with Alzheimer’s to perceive things in new, unusual ways. Individuals may become suspicious of those around them, even accusing others of theft, infidelity or other improper behavior. Sometimes the person may also misinterpret what he or she sees and hears. Don’t take offense: Listen to what is troubling the person, and try to understand that reality. Then be reassuring, and let the person know you care. Don’t argue or try to convince: Allow the individual to express ideas. Acknowledge their opinions. Offer a simple answer: Share your thoughts with them, but keep it simple. Don’t overwhelm them with lengthy explanations or reasons. Switch the focus to another activity: Engage the individual in an activity, or ask for help with a chore. Duplicate any lost items: If they are often searching for a specific item, have several available. Such as having two of the same wallet. Consider that caring for a person with advanced dementia can be emotionally and physically exhausting. Arrange for extra help to have time away from the care needs of your loved one. Consider unpaid help such as church members, other family as well as paid help such as personal care attendants from in home care agencies and adult day care programs. Discuss with their physician if a cognitive evaluation from a speech therapist would help identify their current level of functioning and methods you may use to care for them at home. Resources: Area Agency on Aging: 207-764-3396 or 1-800-439-1789 Memory Clinic: Dr. Meleth 207-498-1394
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