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How To Talk Dirty: Reasons To Try Dirty Texting With Your Guy Today Congressman Weiner's sexting scandal might make you think twice about trying dirty texting. While there's a big lesson in there if you're a public figure or not involved in a committed relationship, there are several reasons to consider a little sexy texting with your partner or spouse if you're in a more settled relationship. Some of these reasons include: Points of connection: The amount of time we get to spend with our partners is less and less. Commutes are longer, people often spend eight or ten hours at the computer and in meetings. Our increasingly complex lives also come with a host of professional, personal, and hobby-related commitments. As a result, the amount of quality time we have available to spend with our partner declines. Using technology to send an affectionate or a sexy text is a great way to create touch points with your lover throughout the day. Build anticipation: A sexy text is a great way to build some anticipation with your partner. Did you have a great time the night before and want to remind him about what he's missing? A hint of details, a touch, a kiss, anything that you think he'd like specifically will help pull him back. Perhaps you have some wild plans for the evening ahead, and want to give him a preview? Men are visual creatures, and this is a fantastic way to get him thinking about (and visualizing) you. Love…..technologically: A number of interesting studies have been done looking at the impact of technology on relationships and an increase in affairs. But if the medium is so good for infidelity, why can't it be great also at building fidelity? In short, I think people associate the "I always want to be connected" with you phase of texting, emails, IMing, etc. as something that's early in a relationship. But look at technology as yet another platform to access in building a strong foundation for your relationship. Find variety: I hate to say it……but the old truism of variety as the spice of life is spot on, especially in relationships and the bedroom. A woman needs to be the human equivalent of comfort food (familiarity, trust, favorites) combined with the next, best spicy undiscovered dish (exotic, new, satisfying in an unexpected way). Actually, let's rephrase that - a woman doesn't need to be anything, but this can help find a balance and keep things fresh in your relationship. If you haven't tried sending him a naughty surprise, consider surprising him and see what happens. Resource Box: How To Talk Dirty Blog site is for women who want to learn how to talk dirty to their husbands, boyfriends, or partners. We tackle women’s concerns about dirty talk, look at examples of dirty talk and dirty texts, dig down into what men really want on this topic, and recommend resources for further exploration. Our goals here at How to Talk Dirty are simple: to empower women to take charge of their relationships; build their confidence to be awesome in and out of the bedroom; and to make these issues discussable without judgment. It hasn’t been easy. But it’s totally worth it. For more information:


How To Talk Dirty: Reasons To Try Dirty Texting With Your Guy Today