57 邱德昌 / 性 / 27 歲 / 電腦銷售部 我想舉這個例子是因為我們社會裡頭藏有太多的壓抑,這單單祇是其中一個例子而已,每當 我們想做的事情,就會被父母說這個不行、那個不要等,但是何時有人真正傾聽自己內心的 聲音與慾望,可能從小唸書到長大工作都是照著父母的指示在走,而如果活到40,50歲的時 候才在怨天尤人嗎?這不是很悲哀的一件事情?我所要表達的是,這不是單單是性的問題,而 是廣義的社會價值觀定義,順從內心最真的聲音,找回自己,就像Norbert這個計畫,看看這 個社會如何去定義價值觀,藉由找回自己而重新拾回真正內心的快樂與身心平衡,我想這是 很重要的。 James是最後一個禮拜才加入我的工作,也提供相當的幫助。我希望他可以早一點加入我的計畫。 他在我拜訪的參與者中是很不一樣的,可能最主要是他很清楚他不信上帝。只有相信他自己。他不 信任何宗教包括道教或是其他。我問他為什麼會不相信,他回答我說:問題應該這麼問,為什麼我要 信?他跟其他人很與眾不同。他藉由肯定自我及幫助他人來達到身心的平衡。他喜歡各式各樣的書 籍,這同時也幫助他了解自己及這個世界。
Te-Chung Chiu / Sex / Age 27 / Sales Department in Computer Company I want to have this topic because I think in this society we all suppress ourselves too much. This is just an example, of course, of what we really want to do and the parents will, deﬁnitely, tell us not to do it. The parents always tell us the importance of having good grades, going to college, having a nice job and ﬁnally getting married and having offspring. Do you really want to live until 40 or 50 years old and complain about your life for not being satisfying because the decisions were all made by others? Isn’t it a tragedy? The point is that it is not just about sex, it’s about how we construct our value. Sould everybody listen to the heart and ﬁnd the true you. The project Norbert has brought out is about how value is constructed and we can ﬁnd the true me back through it and being happy again by getting your body and mind balanced. I think it’s really important. James was instrumental in my work in the last week. I wish I had met him before I did. He is also different from many people I met in Taiwan, primarily because he explicitly does not believe in God, but only in himself. He does not believe in Tao or any other religion. I asked him why does he not believe in God and he answered me with a question. ‘’Why should we believe in God’’. He feels different from other people because he is a different person from everyone else. He achieves peace of mind because he is comfortable with himself and also through helping others. He likes reading all kinds of books. This helps him to understand himself and the world around him.