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Natural Game - The System For Being A Natural With Women

– Solid Closes, Buyers Remorse, etc When you are getting on well with a girl in a club and there is the potential for things to get very physical, there are different ways to play it. You might have heard of something called buyer’s remorse or a fool’s mate, which is where you escalate the physical stuff too quickly with a girl and then she regrets it and doesn’t want to see you again. I can illustrate this with an example of what happened to me: I approached a hot girl in a club and very quickly we were kissing and touching very sexually, almost to the point of getting thrown out. I decided to slow things down a bit and so stopped, took her hand and lead her to go and sit down. On the way my friend stopped me for a picture and I got engaged with him, she went to her friends. She ended up leaving the club without me talking to her again, and she was very very tough to get to commit to another date. That is because she had kissed a guy that she didn’t know or have a connection with. If I wanted to see her again, I didn’t know her well, so it would be purely about her looks and purely for sex. This is what she was thinking. If I had managed to sit down with her, and spend 20 minutes talking with her and finding things I like about her, we would have been able to very easily arrange a date. The other option would have been to go all the way, take her home and then do the comfort building over breakfast or in bed. So basically, you have to do a couple of things

if you are getting physical with a girl you’d like to see again: If there is no chance of you sleeping with her that night (because she has to drive friends home or whatever) and you really like her, don’t spend the whole night kissing her, back off and talk, then kiss a bit more, then talk a bit. Mix it up. If you can sleep with her that night, go for it and spend some quality time afterwards. True Story: Rapid Escalation Remorse + Long Delay Text Game Natural Game 3rd Edition update – Guys, I texted the girl in the above story 9 months after this event. We recently started dating. So here’s the scoop – I called soon after this night and she wouldn’t meet me for coffee. Now that we are dating, she told me that she actually left the club after what happened because she felt bad for going too far too fast. She also told me that she might have met me 2 weeks later, but not so soon. She also said that if the last thing we did that night was have a conversation and we’d calmed down, that would have been fine. By the way, here was the text message I sent: “Hey, sorry I missed our one year anniversary! How have you been?” She wrote back: “I don’t think it’s been a year. I’m good, how are you?”

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