think about that concept. You need to have a certain level of communication skills, openness, you can’t be shutdown, and you can’t have a lot of negative behaviors. You got to have an understanding of the game and you have to understand people, and the relationship process. At the Centre and in our books, we talk about the Seven Principles of Relationship Success and we talk about the four steps to relationship success. You know, you have to have a lot of this relationship mastery, at least the basics to get into the game and stay in the game. I mean anyone can get into the game. People read some of our Attraction material and yes you can attract people, but can you keep them? That’s the key; you need to have the relationship intelligence, the relationship mastery at a certain level. So I had to get rid of a lot of my toxicities and defiencies. I had to understand the game and the different personalities, different values, different lifestyles and that is what Love by Design (www.lovebydesignbook.com) teaches. That will help you get closure, if you go through the tests in that program or the Counsellor in a Box Program (www.counsellorinabox.com). In these programs you can see that there is a lot of things that you are not relating on that are very important to you and if you read any of our handouts on deal breakers or requirements, there are some things that you just can’t live with. I was with a lovely lady Lucie, we had different visions and values, we had different lifestyles, and we had different life values. The love was there and the attraction was there. It was even worst with earlier relationships that I talk about in True Love on Demand, these people where dysfunctional, they were character disordered, they were unavailable, they had some major issues going on and I had some major issues, I had some toxicities and some deficiencies. You know, I had no idea about the relationship game; I should not have been in relationships at that time. Someone should have pulled me away and trained me for half a year, six months or three months or whatever, to wake me up and smell the coffee, because I was really good in other areas of my life, but I certainly wasn’t good in relationships. Just as a side note, the following is the basic descriptions of the communication modes, for more detailed descriptions as well as tips for better communication and the needs of each of the modes check out Love by Design Book at www.lovebydesignbook.com. Visuals communicate by seeing and doing. They like activities and they like gifts. They notice people, places and things with just the slightest glance. They feel and share love by doing things with or for other people. They take things at face value and do not look deeper into things.
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