Gender Identity

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Gender Identity— The Homosexual Agenda and the Christian Response By Mark Alexander Communications should be addressed to: Turning Point Ministries, Inc. P. O. Box 22127 Chattanooga, TN 37422-2127 Web site: Scripture taken from the Holy Bible, New International Version®. Copyright© 1972, 1978, 1984 by International Bible Society. Used by permission of Zondervan Publishing House. ©Turning Point, 2007. All rights reserved. No part of the material protected by this copyright notice may be reproduced or utilized in any form or by any means, electronic or mechanical, including photocopying, recording, or any information storage and retrieval system, without written permission from the Turning Point Ministries. ISBN-13 978-1-58119-088-5 ISBN-10 1-58119-088-3 About the Author Mark Alexander is executive editor and publisher of The Patriot Post [http://PatriotPost.US], the Web’s “Conservative Journal of Record.” He is the author of hundreds of essays on American history, government, and culture. He has been interviewed and The Patriot regularly quoted on national radio and television programs. Produced by

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Mark holds advanced degrees both in psychology and public affairs, and he is the recipient of prestigious national certifications from military and civilian professional advancement programs. Mark serves on the boards of several corporations, national organizations, and Christian ministries. He and his wife are the parents of three children, and they reside in the mountains of Tennessee.

Contents Page

Preface . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .2 Chapter 1

Background: Family Origins . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .3

Chapter 2

The Fractured Exe mp l a ri t y: Alte ring Sexual No rm a l c y . . . . .5

Chapter 3

Un d e r s tanding: Gender- D i s o ri e n tation Pathology . . . . . . . .7

Chapter 4

The Agenda: Homosexual Normalization . . . . . . . . . . . .12

Chapter 5

The Confl i c t: Scri pt u ral Au th o ri t y . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .17

Chapter 6

The Context: Scri pt u re, Tradition, and Reason . . . . . . . . .19

Chapter 7

Unity of the Body: Christian Fellowship . . . . . . . . . . . . . .24

Chapter 8

On These Two Commandments: The Christian Response . . . .26

Chapter 9

Where Do We Go From Here? . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .28

Resources . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .31 Endnotes . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .32


Preface Since the dawn of Christendom, Christians have been confronted by secular challenges to the most basic canons of our foundational guidance—those set forth in Holy Scripture. These challenges have increased exponentially in the last century, in large measure because of cultural dissolution which is the direct result of the dissolution of traditional families—broken marriages leaving distraught children in their wake. Marriage is the foundation for the family which in turn serves as the foundation for society. The Christian marriage paradigm is built on a foundation of five principles: 1. 2. 3. 4. 5.

God is the creator of the marriage relationship. Heterosexuality is God’s pattern for marriage. Monogamy is God’s design for marriage. God’s plan for marriage is for physical and spiritual unity. Marriage was designed to be permanent.

As an institution, marriage is currently under assault from many quarters, one of the most menacing being the challenge to traditional sexual morality. It is no small irony that not only are homosexuals challenging the status of traditional marriage, but sexual immorality leading to broken marriages also fosters homosexual pathology. In an effort to provide some context for understanding homosexuality, this booklet briefly addresses the origins and pathology of such deviance, the social “homosexual normalization” agenda, the conflict this agenda has created within the Christian church, and an appropriate Christian response.


Chapter 1 Background: Family Origins As Christians, we are constantly tempted by sin, particularly the sins of self-indulgence and self-aggrandizement. Consequently, perhaps the greatest affront to the body of Christ is the most common injury to the family of man—marital infidelity and divorce. S ep a r ation and divo rce, wh i ch typically result in the absence of fathers from their headship role within the family, comprise the single most significant common denominator among all categories of social and cultural entropy. “Maturity does not come with age, but with the accep t i n g of responsibility for one’s actions,” writes Dr. Edwin Cole, the father of the Modern Men’s Ministry. “The lack of effective, functioning fathers is the root cause of America’s social, economic and spiritual crises” (Quote from Cole’s website wh i ch is no longer an active link). Currently, only one in three children and only one in five inner-city children are in a home with a mother and father. Children who are raised in households without fathers are at much higher risk for psychological and emotional disorders, a plethora of behavioral disorders, chemical abuse, sexual deviance, academic failure, unwed pregnancy, abortion, criminal incarceration, poverty, self-mutilation, and suicide. Adult children of divorce often harbor such deep emotional disorders that a very high percentage of their marriages also end in divorce, propagating familial generations of misery (Mark Alexander, “Fatherless in America” <>, accessed on January 17, 2007). “The simple truth is that fathers are irreplaceable in shaping the competence and character of their children,” notes family researcher 3

David Blankenhorn. “[The absence of fathers] from family life is surely the most socially consequential family trend of our era” (Institute for American Values, This certainly is not to say that all children in fatherless homes are destined to fail any more than it is to say that children in homes with fathers are destined to succeed. Indeed, in many cases where fathers have abdicated their responsibility for proper love, discipline, support, and protection of their children, mothers and extended family members have largely been able to assume those responsibilities. But it is to say that the odds of failure are stacked against children of divorce. While the burden of headship falls on fathers and their absence in the home creates great peril for children, it should be noted that the majority of divorce cases are filed by women (and the majority of those claim no harm or abuse). Concerns about divorce and its consequential degradation of social and moral order are not new. As founding father John Adams wrote, “The fo u n d ation of n ational morality must be laid in private families.... How is it possible that Children can have any just Sense of the sacred Obligations of Morality or Religion if, from their earliest Infancy, they learn their Mothers live in habitual Infidelity to their fathers, and their fathers in as constant Infidelity to their Mothers?” (John Adams Diary, June 2, 1778, Founders’ Almanac, < es.cfm>, accessed on January 3, 2007.


Chapter 2 The Fractured Exemplarity: Altering Sexual Normalcy What is new is the vast number of fatherless ch i l d ren in America (Mark Alexander, “Fatherless in America” <>, accessed on January 17, 2007), kids who have been largely abandoned by their biological fathers and the incalculable burden that places on them and society. One notable outcome associated with some broken and dysfunctional families is the absence of a healthy sexual identity in children raised in such families—particularly their identity with their same-sex parent. Consequently, the paradigm of sexual morality has shifted and has become a source of much controversy in our culture and in the Christian church. Though premarital and adulterous heterosexual affairs numerically constitute the most significant departure from the biblical family model, homosexuality is the more destructive course and its advocacy is a vociferous insult to that family model. Simply put, homosexuality threatens the church and our culture because it threatens the natural order of the family. Though less than three percent of the population self-identify as homosexual (“gay” or “lesbian” in common parlance), the pernicious advancement of homosexuality is very well-funded, coordinated, and executed. Bradford Wilcox of the University of Virginia notes in a Heritage Foundation report that those who would deconstruct the natural order of family see the Christian church as “a key factor in stalling the gender revolution at home” (“Soft Patriarchs, New Men: How Christianity Shapes Fathers and Husbands,” W. Bradford Wilcox, Ph.D., and Jennifer A. Marshall, Heritage Lecture #880, 5

<>, accessed on December 21, 2006). For this reason, the church as an institution is high on the list of gender-revolution targets, second only to the assault on the traditional family.


Chapter 3 Understanding: Gender-Disorientation Pathology In order to understand how to respond to the homosexual agenda in the church and society, it is helpful to understand the underlying pathology. In 1952, the first edition of the American Psychiatric Association’s Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM), the official catalogue of mental disorders used by mental health professionals, listed homosexuality as a sociopath personality disturbance. In 1968, the revised DSM II reclassified homosexuality as a sexual deviancy. But in the midst of the sexual revolution, homosexual protesters began picketing the APA’s annual conventions, demanding that homosexuality not be identified as pathology. In 1973, under enormous pre s s u re from homosexual activists, the APA re m oved homosex uality from its DSM III edition to the dismay of about 40 percent of psychiatrists, particularly those who specialized in treating homosexuals. Dr. Ronald Bayer, author of the book Homosexuality and American Psychiatry, writes: The entire process, from the first confrontation organized by gay demonstrators to the referendum demanded by orthodox psychiatrists, seemed to violate the most basic expectations about how questions of science should be resolved. Instead of being engaged in sober discussion of data, psychiatrists were swept up in a political controversy. The result was not a conclusion based on an approximation of the scientific truth as dictated by reason, but was instead an action demanded by the ideological temper of the times 7

(What Does Science Say About Homosexuality? <>, accessed on December 21, 2006). But the APA is not likely to reverse their position. The late Charles Socarides, clinical professor of psychiatry at Albert Einstein College of Medicine, wrote, “We know that obligatory homosexuals are caught up in unconscious adaptations to early childhood abuse and neglect and that, with insight into their earliest beginnings, they can change” (“How America Went Gay,” <>, accessed on December 21, 2006). Socarides wrote not just as a clinician but also from personal failure—he had divorced his wife and one of his sons was a homosexual. Homosexuality is sometimes a promiscuous lifestyle choice. More often, however, as understood by many medical and mental health specialists, homosexual behavior is a manifestation of gender-disorientation pathology associated with childhood or adolescent emotional dissociation and physical trauma or abuse. Many homosexuals report that as children, they had a dysfunctional relationship with their same-sex parent, such relationships being their primary means of gender identification and affirmation. For some children, particularly those whose parents are separated or divorced, the dissociation from their same-sex parent can cause an unconscious but directive drive for gender identification and affirmation among same-sex peers which can manifest as sexual behavior after puberty. The search for closure to a dysfunctional relationship with a parent can lead to a lifetime of misery. 8

Some homosexuals report they overidentified with their opposite sex parent and peers; thus, a boy becomes increasingly feminized while a girl becomes more masculine. In both lack of identity and over identity, there is a common denominator—emotional deprivation. In their formative years, all children need emotional and physical closeness with their parents—particularly with their same-sex parent—and they need to develop a healthy sense of their gender identity as masculine or feminine. Homosexual modeling and/or predation by an authority figure—often an influential person with access to the child through the family, church, school, neighborhood, or media—can also promote genderdisorientation pathology. Children who are victims of homosexual predation often compensate and cover their pain by manifesting some degree of narcissism, an unmitigated expression of self-love which is antithetical to the embodiment of the Holy Spirit and the image of God. Ironically, they compulsively indulge in aberrant sexual behavior to avoid reconciling the pain of emotional and/or physical abuse. Some who reject the notion of homosexual pathology continue to speculate about a “gay gene,” but that theory has been rejected both by the scientific community and national homosexual advocacy organizations. The genetic link theory has its origin in 1991 with the work of UCLA researcher and homosexual activist Simon LeVay who claimed there were some minute physiological differences between the brains of heterosexual and homosexual men. His research was heralded by pop 9

media outlets as proof of a genetic link to sexual orientation, but upon publishing his research, even LeVay noted, “It’s important to stress what I didn’t find. I did not prove that homosexuality is genetic, or find a genetic cause for being gay. I didn’t show that gay men are born that way, the most common mistake people make in interpreting my work” (“What Does Science Say About Homosexuality?” <>, accessed on December 22, 2006.) Another researcher, Dean Hamer of the National Cancer Institute, believes some homosexuals may have chromosomal similarities. Like LeVay, Hamer’s research was also heralded by media outlets as proof of a genetic link to sexual orientation. Like LeVay, Hamer insisted that “these genes do not cause people to become homosexuals...the biology of personality is much more complicated than that” (“What Does Science Say About Homosexuality?” <>, accessed on December 22, 2006). It should be noted, however, that some children may be genetically predisposed to exhibit masculine or feminine characteristics associated with the opposite sex, putting them at greater risk of being targeted by homosexual predators and more susceptible, psychologically, to homosexual modeling. Given this insight into the pathology of gender disorientation, to abandon homosexuals in their mental illness (and sin) under the aegis of “love and compassion” is tantamount to abandoning a destitute homeless man under the justification that his condition is “righteous in God’s eyes.” 10

Indeed, there is hope for readjustment of sexual orientation despite assertions to the contrary by homosexual advocacy groups whose clear social and political agendas risk being undermined by such hope. Robert Spitzer, professor of psychiatry at Columbia University, writes, “The assumption I am now challenging is this: that every desire for change in sexual orientation is always the result of societal pressure and never the product of a rational, self-directed goal” (Exodus International, “Commentary: Psychiatry and Homosexuality,” <>, accessed on December 22, 2006). “This new orthodoxy claims that it is impossible for an individual who was predominantly homosexual for many years to change his sexual orientation—and to enjoy heterosexuality,” notes Dr. Spitzer. “Many professionals go so far as to hold that it is unethical for a mental-health professional, if requested, to attempt such psychotherapy. ... Science progresses by asking interesting questions, not by avoiding questions whose answers might not be helpful in achieving a political agenda” (Exodus International, “Commentary: Psychiatry and Homosexuality,” <>, accessed on December 22, 2006). Hope notwithstanding, the normalization objectives of the homosexual agenda are plain. “When homosexuality takes on all the aspects of a political movement, it...becomes the kind of war in which the first casualty is truth, and the spoils turn out to be our own children,” warned Dr. Socarides. “In a Washington March for Gay Pride, they chanted, ‘We’re here. We’re queer. And we’re coming after your children.’ What more do we need to know?” (Charles W. Socarides, M.D., “How America Went Gay” <>, accessed on December 22, 2006). 11

Chapter 4 The Agenda: Homosexual Normalization The primary cultural agenda of the nation’s largest homosexual advocacy groups is to promote homosexuality as being on par with heterosexuality. They advance this agenda through legal challenges and two primary methods of childhood indoctrination—education and entertainment. This aggressive confrontation with the timeless JudeoChristian foundation for the family and society is both well-funded and well-organized. The Legal Agenda The primary legal agenda of homosexual advocacy groups is to give this behavior civil rights status, as in the Employment NonDiscrimination Act supported by homosexual Massachusetts Congressman Barney Frank and others. Necessary components of this agenda are an insistence on corporate and government benefits for homosexual partners and state-by-state recognition of homosexual “marriage” and adoption rights. In 2004, the Massachusetts legislature became the first (and only, to date) state governing body to institute legal status for same-sex marriage and bar discrimination on the basis of sexual orientation. Harvard Law professor Mary Ann Glendon wrote the following during Massachusetts’ same-sex marriage debate: As much as one may wish to live and let live, the experience in other countries reveals that once these arrangements become law, there will be no live-and-let-live policy for those who differ. Proponents use the language of openness, tolerance, and diversity, yet one foreseeable effect of their success will be to usher in an era of intolerance and discrimination. Every person and 12

every religion that disagrees will be labeled as bigoted and openly discriminated against. The ax will fall most heavily on religious persons and groups that don’t go along. Religious institutions will be hit with lawsuits if they refuse to compromise their principles (“For Better or for Worse?” Opinion Journal, Wall Street Journal, <>, accessed on Fe b r u a ry 25, 2004.) To that end, in 2006, Catholic Charities of Boston closed its adoption services rather than be forced to place children with homosexuals which the Catholic Church considers “gravely immoral.” That prompted one advocacy group, the so-called “Human Rights Campaign,” to proclaim that “Boston Catholic Charities puts ugly political agenda before child welfare,” which, of course, is a projection of the HRC’s mission (Human Rights Campaign, News Release, < play.cfm>, accessed on March 10, 2006). Consistent with Professor Glendon’s warning, the Catholic Charities case is the tip of the iceberg. Once homosexuals receive national civil rights status, a position paper such as the one you are reading could be classified as “hate speech,” making it a “hate crime.” Its author could be censured as was the case in Canada when a Christian pastor spoke out against homosexuality <Alberta Christian Pastor Hauled Before Human Rights Tribunal For Letter to Editor on Homosexuality, <>, accessed on Janu a ry 5, 2007). 13

Legal challenges notwithstanding, there is a much more insidious effort to undermine the Judeo-Christian family model, and it is being implemented with much greater success than legal diktats. Entertainment Indoctrination Every media form, particularly the entertainment industry, now has numerous outlets that integrate homosexual behavior into the family context as if it were as normal as any other human condition in the family. Entertainment is thus the subtlest and most effective means of ideological indoctrination. It creates a psychological opening through which cultural messages bypass the intellectual filters that arrest most input for critical analysis. Because the context for these messages is entertainment, it gets a free pass into the mind’s cultural framework where it competes at a subconscious level with established ethical and moral standards. Those at greatest risk for this form of indoctrination are emotive adults and all children. Academic Indoctrination Caveat Emptor! Parents, beware that there are well-organized and well-funded “gender desensitization” programs and curriculums designed to indoctrinate children, K-12, in both private and government schools. Leading this cultural contravention are the Gay Lesbian Straight Education Network (GLSEN) and other allied homosexual alliances across the nation. The syllabus is similar to that being propagated by the media—that homosexuality is an ethical and moral lifestyle choice, and challenging the merits of that choice is tantamount to social ignorance, prejudice, and bigotry. 14

Children on a normal developmental track experience sexual curiosity, sometimes including same-sex interest, though most do not act out those interests. But Chad Thompson and Warren Throckmorton, who research homosexual trends in schools, warn that for children who do act on same-sex impulses, there is a growing network of homosexual organizations on campuses across the nation pushing young people to self-identify as “lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgendered” as a result of nothing more than same-sex curiosity (“The Battle Over Gay Teens,” Time Magazine, < article/0,9171,1112856,00.html>, accessed on January 4, 2007). According to John Cloud in “The Battle Over Gay Teens,” In 1997 there were approximately 100 gay-straight alliances (GSAs)—clubs for gay and gay-friendly kids—on U.S. high school campuses. Today there are at least 3,000 GSAs—nearly 1 in 10 high schools has one—according to the GLSEN which registers and advises GSAs. In the 2004-05 academic year, GSAs were established at U.S. schools at the rate of three per day. Consequently, GLSEN is setting kids up for a lifetime of perverse misery. Author and noted commentator Camille Paglia, a self-identified lesbian, writes: Today, when a [teenager] has a [same-sex] affair, all the campus social-welfare machinery pushes her [him] toward declaring herself [himself] gay and accepting and celebrating it. This is a serious mistake... It is absurd to say that one, two, or more homosexual liaisons make you gay—as if lavender ink ran in your veins. Young women [men] are often attracted to each 15

other during a transitional period when they are breaking away from their parents, expanding their world-views, and developing their personalities. To identify these fruitful Sapphic idylls with a permanent condition of homosexuality is madness, and the campus counselors who encourage such premature conclusions should be condemned and banished. They are preying, for their own ideological purposes, on young people at their most vulnerable (Inqueery in the Classroom, < classroom.html>, accessed on December 22, 2006). And a footnote on academic agendas: It is no small irony that the most outspoken academic advocates for homosexual normalization at the collegiate level are often equally dogmatic about universal environmental preservation—preservation of the natural order. Surely even the most humanist of these academicians must acknowledge the obvious—that homosexuality is a clear and undeniable violation of the laws of nature.


Chapter 5 The Conflict: Scriptural Authority Homosexuality is unanimously condemned by the foundational teachings of all world religions, and those teachings are the basis for societal norms worldwide. Thus, breaking through religious barriers is high on the homosexual normalization agenda. The issue within the Christian church is not one of church unity, traditions, or politics. Homosexual advocacy in the church has become a primary catalyst for challenging scriptural authority—the relevance of God’s Word as received through Holy Scripture, the historic foundation of the Christian Church, and Western society. Homosexual advocates make the principal argument that Scripture is ambiguous about sexual immorality. However, both the Old and New Testaments are abundantly clear on their condemnation of homosexual behavior. In every authentic translation of the Aramaic, Hebrew, and Greek Old and New Testament Scriptures, homosexual acts are indeed explicitly condemned. However, as some have dubiously suggested that our U.S. Constitution is an elastic “living document,” likewise they suggest that Scripture is malleable and thus subject to the same practice of revisionist interpretation. Homosexual advocates argue that citing Scripture’s condemnation of sin is isogetical (proof-texting) rather than exegetical. However, this essay does not turn to God’s Word with the objective of finding verse that comports to a certain theological, social, or political agenda; it returns to Scripture as the exegetical context for the Christian faith. 17

So convoluted has the debate become in some Western Christian denominations that a few have already approved the ordination of practicing homosexuals. Some have also come perilously close to recognizing homosexual marriage, resulting in intradenominational schisms.


Chapter 6 The Context: Scripture, Tradition, and Reason The very idea of freedom presupposes some objective moral law which overarches rulers and ruled alike. Subjectivism about values is eternally incompatible with democracy. We and our rulers are of one kind only so long as we are subject to one law. But if there is no Law of Nature, the ethos of any society is the creation of its rulers, educators and conditioners; and every creator stands above and outside his own creation (Lewis, Christian Reflections, p. 108). To discuss the issue of h o m o s exual normalization meaningfully, we must move beyond the “pro - t h i s / a n t i - t h at”labels. We must dispel a false dichotomy that has infiltrated our dialogue on the role of homosexuals in the ch u rch and the role of the ch u rch in re ga rd to homosex u a l s. Homosexual advocacy groups often rebut dissenters by claiming they are pharisaical, intolerant, and judgmental—“homophobic” in current parlance—accusations that serve only to preclude discussing this issue consequentially. Those who apply such labels do so only as a means of arresting discourse. Disagreement with the social and legal agendas of homosexual advocates has no correlation with one’s capacity to love or have compassion for others; nor is such dissent necessarily related to judgment, which is God’s alone. Rather, it is about discerning between right and wrong and obedience to objective truth rather than conforming to a code of subjective relativism popularly justified under the contemporary aegis of “tolerance, diversity, and inclusion.” 19

It should be noted that objective truth does not constitute law without grace. In fact, law in the absence of grace is meaningless—little more than oppression. However, grace in the absence of law is, likewise, meaningless—little more than licentiousness. Law and grace are thus different sides of the same coin. To discern right from wrong, Christians turn to Scripture as the first resource of faith and the foundation on which the tenets of reason and tradition reside.1 Opponents of biblical authority must address themselves to an essential question: If Scripture is not the received Word of God, what then is our source of knowledge, of truth, as Christians? Epistemological certainty must begin and end with a reference point, an objective source, outside of the subjective self. If this presupposition regarding the nature of Scripture and the God of Scripture is denied, no common Christian foundation for truth or knowledge remains. If the Word of God is subordinate to situational ethics and cultural relativity, if one is content to interpret Scripture such that it comports with a postmodern social agenda rather than receive God’s Word as objective truth, then there is no further common ground for discussion of homosexuality (or any other issue) in the context of the Christian church. Such subordination leads to a denial of objective truth; the advancement of subjectivist doctrines; and ultimately, the denial of any scriptural authority.


In Luke 12:10, Jesus speaks about denial of objective truth: And everyone who speaks a word against the Son of Man will be forgiven, but anyone who blasphemes against the Holy Spirit will not be forgiven. Endeavoring to divine objective truth, some Christians suggest that the church’s founding tenets of Scripture, reason, and tradition have equal standing. But there is nothing in the history of the church to support this errant assertion. Reason and tradition are not to be equated with God’s Word. Thus, if we are to be faithful, we turn to Scripture for divine guidance in the Christian church. Some Christians correlate scriptural truth with reason in the scholastic tradition of Thomas Aquinas. God’s universal plan and its inherent truths are thoroughly explicated both in the revealed and natural law, including the study of the natural order. Within that order, we are entrusted with the land and all living things, a trust frequently violated in selfishness and submission to evil. We are also entrusted with the sexual design and relationship between male and female, man and woman. This design is as clear in nature and reason as in Scripture and should not be violated.2 Some Christian traditionalists differentiate between scriptural truths that transcend time and culture and teachings that are a reflection of historic culture. In Leviticus, for example, one may conclude that the legal stipulation for unrepentant homosexuals—death—is associated with an ancient culture, but to conclude that all of Leviticus or the entire Bible for that matter is relative to whatever measure we choose defies truth. The transcendent truth in Leviticus is its condemnation of homosexual behavior as an abomination. 21

Jesus fulfilled the ceremonial law of the Old Testament through His atoning death on the cross—the ultimate and final sacrifice—instituting the new Covenant of Grace. Law and grace are, essentially, different sides of the same coin, which is to say each is to balance or to be understood through the other. That is not to say the New Testament does not clearly condemn fornication and homosexual practices. In Romans 1:25-32, the Apostle Paul says: They exchanged the truth of God for a lie, and worshiped and served the created things rather than the Creator....their women exchanged natural relations for unnatural ones. In the same way the men also abandoned natural relations with women and were inflamed with lust for one another.... Although they know God’s righteous decree that those who do such things deserve death, they not only continue to do these very things but also approve of those who practice them. In 1 Corinthians 6:9, Paul adds, “Do not be deceived: Neither the sexually immoral...nor homosexual offenders...will inherit the kingdom of God.” Paul uses the Greek word arsenokoitai in these texts which means sodomites. Some homosexual advocates argue that Jesus is silent on this issue in the Gospels. Of course, Jesus does not directly speak about pedophilia or bestiality either. Is He really silent, or is His affirmation of marriage between man and woman sufficient rebuke for the homosexual agenda in the Christian church? 22

In Matthew 19:4-5, Jesus speaks to us about marriage and sexuality: “Haven’t you read,” he replied, “that at the beginning the Creator ‘made them male and female,’ and said, ‘For this reason a man shall leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh.’”3 Note that Jesus concludes in Matthew 19:6, “Therefore what God has joined together, let man not separate.” Clearly, the homosexual agenda is wholly antithetical to all of these teachings. Yet some denominations continue to raise up homosexuals to positions of church leadership.


Chapter 7 Unity of the Body: Christian Fellowship Of church leaders and elders, Paul writes in Titus 1:7-9: “Since an overseer is entrusted with God’s work...he must hold firmly to the trustworthy message as it has been taught, so that he can encourage others by sound doctrine and refute those who oppose it.” Holding firmly to the message has always required much faith and courage. Paul also writes in 1 Timothy 3:2, “Now the overseer must be above reproach, the husband of but one wife,” and notes in verse 5, “If anyone does not know how to manage his own family, how can he take care of God’s church?” It follows then that the church should not give official standing to homosexuals, ostensibly as an expression of unconditional love. Though the legal status of homosexual behavior and same-sex marriage is being debated within the context of government legislatures and courts, the objective truth concerning such behavior was established by Scripture many centuries ago. Therefore, no institutional body of Christians should seek to normalize homosexuality or any other sexual aberration. Doing so projects the message that such aberrations are acceptable in God’s eyes and consistent with His creation. This projection is not only iconoclastic but deceitful in that it suggests overt sinful behavior is to be upheld and honored.4 Homosexual normalization in some denominations and parachurch ministries has caused such confusion that laity are left to ponder, “How do sheep find their way when the shepherd is lost?” Of course, such confusion is resolved by the simple question, “Who is your shep24

herd?” Jesus is not lost. There is great peril in putting faith in men. In Matthew 7:15, Jesus warned: “Watch out for false prophets. They come to you in sheep’s clothing, but inwardly they are ferocious wolves.” Again Jesus warns in Matthew 24:4: “Watch out that no one deceives you.” If we are faithful, then we abide by Scripture and uphold its revealed transcendent truth. In John 8:31-32, Jesus speaks to us about this truth: “If you hold to my teaching, you are really my disciples. Then you will know the truth, and the truth will set you free.” But if Christians refuse to discern the transcendent truth in Christ’s words, what are the implications for Christendom?


Chapter 8 On These Two Commandments: The Christian Response So how do we respond to homosexual practitioners in the church and society? In Matthew 22:37-40, Jesus declares: “ ‘Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind.’ This is the first and greatest commandment. And the second is like it: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’ All the Law and the Prophets hang on these two commandments.” Indeed, we are called to love all people. As for how to show God’s love to sinners, Romans 12:21 teaches: “Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good.” We are thus commanded to reach out unconditionally in love and seek to heal. Fortunately, because we are all sinners, the expression of unconditional love by other Christians is often the gateway to healing our own souls. While discerning right from wrong in society, as Christians we are called to love sinners and not predicate our love for homosexuals, in this case, on condition of their obedience to moral truth as set forth in Scripture. But unconditional love is not analogous with subjective relativism, and we should not uphold sinful behavior as righteous thus violating God’s Word and design. Failing to make this distinction constitutes grace in the absence of law which, as noted previously, results in licentiousness.


As for homosexuals (those who have been offered love and healing) and their standing among Christ’s people, 1 Corinthians 5:11 confirms, “But now I am writing you that you must not associate with anyone who calls himself a brother but is sexually immoral...With such a man do not even eat.” As noted, this does not mean we are not to reach out to sinners and seek to foster repentance and healing in them, but it does mean we must not raise them up in their sin and provide them good standing in our local fellowships. Unfortunately, it is much easier to uphold sin than it is to confront it and love the sinner enough to guide them toward healing. This accounts for why most homosexuals are abandoned to their misery. It is sometimes difficult to stand in defense of God’s Word and plan for His people. Christians, however, must remain defiant in the face of errant teaching and must know that they have been called to do so in His name. “Blessed is the man who does not walk in the counsel of the wicked or stand in the way of sinners or sit in the seat of mockers” (Psalm 1:1). The Christian calling to defend objective truth in this matter may indeed attract much ridicule, but in the words of the Savior from Matthew 5:11: “Blessed are you when people insult you, persecute you and falsely say all kinds of evil against you because of me.” Stand firm in the truth and light.


Chapter 9 Where Do We Go From Here? We hope your reading of this booklet has created a desire to explore the possibilities for a healing experience. One of those possibilities is joining a small group. The Word of God which is the truth of God and the Spirit of God who empowers us to grasp the truth both provide much power and healing in our lives. Our hope and prayer is that you have found life-quickening truths as a result of reading this booklet. Scripture reveals that God’s plan for applying this truth is most frequently to be through what we know as the body of Christ. The people of God appropriate and minister God’s truth to one another. Although we gladly provide our printed materials, including curricula for small groups, to all who request them, our ministry is one that primarily works through local churches. Our heart is to support the ministry of the local church and train them in the process of establishing and operating a small group ministry in their own congregations. We are therefore not prepared or staffed to offer counseling or other support services to individuals who contact us. Instead, we refer those who call for personal ministry to local churches that are involved in Living Free ministries. To locate a church near you, please visit our website at and click the link titled “Help for Life’s Problems.” If you do not have Internet access, please feel free to call our office at 800879-4770, and we will provide you with this information. Our small group curricula focus on particular life-controlling problems and help people who carry the bruises of life. Some of our curricula are Bible studies designed particularly for application through small group participation. You will find a complete listing of these curricula on our website. 28

Although our materials are best used under the protection and spiritual covering of a local church, we recognize there may not be such a church near you. In this event, we would urge you to look for the congregation with a Living Free ministry that is closest to you and call them for assistance, or you might simply discuss with your pastor the ministry of Living Free and seek to start these groups in your own church. In preparation for your meeting with your pastor, it would be best to take the following steps. Order some explanatory materials from our website or by calling our office. We can provide you with a brief video or DVD presentation and printed information that should quickly and clearly present the ministry to your pastor. Offer to work with him or a designated staff person or volunteer in whatever capacity he would like. Point out to the pastor that a Living Free ministry in the local church can provide a quality small group experience that has been tested for nearly 20 years in thousands of churches worldwide. Let the pastor know that many churches find that offering these groups to the community at large is an excellent outreach ministry. Hurting people can be reached without adding any new burden of pastoral counseling or additional cost to the church. In fact, many pastors find that their pastoral counseling hours are significantly reduced. Many hurting people who are already members of a local church are often transformed as they find they can drop their Sunday smiles and find healing for the never-before-admitted life controlling problems in their lives. Tell the pastor that this is a lay-led ministry that is fully accountable to the pastor or his designee. 29

After obtaining pastoral approval, send for the Living Free DVD training kit and the Core Team training manual. These may be ordered on our website or by calling our office. Credit cards are accepted, and local churches may establish credit accounts with us. Ask for a group of people to volunteer for ministry in small groups. You can then call our office and ask for one of our approved trainers to come work with you, or you can simply go ahead and use the DVD training course. We would also be glad to work with you to notify people from other nearby churches to participate in this training. Please call us and ask for help. Form a Core Team to implement the Living Free ministry and follow the directions provided by the training video or DVD and the printed materials. You will be led step-by-step in a process that has been effective and successful in thousands of churches, and you will soon be reaping a harvest of changed lives. We recognize that some local churches may not be ready to begin the full Living Free ministry and will instead choose simply to begin offering one of the small groups. This is sometimes quite effective if there is a leader who is a mature Christian and who has at least some small group facilitating experience. Our curricula are designed to be easily followed by the group facilitator and a co-facilitator. If you are choosing just to have the groups, simply order the curricula you would like to use, including the facilitators guide. However, first speak with your pastor and ask that your group be accountable to his designee. May God bless you as you follow Him! 30

Resources NARTH — The National Association for Research and Therapy of Homosexuality helps clients bring their desires and behaviors into harmony with their values. Link to <> Exodus International is a nonprofit, interdenominational Christian organization promoting the message of “Freedom from homosexuality through the power of Jesus Christ.” Link to <> LIFE Ministries International is a Christ-centered support group ministry focused on encouraging, empowering, and equipping God’s people to live every day in sexual integrity. Link to <> Courage is a national network of support for Roman Catholics who struggle with homosexuality. Link to <> PATH — Positive Alternatives To Homosexuality is a nonprofit coalition of organizations that help people with unwanted same-sex attractions to realize their personal goals for change. Link to <>


Endnotes “If there were any word of God beside the Scripture, we could never be certain of God’s Word; and if we be uncertain of God’s Word, the devil might bring in among us a new word, a new doctrine, a new faith, a new Church, a new god, yea himself to be a god. If the Church and the Christian faith did not stay itself upon the Word of God certain, as upon a sure and strong foundation, no man could know whether he had a right faith, and whether he were in the true Church of Christ, or in the synagogue of Satan.” — Archbishop Thomas Cranmer, First Protestant Archbishop of Canterbury (1533) 2 Taking even the most humanist position in complete disregard of Scripture, homosexuality is still a clear and undeniable violation of the laws of nature. 3 In Matthew, Jesus refers back to Genesis. “So God created man in his own image, in the image of God he created him; male and female he created them” (Genesis 1:27). Later in Matthew 19:11-12, Christ also says: “Not everyone can accept this word, but only those to whom it has been given. For some are eunuchs because they were born that way...” (In the Greek text, the word “eunouxoi” means one with a congenital defect or castrated and without the ability to consummate marriage. The reference is distinctly different from the Greek word for homosexuals or sodomites as referenced by Paul. Homosexual advocates sometimes incorrectly invoke this passage as justification.) 4 Our great nation’s first president, George Washington, a devout Anglican, advised: “The blessed Religion revealed in the word of God will remain an eternal and awful monument to prove that the best Institution may be abused by human depravity; and that they may even, in some instances be made subservient to the vilest purposes” (Draft of First Inaugural Address, April 1789, National Archives). 1

*C. S. Lewis, “The Poison of Subjectivism” (from Christian Reflections; p. 108). Portions of this essay were originally published in the essay “Homosexual Advocacy in the Church — Perspective from a Fifth-Generation Episcopalian” published by Mark Alexander in 2003 © Publius Press, Inc. 2006. NOTE: This info rm ation is published online at http://PatriotPost.US/papers/03-32.asp Permission to fo r w a rd or post this article with appropriate citation (PatriotPost.US) is herein granted in accordance with the “Terms of Use” for PatriotPost.Us. You can email the author at ECUSA1@PatriotPost.US. 32

“Is there any good reason why you cannot receive Jesus Christ right now?” How to receive Christ: 1. Admit your need (that you are a sinner). 2. Be willing to turn from your sins (repent). 3. Believe that Jesus Christ died for you on the cross and rose from the grave. 4. Through prayer, invite Jesus Christ to come in and control your life through the Holy Spirit (receive Him as Savior and Lord).

What to Pray Dear God, I know that I am a sinner and need Your forgiveness. I believe that Jesus Christ died for my sins. I am willing to turn from my sins. I now invite Jesus Christ to come into my heart and life as my personal Savior. I am willing, by God’s strength, to follow and obey Jesus Christ as the Lord of my life.



The Bible says: “ Everyone who calls on the name of the Lord will be saved” (Romans 10:13). Share your decision to receive Christ with another person. Connect to a local church.


Turning Point Resources Support Group Curriculum: Lessons Learned: Moving from Homosexuality to Holiness Facilitator’s Guide Lessons Learned: Moving from Homosexuality to Holiness Group Member Guide Author: Tammy Webb-Witholt This nine-session small support group study includes the following topics as well as others: • Identity Crisis—Identity Christ? • Back Into the Closet • Minding the Mind • The Please-Like-Me’s • I Stand in Awe of You . . . and You . . . and You For more information, call Living Free at 800-879-4770 for ordering or visit our website at



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