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By Nick McGrath


hink of Carol Vorderman and the chances are you’ll think ‘super slim, very attractive and a whizz with numbers’. But after Countdown it all seemed to be falling apart for her as she turned to comfort eating to cope with the stress – putting on a stone. But with typical Carol determination she fought back and shifted the weight. Now she’s back on top with a real passion for life. “Yes it’s true, I’m definitely more passionate about everything in my life today than I was ten years ago,” says Carol, who publishes her autobiography, It All Counts, in October. But the memory of those difficult days when she turned to chocolate


are still very much with her. Carol, who relinquished presenting duties on the Channel 4 quiz show last year after 26 unbroken years, talks frankly about that time. “I was very, very stressed about the situation and I did put on about a stone,” says Carol, whose Detox For Life diet book has sold more than a million copies. “I was so tired I couldn’t sleep and I was the heaviest I had been for years. “I’m normally a very healthy eater and I consume more than my fair share of vegetables and fruit, but I know I’m on a downwards spiral if I start to eat chocolate every day, and that’s what happened last year. “We’re not talking vast quantities, but I could notice the difference. I’ve got my ‘trying-on,’ clothes I use for gauging my weight and if I get into them, I’m know I’m OK. If I don’t, I know something’s up. I never weigh myself, though. I haven’t weighed


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myself for years. I think it’s a very negative thing to do and it can become obsessive. People think, ‘Ooooh, no, I’ve put on a pound or two,’ and they’ll check the scales before breakfast, after lunch and then in the evening. Fast forward seven months and demonstrating the selfdisciplined willpower that has earned the twice-divorced mother-of-two from Prestatyn a small fortune, an MBE and a place in the nation’s hearts, Carol has shed the weight and is feeling more positive about the future. And the transformation is clearly a weight off her mind, as well as her body. “I’ve pretty much lost all that weight and without the filming and travelling commitments that Countdown brought, I feel healthier than I have in years. “I’m eating better, finding more time to exercise and generally noticing a massive positive change in my health. “I’m 50 next year and you do become very conscious of how things change. And they can change quite rapidly in your mid 40s and 50s, particularly for a woman, for obvious reasons. Carol’s willingness to take personal responsibility for her own health makes her the perfect candidate to front a new initiative by Lloyds Pharmacies called the Neighbourhood Health Watch scheme. The idea is that rather than face health issues alone – an increasingly serious issue for hundreds of thousands of people over 50 affected by divorce, bereavement or immobility – joining forces with your neighbours to talk about your problems will strengthen your resolve. The strategy is being piloted in the three British cities with the gravest health problems, Liverpool, Glasgow and Birmingham and, if it proves

‘I was very, very stressed about the Countdown situation’

effective, the long-term plan is to roll it out all over the country. “It’s a way of saying that you don’t have to do it alone, we’ll give you some help and we’ll put you together with people who also want to conquer their health issues,” says Carol, who is recruiting 50 volunteers in each of the cities to take part in the trial. “Whether it’s losing weight, giving up fags or just getting fitter, the idea is that by setting goals with similarly motivated people, the inclination to give up will diminish rapidly and that’s exactly what the initial research has shown so far. It’s all about giving people a greater chance to break their bad habits.” Participating branches of Lloyds will provide advice and test patients’ cholesterol, BMI and blood sugar levels, also suggesting steps to combat existing problems and tackle potential ones. And Carol also hopes it will act as a catalyst to reverse the increasing Americanisation of Britain’s health. “Unlike many other countries in Europe, we seem to be following the lead of the Americans and Britain’s obesity problem is getting more serious every year. “I’m not here to provide the

answers, but I think it’s largely to do with our habits; watching too much TV, eating junk food and not doing enough exercise. “And the national schizophrenia over weight in this country doesn’t help, either. On the one hand, you’ve got anorexically thin stars being trumpeted as glamorous and fabulous in the papers the next day, while we’ve got an increasing number of morbidly obese people trapped in a destructive cycle of seeking solace in fatty, sugary foods which just exacerbates their problems. “And the Government haven’t helped either by providing mixed messages. On one hand, they urge people to drink less, but on the other they encourage 24-hour drinking. It’s unbelievable. “But underlying all that I believe is that we’re starting to come up with excuses not to do things. Not genuine reasons, but excuses.” It’s a mentality alien to Carol and, as she approaches 50, she intends to make the most of every minute. “I’ve had one period of my life and now I’m looking forward to what comes next. It won’t be the same, but I don’t want it to be. I’ve done that. Bring on the future.” // See neighbourhoodhealthwatch for more information.

carol shares a secreT I live with my mother, Edwina, and I always have. She’s 81 now, and she’s beaten cancer twice, but I don’t spend time speculating about my future health. If something does happen, then I’ll deal with it. I’m not going to spend time worrying about it now. YOURS // EVERY FORTNIGHT

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Are you sure you’re safe to drive? Ex-racing driver Stirling Moss (79) says motorists should be retested at 70, 75 and 80 because the roads have changed dramatically since they learned

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overnment projections suggest that by 2021 there will be three million motorists over 70 on the nation’s roads. And, although they must renew their driving licences every three years, it is estimated only 10 per cent of them ever declare any impairment that might put their driving at risk. From last September, the General Medical Council issued draft guidance tightening up on doctors’ duty to report unfit drivers to the DVLA, raising


questions of patient confidentiality. They had previously been only ‘advised’ to notify cases such as poor eyesight, or risk of fits or heart attacks. And the DVLA has considered written cognitive tests for over-75s, although a trial of 200 drivers in Wales failed to prove that these were linked with accident risk in any useful way. The good news is that UK road accident statistics are falling year by year. And, according to the Department of Transport and several surveys, older drivers are no worse than any other group for causing death

and injury to other road users. The AA motoring organisation does not support an age restriction for older drivers, and says steps are being taken to improve older driver safety by making road signs clearer in future. “If you are going to tell elderly people they are more likely to kill themselves driving, you will also have to tell them there are similar risks for taking buses,” said a spokesman. “Older people are more frail and more likely to be killed in road accidents, but they are not posing a danger to others.” This Morning’s Denise Robertson, (75), who has linked up with windscreen repairer Autoglass to offer safety tips to drivers of all ages, says: “A dangerous driver is a dangerous driver, whether 20 or 70. Older people’s physical ability varies widely and is not really just dependent on age, so regular health checks are a good idea. “I am generally a pretty fit and a safe driver, but I was told by an optician in my 40s that I needed distance glasses – something I wouldn’t have realised without a check.” A new survey from Autoglass reveals


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As the number of drivers over the age of 70 increases, so does the call for the need to retest elderly motorists

For retesting // Amanda CollingwoodPrince (36), from Rustington, West Sussex, has campaigned for regular tests for older drivers since an 82-yearold woman motorist ploughed into her twoyear-old daughter Madi five years ago. Her buggy was crushed and little Madi left disfigured and brain damaged. “We all have a duty to take the car keys off elderly people if they’re a danger on the roads. Don’t wait for an accident to happen. Madi had her whole life ahead of her. She had to have part of her brain removed and has been left

with behavioural problems. “Elderly drivers must have regular tests to check they are safe to drive. If the law isn’t changed, more people will be killed. Some elderly drivers are excellent, but others can’t see that they’re unsafe. “As we age, our reactions slow. There are numerous us examples of elderly people hitting the accelerator instead of the brake and ploughing into walls. s. It’s sometimes just pure luck that somebody hasn’t been hurt. Yet so often that driver

‘Elderly drivers must have regular tests’

Amanda, 36

is allowed to continue to drive. “When younger drivers are arrested for dangerous driving, they are made to retake their tests, yet elderly drivers are rarely made to. I just can’t see the sense in it.”

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Against retesting 72 per cent of people are concerned about elderly relatives and friends driving as they age. More than half would welcome advice on staying safe on the road. But managing director Neil Doggett says that although the top three concerns were eyesight, reaction times and nervousness, these are concerns for all drivers and the focus on older people is misplaced. “We are living longer and staying active much later in life, so the focus should be on how we can help drivers of all ages to stay safe on the roads and not by penalising the over-70s by asking them to retest,” he said. // For more tips, contact Brake, the road safety charity. Call 01484 559909 or visit // For information, or to book a RoSPA Experienced Driver Assessment, tel 0121 248 2127 or see drivertraining. This is not a test, but an objective and confidential assessment of your skills from an experienced driver, with tips for improvement if required. It costs £35, plus VAT, and lasts an hour in your own car and local area.

// Helen MacDonald, (78), a retired GP from Stockport, passed her driving test at 23. She hasn’t had an accident in more than 25 years. “I’m not in favour of compulsory retests because I believe most drivers know when the time comes to stop and doctors are much more aware of their role at advisingg

older patients about the risks. Compulsory driving tests would be a disproportionate response. “Some local authorities and other organisations run voluntary assessment courses which offer objective advice about your driving and will tell you if they think you should stop. “I recently took a Royal Society for the Prevention Pre Accidents of A (RoSPA) driving (Ro assessment ass because I was bec worried about my wo reactions slowing rea

down. I was relieved to be told my driving was safe. “The roads have changed since I started driving, but it is a gradual change that you adapt to. I do a lot of driving, but I am well aware that I can’t drive for long stints like I did when I was young. I also keep up with all my eye and health tests. “I would be a menace on the roads if I didn’t drive regularly. It’s a skill that is important to maintain with regular practice, but there is no reason why I should be made to take a test just because of my age.”

‘Most drivers know when it’s time to stop’

Helen MacDonald, 78


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The actress Honor Blackman (83), best known for playing Bond girl Pussy Galore, tells us how a birthday present led to the creation of her trademark seductive voice If you love what you do, don’t stop I’m very fortunate in that I love what I do for a living. For me, everything I do is a new challenge – like releasing a single at the age of 83! Work is fun and I can’t imagine retiring – I’d be so bored. I’m sure if I did a different job where I was on my feet all day I might want to retire, but I’d still like to be busy and active.


Children are precious One of the highest points of my life was the arrival of both my children. My husband and I were unable to have children naturally, so we adopted my daughter Lottie and son Barnaby. It was a huge thrill when they arrived t ar

in my life. Mind you I’m sure they’d say I was an awful parent, because I had to work and go away from them for a lot of time. But I had to make a choice either go to work or let them starve! In a way I think it was good for me to work because my children got to see me as an individual and not just their mother.


Grandchildren can teach you so much I have four wonderful grandchildren all under six. I love seeing them as often as I can. Even if I go just a week without seeing them, they advance so much and I don’t want to miss out. I’m the queen of storytelling and they love telling me all the


WH HAT MADE YOU W O T E LIK WHO H YOU ARE TODAY? ASK… For my m 16th birthday, my father

offered me m the choice to either have a bicycle or elocution lessons. I chose the lessons. Growing up in Plaistow, Newh am, I had a Cockney accent and back in those days, you only got far in life if you spo ke well. If I had chosen the bike, who kno ws how my life might have turned out!

things they’ve learnt. My eldest grandson is really into dinosaurs and animals and it’s fascinating to have him teach me things I never knew about lions and tigers.


Living alone can be wonderful I’ve been married twice and divorced twice. I live alone and have done so for many years. I’m very happy being independent. I don’t want to have to worry about someone else and their needs. I’m selfish and I like it this way!


You’re as young as you feel I really don’t feel my age – I don’t think anyone does. As we get older we developed more common sense, but we certainly don’t grow old on the inside. People tend to say I look good for my age; I don’t really know why. I take care of myself, eat well and exercise, but I think

it’s also got a lot to do with how you view life. Thinking positively and trying not to worry about things that will never come to pass is not easy, but probably good for you.


You can learn from bad times In some ways I had a happy childhood, but my father was extremely strict with me. There were a few waves of fear that regularly went through our family. But I believe that it taught me selfdiscipline and actually made me stronger as a person.


Never take things for granted Despite being an actress for many years now, I haven’t forgotten how depressing a period of unemployment can be. Even now, if I’ve not been working for just two weeks I’ll say to my family ‘that’s it, I’ll never work again’. My children just laugh and tell me to stop being so silly!

// Honor’s single, The Star Who Fell From Grace, is out now. She was talking to Claire Williams. YOURS // EVERY FORTNIGHT

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Carol Cartwright, 64

Carol says: “I’ll be 65 this year, but I certainly don’t feel it. I have a lot of friends in their 40s and 50s and we love to go out dancing. We do rock ’n’ roll, ceroc and jive – it’s a great way to stay fit and have fun. But knowing what to wear can be tricky. I love jeans and heels and to make them look smart I’m always on the hunt for jackets – but it can be tricky in the summer. “I love getting ready to go out – I plan my outfits and take ages getting glammed up – it’s all part of the fun. Hannah gives me lots of fashion tips, but I’m always nervous that I might be too old for some of the trends. I recently bought a pair of ballerina flats that just didn’t look right on me, so I gave them to her. I think I’ll stick to my heels, they always make my outfits feel complete.

My fashion dilemma: I’d love to find a really great fitted jacket that I could wear with jeans and heels when I go out with my friends. My worry is: That I’m not wearing age-appropriate clothes – it’s hard to know what I can get away with. I’m addicted to... heels: My 17-year-old granddaughter, Hannah, has the same size feet as me. She’s always encouraging me to be fashionable and loves to steal my shoes.


My favourite fashion memory: At 18 I loved mini skirts – the shorter the better – much to my mother’s despair.



Worn with jeans and a pretty top, jackets can look stylish. To make your look more fashionable, simply add a belt. It will show off your shape, or give you curves where you don’t have any. It is a fashion trend, but it


isn’t so youthful that you’ll look like mutton dressed as lamb. Try adding pretty brooches or a floral corsage to your lapel to customise your jacket if belts aren’t your thing.


Get the look: Lilac and grey floral top, £20, sizes 10-20, Vanilla Sands at Bhs; purple fitted jacket, £15, sizes 8-20, Primark; grey trousers, £22, sizes 10-20, Vanilla Sands at Bhs; silver sandals, £25, sizes 3-8, Kaleidoscope; silver necklace and earring set, £10, Allusions at Bhs; cream snakeskin belt, £5, Florence & Fred at Tesco

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Jackets are a great wardrobe staple and an ideal way to dress up your jeans. Whatever your shape you can find one to suit you. Avoid anything double-breasted or with shoulder pads if you’re not slim because they will add bulk to your frame and look old fashioned. Single-breasted d styles with a fitted shape help to cinch in your waist and skim any lumps and bumps. Look for jackets with shorter sleeves for a summery twist.

“Although I think I look quite good in the clothes I wear, I’d love someone to tell me if the things I love, such as jeans, jackets and heels are age-appropriate. “I feel young at heart, but I don’t want to look like I’m trying to dress like a teenager, or my worst nightmare, to end up looking like a frumpy old woman. Can you help?”

Knowing whether your clothes are appropriate for your age can be difficult. There are no rules that say, ‘after 50 you cannot wear short skirts or sleeveless tops’, but to look chic and stylish, dress according to yourr

body shape. Carol has a lovely b slim s frame and toned arms for f a short-sleeved jacket. If you’re more self-conscious y about your arms, wear a long a sleeved top in a co-ordinating s colour underneath, or choose c a jacket with full or threequarter length sleeves. q


Keep your look youthful by choosing classic styles in great colours. Over 50s often stick to black, brown and

beige, which can look drab and be ageing. Carol looks great in this soft heathery mauve; it lifts her skin tone and brightens her face. In summer go for rosy pinks, dusky blues or, for a classic look, nautical navy and red. If you’re nervous about colour, start gently with brighter accessories such as a string of beads or a vibrant bag.


If you feel too old for jeans, try drill cotton trousers like Carol’s. They Th have a less formal cut than th smart slacks, but offer a slightly more classic, grown-up slig look loo than jeans. They’re just as versatile, though, and can be ve dressed up with heels for the dr evening or down with flats for ev daytime. M&S and Wallis have da a good range of similar styles. g


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CATHERINE SAID: This light lotion was easy to rub in and instantly left my skin soft and smooth. I found it soaked in quickly and it didn’t leave any greasy residue. It was several weeks before I saw any change to my skin texture, but after the full eight weeks of the test I could see an improvement. The skin on my bust looked smoother and it worked really well on the wrinkles on my neck, too. It wasn’t a quick fix, so it would be a while before you saw any results. It works well, but I don’t think I’d buy it regularly. It would be more suitable for someone a bit younger. A FRIEND SAID: My daughter Lynne thought the wrinkles on my neck looked improved.

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Roy Hudd writes just for you wr The phrase ‘like father, like son’ has a lot of The all-round entertainer and Yours columnist indulges in a spot of nature watching



ello folks! I loved Springwatch on the telly. Apart from the lovely Kate Humble, who could share my hide any time, the shows this season were special because lots of the content was from our neighbouring county, Norfolk. I do realise that mentioning that county (we live in Suffolk) is one big crime, but Norfolk (sorry, I’ve mentioned it again!) has the Broads. We’ve had smashing holidays on its brilliant waterways and even more so now the area is being so well looked after. In fact, that unmentionable county was the first place we looked when we moved out of London. Nowhere there was quite what we were after so we moved a wee bit south and Suffolk delivered. We had a few days on the Broads last year and saw tiny kingfishers darting into the water, a couple of otters mucking about as only they can – and a great variety of birds of all shapes and sizes (most of these were on the beach at Yarmouth in bikinis). Speaking of waterways and their wildlife, you may have noticed in the past that I do occasionally mention The Grand Order of Water Rats. A quick explanation here: The GOWR are a collection of blokes in show business who meet once a fortnight to make each other laugh and raise a few bob for charity. The Order has been going for more than 100 years and one member was the late Percy Edwards (the man who, before actual recordings of birds and animals became easy to get, impersonated them all on radio, television, and on film soundtracks). Do you remember a radio sitcom called A Life of Bliss? Percy played Psyche, the almost human dog. It was Percy who at one meeting gave us the rundown on water rats – the animals, not the blokes. “They are not rats at all,” said Percy, “even though Kenneth Graham called the one in Wind In The Willows – Ratty. They are, in fact, water voles – nothing like horrible rats.” Percy also explained ‘vole’ was an anagram of ‘love’.

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Hey! Where are you going, Ratty?

Water rats (sorry, voles) are rare and, although Percy assured me there were some in East Anglia, I hadn’t seen any till a few weeks ago. We have a pond in our garden and my son, Max, ran into the house with a cry of “Ratty! Ratty!” Out we ran and, to the sound of ‘plop!’, away went the vole. There seem to be a couple of families nesting around the water’s edge because we often caught a glimpse of their heads sticking out of the water or their backsides disappearing into the undergrowth. Then – just a couple of days ago – magic! We watched two babies tucking in to some plant stalks. They looked back at us, till tiring of people watching; two familiar plopping sounds told us they’d had enough. Percy retained that thrill of seeing special things in the country all his life. I think my life is just beginning.


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he wonderful thing about family history research is that anyone can do it… all you need is curiosity about where you come from. In the last five years, thanks to the rise of the internet and TV shows like Who Do You Think You Are? it’s a hobby that’s within everyone’s reach. Maybe you’d like to have a go but don’t know where to start? Just follow our handy step-by-step guide and you’ll have an impressive family tree in no time at all.

1.Begin with yourself First write down your name, date and place of birth, and date and place of marriage (if applicable)on a piece of paper. Repeat this formula for your siblings, parents, grandparents and other relatives (include death dates where relevant), working backwards through the generations. If your dates are a bit vague, don’t worry – you can check these later.

names and birth dates of your children and grandchildren as well as older generations. To keep things simple, produce a separate tree for your father’s family and your mother’s.

2.Draw your tree

3.Rummage in the attic

Getting started

Draw a first draft of your family tree. You can use the free poster (overleaf) for this – feel free to photocopy it to complete the different versions. It doesn’t have to be a work of art, just a chance to capture all the important information. Start with your birth family first, without trying to involve that of your husband or wife. Include the

Look in any boxes of family papers. Brush off the inevitable dust and see if you can find birth, marriage, death (or adoption) certificates, war service or employment records, or anything else that might be a clue: family history is like a detective story. Make a note of the dates, names and any other information included.

4. Study heirlooms

Family heirlooms may also be clues to how your ancestors lived: a great-uncle’s war medals, for example, are invaluable for working out when and where he served and his service number.

5. Ask the family

You don’t want to cover the same ground as another family member so contact the rest of the clan to see if anyone has done any research. Ask for help – distant cousins may be able to help with dates and names, even if only for one small branch of your tree. Borrow and scan (or photograph) memorabilia, heirlooms and photos for clues and to help you keep a record of objects passed down through the family.


WHERE TO GET HELP the national archives (england and Wales) Kew, richmond, surrey tW9 4dU tel: 020 8876 3444 the national archives of scotland hM general register house, 2 princes street, edinburgh eh1 3YY tel: 0131 535 1314 public record office of northern Ireland (pronI) 66 Balmoral avenue, Belfast Bt9 6nY tel: 028 90255905


general register office Certificate services section general register office, po Box 2, southport pr8 2Jd tel: 0845 603 7788 society of genealogists 14 goswell road, London eC1M 7Ba tel: 020 7251 8799 federation of family history societies po Box 8857, Lutterworth Le17 9BJ tel: 01455 203133

LOOKING ONLINE // offers endless opportunities to research your family story. Its easy-to-use family-tree building software allows members to record family history and share it with others. We have five premium Memberships to to give away, worth £107.40 each, which will give the winners d online access to UK Censuses, Birth, Marriage & death and Military records along with pre-1837 parish & probate records and incoming passenger lists and much more. for YoU


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6. Order certificates

Your family’s birth, marriage and death certificates are available from the General Register Office (see Where to get help, below). If you want to be thorough, order them for everyone in your tree. The certificates cost £7 each, so be sure you have the right person! You will need the relevant reference number from the BMD Index which can be searched by name and date.

7. Online research

Most people nowadays do their research online as it is easier, cheaper and quicker. Simply go to either www. or www.findmypast. com ( for Scottish research). Initial searches are

‘ I just wish I’d done it earlier’

// head teacher pauline Wood from Wynyard village, in teesside, began researching her family history because she was at a loose end in the summer holidays. now she is so enthusiastic about genealogy that she’s included it on the timetable at school and the kids love it. “When my mum died it struck me that I knew veryy little about my family’s past,” says pauline. “I never knew my grandparents so I began by asking my older brothers and sisters what they could remember. It was fascinating and definitely the best place to start, even people’s nicknames are helpful as you delve deeper into the research.” pauline has been using to research and build her tree over the past two years and now it’s grown to include more than 1200 names. “It’s so easy to use,” she says. “My only regret is that I wish I’d done it earlier. My husband and I have met so many interesting people and we’ve found family connections all over the world.”

Office. These places also have BMD Indexes but they are on microfilm and must be browsed by hand so finding the references will take longer.

free but you will have to pay to view BMD Index references. To save money, type the names and dates into www. first. This site is free to search but isn’t yet complete.

9. Work backwards

8. No computer?

Make sure you always work backwards through the generations from the If you don’t have access to a computer known to the unknown, verify all dates there are other options. Most local and names with documentation, and libraries and archives now have a check, check and check again that your subscription to, work is accurate. which you can use for free. It is still possible to access the BMD Index in person by visiting The National Archives turn over the page to create your very own family (the modern incarnation of the tree with our easy-to- use poster. start with yourself old Public Record Office), the in the centre and work your way outwards adding National Archives of Scotland parents, grandparents etc in turn through the or your local County Record


generations. Write in pencil to begin with so you can go back and correct any mistakes. Before you start you may like to take a photocopy so you can complete several versions that include all branches of your tree. or why not complete one for each of the grandchildren with them taking g centre e stage?



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for you... Our delicious, easy recipes are designed for two people, simply halve the h iingredients di if iit’s ’ jjust ffor you!! Compiled by Sheena Correa

Crispy Italian Chicken & Polenta

Chicken with a difference! If you can’t get hold of polenta, then unpeeled potato chunks work just as well in this tasty mid-week dinner



Ready in 30 mins • 500g (20 oz) pack ready-to-use cooked polenta • 25g (1oz) parmesan, grated • 2 boneless chicken breasts, skin on • 250g (10 oz) pack cherry tomatoes • Leaves from a few fresh rosemary sprigs, torn • 1 garlic clove, roughly sliced • 2 tbsp olive oil 1 Preheat the oven to 200°C/400°F/ Gas Mark 6. Using your fingers, roughly

break up the polenta into small chunks and scatter over the bottom of a small roasting tin. Tip in the parmesan and mix well until the polenta is evenly coated. 2 Sit the chicken breasts, cherry tomatoes, rosemary and garlic on top of the polenta, drizzle with the olive oil, then season to taste. 3 Roast for 25 minutes, or until the chicken skin is crisp and golden, and the polenta and cheese are turning crusty around the edges. Serve immediately with a mixed green salad.

Frugal food tip Remove cheese from its plastic wrapper and wrap in BacoFoil. The cheese does not sweat and stays fresh much longer than wrapping it in plastic.

// Taken from Good Food: 101 Meals For Two, published by BBC Books, at £4.99. All recipes first published in BBC Good Food Magazine. Text and photography © BBC Magazines, 2006.



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Cooking with the Grandkids

Berry good

This is a clever way to show fruit can be used in tasty treats too

Apricot and orange cake Makes 8-10 servings

until light and ďŹ&#x201A;uffy. Add the eggs one at a time, beating well after each addition. 3 Sift the ďŹ&#x201A;our and baking powder together, fold into the creamed mixture alternately with the orange rind, juice and chopped apricots. Mix lightly using a metal spoon until smooth. 4 Put the mixture into the prepared tin and make a well in the centre of the mixture. Place the remaining apricots on top if using, and bake in the centre of a moderate oven, for 1 hour and 15 minutes. 5 Grasp the foil and remove the cake from 1 Line a 2lb loaf tin with enough BacoFoil the tin, allow to cool. Wrap in the surplus foil to store in a cool place for 7-10 days. to leave a 12.5cm (5in) frill above TIP: Be sure to use BacoFoil Non-Stick, as the edge of the tin. Preheat oven to the unique non-stick coating will allow your 150°C/300°F/Gas Mark 2. cake to glide easily from foil to plate. 2 Cream the butter and sugar together

â&#x20AC;˘ Piece of BacoFoil Non-Stick 45cm x 60cm (18in x 24in) â&#x20AC;˘ 226g (8oz) butter â&#x20AC;˘ 226g (8oz) caster sugar â&#x20AC;˘ 4 eggs â&#x20AC;˘ 283g (10oz) plain ďŹ&#x201A;our â&#x20AC;˘ 1 level tsp baking powder â&#x20AC;˘ Juice and grated rind of 1 orange â&#x20AC;˘ 56g (2oz) chopped dried apricots â&#x20AC;˘ Whole dried apricots cut into eighths (optional)

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look at life… Yours columnist Lynda Bellingham finds that going through the gates of her local gym was like embarking on a journey to hell


hen I was at school, avoiding the gym was a must for any girl who wished to achieve street cred. One did not DO the exercise stuff. One DID the coffee bar in the city centre. How weird is the reversal of fortune once one gets to a certain age? Mind you, having said that, I am still avoiding the gym at all costs. Cost being the operative word. To be thin, think rich! Whose idea was it that to join a health club you had to take out a second mortgage? Perhaps in these credit crunch times this problem has eased somewhat. I notice my local gym is much more open to negotiation these days. However, it is not just about the money is it? How on earth can any normal, slightly middle-aged and maybe a little plump woman enter the hallowed halls of a gym? The humiliation! I actually live in a complex which boasts a gym, so when I first arrived, I decided that the time had come for me to address any issues I had with the whole fitness regime thing. I gave all my details to the girl on the door (noting how gorgeous she was and toned. Help!). I followed her pert posterior down the steps to the changing rooms. There were a couple of ladies getting changed – both very fit-looking. Still, I could manage the changing bit, especially if I used the place at five in the morning. I am a very solitary person, you understand. So now I have changed into my old black leggings and a baggy t-shirt and, like a lamb to the slaughter, I pass through the gates of hell into the gym. AAAARGH! There, before my eyes, are rows and rows of robotic blonde humanoids with perfect figures wearing headbands and walking in time to the music from their iPods. Honestly, if I had come from another planet and been greeted by this spectacle it would have sent me running for cover.

‘I emerged like a piece of clothing that had been through a spin cycle’

I spent the next hour straining to hear what my personal trainer was telling me over the noise of wheels and machines and dance music. I lifted and pulled, stretched and bent, and it hurt like hell. Then, in a kind of daze and hyperventilating, I tumbled back into the changing room. I could hardly get my clothes off my sweat-drenched body I was shaking so much. I staggered into the shower unaware of the looks I was getting from the perfect human specimens around me. It was only later I realised that through all this I was uttering a constant stream of little moans and groans. Well, it was a bit like a lesser version of giving birth. All that pain, yet nothing to show at the end of it all. I emerged into the daylight like a piece of clothing that had been through a spin cycle. My hair was in tatters, hanging limply. My face was puce and burning, and my legs kept buckling under me. When I got back to my apartment, I fell into bed and passed out. No. I’m sorry, I never went back. I am now doing Pilates, which is great fun and actually really does tone you up. I do it in the privacy of my own home. Perhaps if I had persevered I’d have felt wonderful and ended up with the perfect body. But life is too short. Give me a gentle stroll around a park followed by a cup of tea and a bun any day.

On a personal front, Mr Spain has just had a hernia operation. He was out of hospital the same day before I could even nurse him and two days later was driving to Spain. And finally the curtain has come down on the old cast of Calendar Girls and we’ve welcomed in


the new by going for a coffee together. June Brown was asking me for tips about costume changes. As a gift for the present cast I had a photo framed of each in role. My sister Jean (54), who is very artistic, helped me wrap them in brown paper tied with raffia

and made each a little card of a sunflower. It’s been wonderful and I’m glad to head to Spain now for a break. That should help stave off loose-end feelings. It’s been such a big part of my life for so long.


Lynda’s fortnight…


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Yours Magazine #68  

Yours magazine Issue 68 brings you news and views on issues that matter to you from the UK's favourite magazine for women in their prime

Yours Magazine #68  

Yours magazine Issue 68 brings you news and views on issues that matter to you from the UK's favourite magazine for women in their prime