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ETIQUESTIONS When I attend events, I am always a little at a loss when the hostess tells everyone to begin getting their food from the buffet, but no one moves. Is it rude to be the first one to get food? No, it is not rude at all if the hostess has invited you to begin getting your food. In fact, it is a bit rude not to start if the hostess has already given you the invitation.
Now is the time to attend all types of summer activities like weddings, gatherings, etc. What is the general rule for sending the RSVP and host gifts? Summer is a fun time for gatherings. If you receive an invitation to request an RSVP, it is important to do it as soon as possible. Make sure to let the host know that you will be attending and never take a plus 1 unless the invitation specifies. Also, never show up empty handed. Always take a small host gift. Candles happen to be the number one hostess gift.
Phone Etiquette? What is the acceptable timeline for responding to text messages? A recent survey says that people respond to text messages within 3 minutes! However, do not feel pressure to respond immediately. Acknowledge you received the message, but respond at a convenient time when you can pay attention to your response and be thoughtful.
Barbara Baggerly-Hinojosa, Ph.D. is a wife, mother, and educator living in the Rio Grande Valley of Texas. She is a graduate of Our Lady of the Lake University with a Ph.D. in Leadership Studies. In addition, she holds an Associate of Arts degree in Education from McLennan Community College, Bachelor of Arts in Interdisciplinary Studies from the University of Texas – Pan American, and a Master of Arts in Educational Supervision from the University of Texas – Pan American. Dr. Baggerly-Hinojosa’s current research is focused on servant leadership, gender issues in leadership, and leadership communication. www.leadershipempowermentgroup.com
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