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Smart Listening for Parents and Kids

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Family FUNstruction Rolls Into Museum

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Find Fruit and Fun at Apple Show/County Fair Tomales Village Marks History Through Festival Celebrate Independencia at Hispanic Heritage Event

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Cooking with Kids

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ack-to-school season can make weeknight dinners feel rushed, but heat-and-eat soups can simplify dinnertime and help families ease into busy weeknight routines. Zoup!’s homestyle soups offer a ready-in-minutes starting point for hearty, family-friendly meals, whether served on their own with toppings like parmesan crisps or paired with easy sides like grilled cheese dippers.

Made with simple ingredients and kettle-cooked in small batches, the soups can also become a flavorful base for quick recipes, from tortellini simmered in Tomato Bisque to mac and cheese boosted with Butternut Squash. For an easy shortcut on a family favorite, try Zoup!’s Meatloaf with Tomato Bisque, which incorporates the soup into the meatloaf mixture and uses it again as a warm gravy-style topping.

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Bake for 1 hour or until the meatloaf is done.

Heat 2 Tbs. of the pan drippings with the remaining soup and water in a saucepan over medium heat until hot. Serve the gravy with the meatloaf and enjoy!

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ave the date for Saturday, September 19, from 11 a.m.–3 p.m. for an open house hosted by the Marin/Sonoma Mosquito and Vector Control District. Discover how MSMVCD works year-round to protect public health at this free, family-friendly event where all ages can explore hands-on activities, interactive displays, and live demonstrations. Guests learn how mosquito traps work, meet the vector control technicians who respond to service requests, and leave with practical, easy-to-use information to help protect their families and neighborhoods. Kid-friendly activities include balloon animals, bounce house, games, and prizes. Free refreshments while supplies last. Activities take place at 595 Helman Ln., Cotati. Learn more at tinyurl.com/4a3bhswc.

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elebrate Creek Week from Saturday, September 19-Friday, September 25, when participants will nurture and explore local creeks in new ways. Virtual Creek Week activities include a creek to coast cleanup, guided nature walk, downtown underground tour, scavenger hunt, and more. Sign up for one or more in-person events or participate virtually by completing activities online. Registration for in-person events is required. Registration for events may be closed before Creek Week based on number of registrants. See a full schedule and specific locations at srcity.org/2290/ Creek-Week-2026.

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et ready to dig in at the Children’s Museum of Sonoma County’s FUNstruction, taking place Friday, September 25, from 4:30–8 p.m. This one-of-a-kind family night celebrates all things construction while kicking off the next exciting chapter of the museum’s future.

Explore construction vehicles, experiment with hands-on construction-themed activities, and celebrate the official groundbreaking of the museum expansion. Local craft beer and Sonoma County wines, plus eats from local food trucks will be available for purchase. CMSC is located at 1835 W. Steele Ln., Santa Rosa. Full event details can be found at cmosc.org/event/family-funstuction/2026-09-25.

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The Mendocino County Fair & Apple Show

he Mendocino County Fair & Apple Show features the CCPRA rodeo, a classic car show, sheep dog trails, entertainment, carnival, country music, and dancing. Also an apple tasting, wine and hard cider tasting. Cost is $8–$12 with ages 6 and younger admitted free. Unlimited rides are $35–$50. Extra fee for parking and tastings. Friday, September 18– Sunday, September 20. 9 a.m.–midnight daily.

Fairgrounds, 14400 Hwy. 128, Boonville. For a full schedule of events, visit mendocountyfair.com/ county-fair.

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eld annually by volunteers on the Sunday before Labor Day, the proud village of Tomales celebrates its history through TomalesFest. TomalesFest is the successor to Founders Day, which itself is the continuation of the Swiss national day celebration.

Participants have been parading, picnicking, and partying for at least 138 years! This year, the Blues Defenders will provide live music in Tomales Community Park, 10 Irvin Rd., Tomales. Food, beer, wine, art, crafts, and local exhibits will also be featured. Activities begin at noon on Sunday, September 6. For more details, visit tomalestownhall.org/tomalesfest.

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Organized by the Center’s Latino Advisory Council, this free festival is a community-wide celebration of cultures, people, and traditions that also increases awareness of Hispanic history and tradition, service organizations that support the community, and the many Latinx businesses in Sonoma County. Gates open at noon, Sunday, September 13, and events take place from 1-7 p.m. at the Luther Burbank Center for the Arts, located at 50 Mark West Springs Rd., Santa Rosa. Learn more at tinyurl.com/4ce89m8e.

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College Prep Podcasts Smart Listening for Parents and Kids

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here are few moments more exhilarating — and stressful — in the life of a family than getting kids ready for college. One way to reduce some of that stress while also enhancing family bonding is to go through the college prep process together.

Here’s a list of some of the best college prep podcasts that you can listen to with your college-bound kids. These podcasts cover the entire process, from writing the application to finding the money to pay for tuition and all the other expenses. Sit back and listen up: they’re full of great advice.

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College Parent Central (Available at: Apple, iHeart, Spotify) If you’re looking for a one-stop college prep resource, College Parent Central is the right podcast for you. It’s created and hosted by Lynn Abrahams and Vicki Nelson, two seasoned college professionals with a combined 70-plus years of experience in higher-education September 2026

advisement, teaching, and research.

This podcast covers everything from identifying the colleges that are the best fit for your kids, applying for admission, finding the money to pay for college, to gathering the resources that’ll help your kids enjoy the experience and succeed.

College Prep Genius (Available at: Apple, Podbean, Spotify) While some colleges have eliminated testing requirements, many colleges continue to expect applicants to submit either their ACT or SAT scores as part of the application package. A strong ACT or SAT score can also lead to scholarships that may pay for partial or full college expenses. The founder of College Prep Genius, Jean Burke, is an experienced ACT and SAT instructor whose own two kids received full scholarships due to their excellent test scores.

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standard requirement at virtually all colleges, is the admissions essay.

This is where applicants introduce themselves and their interests and try to convince admissions officials that they’re motivated and capable of doing well if admitted. Ethan Sawyer (aka The College Essay Guy) is the author of the best-selling College Essay Essentials and has more than two decades of experience counseling applicants on how to make their case in writing. His podcast is full of great writing tips.

The College Admissions Process (Available at: Apple, PlayerFM, Spotify) The College Admissions Process is a great companion podcast to College Prep Genius and The College Essay Guy. Founded by John Durante, an

experienced admissions counselor, this podcast features in-depth conversations with a variety of admission officials. You’ll hear from individuals from colleges that are

One way to reduce some of that stress … is to go through the college prep process together. large and small, very competitive and less competitive, urban and rural, and secular and religious.

Simply put, this podcast provides a great sense of what different colleges are looking for, which will help your kids craft a compelling application.

The College Investor (Available at: Apple, Podbay, Spotify) For most parents, the biggest concern isn’t how to get their kids into college — it’s how to pay for it — as college seems to get increasingly expensive. The College Investor, the brainchild of Robert Farrington, an experienced college finance expert, is a great resource for both parents and kids. On this podcast, you’ll find lots of advice on how to best save and pay for college, as well as suggestions for how the kids can help defray the costs while working in college. It even has tips for recent college graduates on how to invest for the future. ❖ Tanni Haas, Ph.D. is a professor in the Department of Communication Arts, Sciences, at the City University of New York — Brooklyn College.

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Remember that Adolescence is About Gaining Independence.

When your child is being stubborn, it can feel like a challenge to your authority, but it may be their attempt at gaining independence, a normal phase of teen development.

Building Bonds Having a Healthy Relationship With Your Teen

By Cheryl Maguire

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ou have been playing video games for two hours, can’t you find something else to do?” I asked my son.

He rolled his eyes, gave a half-huff and half-grunt sound as he turned off the TV, and then moped by me.

Being a parent of a teen can be challenging due to their lack of communication with you and their testing of your rules.

Dr. Kenneth Ginsburg, a physician and co-founder of the Center for Parent and Teen Communication, said, “We want parents to understand that this is a wonderful phase of development. There are going to be some puddles, but it is your unconditional love of your child that is their platform to help launch them into adulthood.”

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So, a lot of the parents’ work is about loosening that control.”

Some ways you can have a healthy relationship with your teen are to: Remember That You Were A Teen Once Too. Asking yourself open-ended questions that create empathy can help you to have a healthy relationship with your teen.

For example, if a parent is struggling with their 15-year-old son, Dr. Solomon suggests asking yourself, “What was going on for you at age 15?”

This allows you to remember how it feels to be a teenager and reminds you about some of the struggles they are going through.

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“Teens may be struggling with strong emotions, challenging social and academic situations, and exploring who they are apart from their parents,” said Dr. Carla Naumburg, clinical social worker and author of the book How to Stop Losing Your Sh*t With Your Kids.

Remember That Teens Rebel Against Us Because They Love Us. When your child rebels against your rules, it might feel as if they don’t care about you or your expectations.

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this will allow you to go back to the place that you need to be, strategically.

Taking a deep breath, creating a space, approaching this from a place of love instead of hostility or anger,” Dr. Ginsburg said.

Move To A “Yes” Space. Dr. Solomon explained that the moment a parent feels anger, they need to pay attention because they have moved from a “yes” space to a “no” space.

A “yes” space is when you are on the same team as your teen and a “no” space is when you are in fight or flight mode, leading you to try to control the situation.

“If a kid is doing something that they know is going to get under their parent’s skin, a parent should think, ‘My kid loves me, I love my kid, we are

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Being a parent of a teen can be challenging due to their lack of communication with you … reacting. If necessary, envision a stop sign in front of you or walk away. This step is the most difficult one because the moment can feel like it demands a response right now.

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Dr. Solomon stressed the importance of not telling your teen that they are doing something wrong. She said, “When our language has a hint of ‘you are doing it the wrong way,’ that is an invitation to a power struggle. Parents need to have compassion and help their kid make healthy choices from a place of love and healthy boundaries versus fear and control.” ❖ Cheryl Maguire’s writing has been published in The New York Times, Parents Magazine, Upworthy, Chicken Soup for the Soul: Count Your Blessings and Your Teen Magazine. You can find her at Bluesky @CherylMaguire.

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academic struggles. You might notice your child begins “forgetting” their textbooks at school, conveniently losing worksheets, or claiming they have no homework night after night.

Physical symptoms can also be an avoidance strategy; frequent morning complaints of stomachaches or headaches before big test days are classic signs of school-related anxiety.

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very student hits an occasional academic bump in the road. A single poor quiz grade or a night of frustrating homework is completely normal. However, when a temporary struggle turns into a continuous, exhausting cycle, it may be time to consider outside support. Recognizing the warning signs early ensures that minor learning gaps do not evolve into permanent academic roadblocks.

For parents, the clues are rarely found just on a report card; instead, they appear in daily routines, behavioral changes, and emotional shifts. By understanding what to look for, you can step in with the right support before your child falls too far behind.

The Endless Homework Marathon. The most immediate sign of trouble is a drastic increase in homework time. While advanced grades naturally require more study, a basic worksheet should not trigger a three-hour nightly battle. If your child spends hours staring at a single page, re-reading instructions without comprehension, or falling behind on daily assignments, they are likely 18 SonomaFamilyLife

missing the foundational concepts needed to complete the work.

Emotional Meltdowns and Anxiety. When academic confusion sets in, emotional distress quickly follows. Pay close attention to your child’s behavior around study time. Frequent tears, sudden angry outbursts, or intense anxiety before school are coping mechanisms for feeling overwhelmed. If a normally calm child becomes defensive or highly stressed the moment a backpack opens, the material has likely exceeded their ability to cope.

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The Confidence Crash. Pay attention to how your child talks about themselves. A sudden shift from “this math problem is hard” to “I am stupid” or “I am just bad at school” is a major red flag. When students repeatedly fail

Do not wait for a failing grade to take action. to grasp concepts, they lose their sense of academic confidence. Once a child mentally gives up and assumes they cannot learn the material, their grades will plummet even faster.

Hidden Report Card Feedback.

Do not wait for a failing grade to take action. Sometimes the signs are buried in teacher comments rather than the letter grades. Phrases like “capable of more,” “does not participate,” or “frequently distracted” often mean a student has checked out because the material is too difficult.

Moving Forward. If these signs sound familiar, start by scheduling a meeting with your child’s teacher to pinpoint the exact trouble spots.

Frame the idea of a tutor positively.

Remind your child that a tutor is not a punishment for doing poorly, but rather a personal coach — just like in sports — hired to help them build their skills, regain their confidence, and succeed.

Research assistance from Google AI was used for this article. Resource websites include elitehometutoring.com, tutordoctor.com, and gradepowerlearning.com.

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September Calendar of Events

Tuesday 1 Spirit Guides. Fantastical Creatures

from the Workshop of Jacobo and María Ángeles features brightly colored, richly patterned sculptures depicting imaginary hybrid animals that serve as spirit guides and astrological embodiments of human character. Now extended through September 20. Sonoma Botanical Garden. 12841 Hw., 12, Glen Ellen. sonomabg.org.

Wednesday 2 FREE Santa Rosa City Firefighter Story Hour@the Library. Join local

firefighters for a fun reading of Fire!

Fuego! Brave Bomberos and explore one of the fire department’s special emergency vehicles. Grades K–3.

10:30–11:30 a.m. Northwest Santa Rosa Library. 150 Coddingtown Center, Santa Rosa. Other Sonoma Library branches will host this event.

View schedule: tinyurl.com/4jpz9px8.

Morris St., Sebastopol. Questions: youthprograms@seb.org. seb.org.

Friday 4 FREE Movies in the Park. Sept. 4:

FREE Afterschool Hang-Out for Teens – Sebastopol. Peer mentoring,

study, homework, music, internet use, games, shoot hoops, free snacks.

Wednesdays. 3–6 p.m. Sebastopol Community Cultural Center. 390

Lilo & Stitch (2025). Sept. 11: Zootopia 2. Bring blanket or low-back chair & picnic. Food/drinks available for purchase. Movie starts 7:45 p.m.

Howarth Park. 630 Summerfield Rd., Santa Rosa. tinyurl.com/3mypu5b2.

Tuesday 8 FREE Sensory Friendly Afternoon.

Exclusive to families of children ages 0–12, with special needs. Hands-on exhibits, art studio. Safe, accessible

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Creek to Coast Cleanup Day Saturday, Sept. 19

Guided Nature Walk Sunday, Sept 13th 10AM - 2PM

Sonoma County Fairgrounds

$7 presale tickets now available!

Sunday, Sept. 20

Milkweed Monday Volunteer Day Monday, Sept. 21

Downtown Underground Tour Tues., Sept. 22, and Thurs., Sept. 24

Bilingual Birding Walk

Ride-a-Rig is a can’t-miss day of education and fun for the whole family!

Friday, Sept. 25

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FREE Sonoma County Pomo Dancers – Ocean Dance. Sharing tradition and culture through dance.

Bring beach/lawn chairs, water/ snacks. 2–4 p.m. Sonoma Coast State Park. 7900 Carlevaro Way, Bodega Bay. Parking is first come, first served.

Space is limited. RSVPs required: tinyurl.com/46zysddv.

Sunday 13 Annual Ride-A-Rig. Kids get a

chance to see & touch vehicles that play an important role in the community. $7–$10. Ages 2 & younger: free. Presented by the Junior League of Napa & Sonoma. 10 a.m.–2 p.m. Sonoma County Fairgrounds.

1350 Bennett Valley Rd., Santa Rosa.

Tickets: jlns.org.

FREE Grandparents Day at the Museum. Grandparents receive

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apply to all other visitors: Adults $7–15. Ages 3 & younger: free.

Discounts available for qualifying guests. 10 a.m.–5 p.m. Charles Schulz Museum. 2301 Hardies Ln., Santa Rosa. schulzmuseum.org/ grandparents-day-2026.

FREE Fiesta de Independencia Small Schools with a Big Family Feel * Districtwide Social Emotional Curriculum All TK-3rd Grade Teachers Trained and Implementing Science of Reading Based Curriculum and Strategies Hands on Science Learning in Every Classroom * Before and After School Child Care Programs Charter Focus at Each School including Dual Immersion, Arts and Ecology, STEM, and Music Physical Education Instruction, Music Classes, School Libraries, and More!

REGISTER NOW FOR TK-6TH GRADES!

Five Amazing Schools: La Tercera Elementary Loma Vista Immersion Academy

Contact Us! 707-765-4321 www.oldadobe.org

Miwok Valley Elementary Old Adobe Charter Sonoma Mountain Charter

Virtual Event. Family-friendly celebration of community, cultural diversity, & Latino heritage. Authentic food (fee), mariachi bands, and Ballet Folklórico. Bilingual event.

1–7 p.m. Luther Burbank Center.

50 Mark West Springs Rd., Santa Rosa. lutherburbankcenter.org/event/ fiesta-de-independencia-26.

Friday 18 Mendocino County Fair & Apple Show. CCPRA rodeo, classic cars,

sheep dog trials, entertainment, carnival, country music, dancing, plus apple, wine & hard cider tasting (fee). Entry: $8–$12; ages 6 & under free. Unlimited rides: $35–$50. Ride coupons: $2–$35. Parking: $8. Sept.

18 only: ages 12 & under free. Sept.

18–20: 9 a.m.–midnight. Mendocino County Fairs. 14400 Hwy. 128, Boonville. mendocountyfair.com/ county-fair.

FREE Forestville Movies in the Park. Screening of Toy Story 5.

Concession stand opens an hour before the movie begins. Bring your own low-back chairs & blankets.

No pets. Movie starts: 7:15 p.m.

Baseball Field. Forestville Youth Club. 7045 Mirable Rd. Forestville. forestvilleyouthpark.org.

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Saturday 19 Wheels & Wings Show. Classic & muscle cars from every era, parked

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next to the high-performance historic aircraft. Tickets: $10. Ages 7 & younger: free. All proceeds go directly to the museum. 8 a.m.–2 p.m.

Charles M. Schulz-Sonoma Airport.

2200 Airport Blvd., Santa Rosa. Free parking: 3631 N. Laughlin, in the lots next to the show site. pacificcoastairmuseum.org.

remembrance. $10 pp. Register for 1 of 2 time sessions 10 a.m.–1 p.m. & 2–5 p.m. Sonoma Community Center. 276 E. Napa St., Sonoma. tinyurl.com/hvukza26.

Friday 25 Family FUNstruction. Celebrate the

with construction vehicles, heavy machinery on display. Food trucks, and wine/beer for purchase.

Members $10; non-members $20–$22; free for infants 11 months and younger. Members: $10. Non-members: $20–$22. Free:

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event for all ages with hands-on activities, bounce house, prizes, and more. Explore field equipment, live tick and mosquito displays, tick-bite prevention tips, rodent control and bee and yellowjacket education. Free lunch and refreshments. 11 a.m.–3 p.m.

Marin Sonoma Mosquito and Vector Control District. 595 Helman Ln., Cotati. tinyurl.com/2m542we9.

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Annual state-wide, trash clean-up with a competition & prizes. All ages welcome. 10 a.m.–noon. Olive Park.

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Sunday 20 Fall Lantern Workshop – Family & Friends Session. A creative,

beginner-friendly workshop for all ages. Children are welcome with adult participation. Create a lantern honoring loved ones with wishes, blessings, or messages of www.sonomafamilylife.com

Make fall magical with a train ride to the circus on select dates

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11 months & younger. Discounts available for qualifying guests.

4:30–8 p.m. Children’s Museum of Sonoma County. 1835 W. Steele Ln., Santa Rosa. cmosc.org/ family-fun-nights.

FREE Petaluma Movies in the Park.

Screening of Dora and the Lost City of Gold. Bring blanket or low-back chair. Food/drinks sold. Movie begins at dusk. Gates open 1 hr. before.

Lucchesi Community Center. 320 N. McDowell Blvd., Petaluma. tinyurl. com/4wu3cn78.

Saturday 26 All Hallow’s Art Fest. Halloween

art, décor, jewelry, & collectibles.

Admission: $5. Ages 12 & younger: free. 9 a.m.–3 p.m. Hermann

Sons Hall. 860 Western Ave., Petaluma (enter on Webster Street). halloweenfolkartsociety.com.

FREE Windsor Day Parade and Festival. Parade at 10 a.m. Starts at Windsor High School ends at the Town Green. Live music, kids activities. Food & drinks vendors.

10 a.m.–2 p.m. Windsor Town Green. 9291 Old Redwood Hwy., Windsor. tinyurl.com/57s8x4fv.

Annual VegFest. Dozens of local

& bay-area vendors with delicious food, animal art, vegan boutiques, sustainable & eco products, free samples, cooking demos, & live music. $10–$15 pp. Ages 12 & under: free. 10 a.m.–3 p.m. Santa Rosa Veterans Memorial Bldg. 1351

Maple Ave., Santa Rosa. Tickets: socovegfest.org.

Pronzini Pumpkin Patch. Pumpkin picking, hay maze, petting zoo, shaded picnic tables, & more.

Admission: Weekdays: $5–7. Ages 12 & under: free. Weekends: $5–$12.

Ages 2 & under: free. Punch card (add’l fee) includes haunted trail, train ride, slides, & bouncy houses.

Fridays & Saturdays, 10 a.m.–7 p.m.

Sundays, 10 a.m.–6 p.m. Mondays– Thursdays, 11 a.m.–6 p.m. Pronzini Farms. 3795 Adobe Rd., Petaluma. tinyurl.com/4madtw2t.

Fun struction!

Friday, September 25, 4:30-8:00 PM

Celebrate our expansion groundbreaking with us!

Touch construction vehicles Hands-on building activities Food, beer, and wine

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