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Can You Get Your Ex Back?

 

Have You Just Had a Breakup? Getting your Ex back is very do-able and an easy to follow process, but emotionally difficult. .

Have You Just Had a Breakup? Trying to get you ex back but don't know what to do? The following articles have some great ideas on the subject. Both articles are approached from entirely different directions, but both end up with excellent solutions How Can You Get Your Ex Back? You may be very surprised by the simple and very effective steps you can take right now to get your ex back!     ... June    TheMagicOfMakingUp  

How to Get Your Ex Back Using Dirty Psychological Tricks By Ryan C Torres   If you're reading this right now, you're probably suffering over the loss of someone you love greatly. I know you've lost your lover and I understand that the worst pain imaginable is having the person that you love the most tell you they don't want you anymore. The funny part is that, as you are sitting there, with your heart feeling like it's been ripped out of your chest, people are telling you things like... * You will get over it. * He/She was no good for you. * Move on (my personal favorite). * It's his/her loss - you were too good for him/her. What a bunch of crap! And all that, just to make you feel better. But, let's face it... ...Nobody can say anything to make you feel better... Except from me. Because I can tell you how to get your ex back! I know exactly how you can get your ex back. Believe it or not, getting your ex back is a very easy to follow linear process, but, also, a very counter-intuitive one. We'll talk about this in a second, but, one thing I want to point out is that you'll find some amazing resources down at the bottom of this article. The complete gender-specific gameplan for getting your ex back is waiting for you. You owe it to yourself to take a look. Okay, now let me give you a few tips to put you on the right track... 1. Break contact. I'm serious. Reduce or, if possible, break any contact with your ex for about 3 to 4 weeks. This should be easy, right?...Not really. This is going to be the most painful tip because you will, most likely, miss them a lot and never stop wondering about what they are doing. Stop calling them, stop sending them emails, text messages or anything of that nature. One of the biggest mistakes people make after a breakup is what I call text message terrorism. I'm sure you know what this is, but, also, I bet you don't realize that, after a breakup, any text message, email or phone call can be too much for your ex. They already had too much telling you they don't want you anymore. At this point it's best to agree with the breakup and be totally cool about it. 2. Stop being needy. Always remember this: a hungry dog doesn't get

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fed! Nobody wants to be around a needy person. It's hard-wired into our brains to align with people who have higher survival value and stay away from needy people. While it is possible to make your ex take you back out of pity, it's not what we are trying to accomplish here. You want your ex to be attracted to you again, not to feel sorry for you. 3. Get your life back. It's time to call your old friends that you've probably neglected lately. Do it right now. Start having massive fun. Note that this is not some feel good advice. Being happy on your own is very important if you want to attract people into your life, and, most important, to get your ex back. So, make sure you put your life in order. 4. Start working out. When you work out, endorphins are released inside your body, so, you will feel a lot better. It will make you look better too, so you'll get a boost in your confidence. Remember: confidence is one of the most attractive traits you can have (every dating advice I've read good or bad - included this cliché - the power of confidence). But, confidence comes with success while you've just been dumped. It's not going to be easy, but, don't worry too much. I'm going to give you all the tools you need to get success, so confidence will happen automatically. 5. Contact your ex. If your ex doesn't contact you after 4 weeks, you can contact them and have a light conversation. There are a few steps you need to do before actually contacting your ex. You'll easily find them in the materials I will give you (check the resources at the bottom of this article). Avoid talking about your past relationship. Don't ask your ex if they are dating someone new and don't brag about how many people you are sleeping with or dating (that's lame... only losers brag). Just keep it light while avoiding any arguments. Also, be cool and don't let them think you're desperate to see them. 6. Make your next date with your ex emotionally charged. "What?! A date?! My ex doesn't even answer my phone calls!"...I can hear you screaming already. But, it's alright. You will find a solution for every situation in the materials at the bottom of this article. I will teach you how to make your ex return your phone calls and how to get another date. Well, that's actually the easy part. Now, let me explain what I mean by "emotionally charged". If you're planning to do the old "dinner and movie" I have bad news for you... Why? Because,doing so, you lose on the following sociologically proven principle... Emotionally charged = Bond This first scenario will not only be boring, but, also, it won't create a bonding, or, in our case, a re-bonding experience. A better scenario could be a short roller coaster ride. Also, taking your ex on a few "minidates" could do wonders for your relationship. This creates "time distortion", so, your ex will feel that they've been with you forever after only a short period of time. This way, you will eventually get to spend more time together and you will have a chance to get them back, if you're prepared and you know what to do.   Now listen carefully! I don't want to scare you, but, your ex is not going to be around forever...They will eventually going to find somebody else and they are going to hook up with them...They are going to fall in love, they are going to have sex...so on and so forth... Your window of opportunity is closing fast! Click the blue link for a free, gender-specific guide to get your ex back! Guys, click this link to learn how to get her back! Ladies, click the link here and get him back today!   Want Your Ex Back? Watch a Video that will walk you through the process of How to Get Back Your Ex . Watch this video Now

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How to Get Your Ex Back - Step by Step By Chris Connor   Nothing in life is guaranteed - especially when it comes to relationships and knowing how to get your ex back. If you're reading this, my heart goes out to you because I have experienced, first-hand, the pain you're going through. Breaking up with someone is bad enough, but if you've been suddenly dumped for no apparent reason, the emotional anguish can be intense.   What you need to realize is that you're at a psychological disadvantage right now. It's not your fault, but there are things you can do to turn things in your favor. Most of them involve ignoring your emotions and listening to your logical side. The reason you're at a disadvantage is because you have been on the receiving end of the breakup. In other words, you have been rejected and that gives your ex the psychological upper hand.   If you're currently pestering your ex, making the situation worse, stop everything this instant. Not one more phone call, text message, love letter, or e-mail. Whether you realize it or not, you're digging yourself a deeper hole - one from which you may never escape.   Next, you're going to have to get out of that funk you're in. While it may seem that no one has ever suffered like this, just about everyone has been there at one point in time. Locking yourself in your bedroom, sleeping 16 hours a day, and shutting yourself off from the rest of society is not healthy - and it's definitely not going to help you get your ex back. Find a distraction. Surround yourself with friends, take up a new hobby, or take a vacation - the main thing is to get your mind off the relationship.   If you've made it this far, you'll likely notice that your self-esteem (and confidence) has come back. You no longer feel as though everything was your fault and you can stop blaming yourself for the breakup. Though you may still be wondering how to get your ex back, it's important now to carry on with your life, do things for yourself, and let your ex know that you're perfectly fine and you're getting on with things. It's okay to want to win them back, but it's much too early to let that secret out of the bag.   Slowly, you're going to turn the psychological tables in your favor. You're going to create desire by using the principle of scarcity. If you are no longer available to your ex, you'll notice that they may become more friendly, "accidentally" run into you, or start asking about you when talking to your friends. We all want what we can't have and, oftentimes, attraction is created when you're unavailable. It's basic human psychology.   Here's The Real Secret... The last step is tricky. You're going to have to walk a fine line between scarcity and availability. You don't want to throw yourself at your ex, but you also don't want to become so aloof that they simply give up. Maintain your poise, exude confidence, but don't ignore them. They'll make sure to let you know that they are still attracted to you. If everything goes according to plan, you won't need to make the first move. The important thing is to try and create opportunities to be together socially without letting on that you're trying to rekindle the relationship. This is where common friends are invaluable. Don't underestimate this step: you can be confident, cool, and aloof, but if the right opportunity doesn't present itself, nothing is going to happen.   Most relationships can be saved after a breakup, but few ever are. That's because critical mistakes are made in the days following the split. In fact, you're probably making those very mistakes right now without realizing it. If this sounds familiar, this page could be a real eye-opener for you. http://www.makingit.info/1/get-your-ex-back.htm

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