The holiday season is once again upon us. It’s amazing how fast a year passes by, and how fast our children grow in 12 months. This time of the year always puts me in a refletive mood. I not only think about the childhood holiday experiences of my three adult kids, but from my own youth as well. From Thanksgiving through New Year’s Day, family and friends traveled to our home in Pennsylvania, where homecooked meals and Christmas music made it a merry place. But being with loved ones is what made it special.
Since September, we’ve all been moved by the outpouring of support for residents in the Southeast—especially our neighbors in western North Carolina, who experienced unprecedented devastation from Hurricane Helene. We’re saddened when a disaster happens across the world, but even more so when one hits close to home. It’s heartwarming to see countless individuals providing essential resources to families and communities as they recover and rebuild. The human resolve is powerful, and the willingness to give selflessly defines the beaut of the human spirit. When we instill these beliefs and actions in our children, they—and society— benefit temendously.
As you reflet on holidays past, carve out time from your busy schedule to make new memories. Check out “Festive Celebrations” on page 16 for our hearty list of town parades, tree-lighting ceremonies, stage performances, Hanukkah and Kwanzaa celebrations, and opportunities to meet Santa and his sweetheart, Mrs. Claus. Browse our holiday gift guide on page 31 to find unique items fom local businesses for kids, caregivers, friends, and even the family pooch.
Speaking of family time, winter ’s clear skies provide the perfect opportunity for stargazing and admiring what lies beyond us in the cosmos. Planets, constellations and galaxies are incredibly beautiful right now, so don’t miss your chance to see them. Dress the kids warmly and head outside with a cup of hot cocoa after reading “Starry Nights, Celestial Delights” on page 10.
Winter and the holid ay season are truly magical. We at Triangle Family hope you and your loved ones enjoy both to the fullest.
Janice Lewine, Editor
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The Triangle boasts numerous stage shows this holiday season, including Carolina Ballet’s “The Nutcracker.” Gloria Haupt, Cameron Lewis, Gracelyn Green and Caroline McBryde will delight audiences December 12–24 at Raleigh Memorial Auditorium.
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Christian (2) visits Carolina Sunshine Alpaca Farm in Pittsboro.
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Camdyn (6) writes a letter to Santa at Pullen Park’s Holiday Express in Raleigh.
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Leah (4) decorates her Christmas tree in Durham.
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Ronan McMahon (7) enjoys the North Carolina Symphony’s sensory-friendly concert at Meymandi Concert Hall in Raleigh.
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NEW FIRST TEE FACILITY OFFERS VARIETY OF GOLF ACTIVITIES
First Tee – Triangle has opened a state-of-the-art facility at 12201 Leesville Road in Raleigh. The TriGolf complex features 28 driving range bays, classrooms and meeting rooms for youth activities, and will soon feature a 9-hole, par-3 golf course.
The nonprofit yuth development organization enables kids to build the strength of character to face a lifetime of new challenges. By seamlessly integrating the game of golf with a life skills curriculum, First Tee builds self-confidence in a safe and supportive environment.
Programs begin for ages 5 and 6 at six locations in the Triangle. First Tee has an unlimited number of financial aid opportunities available for those needing financial assistance. The organization welcomes volunteer coaches, who teach young people core values, healthy habits and valuable life skills through the game of golf.
POPULARITY GROWING FOR BOYS, GIRLS FLAG FOOTBALL
The Carolina Panthers and the Wake County Public School System teamed up last winter to create a women’s high school flag football league for 20 local schools. While the program currently has no plans to return, the sport continues to grow in popularity with both boys and girls.
NFL Flag leagues, which are no-contact, offer boys and girls age 4–17 a chance to develop football skills. There are more than 700,000 players across 1,800 NFL Flag leagues in the United States. According to nflflag.com, individuals, government agencies and organizations c start a league within two weeks of application.
In the Triangle, Raleigh Parks and Recreation hosts NFL Flag seasons in the fall and spring. Carrboro hosts the NFL-affiliate program in the summer and fall, along with flag football camps.
The Town of Apex launched a flag football progam this past summer for ages 7–10, while Holly Springs offers the sport during the fall for ages 5–17. The YMCA of the Triangle offers both boys and co-ed flag football in the spring and fall at locations in Raleigh, Durham, Apex, Clayton and Garner.
KEEPING KIDS ACTIVE HELPS BUILD CONFIDENCE
When it comes to raising kids, there are plenty of challenges. One of them is to keep children active. According to kidshealth.org, regular exercise provides strong muscles and bones, healthy weight and better sleep. It also decreases the risk of developing Type 2 diabetes and promotes a better outlook on life. Just as importantly, mastering physical skills builds confidence. ere are some ways to get them involved at various ages:
Preschoolers. Kids age 4 and under don’t understand complex rules, and their attention spans aren’t fully formed. But developing important motor skills is helpful at this age, so kicking and throwing a ball is useful, as well as riding a tricycle or bike.
School-age. This is a critical era, as children begin to spend time in front of sceens. Kidshealth.org suggests identifying sports where they feel successful. A child’s interest level usually corresponds with ability, so keep searching for activities where they excel or show a determination to improve.
Teens. As kids reach the teen years there are even more options for staying active and fit, such as yoga and skateboarding. But finding time becomes moe difficult as other activities eep into the mix. Encourage teens to have an exercise plan, even if they have to fit in activities between school and other commitments. Providing transportation and proper gear and equipment can make it easier to help teens feel comfortable participating with peers.
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WAKE COUNTY PUBLIC LIBRARIES OFFER FREE ONLINE TUTORING SERVICES
Wake County Public Libraries cardholders can now access free online, on-demand tutoring through a new partnership with Tutor.com. This new service provides students, parents and adult learners in Wake County access to personalized help in a wide range of subjects, including math, science, English and social studies. Through Tutor.com, library cardholders can connect via two-way text-chat with professional tutors who provide one-on-one assistance with homework, test preparation and more for learners of all ages. All of Tutor.com’s most popular subjects are also available in Spanish. Library cardholders can access Tutor.com for free by visiting the Wake County Public Libraries website at wake.gov and clicking the “Research” button to log in with their library card number. To sign up for a library card, visit wake.gov and complete an online registration form. A digital library card will provide immediate access to Tutor.com, as well as the county’s vast collection of e-books, audiobooks and other digital resources.
YOUNG ARTISTS SHOWCASE WORK AT NANCI TANTON STUDENT EXHIBITION IN CARY
Student participants in the Town of Cary’s Arts Education Program displayed their works in an exhibition at the Cary Arts Center August 30–September 22 that demonstrated the breadth of their creativity and imagination. The annual Nanci Tanton Student Exhibition is named in honor of the late Nanci Tanton, who was employed by the Town of Cary and worked in the cultural arts field. A lifelong photogapher and world traveler, Tanton earned a reputation as one of North Carolina’s leading photographers. She enjoyed the spontaneous creativity of her young students, and the children’s art show was always special to her. The artworks showcased this year included paintings, ceramics and mixed media from students ages 5 and olde.
BY JANICE LEWINE
WCPSS LAUNCHES SAY SOMETHING ANONYMOUS REPORTING SYSTEM
To enhance student safety, the Wake County Public School System recently began using the Say Something Anonymous Reporting System (SS-ARS). This system gives staff and students in gades 4–12 a proven, research-based tool to prevent acts of violence and provide assistance to students in crisis. It fulfills the mandate equirement under North Carolina General Statute 115C-105.51 that teaches students, teachers and administrators how to recognize the signs and signals of at-risk behaviors that should be reported, especially within social media; take every sign and signal seriously; act quickly to get help by talking to a trusted adult; or report it anonymously through the SS-ARS Crisis Center, mobile app or website. A multilingual crisis center is staffed 24 hours a day, 365 days a year. Each tip is immediately sent to designated school leaders and, when necessary, to local 911 dispatchers, who then respond to protect student safety. It is an additional option to the existing WCPSS Tip Line: 919.856.1911. Learn more at wcpss.net/ page/58036.
TWO TRIANGLE SCHOOLS EARN NATIONAL BLUE RIBBON RECOGNITION
Two schools—a public school in the Wake County Public School System and a private school in Durham—were named 2024 National Blue Ribbon Schools by U.S. Secretary of Education Miguel Cardona in September. They are among 356 schools nationwide recognized this year for their overall academic performance or progress in closing achievement gaps. Willow Springs Elementary School in Willow Spring and Immaculata Catholic School in Durham each received the honor. The coveted National Blue Ribbon School award affirms the hd work of students, educators, families and communities in creating safe and welcoming schools where students master challenging and engaging content. National Blue Ribbon Schools serve as models of effective school practices for state and district educators and other schools across the nation. The National Blue Ribbon Schools awards ceremony will be held November 7–8 in Washington, D.C. Learn more at dpi.nc.gov.
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ALICE AYCOCK POE CENTER’S TEACHING THEATER HAS A NEW LOOK
The Alice Aycock Poe Center for Health Education has unveiled its newly renovated Family Life teaching theater, including 3D exhibits, body systems displays and updated interactive elements designed for social skills activities. Designed for 4th–12th graders, the Poe Center’s Family Life programs address adolescent growth and development, healthy relationships and reproductive health.
Programs align with the North Carolina Department of Public Instruction’s Health Education and Science Essential Standards and can be presented at the Poe Center, at schools across the state and live online. More than 10,000 schoolchildren and adults participate in the programs each year during school field trips and during the center’s parent-child puberty workshops, Girl Talk and Guy Talk.
All programs at the Poe Center are developed and taught by experienced professional health educators who are credentialed in their respective fields. Instructional materials ae medically accurate, reflect curent research and are science-based. Schools and organizations interested in scheduling a Family Life program or other health education program can visit poehealth.org.
TEENS WHO SLEEP 8–10 HOURS REAP HEALTHY BENEFITS
According to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, 77% of high school students report getting less than the recommended 8–10 hours of sleep. Insufficient sleep is linked t increased risk of anxiety, depression, obesity, heart disease, injury and other serious conditions. Getting enough sleep is important for teens, who balance a full schedule of academic, social, athletic and extracurricular activities. Those who get a full night’s sleep:
• Get sick less ofte
• Stay at a healthy weight
• Have reduced stress and improved mood
• Have improved heart health and metabolism
Well-rested teens report improved attention and memory, and are less likely to be in motor vehicle crashes.
SPICY FOOD CHALLENGES POSE HEALTH AND SAFETY RISKS
Food challenges have gone viral on social media, but experts warn that the lure of small cash prizes and viral videos doesn’t justify the health risk. Participants test their limits by consuming ultra-spicy foods, often consuming dangerusly high levels of capsaicinoids, the active compounds responsible for the heat in chili peppers. According to healthnews.com, there are a number of adverse effects linked to consuming high doses of capsaicinoids:
• Gastrointestinal distress.
• Cardiovascular and neurological risks. Ultra-spicy foods may lead to more serious health complications such as hyperventilation, increased heart rate, headaches and even strokes.
• Potential drug interactions. The report suggests people who take aspirin or blood pressure medication should consult with a health care provider before participating in the challenges.
Starry Nights, Celestial Delights
Learn how to navigate the skies this winter, the ideal season for stargazing
By Janice Lewine
Under the cover of darkness, billions of stars in the night sky hover above us. These are the same heavens that were observed thousands of years ago by our ancestors, who saw both divinity and functionality, and were moved by awe and wonder. What’s visible in the night sky shifts with the seasons. Even though the evenings might be cold, winter provides peak conditions for stargazing, when the night sky is at its clearest, the stars are at their brightest and planets like Venus, Mars, Saturn and Jupiter can be admired with just the naked eye.
Celestial objects reveal themselves earlier in the night, too. Daylight savings time ends in early November and lasts through mid-March, providing four months of skywatching that starts as early as 5 p.m. Unless you’re a well-versed astronomer, navigating the marvels of the universe might seem daunting at first. But stargazing doesn’t have to be hard— you only need the desire to find what lies in the cosmos and optional tools to make the quest easier.
“I encourage everyone to look up and observe something greater than us,” says Jayme Hanzak, president of the Chapel Hill Astronomical and Observational Society (CHAOS). As the organization’s leader for 20 years, Hanzak knows a thing or two about stargazing, a hobby he embraced as a 12-year-old delivering newspapers before sunrise. One morning he noticed a cloud that stretched from north to south across the sky, and after delivering the newspapers he saw that the cloud was still there. “It hadn’t blown off or dissipated. The more I stared at it, I could see that these were all individual stars,” he recalls. “That’s when I realized how tiny I was in this huge galaxy. It was a very humbling moment.”
GETTING STARTED
Hanzak recommends learning the skies the same way he did, with either the unaided eye, binoculars or a telescope. Begin by referencing a star chart on the internet or one of the many free astronomy apps like Star Walk, Skywalker or Star Chart to locate planets and recognizable star clusters like the Big Dipper. A pair of binoculars or an amateur telescope will enable you to see celestial objects more brightly
and clearly. (Hanzak suggests using a Dobsonian telescope with an 8'' mirror, which provides a significant amunt of light-gathering power and is more stable than a budget telescope.) Their magnification will also enhance yur view of galaxies, nebulae and familiar constellations like Orion.
“You can see Orion and his belt easily [with the naked eye], but with an inexpensive pair of binoculars you can then find his swod off the belt. Look at the center star of the sword—that’s actually the Orion nebula,” he says. This nebula, the closest to Earth, is an enormous, interstellar cloud of gas and dust where countless new stars are being born; it glows in colors due to the atoms of elements that are energized by ultraviolet light. This is the deep sky object that Hanzak says often sparks people’s interest and encourages them to look for others.
Light pollution plays a significant factor in viewing the sky’s majesty, and natural nighttime darkness for starwatchers is a rapidly vanishing resource.
“I encourage everyone to look up and observe something greater than us,”
— Jayme Hanzak, president of CHAOS
It’s not easy to find dark aeas away from city and street lights. Many state and regional public parks—which are generally located on the outskirts of metropolitan areas—close at sunset, reducing the chance to view the skies in darker regions.
“In the cities, the night sky is totally wiped out,” Hanzak laments. “Light pollution is so bad that you can see the moon and a handful of bright stars, but what we’re seeing is just the tip of the iceberg. You need to find dark skie
somewhere.” The farther you travel away from a citys lights, the greater chance you’ll have to see the sky awash in stars, double stars and galaxies, like the Milky Way and Andromeda—truly breathtaking sights.
Turning off any exterior surces of light, such as house or garage lights, or retreating to a dark area of your backyard might help you see the night sky better.
THE MOON
Our silvery moon, one-fourth the size of Earth and 238,900 miles away, fascinates as it waxes, wanes and becomes full roughly every 29 days. Observing the moon’s phases and noticing how much later it rises each evening is a fun activity to do with kids, Hanzak says. Using binoculars during the moon’s waxing and waning stages, you can see the moon’s mountains, one of which (Mons Huygens) is half the size of Mount Everest, as well as deep craters caused by the tremendous impact of asteroids and comets. A telescope provides higher magnification of the muntains’ sharp
The cosmos have captivated generations with their beauty and mystery.
ridges, ancient lava flows and discernable shapes like the “man in the moon.”
THE PLANETS
Mars is easily identifiable with an unaided eye in the eastern sky because of its rust-orange color, caused by oxidized iron minerals in the dirt. It’s a dusty, desert world with temperatures averaging minus-80, yet scientists think it could have sustained life billions of years ago when Mars was warm and wet. NASA’s Curiosity rover, which has been exploring Mars since 2012, recently reached a new area of the planet known as the Gediz Vallis Channel in a search for evidence of ancient water, which could have supported microbial life.
Jupiter, located high in the southern sky, is a giant ball of mostly hydrogen and helium—and a world of extremes. It’s the largest and oldest planet in our solar system, and also has the shortest day, taking only 10½ hours to spin around once on its axis. Jupiter’s gravity is so strong that it can take hydrogen and turn it into metal. It has four moons, a few of which criss-cross the planet quickly. Hanzak says that with a telescope at sunset, “you can watch a moon pass in front of upiter and come out the other side” in just a few hours.
Saturn is present in the southern sky after sunset. Its thin, majestic rings which are comprised of dust and ice, appear at diffeent angles at diffeent times because of the planet’s axial tilt. A cosmic event in March will dramatically alter our view of this majestic planet, as Saturn’s rings will become invisible to earthlings— a phenomenon caused by its axial tilt. This will position the planet’s rings edge-on to our line of sight. This fleeting vent, known as an equinox, occurs every 15 Earth years. Afte March, Saturn’s axial tilt will slowly bring the rings back into view. This winter, you can still view the rings with a telescope, which are almost edge-on and ready to play their game of hide-and-seek.
Venus appears in the western sky during the winter months as the third brightest natural object, after the moon and the sun. Mysteries abound on Venus, which is often eferred to as Earth’s twin because it shares the same size and
materials. It is much hotter, however, at over 900 degrees Fahrenheit, and is shrouded by a 15-mile-thick layer of carbon dioxide clouds and sulfuric acid droplets. Venus rotates clockwise, so its sun rises in the west and sets in the east—the opposite of what we experience on Earth. It also speeds around the sun faster than our planet; sometimes it’s close to Earth, other times it’s on the other side of the sun. This causes variations of lighting on the planet’s surface that are similar to lunar phases and are best viewed with a telescope.
THE GEMINIDS
The Geminids are a prolific meteor shower that peaks during mid-December each year and is considered one of the best celestial opportunities for young viewers since it starts around 9 p.m. Geminid meteors are grains of sand from a comet hitting the Earth’s atmosphere after it orbits the sun. Thy tend to be bold, white and quick. To view the Geminids best, the National Aeronautics and Space Administration (NASA) suggests finding the darkest aea possible, away from steetlights. Lie on your back with your feet facing south and look up, taking in as much of the sky as possible. After abut 30 minutes in the dark, your eyes will adapt and you will begin to see these impressive meteors streaking across the sky—up to 120 per hour during its peak. (This year’s shower takes place December 13–14, just before a full moon on December 15, so the moon’s brightness may reduce the number of meteors you will be able to see.)
GODS AND GODDESSES
How does Greek mythology relate to astronomy? The ancient Greeks called constellations “katasterismoi,” and their heroes and mythical creatures earned a place among the stars to commemorate their deeds. The constellations were used to explain historical events passed down through generations, and serve as lessons on proper behavior. They also shaped the ancients’ moral values and religious beliefs. Countless myths and legends date back centuries, when the Greeks also used the stars as celestial signposts to navigate the seas and develop a calendar system for planting and harvesting their crops.
OUT OF THIS WORLD
Experience the marvels of the universe at any of North Carolina’s six public planetariums that offer theater shows, interactive activities, exhibits and more.
Cummins Planetarium at the Imperial Centre 270 Gay Street, Rocky Mount imperialcentre.org
Ellis Planetarium, Health and Science Museum
403 W. Caswell Street, Kinston ci.kinston.nc.us/456/ellisplanetarium
Ingram Planetarium 7625 High Market Street, Sunset Beach museumplanetarium.org
James H. Lynn Planetarium and Science Theater
1500 E. Garrison Boulevard, Gastonia schielemuseum.org/schieleplanetarium
Kaleideum
120 W. 3rd Street, Winston-Salem kaleideum.org/digital-dome
Morehead Planetarium and Science Center
250 E. Franklin Street, Chapel Hill moreheadplanetarium.org
Each season has its own constellations, and it takes a year—not just one night—to learn the sky. Greek legends make the heavens more interesting, such as the one behind the constellations Orion, visible from ovember to March, and Scorpius, observable between May and August. In the tale, the mighty hunter Orion boasted that he could kill all of the world’s wild animals. This angered the Earth goddess Gaia, the mother of all animals, who sent a scorpion to kill Orion—and succeeded. “Zeus loved Orion (his son) so much that he wanted to honor him by putting him up in the sky,” Hanzak explains. “He was also very impressed with the scorpion, so he gave him a very prominent place there as well, but Zeus made sure Orion and the scorpion were never in the sky at the same time.” When one of these constellations rises in the sky, the other sets.
THE INTERNATIONAL SPACE STATION
The International Space Station (ISS) is another celestial body that orbits our planet at an altitude of approximately 250 miles and a rate of 17,500 miles per hour. It serves as a home for international crews of astronauts and cosmonauts, and is also a unique science laboratory studying the effects of long-term space exposure on the human body and collecting data about the global climate and natural hazards, such as active volcanoes and approaching hurricanes.
Since it orbits Earth every 90 minutes, there’s a good chance you can see the ISS on a clear evening traveling from west to east. During winte, spring and fall, the ISS only gets enough sunlight around sunrise or sunset to be seen against the sky. Throughout the northern hemisphere summer, the ISS receives enough sunlight to make it visible at all times of the night. To spot the ISS, look for a bright, constant white spot of light moving quickly across the sky.
Know when to look up by visiting NASA’s website at spotthestation.nasa.gov or downloading the Spot the Station app and entering your location. It will tell you exactly when the ISS will be overhead and in which direction to look. You can also sign up to receive sighting alerts.
The aurora borealis lights up the night sky in Cedar Grove, North Carolina.
The moon passes between the sun and Earth during a solar eclipse.
Solar flares erupt from the sun’s surface.
LOCAL STARGAZING EXPERIENCES
Hanzak suggests checking out a local astronomy club like CHAOS or the Raleigh Astronomy Club (RAC) for details on their observing sessions, where you can view the universe using their large, professional telescopes and ask questions among their experts.
CHAOS organizes starwatching sessions from Mach through November, weather permitting, at the Washington Duke Inn & Golf Club in Durham. Located near Duke Forest, the area provides an unilluminated backdrop for better viewing of constellations, galaxies and globular clusters. The group also hosts star parties at Staunton River State Park in Virginia, which was named an International Dark Sky Park in 2015. As a dark sky sanctuary, Staunton River State Park adheres to a strict outdoor lighting policy to impact visitors’ enjoyment of the night sky. CHAOS star parties attract participants from all ove the East Coast and Canada. Learn more at chaosastro.org.
The Raleigh Astronomy Club offer a monthly “Getting Your Kids Started in Astronomy” class that assists parents wanting to introduce their children to amateur astronomy. The class covers the fundamentals, including the equipment needed to get started; basic astronomical concepts; how to plan an observing session; and the basics of telescopes and how to buy one. Learn more at raleighastro.org/outreach.
UNCOVERING MORE MYSTERIES
The vast reaches of the universe will always intrigue and mystify humans— and nurture our thirst for knowledge. Our basic understanding of outer space has changed since the 1990 launch of the Hubble Space Telescope, which explores the cosmos 24 hours a day, 7 days a week. It takes sharp pictures of celestial objects, captures rare cosmic events and discovers some of the farthest galaxies ever seen. Hubble will soon get some assistance. Slated to become operational in 2029, the ground-based Giant Magellan Telescope at Las Campanas Observatory
in Chile’s Atacama Desert will use seven primary mirrors—each 27½ feet in diameter and having 50 million times the light gathering power of the human eye—to see farther into deep space than ever before. Its design will produce the highest possible resolution of the universe over the widest field of viw. This image clarity will enable scientists around the globe to obtain new clues to the fundamental nature and evolution of the universe—from seaching for signs of life on distant exoplanets to investigating the cosmic origins of chemical elements. Learn more about Giant Magellan at giantmagellan.org.
“Every time we turn around, we find ut how much we don’t know,” Hanzak says of the cosmos. He enjoys sharing his stargazing passion with others. “I’ve looked at all these things, but not everyone has. I love sharing it and talking about it. With the busyness of our daily lives, it’s always good to take a step back and look at something diffeent.”
Sources: nasa.gov and space.com
Winter provides ideal conditions for stargazing because the atmosphere holds less moisure than in summer, resulting in clearer skies.
Celebrations
Enjoy 70 merry moments in the Triangle
BY KYLE MARIE M c MAHON
The holiday season is here, and towns across the Triangle are sparkling! From spectacular light shows to festive parades and jubilant performances, there’s something for everyone to enjoy. With our ample selection of holiday offerings, your family is sure to make heartwarming memories.
Lafayette Village Lighting of the Tree 8450 Honeycutt Road, Raleigh lafayettevillageraleigh.com
November 16, 3–6 p.m. Enjoy horse and carriage rides, face painting, visits with Mr. and Mrs. Claus, and a tree lighting at 6 p.m. in the courtyard.
North Carolina Chinese Lantern Festival 8003 Regency Parkway, Cary boothamphitheatre.com
November 16–January 12. View more than 50 handcrafted LED lantern displays at Koka Booth Amphitheatre. Cultural performances are featured nightly between 5:30 and 8:30 p.m.
November 22, 8 p.m. The show features 15 musicians across 20 different instruments, all with the group's distinctive sound.
The Dessertery
2 E. South Street, Raleigh martinmariettacenter.com/dessertery
November 22–December 23; days and hours vary. Indulge yourself in a holiday-themed dessert cafe featuring live entertainment and Santa on select nights at Kennedy Theater. Tickets are $29 for ages 7 and up, $15 for ages 2–6.
80th Annual Raleigh Christmas Parade
Downtown Raleigh grma.org/christmas-parade
November 23, 9:30 a.m. See marching bands, performing groups and more travel down Hillsborough and Fayetteville streets.
Kids Holiday Craft Fair
237 N. Salem Street, Apex apexnc.org
November 23, 3–5 p.m. Young entrepreneurs ages 3–18 offer handmade items at the Halle Cultural Arts Center.
Candy Cane Lane
Downtown Zebulon zebulonchamber.org
November 23, 4–8 p.m. Zebulon turns on the holiday charm with live entertainment, holiday displays, food trucks and more.
North Hills Tree Lighting
4191 Main at North Hills Street, Raleigh visitnorthhills.com
November 23, 4–7 p.m. Enjoy live music, kids crafts and activities, food trucks and a vendor village. Soon after Santa Claus arrives at 6 p.m., the 41-foot tree is lit amidst a joyous chorus of “Santa Claus Is Comin’ to Town.”
“The Illusionists: Magic of the Holidays” 123 Vivian Street, Durham dpacnc.com
November 23, 7:30 p.m. Talented illusionists deliver a jaw-dropping, holiday-themed magic show.
PHOTOS ON THIS PAGE, CLOCKWISE FROM TOP TO BOTTOM: Raleigh Christmas Parade, photo courtesy of Pamela Varela; Santa's Reindeer Roundup Express, photo courtesy of New Hope Valley Railway; The Dessertery, photo courtesy of The Dessertery; Historic Oakwood Candlelight Tour, photo courtesy of Tom Bagby; Solstice Lantern Walk + Market, photo courtesy of Yuma Kobayashi; North Carolina Chinese Lantern Festival, photo courtesy of Janice Lewine.
Take the family for ice skating at The Rink in downtown Raleigh.
THE RINK
500 S. McDowell Street, Raleigh redhatamphitheater.com/the-rink
November 23–January 20. Enjoy ice skating, fire pits, a snack bar and more at Red Ha Amphitheater. Tickets are $15 for skaters ages 2 and older, which includes skate rental, and $6 for nonskaters.
North Carolina Symphony Presents “Cirque Holiday Pops”
2. E. South Street, Raleigh ncsymphony.org
November 27–30; dates and times vary. Contortionists and acrobats perform 40 feet above the stage as the North Carolina Symphony performs holiday music in Meymandi Concert Hall.
Festival of Lights
703 Tarboro Road, Youngsville hillridgefarms.com
November 28–December 29, 5:30–9 p.m.
Immerse yourself in magical lights on a mile-long trail from the comfort of your vehicle. Tickets per vehicle are $20 cash, $23 credit/debit; pay upon arrival.
Lights on the Neuse
1620 Loop Road, Clayton lightsontheneuse.com
Weekends and select days beginning November 29; visit the website for dates, hours and rates. Take a tractor-pulled hayride through a holiday light spectacular featuring s’mores and photos with Santa.
Santa in Wonderland
201 Fenton Gateway Drive, Cary fentonnc.com
November 29–December 24, 8 a.m.–5 p.m.
Visit Santa’s Igloo and capture the season with a picture alongside Santa Claus. Pets can take part every Monday from 5–7 p.m. Reserve a session online. Package prices vary.
Holidays in the Park Museum of Life and Science
433 W. Murray Avenue, Durham lifeandscience.org
Select nights in December. Stroll through some of the museum’s outdoor and indoor spaces, including the Dinosaur Trail and Magic Wings Butterfly ouse. Take a train ride on the Ellerbe Creek Railway, passing colorful light displays along the way.
Rolesville Christmas Parade Main Street, Rolesville business.rolesvillechamber.org
December 1, 2 p.m. Festive floats and marching bands highlight this annual event in downtown Rolesville.
Downtown Cary Park Skating Rink
327 S. Academy Street, Cary downtowncarypark.com
December 2–January 12. Enjoy ice skating in Cary’s newest park. Skate rentals are free. Most skate sessions are available on a first come, first-served basis but some skatin events require registration. See website for details.
Fuquay-Varina Tree Lighting, Sleigh Rides and Santa Downtown Fuquay-Varina fuquay-varina.org
December 5, 6–9 p.m. This highly anticipated event on Main Street features a tree-lighting ceremony, ticketed sleigh rides and a visit from St. Nicholas.
December 5, 6 and 9, 7:30 p.m.; December 8, 3 and 7:30 p.m. Tiny Tim asks Sherlock Holmes to investigate the death of Ebenezer Scrooge in this heartwarming holiday play. Shows take place at the Cary Arts Center.
Cirque du Soleil Presents “Twas the Night Before…”
123 Vivian Street, Durham dpacnc.com
December 5–15; see website for times. See acrobats bring to life the classic poem “A Visit from St. Nicholas,” including a reinvented holiday classics soundtrack.
Town of Apex Tree Lighting Ceremony
220 N. Salem Street, Apex apexnc.org
December 6, 4:30–6 p.m. This annual event at The Depot features live entertainment, visits with Santa and Mrs. Claus, and holiday-themed activities.
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Lighting of Wake Forest
301 S. Brooks Street, Wake Forest wakeforestnc.gov
December 6, 5–8 p.m. This year’s ceremony in Centennial Plaza features the lighting of the Christmas tree at 6:15 p.m., musical performances and Santa’s arrival in a Wake Forest fire truck
December 6, 5–8:30 p.m. Take your canine friend to meet Santa at the Durham Armory. Enjoy a canine ugly sweater contest, holiday pet market and more.
Applause! Cary Youth Theatre Presents “A Peter Rabbit Christmas”
327 S. Academy Street, Cary carync.gov/applause
December 6, 5 and 7:30 p.m.; December 8, 2 and 5 p.m. Enjoy this holiday story based on the classic characters of Beatrix Potter in an immersive outdoor performance at Downtown Cary Park. Tickets are required to access performance areas.
17th Annual Apex Holiday Tree and Wreath Exhibit and Auction
237 N. Salem Street, Apex apexnc.org
December 6, 6–8 p.m. View holidaythemed greenery created by Apex area businesses, schools and organizations. Make a bid on a favorite display in the silent auction.
Evening With Elves
201 E. Hargett Street, Raleigh marbleskidsmuseum.org/evening-with-elves December 6, 6–8:30 p.m.; see website for pricing. Enjoy s’mores outdoors, arctic museum play and a special visit from the Snowflake airy at Marbles Kids Museum. Wear pajamas.
The Fuquay-Varina Chorale Holiday Concert
123 E. Vance Street, Fuquay-Varina fuquay-varina.org/1111/arts-center
December 6, 7:30 p.m.; December 7, 2 and 7:30 p.m. Join the Fuquay-Varina Chorale for holiday favorites.
Infinity Ballet Presents “avorite Dances of the Nutcracker”
237 N. Salem Street, Apex etix.com
December 6–8; see website for times and pricing. Talented dance students present a holiday production at the Halle Cultural Arts Center.
Christmas by Candlelight
2828 Duke Homestead Road, Durham dukehomestead.org
December 6 and 13, 5:30–9 p.m. Enjoy live Christmas music, holiday cookies and costumed interpreters who bring the Duke family home to life by candlelight as it might have been for Christmas in 1870. Purchase tickets online.
Ira David Wood III’s “A Christmas Carol” theatreinthepark.com
Performances take place December 6–8 at Raleigh Memorial Auditorium (2 E. South Street, Raleigh) and December 18–22 at the Durham Performing Arts Center (123 Vivian Street, Durham); see website for times. Ira David Wood III’s “A Christmas Carol” is a musical comedy adaptation of the Charles Dickens classic.
“Cinderella”
301 Pogue Street, Raleigh
December 6–22; see website for times and pricing. Raleigh Little Theatre's beloved holiday musical returns for its 40th year.
Jingle Bell Run
201 Fenton Gateway Drive, Cary fentonnc.com
December 7, 9 a.m. Dress in holiday attire and raise money for the Arthritis Foundation by running or walking a 5K or participating in the kids’ 1-mile Reindeer Dash. Register online.
Chapel Hill–Carrboro Community Holiday Parade
Downtown Chapel Hill and Carrboro chapelhillarts.org
December 7, 10 a.m. The towns of Chapel Hill and Carrboro host a festive parade that celebrates community and diversity. The parade begins on Franklin Street in Chapel Hill and ends on Main Street in Carrboro.
Spend a fun-filled Evening With Elves at Marbles Kids Museum in Raleigh.
The highly acclaimed Raleigh Ringers present musical arrangements for handbells in Raleigh.
Downtown Cary Park Tree-Lighting Ceremony
downtowncarypark.com
December 7, 10 a.m.–9 p.m. Enjoy holiday festivities, photos with Santa and the lighting of the park’s towering holiday tree.
Cary Ballet Company Presents “The Nutcracker”
2 E. South Street, Raleigh 101 Dry Avenue, Cary caryballetcompany.org/nutcracker
December 7 at A.J. Fletcher Opera Theater; December 20–22 at Cary Arts Center; visit the website for times and pricing. Travel with Clara to the magical Land of Sweets.
Victorian Christmas at the Page-Walker 119 Ambassador Loop Road, Cary carync.gov
December 7, 2–5 p.m. Enjoy old-fashioned holiday fun featuring storytelling, carolers, carriage rides and refreshments.
Town of Morrisville Tree Lighting 101 Town Hall Drive, Morrisville morrisvillenc.gov
December 7, 3–6 p.m. Enjoy holiday entertainment as Santa makes an appearance at the Town of Morrisville’s tree lighting at the Indian Creek Trailhead.
Garner Optimist Christmas Parade and Tree-Lighting Main Street, Garner garnerchristmasparade.com
December 7, 4:30 p.m. See the town’s annual parade on Main Street, followed by a holiday block party and tree-lighting ceremony at 6 p.m.
December 7, 5–8 p.m. Enjoy a festive evening Christmas parade on Salem Street.
Light the Springs
300 W. Ballentine Street, Holly Springs hollyspringsnc.us
December 7, 5–8 p.m. Enjoy games, live music, festive food, face painting and holiday crafts before Santa and the mayor light the town tree at the Holly Springs Cultural Center.
Santa’s Reindeer Roundup Express 3900 Bonsal Road, New Hill triangletrain.com
December 7–8, 14–15 and 21; departure times are 9:30 a.m., 11 a.m., 12:30 p.m., 2:15 p.m. and 3:45 p.m. Travel on the New Hope Valley Railway to search for Santa's nine missing reindeer. Purchase tickets online.
Gingerbread House Competition & Display
Downtown Cary carync.gov
December 7–15. Visit select downtown businesses displaying gingerbread houses created by local participants. The winning houses will be displayed through December at the Cary Arts Center.
Apex Holiday Tour of Lights apexnc.org
December 7–26, 6–9 p.m. View holiday light displays of 32 homes and businesses across Apex. See website for a route map.
Fuquay-Varina Christmas Parade
Downtown Fuquay-Varina fuquay-varina.org
December 8, 4 p.m. Floats, marching bands and Santa highlight this annual parade.
Hillsborough Light Up the Night
Holiday Parade
Downtown Hillsborough hillsboroughchamber.com
December 8, 4–6:30 p.m. Hillsborough turns on the holiday charm with a festive parade on Churton Street.
December 9, 7:30 p.m. The “Queen of Christmas” brings her Yuletide extravaganza to the Lenovo Center.
Carolina Ballet Presents “The Nutcracker”
2 E. South Street, Raleigh carolinaballet.com
December 12–24; visit the website for showtimes. This holiday ballet marries the charm of the original with fresh choreography, vibrant sets and stunning costumes at Raleigh Memorial Auditorium.
Snowball Dance 2024
133 W. Owen Avenue, Wake Forest wakeforestnc.gov
December 13, 6:30–8:30 p.m.; visit website for registration and fees. Individuals ages 10–30 with disabilities can dance in a Winter Wonderland at the Wake Forest Community House. Chaperones will be available.
Concert Singers of Cary Presents “Holiday Pops”
101 Dry Avenue, Cary etix.com
December 13, 8 p.m. The Concert Singers of Cary and guest musicians present this family-friendly program of popular holiday tunes at the Cary Arts Center.
St. Nicholas European Christmas Market
North Carolina State Fairgrounds, Kerr Scott Building 1025 Blue Ridge Road, Raleigh saintnicholasmarketnc.com
December 13, 5–9 p.m.; December 14, 10 a.m.–5 p.m.
Shop a holiday market featuring decorative and gift items from European countries, traditional cuisine, a local artisan vendor village, carolers and live music from The Little German Band. Admission and parking are free but donations are appreciated.
“Can Mrs. Claus Save Christmas?” and “How to Become an Elf (In Six Simple Steps)”
237 N. Salem Street, Apex etix.com
December 13–15, visit website for showtimes. Get in the holiday spirit with a play followed by a musical at the Halle Cultural Arts Center.
Happy Holly Days Parade
Downtown Holly Springs hollyspringsnc.gov
December 14, 10 a.m.–noon. Floats, bands, horses and marching groups travel Main Street on an expanded route, starting near Oakhall Drive and ending at Oak Avenue.
Durham Holiday Parade
Main Street, Durham dprplaymore.org
December 14, 10 a.m.–noon. Cheer on floats, bands, drill teams, schols and community groups as they make their way down Main Street. The procession concludes with an appearance from Santa.
The MAKRS Society's Holiday Fest
Downtown Raleigh makrs.com/makrs-holiday-fest
December 14, 11 a.m.–6 p.m. Get into the holiday spirit with 150+ local vendors, a food truck rodeo, visits with Santa and Mrs. Claus, a kids zone and more. The petting zoo requires a $2 entry fee.
Cary Jaycees Christmas Parade
Downtown Cary caryjaycees.org
December 14, 2–4 p.m. The Cary Jaycees' procession features marching bands, mascots, floats and lcal businesses. Parade to Park Festivities will take place from 3–9 p.m. at Downtown Cary Park.
Gingerbread Jamboree
201 E. Hargett Street, Raleigh marbleskidsmuseum.org
December 14–15; 9:30 a.m., 12:30 p.m. and 3:30 p.m. Decorate a keepsake gingerbread house at Marbles Kids Museum. See website for tickets and pricing.
Historic Oakwood Candlelight Tour
Downtown Raleigh historicoakwood.org
December 14–15, 1–7 p.m. The self-guided tour features 10 properties dating from the mid-1800s to the early 1900s. Tickets are $38–$40 online.
Cary Ballet Company presents "The Nutcracker" in Raleigh and Cary.
The Raleigh Ringers’ Holiday Concert
2 E. South Street, Raleigh rr.org
December 14–15, 4 p.m. Hear The Raleigh Ringers present interpretations of sacred, secular and popular music arranged for handbells.
“Christmas with C.S. Lewis”
2 E. South Street, Raleigh martinmariettacenter.com
December 18, 7:30 p.m. Relive the Yuletide experiences of British writer C.S. Lewis as he hosts a group of Americans in his home at A.J. Fletcher Opera Theater.
“The Nutcracker”
309 W. Morgan Street, Durham carolinatheatre.org
December 19, 7:30 p.m. Classical Arts Entertainment presents the classic ballet with staging by the State Ballet Theater of Ukraine.
North Carolina Symphony Presents “A Candlelight Christmas with the North Carolina Symphony Holiday Brass”
2 E. South Street, Raleigh ncsymphony.org
December 20, 8 p.m.; December 21–22, 3 p.m. Hear seasonal selections in Meymandi Concert Hall.
“Clara’s Trip: A Cirque & Dance Nutcracker Story”
2 E. South Street, Raleigh cirquedevol.com/clarastrip
December 20–22; see the website for showtimes. Enjoy a contemporary twist on a holiday classic at A.J. Fletcher Opera Theater.
Solstice Lantern Walk + Market
144 E. Margaret Lane, Hillsborough hillsboroughartscouncil.org/solstice
December 21, 5–8 p.m. A procession of battery-lit lanterns honors the solstice at the Eno Rivers Farmer Market Pavilion.
“Nutcracker! Magical Christmas Ballet”
123 Vivian Street, Durham dpacnc.com
December 24, 1 and 5 p.m. Experience the exquisite artistry of Ukraine performers in this dazzling holiday ballet.
Town of Morrisville
Menorah Lighting
101 Town Hall Drive, Morrisville morrisvillenc.gov
December 27, 5–7 p.m. Enjoy a live flam lighting of the town’s menorah on the third night of Hanukkah at the Indian Creek Trailhead.
“The Hip Hop Nutcracker”
123 Vivian Street, Durham dpacnc.com
December 28, 7:30 p.m. This reimagining and remix of the classic story features Tchaikovsky’s music blended with hip-hop dance.
Apex Chanukah Festival
53 Hunter Street, Apex apexnc.org
December 29, 3–7 p.m. Enjoy a Chanukah Wonderland organized by Chabad of Cary featuring crafts and games at the Apex Senior Center followed by a menorah lighting, fire sho, kosher food truck and gelt drop.
Cary Hanukkah
Menorah Lighting
310 S. Academy Street, Cary carync.gov
December 30, 5:30–6:15 p.m. Join Chabad of Cary as it lights a menorah on the sixth night of Hanukkah. Enjoy treats, kids activities and holiday music.
First Night Raleigh
Downtown Raleigh firstnightraleigh.co
December 31, 2 p.m.–midnight; visit the website for ticket information. Ring in the new year with live entertainment, roving street performers, arts and crafts, the Acorn Drop at midnight and a spectacular fireworks disply.
Kwanzaa Fest
212 Foster Street, Durham aadekwanzaafest.com
January 1, noon. The 39th annual Kwanzaa Fest feaures live performances, a vendor market and more.
Shop 150+ vendors and enjoy a petting zoo at The MAKRS Society's Holiday Fest in Raleigh.
The Good in Giving
THE HOLIDAYS OFFER A GREAT OPPORTUNITY TO GIVE ON BEHALF OF OTHERS
BY KURT DUSTERBERG
The holiday season brings people together in celebrations of family, food and tradition. And when it comes to tradition, gift giving is often at the cente of the experience.
But passing out presents isn’t a perfect fit for all families. Many adults feel they already have more than enough. Others feel the strain of stretching their budget for token gifts to extended family. And for some, the holidays feel like a good opportunity to make an impact where it is needed most.
Whether you want to give gifts on behalf of loved ones or yu just want to spread your generosity outside your normal circles this year, there are plenty of ways to make your kindness count. You can volunteer time, make a financial contriution or surprise someone with a gesture—and do it all in someone else’s name.
It’s easy to get the family involved, too. Some charitable organizations welcome the participation of children and teens, but there are other ways for young people to help. Consider letting the kids have a say in choosing the charities that will receive contributions based on the values and interests of your loved ones. There are nonprofits that support educational scholarships, military veterans, the arts, health, the environment and so much more. Once you have matched a good deed with a family member or friend, enlist the help of the kids to draw handmade cards to show what has been given. If your family volunteered its time, let your kids get creative by documenting your work with a smartphone video.
As an added bonus, consider the potential for the gifts to keep on giving. Many charities will send information to the
person in whose name a donation was made, allowing them to see tangible results of the donation—which might inspire the recipient to make further contributions.
And best of all, parents and kids alike will gain an appreciation for paying it forward.
Whether you want to make a financial contriution, donate items or volunteer your time, there are charitable outlets for a wide variety of givers. For a sortable list of charities by cause and region, visit charitynavigator.org.
FURRY FRIENDS
Animal lovers often have big hearts—and not just for their ow pets. That’s why animal “adoptions” are often a hit. Many lovabl creatures need support, even the ones you can take home.
The Duke Lemur Center offers a donation-based progam that supports the noninvasive research and care for more than 200 lemurs, the most diverse population of the animals outside of Madagascar. The “adopted” lemur stays at the DLC, where it receives high-quality food and top-notch care. The adopter receives a welcome packet and quarterly updates with photos and the latest news about the lemur. Packages begin at $50 and last for 12 months. lemur.duke.edu
At Carolina Sunshine Alpaca Farm, families and kids can enjoy adoption experiences, too. Receive a kit that includes a magnetic picture frame and a fiber sample from their 20 shearing. The farm also sends along a specific information shee about your adopted alpaca, along with two PacaVisit tickets to the Pittsboro farm on U.S. Hwy 64 West. carolinasunshinealpacafarm.com
PHOTO COURTESY OF DUKE LEMUR CENTER
Duke Lemur Center's Adopt a Lemur Program funds the care of these endangered primates.
FIGHTING HUNGER
Inter-Faith Food Shuttle. In Raleigh, on the firs Wednesday of the month, families with children at least 8 years old can work together on Grocery Bags for Seniors, packing fresh produce and nonperishable food items into grocery bags. Volunteers will then be given a route sheet to deliver the bags. foodshuttle.org
Food Bank of Central & Eastern North Carolina. The food bank has locations in Raleigh and Durham. Projects include building food boxes, sorting and repackaging food, and labeling food containers. Volunteers ages 12–16 may volunteer with parents during regular sessions. Volunteers ages 5–11 are welcome during Kids Day sessions only. foodbankcenc.org
KIDS AND FAMILIES
The Boys & Girls Clubs of Wake County. Here is an easy way to give a gift in someones name: Purchase from the clubs Amazon wish list, including items such as a billiards accessory kit, ping-pong paddle sets, games, art supplies and more. There are seven clubs across the county helping young people reach their full potential as productive, caring, responsible citizens. wakebgc.org/donate
First Tee – Triangle teaches life skills to children through the game of golf at six locations. Volunteer coaches are needed to help teach core values, healthy habits and valuable life skills. Knowledge of the game of golf is not necessary, as volunteers are trained and matched to make their greatest impact. Volunteer opportunities begin at age 14. firstteetriangle.or
The Share Your Holiday program supports low-income families along with elderly and disabled citizens. The Triangle Nonprofit & olunteer Leadership Center matches
individuals or groups to provide new gifts for families You can sponsor a family, make a donation or deliver gifts thevolunteercenter.org/holiday
St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital. If you want to donate in someone’s name to a cause that is nationally known, this Memphis-based charity is a leader in childhood cancer research and treatment. However, you can also contribute through local activities. The St. Jude Crew exists in markets across the United States to support local volunteer needs in a variety of roles. Volunteers are responsible for serving 24 hours in a calendar year. stjude.org
Make-A-Wish. This well-known nonprofit tuches the hearts of many by granting wishes to critically ill children. If you want to do something more than donate, consider a fundraiser. The organization provides website tools to help your event succeed. wish.org/get-involved
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Tackle food insecurity by volunteering at or donating to a local food organization.
Become a Wishmaker for critically ill children through Make-A-Wish.
MORE WAYS TO GIVE
The Center for Volunteer Caregiving in Cary provides support to older adults and those with disabilities who live in their own homes in Wake County. Volunteers provide a supportive network and companionship with friendly visits in the home, telephon reassurance calls, light help around the house, and grocery shopping for those who cannot leave their home and have no one else to shop for them. volunteercaregiving.org
Folds of Honor provides educational scholarships to spouses and children of America’s fallen and disabled service members. In 2002, the organization expanded its services to include scholarships for the spouses and children of fallen or disabled firs responders. easternnc.foldsofhono.org
Doctors Without Borders is an international medical humanitarian organization that provides aid in nearly 60 countries to people whose survival is threatened by violence, neglect or catastrophe, primarily due to armed conflict, epidemics, malnutrition and natural disasters. The organization is independent and impartial, guided by universal medical ethics. doctorswithoutborders.org
CLOSE TO YOUR HEART
If you’re still searching for the just-right activity, consider what means the most to your family—or to the person in whose name you are donating.
Public libraries. Do you have a family member or friend who is an avid eader?
A gift in their name is a geat way to honor their interests, and the generosity benefits th community in which the gift ecipient lives.
Faith-based charities. Many humanitarian organizations provide aid around the world to people in need, making it easy to customize your gift based on a loved ones faith.
Teacher charities. Most of us know a teacher, whether a friend, family member o someone who taught our own kids. Nearly all classrooms need additional contributions, and donorschoose.org is one of many classroom charities that makes it easy to give by choosing a teacher request to support.
Make a gift in someone's name at a local public library.
Support educational scholarships through Folds of Honor.
Alive and Kicking at
After a half century, NCFC Youth offers soccer for every skill level
Katharine Eberhardt easily recalls her early days in soccer in the 1990s. As an 8-year-old, she played on a co-ed team in Raleigh that practiced at an elementary school.
“I had older siblings that played, and I had neighbor kids who just played in the streets,” she says. “I played with boys because at first I did’t think that girls could play soccer.”
My, how times have changed.
Today, Eberhardt is helping
celebrate a milestone with the same organization that built her playing career. The North Carolina FC Youth (NCFC Youth) is completing its 50th year in the Triangle. As the largest youth soccer organization in the state, it serves nearly 17,000 local players each year. Eberhardt is in her 11th year as the chief marketing and business development offic, and an example of the program’s impact. After growin up in the NCFC Youth program, she won a 4A state championship
at Broughton High School before becoming an all-conference player at Furman University.
“You can be 2½ to age 18 and have never touched a soccer ball, and there’s a place for you here,” Eberhardt says about NCFC Youth. “And all the way up to our most competitive levels of play where we can create a pathway to college and the pros, if that’s what the player desires.”
NCFC Youth is a nonprofi organization and a collaboration
between the Capital Area Soccer League (CASL) and Triangle Futbol Club Alliance. The organization even shares an affiliation with theriangle’s professional men’s and women’s teams, the North Carolina Football Club (NCFC) and NC Courage, respectively.
“It’s a unique setup,” says Paul Forster, director of soccer at NCFC Youth. “Not every youth soccer club in this country has a pro men’s and women’s team at the top of the umbrella. We’re very fortunate to have that. The players at the top of our pyramid have gone through the same journey. We’re always working on ways to increase the connection between the pro players and the youth players.”
NCFC Youth offers ecreational programs on fields in Raleigh, Car, Wake Forest, Garner, Chapel Hill, Durham, Holly Springs, Fuquay-Varina, Knightdale and Chatham County. While fields ae always in demand, the organization owns and operates the WRAL Soccer Park in Raleigh, home to 22 fields and one of the largest yuth soccer complexes in the country.
“We can always use more fields” says Marlow Campbell, director of club partnerships and development. “We use over 190 facilities throughout the Triangle area. Our goal is to make sure every child has an opportunity to play. We’re still working on bringing access to the game to everyone.”
The organization wants to increase exposure in Chatham County and parts of Wake County, including inner-city areas in downtown Raleigh. “We’ve done after-school progamming at a few schools to provide that access,” says Campbell, a CASL alum who began playing in 1977 at age 8. “No matter what experience you have, it builds teamwork, companionship and leadership. It builds all these things they can bring back to their schools, to their community.”
NCFC Youth offers leagues and team for all levels of play, beginning with the introductory Kickstarters program for ages 2–4. The rec level continues all the way to age 18. The six-tier competitive program starts with Challenge, where the competitive talent improves, but the time and financial commitment emains moderate. The Academy level develops
OPPOSITE PAGE: NCFC Youth players celebrate after a win.
TOP: The organization offers recreational and competitive play levels.
LEFT: Children ages 2–4 can learn soccer fundamentals in the Kickstarters program.
BOTTOM: NCFC Youth owns and operates the WRAL Soccer Park in Raleigh, home to 22 fields Photos courtesy of NCFC Youth.
NCFC Youth sent 59 recent high school graduates on to college soccer.
players up to age 19, preparing them for college soccer and beyond. Still, NCFC’s bread and butter is the casual soccer player.
“We have great programming to support the elite level competitive player, but most people don’t know that 60 percent of our youth players are recreation-based,” Eberhardt says. “They may come in and out for the fall season and then they’re playing another sport in the spring season. Word of mouth is crucial for us to findthat niche within the multisport environment we have here in the greater Triangle area.”
NCFC Youth sent 59 high school graduates from the class of 2024 o to college soccer. More than 60 of the organization’s players have gone on to play professionally. Those are prideful moments for the group, but the mission is something far more important.
“We’re developing people first an players second,” Forster says. “If they fall in love with the game, that’s great. If they don’t, that’s OK too. If they’re a year with us or 10–12 years with us, their experiences shape the people they become. Ultimately, everyone’s journey comes to an end from a playin standpoint. Developing people first i what will allow someone to be successful in life beyond the game of soccer.”
NCFC YOUTH FINANCIAL AID PROGRAM BOOSTS FAMILIES—AND CREATES STARS
By Kurt Dusterberg
Daniel and Laura Alvarez are raising four soccer players—hardly a surprise given that Daniel played professionally for four seasons after he was drafted by Major League Soccer in 2000.
A decade ago, the parents realized they needed a plan for Aven, their oldest daughter, who excelled with her club team in Fayetteville. With Daniel stationed at Fort Bragg (now Fort Liberty), the family moved to New Hill to take advantage of the programs and coaching offered by NCFC Youth. And once their kid crew grew to four, soccer became a way of life.
“We began just dragging all four kids everywhere,” Laura says. “Either you played soccer or you watched soccer. Those were the only choices.”
As the kids played at more competitive levels, the costs of club fees, travel, coaching and uniforms began to rise quickly. The Alvarez family was fortunate to tap into NCFC Youth’s financial aid fund, which raised and distributed more than $440,000 in 2023 to ensure playing opportunities for children in need of financial assistance. In particular, the La Liga fund focuses on the Latino population, which faces economic and cultural barriers to access and is underrepresented in youth club soccer.
“We do all we can to make sure that no player who steps foot in our program isn’t able to play because of financial reasons” says Paul Forster, NCFC Youth’s director of soccer. “We pride ourselves in providing financial aid [so kids can] continue to play the game they love and see where the game takes them.”
Defraying the cost has made a difference throughout the Alvarez soccer roster: Aven, 17; Brayden, 15; Madison, 12; and Emerson, 10.
“It’s hard for me to have a full-time job and cart the kids around to the various soccer fields around the riangle,” Laura says. “Being a part of the financial aid program has really allowed us to alleviate some of the financial pressure and focus on helping the kids meet their dreams. It’s not only allowed them to train with the best players, learn from the most knowledgeable coaches and play against the best competition, but it’s allowed us to provide other things for the kids that we may not have been able to provide had we not been part of the financial aid program”
Aven has even made good on the promise she showed early in her playing career. She is now a freshman on the University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill soccer team.
“Being a part of UNC history and being immersed in the culture has been the most influential experience of y life,” Aven says. “I could not be more thankful to call UNC home.” The Tar Heel freshman gives credit to the organization that made it all possible for her siblings. “Absolutely, it means a lot to me and my family,” she says. “The support from NCFC in providing opportunities for my family and I has been pivotal in my soccer journey.”
PHOTO COURTESY OF THE ALVAREZ FAMILY
NCFC Youth’s financial aid fund has benefited the Alvaez’s four young soccer players.
The 2024 Holiday Gift Guide
Make this holiday season unforgettable for loved ones of all ages. Our 2024 Holiday Gift Guide connects you to local shops and boutiques offering unique options that are sure to bring comfort and
Mrs. Ruth’s Jams Holiday Favorites: Two Award-Winning 4-ounce Jars of Jam in Gift-Ready Box, $15.95 mrsruthsjams.com
“Little Nutcracker” Shaped Board Book, $6.99 “The Owl Who Came for Christmas” by Jon Hay and Garry Parsons, $18.99 McIntyre’s Books mcintyresbooks.com Dog Lover’s Gift Set, $61.95 Rocky Mountain Chocolate Factory rmcf.com
Marbles Kids Museum Dino Railway Adventure Set, $99.99
Jonti-Craft Culinary Creations Play Kitchen 4-Piece Set, $1,777.80
Bamboo Cozy Space, $490.56 The “Teach Me” Store shop.teachmestore.com
CURLING HAS A TRIANGLE H ME
THE NICHE SPORT KNOWN FOR STONES AND SWEEPING AIMS TO FIND AN AUDIENCE WITH LOCALS AND JUNIORS. BY KURT DUSTERBERG
In the final days of August, with 90-degee heat still gripping the Triangle, a handful of folks gathered at Triangle Curling Club in southeast Durham to prepare for the coming season. The people in charge of flooding and eezing the surface are members of the club, an all-volunteer group of curling enthusiasts who operate the 501(c)(3) organization.
To the wider audience, curling grabs the spotlight every four years during the Winter Olympics, when the curious mix of gliding stones and brushing the ice captivates the public. But for a loyal core of followers, the sport is a way of life.
“We’ve been trying to encourage the juniors to get into leagues and on teams with other juniors so they get into the game more.”
“No matter where you go around the country, curlers are fun people,” says Franklinton resident Peter Dellapelle. “As far as the game itself, there’s an individual challenge: Can I put this stone
where I want it? There’s competition, but there’s also a team effort. And thee is the strategy of it. So, it’s a multifaceted game.” Games are divided into 10 “ends,” like baseball innings, with four players on a team. Each team throws eight rocks (also called stones), trying to land them closest to the “house,” the center ring.
Sweeping frenetically in front o the stone helps it travel farther and straighter, while reducing frictio and helping control how much the stone curls, or travels along a curved path. A match generally takes about two hours.
Many of the Triangle Curling Club’s 400 members are Canadian transplants like Brian Chick, a Winnipeg native, and his daughter Andrea, who became a competitive curler. But the local club is trying to build a junior program
organically in the Triangle, led by Derek Corbett, a former member of the U.S. World Junior Championships team.
“A lot of [juniors] practice and work on skills, but they don’t play a lot of games,” Chick says. “We’ve been trying to encourage the juniors to get into leagues and on teams with other juniors so they get into the game more. Throwing a junior into an adult league won’t work.”
Triangle Curling Club offers a Sunday afternoon junio recreational program for ages 5–21. No experience is necessary, and some instruction is included. For more seasoned curlers, there’s an advanced commitment program that includes focused training and preparation for tournaments, called bonspiels. The club hosts the Triangle Junior Bonspiel each January.
This year’s tournament is January 4–5 and is open to all curlers 21 and under.
Fifteen-year-old amie Renaud is one of the club’s top junior players. As a young child, she didn’t take to tennis or golf, but when her Canadian parents introduced her to curling at age 8, she was hooked.
“I like the challenges it brings and the way you work with your team on everything,” she says.
The Broughton Magnet High School student practices every weekend at the club, and is a regular participant in club and junior bonspiels.
“It takes a lot of practice,” Renaud says. “You have to learn how to balance and get used to how much work it takes to sweep. The muscles you use in curling, you don’t use in a lot of other sports. After sweeping, its your upper arms that hurt. It’s also the muscles in your legs—when you’re pushing off, yu need a lot of force.”
The nonprofit club has no full-time employees relying instead on its members to handle everything fro maintaining the four sheets of ice to bartending and serving food at events. The operation is self-funded, relying on dues and more than 100 corporate business rentals each season.
“Being so close to RTP, we have a lot of [rentals, where businesses bring] their work group out,” says Sue Mitchell, the club’s marketing chairperson.
“You get to throw a rock, you get to slide, you get to sweep.”
For some, the idea of an ice sport comes with an obvious barrier—shivering in the cold. But Triangle Curling Club has that covered. Spectators watch from a warm room, whee there are tables and benches—and snacks and drinks—for those who are merely there to support family and friends. And thats OK, because socializing is part of the sport.
“So if you come out to watch, you don’t have to bundle up,” Mitchell says.
TOP AND BOTTOM PHOTOS COURTESY OF BRIAN SEWELL
Four players on a team work together to land a stone closest to the "house," the center ring.
Players sweep frenetically in front of a stone to help it travel farther and straighter.
The Carying Place
BY CAITLIN WHEELER
Every January, Wake County conducts a “point in time count” to determine the number of its people experiencing homelessness. Since some homeless families do not stay in shelters and encampments, an accurate figue can be hard to pin down. “It’s really hard to figue out the numbers,” says Leslie Covington, executive director of The Carying Place (TCP), “but the state estimates that there are over 6,000 kids who are experiencing homelessness in Wake County.”
Covington’s goal is to get that number to zero.
Historically, a “carrying place” is a portage trail between two rivers, allowing safe passage from one to the othe. The Carying Place of Cary provides a similar safe passage for working families, guiding them from homelessness int housing security. Covington’s team helps their clients with temporary housing, a strict curriculum of counseling and classes, and a lifetime of follow-up support. With 15 housing units, they have served over 500 families with over 1,500 children since they opened in 2015. Because they receive 100 applicants a month, TCP always has a waiting list, and they are constantly pushing to get more housing units so they can serve additional families.
TCP’S FAMILIES
With limited resources, TCP focuses on families who are homeless, have at least one school-age child and have fulltime jobs. They must be determined to do the hard work necessary to improve their situations. “We ask a lot of our families,” says Covington. “It’s not easy to share every detail
of your finances with another person. Its not easy to admit your mistakes or weaknesses.”
Dr. Debalina Chatterjee, TCP’s senior family support specialist, admires the resilience of these families, who have experienced everything from domestic ause and gun violence to the loss of a parent and food insecurity. “It’s really uncommon, how much they want to change their trajectory. They have this incredible spark,” she says. For Chatterjee, the magic happens when a family begins to trust the TCP team, and they start working together to achieve goals. “It’s a joy when they understand that asking for help doesn’t mean you’re helpless,” she says.
A “HOUSING FIRST” APPROACH
As soon as a family is accepted into the program, they move into one of TCP’s single-family homes for four months of rent-free living. “Whatever else is going on in life, whether it’s losing a job or domestic strain, all of it is all easier when you’re housed,” says Covington. From this place of security, each family has an opportunity to get a handle on their budget, to save money and pay off bills. Covington says fur months is usually enough time for a family to pay off debt and improve a credit score, making it easier for them to get housing going forward.
Chatterjee then visits the home to assess the family’s broader needs. She helps with determining school enrollment and child care; establishing a plan to minimize parent driving; ensuring access to health care, healthy food and seasonal clothing; and strategizing with families to maximize
their savings. “It is like figuring ut a puzzle,” says Chatterjee, “and it is both challenging and rewarding.”
Covington says that with stable housing, a family can substantially change their trajectory in four months. Almost 85% of TCP families complete the curriculum; almost all pay off their debts and some not only pay off debts, ut exit the program with money in savings.
TCP’S CURRICULUM
“Everyone comes in saying, ‘I want to buy a house,’” says Dr. Michael Pearson, TCP’s program director. “But success is measured differently for different families, and home ownership is not always the goal.” Instead, TCP’s Journey Home program is meant to empower families to achieve long-term self-sufficiency. “Every minute, we are cheerleaders for our families,” says Pearson, “but we are also very serious about our educational program.”
The TCP curriculum has four pillars: life skills, financial liteacy, career development and housing preparedness. Of these, Covington says financial liteacy is the most important. “People don’t realize how much personal finance is the hallmar for getting out of poverty,” she says. “There are so many entitlement programs out there, but they are only a buffe. They’ll never give you all the money you need for food, housing and education. We are trying to get our families to a place where they can take care of themselves long-term.”
Much of the curriculum is covered in mandatory Thursday evening sessions, which include separate programs for adults, children and teens. Meetings typically include dinner and expert guest speakers who discuss everything from paenting tips and interviewing and networking skills to financial liteacy for teens.
THE TEAM
“I’m so impressed with the incredible bonds of trust the TCP staff ceates with its families,” says Heather Whelehan, director of housing and community partnerships with the
The Carying Place (TCP) only accepts families with school-age children (ages 0–18). The program identifies needs and connects paents with Wake County resources to help meet those needs.
“We absolutely rely on volunteers,” says executive director Leslie Covington. Here, a volunteer group from MetLife prepares to serve a Thursday evening meal.
TCP offers a special children’s program. “We are reminded every day how well children respond to stability and consistent encouragement,” says Dr. Debalina Chatterjee,
senior family support specialist.
TCP’s
Town of Cary. TCP’s staff of nine brings a variet of expertise areas to their work. For example, Covington has a deep understanding of mental health and the community that TCP supports. Pearson brings a Ph.D. in social justice and health services for a policy-level approach to problemsolving. Chatterjee brings a passion for the program that extends to her having left a caeer in biotech to focus on community empowerment. “It brings me so much joy to help these amazing families get un-stuck,” says Chatterjee.
The TCP team extends well beyond their paid staff. “We absolutely rely on our many wonderful volunteers,” says Covington. Dozens of TCP volunteers do everything from serving Thursday night dinners, to making TCP homes welcoming and comfortable and to leading teen support programs.
A COMMUNITY NETWORK
Can a program as small as The Carying Place actually make a diffeence with a problem as big as homelessness? “Absolutely,” says Whelehan. Cary, like other local governments, relies on partnerships with private and nonprofi organizations to meet its community goals for housing stability.
“There are so many resources available in Cary and Wake County,” says Chatterjee. “When we can’t help, we usually know another organization or government program that can, and in return we often get eferrals from othe nonprofits”
“Homelessness can feel like a big macroeconomic trend that is out of our control,” says Whelahan, “but I don’t buy into this ‘It’s just a fact of modern life’ mindset.” She adds that TCP and other nonprofits ae doing this work at a critical time. “Our region is in a growth stage,” she says, “and we still have the opportunity to shape our communities.”
The Town of Cary has long partnered with TCP to increase the nonprofits impact. This year, the town has given TCP a grant to buy two additional properties. A larger partnership is also underway: Cary is working with Greenwood Baptist Church, TCP and DHIC, Inc.—a nonprofit that uilds affodable housing—to redevelop the church site at 110 SE Maynard Road, adding affodable housing, daycare facilities and community programming areas for TCP’s Journey Home program.
“We couldn’t do what we’re doing without TCP,” says Whelehan.
To learn more about The Carying Place and how to help, go to thecaryingplace.org.
Yuletides Past and Present
Winston-Salem sparkles with holiday charm that transcends centuries.
As the fourth largest metropolitan area in North Carolina, Winston-Salem possesses a blend of old-world charm and modern growth. During the holiday season, it becomes a beloved destination that celebrates its colonial beginnings while also embracing a confluence of cultues that enchants young and old alike.
Winston-Salem’s roots date back to 1766 when a group of religious immigrants known as the Moravians founded colonial Salem. Nearby land was later sold to the newly formed Forsyth County, forging the town Winston in 1851. The two areas merged in 1913 to form the vibrant metropolis known today as the City of Arts and Innovation, where industries like manufacturing, technology and health care dominate.
While modernity takes center stage in Winston-Salem, the city honors its humble beginnings at Old Salem Museums & Gardens, a picturesque settlement of over 100 original buildings and structures that recounts the stories of its early settlers through costumed interpreters and trades demonstrations. Step back in time to experience the yuletide season of yesteryear during two of Old Salem’s most popular annual events, Salem Saturdays at Christmas and the Joy of Christmas Evening Tours, each of which features the district adorned in holiday greenery and traditional decorations.
By Janice Lewine
explore several historic buildings by lantern light—including the Tavern Museum, the Vogler House and the Boys’ School—and also enjoy long-standing traditions and handson activities. Six ticketed one-hour tours are offeed each evening.
Indulge in a taste of history at Winkler Bakery, one of the oldest continuously operated bakeries in America—they still use woodburning ovens! Take home freshly baked Lovefeast Buns or Moravian Sugar Cake, its most popular item. The bakery is open Wednesday–Saturday, 10 a.m.–4 p.m.
Salem Saturdays at Christmas, which take place November 30 and December 7, 14 and 21 from 10 a.m.–4 p.m., showcases how th Moravians blended their German customs with their new American traditions through music, food and traditional Putz displays during the 18th and 19th centuries. These include selfguided tours of its iconic venues, including the Single Brothers’ House, Potter’s Workshop and Doctor’s House. Each Saturday offers diffent activities, including historical games for kids and a visit from ld St. Nick.
Held Fridays and Saturdays from Thanksgiving through Christmas, the Joy of Christmas Evening Tours welcome visitors to
On December 7 from 10 a.m. to dusk the Wachovia Historical Society’s Moravian Market enhances the district’s timeless holiday atmosphere with Moravian-inspired craft and artisan demonstrations in Old Salem’s main square. At 5 p.m. on December 7, the Winston-Salem Holiday Parade brings seasonal cheer by honoring inclusivity in the downtown district. Celebrate Hanukkah, Kwanzaa, the winter solstice and Christmas in a procession that travels down Fourth and Liberty streets and ends with the city’s annual tree-lighting at Corpening Plaza.
Adding to the joyous celebrations in Winston-Salem is the Moravian Music Foundation’s ChristmasFest, held December 14 from 10 a.m.–5 p.m., that showcase traditional artisans, live holiday music, children’s activities and a visit from Santa at th Elberson Fine Arts Center at Salem College
Learn more at oldsalem.org, wachoviahistoricalsociety.org, moravianmusic.org and wsparade.com
Moravian stars create a beautiful scene on Old Salem's iconic Heritage Bridge.
PHOTO COURTESY OF CINDY HUNTLEY
TEACHING KIDS TO THINK BEYOND THEMSELVES IN OUR EVERCONNECTED WORLD
BY TIM TINNESZ
We’re as connected as we’ve ever been in human history—and as a result, schools like mine must now teach maxims like “There is no delete” and “Nothing is private.” A reckless moment in our connected world can create more harm than it ever used to. However, we must not forget the incredible good that one intentionally thoughtful moment might also create. This is why it’s so important to help our children develop the essential modern skill: the ability to think beyond themselves.
Just as it’s easier to learn an instrument or a second language when you start young, thinking beyond ourselves is a skill that should be acquired and practiced as early and as often as
possible. Our children, and our world, will be better for it. Here’s how I think we can do this:
1. ASK NEW QUESTIONS
Let’s start by asking our children over dinner or at bedtime each night, “What’s something kind you did for someone else today?” Notice how this is diffeent from the moe traditional, “How was your day?” or “What was the best part of your day?” The new “kindness” question gets us thinking about being a contributor instead of a recipient, and it instills the notion that each day, we ought to be finding some way t impact others.
2. MODEL IT
Teenagers rarely admit it, but for most children, their parents are the single biggest influence on who thy will become as adults.
So even though your child in the back seat might not seem to notice, let people merge in front of yu during rush hour traffic. Andven if your child seems focused only on the candy selections in the grocery checkout line, make a point to let the person with their 10 items move ahead of you before unloading your 20 items. Hold the door for others coming behind you, thank the refs after the soccer game (ven if they made a bad call), and even though it’s not your trash, throw away that piece of litter you notice on the sidewalk. Regularly witnessing these “little moments” will shape the kind of adults our children will become.
3. REMEMBER: PRACTICE MAKES PERMANENT
Long ago, my teacher told us, “Practice doesn’t make perfect. Practice makes permanent.” After quizzing us and making u repeat it back to him, it stuck with me … which proved his point. Thinking beyond ourselves isn’t a natural instinct for most of us, so the most important thing we can do is practice it until it becomes a habit. Websites like randomactsofkindness.org/ kindness-ideas have easy ideas that children can do alone or together with family and friends. A fw of my favorites:
• With your child, create care packages for the homeless—with items like lip balm, sunscreen and soft, nonperishable foo items. Keep them in the car so you can hand one out the next time you’re at a stoplight and have an opportunity to help someone in need.
• Make quick notes or cards for veterans that thank them for their service. When you’re in parking lots, watch for license plates that identify veterans so you can leave one of those notes for them—or even hand one to them.
• Get in the habit of making clothing or toy donations every time your child receives new clothes or gifts. or birthdays or Christmas, have your child decide which gently used items might be a wonderful gift to donate to a charitabl organization. A related tradition at our school is the “Tooth Fairy Tree,” where when a student loses a tooth, they bring a toothbrush, floss or toothpaste donation to be given to family in need.
Imagine!
Imagine the future for children raised where the right questions are regularly asked and behavior by others is constantly modeled. Imagine the future for children who practice giving back to the community just as often as thy practice their math facts. As those children grow up, they can be a force for good in this world, knowing they have a power to affect widespead, positive change in ways no other generation ever has.
Tim Tinnesz is head of school at St. Timothy’s School, an Episcopal school serving 560 students from pre-K through eighth grade in Raleigh. He also serves as board chair of Note in the Pocket, a nonprofit serving childen and families in North Carolina. A father of three, Tinnesz previously spent many years as a middle and high school teacher and principal.
The holidays are a perfect opportunity to enhance your child’s communication skills through meaningful interactions and conversations. With these tips and carefully selected gifts, families can promote language development and support children in their home environment.
The holidays are a perfect opportunity to enhance your child’s communication skills through meaningful interactions and conversations. With these tips and carefully selected gifts, families can promote language development and support children in their home environment.
As the holiday shopping frenzy begins, think about gifts that may aid in fostering communication with your children. Pretend play sets are a powerful tool for developing language,
As the holiday shopping frenzy begins, think about gifts that may aid in fostering communication with your children. Pretend play sets are a powerful tool for developing language,
Unwrap the Gift of Communication: A Roaring Holiday Guide for Speech and Language Development
Unwrap the Gift of Communication: A Roaring Holiday Guide for Speech and Language Development
as they encourage children to use their imagination and engage in dialogue. Use these toys to talk about what you are doing instead of asking them questions.
as they encourage children to use their imagination and engage in dialogue. Use these toys to talk about what you are doing instead of asking them questions.
Building blocks or magnetic tiles enable children to practice spatial concepts (such as “on top” or “next to”), requesting, and commenting (“I built a house!”). Cause-and-effect toys such as piggy banks or ball drops help younger children understand that their actions can lead to outcomes, which builds cognitive and problem-solving skills. You can target early language skills by modeling simple words like “more,” “in,” “out,” “open” and “close.”
For children who benefitfrom sensory input, consider looking at indoor or outdoor swings, Play-Doh or kinetic sand. Sensory play allows children to describe what they’re doing, feeling or creating. Modeling words like “push,” “squeeze,” “squish” or “roll” promotes understanding of verbs and adjectives.
The key here isn’t about the toys you buy, but the interaction you have with your child. Get on your child’s level, play on the floorand be silly. There isn’t a “right” or “wrong” way to play—as long as your child is having fun, you are doing it right.
Building blocks or magnetic tiles enable children to practice spatial concepts (such as “on top” or “next to”), requesting, and commenting (“I built a house!”). Cause-and-effect toys such as piggy banks or ball drops help younger children understand that their actions can lead to outcomes, which builds cognitive and problem-solving skills. You can target early language skills by modeling simple words like “more,” “in,” “out,” “open” and “close.”
The key here isn’t about the toys you buy, but the interaction you have with your child. Get on your child’s level, play on the floorand be silly. There isn’t a “right” or “wrong” way to play—as long as your child is having fun, you are doing it right.
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For children who benefitfrom sensory input, consider looking at indoor or outdoor swings, Play-Doh or kinetic sand. Sensory play allows children to describe what they’re doing, feeling or creating. Modeling words like “push,” “squeeze,” “squish” or “roll” promotes understanding of verbs and adjectives.
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ART CART
Most Tuesdays and Thursdays in November and December; visit the website for dates and times
Downtown Cary Park
327 S. Academy Street, Cary
Kids of all ages let their creativity bloom with a craft in Park Art or with a variety of supplies to make their own creation in Art Your Way. Admission is free.
downtowncarypark.com
OLD NORTH STATE STORYTELLING FESTIVAL
November 1–2
The Cary Theater
122 E. Chatham Street, Cary
CAROLINA TIGER TAKEOVER
November 2, 5–9 p.m.
Havoc Brewing Company
39 West Street, Pittsboro
Join Carolina Tiger Rescue as it celebrates 50 years of dedication to saving and protecting wild cats in captivity and in the wild through rescue and education. Enjoy educational presentations, food trucks, live music, games, a raffle and moe. Admission is free. carolinatigerrescue.org
FESTIFALL ARTS MARKET: DÍA DE LOS MUERTOS
November 2, noon–5 p.m.
Franklin Street, Chapel Hill
Celebrate Día de los Muertos, the Mexican holiday that pays tribute to deceased loved ones, with a street market featuring artisan vendors, music and performances in downtown Chapel Hill. chapelhillarts.org
TASTE OF CHINA
Acclaimed national and regional storytellers, including Lipbone Redding, Linda Gorham and Bil Lepp, present hours of stories to entertain and warm your heart. The festival is presented by the North Carolina Storytelling Guild. Purchase tickets online. oldnorthstatestorytellingfestival.com
MOONLIGHT IN THE GARDEN
November 1–2, 8–9 and 14–16
JC Raulston Arboretum
4415 Beryl Road, Raleigh
Enjoy a nighttime lighting exhibition designed to showcase the internationally acclaimed garden, as well as food trucks, live music and roasted marshmallows. Visit the website for timed-entry slots and to purchase tickets. jcra.ncsu.edu
November 2, 11 a.m.–5 p.m.
Downtown Cary Park
327 S. Academy Street, Cary
Experience the best of Chinese culinary delights, traditional performances and cultural exhibits. downtowncarypark.com
JEFF BOYER’S “BUBBLE TROUBLE”
November 22, 10 a.m. and 1 p.m.
Fuquay-Varina Arts Center
123 E. Vance Street, Fuquay-Varina
Jeff Boyer hosts a one-man bubble extravaganza for all ages and invites audience members to create bubble art. Performances are suitable for those with sensory sensitivities. Purchase tickets online. fuquay-varina.org
AMERICAN INDIAN HERITAGE CELEBRATION
November 23, 11 a.m.–4 p.m.
North Carolina Museum of Sciences 11 W. Jones Street, Raleigh
Take the family for demonstrations, presentations and performances that highlight the traditional and contemporary contributions of American Indians in North Carolina. The celebration, presented by the North Carolina Museum of History, takes place outdoors on Bicentennial Plaza and inside the North Carolina Museum of Natural Sciences. Visit the website for more information. ncmuseumofhistory.org/events-and-programs
TURKEY TROT 5K RUN
November 23, 10 a.m.
Apex Community Park
2200 Laura Duncan Road, Apex Chase down that turkey on a scenic course at Apex Community Park. Take part in a competitive or recreational 5K in either the youth or adult division. Register online.
apexnc.org
“THE WIZARD OF OZ”
December 4, 2–4 p.m.
North Carolina Museum of Art 2110 Blue Ridge Road, Raleigh
See the classic 1939 film that featues Dorothy and Toto as they are swept away by a tornado from their Kansas farm to the magical Land of Oz. They embark on a quest with three new friends to see the Wizard, who can return Dorothy to her home and fulfill the others’ wishes. Purchase tickets online. ncartmuseum.org
GERMAN HOLIDAY MARKET
December 7, 3–9 p.m.
Durham Central Park 501 Foster Street, Durham
Experience the magic of a German-themed Christmas market with vendor stalls selling a variety of handmade crafts and gifts. Live entertainment and authentic German cuisine round out the event. facebook.com/events/999824945127134
FLASHLIGHT CANDY CANE HUNT
December 19, 6:30–7:15 p.m.
Apex Community Park
2200 Laura Duncan Road, Apex Ages 10 and older with developmental and/or physical disabilities use their flashlights to search for candy canes and prizes in the park. Participants must bring a flashlight. Register online. apexnc.org
COME HUNGRY
New treats to taste, opportunities to learn and recipes to try
TRY
With children looking ahead to the holidays, here’s a good way to get them excited for a visit from Santa. Whether you call it reindeer chow, reindeer treats or Christmas muddy buddies, kids can get creative with their favorite flavors. It’s a perfect treat for a holiday party or a rooftop reindeer visit on December 24.
REINDEER CHOW INGREDIENTS
• 1 box Corn Chex
• 1 bag holiday colored M&M’s
• 12 ounces semisweet chocolate chips
• ½ cup unsalted butter
• 1 cup peanut butter
• 1 teaspoon vanilla extract
• 4 cups powdered sugar
DIRECTIONS
Melt butter, peanut butter and vanilla extract together in the microwave in 30-second intervals. Add chocolate chips to the melted mixture and microwave in 30-second intervals until chocolate chips are melted. Place the cereal in a 1-gallon storage bag and carefully pour the chocolate mixture in by manipulating the bag to make sure all the cereal is coated. If the mixture is still warm, spread on wax paper to cool and dry before placing back in a bag. Add the powdered sugar until it coats the cereal pieces, then finish by adding M&Ms to the bag. Store in an airtight container.
LEARN
Wynton’s World Cooking School 969 N. Harrison Avenue, Cary wyntonsworld.com
Do you have someone at home who is curious in the kitchen? How about a high schooler who will need some culinary skills before heading off to college?
Wynton’s World Cooking School offers two 6-week sessions for ages 12 and older during the summer. Chef Wynton Mann teaches a weekly culinary class that focuses on soups, stocks, sauces, stews, braising and a variety of cooking methods. He stresses the importance of using fresh ingredients to help build a healthy lifestyle.
Wynton’s World also offers two-hour birthday cooking parties for ages 7 and older in a kid-friendly kitchen. Kids can choose a theme and create a party meal.
TASTE
Postino
401 Daniels Street, Raleigh postinowinecafe.com
Postino’s kids menu offers a few fresh ideas for young diners. Choose from The Picnic (an assortment of sliced chicken and white cheddar cheese slices), The Yummy PBJ (a peanut butter and jelly sandwich) or The Grilled Cheesy (made with white cheddar). All three options are served with chips, grapes and apples. Dessert options include house-made ricotta donut holes.
Kids can choose from chicken tenders (grilled or fried), a hamburger or a cheeseburger. Each comes with a choice of french fries, pub chips, steamed broccoli or mixed veggies. Other options include pasta (with red sauce or butter), mac ‘n cheese or three jalapeno mac ‘n cheese balls. Each entree is served with one side dish.
Elevated options for kids include the petite grilled cheese on sesame Italian bread, made with melted mozzarella and cheddar; ham and cheddar cheese on a brioche slider roll; and roasted turkey and cheddar cheese on a brioche slider roll. Each of the sandwiches is served with a choice of fruit or cucumbers and tomatoes.
ULTIMATE BROTHERHOOD
Carrboro brothers rise through the ranks of disc sport
It was just two summers ago that Owen Weaver began playing ultimate, learning the game through Carrboro Recreation and Parks. Already, he speaks like a professional when offering a scouting report on his home course.
“The closest one to us is Hank Anderson [Community] Park,” he says. “That’s kind of a medium difficult, I guess. It’s very wooded, pretty technical, but also [has] some shorter holes. Tight gaps and fairways.”
Six months after Owen, 14, picked up the game, his brother Finley, 8, took up the sport as well. At first it was just a hobby for the bothers—a chance to head off to a course and get some physical activity. That was before their father relaxed the rules.
“When we first stated playing disc golf, there was no way [they] were allowed to throw discs in the backyard,” Norm Weaver says. “Now, we throw them over our house.”
Owen and Finley have each become standout performers in their age groups. Owen earned 11 wins in his first 13 rofessional Disc Golf Association events. The game came quickly to the older brother, but Finley needed more time, partly because he sometimes plays in larger divisions with older competitors.
“Finley said a couple of weeks ago, ‘I can’t keep up with Owen,’” their dad says. “But he’s really embraced it lately and really picked up his putting game. The putting game is where Owen excels. If you were to just look at the two side by side going from the tee box to the basket, Owen shaves strokes when it comes to putting.”
Now the younger Weaver brother has some results to show for his improvement. Finley finished second in the 2024 PDA Junior Disc Golf
World Championships in the Mixed Junior Under 8 division in Tulsa, Oklahoma in July. He now has 10 wins in 14 career PDGA events.
Both kids have earned sponsorship from Yeet Street Discs in Morrisville. The disc store provides team jerseys and covers tournament entry fees. Finley’s recent performance at the world championship gained him a sponsorship with Innova, the largest disc manufacturer in the world.
“The relationship [with sponsors] in general gets them more visibility,” Norm says. “The team for us is a network and friendships.”
The connections are a plus for the two boys, who are both quiet by nature. When Owen gets out on the course, his excitement shows. He recently tried out the course at Apex Nature Park for the first time, and expained his thinking as he chose a red disc at the first tee. This is a nine speed,” he says. “I would call this a fairway [driver]. Some people call it a control driver or a distance driver, but it’s just a faster fairway driver. It’s not quite a distance driver.”
The boys play at least once a week, but they usually play two practice rounds before a tournament. For one round they throw shots from all over the course, but they keep score during the second round. When they’re not on the course, they can practice at home. The Weavers have a basket in the backyard, allowing them to practice shots from almost 100 feet. One thing seems sure: Playing together makes the brothers better.
“Owen has always helped the younger and smaller kids,” their dad says. “He is very helpful to Finley, and I think he genuinely wants to see Finley do well all the time. He’s always had that relationship. They both very much care for each other’s game.”
Tra·di·tion [truh-dish-uhn]
An inherited or established ritualistic behavior or custom that is passed down through generations. Traditions can be a source of comfort, belonging and joy, and can help strengthen relationships and community bonds.
Ava (12) of Durham makes wooden Christmas tree decorations with her grandfather, Tom.
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