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Let’s take three components of our Date Square recipe and create a relationship which we can use to bake our Enjoy-Happy-Relationships reconstruction:

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Have a clear understanding of what you are looking for when you date someone. I am able to understand who I am, what I need and what I am looking for in a future partner.

2

Compromising. Bite around your date square so that it becomes a circular shape. I naturally see my partner’s point of view, and it is easy and natural for me to compromise and still have my needs and goals met in my relationship.

3

Healthy contact. Relationships are like your date square treat for you to enjoy. Desserts are extras you don’t need or get all the time, so don’t take a partner for granted. Always appreciate the one you love. My partner is an amazing person. I am honored to have my parter in my life, and automatically interact in ways that facilitate love, respect and happiness.

I remember getting ready to go on my date. I took the time to reflect on who I am and the things that I need and want in all the areas of my life. When we met for dinner, I was naturally warm, connected and expressive. As time went on, we were able to identify, together, things that were important to us. It is becoming natural and easy for me to find a partner that I can fit well with. I take the time to think about what has worked for me in the past and what I need in the future, and can connect authentically with my partner to ensure that we are on the same page. Six months into our relationship, I remember my partner asking me if I would go camping. Knowing that I’m not fond of camping, and never had been, we talked about ways of compromising. We realized that we could go on small trips with friends instead, or maybe go to a cabin together as a compromise. It felt good to make sure both of our needs were being met and that we were happy with our decision. The following week, I spontaneously decided to give my partner a hug and a sweet personalized gift. I realized that my partner shows me love and affection regularly as well, and always takes the time to remind me of how important and meaningful our connection is. I truly appreciate having someone in my life who makes me feel happy, and we continue to share great moments together every day.

Ultimately, a partner should be the icing on the cake, not the cake.

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Bake Your Way to Happiness

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You can bake your way to happiness today! Have your cupcake and eat it too! Learn to Bake and Reconstruct (or Re-think, learn, discover, dig...

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You can bake your way to happiness today! Have your cupcake and eat it too! Learn to Bake and Reconstruct (or Re-think, learn, discover, dig...

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