else is going on around your wedding weekend. “Since the Jersey Shore is a summer destination for many, you can expect larger crowds from Memorial Day through Labor Day,” Polhemus warns. Big Shore events to consider throughout the year include the Atlantic City Beer and Music Fest in the spring (ACBeerFest.com) and Point Pleasant’s Festival of the Sea in September (PointPleasantBeachFestivals.com). Local websites, like VisitNJ.org, and the chamber of commerce in the town where you’re getting married can be valuable tools to help you plan accordingly. “If you find out there’s a festival taking place on the day of your wedding, don’t worry,” Simon and Lark Mignano say. “Just notify your guests via your wedding website and take it into consideration when you’re organizing your transportation.”

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avoid it, add in extra travel time to your wedding day itinerary.” It’s also good to note that the area has a lot of bridges, many of which rise for passing boats, which brings traffic to a standstill and can end up causing major delays.

favor the local flavor The Jersey Shore is known for its many edible traditions, so why not treat your guests to a mouthwatering treat? “We have great seafood here, from Cape May day boat scallops to Jersey summer flounder,” Emens says. “We also have great wineries— offering local wines is another way to incorporate the abundance the Shore has to offer.” Jazz up your dessert table with classic boardwalk foods, like funnel cakes, fried Oreos and cotton candy. Consider popular Shore treats for your favors too, such as a beach bucket of gourmet popcorn from Johnson’s Popcorn in Ocean City (JohnsonsPopcorn.com) or saltwater taffy from the iconic Fralinger’s in Atlantic City (Fralingers.com). It’ll have your guests leaving on a sweet note. Find more Jersey Shore planning tips at TheKnot.com/newjersey

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VanGombos says. “Make sure you have enough room blocks and options in varying price points. Shore hotels will also have a twonight minimum during the high season, so you may have to suggest a hotel that’s slightly farther away and provide a shuttle to the wedding events in order to accommodate your guests who may only be staying for one night.” Also, send your save-the-dates out at least eight months in advance, so guests have plenty of time to get the best possible deals on their hotel rooms.

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Tying the knot in a field of flowers? Incorporate some flora into your wedding paper. (Bonus points for adding the blooms to your bouquet too.) A monochromatic palette lends subtle sophistication to this illustrated design while a portrait (aka the new monogram) gives it bespoke personalization. Matching inserts coordinate the whole suite. Frankie collection invitations and envelopes, $582 for 100, ColorMeCarla.com

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Sometimes trying to describe your favorite blooms to a florist is like trying to tell the car repair shop what sound your engine is making. Unless you’ve been around the block a few times, it’s hard to establish an extensive floral vocabulary. So we called on floral expert Jihyen Crowley of Gotham Florist for some help, and she shared the stems she’s asked about most often when it comes to wedding flowers. From anemones to garden roses and sweet pea, we’ve created a cheat sheet of perennial favorites, so you can brush up on the flower speak before meeting with your florist to choose your perfect petals. >>

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anemone This small bloom comes in a range of jewel-toned hues, but white may be the most popular color. It’s a shoo-in for formal black-and-white weddings because it’s one of the only flowers that naturally grows in that color scheme (white petals, black center). SEASON Spring SYMBOLIC MEANING Expectation, protection PAIR IT WITH Anemones look great next to their floral cousin ranunculus. Ranunculus have very compact, layered petals that complement the open shape of anemones.

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The pointy petals sported by this bloom are thanks to its roots in the protea family. We love the shape they add to an arrangement, and you can’t beat the name when it comes to your bouquet. SEASON Summer SYMBOLIC MEANING Courtship PAIR IT WITH Crowley recommends a big flowering bloom with lots of petals, like peonies, and florals with a smaller head, like ranunculus, to fill out the whole arrangement.

Dahlias come in all shapes, sizes and colors. They can grow up to 12 inches in diameter or be as small as a button mum. The petals can expand in a straight, spiky fashion or in a round, tube-like shape, and the colors range from pastels to jewel tones and monochromatic combinations. Basically, options. SEASON Summer SYMBOLIC MEANING Dignity, elegance PAIR IT WITH If your dahlias have large heads, they’ll likely take up more space in an arrangement allowing you to complement with greenery (think: dusty miller or seeded eucalyptus) and a few filler flowers. If you want to supplement with a similar-looking bloom, consider zinnias, which share the same architecture.

lisianthus The ruffled petals are similar to a rose, but the center of lisianthus is what separates it from the pack. The petals appear pulled away from the center, really exposing the pollen. It’s also a hardier flower, which makes it a great choice for warm-weather weddings. SEASON Year-round SYMBOLIC MEANING Flashy, showiness PAIR IT WITH Roses are a great choice since the two blooms look so alike, but for something more edgy and less sweet, include some lisianthus buds in the mix. Before the flowers bloom they have tall, slender buds that give texture to an arrangement. >>

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This sought-after hybrid (also know as a David Austin English rose) adds depth and fragrance to a bouquet. The petals are reminiscent of a peony while the shape maintains its traditional rose demeanor. SEASON Year-round SYMBOLIC MEANING This variety was bred too recently to have a symbolic meaning, but classic roses stand for love, joy and beauty. PAIR IT WITH These stems are universally loved. “They pair well with almost any flower,” Crowley says. “But we use them most often with anemones, tulips, dahlias and orchids.” >>

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lily of the valley Royal brides like Grace Kelly and Kate Middleton have helped make lily of the valley an iconic wedding flower. Its little bellshaped blooms are clustered close together on a vinelike stem, making it the perfect choice to offset big-headed flowers in large bouquets. But, out of season, these tiny buds can really cost you. SEASON Spring SYMBOLIC MEANING Humility, purity, sweetness PAIR IT WITH When peeking out from a cluster of lush peonies, lily of the valley is incredibly glamorous and charming. Stephanotis and tuberose are also good pairings—both sharing the vine structure and small white flowers.

peony Maybe the most requested of all wedding flowers, the peony definitely steals the show. There are hues for any season, like fall maroons or springy hot pinks. BEST SEASON Spring SYMBOLIC MEANING Bashfulness, prosperity, romance PAIR IT WITH Peonies look amazing on their own or when paired with other large-headed blooms like double tulips or roses.

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sweet pea These ruffly, feminine petals are a popular choice because of their sweet aroma and sentimental name. Different colors bloom in different seasons, so if you’re interested in a specific hue, check with your florist about what’s available when. BEST SEASON Fall, spring SYMBOLIC MEANING Blissful pleasure PAIR IT WITH Hydrangeas look incredibly lush and romantic with sweet pea. If you want something more understated, garden roses are equally as fabulous but with a bit less volume. >>

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ranunculus Though small in size, this petal-filled flower is used in a range of different-styled bouquets. It perfectly completes a round bouquet, or adds a sense of whimsy to a rustic-looking arrangement. And because of its size, it makes the perfect boutonniere bloom. SEASON Winter, spring SYMBOLIC MEANING Charming, radiant PAIR IT WITH Gardenia petals grow in a beautiful spiral, which makes for a striking juxtaposition when placed next to the small heads of ranunculus.

thistle The distinctive shape of this stem (also known as sea holly) makes it a total standout. It has an interesting texture and is one of the few true-blue florals out there. The best part? No petals means no wilting, so it will last through any summer wedding. SEASON Summer, fall SYMBOLIC MEANING Protection, strength PAIR IT WITH Thistle is very rustic, so keep the vibe going with wax flowers, Queen Anne’s lace and seeded eucalyptus. Find your bridal blooms at TheKnot.com/flowers

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You’ve probably seen a lot of scabiosa pods in rustic weddings, but when the flower is in full bloom, it has a different appearance. The seed-dotted center gives the bloom an identifiable architectural element that stands out among other stems. SEASON Spring, fall SYMBOLIC MEANING Admiration PAIR IT WITH For a totally romantic-without-fuss bouquet, clematis and anemones go amazingly well with this easy, breezy bloom.

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do I have to have a wedding cake? Technically no, but we think the tradition is definitely worth keeping. If you decide to forgo a cake, offer your guests some other kind of sweet treat, be it a plated dessert or passed chocolates. If you’re skipping the cake solely to save money, consider scaling back instead. Keep your add-ons and decoration requests simple— the less ornate the design, the less time-consuming (and costly) to make. Avoid exotic fillings, such as fresh guava, and instead order classic flavors that can easily be sourced. If you still need to come down on price, ask your baker about having two cakes. Order a small one- or a two-tier confection you can cut, then supplement with a sheet cake in the kitchen.

Sort of—the cost of a bowl of buttercream is less expensive than rolled fondant. But generally speaking, labor is a big indicator of the price of your cake, no matter what kind of frosting you choose. If you’re asking for a super-detailed design, like a smooth finish with several sugar flower clusters and a patterned motif, plan to pay for the baker’s time. Same goes for shapes—a twisty, stacked style could take up to three days to create and frost. For a less costly option, try a simple design and add a dramatic cake topper or fresh blooms. Besides being a showpiece, your cake should also be delicious. Choose the frosting that tastes best or allows your baker to design your dream cake. >>

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Terrible is a stretch, but it’s not quite as tasty as a buttercream or meringue. The upshot of using fondant is the virtually limitless design possibilities. Want a ribbon that matches your bouquet wrap? No problem. Want a smooth surface that can easily incorporate geometric designs or a ton of gum-paste roses? You got it. If you’re worried about the taste, ask your baker to add a layer of buttercream between the cake and the fondant (most do this anyway) to offset the flavor. Or speak to your cake designer about your vision and see if it can be accomplished or modified to work with a different type of icing.

is a naked cake right for my wedding? It all depends on the kind of celebration you’re planning. Naked cakes are essentially unfrosted confections. These designs tend to have a more natural and organic feel, since they don’t really lend themselves to gum-paste flowers or metallic dust. That doesn’t necessarily mean they should be reserved for casual weddings though. A naked cake garnished with some lavender sprigs would be well suited for a vineyard affair, for example. If you like the naked look, talk with your baker about ways to tailor the design to the formality of your celebration.

are fresh flowers safe to put on a cake, and do they cost less than the sugar variety? Generally speaking, fresh flowers will cost you less than anything made from sugar, mostly because of the time and effort required to create each delicate petal. If you want to use fresh flowers on your cake, speak to your florist in advance. They’ll need to source the requested blooms and make sure they haven’t been sprayed with pesticides. If you have your heart set on a particular bud, check to see if it’s in season. In some cases, it might be less costly to fashion a peony in the kitchen than to source one in February.

my fianc´e and I prefer savory or lightly sweetened desserts—is buttercream teeth-achingly sweet?

will a buttercream cake be fancy enough for my black-tie wedding?

Most buttercreams are made of the ingredients you’d expect: creamed butter and sugar. But they aren’t all created equal. Some are meringue based while others use custard or oils (making them better for fillings or decoration). Talk with your baker about sweetness preference and taste samples. Bottom line: You can achieve a spreadable cream without risking a cavity. You may even want to opt for a cream cheese frosting, which is a mix of savory and sweet that you and your guests will enjoy.

Absolutely—just ask cake icon Sylvia Weinstock, who only frosts with buttercream. This fluffy icing can be applied in a smooth appliqué, giving it a flawless finish similar to that of fondant. An assortment of sugar flowers dresses things up even more. Buttercream’s consistency also allows it to be easily shaped or piped into swags, borders and flowers (perfect decoration for less formal celebrations). The only real downside to buttercream is it’s not ideal for transfers, stencils or embossing. >>

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do we have to have two cakes, including a groom’s cake? One cake is all you need, but if you like the idea of serving a second dessert or getting your groom involved, go for it. The tradition of the groom’s cake has evolved over time—a slice of this second cake used to be given to guests as a favor when they headed home for the evening. The groom’s cake is usually much smaller than the couple’s wedding cake and is decorated to reflect the interests of the groom (think: hobbies, favorite sports team or even a childhood superhero). There are no rules to the flavors and fillings, but, like the design, they typically reflect his favorites.

if I don’t want a traditional cake topper, do I have to have one? You have free rein to top your cake with whatever you’d like— or nothing at all. If you have an heirloom piece, like your grandparents’ vintage topper, work with your baker to add it to your top tier (it can even double as your “something old”). Many wedding cakes are so decorative or colorful that a topper could actually detract from the design.

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I’m planning an outdoor wedding—will a buttercream cake melt? The biggest downside to buttercream is its sensitivity to heat. Most buttercreams will stand at room temperature for hours, developing a pretty iredescent shine, but it’s good to have a designated refrigerator at your venue for storing the cake before the reception begins. If you’re hosting an outdoor party, you can still have a buttercream cake—just take a few extra precautions. Chill the cake leading up to the reception and opt for an early cake cutting, before you sit down to eat. If it’s too hot or humid, the cake can be removed and chilled until it’s time to serve your guests.

cake décor glossary Learn some lingo before meeting with your cake baker.

basket weave

A piping technique that has interwoven vertical and horizontal lines.

beading

A border along the edge of tiers that resembles tiny pearls.

cornelli

An elaborate piping technique that yields a lacelike pattern.

Adds sparkle or sheen to a cake.

piping

Decorative technique created using a pastry bag and various metal tips. Piping details include leaves, borders, basket-weave patterns and flowers.

pulled sugar

Edible colored sugar balls used for decorative purposes.

A technique in which boiled sugar is manipulated and pulled to produce flowers and bows.

ganache

royal icing

dragees

A sweet, rich chocolate, denser than mousse but less dense than fudge, which can be used as icing or filling.

gum paste

This paste of sugar, cornstarch and gelatin is used to mold realisticlooking fruits and flowers to garnish a cake.

latticework meet the expert: maggie austin Former ballet dancer turned cake designer Maggie Austin creates detailed works of (delicious) art. The process of designing a wedding cake can begin a year or more in advance with Austin and the couple discussing elements of the reception in great detail, resulting in a unique design. The cake is typically made and decorated the day before delivery, but she works on sugar flowers and other delicate details well in advance. MaggieAustinCake.com

petal dust

A crisscross piping with an open pattern.

marzipan

A paste made of ground almonds, sugar and egg whites used to mold edible flowers to decorate the cake. Marzipan can also be rolled in sheets, and used as icing.

Made of egg whites and confectioners sugar, this icing is a soft paste piped from a pastry bag to create flowers, beading, bows and latticework.

swiss dot

A piping technique that forms tiny dots in random patterns that resemble a fine dot Swiss fabric.

torte

A dense cake that does not use leavening agents like baking powder or baking soda.

whipped cream Heavy cream beaten to achieve a thick consistency.

Search hundreds of real wedding cakes by color at TheKnot.com/cakes

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Couples take note: Edible favors never (okay, rarely) get left behind. And while favors aren’t required, they’re a nice way to show your guests you appreciate their support and attendance. And if they traveled to celebrate, an edible token means instant gratification— no packing something extra in the suitcase for the trek home. Just like your invitation sets the stage for your wedding, your favors leave a lasting impression, so pick something fun that speaks to your wedding theme, the locale or your personality as a couple. Are you two always on the hunt for the best macarons? Or maybe you’re popcorn gurus or cookie connoisseurs? Treat your guests to an indulgence you both love. Whether you’re after something sweet, foodie-approved or ridiculously Instagrammable, we’ve got you covered with nine edible favors that ship nationwide.

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1. chocolate-covered pretzels

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2. whoopie pies These aren’t just any old whoopie pies. With their creative flavors (fig honey goat cheese, anyone?), these treats are fit for a foodie. And if your guests aren’t that adventurous, stick to classics like double chocolate and vanilla Funfetti. $16 FOR 10, BATTERANDCREAM.COM

3. b’day cake truffles Allow us to introduce you to the ultimate truffle: vanilla rainbow cake mixed with vanilla-infused milk, coated with white chocolate and rolled in rainbow cake crumbs. Mind blown.

A bite of cake on a stick is the perfect grab-and-go fix. And with sparkly frosting, these cake pops can double as décor—they can even be styled to look like a mini wedding cake or a bride and groom (perfect for a prewedding celebration too!). Have a bowtie-clad waiter stand by the exit to send guests off with something sweet in a grand way. FROM $39 FOR 12, SHOPNYCAKEPOPS.COM

7. mini tubs of cookie dough Perfectly safe to eat or bake—if you can wait that long—this cookie dough is available in 21 varieties, including confetti, fluffernutter, chocolate dream and signature chocolate chip. Bonus: Most of them can be made vegan or gluten-free. We guarantee there won’t be a single one left behind (maybe to the newlyweds’ dismay).

8. personalized macarons These tasty little treats come in fun flavors, like mint chocolate, chocolate lavender, passion fruit and white chocolate cherry. And you can personalize the cookie with a custom illustration of the two of you or even your wedding date—total win. $5 FOR 2-PIECE FAVOR BOX, BYWOOPS.COM

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4. cake in a jar Surprise your guests with a take-home dessert that’s as pretty as it is delicious. The exposed cake and frosting layers mimic a naked cake, but in a travel-friendly container. Choose from classic flavors like cookie dough and fudge brownie as well as seasonal specialties. $30 FOR 3, JARSBYDANI.COM

5. popcorn tins You’ll be hard-pressed to find a guest who wouldn’t want to take home this iconic popcorn. A delectable combo of caramel and cheese—Garrett’s signature mix—is both a savory treat and a dessert snack in one. $189 FOR EVENT PACK WITH 24 POPCORN BAGS, GARRETTPOPCORN.COM

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9. marshmallow sandwich cookies Not only are these marshmallow cookies totally unique, they’re also made with fair-trade ingredients and zero artificial preservatives. Pick from flavors like raspberry hibiscus, spiked espresso, vanilla and caramel, and peppermint chocolate. Thinking of keeping guests toasty at your winter nuptials with a hot chocolate bar? Station these next to the cocoa for a perfect pairing. Customize the packaging for an ultra-personalized wedding favor. FROM $5 FOR 4, MALVIMALLOW.COM

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Who says you have to stick to conventional hues for your wedding? A dreamy mauve gown and crisp khaki suit are fresh and totally on trend. Dress, $6,000, Hayley Paige at Bridal Garden, Bridal-Garden .com (Marlton), Castle Couture, CastleCoutureNJ .com (Manalapan), Elizabeth Johns, Elizabeth Johns.com (Morristown); engagement ring, $995, EffyJewelry.com; earrings, $345, NaeemKhan .com ON HIM Suit, $600, Bar III, Macys.com; shirt, stylist’s own; bow tie, $110, Olch.com; pocket square, $16, SprezzaBox.com; socks, $28, HappySocks .com; shoes, $1,195, ChristianLouboutin.com >>

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A sleek pantsuit with a flouncy top is the best of both worlds: It’s fashion forward but still feels bridal. Add a veil for a look that’s all your own. Pantsuit, $4,150, Rosa Clará at Elizabeth Johns, ElizabethJohns.com (Morristown), Jaehee Bridal Atelier, JaeheeBridal .com (Englewood); veil, $120, TwigsandHoney.com; engagement ring, $920, MarsJewelry.com; earrings, $425, OscardelaRenta .com; shoes, Manolo Blahnik, courtesy of Albright Fashion Library

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Turn heads in a dress with a trendy high-low hemline. It’s the perfect opportunity to show off amazing shoes, without sacrificing the drama of a train. Dress, $8,490, InesDiSanto.com; earrings, $325, Simone Rocha, NewYork.DoverStreetMarket.com; pink tennis bracelet, $65, gold tennis bracelet, $125, CZbyKennethJayLane.com; stacking rings, $3,740, Laurence Bruyninckx, LX-Antwerp.com; shoes, $1,090, OscardelaRenta.com >>

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flirty skirt Lace sleeves and a tutu-inspired skirt make this short frock anything but simple. Dress, $958, Truly Zac Posen, DavidsBridal.com; stacking ring, $6,935, EffyJewelry.com; shoes, Giuseppe Zanotti, courtesy of Albright Fashion Library ON HIM Suit, $595, TommyHilfiger.com; shirt, stylist’s own; tie, $160, Olch.com; shoes, $750, Burberry.com

party plumes Planning to change it up for your reception? A feathery cocktail dress is made for dancing the night away. Top, $4,280, skirt, $3,180, LihiHod.com; engagement ring, $2,360 (not including center stone), AJaffe.com; wedding band, $1,590, ring, $4,450, HeartsOnFire.com; earrings, $198, LeleSadoughi.com >>

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While pastel florals are classic, a bold, vibrant bouquet instantly adds a celebratory vibe to your wedding. Top, $550, pants, $605, IvyandAster.com; necklace, $245, CZbyKennethJayLane.com

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daring details All minidresses aren’t created equal. Abstract embellishments give this little white dress a dose of avant-garde appeal. Dress, $4,500, Christian Siriano, KleinfeldBridal.com; clutch, $4,995, Judith Leiber, NeimanMarcus.com; earrings, price upon request, NewYorkVintage.com; bracelet, $6,750, HeartsOnFire.com; shoes, price upon request, ChristianSiriano.com ON HIM Suit, $595, shoes, $230, TommyHilfiger.com; shirt, stylist’s own; pocket square, $16, SprezzaBox.com; wedding band, $1,250, CrownRing.com

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Chances are, you have a couple of old bridesmaid dresses collecting dust in your own closet. And now that it’s your turn to pick the dress, you might be feeling the pressure to find a style that’s both budget friendly and figure flattering for all of your attendants. Think that’s impossible? We promise—it’s actually totally doable. Read up on how to find dresses that won’t cost a fortune but will look gorgeous on all your girls.

let them choose the dress Just hear us out on this one: Letting each bridesmaid choose her own dress proves you want everyone to look their best and shows you trust in their fashion sense. The trick to pulling off the mismatched trend is setting color and fabric guidelines so your whole party still looks cohesive. It’s even okay to create a don’ts list, with requests like no miniskirts or super-plunging necklines. >>

styling your smallest attendants Everything you need to know to outfit the little ones in your wedding party

for flower girls THE SKINNY The parents traditionally pay for the flower girl’s attire, so unless you plan on making a gift of it, be up front about this cost when you ask to include her in your wedding day. THE FORMALITY There are two schools of thought when it comes to dressing the flower girl: She should match the bride, or she should match the bridesmaids. Another option is to put her in a white dress with an accent or sash that matches the bridesmaid dress color. THE STYLE No matter what your wedding style, flower girl dresses nearly always have a fuller skirt and are tea or floor length.

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THE ACCESSORIES Keep it simple. A basket of petals

or pomander is probably plenty for her to handle. Consider her age and maturity level: What’s she really able to wear or carry? If you know that floral crown is going to be pulled off her head within minutes, you may want to reconsider it.

for ring bearers THE SKINNY Same deal as the flower girl—when you ask his parents if he can be in the party, you’re also assuming they’ll pay, so bring it up right from the beginning. THE FORMALITY Look for a tiny tux if you’re

having a black tie affair. If your style is more casual, there are tons of cute options for these little men: A lightweight cotton or linen suit, shortalls in a matching hue or a sailor suit all work well.

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touch for this pint-size party member is the ring pillow, so choose one that complements your theme without clashing with the ring bearer’s outfit.

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avoid gowns that need alterations Bridesmaid dresses, like wedding gowns, don’t run true to size and are ordered using the largest measurement as a guide. Chances are, your bridesmaids will end up with dresses that are a size or two larger than what they normally wear. Depending on the dress and on the body types of your bridal party, alterations can cost anywhere from about $30 (for a simple hem) to about $150 (taking in, hemming, adding straps). Suddenly, a small price tag becomes a small fortune. Stick to flowy silhouettes, which will require fewer alterations (think: A-line over clinging sheaths), or styles your bridesmaids can buy in their regular sizes from department stores to decrease the chance that alterations will be necessary.

go for basic black Of course there are the obvious reasons a black dress is an excellent choice—it’s slimming, works on any skin tone, looks great long or short, and is easy to accessorize. The best argument for black? Whether it’s to a formal event or cocktail party, your girls can definitely use another LBD.

pick up the tab One of the most common gripes you’ll hear about bridesmaid dresses is the price. Even if you’ve been considerate by finding budget-friendly options, the dress still contributes to a long list of expenses (think: travel costs, shower gift, bachelorette party, wedding gift—you get the idea). If you have room in your budget, consider gifting your girls their dresses—it’s a super-thoughtful way to thank them for being part of your day. >>

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You’re expected to pay for your attendants’ personal flowers, which is something to consider when you’re thinking about how many bridesmaids you want. The bridesmaid bouquets (and the groomsmen boutonnieres) are factored into the floral budget along with the bride’s bouquet, centerpieces and other various décor.

transportation

While you don’t have to order a car service to pick up each and every one of your bridesmaids, you should make sure they have a ride to the wedding and from the ceremony to the reception, especially if your two venues are far apart or in an unfamiliar area (say, you’re having a destination wedding). You can hire a bus or limo to pick them up from a set location, or you can ask a few local guests to give the out-of-towners a lift.

bridesmaid luncheon

Despite the name, this is actually an event thrown by the bride for her bridesmaids as a way to show her appreciation to her bridal party for the many things each girl has done to make her wedding special. This sit-down lunch or brunch is typically held the afternoon of the rehearsal dinner. Think of it as a “thank you” to your girls for supporting you on your day.

hair and makeup Your bridesmaids are already paying for dresses, travel, the shower and more. If you want your attendants to have their hair and makeup professionally done for the wedding, it’s a nice gesture to offer to pay for these services. Otherwise, trust your girls to do their own hair and makeup if they’d prefer not to pay for a professional stylist.

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Choosing a knee-length dress will eliminate the need for at least one alteration: hemming. Sure, your bridesmaids may still need to hit up the tailor for other minor tweaks, but they won’t have to worry about tripping over their dress. A shorter hemline is also a great opportunity to show off killer heels.

Here’s the deal: Your bridesmaids don’t want to steal the show, but they do want to look their best. They’ll be standing in front of a room full of friends and family too. The best way to prove you respect their feelings is by trying on the bridesmaid dress. Does it flatter your figure? Is the fabric itchy? If you answer yes, move on. When you find one that you’d love to wear yourself, you’ll have no problem convincing your friends to get on board.

don’t dictate the footwear Speaking of heels, insisting bridesmaids purchase a particular pair may feel like the perfect finishing touch to you, but it also creates another expense. And, like the dress, it’s unlikely they’ll want to wear the shoes again, especially if they’ve been dyed a specific hue. Most of your friends probably already have a pair of black or metallic shoes they’d be thrilled to reuse. Another bonus: Sporting a pair of their own comfortable shoes means blister-free dancing.

let her bring the baubles By letting each bridesmaid select her own jewelry, you’re encouraging her to express her unique personality (that’s the reason you chose her in the first place, right?). Plus, the right jewelry will make any bridesmaid look and feel more like herself.

schedule a shopping trip

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Our best formula for a seamless shopping spree? Make it a whole day of fun. Your first stop: the beauty salon. Get all of your bridesmaids together for manicures and pedicures (bonus points if you’re treating) and some relaxation and bonding time. Next up: ladies’ lunch. Choose a restaurant with lots of light dishes that won’t leave your friends feeling too full or bloated. But don’t skip the mimosas—relaxed bridesmaids are more likely to fall in love with your dress choice. And finally: the bridal shop. Pick your preferred styles ahead of time to make the selection process less overwhelming. Then let your ladies put on a fashion show— it will be a fun, memorable way to narrow in on their favorites.

We’re aware the term “comfortable” can be somewhat subjective (to your bustier friends, strapless dresses can lack support; to your smaller-chested pals, thick straps seem overwhelming) but who can argue with the idea of slipping into a frock made of itch-free fabric? Or a flowing gown that won’t cling to the midsection? Small details like fabric choice and silhouette can make a world of difference where dress wearability is concerned. Bring on the dancing and the wedding cake!

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It’s no secret brides follow strict wedding prep before the wedding day—but what about the guys? These days, groom style is about so much more than just a tux. From manicuring his facial hair to choosing the right accessories to complement his perfectly tailored new threads, here are four easy ways to pamper your groom and give his wedding day style a little extra polish.

Odds are, your groom is going to wear either a suit or tux, but that doesn’t mean all menswear is created equal. Consider a slim-cut tux or suit to up the style factor. And, this may be surprising, but slimmer-cut suits actually work for every body type. “Sometimes guys think going for a boxier shape will make their body appear slimmer, but it actually has the opposite effect,” says Andrew Blackmon, cofounder of The Black Tux. You’ll know a slim-cut (not to be confused with skinny) suit has the right fit if it meets the following criteria: shoulders that are close to his body but not constricting, sleeves that are long enough to show a quarter- to a half-inch of his shirt while his arms are at his sides, and a jacket length ending at the base of his thumbs. Even if your groom is happy with the general fit of his suit, don’t skimp on the tailoring—it’s even more important if it’s a rental. After all, you wouldn’t skip your wedding dress alterations. He’ll typically have three fittings: one for chalking, one to try everything on and one to make final adjustments. He should give himself a month or so for alterations to avoid any last-minute fixes.

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If you want your groom to totally change his facial hair, flip through magazines and collaborate on a new style together. But don’t go too crazy. You still want him to look like the man you fell in love with—maybe just a little bit more put together.

upgrade his accessories Standout accessories are the simplest way to give your groom’s look a personal touch. If his groomsmen want in on the action, make sure they don’t match each other perfectly—complementary accessories will create a cohesive look without being too cookie cutter. Consider adding one or two of the following options for a more unique twist on the standard suit and tie combination.

pocket square A pocket square gives just enough personality to a formal look without going over the top. Choose patterns that go together without being matchy-matchy, like a floral-print tie and a gingham pocket square. boutonniere While we love florals, they aren’t your guy’s only option. A customized boutonniere, like a brooch or lapel pin, are perfect for the edgier groom. “It’s a fun way to add to your look without the formal association a classic boutonniere can bring,” says Allyson Wicha Lewis, vice president of merchandising at The Tie Bar.

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novelty belt Belts in unexpected fabrics, colors and textures are the hottest new accessory for men. A stretchy braided herringbone belt in blue or gray is perfect for a nautical wedding, while a wool belt with subtle plaid accents feels just right for a casual winter affair. The best part? A belt with elastic, as opposed to all leather, has more give and will still be comfortable after hours of wear. socks A pair of statement socks (think: novelty patterns or bold prints) is an understated way for your groom to inject some personality into his look. “Because only a portion of the sock shows when you’re sitting down, it’s perfect for guys who are generally averse to bright color to wear it subtly,” Wicha Lewis says. To pull off this trend, your guy should stick with socks that are grounded in his pant color, with just a hint of something bold. >>

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pamper him in private Your guy may not be into spa days, but that doesn’t mean he can’t indulge in a relaxing professional massage. “As great as weddings are, they’re a high-stress event,” says Tamim Ghilzai, a Zeel massage therapist based in San Francisco. “A massage will help your groom relax and take his mind off any worries.” On-demand massage companies like Zeel deliver professional massages to your door, without the frills of scented candles and cucumber water your groom may not care about. “Men are just more comfortable in their home—they’re in their own environment,” Ghilzai says. “Some feel awkward sitting in the waiting room wearing a fluffy robe and slippers.” Another idea: Because of close-up ring shots on your wedding day, you’ll want your groom to consider what’s recently been coined “handshake maintenance,” or a manicure for men. If your guy doesn’t know his way around an emery board, opt for a professional job to clean up his cuticles and buff his nails to a healthy-looking shine. To maintain his newly manicured nails at home, he should invest in an all-in-one nail file and buffer to smooth out any ragged edges that appear over time. And have him apply a fragrance-free hand cream at night before bed to stave off callouses and keep his hands nice and soft. Get more menswear tips at TheKnot.com/groomsmen

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mix-and-match groomsmen ideas Pick one or two of these styling tips for a totally dapper (but not cookie cutter) entourage.

go gradient

Instead of opting for multiples of the exact same necktie color, start with a bold hue and select slightly lighter colors for each groomsman. (This works for bow ties too.)

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Give each guy in your party a different bloom in your signature hue for unique-looking lapels.

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Pocket squares are always a dapper add-on. We love the idea of snagging identical ones but folding each of them differently.

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Patterned shirts will make the most basic suit feel funky. Match the color but choose a different design for each guy. Think: flowers, stripes, plaids or polka dots for a fun twist on tradition.

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Be particularly playful by opting for sneakers. Choose a specific style and let your gents pick the color. Or go for mismatched socks in novelty prints for a fun look that’s a little more understated. ONELOVE PHOTOGR APHY

If he’s considering changing his facial hair before your wedding, make sure he has at least a three-month head start. “It’s better to live with the style for a bit prior to the wedding to make sure this is the look you want to have in your photos,” says Troy Harris, a master barber at The Art of Shaving. Once he’s decided whether he’ll be clean-shaven, bearded or mustachioed, consider treating your groom to some must-have products to kick-start his prewedding skin-care regimen. Start by swapping his bar of soap for an actual facial wash plus a scrub for a smoother shave. If he’s bearded, have him mix facial wash and scrub together. “This helps remove dry skin under the beard hair to keep his skin from feeling dry and itchy,” Harris says. Applying a shave oil (yes, it exists) before shaving is another way to step up his routine—it prevents razor burn and scratchy first kisses. Your groom should also have at least one professional shave before your wedding day, according to Harris. If he’s clean-shaven he’ll want to make sure he reacts well to a close shave to prevent irritated skin in your wedding photos. If he’s bearded or in the process of growing a beard, a barber can help shape the lines of his facial hair, taking the guesswork out of shaving.

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When you begin searching the perfect engagement ring (and for that secret Pinterest board, of course) the word “overwhelming” may come to mind. Before you even make the purchase, a number of factors, from budget to style, have to be considered. And while a lot of the old rules no longer apply when choosing an engagement ring—like having to buy one with a more traditional setting— there are some guidelines you should always keep in mind when shopping for a diamond. If you’re thinking of a buying a white diamond, the four Cs—cut, color, clarity and carat—are important to consider before settling on a ring. Editor’s note: No standardized quality grading system exists for colored gemstones, so if you’re on the hunt for a colorful center stone, these rules don’t apply.

cut The cut of a diamond isn’t actually the shape (think: round, oval, pear), but how well the angles and proportions of the stone interact with light. Since diamonds start as rough stones and not faceted gems, the cut grade of a diamond is the only one of the four Cs that’s not determined by nature, making it the most important aspect to consider. In other words, a bad cut can ruin an otherwise perfectly good stone. If the diamond is cut too deep or too shallow, it will leak light on the sides, giving it a duller appearance, which will reduce its value and brilliance. A well-cut diamond will have three factors: brightness, fire and scintillation. If that jargon is confusing, here’s a quick breakdown: Brightness is a “white light” reflected both internally and externally; fire is the presence of colorful (or rainbow) sparkle; and scintillation is the amount of sparkle a diamond produces in general.

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color A structurally perfect white diamond has no hue. The degree of a diamond’s colorlessness is measured under controlled lighting and graded on a scale from D (colorless) to Z (light yellow), with colorless stones being the most valuable. As a general rule, a colorless diamond will cost you more than a colored stone, unless the color is extremely rare (like green or red diamonds).

clarity The fewer impurities or inclusions a diamond has, the clearer and more expensive it is. Inclusions occur when the diamond crystallizes in the earth’s mantle. While there are treatments that can create a clearer stone, a “flawless” diamond is extremely rare. Similar to color, the clarity of a diamond is also measured on a scale. Diamonds that are graded in the SI1 and SI2 range are included but their imperfections are invisible to the naked eye.

carat Carats refer to the weight of the diamond. As the carat size increases, so does its rarity and price tag. But a diamond that has a bigger carat weight doesn’t necessarily mean it will look bigger. A diamond with a smaller carat size but a shallow cut may look larger than a diamond with a bigger carat size and a deeper cut. Size depends on not only the shape of the diamond, but the different mountings you choose—a halo will make a smaller stone appear larger, and so will a shape with more surface area, like a pear or emerald. Find out more about your diamond at TheKnot.com/rings

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Veils and other headpieces are an easy way to express your style. But with so many options to choose from, how do you know which one’s right for you? We broke down all the different styles, including the latest trends, with tips on how to wear them so you can uncover (sorry, we had to!) the perfect veil for your wedding look. >>

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birdcage Also known as a cage, this shorter style covers and frames just your face for a chic and minimalist statement. Most often it’s made out of wide net or sheer tulle—something you’ll easily be able to see through—and is finished with flirty accents like feathers, flowers or pearls. The trick to pulling off this less-traditional look is to let the edge of the veil fall just below the nose. PAIR IT WITH Cage veils were the height of fashion in the ’40s and ’50s, so that makes them the perfect match for retro-inspired dresses like swingy, tea-length gowns, structured sheaths and slinky, old-Hollywood-inspired slip gowns. They’re also a fun way to add a touch of vintage glam to a more modern look.

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blusher A blusher actually refers to the short, single layer of tulle, lace or netting that’s worn over the face and then flipped over the head or removed after you walk down the aisle. It comes in chin, shoulder or fingertip length and can be added to a variety of veil styles. But a blusher can also stand on its own. Choose one layer, or if that’s too simple, try a double-tiered style where you have two layers of tulle: one layer pulled over the face and the other draped behind your head. Whichever length or however many layers you choose, the veil should be fastened on the crown of your head. PAIR IT WITH A universal style, the blusher works with almost any type of gown. Wearing just the short layer gives off a chic, sophisticated air that lends itself to more fashion-forward dresses.

mantilla This Spanish-style veil almost always comes in either all lace or in tulle that features an intricate lace edge. Its circular shape is designed to gracefully drape down and frame the face on either side. To wear it the traditional way, attach it with an ornamental comb, or edge it up with a flower crown or tiara. PAIR IT WITH Allow the dramatic lace to take center stage and wear this romantic veil with sleeker silhouettes, gowns that have a minimal amount of adornment or embellishments, or dresses that have small touches of matching lace.

waltz Also sometimes called a ballet veil, this style falls between the knee and the ankle and is usually double layered and worn with a blusher. These veils exude elegance and formality and, because they don’t touch the floor, they’re short enough for a bride to comfortably dance and walk in—hence the name. PAIR IT WITH This style pairs well with formal yet fitted floorlength gowns and dresses without trains. >>

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Did you know the bride originally wore a veil because the groom wasn’t supposed to see her before they were married? And not just in the hours before the wedding, but not once before they said “I do.”

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One of the most popular lengths (even Kate Middleton sidestepped royal tradition and chose this shorter option), this veil falls below the hips and extends to—you guessed it—the fingertips. Secure this style, which is usually made up of several layers of tulle or netting, at the crown of your head, slightly behind it or, if your hair is up, just above your updo. PAIR IT WITH This versatile veil is beautiful with a wide range of dresses, but it looks particularly pretty with ball gowns and, since it puts the focus on the torso, dresses with more elaborate bodices. You may also want to consider pairing it with a cathedralor chapel-length veil—that way you can remove the longer one for the reception and leave the shorter, top layer in place.

Like its name implies, the fountain (also called a waterfall) is made up of several layers and gathered at the crown of the head to create a billowy, cascading effect around the face. Though you can find it in a variety of lengths, it works best when it grazes the shoulders or elbows. Since this style can add a few inches of height to your frame, petite brides might want to give it a try. PAIR IT WITH A bit more casual and fun, this statement-making option will go great with flirty dresses and shorter hemlines. Because it creates a lot of volume on top, you may also want to consider balancing that out with a fuller, more voluminous skirt.

elbow Slightly shorter than the fingertip, this veil extends 25 inches in length to the bride’s elbows. The more manageable length tends to be more versatile. It’s a nice complement to a simple silhouette, but it also won’t overpower a more showstopping gown. PAIR IT WITH An elbow-length style is perfect for brides who want the look of a longer veil but are wearing a gown with beautiful details on the lower half (like intricate buttons or tiered ruffles) they don’t want to cover up from view.

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halo One of the latest trends to hit the bridal runway is the halo, which drapes over your entire head and torso. Keep in mind you won’t be able to clip or pin the veil into your hair, so to keep it from sliding off you’ll need to weigh it down. Try a wreath or headband of florals or greenery for a romantic, boho effect, or top it with a jeweled cap for a super-glam, art deco vibe. PAIR IT WITH Since this style completely envelops you front and back, it tends to work best with a simple, elegant gown without a lot of bling or back detailing. Subtle woodland-inspired accents, like tiny florals or vines, also make for nice romantic touches. >>

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Whether you wear your hair down and flowing or in a formal updo, you want a final detail to tie your whole look together. If a veil isn’t for you, there are plenty of other pretty options, from jeweled headbands and tiaras to a bohemian floral wreath or flirty fascinator.

bandeau This hot newcomer is a sexy take on the birdcage veil. Instead of covering the whole face, this narrower version of the cage masks only the eyes. Generally made from wide net, this unique style attaches to both sides of your head with decorative clips. Since it’s such a dramatic statement across your face, it looks best with a pulled back hairstyle like a low bun or chignon. PAIR IT WITH A gown that’s just as seductive as this look will do the trick—try one with sheer details, a plunging neckline or slinky silhouette. Or if you’re going for a retro look with an edgier vibe, a bandeau is just the right blend.

juliet cap There are two ways to wear this über-romantic style. You can either take a lace-trimmed veil and wear it as a cap, with the sides pinned back behind each ear, or attach a veil to a separate cap. PAIR IT WITH It’s perfect for a lacy gown with a vintage-inspired feel. Add some blooms behind one ear for an extra-sweet effect. S earch for more veils, headpieces and other wedding day extras at TheKnot.com/fashion

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7 flattering accessories Finally, a little retail therapy that can help elongate—and slim—your frame.

linear earrings

Shoulder-skimming danglers can lengthen and thin out round or heart-shaped faces.

high heels

Every inch in heel height is equal to losing about two pounds. We did the math: Three-inch stilettos will shed six pounds off your frame— just make sure you can walk in them.

colorful sash

Draw attention to your natural waist with a darker sash. This trick works with any color of gown but is especially waist-defining on a white one.

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A bold necklace draws the eye to your center in a long, slimming line so you appear taller. Pendants are particularly flattering when they’re paired with gowns that have wide straps.

floor-length veil

Fingertip- and elbow-length veils are a beautiful choice for any bride, but keep in mind they can cut your body in half. If you’re looking to lengthen your figure, go for chapel- or cathedral-length styles that hit the floor instead.

strategic brooch

If you’re pear shaped and want to minimize the lower half of your body, a well-placed pin at your neckline will keep all eyes upward and focused on your best asset. Plus, vintageinspired brooches are hot right now.

strap-free sandals As we already mentioned, high heels will elongate your legs. The one caveat? Make sure to skip heels with ankle straps—they’ll make the lines of your legs appear shorter. In other words, those Mary Janes are definitely out.

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The mother of all veils, the cathedral is also the most formal. Sometimes referred to as the “royal veil”—it’s the veil of choice for countless princesses including Diana—this style falls about three and a half yards from the headpiece and is often worn in combination with a blusher and long train. Looking for something not quite so dramatic? Go for a chapel veil instead, which falls only two and a half yards from the top. PAIR IT WITH The sweeping cathedral can hold its own next to a billowing ball gown. As a rule of thumb, the veil should extend past the train, so if you’re wearing a cathedral veil, opt for a cathedral- or semi-cathedral-length train. For a chapel veil, go with a chapel-length or sweep train.

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Voluminous waterproof mascara, $11, LorealParisUSA.com Don’t worry about tearing up during your ceremony: This mascara delivers tons of drama without the fear of raccoon eyes.

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Powder blush, $22, MACCosmetics.com The compact is generously sized and the shade selection doesn’t disappoint, with more than 50 options ranging from romantic to bold.

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Intensify Me liquid liner, $9, CoverGirl.com The paddle-shaped

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Eye shadow, $25, BobbiBrown Cosmetics.com These silky powders glide on lids, then stay put without creasing or fading.

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Pop lip colour and primer, $18, Clinique.com Brights for the bachelorette, pinks for the wedding, corals for the honeymoon—this line is packed with shades that last.

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Sculpting eyebrow pencil, $29, Chanel.com Many pencils can look harsh, but not this one. The blendable color appears almost like a powder once it’s on.

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Amazing concealer, $42, Amazing Cosmetics.com It’s thick enough to obliterate dark circles and has enough staying power to keep stubborn zits hidden.

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Relevée lash curler, $30, SurrattBeauty.com Squeeze, hold for a few seconds, then release to get a longlasting curl with zero tugging or pinching.

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Sonia Kashuk brushes, from $11, Target.com These sleek tools may be budget friendly, but trust us: The ultra-soft bristles hold their own against any brand out there.

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Illume Sheer Color trio, $62, Hourglass Cosmetics.com We instantly fell for these three creams: a natural-looking bronzer, a peachy blush and a flattering highlighter. It’s an all-in-one, honeymoon-friendly compact.

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Color Elixir lip color, $9, Maybelline.com The color payoff, nonsticky feel and pretty shine is on par with highend formulas. >>

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Hoola matte bronzer, $29, BenefitCosmetics.com Sweep this sparkle-free powder across your chin, cheeks and forehead for a subtle, natural glow.

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Perfect Hair Day shampoo and conditioner, $25 each, LivingProof.com Whatever your hair type, this sulfate-free duo leaves it soft, smooth and full. One of our testers even called it “life changing.” We’re sold.

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Luxurious Volume fine to full blowout spray, $10, JohnFrieda.com Want your hair to have Victoria’sSecret-model-level volume? Then this bodifying mist is for you. The fine-haired among us swear by it.

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Brilliant Glossing crème, $20, Fekkai.com We’re obsessed with this cult favorite’s ability to hydrate,

tame and even add shine to the most unruly hair. Plus, the formula is super effective but won’t weigh down your locks or feel greasy.

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Bb. Curl defining crème, $31, Bumble andBumble.com Curly girls, meet your new BFF. This rich, curl-defining cream will have you falling in love with your natural texture all over again. Just rake through your wet hair and go.

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Fresh Start dry shampoo, $5, TRESemme.com One spritz at the roots and this light mist will perk up limp locks without any residue.

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Shea Butter hand cream, $12, LOccitane.com Prep your hands for all those #ringselfies with this intensely nourishing cream.

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Almond Coconut Milk scrub, $50, LauraMercier.com This thick scrub sloughs away rough patches and smells like dessert.

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Flash bronzer, $42, Lancome-USA.com The bronze-colored lotion lets you see exactly where to apply it, so there’s no danger of streaks.

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Ultra Sheer DryTouch sunscreen SPF 55, $10, Neutrogena.com This fast-absorbing protector won’t leave a ghostly white residue behind. >>

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1 GEL FORMULA Infinite Shine Gel Effects 2 lacquer, $13, OPI.com This three-step process is the closest thing we’ve found to a true gel manicure. It won’t chip and it keeps its glossy finish.

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Instant nail polish remover, $10, Sephora.com Simply dip your fingertip inside and twist it back and forth. The built-in

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Formula X Shine nail topcoat, $11, Sephora.com Keep your nails photo ready with this clear polish. It delivers a shiny finish that lasts for days.

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All About That Base CC base coat, $20, Deborah Lippmann.com This nifty formula strengthens and primes nails.

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Complete Salon Manicure Dry & Go Drops, $8, SallyHansen.com These drops cut drying time dramatically—ideal for a busy bride.

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Crème Abricot Fortifying Cream for Nails, $27, Dior.com Oils can be messy but this cream keeps cuticles soft without a greasy residue. >>

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Nail Polish in Ballet Slippers, $9, Essie.com There’s a reason why this polish is a bridal staple: Its pale pink shade is universally flattering and works in any season.

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Anthelios face sunscreen SPF 45, $30, LaRoche-Posay.us Stay safe by wearing SPF every day. This one feels invisible on skin.

Get ready for your close-up. A gorgeous wedding day glow starts with these finds.

2 MOISTURIZER   Hydro Boost gel, $19, Neutrogena.com This airy gel quenches dry skin with a hefty dose of hyaluronic acid.

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Acne spot treatment, $18, Murad.com Here, two acne fighters (sulfur and salicylic acid) team up to destroy zits.

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Yes to Cucumbers towelettes, $6, YestoCarrots.com These handy wipes whisk away dirt and makeup faster and more thoroughly than any fancy brand out there. >>

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Decadence, $95 for 1.7 oz., MarcJacobs.com An exotic combo of plum, saffron and amber, this perfume screams bachelorette party.

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Mediterranean Honeysuckle, $110 for 1.7 oz., AERIN.com This lush, sexy blend of honeysuckle,

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La Vie Est Belle Intense, $110 for 1.7 oz., Lancome-USA.com Floral notes are wrapped with spicy patchouli and a decadent twist of hazelnut for a warm scent that’s just a little bit mysterious.

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Knot Eau Florale, $125 for 1.7 oz., BottegaVeneta.com This might be the perfect bridal scent. Notes of rose and peony are soft and feminine, mandarin adds freshness, and musk rounds it out with a sultry feel.

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Embrace, $30 each, VeraWang.com

The fragrances in this trio (two shown) may cost only $30 each, but the combos are sophisticated and totally elegant.

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Lime Basil & Mandarin, $65 for 1 oz., JoMalone.com Lime, basil and thyme make for the crispest scent ever.

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Coco Mademoiselle, $94 for 1.7 oz., Chanel.com This distinct combination of citrus, floral and woodsy notes is luxe and totally unforgettable.

Read about our runner-ups, our editors’ fave products and more at TheKnot.com/beautyawards

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PLANTERS INN WHY HERE Situated in the heart of the Historic District, this restored 1844 building (the only Relais & Châteaux property in South Carolina) is brimming with romantic relics. Each of its 64 rooms are outfitted with four-poster beds, custom crown molding and etchings by the late Charleston native Elizabeth O’Neill Verner. Along with the intimate Charleston Room and the fabric-paneled Garden Room, which is large enough for 120 guests, it’s also the only hotel in the city that has a bloom-filled courtyard Planters Inn

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available for private events ($2,500 venue fee for Garden Room and Courtyard, $500 ceremony fee, PlantersInn.com). SWEET DEAL The hotel’s velvet-walled Peninsula Grill is famous for its 12-layer coconut cake. Do right by your guests by serving the scrumptious confection at your reception.

head up to the rooftop terrace at sunset for stunning 360-degree views of the city (ceremony fee from $250 depending on guest count, WentworthMansion.com). SPECIAL SEND-OFF Let the in-house wedding coordinator arrange a horsedrawn carriage to take you on a private ride through Charleston’s historic streets after the reception.

WENTWORTH MANSION WHY HERE This brick beauty, built by a cotton baron in 1886, was meticulously renovated in 1997 and now has 21 uniquely decorated rooms, some with original gas fireplaces and plush daybeds. Gather up to 50 of your nearest and dearest and marry outside on a storybook lawn shaded by a massive oak tree. For smaller events,

THE SANCTUARY AT KIAWAH ISLAND GOLF RESORT WHY HERE Despite opening a mere 12 years ago, this 255-room resort has the feel of a centuries-old seaside mansion. It’s located on a barrier island, just 21 miles outside Charleston, and is known for its unspoiled beaches and peachy-pink sunsets. The property’s waterfront grounds are dotted with towering live oak trees, and its ceremony and event sites, which can accommodate up to 350 people, seem limitless. Looking for a casual indoor setting? Check out one of the golf course clubhouses, some of which have wraparound verandas perfect for cocktail hour. Have a fancier affair in mind? Go with one of The Sanctuary’s three lavishly appointed ballrooms. For alfresco vows, you can’t do better than the resort’s slip of private beach right on the Atlantic (from $1,500 for rental space; $4,000 food and beverage minimum, KiawahResort.com).

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Visit this genteel Southern belle of a city, and you’ll swear you’ve stepped back in time. Pastel-colored 19th-century mansions line cobblestone streets, and horse-drawn carriages sweep past lush, magnolia-draped gardens. But the city is hardly stuck in time—hip boutique hotels, innovative restaurants and a serious cocktail culture have made Charleston one of the most coveted wedding spots in the country.


ACTIVITIES GALORE The Sanctuary also excels at organizing private outings for you and your guests, including kayaking trips through surrounding sea grasses, a nature walking tour and some precious R&R time at the resort’s spa.

florida The pulsating Latin beats of sultry Miami. The quiet, untouched islands off the scenic Gulf Coast. The childlike wonder of Walt Disney World. It’s not an overstatement to say that the Sunshine State has something for everyone, brides and grooms especially.

FAENA HOTEL MIAMI BEACH WHY HERE Embracing a mantra of “sunny days and sexy nights,” Faena opened to much fanfare in late 2016. Housed in the former Saxony Hotel, a posh Hollywood hangout in the ’50s and ’60s, this latest

reincarnation has retained some of that movie magic: The Great Gatsby director Baz Luhrmann and Oscar-winning costume designer Catherine Martin were tapped to create a theatrical, old-Hollywood ambience throughout the property’s 169 rooms (think: art deco furnishings, blue-tiled bathrooms and red velvet curtains). The hotel also has an impressive art collection, and to that end, couples can wed in front of the buzzy Damien Hirst sculpture “Gone But Not Forgotten,” a 10-foot-tall gilded woolly mammoth skeleton. Afterward, move everyone inside the opulently appointed Faena Theater for dinner and dancing (from $325 per person, Faena.com). SIGNATURE SIPPER During cocktail hour, serve the hotel’s Faena Spritz, made with vodka, Perrier-Jouët Grand Brut, Aperol, rose water and hibiscus. Not only is it delicious, it also has an apropos romantic rosy hue. Cheers!

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WHY HERE A decidedly elegant, grown-up resort in the heart of Disney, the massive 443-room property boasts an adults-only swimming pool, state-of-theart spa, scenic golf club and no less than six restaurants (including the excellent rooftop steak house Capa). Say “I do” in one of two sunlight-flooded ballrooms or next to a lagoon on the well-manicured lawn outside ($199 per guest, max of 550 guests, FourSeasons.com). MAGIC MOMENT Thanks to the Four Seasons’s close relationship with Disney, they can arrange private character meetand-greets, so Mickey and Minnie could pop by your reception.

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back Gulf Coast, this 471-room resort on Captiva Island (once home to a Key lime plantation) overlooks turquoise waters and a boat-filled marina. Also on offer at the 330-acre property: nearly 20 swimming pools, waterfront trails made for bicycling, and group adventures such as fishing, snorkeling, kayaking and stand-up paddleboarding. Whether you wed in a toes-inthe-sand ceremony or a black-tie bash in the indoor-outdoor reception hall, be sure to take advantage of the spectacular photo ops on the palm-tree-studded King’s Crown Lawn (site fees from $2,000; $175 per guest, SouthSeas.com). >>

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DAY TRIP Captiva Island boasts more than 250 species of shells, and the socalled “shelling concierge” at the resort will arrange leisurely treks along the two and a half miles of mollusk-abundant beaches for your party ($20 per person, SouthSeas.com).

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hawaii Tropical jungles, magical ocean vistas, a deeply rooted island culture—these are just some of the reasons why couples should consider a Hawaiian wedding. The Aloha State’s relaxed vibe might also relieve prewedding jitters, so much so that your day will feel like the beginning of your honeymoon—for you and your guests.

your wedding day with macadamia-nut pancakes, drizzled with coconut syrup, and whale-watching from your balcony. Or maybe it’s the list of activities and excursions—bamboo-pole and thrownet fishing classes, horseback riding and sunrise yoga—available to your guests. In any case, couples have their choice of awe-inspiring backdrops from which to say “I do,” from an ocean-facing garden to a sleek open-air lanai (events from $2,500, plus $100 food and beverage minimum per guest, Travaasa.com).

TRAVAASA HANA WHY HERE In décor and atmosphere, Travaasa honored Hawaii’s golden era before massive, U-shaped hotels with little relationship to their lush surroundings dominated the coastline. On this 66-acre Maui resort, fresh from a $12 million renovation, cottage terraces, an infinity pool and yoga pavilions open up to the mighty Pacific. It’s hard to pinpoint what makes this property so alluring, especially for to-be-weds. It could be kicking off

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PREWEDDING PREP Sign up for the Hana Couple’s Escape package for some prewedding prep and indulge in an organic saltwater foot soak, full-body massage and invigorating scalp treatment.

ANDAZ MAUI AT WAILEA RESORT WHY HERE Maui’s latest property impresses from the moment you step foot into the lobby. The minimalist, Asianinspired aesthetic immediately draws your eyes to the open-air back wall overlooking the Pacific Ocean, where you can take turns gazing at the distant islands of Lanai and Molokini through a telescope. For an equally breathtaking setting for your vows, marry on the Nohea lawn, which faces the resort’s tiered infinity pools and the sparkling waters of the Pacific. As for dinner, count on a menu that spotlights locally sourced produce from nearby Ono Organic Farms. There are 297 rooms, but couples looking for a private hideaway should book one of the resort’s villas, outfitted with plunge pools, oceanfront lanais and soaking tubs. There’s also a VIP concierge and, on request, a private chef (from $8,500, Maui.Andaz.Hyatt.com). LOCAL FLAVOR After hitting the dance floor, guests will love cooling off

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with a shaved ice. Andaz partners with island retailers, such as the locally loved Ululani’s, to set up a food station dedicated to the fruit-syrup-flavored treats.

FOUR SEASONS LANAI WHY HERE Set on a rocky red cliff

amid its own golden-sand beach, the Four Seasons is the first luxury property to open on Lanai, once called Pineapple Island for its former isle-spanning pineapple plantation. There are 217 rooms, each with beautifully designed mahogany floors and lanais or balconies with ocean or garden views. More than 10 event spaces, including an elegant library, tropical gardens and the stunning Hulopoe Ballroom, are available for weddings (from $8,500, FourSeasons.com). WEDDING PARTY BONDING Arrange a morning yoga class on the beach with your bridal or groom party.

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cheese-making class or a hot air balloon ride high above the valley’s vineyards ($8,000 site fee for Saturday, discounted site fee rates for Friday/Sunday, $200+ per person for food and beverage, SolageCalistoga.com).

SOLAGE CALISTOGA WHY HERE Laid-back luxury is the Solage Calistoga

WHEEL FUN Hop on one of Solage’s

complimentary cruiser bikes decorated with a hand-painted “Just Married” sign for a sweet portrait of you and your new spouse.

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name of the game at this resort in Napa Valley, where 89 earth-toned studio suites with French doors are scattered across 22 acres. The Solage has a multitude of event spaces—including a poolside patio, trellised terraces and an expansive lawn framed by the Palisades Mountains—that can hold anywhere from 10 to 200 guests. Cocktail-hour bites and dinner menus come courtesy of chef Brandon Sharp, who helms the hotel’s Michelin-starred restaurant Solbar. Activities abound too: Facilitate wedding guest bonding with a

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If your idea of a destination wedding centers around family, friends, good food and lots and lots of vino, this sliver of the West Coast was made for you. Lovely hotels and resorts are planted among vinecovered vistas, and winery tours, smalltown main streets and fir-shaded hiking trails make the region an enticing option for outdoor lovers.

making it official on the ranch’s picturesque grounds, dine under the stars with up to 150 guests at long tables set beneath strands of twinkling lights. Rent out the whole property for the weekend—the ranch can accommodate up to 16 overnighters (from $12,500, BeltaneRanch.com). WINE AND DINE Engaged couples can look forward to a bottle of Beltane Ranch wine, fresh flowers grown on the property and a seasonal selection of local cheeses in their rooms.

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BELTANE RANCH WHY HERE This quaint bed-and-breakfast in Sonoma Valley is surrounded by idyllic acres of orchards, pastures and gardens. Foodie couples will have a blast coming up with the reception menu, which highlights the wine, olive oil and produce that’s created on-site. Give the owners plenty of notice and they’ll plant fruits and vegetables of your choosing that can be harvested before your wedding. After

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them into private cottages and Provençeinspired maisons, and an iconic hotel was born. Today, it’s still one of the area’s most elegant and exclusive places to rest your head, with 33 sunlit acres awash in olive groves, and rooms appointed with fireplaces and private terraces offering sweeping views. Up to 120 guests can watch you wed on a wood terrace with panoramic views of Napa Valley before heading to one of the fabric-draped private dining rooms (from $5,000, AubergeDuSoleil.AubergeResorts.com). LATE-NIGHT SNACK Before calling it a night, have the hotel set up a s’mores station with house-made graham crackers, French marshmallows and dark chocolate displayed on a dramatic fire table.

nevada Sure, you can design a wedding weekend in Las Vegas that kicks off with poolside spritzers and ends with a craps-tablebound after-party. But you can just as easily plan a more refined affair with tasting menus, wine pairings and a 12-piece band. Whatever your vision, the magic makers in Vegas can make it happen. If you’re more the great-outdoors type, head north to Lake Tahoe—the 122,624-acre lake and surrounding Sierra Nevada Mountains make for a jawdropping setting to tie the knot.

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THE COSMOPOLITAN WHY HERE This Sin City skyscraper may have nearly 3,000 rooms, but get married here, and you’ll feel like the only party in town. Perhaps that’s because of The Cosmopolitan’s crew of wedding managers who make it their mission to plan unique, avant-garde nuptials. Say your “I dos” on a balcony overlooking the city lights or inside at the twinkling Chandelier bar. When it comes to nuptials, the venue encourages creativity, like adorning wedding arches with giant paper flowers or showcasing live music performances instead of the wedding march (from $3,500, CosmopolitanLasVegas.com). FUN FAVORS Request the hotel’s signature wedding treats—miniature handcrafted chocolate wedding dresses— as a sweet send-off to guests. The Ridge Tahoe

for creating atmospheres of serenity, and nowhere is this more true, surprisingly, than Las Vegas. While it’s located in the city’s newer and eco-minded CityCenter complex, the Mandarin Oriental is a non-gaming, smoke-free property, so it’s ideal for couples who want access to the Vegas scene while marrying in a hotel known for its refinement. Celebrate by the eighth-floor pool, or plan a formal dinner party that starts with passed champagne in the 23rd-floor Mandarin Bar and moves to the ballroom overlooking the neon lights of the Strip (from $240 per person, MandarinOriental.com). PHOTO OP Looking for an Insta-worthy photo backdrop? Request pictures in front of the resort’s infamous gold wall.

THE RIDGE TAHOE WHY HERE Set on a ridge in the Sierra Nevadas near the lake’s south shore, Ridge Tahoe is a scenic mountain escape any time of year. The property has 302 rooms, ranging from one-bedroom units to two-bedroom condos, as well as a health club (free for guests), indoor and outdoor swimming pools, and a full-service spa. Say your vows from the perch of a 7,500-foot-high deck or head to the water for a shoreside ceremony. Or hold your wedding in the Castle Rock Event Space, which just underwent a $2 million renovation (from $4,695, RidgeTahoeResort.com). WINTER WONDERLAND Book the venue during colder months and marry under evergreens heavy with snow. Greet guests with peppermint sticks and Belgian hot cocoa so they’ll stay toasty.

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ceremony A curtain backdrop with flowers hung from twine framed the couple as they wed in the vineyard. Guests kept cool with cream, twinewrapped fans. florals Peachy-pink and apricothued blooms accented the green foliage in Shelby’s bouquet and the boutonnieres.

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location Though Napa Valley offers no shortage of beautiful venues, Shelby and Nelson fell in love with the private estate’s gardens, courtyard and the fact they could get married right in the vineyard. stationery A charcoal-toned vintage map of the valley decorated the lining of the invitation envelopes, and Shelby sourced vintage botanical stamps from a stamp dealer in nearby Carmel, California.

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the fall harvest, the couple concentrated on local fruits and vegetables for the reception dinner, which included baby artichokes, heirloom radishes and artisan cheeses. drinks Both signature cocktails included

fruit jams blended with gin or whiskey and fresh herbs. attire Nelson added texture to his peak lapel, midnight-blue tuxedo with a velvet bow tie, while Shelby paired her ivory silk gown with loose curls “appropriate for an outdoor wedding.�

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Ceremony & Reception Site Private estate, Yountville, CA Photography Matthew and Allison Edge/The Edges Wedding Photography Videography Reel Eyes Media Consultant Napa Valley Celebrations Flowers Kathy Hoffman Flowers Officiant Rev. Timothy Mills Gown Romona Keveza, New York City Hair & Makeup Sherrie Long Veil Nina Shoes Jimmy Choo Wedding Rings Tiffany & Co. Bridesmaid Dresses Amsale Menswear Groom: Brooks Brothers; Lanvin; Salvatore Ferragamo; Turnbull & Asser; groomsmen: J.Crew Stationery Bella Figura Rentals Bright Event Rentals; La Tavola; Twilight Design Catering Chef Laura Lee; Taqueria Michoacan Taco Truck Cake Sweet on Cake Music DJ Dave Tutton Accommodations Napa Valley Lodge Registry Zola.com Honeymoon Bordeaux, France Guests 90

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get a wedding budget system Put your accounting skills to the test by deciding on a budgeting system to track all the money going in and out for your wedding day. The easiest way? The Knot Budget Calculator, which automatically estimates how much you should be spending on everything from music to bridesmaid gifts, and allows you to track all your payments and their due dates. Or you can put all your info in an old-fashioned spreadsheet. Just make sure you record every payment you make and who you owe what.

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“Be honest! Everyone has a budget, whether it’s $10,000 or $100,000. Telling your planner what it really is will help you stick to it.” —Danielle Rothweiler of Rothweiler Event Design in Verona

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explore hidden wedding costs and extras Knowing all of the costs for your wedding up front will guarantee your budget can actually cover all the details. But remember: There are extras you may not think about until you’re closer to the day. Here’s what you should consider: avoid overtime If the party’s hopping, those extra 45 minutes after your reception was supposed to end may whiz by, but you’ll probably pay dearly in overtime costs for everyone from the photographer and the caterer to the venue manager. If you suspect the wedding may go long, work overtime costs into your budget— if you don’t use it, it’ll be a nice surprise chunk of cash. factor in tips From the sexton who cleans the church to the hotel steward who delivers your welcome bags, even conservative tipping can add hundreds to your wedding cost. Make sure to account for these tips in your initial budget. remember that trials aren’t always free A florist’s demo may be gratis the first time, but if you make repeated changes, you risk being billed. Also, take your trial hairstyle into consideration. It’s going to cost you, so make sure to include it in your hair budget. don’t forget the little stuff Things like stamps for the RSVP cards, ribbons for the favors and marriage license fees seem so small that you can shrug them off, but like any costs, they add up. Going just over budget in a couple categories with a vague plan of making it up somewhere else can push you past your limit. >>

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band equipment An extra-large venue may call for additional (and pricey) speakers.

postage stamps

Oversize and oddly shaped invites can cost a lot more to mail.

coat check

Union rules may dictate the number of people needed to work it as well as their fees.

rental deliveries

Drop-off and pickup fees usually aren’t included in the price for table and chair rentals.

gratuities

The service fee your venue may charge you is in addition to the tips you should be giving banquet managers and service staff.

cake-cutting fee

Your venue’s servers have to cut and plate each slice, which can be an additional cost.

welcome-bag delivery

Some hotels might tack on a fee of several dollars per bag delivery.

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plan to go over your wedding budget If you account for budget overages, then you never actually blow your budget. Try to earmark 5 percent of your budget for unforeseen costs. These are some areas where you might go over: flowers You may have a last-minute realization that something you haven’t considered needs to be decorated, or there may be a request that an additional family member wear a boutonniere or corsage. weather-related expenses It’s best to be prepared for any unforeseeable weather on your day. Have umbrellas for a rainy day, space heaters if it’s unseasonably cool and additional shade if it’s particularly hot or humid outside. small accidents Life happens! Your gown may need a last-minute spot removal, something could break in the days before the ceremony, or your menus might get damp and need to get reprinted. Bottom line: Have wiggle room in your budget for emergencies.

Take advantage of budgeting and money management tricks along the way. Put all your wedding money in one separate account, so you can easily track it without getting it confused with the rest of your day-to-day funds. Pay for as many of your expenses as possible on a credit card that gives you benefits. Make sure everyone making purchases (your fiancé, your mom and so on) are all on the same card system, allowing you to benefit from the rewards and also from the easy tracking of your purchases. Use The Knot Budgeter tool at TheKnot.com/budgeter

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where not to skimp All the places that are worth the splurge.

the photographer

Trust us—you don’t want a wedding album filled with blurry photos. A good professional photographer knows what moments to capture: the rings, the cake, the classic photo of the two of you holding hands. They’ll also be able to work the crowd.

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the dress

You don’t need to spend an exorbitant amount of money on a dress to look beautiful on your wedding day, but your gown should fit you like a glove. Find a good tailor to ensure the ideal fit and flaunt all of your best assets.

the music

Hiring a DJ simply because he charges less than others or recruiting your friend’s band might not be the best bets for your wedding. Splurging on a great band or DJ who will have you and all your guests dancing throughout the night is truly money well spent.

the food

Serving cafeteria food will make your guests remember your reception for all the wrong reasons. Eliminate a course or offer less expensive options—the food at your wedding should be about quality and not quantity.

the bouquet

Your bouquet is the one floral purchase you shouldn’t hold back on—it will be your most photographed arrangement. Consider it a part of your look, which means that it shouldn’t be a scaled down version of what you really want.

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A sit-down dinner isn’t your only reception option. From cocktail fare to midnight snacks, these chic ideas will satisfy any palate. >> BY KRISTIN KOCH PHOTOGRAPH BY WENDY LAUREL

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raising the (food) bar Live preparation stations are as entertaining as they are delicious.

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Oysters are shucked and kept on ice. This is an equally appropriate option for a seaside soiree or a formal fête.

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No matter how you’re celebrating, an amazing meal is central to your wedding. But before you choose the menu, you need to know which meal you’re serving. Your options are nearly endless—from a formal, seated dinner or a festive brunch buffet to nothing but a five-tier fondant couture cake.

brunch Brunch can be served buffet style or as a seated meal (or as a combo). The other alternative is a cocktail brunch, where guests enjoy passed hors d’oeuvres, like scrambled-egg tartlets and mini French toast sticks, and cocktails, such as mimosas and Bellinis, as they mingle among a mix of lounge furniture and tables. THE PROS

• Y our liquor costs will be lower than they’d be for an evening affair, and site-rental fees are often less expensive during the day. • Sunrise ceremonies up the romance factor. • It’s a great choice if you’ve invited lots of children. • It’s more conducive if you’ve chosen not to have any alcohol at all at your wedding. • You can leave after the event and start your honeymoon.

crepe table

Cooks flip and fill sweet (from sugar and lemon to dark chocolate) and savory (like smoked ham and swiss or tomato and mozzarella) crepes.

Guests choose their sauce (marinara, vodka, Bolognese) and watch as their pasta is tossed just for them with tasty mix-ins like caramelized onions, roasted vegetables, fresh basil and grated parmesean.

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omelet or waffle stand

cheese table

Dishes are made to order, with chooseyour-own add-ins and toppings from applewood-smoked bacon to fresh berries and whipped cream.

Along with the traditional graham crackers, marshmallows and chocolate, consider a spread of unexpected additions like farmers market strawberries or creamy Nutella.

Swiss, cheddar and mozzarella are key go-tos, but take your cheese plate up a notch with artisanal flavors too.

sushi station

Chefs slice and assemble fresh maki rolls.

• Fewer people are in the mood to party at 11 a.m. or 1 p.m. • Without all the dancing, your wedding may feel like less of a big celebration (but that may be exactly what you’re after). • If you’re not immediately jetting off on a fabulous honeymoon, you might wonder what to do with yourselves for the rest of the day, after your ceremony and brunch are over. >>

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Display pretty pastries, finger sandwiches and scones on tiered stands that double as centerpieces. Offer three or four types of tea, plus coffee and sparkling sodas. Background music—anything from a string quartet to a bluegrass band—is a nice touch. You can also use the tea theme to create a whimsical wedding cake. Think: Alice in Wonderland or a royal tea party. Personalize the tea offerings by including a blend of your and your fiancé’s favorites and giving it a unique name that’s personal to you as a couple.

Offer hors d’oeuvres while guests stand and chat. Similar to a cocktail hour, food is either set up in stations or passed by waiters, but a mix of the two will keep everyone mingling and well fed.

THE PROS

• G uests will be impressed by your mellow sophistication—so much so that no one will realize that tea is far less than a full meal. • You two get the entire evening alone together. • Finger food is always fun, and you can include as many sweet or savory options as you like. THE CONS

• I f you want hours of dancing, a tea reception is probably not the right type of party for you. • The idea of a tea party may be too “precious” for some crowds. • Guests may leave hungry (note “tea reception” on your invites).

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• I t’s a classy but typically lower-stress, more party-friendly option than a sit-down dinner. • It can save you money, depending on what you serve, how long it lasts and the décor. • It’s easier: You don’t have to worry about setting up dozens of tables, complete with centerpieces, chairs, favors and place cards. • You can still have a band and dancing. THE CONS

• The standing-and-chatting approach may be less comfortable for older guests than a seated meal. If you go this route, make sure to provide plenty of seating. • Cocktail receptions aren’t always a money saver. Guests may drink more than they would at a full meal, so liquor costs could be higher, and to ensure you have enough food, you may order more than you would for a plated dinner when portions are preset. >>

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cake and champagne Cake-and-champagne receptions can take place anywhere from a gorgeous backyard to a chic restaurant or sophisticated loft. In addition to bubbly and cake, consider a dessert spread. THE PROS

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I t’s the most economical and easiest way to go. It’s appropriate at any hour of the day. You’ll have less to prepare and coordinate. It’s great for second marriages or to keep the celebration low-key.

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• T here’s less pomp and circumstance, so you’ll be disappointed if you want everyone to make a fuss over you for hours. • Guests may leave hungry (list “dessert reception” on the invites).

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dinner The most popular wedding meal is, of course, dinner, fitting in perfectly after a sunset ceremony, photos and a festive cocktail hour. It could be set up as a buffet, stations, or a formal or familystyle seated dinner.

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THE PROS

• I t gives you an opportunity to truly treat your nearest and dearest, and you won’t have to worry about anyone leaving hungry. • A full meal lasts the longest (it typically includes a cocktail hour too), so you’ll have plenty of time to mingle. THE CONS

• I f your style is less formal, it may feel stuffy unless you host a family-style feast or buffet. • It tends to be the most expensive option—there’s more to plan and pay for (linens and centerpieces for every table).

If you’re only inviting locals and want something elegant and edgy, have a 9 p.m. ceremony followed by delicious late-night treats. THE PROS

• It’s a unique and festive way to celebrate. • It’s an affordable option on par with a cake-and-champagne reception, but guests are more likely to dance at midnight than they are in the late afternoon or early evening. • You won’t need formal place settings or a full waitstaff. THE CONS

• I f you’re inviting kids or older guests, it’s not the best choice— they won’t make it to the reception. • If you and your guests aren’t night owls, it may be hard to get the party going, and it could fizzle after just an hour or two. Search for caterers near you at TheKnot.com/caterers

serve it up Once you know which meal you’re having, decide on a serving style.

A buffet offers your guests a full meal and the chance to choose exactly which foods and how much of them they want. You might have catering staff creating crepes or pasta dishes while guests watch, or just have food set up in large serving dishes. Be sure to have a variety of offerings, including vegetarian and even gluten-free dishes.

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food stations

It’s like a wedding food festival. Guests are invited to sample foods from various stations in a buffet-like manner. Make each station have a theme and offer a moderate assortment of cuisine. This style works best for cocktail receptions or dessert receptions, but couples often have stations at their cocktail hour, followed by a seated meal.

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The traditional reception meal is a sit-down, four-course dinner consisting of an appetizer, soup, entrée and dessert, though a threecourse dinner is perfectly acceptable too. Additional courses may include salad, pasta, and fruit and cheese. If you’re a foodie couple and want to make dinner a more luxurious part of your reception, this is the way to go.

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vineyard vows There’s a lot more than just a great vino selection to consider when your wedding venue is a winery. Here’s what you need to know if you’re saying “I do” among the grapevines.

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Delicious wine, lush green leaves and a rustic setting— wineries make for unforgettable wedding venues, so what’s not to love when planning a vineyard wedding? There’s more to the process that you have to plan for: Grapes aren’t always on the vines for pretty photos, and pastoral vineyards don’t always show up on even the most high-tech GPS devices. That’s why we consulted Madeleine McQuarrie, event planner at Chateau St. Jean winery in Sonoma, California, who gave us the lowdown on all of the logistical ins and outs you might not have considered. Cheers!

check the local sound-ordinance rules Usually, rural counties (in which most wineries reside) are strict with their sound ordinances—in some cases, music must be turned off by 10 or 11 p.m. Just be sure to doublecheck any rules in the area and confirm what time your entertainment will wrap up. “This shouldn’t deter you from booking your wedding at a winery,” McQuarrie says. “In most cases, you’re able to add more time to the beginning of your event to maximize your time at the venue.”

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Since some vineyards are used to doubling as wedding venues, they may have access to equipment that a large event requires, like microphones, extension cables, speakers, linens, tents and tables. But if it’s a vineyard that’s not full service, you may have to rent everything you need from a vendor—even electricity. “If your site doesn’t provide electricity, you must rent generators,” McQuarrie says. “The generators will provide power for all of the basic wedding essentials, including lighting.” If that’s the case for you, ask the venue if it has a vendor list to see what you have to work with, and consult a local wedding planner—they’ll know all the local vendors specializing in vineyard events.

make sure your eats can be prepared Vineyard weddings are all about delicious wines, cheeses, fruit and more—but just make sure your caterers will have everything they need in terms of available food-prep areas. If your venue doesn’t already have a commercial kitchen, your caterer may need to bring in a remote kitchen. “This is a very common occurrence—caterers are pros when it comes to vineyard weddings,” McQuarrie says. “With careful communication and planning among you, your wedding planner, the venue and the caterer, this will not negatively affect your event.” >>

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While vineyards are typically in gorgeous, bucolic settings, some of them may be a little hard for modern technology to find. Picture winding, unpaved roads that are somewhat off the beaten path. “The easiest way to ensure the safe and timely arrival of wedding guests is to provide them with transportation from their hotel to your venue,” McQuarrie says. “There are so many fun options available now to fit your budget and theme, and not just stretch limos. You can charter luxury SUVs and school buses.” And if you don’t have any room for transportation in your wedding budget, it’s a great idea to give guests extremely detailed driving instructions on how to get to your event venue, along with approximate travel times, since GPS devices often won’t work way out in the vineyards. Your wedding website is a great place to share this information with friends and family who might not be familiar with the area.

harvest may affect your wedding plans For most venues, the summer season just means warm weather. But for a vineyard, summer means vibrant green vines, which is why it’s so important to know how seasons may impact your planning and aesthetics for your day. “Deciding on the season and date of your wedding is major, so you must do research for the region that you are looking into,” McQuarrie says. “Do you want the vines to be green and full of grapes? Then early summer may be your target date. Do you prefer burnt oranges and reds as your vineyard canvas? Late September and October may be the best months for you. During the winter, vines will become dormant, so you won’t have any foliage on the vines, and in some regions there may even be snow. All seasons make for beautiful wedding photos—it’s up to you and your vision for your wedding.” Most vineyard venues also have fully functional wineries, so during the harvesting season of your region (usually August), there may be some commotion (think: large trucks, grape picking and unexpected smells). This is because the grapes are very delicate, and when the vineyard manager decides it’s time to harvest, nothing can stand in the way. Talk with your planner or your venue contact to make sure the vineyard will have the look you want on your wedding date. Otherwise, if you’re set on a photo with grapes growing in the background but your wedding is in the fall, you’ll likely run into some issues.

make a plan if your vineyard is public Lots of wineries that host weddings are also open to the public and give tours and tastings and have restaurants, bars and shopping options. “If you’d like a private wedding, communicate that to your site and ask if it’s able to close one part of the property to public guests,” McQuarrie says. “Or plan for an evening or morning wedding—something that’s outside of normal operating hours. Most vineyard venues will be accommodating as they’re excited to be a part of your day.” Of course, you’ll need to make sure that private wedding pricing fits into your budget. You can also ask if there are any off-season or less busy weekend options that may make reserving the entire winery more affordable.

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ask about the liquor license Having an open bar? Remember that just because a vineyard produces alcoholic beverages doesn’t mean it’s licensed to serve liquor too. A wine license and liquor license are two very different permits, so before you start planning your signature cocktails, see what the vineyard’s licenses allow. “Many wineries function under a permit that regulates them to producing and serving wine only,” McQuarrie says. “Often, this means that just beer, wine and sparkling wine may be served. Check in with your venue to determine its alcohol policy as this will vary.”

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Sometimes a rustic setting means the floors are rustic too, so aside from posing in the soil near the grapes and vines, you may be walking on wood, pebble or dirt floors. “Many of our clients use the term ‘vineyard formal,’ ” McQuarrie says. “This helps rule out stilettos that may sink into the ground or long dresses that may get dirty.” Of course, you’ll have a dress code that fits your personal wedding aesthetic, but just communicate to your guests on your wedding website what they should anticipate from your venue so they can dress accordingly.” You may also want to provide flip-flops for your female guests, so they can slip them on at your reception and not ruin their heels.

“If your venue is not full-service, you may need to bring in additional restrooms,” McQuarrie says. “For a five-hour event, with a guest count of around 150, you’ll need at least four to five restrooms. There are portable rental restrooms that have granite countertops, running water and multiple stalls that are perfect for weddings.” A tent-rental company can also cover the restroom area to have it blend in with the wedding space. Fresh flowers, air fresheners and amenities baskets with mints, antibacterial hand lotion, hair spray and aspirin are also game changers.

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variety is the spice of life Don’t feel like you have to stick with the most familiar types of wine. “You can have a large variety of wines to choose from, so you can wow your guests with something just a little different. Viognier, anyone?” says Margo Van Staaveren, head winemaker at Chateau St. Jean.

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red, white or both?

It’s nice to offer both white and red wine, no matter the season. A good rule of thumb is a lighter white wine for the reception. “Think pinot gris, pinot blanc or fume blanc,” Van Staaveren says. It’s also nice to add a pinot noir because it can pair with lighter fare (chicken, fish and salads) but can also stand up to heavier foods.” Cabernet sauvignon or malbec is good for guests who enjoy a more robust red wine.

do the math

When planning for the quantity of wine, keep in mind that each 750 ml bottle will pour approximately five glasses. It’s safe to assume each guest will have one glass of white and one glass of red. “It’s easy to do the math with your guest count from there,” Van Staaveren says.

bartender basics

Instruct bartenders not to open every bottle of wine at the beginning of the reception. They should open the bottles as they go so wine isn’t wasted. “Most bottles should be consumed the day they’re opened,” Van Staaveren says. If you have unopened bottles at the end of the evening, stock your personal bar with them.

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snap happy Hiring the right shutterbug isn’t rocket science, but it does take careful consideration. Follow our lead, and rest assured you’ll find someone who clicks with both of you. PHOTOGRAPHY BY AMBER GRESS PHOTOGRAPHY

Unlike the work that your other wedding vendors produce (music, flower arrangements, the cake), photos aren’t things you can hear, smell, taste or even see at first—you don’t really know what you’re getting until after the fact. That makes it extra-important to train a critical eye on any pro you’re considering, taking into account their experience, artistic style, even their personality. Knowing what to look out for, and which questions to ask, will ensure the memories of your wedding are just as beautiful as the day itself.

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settle on a style First on your to-do list: deciding what style of photography you want. All photographers specialize in a format and style, and knowing up front whether you prefer film to digital, or candid shots to posed ones will go a long way in determining the right person for the job. Before you send that initial introductory email, familiarize yourself with the most common methods.

documentary: Expect spontaneous, in-the-moment pictures of people and décor. Typical shots might include a close-up of your bouquet, your fiancé’s motley crew of cousins tearing up the dance floor or your bridesmaids laughing, champagne in hand. When you hire someone schooled in photojournalism, you’ll rarely see people looking straight at the camera—the photos capture the moments exactly as they happened, and together they tell a story.

back to basics

“Avoid gimmicks and trends and stick with simplicity for your album. You don’t want images your kids will make fun of in 20 years.” —JD Land of Twisted Oaks Studio in Cherry Hill

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portraiture: If you prefer the kind of posed shots that populate your parents’ 1980s wedding album, go with someone who specializes in portraiture. You’ll get pictures of the two of you and your wedding party, friends and family in front of various backdrops. But that’s not to say there isn’t room for creativity. It’s true that many photographers shoot in expected places (think: the church altar or the lawn of a country club). But just as many push the artistic limits of portraiture, embracing dramatic compositions, like situating the couple on a lounge chair in a hip hotel lobby.

edgy and bold: This style, an offshoot of fine art, is marked by outside-the-box, tilted angles, called Dutch angles, and unconventional framing. So instead of a straight-on shot of the couple saying their vows at the altar, the photo might look a little slanted, with an object like a flower arrangement or candle in the foreground. Or, the photo of the bride having her makeup done might be shot from above, with more of an emphasis on the eye shadow brush rather than on her face. Even a single portrait of a bridesmaid might be framed so her face appears in only the bottom right portion of the photo, with the rest of the space taken up by the wall or whatever else is behind her. Although they might prefer a particular technique over another, many photographers offer a mix of styles, blending portraiture with documentary-type shots, and black and white with color images. But if there’s a specific look you absolutely love, seek out only those pros who practice it.

do your homework fine art: Similar to documentary style, this format allows the shooter greater artistic license to impart their particular point of view—the shots reflect reality, but it’s the photographer’s reality. The results, usually shot on black-and-white film, are dramatic and gorgeous, with a grainier, softer appearance that keeps the subject in focus and the background slightly blurred. That said, with the right gear and lens, a pro can use a digital camera and still capture this style. One note: Not all fine-art photographers take formal portraits, so if that’s important to you, make sure yours does both.

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Once you know what kind of photos you want, start your search: Comb through the local marketplace on TheKnot.com, and read reviews from recent brides and grooms. Go to photographers’ websites and blogs and check out their portfolios of the weddings they’ve shot to get an idea of their style. The design of the website may also clue you in to their personality and sensibility. If available, scope out their Facebook, Instagram and Twitter pages too. Also consider the feedback from other couples and clients: Is it generally positive? And how does the photographer herself respond to it? >>

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set up interviews This is not a decision that can be made on looks alone—you must meet your potential photographer in person. If you like what you see on their sites—and their fees are in your ballpark range— call to see if they’re available on your wedding date. If they’re already booked, ask if they have an associate or can recommend someone else with a similar style. Schedule in-person meetings with three to five photographers to look at more of their work and to see if your personalities mesh. Then, talk shop: Tell them about your venue, your overall wedding style and what you and your partner have in mind for your photos.

Don’t base your decision solely on what you see on a photographer’s site—that work is essentially a highlights reel, with the photographer promoting only the best shots from a variety of weddings. To get a more complete feel for their style, look through two or three full galleries from weddings they’ve captured start to finish. If you see that the full-gallery shots are just about as good as the ones chosen for their online portfolio—that is, they’re all so good it was impossible for them to choose—then you’ve got a consummate pro on your hands. Finally, ask to see at least one or two complete albums of weddings that are in similar settings to yours. For example, if you’re getting married indoors with dark lighting, don’t just look at weddings that were shot outdoors in natural sunlight. Likewise, if you’re planning to say “I do” on a beach at sunset, you’ll want to see examples of similar setups.

know what to look for Think about the kinds of shots you want for your own wedding, and then scour the photographer’s work to see how, or if, they captured them. For example, did they get photos of the bride and groom when they locked eyes for the first time? Also, look at how they composed the shots and whether the framing works or if there is too much clutter in a picture. Consider how crisp an image appears and what the lighting is like. Beware of washed-out photos where small details are blurred—unless that’s the style you’re after. One last thing to be on the lookout for: how the photographer captures emotions. You want to see people looking relaxed, not like deer caught in headlights. >>

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dig deep into portfolios

the portrait list

These are the don’t-miss moments that you’ll want to display forever.

the happy couple

Stunning snaps of the two of you should be the priority. Consider doing a “first look,” where you and your fiancé come together before the ceremony to see each other for the first time in your wedding attire. You’ll be less nervous walking down the aisle and won’t miss cocktail hour.

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the wedding party

Your loyal friends and family who have stood by you in life— and in wedding planning— should also take center stage in your wedding album. You’ll want shots of you two with the entire bridal party as well as ones with each individual attendant. Some couples get creative with a mix of fun group shots (jumping, goofing around) and more traditional posed compositions.

immediate family

You may be eager to get to the reception, but your mom will never let you hear the end of it if you don’t take the time to have at least a few portraits of you with your parents and siblings. You’ll probably also want to get a photo of both families together, which makes for an extra-special framed photo later—after all, it symbolizes the merging of two lives, and isn’t that what this whole thing is about?

guests

If your photographer’s setup allows for it, one huge group photo of you two with all of your guests can really capture the joy and spirit of the day. The default for most couples is to take pics with smaller groups—college and high school friends, cousins, and so on. But a big group shot is a novel reminder of all the special people who took the time to celebrate with you.

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make sure your personalities are a match

confirm who will be there the day of

Don’t underestimate the importance of liking and bonding with your photographer—that part is crucial. Are they excited about your vision for your wedding when you describe it? When they make suggestions, do they present them in a clear and respectful way, or do they come across as timid? Are their mannerisms off-putting to you? The best photographers will ask lots of questions and be good listeners. To get outstanding photos, go with a pro who not only has a firm grasp of social graces but is also bold enough to go on the hunt for great images. Above all, you’re looking for someone who puts you and your fiancé at ease and doesn’t irritate you in any way. Remember: Your photographer will be shadowing your every move on your wedding day, and the more comfortable both of you are, the better all of your photos will turn out. And, obviously, you don’t want the photographer to offend or annoy your guests but to shoot them in their best light in an unobtrusive, subtle way. In a nutshell: Your photographer should be assertive enough to seek out the really great moments, cajoling enough to coax relaxed smiles and natural stances from guests, and calm enough to be a positive force throughout the day.

Many larger photo studios have more than one photographer on staff, and unless you specify it in your contract, the lead photographer may not be the one shooting your day. Since every professional has a different style, technique and personality, double-check that the one you interview and click with will be the same one who works your wedding. Also, include specific stipulations in the contract about who will cover for the photographer should something happen on the actual day. Check whether they will bring any assistants to your wedding, and if so, how many? If you have room in your budget, consider hiring a second shooter. Many top-notch photographers already include this in the contract, but if yours doesn’t, you may want to ask about the possibility. The main benefit to having two photographers, of course, is that you get twice as much coverage. For example, during your formal photo session, one photographer can capture the formal photos, while the second one can get behind-the-scenes, shots, like of guests mingling. If you’re having a large wedding (250 guests or more), you might even ask about using three shooters so the event can be captured from all angles.

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compare packages You won’t be able to nail down an exact dollar amount until you’re sure of how many hours of coverage you want and how many albums you need. Packages typically range from $2,500 all the way up to $15,000-plus for a high-profile photographer. Ask about what’s included in the standard package and the price of any extras you may want, like an engagement shoot, for example. In particular, find out exactly how many hours of coverage are included. Ideally, you want your shooter there for the entire day, from when you’re getting ready to after you’ve made your grand exit from the reception. While packages vary, most include about 6 to 12 hours to cover everything from preceremony primping through your final farewell. If you’re on the fence about booking them for a longer period, err on the side of caution and go for it if your budget allows—overtime is usually charged at a higher hourly rate.

ask about your rights

It usually takes at least a month, if not two, to get photo proofs back. Why? Your photographer is working with enormous files far bigger than your typical JPEG. Shooting raw files gives your photographer greater ability to correct photos, but it also takes a longer time to upload, process and edit them. It varies, but many photographers estimate an additional 40 hours spent editing images from a single wedding. Here’s what to ask: How many photos should I expect? Will they be high or low resolution? Will I be able to print them myself, or does the photographer retain the rights? Will the proofs I see be the retouched versions, or does that happen after I select the photos I want? Also ask about retouching options and special effects, which can range from light beauty retouching to stylized art effects like super-saturated colors, and the additional cost for both. —Special thanks to Duke Photography, Todd France, Jen Kroll Photography, Salvatore Cincotta Photography and Mel Barlow & Co.

Mark these off to make sure your contract is airtight. All addresses, dates and starting times are listed Estimated number of hours to be worked Name of the photographer(s) Name of acceptable substitute(s) N umber of cameras that will be used and which formats (digital or film)

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Most contracts stipulate that the photographer owns the rights to all photos taken at the wedding, even the ones of you. In other words, they can use them for promotional purposes. That also means that you can’t just post the digital proofs they send you—most photographers have a policy that you can only share watermarked images or images that include their credit. Also, unless you negotiate otherwise, if you want to print the photos yourselves or order an album from another source, you’ll have to buy the image rights.

N umber of photos to be shot (including color and black and white) N umber of proofs you’ll receive and in what format you’ll receive them Number of prints included O ther package details: number of completed albums, special-request shots Dates for proof/final package delivery Copyright details Detailed shot list you’ve agreed to Timing for breaks (schedule during dinner to avoid missing dance floor shots) Dress code stipulations (optional) Total cost D eposit amount and date paid Remaining balance and due date Any overtime, refund and cancellation policies

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You’re a week away from saying “I do”—and trust us, we know you’re so ready to—but with seven days to go, there are a few seemingly small but important tasks that need to be checked off your list so they don’t fall through the cracks. You don’t want to be at the altar ready for your new spouse to break the glass and then realize that there’s no glass!

overcommunicate with your vendors

take time to unwind While you may still have some to-dos to check off the week of your wedding, take some “me” (or “us”) time to remember what this day is all about.

designate your various point people You don’t want your caterer calling you while you’re getting your makeup done. To avoid that, if you don’t have a planner or day-of coordinator, designate point people for every situation, including: • Ceremony items: If you’re having a unity candle, combining sand or breaking a glass during the ceremony, have one of your attendants make sure all items are at the altar ahead of time. • Money: Write checks and/or talk to wedding hosts (usually your parents) about any balances to be paid at the reception. • Reception questions: Introduce your site manager to your consultant or maid of honor for any problems during the party. • Miscellaneous questions: Provide all wedding professionals with an emergency phone number to call on the day of the wedding— usually your maid-of-honor or a bridesmaid.

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if you’re having welcome baskets, make sure they get delivered Whether it’s you or an attendant, deliver your welcome baskets for guests to the hotel concierge. Make a list of names, delivery instructions and any additional information you have to prevent any mix-ups. The hotel staff may be willing to deliver these to the guest rooms or hand them out to the guests at check-in free of charge, or there may be a fee per bag—just check ahead of time.

take the time to pack properly For the most important day of your life, this is going to be the one occasion where you probably do care what’s in your suitcase. (We know all too well what happens when you wake up at 5 a.m. to pack with bleary eyes! Mismatched bathing suits and missing deodorant, anyone?) Whether you’re getting married five minutes down the street or you’re leaving for your honeymoon a day after the reception, taking the time to pack thoughtfully for each event that week is crucial. Do you have your beauty emergency kit? Your bikinis and lingerie that was gifted to you at your shower? Your day-of present and note to your partner? Knowing that you have everything you need will definitely minimize any stress.

arrange help for any guests who may need it If you have any ill or elderly guests coming to your wedding, let them know how glad you are that they can attend. Show your love by making sure they have proper transportation to and from the airport and your wedding events, and that they have a comfortable place to stay. You can ask family members, friends or attendants to help with any pickups and drop-offs, or arrange transportation that will be easy for them (think: car, not a school bus). >>

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To make sure everyone is on the same page (so they don’t need to call you or your point people on the day-of) call every single wedding vendor and confirm, then re-confirm each arrangement you have with them, including, but not limited to: • Giving reception site/caterer the final guest head count. Include vendors, such as the photographer or band members, who will expect a meal. Ask how many extra plates the caterer will be able to prepare for your pros. • Supplying location manager with a list of vendor requests such as a table for DJ or setup space needed by florist. • Giving ceremony and reception site managers a schedule of vendor delivery and setup times, plus contact numbers. • Calling the limousine or car rental company to make sure they know the pickup times and locations.

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Getting married also means having a lot of important things to distribute among your family and attendants. • Give your marriage license to your officiant. • Present attendants with gifts at the rehearsal dinner. • Present parents and each other with gifts. • Give wedding bands to the best man and the maid of honor to hold during the ceremony. • Give the best man the officiant’s fee envelope, to be handed off after the ceremony. • Hand off place cards, table cards, menus, favors, candles, bar or cake table décor, and any other items for setting the tables to the caterer and/or reception site manager.

have your wedding attire ready to go Make arrangements at your bridal salon or local cleaners to have your wedding dress steamed—and don’t try it on after it’s been steamed, or else it will wrinkle again. Store it in the garment bag from the bridal salon, and hang it in a closet in a smoke-free and pet-free room. (You can lift the skirt out of the bag—just make sure to put a clean sheet on the ground below it first.) Also ask an attendant to pick up the groom’s and groomsmen tuxes.

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schedule any beauty appointments Your fingers will likely be texting all week, which makes it even more crucial to keep your nails fresh. Make any minor beauty appointments you want done that week: a mani-pedi, wax, massage and facial. This goes for your groom too—make sure his hair is trimmed and face is shaved (if that’s the look he’s after). Any experimental beauty treatments, like facial peels, lasering, hair coloring and drastic cuts, should be done a few months in advance, just in case they don’t turn out how you wanted. Download The Knot Wedding Planner app for all your to-dos.

5 tips to relax and unwind Take a minute (or two) for yourself while planning.

get a massage

Massage is the perfect way to relieve tension. The hottest technique (literally) is a Thai massage. Hot herbal poultices (basically giant tea bags filled with detoxifying goodies, like turmeric, rice extract, and tamarind leaves) get pressed into tired muscles. It’s performed in combination with more traditional deep tissue massage techniques for a totally invigorating result.

take a yoga class

Or better yet, sign up for a package of yoga classes a month or two before your wedding. If you’ve never taken yoga before, choose a beginner class. The breathing exercises, relaxation techniques, and postures will have you totally centered by the time you hear wedding bells.

soak in the tub

A nice, hot bath will relax your muscles and your mind. For optimal stress-quenching results, add a bath salt that’ll moisturize your skin and help you loosen up with a soothing scent.

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get outside

When you need to clear your mind, there’s nothing like getting a breath of fresh air. Take a brisk walk or jog outside. You don’t have to get off the beaten path—even a circuit around your neighborhood will work. Tune out what’s going on around you (but still watch out for traffic!) and concentrate on the rhythm of your strides.

read a book

There’s no better time to score a page-turner than the few months before the wedding day. A good book can take you to another world for a while and give your tired brain a rest. Why not read a novel that takes place where you’re headed on your honeymoon for a fun sneak preview?

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Leah Still stole the show during the family’s first dance to “Uptown Funk”

you’ll need music even before you start your walk down the aisle

choosing your first-dance song seems like the most epic decision ever

This is easy to forget. Your bridal party has compiled a playlist of getting-ready music no doubt, so do your part and remember the guests who will be awaiting your grand entrance. Same goes for cocktail hour, when you may be off having your pictures taken. At a celebration, silence is never golden.

Choosing your first dance song is a big deal. You want something that will perfectly reflect you as a couple. Sounds tough, right? Try out a few different options and settle on one that resonates with both of you. Or if you really can’t seem to compromise, have your DJ or band create a custom mash-up of your two favorite tunes.

not all sound systems are created equal

you’ll feel like your first dance should be over one minute in

Your venue may have a sound system or speakers on hand, and while that’s great news, you should do yourself a favor and test them out (or better yet, have your band or DJ do a sound check). You want to make sure you aren’t looking for something with more oomph (or amp). Check out the equipment when there’s still time to rent additional pieces, just in case.

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You may have fallen in love to “Free Bird” but a nine-minute ballad is going to be painful to dance to, just the two of you. One minute is like an eternity when it comes to the first dance, so choose a song that clocks in at under four minutes. If you have your heart set on something longer, look into having it cut. You’ll thank us later. >>

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just because your friend plays the violin doesn’t mean she wants to play it during your wedding ceremony If you really want your friend (who must be an invited guest) to participate in your nuptials, ask her nicely and give her an easy out so she doesn’t feel obligated to do it. And put yourself in her shoes—it’s hard to say no to a friend. If she does agree, allow her plenty of practice time (in the months leading up to your wedding and the morning of) so she feels completely comfortable taking center stage during your ceremony. Then thank her with a handwritten note or a small gift to show your appreciation.

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you’ll rush to dance lessons every monday night for weeks There’s a chance you’ll get talked into dance lessons (by a recently married friend, your future mother-in-law or, more likely, your soon-to-be spouse). If you have the time and budget, we say go for it. Even if you loathe dancing, you’ll spend 45 minutes locking eyes with your other half—not bad at all. In fact, it may very well become your favorite part of planning.

there actually is such a thing as too much of a good thing You may both be ’80s fanatics, but five full hours of Duran Duran can be too much for even the most adoring fans. Be kind to your friends and family (and their ears) when developing your playlist. And keep your song choices PG-13 (profanity won’t go over well with the flower girl’s mom).

you’ll want to be the DJ You’ve hired a professional for the night, so let them do their job. Create a must-play list of about 10 songs and a do-not-play list of the forbidden tunes for your DJ or bandleader. Then, trust them to guide the music while you focus on tearing up the dance floor. Find your band or DJ at TheKnot.com/music

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musician options for your ceremony These pros can bring your ceremony to life.

blues guitarist

The sound of a slide guitar creates an allAmerican, down-to-earth atmosphere. Hire one to play a mix of blues, jazz and American classics.

jazz combo

Have a trio, duet or singer-and-standing-bass duet add some soul to your ceremony.

string quartet

Strings are perfect for classical compositions. They can also add romantic elegance to contemporary selections.

flutist

Usually paired with a piano or string instrument, the flute is romantic and peaceful.

harpist

The ideal choice for a small, romantic ceremony or springtime vows in a garden. For larger affairs, hire two.

vocalist/choir

Hymn, gospel and opera singers offer a wide array of feelings for the various ceremony stages.

keyboardist

A classical pianist or organist can do it all, from playing soothing preceremony tunes to supplying upbeat recessional music.

trumpeter

A soloist or a horn combo can add either regal solemnity or upbeat rhythms to your ceremony.

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do-not-play list Give your band or DJ a must-play list that includes the songs you want to hear—but don’t forget the equally important “play this at your peril” list. If “Sweet Caroline” makes you nauseous, your pro needs to know.

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Ready to enjoy your new married life together and try out all those fun gifts from your registry? Not so fast! There are still some things to check off first. >> BY JAMIE MILES PHOTOGRAPH BY JOSE VILLA

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name change 101 Six steps to changing your name, plus one idea for making it all super easy! Just because you’re hitched doesn’t mean you’ve officially changed your name. See what other to-dos you need to check off below: Get your marriage license (you’ll need an original, certified one to complete the next steps in the process). Update your Social Security card. You can fill out an application on the Social Security Administration website, SSA.gov. Change your license at the DMV. Be sure to have other forms of ID, such as your marriage license and your

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new Social Security card. Change your bank account. You can do this at a local branch. Bring your new license and marriage certificate. Notify the following: • Employers/payroll • Post office • Utility companies • Credit card companies • Landlord or mortgage company • Insurance companies • Doctors’ offices • Voter registration office • Investment account providers • Your attorney (to update legal documents) • Passport office Want to simplify the process? After getting your marriage license go to HitchSwitch.com to fill out a form, then let the experts take it from there.

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Welcome back from your honeymoon! Hopefully you’ve fully recovered from the excitement and stress of planning your wedding with a romantic trip for two. Although you may be feeling relaxed and rejuvenated—hooray!—you have a few more wedding to-dos. More likely than not, you still have a lineup of important postwedding tasks to tackle. Take a look at our list of the top to-dos for after the honeymoon so you can finally enjoy just being married—and being checklist free.

write a review While it’s still fresh in your mind, take the time to review all of the wedding pros who worked hard to make your vision come together. We’re talking everyone from your planner, florist, venue and photographer down to your hairstylist, DJ or band, and even the crafty designer who made your ring pillow. You know by now how important reviews are to the overall planning process—your experience can help other to-be-weds along their planning journey. So take the time to offer these newly engaged couples insight and reward all your fabulous vendors by leaving reviews.

clean and store your gown Have your dress dry-cleaned within six months of your wedding. And we say the sooner, the better! (It’s a cinch with bridal gown preservation kits like the one from Prestige Preservation, who sends you a kit with everything you need to securely ship your wedding dress.) It’s super important to use a service that specifically specializes in wedding dresses so they use the right solvents. Make sure they stuff it with acidfree tissue, avoid using any metal pins or buckles, and store it in a box. Once it’s back home with you, store it in a cool, dry place, like an out-of-the-way closet, and avoid the damp, musty basement.

send thank-you notes You should plan to mail your thank-you notes within two months of your wedding. Give yourself a head start by writing notes as soon as gifts arrive. Try setting a goal, like 10 a night, and crank them out during commercial breaks while watching The Bachelor or while dinner’s in the oven. Divvy up the project with your spouse and the job will be half as daunting. But no matter who writes the actual notes, you should both sign each one. Save yourself a hand cramp by printing out addresses and return address labels—it’ll look neater.

tackle registry returns Stop trying to convince yourself that two blenders may actually come in handy someday—just bite the bullet and return any registry items within two months of your wedding date. While stores are likely to be lenient with the couples who’ve registered with them, each store will have a different return policy, so research which one will accept what, and for how long.

change your name (if you’ve decided to!) If you do choose to change your name, it’s a good idea to change all of your IDs within 90 days of getting married. This includes your driver’s license, passport, Social Security card and credit cards. Don’t know where to begin? Save some time and effort with HitchSwitch.com.

share your new address If your marriage involved a move, it’s perfectly fine to send a mass email or an e-card with your new address. Or go the traditional route: Buy store-bought moving announcements and slip them in with your thank-you note. Websites like TinyPrints .com have cute styles to choose from that you can customize, and they’ll usually be ready within a few business days.

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order your wedding photos On your first anniversary, wouldn’t you love to open a bottle of bubbly, watch your wedding video and flip through your photo album? Don’t put off your photo selection and video requests too long! Most photographers and videographers issue a standard contract that gives you six months to a year to select album photos and edit footage for your video. If you don’t, you may have to pay extra.

sort out finances You likely had the “money talk” long before you decided to say “I do,” but now’s the time to merge accounts if you choose to. If so, head to the bank to fill out the necessary paperwork and get new debit cards and checks made.

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Time to check off a new (married) box on your tax forms. Now that you and your spouse are a legal unit, you need to decide whether you’re going to file together or continue to file separately (joint filing isn’t something mandated by law, though it’s generally recommended). Before deciding, consult your accountant to see what he or she advises for the two of you. Make sure to do this ASAP!

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settle on an insurance plan Most newlyweds switch their spouse to their beneficiary on work and life insurance docs. Call your insurance company and talk with your HR department to get these forms. Think about whose health insurance plan you’ll use by comparing the cost and treatment options. If you’re the one making the switch, make sure the doctors you like are on the new plan.

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let the planning begin! Here’s what to do, when, on your way to the altar.

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Think about when and where you’d like to have your wedding (the question everyone will ask about 20 minutes after you get engaged).

Plan the ceremony with your officiant; it’s the reason you’re having this party, so don’t wait too long. Discuss religious requirements, like premarital counseling.

Nail down a budget and go to TheKnot .com/budget. We’ll help you figure out how much you should spend on flowers, stationery and your day-of looks.

Have engagement photos taken so you can get comfortable with your photographer.

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Research and book ceremony and reception locations. This is your first big decision. Book any pros you just have to have, like a band or wedding planner, especially if you live in a competitive market.

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DATE: ______ /______ /_____

Find a stationer and order your savethe-dates. This is really happening!

Reserve hotel room blocks. Book them on HiSkipper.com/weddings/TheKnot. Decide whom you want to officiate your ceremony and book him or her. Create a “look fab” plan, including facials, teeth whitening and haircuts. Start your wedding website to keep guests in the know. Include important info—such as hotel room blocks and transportation options—and some fun details too. Create a free customizable one at TheKnot.com/pwp.

Choose the formalwear and give groomsmen instructions about what to wear.

Propose to your bridesmaids and groomsmen to see if they’re up for being in your wedding party. Book your photographer, florist, musicians, cake baker and other pros. If there’s no in-house caterer, interview candidates and select one. Send out your save-the-dates.

Start searching for the dress. Get the ring appraised and then insured ASAP. (Trust us—this is one to-do you don’t want to delay.)

Book your honeymoon. Thinking about Hawaii? Europe? Check out our fave trips at TheKnot.com/honeymoons.

Register at TheKnot.com/registry, and then put the links on your wedding website. Order the gown and veil and schedule fittings for six weeks and one to two weeks before the wedding. Choose the bridesmaid dresses and have bridesmaids order them.

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Iron out the rehearsal dinner details, like the time and location. Order invitations and thank-you notes. Reserve venues for the welcome party, after-party and next-day brunch. Book a day-of coordinator (if you don’t have a full-service planner and a day-of planner isn’t included with your venue). Schedule beauty trials and book hairstylists and makeup artists. Buy any special lingerie. Purchase wedding insurance (if you’re planning on getting it). >>

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DATE: ______ /______ /______

Finalize your flower proposal with your florist. Will you go with roses or ranunculus, gerbera daisies or gardenias? Address your invitations or hand them off to your calligrapher. Finalize the rental list (tables, chairs) with the caterer or rental company.

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Mail your wedding invitations at the six- to eight-week mark. RSVPs should be due one month before the wedding. Work on your ceremony vows, especially if you’re writing them yourselves.

Buy wedding day accessories. Think: shoes, purse and jewelry.

Purchase presents for your parents, attendants and each other (you deserve it after all this planning).

Schedule dance lessons (worth it if your first dance is already stressing you out).

Order or start making your ceremony programs.

Complete your cake order—and order the groom’s cake, if you’re having one.

Buy your guest book, a nice pen and any supplies you’ll need for your escort card display.

Purchase or rent ceremony decorations, like an aisle runner or program basket.

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Compile a must-take photo list for your shooter. Keep it under a dozen so you get the shots you really want. Check off your “something old, new, borrowed and blue.” Put together a day-of emergency kit (bandages, deodorant, fashion tape, concealer).

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Confirm your hotel room blocks.

Buy wedding rings—yes, it’s totally normal to freak out (in a good way) in the store.

Finish assembling ceremony programs or pick them up from your stationer or printer.

Order wedding favors—go to TheKnotShop.com.

Put together welcome baskets for out-of-town guests.

Arrange day-of transportation for yourselves and the wedding party.

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Have a blast at your shower and bachelor or bachelorette party. Finalize your playlist with your band or DJ. Figure out how to get a local marriage license—you need one to make it legit.

Go to the first dress fitting— bring shoes and undergarments.

Write thank-you notes for gifts as they arrive (you’ll thank us later).

Finalize the menu with your caterer.

Finalize your ceremony with your officiant.

Create a timeline for the weekend and share it with your attendants, planner and photographer.

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DATE: ______ /______ /______

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Missing RSVPs? Follow up now. Once you’ve got your final head count, share it with the caterer, cake baker and site manager. Give your caterer the final seating chart (and have a glass of bubbly to celebrate finishing this puzzle). Pass on requests from your pros, like a table for the DJ, to the site manager.

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Pack an overnight bag for the wedding night (include outfits for any day-after events, like a good-bye brunch). Leave a copy of your honeymoon itinerary with your family and other important people, like your pet sitter. Steam the dress or suit if wrinkled. Touch base with the ceremony and reception sites one more time to go over the schedule and any important details.

day of DATE: ______ /______ /______

Eat breakfast. You may forget to eat later— even if that never happens to you.

Plan the processional/recessional. Give gifts to your parents and each other. Confirm last-minute details, like flower and cake deliveries and when you’re meeting your photographer. Deliver welcome bags to out-of-town guests’ hotels (the staff will usually hand them out at check-in).

Go to the last dress fitting (and get butterflies thinking about the next time the gown will be worn).

postwedding to-dos DATE: ______ /______ /______

Confirm all final payment amounts, details and deliveries with your pros. Double-check the day-of schedule and contact list; distribute to wedding party, parents and pros. Write your toasts. Pick up your marriage license (the most fun you can have at a government office). Give a “must-play” or “don’t-play” song list to the DJ or bandleader. Include your first, father-daughter and mother-son dances. Get a final hair trim and color touch-up. Arrange transportation for out-of-town guests who aren’t renting cars. Give tips for your pros to an attendant or planner to distribute.

1 day before

Freeze the top layer of your cake (you’ll be shocked that it’s still pretty tasty on your one-year anniversary). Have your dress and formalwear cleaned and/or preserved and return any rentals.

DATE: ______ /______ /______

Get a mani and pedi. Bring all ceremony accessories, like the unity candle, to the site. Give the marriage license to your officiant (this is one to-do you definitely don’t want to forget). Rehearse the ceremony and have dinner. Give your attendants their presents. And for goodness’ sake, get some rest. You’re the stars of the show tomorrow, remember?

Send your pros thank-you notes and submit online reviews at TheKnot.com/marketplace.

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Print or write your escort cards or send them to your calligrapher.

Hand off your wedding rings to the best man. Have him hold the officiant’s fee to deliver after the ceremony.

Thank your attendants for standing by you on the day—and during planning. Finish up thank-you notes for gifts. Changing your name? Streamline the entire process by going to HitchSwitch.com/TheKnot. Get more planning tips and to-dos at TheKnot.com/checklist

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Check out these new services and venues for New Jersey couples.

doco the donut & coffee company

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This event rentals company specializing in vintage-inspired furniture and dĂŠcor opened a 2,000-square-foot warehouse in Red Bank. Couples can peruse its collection of Victorian-style love seats, unique upholstery and antique suitcases online, or make an appointment to see the massive inventory in person. Plus, the team offers styling services so you can envision the final look before committing.

Set to open in June 2017 after a complete restoration, the Tudor-style Mansion at Natirar, built in 1912, will host weddings in dedicated outdoor and indoor spaces, including a newly designed ballroom (fits 225). Its culinary team will customize a menu for your day using ingredients grown on the Somerset Hills property and honey from its four active beehives.

Think outside of the cupcake display and serve homemade doughnuts from DOCO, a Farmingdale-based bakery known for its out-of-the-box flavors like maple bacon and French toast. For weddings, arrange the confections into a pull-apart cake, and for Rutgers grads, check out its special edition R doughnuts.

sterlingbrook farm STERLINGBROOKFARMEVENTS.COM

The newly opened Sterlingbrook Farm, located in the heart of Hunterdon County, offers 175 acres of pastoral beauty for rustic-style weddings. Originally a racing stable, the event space features wood beams perfect for hanging florals, natural light and plenty of space for 100 guests.

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Looking to hire a food truck (or two) for your wedding feast? Head to the NJFTA’s website for a complete list of food trucks in the state, and reach out for a curated list available on your date.

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The newly reimagined Park Chateau Estate in East Brunswick features 17th-century style architecture, a charming on-site chapel, ceremonyready gardens, a ballroom and great views from the flagstone patio.

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GUIDELINES FOR OBTAINING A MARRIAGE LICENSE In New Jersey, the legal age for marriage is 18. Those ages 16 or 17 must have parental consent, or parents may have to be present when the couple applies. Couples over the age of 18 must apply for the license together with an adult witness who knows both parties. Applications must be made at the municipal office of the New Jersey township where the bride lives. If neither the bride nor the groom is a resident, applications must be made where the marriage will take place. There is a 72-hour waiting period, and licenses are valid for 30 days in New Jersey only. The fee is $28; payment methods vary. Proof of age and residency is required; blood tests are not. If previously married, a divorce decree or death certificate is sometimes required. To find your municipal office, contact any office below (all are open Monday through Friday, unless otherwise noted). Call ahead for details.

WHERE TO APPLY Belvidere

Town Hall–Municipality 691 Water St. Belvidere, NJ 07823 (908) 475-5331 9 a.m.–4:30 p.m.

Elizabeth

Freehold

Elmwood Park

Hamilton

Bridgeton

Vital Statistics 50 Winfield Scott Plz., Rm. G12 Elizabeth, NJ 07201 (908) 820-4082 8 a.m.–3 p.m.

Camden

Health Department 182 Market St. Elmwood Park, NJ 07407 (201) 796-1457 8:30 a.m.–4:30 p.m.

Office of the Registrar 181 E. Commerce St., Rm. 102 Bridgeton, NJ 08302 (856) 455-3230 x213 8:30 a.m.–3:45 p.m. Vital Statistics 520 Market St., Rm. 103 Camden, NJ 08101 (856) 757-7085 8:30 a.m.–3:30 p.m.

Dover Township

Office of the Registrar 33 Washington St., Fl. 1 Toms River, NJ 08753 (732) 341-1000 8:30 a.m.–12, 1–3:45 p.m.

Flemington

Borough Clerk 38 Park Ave. Flemington, NJ 08822 (908) 782-8840 8:30 a.m.–4:30 p.m.

Registrar’s Office 1 Municipal Plz. Freehold, NJ 07728 (732) 294-2010 7:30 a.m.–12, 2:30–4 p.m., M–Th.; 7:30 a.m.–12, F Vital Statistics 2100 Greenwood Ave. Hamilton, NJ 08650 (609) 890-3826 8:30 a.m.–4:30 p.m.

Jersey City

City Clerk 280 Grove St. Jersey City, NJ 07302 (201) 547-5150 8:30 a.m.–12

Morristown

Vital Statistics 200 South St. Morristown, NJ 07960 (973) 292-6638 9 a.m.–3 p.m.

Mount Holly

Registrar of Vital Statistics 23 Washington St., Fl. 3 Mount Holly, NJ 08060 (609) 845-1114 9 a.m.–3 p.m., M–W, F

Newark

City Clerk 920 Broad St. Newark, NJ 07102 (973) 733-3825 8:30 a.m.–4 p.m.

New Brunswick

Health Department 78 Bayard St. New Brunswick, NJ 08901 (732) 745-5015 8:30 a.m.–4:30 p.m.

Newton

Trenton

Paterson

Woodbury

Municipal Clerk 39 Trinity St. Newton, NJ 07860 (973) 383-3523 8:30 a.m.–4:30 p.m. Division of Health 176 Broadway Paterson, NJ 07505 (973) 321-1277 8:30 a.m.–4:15 p.m.

Salem

City Clerk 17 New Market St. Salem, NJ 08079 (856) 935-0373 8:30 a.m.–4:30 p.m.

Somerville

Administration Dept. 25 West End Ave. Somerville, NJ 08876 (908) 725-2300 9 a.m.–4 p.m. (by appointment only)

Office of Vital Statistics 319 E. State St. Trenton, NJ 08608 (609) 989-3236 8:30 a.m.–4 p.m. Vital Statistics 33 Delaware St. Woodbury, NJ 08096 (856) 845-1300 9 a.m.–3 p.m, T only (by appointment only)

Although The Knot strives to provide accurate information, we assume no responsibility for changes since publication. Please confirm all details with your local licensing bureau and inform us of updates or errors at licenseinfo@theknot.com.

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make it known New Jersey Publications

GUIDELINES FOR ANNOUNCING YOUR WEDDING IN THE LOCAL PAPERS Photographs may be submitted to accompany the announcement; however, instant photos or color copies are not acceptable. In some instances, photographs may be returned if a self-addressed stamped envelope is included with the announcement. Call to get all of the details before submitting. GUIDELINES/ RESTRICTIONS

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Must submit info within one year of the wedding date. It will be published on a space-available basis.

Form: Yes; available online.

Packages start at $100.

(732) 565-7292 Attn: Weddings 92 E. Main St., Ste. 202 Somerville, NJ 08876

Must submit info as soon as possible after the wedding.

Form: Yes

Basic fee is $60.

Daily Record

(973) 428-6601 Attn: Weddings 800 Jefferson Rd. Parsippany, NJ 07054

Submit info at noon on the Wednesday prior to Sunday publication.

Form: Yes; available online.

Cost is $1.25 per line.

The Star-Ledger

(973) 392-5880 Attn: Classified Dept.– Celebrations 1 Star-Ledger Plz. Newark, NJ 07102

There are no time constraints. It will be published on a space-available basis.

Form: Yes; available online.

Call for pricing.

The New Jersey Herald

(973) 383-1500 2 Spring St. Newton, NJ 07860

Announcements should be submitted within 60 days of the wedding date.

Form: Yes; available online.

There is no charge for this service.

The Record

(973) 569-7487 Attn: Celebrations 1 Garret Mountain Plz. Woodland Park, NJ 07424

Submit info Thursday at noon prior to the desired Sunday publication.

Form: No

Fees vary. Call for details.

Southern Ocean County

(609) 597-3211 Attn: Weddings & Engagements 345 E. Bay Ave. Manahawkin, NJ 08050

Announcements should be submitted within three months of the wedding date.

Form: Yes; email to lreddington@njpressmedia.com.

There is no charge for this service.

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(732) 643-4023 Attn: Weddings PO Box 1550 Neptune, NJ 07754

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TheAshfordEstate.com Surrounded by hundreds of acres of farmland, The Ashford Estate exudes the atmosphere of a European destination wedding. Stunning views of sparkling fountains, a floating gazebo and endless gardens are harmoniously paired with outstanding food and service to compliment the luxurious accommodations. capacity 275 | price $$$

above

1100 South Ave. at Lois Lane, Staten Island, NY (718) 477-2400 EXT. 5 | info@nicotraonline.com EventAbove.com Above, a sophisticated rooftop wedding venue, showcases panoramic NYC skyline views from its metropolitan ballroom’s 20-foot floor-to-ceiling windows and open-air terrace with heated cabanas and fire pits. The 10-story hotel tower has modern bridal suites with a stylist bar and weekend wedding packages. capacity 300 | price $$$

adelphia

1750 Clements Bridge Rd., Deptford, NJ (856) 845-8200 AdelphiaWeddings.com It’s all about the details. Once your plans begin, our experienced banquet staff will assist you in making all the right decisions. We offer such amenities as customized linen selections and cake style. Because of our in-house capabilities you won’t require any off-site suppliers. capacity 400 | price $$$

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aloft mount laurel

558 Fellowship Road, Mount Laurel, NJ (856) 234-1880 AloftMountLaurel.com Let us help you create your wow moment with our allinclusive wedding packages that are customizable to fit your signature taste and your savvy budget. capacity 400 | price $$

annapolis and the chesapeake bay

(410) 280-0445 | WeddingsInAnnapolis.com Dreaming of a Chesapeake Bay destination wedding? Experience a charming, historic city or a lush countryside for a waterfront wedding, or fulfill your dream of a being married on a boat on the Bay. Call our team to “Create Your Moment” for a truly memorable wedding experience by the Bay.

the architects golf club

700 Stryker Road, Lopatcong, NJ (908) 213-3080 | TheArchitectsClub.com We attend to every detail to ensure you enjoy your day as much as your guests. Expect the finest of service at every turn, as yours is the only wedding for the day. The cuisine is nothing short of exceptional and the setting, both indoor and outdoor, is breathtaking. capacity 200 | price $$$

ashford estate

637 Province Line Rd., Allentown, NJ (609) 494-9100 weddings@weddingsofdistinctionnj.com

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atlantis ballroom

290 Rte. 37 East, Toms River, NJ (732) 731-8000 info.dtr@hotelsunlimited.com AtlantisBallroom.com The Atlantis Ballroom at the new Days Hotel of Toms River features outdoor ceremony space, a large dance floor and a veranda for your over-the-top cocktail hour. Beaches and boardwalks are only 10 minutes away. Pick from dozens of options to personalize for any budget. Our expert team makes planning fun. capacity 225 | price $

auletto caterers

1849 Cooper Street, Almonesson, NJ (856) 227-3800 info@auletto.com Auletto.com Located on Almonesson Lake, Auletto Caterers has a natural setting for garden ceremonies and wedding portraits. Newly renovated banquet rooms seat 65-450 guests with large dance floors. Family-owned and operated since 1945, we take pride in the quality standards we uphold. capacity 450 | price $$$

avenue

23 Ocean Ave., Long Branch, NJ (732) 759-2900 LeClubAvenue.com With its panoramic ocean views and sophisticated ambiance, Avenue is the perfect setting for the wedding of your dreams. Ceremonies can be held on the roof deck or the beach. Our exceptional value, service and award-winning cuisine let you truly enjoy your special day. capacity 300 | price $$

basking ridge country club catering

185 Madisonville Road, Basking Ridge, NJ (908) 953-8092 BaskingRidgeCatering.com The Basking Ridge Country Club is the perfect place to create everlasting moments and cherished memories. Our sophisticated atmosphere and sweeping views make a breathtaking setting for any ceremony or wedding reception. Our elegant ballroom is newly renovated and under Delicious Heights management. capacity 225 | price $$

battleground country club

1 Covenhoven Road, Manalapan, NJ (855) NJ-BRIDE BattlegroundCC.com Your special day deserves a one-of-a-kind setting, with beautiful vistas and immaculate service. Whether you’re envisioning an intimate gathering at our gazebo or a magical gala affair in our Grande Ballroom, your wedding party and guests will experience

Battleground’s professional service, creative cuisine and personalized care. capacity 400 | price $$$

bello giorno banquet hall

Belvidere, NJ (908) 475-0084 | (908) 310-0797 BelloGiornoCatering.com Bello Giorno Banquet Hall specializes in intimate riverside weddings. Our grounds surround you with the experience of visiting an Italian villa. We cater to only one wedding at a time. Enjoy our beautiful gardens, natural beauty and superior food. capacity 150 | price $$$

berkeley oceanfront hotel

1401 Ocean Avenue, Asbury Park, NJ (732) 776-6700 | BerkeleyHotelNJ.com As historic Asbury Park’s premier hotel, The Berkeley Oceanfront Hotel enjoys a prime location along the New Jersey shoreline just steps from the famed boardwalk. Classically elegant ballrooms are the backdrop to your most vivid imagination when creating the event of your dreams. capacity 400 | price $$$

berkeley plaza

735 Springfield Ave., Berkeley Heights, NJ (908) 464-0300 | info@berkeleyplaza.com BerkeleyPlaza.com Nestled in the Watchung Mountains, The Berkeley Plaza will create the ideal ambiance to fulfill all your dreams. capacity 300 | price $$

the bethwood

38 Lackawanna Avenue, Totowa, NJ (973) 256-8316 | TheBethwood.com New Jersey’s most celebrated wedding specialist— where wedding dreams become dream weddings. Fine, elegant catering for more than 48 years. Everything is custom designed with a level of service befitting royalty. A perfect wedding for every budget. capacity 400+ | price $$

biagio’s & the terrace

299 Paramus Rd., Paramus, NJ (201) 652-0201 Biagios.com From the most intimate dinner to the most lavish wedding, we will tailor a party just for you. From weddings to rehearsal dinners, anniversary parties to showers, we do it all. We do it right, one wedding at a time. capacity 500+ | price $$

bonnet island estate

2400 E. Bay Ave., Bonnet Island, NJ (609) 494-9100 weddings@weddingsofdistinctionnj.com BonnetIslandEstate.com Our elegantly appointed reception rooms, majestic banquet hall and private guest suites emulate sophistication and luxury. Enjoy waterfront surroundings complete with a quaint boathouse chapel—an intimate setting to exchange vows with the one you love. capacity 250 | price $$$

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braddock’s

39 S. Main Street, Medford, NJ Braddocks.com Quaint and picturesque, Braddock’s offers award winning cuisine, exemplary service, magnificent décor and a captivating ambiance. With several private dining rooms and two elegant banquet halls that host 12 to 200 guests, Braddock’s is the place to create a lasting memory. capacity 200 | price $$

the bradford estate

1910 Marne Highway, Hainesport, NJ (609) 261-8778 | bradfordestate@clarkslanding.com TheBradfordEstate.com The stunning estate debuts this season with gorgeous new bridal and groom suites, and the elegantly appointed Estate Room, featuring a display kitchen and wrap-around covered patio. The Grand Ballroom offers breathtaking views of our manicured grounds, picturesque ceremony space and Rancocas Creek. capacity 200+ | price $$

branches catering

123 Monmouth Road (Route 71N), West Long Branch, NJ (732) 542-5050 BranchesCatering.com Two venues—one caterer. Branches in West Long Branch offers beach ceremonies, a beautiful waterfall garden and pricing starting at $75 per person, accommodating up to 350 guests. Laurita Winery in New Egypt offers a rustic vineyard escape accommodating up to 200 guests. We specialize in off-site events. Se habla Español.

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breakers on the ocean

1507 Ocean Avenue, Spring Lake, NJ (732) 449-7700 | sales@breakershotel.com BreakersHotel.com The Breakers offers sweeping ocean views, professional attentive service, luxury accommodations and the very finest cuisine. For ambiance and charm that will impress your guests and create lasting memories, choose The Breakers on the Ocean­—luxury at the Jersey Shore. capacity 220 | price $$

the breakwaters at the dunes

8600 Landis Avenue, Sea Isle City, NJ (609) 263-3627 BreakwatersSeaIsle.com Host your cocktail hour on the patio, and dance the night away in our Breakwaters Ballroom. Sip signature cocktails, taste fresh, local-inspired cuisine and, when the night ends, head upstairs to our luxurious rental accommodations in The Dunes. Our versatile venue is sure to make your wedding memorable. capacity 165 | price $$

bridgewater manor

1251 Route 202/206, Bridgewater, NJ (908) 658-3000 BridgewaterManor.com Three magnificent ballrooms, two story cathedral atrium and grand double-winding staircase. A garden terrace with contemporary gazebo. Inlaid stone walkways

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brigalias

396 Williamstown Road, Winslow, NJ (856) 629-4545 Brigalias.com Brigalias is a full-service, family-run catering facility with over 40 years of experience. The elegant, romantic atmosphere combined with magnificent grounds makes Brigalias a perfect choice for your special day. Your wedding is once in a lifetime; our passion and dedication will make it memorable. capacity 300+ | price $$$

brooklake country club

139 Brooklake Road, Florham Park, NJ (973) 377-2235 BrooklakeCC.com/catering You’ll find everything you ever dreamed of for your wedding at Brooklake. We offer breathtaking views, a dazzling ballroom that accommodates 350 guests, cherry wood dance floor, outdoor patio and gazebo plus the extraordinary cuisine and services you’d expect from one of the area’s finest Country Clubs. capacity 350 | price $$$

the brookside banquets

41 Broughton Avenue, Bloomfield, NJ (973) 748-6590 TheBrooksideBanquets.com Under new ownership, The Essex Manor has recently been transformed. With a blend of modern beauty, exceptional cuisine and professional staff, we announce our reinvention as The Brookside Banquets. Combining contemporary style with refined elegance, it promises to set the new standard for an inspired event. capacity 300+ | price $$

buona sera catering

Ocean Township and Asbury Park (732) 674-6400 BuonaSeraCatering.com Providing unrivaled service and catering menus for every budget, we’re dedicated to making sure your wedding day—and the months leading up to it—are as stress-free as possible, putting our 25 years of experience to work for you. We treat every event as if it’s the most important one we’ll ever host. capacity 400+ | price $$

the carriage house

25 South Pitney Road, Galloway, NJ (609) 748-2400 | The-CarriageHouse.com We’ve set the stage for every chapter of your wedding day so it unfolds at a magical pace—with special attention to the little things, such as reception rooms for your guests as they arrive, complete with fullservice bars, fireplaces and French doors that lead out onto the front porch. capacity 400+ | price $$

casa bianca

5266 Berkshire Valley Road, Oak Ridge, NJ (973) 697-9704

CasaBiancaBanquets.com Casa Bianca brings wedding dreams to life, whether your desire is a gala reception, a romantic dinner banquet or an intimate cocktail party with your closest friends and family. At Casa Bianca, ensuring that your wedding surpasses your every expectation is our passion. capacity 300 | price $$

chart house restaurant

Lincoln Harbor, Pier D-T, Weehawken, NJ (201) 348-6401 Chart-House.com Providing a magnificent view of the Manhattan skyline and beautifully remodeled private event spaces, Chart House offers the ideal ambiance for your special day. Let us indulge you and your guests with the famous cuisine and impeccable service that only Chart House offers. capacity 400 | price $$$

chauncey hotel, laurie house & garden pavilion

One Chauncey Road, Princeton, NJ (609) 921-3600 Chauncey.com Our 370 acres of serene beauty showcase beautiful grounds, indoor and lakeside receptions, a garden pavilion featuring a beautiful white pleated tent, and the finest cuisine and service—plus luxury hotel and B&B accommodations. Call us today for a consultation! capacity 200 | price $$$

clarks landing yacht club

847 Arnold Avenue, Point Pleasant, NJ (732) 899-5559 | boatinfonj@clarkslanding.com ClarksLandingCaterers.com Stunning sunsets, panoramic views of the Manasquan River and majestic yachts all serve to make Clarks Landing Yacht Club one of the most magnificent venues in New Jersey. Add five-star cuisine, luxurious surroundings and Ritz-Carlton service and make it the very best choice for your wedding at the Jersey shore! capacity 250 | price $$$

clarks landing yacht club, delran

(856) 461-2700 | yachtclub@clarkslanding.com TheYachtClubCaterers.com Breathtaking sunsets, beautifully manicured gardens and a picturesque waterfront view come to life at Clarks Landing Yacht Club. You can have it all: surroundings, cuisine and expert service. Call for your private visit. capacity 200 | price $$

congress hall

200 Congress Place, Cape May, NJ (609) 884-6553 Weddings.CapeResorts.com Congress Hall, a seaside hotel overlooking the Atlantic, offers over 100 guestrooms, retail shops, a day spa, a restaurant, lounge and nightclub, and a grand ballroom that can accommodate up to 250 guests. Ask about our Winter Wedding Special. capacity 250 | price $$$

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(609) 884-8000 CapeMayBeachWedding.com Our traditional clubhouse, gorgeous sunset views and exceptional cuisine lend a memorable, distinctive touch to any gathering. Relax around our beautiful fire pit before and after! capacity 200 | price $$$

crowne plaza philadelphia cherry hill

2349 West Marlton Pike, Cherry Hill, NJ (856) 382-6120 CherryHillWeddings.com Whether you prefer an intimate gathering or a formal celebration, our venue provides nothing less than superior service. The Riverside Pavilion illuminates romance with high, draped ceilings and elegant chandeliers. For larger events, celebrate in our luxurious Grand Ballroom. capacity 800 | price $$

crystal ballroom at the radisson freehold

Freehold, NJ (732) 780-3405 | CrystalBallroomNJ.com The Knot Best of Weddings 2017 Pick. Crystal Ballroom at the Radisson Freehold is where personal service, delectable cuisine and a breathtaking ballroom come together for your day. New menus, ceiling lighting, outdoor ceremonies and cocktail space, and crystal chandeliers create a perfect setting. capacity 300 | price $$$

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david’s country inn

314 Main Street, Hackettstown, NJ (908) 850-0224 | DavidsCountryInn.com At David’s Country Inn, we only cater to one wedding per day, so this historical mansion is exclusively for you and your guests. David’s has four burning fireplaces and exquisite antiques, as well as a spacious two-story ballroom—all of this with a modern touch of elegance! capacity 200 | price $$$

daymark

Barnegat Light, NJ (609) 494-2100 | DaymarkLBI.com Daymark is just steps away from the Barnegat Lighthouse in Long Beach Island. Have your ceremony at one of the most visited attractions in Barnegat Light, and walk to Daymark for your reception. We feature fresh, local seafood; farms; and creative cocktails with endless views of the Barnegat Bay. capacity 250 | price $$$

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eagle oaks golf & country club

20 Shore Oaks Drive, Farmingdale, NJ (732) 938-9696 | hperri@eagleoaksgolf.com EagleOaksGolf.com/banquets The Southern Colonial clubhouse has the warmth, beauty and elegance befitting one of New Jersey’s finest clubs—and your special day. Magnificent golf views, an enchanting wedding garden, an expansive banquet room, four luxurious guest suites and exquisite service that only a private club offers. capacity 500+ | price $$$

eagle ridge golf club

2 Augusta Blvd., Lakewood, NJ (732) 901-4900 donna@eagleridgegolf.com EagleRidgeGolf.com Eagle Ridge Golf Club features the beautifully appointed Grande View Ballroom, three fireplaces, a cocktail reception area, a full-service bar and an outdoor terrace with breathtaking panoramic views of the golf course. Eagle Ridge specializes in perfection and offers wedding packages to suit your individual taste and budget. capacity 300 | price $$

edgewood country club

449 Rivervale Road, River Vale, NJ (201) 666-1200 info@edgewoodnj.com EdgewoodNJ.com Edgewood is the perfect location for your dream wedding. Our picturesque property hosts indoor and outdoor ceremony capabilities and receptions from 50300 guests. Our experienced staff and special touches will make your day unforgettable! capacity 300 | price $$$

the estate at farrington lake

16 Patrick Street, East Brunswick, NJ (732) 297-1500 TheEstateNJ.com You’ve just discovered the hidden jewel in the heart of Middlesex County. This gorgeous 22-acre property serves as the perfect setting for weddings, receptions, banquets and more—while our experienced and friendly staff handles every detail to ensure you and your guests have an unforgettable experience. capacity 300 | price $$$

falco’s catering

1110 Valley Rd., Ocean, NJ (732) 660-9000 FalcosCatering.com Established in 1995, Falco’s Catering is rapidly becoming one of the most renowned wedding caterers in New Jersey. Falco’s Catering team of chefs and event

planning specialists have the talent and dedication to make your event nothing short of spectacular!

the flanders hotel

719 East 11th Street, Ocean City, NJ (609) 399-1000 EXT. 3 | TheFlandersHotel.com The Flanders Hotel, located on the Ocean City Boardwalk, is one of New Jersey’s most historic and elegant wedding reception venues. The ornate sophistication of our ballrooms is reminiscent of the grandeur of the early 1900s with all of the modern amenities of today. capacity 400+ | price $$

the grand hotel cape may

1045 Beach Avenue, Cape May, NJ (609) 884-5611 EXT. 519 GrandCapeMay.com The oceanfront Grand Hotel is the perfect venue for a seaside wedding reception. Our Penthouse Ballroom features views of beaches, the Atlantic Ocean and Cape May’s Victorian splendor. Our certified wedding coordinator and catering staff stand ready to ensure your wedding day dreams are realized...in Grand style. capacity 350 | price $$$

grand marquis

1550 US 9, Old Bridge, NJ (732) 679-5700 GrandMarquisCaterers.com The Grand Marquis creates weddings perfect in every detail with exquisite cuisine, impeccable service, elegant luxury and personal attention, customized to each bride. Let the Grand Marquis transform your dream into reality! capacity 400+ | price $$

the grand summit hotel

570 Springfield Avenue, Summit, NJ (908) 273-3000 GrandSummit.com The Grand Summit Hotel offers an intimate setting that combines the look and feel of timeless European elegance with the amenities that today’s brides have come to expect. Experience your wedding dream in the hands of seasoned professionals.

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700 State Hwy. 71, Spring Lake, NJ (732) 449-3666 | info@doolansshoreclub.com DoolansShoreClub.com Located only minutes from the beach, Doolan’s Shore Club just completed a million dollar refurbishing project, giving the lobby, ballrooms and guest rooms a stunning new contemporary look. A skylight atrium provides the perfect backdrop for ceremonies and cocktail hours.

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305 West Northfield Road, Livingston, NJ (973) 992-8100 | info@crystalplaza.com CrystalPlaza.com Have your wedding, social or business affair at the magnificent, turn-of-the-century Crystal Plaza mansion. The Janoff family has upheld the spirit of the period’s architecture by restoring the mansion’s original grace and splendor. Among enchanting gardens and beneath sparkling chandeliers, there is simply no setting more romantic.

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the graycliff

122 Moonachie Avenue, Moonachie, NJ (201) 939-9233 banquetdepartment@thegraycliff.com TheGraycliff.com The Graycliff offers New York City style at New Jersey prices. Our culinary experts will handle every detail of your special occasion. From custom menus and ice carvings to our award-winning Mediterranean chef and pastry delights. Let your dream come true at The Graycliff. Pricing starts at $74.95. capacity 300 | price $

greate bay country club

901 Mays Landing Road, Somers Point, NJ (609) 927-5071 EXT. 129 GreateBay.com Whether you choose a romantic beach wedding, a

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the grove

Cedar Grove, NJ (973) 239-0309 info@thegrovenj.com TheGroveNJ.com The Grove represents a truly unique expression of grand hospitality. This spectacular event venue offers magnificent architecture, elegant décor and state-ofthe-art technology. In addition, we proudly offer the finest Glatt Kosher cuisine and full off-premise catering services. capacity 400+ | price $$$$

the heldrich

Downtown New Brunswick, NJ (732) 729-4670 | TheHeldrich.com Opulent décor, spacious venues and lavish amenities ensure the wedding of your dreams. Whether you’re planning for a small group or a grand celebration for 400, you can count on our experienced team to help you create an unrivaled event and precious memories. capacity 400 | price $$

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highlawn pavilion

Eagle Rock Reservation, West Orange, NJ (973) 731-3100 | info@highlawn.com Highlawn.com Experience breathtaking panoramic views of the Manhattan skyline from Highlawn Pavilion’s historic Florentine-style structure, perched atop the over 400 acres of park and nature preserve that is Eagle Rock Reservation. Acclaimed cuisine, sophisticated service and an incomparable ambiance set the stage for an unmistakably unique and memorable day. capacity 200 | price $$$

hilton woodcliff lake

200 Tice Blvd., Woodcliff Lake, NJ (201) 391-3600 On 21 acres of beautifully landscaped grounds, Hilton Woodcliff Lake offers you unparalleled venues for weddings and receptions. Coupled with an exemplary standard of service, Hilton Woodcliff Lake both delights and excites. Make the Hilton Woodcliff Lake your destination for an unforgettable wedding experience. capacity 350+ | price $$$$

the hotel alcott

107-113 Grant Street, Cape May, NJ (609) 884-5868 | (800) 272-3004 HotelAlcott.com Enjoy the view on our breeze-kissed, second-floor veranda or relax next to the fountain in our center courtyard, surrounded by the antiques and ambience of a time gone by. The hotel has been completely restored and is ready to accommodate the most intimate to the most lavish affair. capacity 200 | price $$

hyatt regency morristown 3 Headquarters Plaza, Morristown, NJ

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(973) 647-1234 Morristown.Regency.Hyatt.com Let the wedding professionals at Hyatt Regency Morristown cater to your every need. We’ll handle every detail of your wedding. Our elegant plaza ballroom holds up to 340 guests and our junior ballroom is ideal for ceremonies. capacity 340 | price $$$

the imperia

1714 Easton Avenue, Somerset, NJ (732) 469-2522 | TheImperia.com Beautiful new upscale banquet facility, combining timeless elegance with contemporary style. Featuring 3 beautiful ballrooms, picturesque stone patio with waterfall garden, marble gazebo, exceptional cuisine, exquisite service and custom-made cakes. capacity 400+ | price $$$

indian trail club

830 Franklin Lake Road, Franklin Lakes, NJ (201) 891-4480 | IndianTrailClub.com This private country club has a welcoming, sophisticated atmosphere on a 100-acre lake. A new versatile, openair and enclosed ballroom features expansive windows, fireplaces and lake views. Our certified executive chef and his team provide the freshest, most flavorful cuisine. capacity 250 | price $$$

jumping brook

210 Jumping Brook Rd., Neptune, NJ (732) 922-8200 JumpingBrookCC.com Imagine the classic elegance of a country club setting where you can enjoy your cocktail hour on the patio overlooking the lush surrounding grounds. The panoramic views from our exquisite ballrooms are second only to the attention to detail you find at every affair. capacity 400 | price $$

krug catering at orange lawn tennis club

305 North Ridgewood Road, South Orange, NJ (800) 470-4335 | info@krugcatering.com KrugCatering.com Founded in 1880, set on 13 acres, Orange Lawn Tennis Club offers a beautiful and historic setting for your wedding. Our new Grand Ballroom is spacious and highlighted by panoramic views and 22-foot ceilings. Let Krug Catering bring your vision to life with exceptional cuisine and five-star service. capacity 325 | price $$$

lake mohawk country club

21 Boardwalk, Sparta, NJ (973) 729-6156 LakeMohawkCC.com Lake Mohawk offers tranquil beach and boardwalk ceremonies with idyllic scenic views. Our panoramic lakeside vista makes for a unique setting for your most memorable occasion. Customizing and coordinating receptions that accurately represent the newlywed couple and their family is our specialty. capacity 250 | price $$

landmark venues

(866) 683-3586 info@landmarkhospitality.com LandmarkVenues.com Our unique event spaces—The Liberty House, Stone House at Stirling Ridge, The Ryland Inn, Celebrate at Snug Harbor and Hotel du Village—have an upscale yet relaxed ambiance, where you and your guests will truly feel at home and be blown away by our exquisite cuisine.

liberty science center

222 Jersey City Boulevard, Jersey City, NJ (201) 253-1378 | specialevents@lsc.org LSC.org Whether you are planning an intimate ceremony and reception or a grand-scale celebration, we have the innovative space to host your ideal wedding! Our staff will expertly handle the coordination and logistics, and our preferred caterers will design menus to suit your budget and taste. capacity 1,200 | price $$

lucien’s manor

81 W. White Horse Pike, Berlin, NJ (856) 768-9444 LuciensManor.com On your wedding day, you’re the center of attention. Lucien’s will tend to your every wish to assure that your day is as flawless as it has been in your dreams. We’ll work with you to plan your perfect event, so on your special day, all you’ll need to do is enjoy! capacity 400+ | price $$$

the madison hotel

1 Convent Station, Morristown, NJ (973) 285-1800 | fred@themadisonhotel.com MadisonHotelWeddings.com Elegance under glass is the only way to experience your magical wedding day. The Conservatory at the Madison Hotel exceeds your highest expectations. It’s truly where personalized service, the finest and freshest cuisine, and the most elegant setting anywhere come together perfectly. capacity 350 | price $$$

mallard island yacht club

1450 E. Bay Ave., Manahawkin, NJ (609) 494-9100 weddings@weddingsofdistinctionnj.com MallardIslandYachtClub.com Mallard Island Yacht Club is a waterfront private estate on the onset of Long Beach Island. Say “I do” in the Boathouse Chapel. The venue features 10 overnight suites, a Bridal Penthouse, and a Groom’s Shack. The spectacular ballroom boasts panoramic waterfront views accommodating 265. capacity 265 | price $$$

the manor

111 Prospect Avenue, West Orange, NJ (973) 325-2060 | info@themanorrestaurant.com TheManorRestaurant.com Set among beautifully landscaped grounds, formal gardens and majestic fountains, The Manor’s sprawling architecture, exquisite banquet rooms and

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riverside weddings. Our grounds surround you with the experience of visiting an Italian villa. We cater to only one wedding at a time. Each wedding receives our personal attention, which starts at the moment you enter our gates. Enjoy our beautiful gardens, natural beauty and superior food. Intimate elegance with a personal touch. We specialize in glutenfree, vegetarian and vegan menus.

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the mansion on main street

Plaza 3000, Voorhees, NJ (856) 751-1717 | info@mainstreetmansion.com MansiononMainStreet.com South Jersey’s premier catering facility features cascading waterfalls, manicured grounds, gardens, picture-perfect gazebos, a grand spiral staircase, crystal chandeliers award-winning cuisine with impeccable service and an all-glass ceremony site with vaulted ceilings—all set in a European manor setting. capacity 400+ | price $$

maplewood country club

28 Baker Street, Maplewood, NJ (973) 762-2100 | MaplewoodCountryClub.com The professional staff will assist you to customize your affair to ensure the celebration is flawless. Acclaimed for outstanding cuisine, superb service, attention to detail and warm yet elegant ambience, we’ve maintained our long-standing reputation as one of the premier country clubs in New Jersey. capacity 250 | price $$$

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the marigold

315 Churchill Avenue, Somerset, NJ (732) 214-9095 MarigoldNJ.com Whether planning a grand wedding for hundreds or an intimate ceremony for family and friends, we can accommodate all of your wishes and bring your dream event to reality. capacity 450+ | price $$$

maritime parc

84 Audrey Zapp Drive, Jersey City, NJ (201) 413-0050 MaritimeParc.com Located in Liberty State Park, Maritime Parc offers panoramic views of downtown Manhattan, the Statue of Liberty and Ellis Island. Our unique and contemporary event spaces feature wraparound outdoor terraces and a dramatic Guggenheim-inspired staircase. capacity 350 | price $$$

mcloone’s pier house

One Ocean Ave. at Pier Village, Long Branch, NJ (732) 443-8498 | McLoones.com McLoone’s Pier House and Tim McLoone’s Supper Club offer breathtaking views, beach and indoor ceremonies, exceptional cuisine and outstanding service. At McLoone’s, we create just one wedding at a time! capacity 300 | price $$$

meadow wood manor

461 State Route 10, Randolph, NJ (973) 537-5454 MeadowWoodManor.com Meadow Wood Manor is a picturesque colonial manor, offering everything you have dreamed of for your wedding—gorgeous ballrooms, a grand staircase,

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private garden, and spacious dance floors—all creating an impeccable affair. We will provide unsurpassed personal service, giving joy and pleasure to you and your guests. capacity 282 | price $$$

merion caterers

1901 US Route 130 South, Cinnaminson, NJ (856) 829-2111 TheMerion.com The Merion is the premier catering facility in South Jersey. With marbleized columns, a magnificent hallway, a grand staircase and four ballrooms there is nothing else like it. Each ballroom has its own décor, all differing from one another to satisfy the tastes of all. capacity 400+ | price $$

merri-makers catering at the ashford estate

Allentown, NJ (732) 225-0009 MerriMakersCatering.com Surrounded by hundreds of acres of farmland, The Ashford Estate exudes the atmosphere of a European destination wedding. Stunning views of sparkling fountains, a floating gazebo and endless gardens are harmoniously paired with outstanding food and service to complement the luxurious accommodations. capacity 300 | price $$$

the mill at spring lake heights

101 Old Mill Road, Spring Lake Heights, NJ (732) 449-1800 TheMillNJ.com Enjoy panoramic lakeside views, impeccable service and exceptional cuisine when selecting the Waterview Room for up to 220. The Sienna Café seats 40 to 70 guests, offering an outdoor deck for cocktails. The tranquil lakeside garden is perfect for ceremonies. capacity 250 | price $$$

molly pitcher inn & oyster point hotel

Red Bank, NJ MPI (732) 747-2500 | OPH (732) 530-8200 MollyPitcher-OysterPoint.com Have your celebration in one of our waterfront ballrooms with picturesque views of the Navesink River. Whether you choose the chic Oyster Point Hotel or the elegant Molly Pitcher Inn, let us create the perfect setting for your ideal reception. capacity 250 | price $$$

moorestown ballroom

16 East Main Street, Moorestown, NJ (856) 235-0326 TheCommunityHouse.com The Moorestown Ballroom, located in beautiful Moorestown, is the ideal setting for your special day, offering an exclusive one-at-a-time private wedding location. Our newly renovated ballroom nestled within our historic walls offers the perfect combination of elegance and charm. capacity 200 | price $$

nanina’s in the park 540 Mill Street, Belleville, NJ

(973) 751-1230 tom@naninasinthepark.com NaninasinthePark.com A magnificent New Jersey landmark nestled in a historical park setting, Nanina’s presents more than 50 years of catering tradition with a spectacular multimillion dollar renovation. Lavishly manicured grounds, including famous cherry blossom gardens and Tuscan-villa architecture, create a picture-perfect setting you must see to believe. capacity 400 | price $$$$

nassau inn

Ten Palmer Square, Princeton, NJ (609) 921-7500 | sales@nassauinn.com NassauInn.com For your one-of-a-kind day, Nassau Inn will plan a truly special celebration tailored to you. Our catering managers work closely with you on every detail, including your overnight rooms, rehearsal dinner and post-wedding brunch. capacity 200 | price $$

ocean place resort & spa

Long Branch, NJ (732) 571-4000 OceanPlace.com Ocean Place Resort & Spa creates once-in-a-lifetime wedding experiences that range from barefoot beach vows, complete with a clam bake, bonfire and s’mores under the stars, to a grand ballroom affair with sweeping ocean views, plated dinner, dancing and fireworks. capacity 400+ | price $$$

old york country club at chesterfield 228 Old York Road, Chesterfield, NJ (609) 298-3322 OldYorkCC.com Our award-winning golf course makes the perfect backdrop for your outdoor wedding or spectacular wedding photos! Make your day special at the historic Old York Country Club, nestled in the rolling hills of Burlington County. capacity 150 | price $$

the olde mill inn

225 Route 202, Basking Ridge, NJ (908) 696-2315 | (866) 242-6176 weddings@oldemillinn.com OldeMillInn.com Each moment perfect, every detail flawless. An elegant inn and historic restaurant on 10 acres provides the perfect ambience for the wedding of your dreams. Both the Olde Mill Inn and Grain House Restaurant have beautiful lawns, gardens, and gazebos for your special day. capacity 240 | price $$$

one atlantic

1 Atlantic Ocean, 4th Level, The Playground, Atlantic City, NJ (609) 343-9902 OneAtlanticEvents.com As the premier Atlantic City wedding venue, One Atlantic works closely with each bride to determine her individual needs and fulfill her grandest dreams.

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the palisadium

700 Palisades Avenue, Cliffisde Park, NJ (201) 224-2211 | fdesk@palisadiumusa.com PalisadiumUSA.com The Palisadium is a true gem on the cliffs of the Hudson River. Conveniently located minutes from the George Washington Bridge, we offer the best view of the NYC skyline that New Jersey has to offer, and our international menu will complete your special day! Kosher catering available. capacity 400+ | price $$

park avenue club

184 Park Avenue, Florham Park, NJ (973) 301-8233 | catering@parkavenueclub.com ParkAvenueClub.com Our exclusivity allows us to host one event at a time, assuring an attention to detail that few venues can match. Enjoy innovative contemporary cuisine and exquisite service in an elegantly appointed historic setting where you and your guests will be welcomed with charm and grace. Affordable membership required. capacity 300 | price $$$

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Andover, NJ (973) 729-6161 | PeronaFarms.com/tk Perona Farms is a landmark wedding facility offering world class food and impeccable service. These lovely facilities are situated on a beautiful 50-acre farm, complete with a rustic barn built in the 1930s. Family owned and operated since 1917. capacity 300 | price $$$

peter shields inn

1301 Beach Avenue, Cape May, NJ (609) 884-9090 weddings@petershieldsinn.com PeterShieldsInn.com The Peter Shields Inn & Restaurant is one of Cape May’s most historic and iconic homes. From our beautiful ocean views to our award-winning chef and newly renovated guests rooms, this beachfront Georgian Revival mansion offers everything a couple could need to have the wedding of their dreams! capacity 120 | price $$$

pierre’s of south brunswick

582 Georges Road, Monmouth Junction, NJ (732) 329-3219 | weddings@pierresnj.com PierresNJ.com Family owned and operated, Pierre’s banquet facility offers charm and elegance in a warm atmosphere set with lavish landscaping, fountains and a custom-built gazebo nestled into a wooded backdrop. Serving the needs of their couples, one wedding at a time, makes the difference. capacity 400+ | price $$$

pleasantdale chaˆteau

757 Eagle Rock Ave., West Orange, NJ (973) 731-5600 | info@pleasantdale.com Pleasantdale.com

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Unforgettable moments await at Pleasantdale Château, one of the world’s greatest estates. Situated on 40 acres, this historic estate is a rare find. Combined with exquisite cuisine and personalized service, the exclusive, private and serene setting offers a grand yet intimate environment for a magical celebration. capacity 400 | price $$$$

the primavera regency

1080 Valley Road, Stirling, NJ (908) 580-0707 | ThePrimavera.com Relax amidst comfortable luxury and be pampered with attentive service, artful cuisine and an exquisite setting that will captivate and enchant your honored guests. We offer unlimited possibilities for designing a uniquely personalized and unforgettable experience that’s all your own. capacity 250 | price $$$

ram’s head inn

9 West White Horse Pike, Galloway, NJ (609) 652-1700 | info@ramsheadinn.com RamsHeadInn.com If diamonds are a bride’s best friend, let our four-diamond-award-winning property provide outstanding service for your wedding. In fall and winter, experience the warm ambience of glowing fireplaces in the parlor, or imagine a ceremony in the lovely spring and summer gardens. capacity 250 | price $$$

ramsey golf & country club

105 Lakeside Drive, Ramsey, NJ (201) 327-0009 | mtreible@ramseycountryclub.com RamseyCountryClub.com Ramsey Golf & Country Club is one of the most beautiful and unique wedding venues in all of New Jersey. The clubhouse is a replica of an English stone castle, and the grand ballroom offers spectacular views of the golf course and Mirror Lake. capacity 200 | price $$

the reception center at saint clement

172 Freneau Avenue, Matawan, NJ (732) 591-8180 | mark@mayercatering.com TheReceptionCenter.com A unique location with a long-standing reputation for exceptional cuisine, friendly service and attention to every detail. Newly renovated featuring a warm and spacious ballroom, separate cocktail hour with classical pianist and hand-carved ice sculpture, personalized wedding cake and formal picture garden. capacity 300 | price $$

the reeds at shelter haven

Stone Harbor, NJ (609) 368-0100 | kostrander@reedsresort.com ReedsatShelterHaven.com Your spectacular wedding begins here, where casual elegance and coastal-chic design combine in perfect harmony with the natural surroundings to create a oneof-a-kind backdrop. The Reeds offers the most exclusive seaside wedding destination at the southern New Jersey shore with unlimited possibilities. capacity 200 | price $$$

resorts casino hotel

1133 Boardwalk, Atlantic City, NJ (609) 340-6826 | emcaviney@resortsac.com MeetatResortsAC.com/catering-private-events At Resorts Casino Hotel, we vow to wow you with a spectacular event that’s just a bouquet’s throw from the beach and boardwalk. Your happily-ever-after begins here. capacity 350 | price $$

the rockleigh

26 Paris Avenue, Rockleigh, NJ TheRockleigh.net The Rockleigh estate offers beautifully manicured gardens, softly lit fountains, French gazebos, spacious cocktail areas, lavish ballrooms, and a mansion style atmosphere of old-world charm and elegance. Our unsurpassed personal service and custom designed menus give the Rockleigh its reputation for excellence, warmth, and hospitality. capacity 400+ | price $$$$

royce brook golf club

201 Hamilton Road, Hillsborough, NJ (908) 904-0499 EXT. 1913 RoyceBrook.com This is where your special occasion becomes an extraordinary event. Royce Brook’s Highlander Pavilion, with lush carpeting, custom ceiling draperies and chandeliers, makes this garden tent with attached patio, waterfall and garden area the perfect setting for your wedding to be an extraordinary occasion. capacity 250 | price $$

sea oaks golf club

99 Golf View Drive, Little Egg Harbor, NJ (609) 296-2656 seaoaksbanquets@comcast.net SeaOaksCC.com The Legacy Grand Ballroom at Sea Oaks will exceed your expectations. Exquisitely appointed banquet room for up to 300 guests. Sweeping views of the Atlantic City skyline and LBI. Intimate balcony, enclosed veranda area. Engagement parties, showers, rehearsal dinners and overnight accommodations available. capacity 300 | price $$

seaview dolce resort

401 South New York Road, Galloway, NJ (609) 652-1800 Weddings.StocktonSeaview.com When you’re making your biggest commitment, we offer you ours with a team of service professionals dedicated to your every need. At Seaview we guarantee your special occasion will create a lifetime of lasting memories. capacity 350 | price $$$

sterling ballroom at the doubletree tinton falls

Tinton Falls, NJ (732) 544-9305 SterlingBallroomEvents.com We are proud to announce that Sterling Ballroom has been rated by local brides and voted into The Knot Best of Weddings Hall of Fame. Our staff will help you create a memorable affair. With indoor and outdoor

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ceremonies, new menus, customizable options and lighting, we’ll create a perfect event. capacity 225 | price $$

sunset ballroom (chef’s international, inc.)

Channel Dr., Point Pleasant Beach, NJ (732) 899-6700 | TheSunsetBallroom.com The always extravagant and beautiful Sunset Ballroom is perfectly perched above the water overlooking the shores of the Manasquan River and is located a mere two blocks from the sandy beaches of the Atlantic Ocean. It’s a wonderful destination for you, your guests and your reception. capacity 200 | price $$

the tides estate

1245 Belmont Avenue, North Haledon, NJ (973) 423-2282 | info@thetides.com TheTides.com The Tides Estate greets you with an elegant choice of settings and service. Our employees are eager to please you, anticipate your needs and respond personally to your questions. Catering options are inventive, beautifully presented and as far from the ordinary as your imagination will allow. capacity 350 | price $$$

tomasello winery

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500 West Branch Avenue, Pine Hill, NJ (856) 248-2982 TrumpNationalPhiladelphia.com Trump National’s newly renovated ballroom is the perfect setting for any special occasion. Our elegantly decorated 43,000 square foot clubhouse is centered amid 365 acres of tranquility and offers panoramic views of the Philadelphia skyline. capacity 200 | price $$

versailles ballroom at the ramada toms river

Toms River, NJ (732) 719-1206 VersaillesCaterers.com We are proud to announce that Versailles Ballroom has been rated by local brides and voted into The Knot Best of Weddings Hall of Fame. We feature dazzling chandeliers, new menus and a veranda with fireplace for cocktail hour. Our team will help you customize the wedding of your dreams. capacity 300 | price $$

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225 River Street, Hoboken, NJ

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the washington banquet and catering

194 Fries Mill Road, Turnersville, NJ (856) 885-6145 TheWashingtonCatering.com Whether you desire an intimate affair or an elaborate event, our elegant ballrooms will accommodate your party. Our attentive staff and talented culinary team will create an unforgettable evening unique to you. capacity 350 | price $$

waterside restaurant and catering 7800 B River Road, North Bergen, NJ (201) 861-7767 info@watersiderestaurantandcatering.com WatersideRestaurantandCatering.com A special view for your special day. Waterside Restaurant—bringing New York to New Jersey. capacity 250 | price $$$

westin governor morris

2 Whippany Road, Morristown, NJ (973) 539-7300 WestinGovernorMorris.com Sophisticated ballrooms, beautiful outdoor facilities, the exclusivity of only one wedding at a time, award winning chef and the four star westin service culture all ensure a flawless, memorable wedding day. The Westin Governor Morris, this is how it should feel. capacity 400 | price $$$

the westin jersey city newport

Jersey City, NJ (201) 626-2924 westinjerseycityweddings@starwoodhotels.com WestinJerseyCityNewport.com At The Westin Jersey City Newport, we are proud to have set a new benchmark in modern luxury. Our unique location on the Hudson waterfront, exceptional amenities and superior Westin service all conspire to ensure that your event will be anything but status quo. capacity 600 | price $$$

westmount country club

728 Rifle Camp Rd., Woodland Park, NJ (973) 256-2700 karen@westmountcc.com WestmountCC.com Nestled in Garret Mountain, our cobblestone driveup with a unique underground lighting design will astonish you. Our manicured gardens and fountains create the perfect backdrop for ceremonies and photo opportunities. Our newly renovated ballrooms, delicious cuisine and superb service guarantee a flawless event. capacity 175+ | price $$

438 North Avenue, Garwood, NJ (908) 789-0808 TheWestwood.com Fabulous food, impeccable service and an elegant ­atmosphere all create the perfect wedding. Ceremonies performed in our indoor garden. When you book your wedding at The Westwood you will enjoy a free ice carving to enhance your reception. capacity 350 | price $$$

windows on the water at frogbridge

Millstone Township, NJ (609) 208-9475 WindowsontheWaterNJ.com Conveniently located in Millstone Township, Monmouth County, Windows on the Water is a truly unique setting for an unforgettable day. Our 86-acre private resort offers a spectacular lakeside setting and creative cuisine options carefully managed by our wedding planners. capacity 300 | price $$$

windows on the water at surfrider beach club

931 Ocean Avenue, Sea Bright, NJ (732) 842-8463 NJWindowsontheWater.com Upon arrival you will be greeted by unsurpassed views of the great Atlantic Ocean and The Shrewsbury River. Here you will find a 7,000-square-foot catering facility, surrounded by water on both sides, suggesting an event that is both elegant and dramatic. capacity 250 | price $$$

windsor ballroom at the holiday inn east windsor East Windsor, NJ (609) 443-8000 EXT. 600 WindsorBallroom.com We are proud to announce that Windsor Ballroom has been rated by local brides and voted into The Knot Best of Weddings Hall of Fame. Newly renovated, we offer everything you have ever dreamed of for your wedding—attentive staff, new menus, an amazing ballroom and new outdoor ceremony space.

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225 North White Horse Pike, Hammonton, NJ (800) 666-9463 TomaselloWinery.com Nestled in SJ’s Wine Country, Tomasello Winery is your dream wedding destination. We invite you to exchange your vows in our rustic chardonnay vineyards and then dance the night away in our gorgeous new ballroom! Call today to schedule your appointment to come see us!

(201) 253-2457 whobokenweddings@whotels.com WHoboken.com/weddings W Hoboken is an iconic waterfront hotel showcasing the sparkling panoramas of Manhattan. Jersey’s hottest spot is a cosmopolitan oasis power-packed with scintillating nightlife, delectable dining and chic shopping. Escape to our sensual haven and indulge in the metropolitan magic of Sinatra’s town.

capacity 220 | price $$

woodcrest country club

300 E. Evesham Road, Cherry Hill, NJ (856) 429-4300 WoodcrestCountryClub.com Discover romance at this historic South Jersey golf course. Woodcrest Country Club offers unsurpassed service, gourmet cuisine and exceptional views yearround with the sophistication of a city venue. Our event specialists are eager to make all of your wedding dreams come true. capacity 250 | price $$

woodlake country club

25 New Hampshire Avenue, Lakewood, NJ (732) 367-4500 WoodlakeCountryClub.com Our all-inclusive wedding packages include exquisite cuisine, picturesque golf course views, bridal suite, fresh floral centerpieces, chair covers with choice of bows, choice of napkin and linen color, floor-length

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THE ULTIMATE WEDDING DIRECTORY cont. ivory underlays, tiered wedding cake, valet parking and escort cards. capacity 300+ | price $$

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(973) 771-9700 | info@miltongil.com MiltonGil.com Photography is the most essential element of your wedding day. You will have it for a lifetime. We like to think of the future generations that will see your artistic and documentary style wedding photos and see the love and emotion that made this day so amazing.

montclair studio ashley landry professional makeup artist sirata beach resort

5300 Gulf Blvd., St. Pete Beach, FL (855) 794-3278 | weddings@sirata.com Sirata.com/weddings Sirata Beach Resort has on-site coordinators to assist you in planning a wedding with your toes in the sand or on a beachside deck overlooking the beautiful Gulf of Mexico. Sirata also has several wonderful ballrooms and grotto settings, each tailored to accommodate various event sizes. capacity 400+ | price $$$

flowers & décor

New Jersey/New York/Tri-State Area (973) 823-0755 | AshleyLandry.net I provide services for any type of occasion for brides, bridesmaids, mother of the bride and groom, engagement photos, wedding guests and many more! My main goals are to make you feel beautiful on your wedding day and to take one less worry off your mind by making your experience nothing but spectacular.

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411 Hackensack Avenue, Hackensack, NJ (201) 689-2345 | FlowerElegance.com We design beautiful florals and accessories. From the moment you said, “Yes,” to the moment you say, “I do,” we can create your dream wedding experience. Exclusive custom invitations and custom accessories accent a floral design created just for you! Call today.

morningside greenhouse

554 West Broadway, Haledon, NJ (973) 595-1600 | MorningsideGreenhouse.net Our award-winning bridal floral designers bring a world of flowers to your wedding. For your wedding, we use only the finest quality flowers in imaginative designs. If it can be done with flowers, we’ve done it. We’re a world-renowned supplier of orchids.

5 West Main Street, Suite 201, Freehold, NJ (732) 308-2314 | BellaBridesmaids.com/freehold Shop stylish designer gowns in a fun and inviting atmosphere with the undivided attention of your very own personal stylist. Carrying over 20 designers and 400 dresses, they have a diverse inventory of gowns to complement any style, figure and price point.

NY, NJ, CT, PA (973) 432-4506 | MyMakeupArtistVictoria.com My Makeup Artist Victoria is an on-location beauty services team comprised of the top artists in the industry. We can accommodate any size bridal party and specialize in long-lasting, photogenic makeup and hair. We strive to make your wedding preparation as happy and stress-free as possible.

truebutterfleyes makeup artistry

Serving NJ/NY/PA (201) 953-4894 | Truebutterfleyes.com My name is Michelle, a New Jersey licensed cosmetologist. I’m friendly, passionate and excited to be a part of your day! I love what I do, and I love my clients! All inquiries are welcome. No wedding party is too large or too small!

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twisted willow flowers

Princeton (609) 298-0360 | TwistedWillowFlowers.com Let us help you create the event you’ve been dreaming of! We cater to all floral styles, from wildflower garden and clean-lined modern to over the top elegance. We specialize in designing and styling any room with florals, lighting, furniture and linens.

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Montclair, NJ (973) 233-1222 MontclairStudio.com Montclair Studio captures every moment with passion. From the giggles of the flower girls to the loving tears of the parents, let us capture your wedding moments into memories that will last a lifetime. Our images are vivid, modern and elegant, captured in the most unobtrusive way possible.

milton gil photographers 305 Bloomfield Avenue, Nutley, NJ

earth treasures jewelers

178 State Route 35 South, Michaels Plaza, Eatontown, NJ (732) 542-5444 sales@earth-treasures.com Earth-Treasures.com Earth Treasures, fine jewelry since 1974. Winner of the Reader’s Choice award for best jeweler in Monmouth County for 18 consecutive years. Specializing in diamonds, gems, pearls, bridal gifts and custom design jewelry. One’s imagination is the only limit to creating your dream of a lifetime.

goldtinker

24 Broad Street, Red Bank, NJ (732) 531-8787 Goldtinker.com Every piece is conceived, created and christened on location and under the watchful eye of Romanowski. Along with a veteran team of four jewelers, the talent behind Goldtinker combines over 100 years of industry experience.

hamilton jewelers

92 Nassau Street, Princeton, NJ (609) 683-4200 HamiltonJewelers.com For over 100 years, Hamilton Jewelers is proud to help our valued clientele celebrate life’s most important milestones. We offer the finest in luxury jewelry and engagement rings, bridal and gift registry, custom jewelry design and more. Call us today to speak with a bridal concierge.

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(800) 201-GEMS | (973) 790-8836 sales@kevinsfinejewelry.com KevinsFineJewelry.com Kevin’s Fine Jewelry and staff have been serving up the finest in bridal fashion to its clients for over 35 years. Kevin’s provides the ultimate in bridal fashion from classic staples to modern day masterpieces. Whatever you desire, Kevin’s is the better source... for quality.

specialty services

Our Award winning Bridal Floral Designers bring a world of flowers to your wedding. Exquisite fresh bouquets and arrangements created for your wedding or event. We will help you achieve the drama and vision you’ve been dreaming about.

Morningside Greenhouse Family owned and operated for 70 years 554 West Broadway, Haledon, NJ 973.595.1600

blanc de bleu cuv´ee mousseux

(855) 874-2394 Blanc de Bleu is the world’s first blue sparkling wine—a dry, crisp, sparkling grape wine made with organic blueberry juice concentrate and certified color. It’s perfect for wedding receptions. Visit Facebook.com/blancdebleu for your nearest retailer. Drink responsibly.

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24 Sheridan Ave., Suite 6, HoHoKus, NJ (201) 493-7200 EBTS.info EBTS specializes in unique honeymoons throughout the world. We understand that your honeymoon is special and no detail should be left unplanned. Our team is enthusiastic, with a passion for travel, and looks forward to working with you in creating a memory that will last a lifetime.

41 W. Edgar Rd., Linden, NJ (908) 523-1700 customerservice@trulimo.com TRULimo.com TRU Limousine is a full-service ground transportation company. On your wedding day, enjoy bottled water, complimentary champagne, a driver in a black tuxedo and more! Our service is always hands-on and personalized, providing you with quality service and safe vehicles.

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Jersey City Waterfront Weddings Experience your dream day along the Hudson River with spectacular Manhattan skyline views including One World Trade Center and the Empire State building. Newly renovated, The Westin Jersey City Newport is conveniently located to North/Central New Jersey as well as New York City, with a Grand Ballroom accommodating up to 600 guests. In addition to your main event we also showcase ethnic wedding packages, rehearsal dinners, post-wedding brunches and dedicated room blocks for your guests. 479 Washington Boulevard Jersey City, NJ, 07310 T 201.626.2900 westinjerseycitynewport.com

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Buona Sera Catering

16

Above

80

Cape May Beachfront Ballroom

154

Adelphia

29

The Carriage House

335

Aloft Mount Laurel

44

Casa Bianca

267

The Architects Golf Club

271

Chart House Restaurant

9

Auletto Caterers

57

Chauncey Hotel, Laurie House & Garden Pavilion

204

Avenue

169

Clarks Landing Yacht Club

1

Basking Ridge Country Club Catering

137

Congress Hall

187

Battleground Country Club

85

Corinthian Yacht Club of Cape May

188

Bear Brook Valley

252

Crowne Plaza Philadelphia - Cherry Hill

141

Bello Giorno Catering

339

Crystal Plaza

7

The Berkeley Oceanfront Hotel

172

David’s Country Inn

103

The Berkeley Plaza

41

Daymark

161

The Bethwood

117

Doolan’s Shore Club

190

Braddock’s

55

Eagle Oaks Golf & Country Club

121

The Bradford Estate

1

Eagle Ridge Golf Club

211

Branches

63

Edgewood Country Club

327

Breakers on the Ocean

181

The Estate at Farrington Lake

26

The Breakwaters at The Dunes

153

The Estate at Florentine Gardens

12

Bridgewater Manor

61

Falco’s Catering

178

Brigalias

22

The Flanders Hotel

166

Brooklake Country Club

72

The Grain House

352

The Brookside Banquets

222

The Grand Hotel

195

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The Marigold

35

The Grand Summit Hotel

15

Maritime Parc

111

The Graycliff

129

McLoone’s Restaurants

197

Greate Bay

196

Meadow Wood Manor

115

The Grove

75

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The Heldrich

314

Merri-Makers Catering

213

Highlawn Pavilion

255

The Mill at Spring Lake Heights

175

Hilton Woodcliff Lake

237

Molly Pitcher Inn

171

Hotel Alcott

177

Moorestown Ballroom

37

Hotels Unlimited

30

Nanina’s in the Park

43

Hyatt Regency Morristown

245

Nassau Inn

313

The Imperia

319

Ocean Club Hotel

177

Jumping Brook Country Club

221

Ocean Place Resort & Spa

196

Krug Catering at Orange Lawn Tennis Club

317

Old York Country Club at Chesterfield

109

Lake House at the Indian Trail Club

225

The Olde Mill Inn

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One Atlantic Events

159

Landmark Venues

311

The Oyster Point Hotel

171

Liberty Science Center

251

The Palisadium

20

Lucien’s

32

Park Avenue Club

290

The Madison Hotel

209

Park Château Estate & Gardens

42

The Manor

125

The Park Savoy

43

The Mansion on Main Street

53

Perona Farms

257

Maplewood Country Club

323

Peter Shields Inn & Restaurant

191

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RESOURCE INDEX CONT. Pierre’s of South Brunswick

293

Westin Governor Morris

217

Pleasantdale Château

284

The Westin Jersey City Newport

345

The Primavera Regency

207

Westmount Country Club

133

Ram’s Head Inn

192

The Westwood

308

Ramsey Golf & Country Club

105

Windows on the Water at Frogbridge

239

The Reception Center at Saint Clement

47

Windows on the Water Sea Bright

185

The Reeds at Shelter Haven

151

Woodcrest Country Club

38

Resorts Casino & Hotel

165

The Rockleigh

287

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Royce Brook

289

Bex A Catering & Events Co.

68

Sea Oaks Country Club

193

Sirata Beach Resort

279

FLOWERS & DÉCOR

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Stockton Seaview Hotel & Golf Club

189

A Touch of Elegance Floral & Event Design

219

The Sunset Ballroom at Jack Bakers

183

Flower Elegance

325

The Terrace at Biagio’s

4

Morningside Greenhouse

345

The Tides Estate

242

Twisted Willow Flowers

19

Tomasello Winery

71

Trump National Golf Club Philadelphia

247

BRIDAL FASHION & BEAUTY

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W Hoboken

99

Ashley Landry Makeup Artist

327

The Washington Banquet & Catering

83

Bella Bridesmaids

241

Waterside Restaurant & Catering

269

Donna Lance Makeup

341

Weddings in Annapolis

329

My Makeup Artist Victoria

325

Weddings of Distinction

58

Truebutterfleyes Makeup Artistry

339

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Adlers Jewelers

25

Earth Treasures Fine Jewelers

50

Goldtinker

49

Hamilton Jewelers

77

Kevin’s Fine Jewelry

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Rothweiler Event Design

297

ENTERTAINMENT

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Cirque-Tacular Entertainment

335

PHOTOGRAPHY & VIDEO

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Milton Gil Photographers

305

Montclair Studio

259

SPECIALTY SERVICES

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Blanc de Bleu Cuvée Mousseux

11, 79

Elena Borrero Travel Services, LLC

341

Party Rental Ltd.

295

TRU Limousine

329

Your Wedding Experience

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amanda & adam OCEAN CITY “I had been dreaming of my wedding on this beach since I was a little girl, and here I am with my closest friends enjoying the beautiful weather on the most perfect day,” Amanda says of strolling on the sand with her nine bridesmaids. “These girls represent my past and present—now, we’re taking a walk into the first day of my future.”

Get inspired by more real weddings in your area at TheKnot.com/newjersey

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