PROTECT YOUR SKIN OVER THE SUMMER! Heather Rohrer of York said she felt like she should have spent more time with her then-4-year-old daughter, Maura Hain, during her divorce. Experts say guilt is common, but parents should stay positive and focus on all the things they have done for their children.
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secure environment for the child. “I am so thankful that my ex and I were able to work things out without resorting to petty arguments,” Korn said. “We were lucky to get along so well, and I think that’s the best thing we could have done for our son.” Pollack agreed. “Role model respect and honesty,” she said. “They’re watching and they will follow what you’re doing.” Pollack also encouraged parents to remember that children are flexible. “If they’re treated with respect, listened to, and you are honest with them, they will be fine,” she said.
Local statistics on divorce:
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■■ 2009: There were 2,170 marriages and 1,139 divorces in York County. ■■ 2010: There were 2,186 marriages and 1,112 divorces in York County. ■■ Divorce rates for Pennsylvania and York County are slightly lower than national rates. Source: Pennsylvania Department of Health, Bureau of Health Statistics and Research
Tips for parents:
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What to do ■■ Try not to let guilt overwhelm you. When feelings of guilt arise, think of all the things you have done for your child.
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■■ Be honest with your children and allow them to work through their feelings on the divorce. ■■ If possible, work with your ex-spouse to make your children a priority. ■■ Encourage your child to maintain a loving relationship with the other parent. ■■ Model respectful behavior toward your ex. What not to do: ■■ Do not badmouth your former spouse in front of your child. ■■ Do not make children feel as if they are stuck in the middle. ■■ Do not use the child as a messenger. ■■ Do not allow the child to witness stressful interactions.
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