together. •Because he knows the difference between wit and snark and wields each expertly. •Because he asked me to name five Red Sox players, even though he knew I wouldn’t be able to. •Because he hasn’t Googled me, even though I would have Googled him before going out the first time. And because he wants to discover me in the right time, instead of discovering me in a brain-dump of printed information. •Because he has on his bookshelves many of the books I have on my bookshelves. And because he wants borrowing privileges from my library,