Dating Tips Online - Guilty feelings Here we have offer you again useful dating tips online. One of our readers sent as a question regarding their dating and sex life. Read on and learn what our residence doctor and expert can say about that. Dear Doctor: I have a boyfriend who I love dearly and in all honesty, I can’t really complain about our sex life or our relationship in general. Nevertheless, I had strong feelings for a coworker, some years back. It was always platonic since I was certain that it wasn’t mutual and I really didn’t put myself out there for him to see….I didn’t want to cheat on my boyfriend. I now work somewhere else and haven’t seen this guy in quite a while….nevertheless, what I thought was over, probably isn’t. Last night I had a very intense, sexual dream about him and all these feelings I had were so strong in my sleep… I woke up today feeling extremely guilty, almost as if I’ve cheated and I just don’t understand why that dream took place. Dear Reader: It’s one thing to say you are attracted to somebody… that isn’t really something one can control. Your use of the word “feelings” though, that’s a totally different story, since it involves having shared time and energy on this person, even if you kept it at a platonic level. This, to me, is an indicator, that there might be still, or was at the time, something in your relationship with your boyfriend, which was lacking and thus you looked elsewhere. This guy is long gone now and he’s history so you really shouldn’t feel guilty about a dream…it’s totally involuntary. You don’t even need to share it with anybody and it certainly is not, by any means, an infidelity on your behalf….so don’t beat yourself up over it What’s left after the dream, that resurge of your old feelings…that’s what should concern you because, like I said, it might be an indicator that something needs work in your current relationship. Think about it…it’s easy to fall in a rut when you’re with someone but that can be easily solved. Make use of these tips we had taught you. Start dating online now at CitySex.com Join the web’s hottest adult dating service community today and find your perfect match! What's better than getting access 100% free? Citysex.com allows you to sign up for free with zero obligation or risk! Visit the best site for online dating now.
Published on Sep 13, 2011