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Learning How to Charm a Girl has Never Been this Easy…

How to Charm a Girl Instantly: The Science of Seductive Charisma Explained Source:

If you’ve ever wondered how to charm a girl instantly, understanding the common attributes of charismatic people is a must. Here are a few:

1. The Ability to Lead Well. Charismatic individuals have an unusually easy time leading others towards a shared goal. In fact, some people end up reluctantly being viewed as “leaders” because their charisma is so empowering that the responsibility naturally falls in their lap. This is because charismatics typically display traits that are universally appealing to human beings (empathy, confidence, vision, direction, etc..). In regards to romance, seduction, and charm, leadership plays an enormous role. Although society is slowly changing it’s perception on gender roles, most women still prefer it when men take charge and make good decisions that benefit both parties. Women are often charmed by men who, without any provocation, can take their hand and show them something The nature of charisma is fascinating. On one hand, it’s a pretty intangible concept, yet most people “feel” it and respond new and exciting. well to it. You can’t see it, but you know when someone has Take note: When we say “lead,” we don’t mean “control.” it. Charisma is like a magnet that attracts attention, respect, There’s a huge difference. You’re job as a man isn’t to “control” admiration, and authority. Individuals with charismatic traits a woman, but it is to lead her into a place of comfort, seem to easily influence and charm girls or other people, excitement and pleasure. This means you have to take more regardless of how “ethical” their motives may be. It’s almost as initiative when approaching women. A leader doesn’t sit back if excessively charismatic people have found a way to “hack” and watch opportunities fly by. It also means you need to the very fabric of social interaction in their favor. engage in more decision-making while on dates or in bed. This social “hack” allows community organizers to rouse Women can’t sexually submit to a man who’s constantly interest in important social issues and dictators to seize looking to them for direction. control over a country’s infrastructure. It’s a seemingly neutral 2. Mystique and Intrigue. force of nature that few are willing to effectively harness. Intrigue and charisma are never far apart. Charismatic people However, according to a University of Tennessee, Knoxville have a tendency to (consciously or not) create mystique study, . and intrigue around themselves. Most of the time, the In terms of seduction, charisma plays an important role mystique that surrounds people of interest and influence is in attracting women. When you adopt the right mindsets just an illusion. This can be attributed to a lack of general and mannerisms, you’re influence over women will be transparency and the effects it has on the interpretations of supernatural. outside observers.

Isn’t it funny that the less we are able to understand someone, the more interesting they become? Is it because we fill the void of knowledge and understanding with our own overactive imagination? If so, it makes sense why women fall so easily for the “strong but silent” types. These men offer such little explanation of themselves that women are forced to fill in the To read Original Article, Click Here to Go to AttractionWiki. 1

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blanks with fantasies and exciting scenarios (which are often times far more epic than the reality of that person).

closed and pulled-in body postures •

holding your hands in your pockets

You can really take advantage of this illusion to charm girls. When introducing yourself for the first time, make it a point not to reveal too much about yourself. Keep the conversation on her, and when she asks specific things about you, don’t be afraid to respond with a somewhat vague answer.

twitching hands or fingers

touching your face when talking

avoiding eye-contact or looking down while speaking

Girl: “So, are you from around here?” Guy: “I guess you could say that.. I’ve never really stayed in one place, though.”

nervous facial gestures

milling too much

Girl: “Oh really? Like what kind of places?” Guy: “Haha, too many to mention right now. What about yourself [redirecting the focus back to her]?” Girl: “Yeah, I was born and raised here my whole life… but I want to know more about you!” Guy: “Weeell, I’ll have tell you my story sometime. Actually, what’s your number? We should go grab coffee sometime soon.”

being afraid to touch a woman and many more. • Try to take note of the body language of powerful and influential figures. Notice how they always appear relaxed yet really engaged when speaking to people. Solid eye contact is a must (general rule of thumb: maintain eye contact 70% of the time). They may even touch shoulders, arms, etc… of other people while relating to them. Women will find you irresistibly charming once you master dominant body language.

4. Social Proof.

is a fascinating social phenomenon. It occurs when a person’s (or group’s) perception of reality is so weak that they look to others for cues on how to interpret a situation. Trend The example above demonstrates how you can use intrigue setters, politicians, leaders, and influential people often take to build attraction. Our “guy” could have easily explained full advantage of social proof in order to get large groups that his father was active in the military so his family had to of people to do something. Marketers often use social proof move frequently. Instead, he chose to withhold the details, to build credibility around a product. If you’re shopping for thereby creating intrigue. Our “girl” doesn’t know this, and has a basketball but don’t have a particular brand in mind, you probably labeled him some sort of “mysterious drifter” that are statistically be more likely to choose a brand endorsed she feels compelled to “figure out.” In the meantime, however, (and used) by Lebron James than a generic alternative. The she’ll just have to use her imagination. basketballs could be the exact same quality, but the one with Note: This doesn’t mean you need to act like a huge, unsolvable the most social proof usually wins. mystery. If you’re a naturally open and transparent individual, In regards to charming girls, social proof can play a VERY you can still be yourself. Just resist the temptation to tell your important role. When a woman first notices you, she might life story within the first 20 minutes of meeting a woman. Just find you cute but won’t think much of it unless she can place to play it safe, we recommend you cut the time you usually you in a positive social context. In other words, her perception spend explaining yourself by 50%. of you is HIGHLY dependent on how other people respond to you. She will likely perceive you as having high value if she sees 3. Body Language. other people placing such value on you. Perhaps it would help to look at how some of the most popular Think of social proof as the “Like” box on Facebook. You’re world leaders carry themselves around. You will realize that more likely to pay attention to status updates that have a ton their body posture, walking style and communication skills of “likes” than statuses with just a few. You’re also more likely reflect power and charisma. More than 70 percent of human to “share” and discuss status updates that have hundreds of communication is expressed through subtle body language. responses. Conversely, you’re LESS likely to share statuses in Therefore, to succeed in charming a potential date, you have which the originator “likes” his/her own status (hint, hint!). to open up physically and remain cool. Women are attracted to guys who portray dominant traits through their body language.

Pictured: Social Proof made easy. Like a Boss. Some non-verbal cues you should avoid include:

A woman is going to be more receptive of your approach if she overhears other people talk about you positively or notices women and friends responding to you favorably. All these social factors are basically “Likes” in your favor. If you’re

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able to accumulate enough social credibility, women will start approaching YOU first! Could it be that social proof also tends to create intrigue? We think so! Related PUA Terminology: and . Summary. At the end of the day, there is definitely a science behind social interaction. Those who master it well typically know how to charm girls the best. Keeping women spellbound while interacting with them is less about being a smooth “player” and more about being good with people! This is why charismatic types have greater sexual access then the average person. They hit that universal “sweet spot” in other human beings, and reap the rewards for their social competence. Are you prepared to use the force of seductive charisma in your daily life?