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The best ways to get back with your boyfriend, especially a recent ex, are usually the simplest. In this article we're going to explore some of your options and look at some tips to getting him back. Remember the first rule of fixing a relationship. Rule #1 - Do. Not. Look. Desperate. This is key to remember as you take these steps. Looking desperate is the #1 killer of attempts to get back together. If you look desperate, he has all the power. You can't afford for him to have all the power. The idea is to get him thinking YOU have all the power. So first, focus on gathering your strength. This is going to be tough, but you need to look like you just don't care one way or another every time you talk. Never let him see you sweat! You can't afford to look nervous. Practice walking casually. Control your breathing when you talk to anyone. Talking to an ex is stressful, but don't let it get to you. Look pretty, but don't look "gussied up". Look your best while still looking casual. It will take some thought, but you can pull this off, I promise you. Once you've gotten the hang of looking casual, it's time to start talking to him again. Initiate Conversation There's a trick you need to learn for this part. Never use a "conversation starter" the first time you contact him. Don't make up an excuse. He'll sense it, and it breaks rule #1. You need a legitimate, 100% real reason to talk to him. If you're working on a school project together, that's perfect. If you left something at his house, that works too, although it shouldn't be something silly. If you work together, that's fine. Don't ask for a favor unless he owes you one already. What you're trying to do is start talking again. Keep it light and short. Talking again for the first time, especially if you keep it light and friendly, sets off a switch in his brain. The next time you want to talk to him it will be easier. Proceed From here, you need to focus on building a working relationship, even a shaky one. You can build on any relationship you can get. Keep looking casual and pretty, and act like you just don't care that you're broken up. This is one of the single most powerful tools in your kit, so use it wisely. As you talk more and more, start using touch. Touch is a POWERFUL way to move into relationship mode. We don't touch our friends the way we touch our potential mates. If he tries to


call you on how you're touching him, just say "Yeah, you WISH." or some variation of that. Then accuse him later of touching YOU too much. Keep your power! You're a strong woman, and you deserve his respect. This will get you in the door for relationship mode. From here, it gets trickier, but keep following these basics. You'll be back together in no time!

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