Kansas City Jewish Chronicle 11.6.2025

Fallen POW Sgt. Simon Garelich identified and returned to family after 82 years

By Sam Kricsfeld Editor

More than 80 years after his death, Sgt. Simon Garelich (z”l) has been returned to the United States. A casualty of World War II, his remains were identified and reinterred last month on American soil, and after generations, his family finally has closure.

Simon Garelich, born on Sept. 10, 1920, was the youngest of four sons and six daughters of Mary and Michael Garelich (z”l) in St. Joseph, Missouri. He attended the Kansas City College of Pharmacy before entering the U.S. Army in March 1941 and rising to the rank of sergeant. While serving in the Philippines and defending the Bataan Peninsula, Garelich was captured and held as a prisoner of war by the Japanese beginning in April 1942.

The soldiers captured on the Bataan Peninsula were forced on the brutal six-day, 65-mile Bataan Death March,

during which Japanese guards beat, abused and tortured American and Filipino POWs. At the end of the march, they were forced onto boxcars, transported to the city of Capas, and then marched seven more miles to the O’Donnell POW Camp, according to the National Museum of the U.S. Air Force. Many Americans who did not die at O’Donnell, including Garelich, were relocated in June to the Cabanatuan POW Camp.

According to the United States Defense POW/MIA Accounting Agency (DPAA), Garelich died at age 22 at Cabanatuan on Nov. 4, 1942, from infection and “complications of captivity.” His body was buried with other fallen soldiers in what was designated as Common Grave 707. His family was informed that he had died as a POW and his remains were unidentified. For his mother and siblings, that was all they’d ever know

Local rabbis sign condemnation of anti-Zionism and NYC mayoral candidate

By Sam Kricsfeld Editor

Editor’s note: As of publication, the results of the NewYork City mayoral race have not been announced.

Five local rabbis across denominations have signed “A Rabbinic Call to Action: Defending the Jewish Future,” a letter condemning the “political normalization” of antiZionism, using New York City mayoral candidate Zohran Mamdani as an example. The letter was created by The Jewish Majority, an organization combating “fringe groups [that] weaponize the Jewish identity of some of their members to call for policy recommendations that are rejected by

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the overwhelming majority of the Jewish community.”

Among the more than 1,000 signatories are Rabbis David Glickman (Congregation Beth Shalom), Moshe Grussgott (Kehilath Israel Synagogue), Stephanie Kramer (The Temple, Congregation B’nai Jehudah), Alan Londy (New Reform Temple’s rabbi emeritus) and Samuel Stern (Temple Beth Sholom in Topeka, Kansas). The Reform, Conservative and Traditional/Orthodox denominations are represented both in the local and national signatories.

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about their beloved son and brother.

“They were heartbroken because he died in the war, and he died at a young age,” said Dr. Richard Gilman, son of Garelich’s sister Helen Gilman (z”l). “He was his mother’s favorite, and all of the family admired him… [My mother] talked about him fondly, and it saddened her and all of his sisters.”

“He was my favorite uncle,” said Carol Brooks, the 91-year-old daughter of Garelich’s sister Alice Weinstein (z”l) and the only living relative with memories of him. “He was handsome beyond belief, funny and very nice to children… He just had a special way about him.”

By the time Cabanatuan was liberated in January 1945, more than 2,700 POWs had been buried there. After

A portion of the July 23, 1943, article in The St. Joseph Gazette announcing Garelich’s death.

the war, the American Graves Registration Service (AGRS) recovered remains from the camp and reinterred them in Manila, Philippines. In 1947, the AGRS tried to identify the remains, but many were unidentifiable and subsequently buried in Manila as “unknowns.” In

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“Big Sonia” to celebrate 100th birthday

Gift to JCF supports community services

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Thank you, veterans community news

The Chronicle is proud to publish its third annual Veterans Day section. This community has a thriving and active cohort of Jewish veterans for which we are incredibly grateful.

The strength of veterans in our community is exemplified through Jewish War Veterans MO-KAN Post 605, which does everything from funding scholarships; honoring fellow members who pass away; holding commemorations; maintaining (and now renovating) museum cases at the Jewish Community Campus; and more. We thank JWV for all they do for veterans, our community and The Chronicle.

JWV will also begin sharing monthly highlights of some of the items on display in its museum cases.

On page 11 of this issue, we share the names and information of veterans who answered our call for community submissions. We are very thankful for their submissions and proud to include them in this issue.

To all veterans — thank you for your service.

Sincerely,

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Lacey Storer, assistant editor

Local rabbis sign condemnation of anti-Zionism and NYC mayoral candidate

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York mayoral candidate Zohran Mamdani refuse to condemn violent slogans, deny Israel’s legitimacy and accuse the Jewish state of genocide, they, in the words of New York Board of Rabbis president Rabbi Ammiel Hirsch, ‘Delegitimize the Jewish community and encourage and exacerbate hostility toward Judaism and Jews,’” the letter reads.

Mamdani is the frontrunner in the New York City mayoral race, despite current Mayor Eric Adams endorsing his opponent, Andrew Cuomo. The majority of polls compiled by The New York Times puts Mamdani ahead of both Cuomo and candidate Curtis Sliwa by a wide margin.

“Zohran Mamdani is a talented politician. His campaign has successfully elevated many critical affordability issues for New Yorkers. Mamdani is also an unapologetic anti-Zionist,” Rabbi Glickman said. “Anti-Zionism is different than criticism of actions of the Israeli government. Many U.S. elected officials (and many Jewish clergy members) are critical of the actions of the Israel government… Mamdani’s candidacy is a national signal that anti-Zionist views should be mainstreamed for American elected officials.”

Outside of Tel Aviv in Israel, New York City is the city with the largest number of Jews in the world. Rabbi Grussgott, who was a rabbi in New York City for more than a decade,

is concerned about the likelihood of Mamdani winning and its effect on Jewish Americans.

“It is frightening to think that the city with the largest Jewish population in America will likely be governed by a man who is anti-Jewish,” he said. “The game he plays is to say that he’s not antisemitic, only anti-Israel — but there is no such distinction. Half the world’s Jews live in Israel, and the vast majority of the other half have close personal and emotional ties to it. Mamdani cannot even bring himself to condemn the call to ‘Globalize the Intifada,’ which means to target Jews everywhere. If this is allowed to be normalized in America’s largest city, then it certainly affects all other Jews in America as well.”

Rabbi Stern is also concerned about the potential repercussions of Mamdani’s positions and rhetoric.

“Anti-Zionism isn’t a foreign policy stance, it’s a moral failure that singles out the Jewish people for exclusion from the family of nations and erodes the safety and dignity of Jews everywhere,” Rabbi Stern said. “When a

politician wins by pandering to anti-Zionist sentiment, it normalizes hostility toward Jews who see Israel as part of their identity. What happens in New York City doesn’t stay in New York. The cultural and political trends that begin there inevitably ripple out across the country, shaping how Jewish communities in places like Kansas City are perceived and treated. We can’t afford to ignore that.”

Rabbis are not the only community leaders concerned about anti-Zionism. In a recent interview with The Chronicle, Neta Meltzer, the executive director of the Jewish Community Relations Bureau | American Jewish Committee, explained the implications of anti-Zionism spreading.

“If there is a distinction between antisemitism and anti-Zionism in theory,” she told The Chronicle, “it’s not translating in practice. Things that are happening on the other side of the world are having a direct impact on the safety and security of Jews right here in this community.”

Polls for the mayoral race closed on Nov. 4.

KC Kosher Meals on Wheels in need of volunteers

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KC Kosher Meals on Wheels offers weekly delivery of homemade kosher meals to individuals and families in need. The program relies on volunteers, and more manpower is needed to keep up with rising demand.

Facilitated by Torah Learning Center, KC Kosher Meals on Wheels requires volunteers to make, package and drive food to recipients. In the past year, more than 150 people in need have received deliveries, and with uncertainties surrounding food security — such as the government shutdown halting SNAP benefits — demand continues to rise.

In order to offer more volunteer opportunities, KC Kosher Meals on Wheels will host “Open Sessions” on Sundays between noon and 1:30 p.m. starting on Nov. 16. Open Sessions can include up to 20 volunteers to have the “full cooking experience” of

creating kosher food for delivery. Spots need to be reserved ahead of time, and participation in an Open Session does not necessitate a regular commitment.

“We want to create a community around KC Kosher Meals on Wheels,” said Levi Friedman, program director. Those interested in reserving a spot at an Open Session, volunteering regularly or receiving KC Kosher Meals on Wheels can visit kckoshermow.org or email Friedman at levi@kckoshermow. org for more information.

Local Rabbis David Glickman, Moshe Grussgott, Stephanie Kramer, Alan Londy and Samuel Stern have signed a letter condemning the “political normalization” of anti-Zionism.

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JFS responds to government shutdown, loss of SNAP benefits

Millions of Americans — including more than 800,000 in Kansas and Missouri — will face a food crisis as the federal government shutdown delays SNAP (Supplemental Nutrition Assistance Program) benefits and many federal employees miss paychecks.

Jewish Family Services (JFS) assembled 100 emergency food kits filled with shelf-stable foods and fresh produce donated by Kanbe’s Markets for households affected by the shut-

down who are not currently JFS clients. Kits were distributed on Nov. 4 at JFS Brookside.

JFS is working on a coordinated response to rising levels of need. The JFS website, jfskc.org, will be updated regularly with more information.

“JFS has always tried to step up to meet the changing needs of the community,” JFS Executive Director and CEO Angela DeWilde said. “With the government shutdown, many households are facing tough choices

MCHE Generations Initiative engages descendants of Holocaust survivors

The Midwest Center for Holocaust Education (MCHE) created the Generations Initiative to engage the second and third generations in the transmission of memories of Holocaust survivors. MCHE is offering multiple opportunities for descendants of survivors in the community.

Second Generation Singers

Each year at the community Yom Hashoah commemoration, “Zog Nit Keynmol” is sung — a song adopted by the partisans and universally acknowledged as a song of resistance. At the suggestion of a child of a survivor, MCHE is inviting children, grandchildren and great-grandchildren of survivors to join in creating a special tribute to survivors at Yom Hashoah 2026.

With the help of Devra Lerner, a music educator and choir leader, those who join will learn both the history and the song and perform it at the Yom Hashoah commemoration along with cantorial support and the Hyman Brand Hebrew Academy Choir.

Complete information is available at mchekc.org/generations-initiative.

Second Generation Testimony Project

MCHE’s Second Generation Testimony Project seeks to record the testimony of children of survivors in telling their own stories. MCHE was a national leader in engaging the second

generation as primary speakers, and they have delivered hundreds of presentations to school and public audiences since 2006.

“Children of Holocaust survivors occupy a unique place in Holocaust history and its shift from lived memory to history,” said Jessica Rockhold, MCHE executive director. “The impact of the Holocaust did not end in 1945. Each child of a survivor has their own experiences and story to tell, which is impacted by where they were born, birth order, the dynamic years in which they came of age, and the degree to which they experienced their parents’ trauma.”

Now, MCHE seeks to formally record and preserve the testimony of the second generation, adding to the depth of our understanding about their own childhoods — some as immigrants themselves and others who were born here to immigrant families; the impact of growing up during the Baby Boom and the dynamic years of social change that followed; and reflections as older adults on these unique experiences and the markers of their lives.

To MCHE staff’s knowledge, this is a unique program among Holocaust centers. The resulting research collection will offer future opportunities and a collection to expand our understanding of the continued impact of the Holocaust in the community.

on how to meet basic needs. Our emergency food event will help for now, but we need lasting solutions. We urge everyone to speak up so families can count on steady, reliable support for food.”

To meet this urgent need, JFS is asking for both financial and food donations. A $30 gift provides one food box; $60 provides two.

More information on donations is available at jfskc.org/emergencysupport.

Those who know someone affected by the shutdown who needs food assistance can email navigator@ jfskc.org or call (913) 730-1433.

Food donations for these kits and the JFS Food Pantry are also needed. Items can be dropped off during regular business hours at JFS’ Brookside or Jewish Community Campus locations.

Editor’s note: As of publication, the governmentisstillshutdown.

KU Hillel’s 2025 Rock Chalk Shabbat set for Nov. 14

KU Hillel will host its biggest annual gathering of the year, Rock Chalk Shabbat, on Friday, Nov. 14, at the Burge Union at the University of Kansas in Lawrence.

A KU Hillel tradition, Rock Chalk Shabbat brings together students, families, alumni and community members for an evening designed for connection, celebration and Jewish pride. The program features student-led Shabbat services followed by dinner and dessert, intended to allow attendees to experience the impact of KU Hillel.

“This night is a celebration of our students and broader Jewish Jayhawk community,” said Ethan Helfand, executive director of KU Hillel. “It’s where we can all come together, share in our Shabbat traditions and feel the unmistakable KU energy. It’s a reminder that Jewish life at KU is

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not just thriving but growing stronger every year.”

Each gift for Rock Chalk Shabbat will be matched up to $30,000 thanks to an anonymous donor. Those interested in attending, sponsoring a table or celebrating from afar can visit kuhillel.org/rcs25 or contact Megan Pener at meganpener@kuhillel.org.

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Sarah Herman Schuster, Raphi Schuster, Judah Schuster, Ayelet Schuster and Tamara Lawson Schuster at last year’s Rock Chalk Shabbat in November 2024. (Zachary Ruben Photography)

SevenDays to launch Thrive with Kindness teen festival

SevenDays, a nonprofit organization that overcomes hate by promoting kindness and understanding, will host its first-ever Thrive with Kindness Festival for teenagers. The free celebration will take place on Thursday, Nov. 13, 2025, from 6 to 8 p.m. at the Kirk Family YMCA (222 W. 11th St., Kansas City, MO 64105), honoring World Kindness Day.

Attendees will learn more about SevenDays, which was founded in 2014 after the shootings outside of Jewish organizations in Overland Park, Kansas.

Attendees will also learn practical ways to show kindness in daily life and build connections with local organizations and businesses that share a spirit of compassion and inclusion.

The SevenDays Kindness Youth Leadership Team has planned activities for the festival, including a dodgeball tournament, live DJ, taco truck and “Kindness Marketplace,” at which teens can “shop” at vendor booths using “Kindness Tokens” that they can earn through activities, challenges or acts of kindness.

Additionally, former Kansas City Chiefs cornerback Mark Collins will join the festival for a special “Meet and Greet” session from 6:30 to 7:30 p.m.

“We’re thrilled to bring Kansas City teens together to celebrate kindness in such a fun and meaningful way,” said Kelly Murphy, SevenDays executive director. “Our goal is to inspire them to see that kindness is powerful — and that it starts with each of us.”

More information is available at SevenDays.org.

Screening of ‘Big Sonia’ will honor Sonia Warshawski’s 100th birthday

The 100th birthday of “Big Sonia” Warshawski, local Holocaust survivor and star of the awardwinning documentary of the same name, will be celebrated with a birthday party and screening of the documentary at the Glenwood Arts Theatre. The first screening, scheduled on Saturday, Nov. 15, at 7 p.m., has sold out; a 4 p.m. screening has been added.

Warshawski, whose tailor shop closed in 2023, has spoken publicly about her experiences surviving the Holocaust for years, telling The Chronicle that, “I’ll speak for those who never made it, and I feel the Almighty still wants me to do it.”

Inflatable Films, the company behind the “Big Sonia” documentary (led by her granddaughter Leah Warshawski), and the Glenwood Arts Theatre will hold the celebration on Nov. 15. Following the 7 p.m. screening, there will be a Q&A with the cast and directors, cake and cookies. Those who wear leopard print, Warshawski’s favorite, will be entered for a chance to win prizes from local vendors.

“We can’t think of a better way to celebrate Sonia’s 100th birthday than with our community and friends at Glenwood Arts Theatre,” Leah Warshawski said. “We spent eight months in the theater lobby when ‘Big Sonia’ was released, and it always feels like home for us to be around

supportive community and audiences who are passionate about spreading love and kindness.”

In 2018, “Big Sonia” broke the box office record at Glenwood Arts Theatre when it screened for eight months in a row. A 60-minute version of the film recently aired on PBS for three years, and “Big Sonia” continues to be watched around the globe. Currently, the Museum of Kansas City has an interactive AI installation featuring Sonia Warshawski.

“The ‘#SoniaEffect’ is powerful in Kansas City, and we’re grateful for everyone who has become part of our Big Sonia family over the last 10 years,” Leah Warshawski said.

Sonia Warshawski’s message of

kindness was summed up on the day she closed her tailor shop, when she told The Chronicle that “everyone should be treated in a loving way. If you handle people with love and understanding and be kind, they feel it.”

Tickets can be bought at fineartsgroup.com/movie/big-soniabig-100th-b-day-bash. Event partners include Up, Up & Away Balloons and Good JuJu Bakery.

Volunteers needed for clean-up at Mt. Carmel Cemetery

The Mt. Carmel Cemetery committee will host a volunteer clean-up session on Sunday, Nov. 16, from 10 a.m. to noon. Tasks will include raking leaves and picking up sticks and debris that have accumulated in and around the cemetery, located at 5529 Ditzler Ave., Raytown, MO 64133.

Thrive with Kindness Festival

Thursday, Nov. 13, from 6 to 8 p.m.

Kirk Family YMCA, 222 W. 11th St., Kansas City, MO 64105

“By being part of this very important mitzvah, we honor the dignity of the deceased,” said David Herbet of the committee. “[Maintaining the cemetery] is deeply rooted in our Jewish value of chesed (loving-kindness). It is always easy to get volunteers for more ‘glamorous’ work, but come be part of something extremely important.”

Volunteers are welcome no

matter how long they can help, and they are encouraged to bring anyone who is also willing to help. Due to the efforts of Civia White, multiple 10th graders will be among the volunteers

on Nov. 16.

The committee has also formed a new volunteer team called “The Kvetch and Fetch Crew.” This small group will come together for specific projects on an as-needed basis to support the cemetery grounds crew. Projects might include tree trimming, clearing of area for maintenance, fence repair and other similar efforts.

Those interested in joining the Kvetch and Fetch Crew or volunteering on Nov. 16 should contact David Herbet at (913) 461-6449 or easttomid@ gmail.com.

Mt. Carmel Cemetery Clean Up

Sunday, Nov. 16, from 10 a.m. to 12 p.m.

Mt. Carmel Cemetery, 5529 Ditzler Ave., Raytown, MO 64133

Sonia Warshawski at her 99th birthday celebration last November. (Jason Kort and Rachel Black)

Big Sonia 100th Birthday Bash Saturday, Nov. 15, from 7 to 10 p.m. (with additional 4 p.m. film screening) Glenwood Arts Theatre, 3707 W. 95th St., Overland Park, KS 66206

Mt. Carmel Cemetery

Sonia Warshawski standing in front of her business, John’s Tailoring, on April 28, 2023.

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Documentary about siblings who escaped Nazis to be screened locally

“UnBroken,” an award-winning documentary by debut filmmaker Beth Lane, will make its local debut at the Glenwood Arts Theatre. The showing will be on Thursday, Nov. 20 at 7 p.m.

Produced by The Weber Family Arts Foundation, “UnBroken” tells the true story of the seven Weber siblings, ages 6-18, who evaded capture and death and ultimately escaped Nazi Germany relying solely on their youthful bravado and the kindness of strangers following their mother’s incarceration and murder at Auschwitz. After being hidden in a laundry hut by a German farmer and his wife, the children spent two years on their own in wartorn Germany. Emboldened by their father’s mandate that they “always stay together,” the children used their own instincts to fight through hunger, loneliness, rape, bombings and fear. Separated from their father, the siblings are forced to declare themselves orphans to escape to a new life in America. Unbeknownst to them, this salvation would become what would finally tear them apart, not to be reunited for another 40 years.

Filmmaker Beth Lane, daughter of the youngest Weber sibling, worked to retrace their steps, seeking answers to long-held questions about her family’s survival. Through

interviews, animation and on-theground exploration across Germany and America, Lane uncovers not only her family’s legacy but a message of defiant love in the face of hatred.

“UnBroken” is Beth Lane’s feature directorial debut, and it is both a professional milestone and a personal quest to immortalize the story of the Weber siblings’ survival as the only family of seven Jewish siblings living in Nazi Germany known to have survived and emigrated together to the United States.

“I wasn’t trying to make a political or religious statement when I set out to tell this story,” Lane said. “‘UnBroken’ is something much more personal — it’s a spiritual confession. I created it as an antidote to hate, a way to build bridges between communities, and a chance for audiences to exercise their muscles of empathy and compassion…

“I genuinely believe ‘UnBroken’ carries a message that is both timely and timeless — it’s necessary. And I trust that after audiences witness my mother and her siblings’ journey, the story will stay with them — not just as a reflection, but as a call to feel more deeply, to care more fiercely and most of all, to stand up for one another. That’s why I’m especially excited to bring ‘UnBroken’ home to Kansas City — where ‘Big Sonia’ [Warshawski] calls her home. A legend in the film world, Sonia is a cultural icon, and the community in Kansas City has proven to be a place that respects cultural differences and believes in love over hate.”

Tickets are available at fineartsgroup.com/movie/unbroken. More information about “UnBroken” is available at bethlane.com/unbroken.

Screening of “UnBroken”

Thursday, Nov. 20, at 7 p.m.

JFS Emerging Leaders program cultivating engagement

In recent years, Jewish Family Services (JFS) has created a path to turn dedicated young volunteers into emerging leaders, committee members and ultimately board leaders. JFS’ affinity group for young professionals, Emerging Leaders, can serve as a pipeline for volunteers to engage in larger opportunities for community impact.

In 2026, Emily Neuberger will join the JFS Board of Directors. Neuberger first became involved through Emerging Leaders. As co-chair, she helped coordinate holiday gifts for more than 300 individuals and families and led volunteer efforts for JFS’ Hanukkah Project.

“What makes JFS special is the way it invites young people to show up and support their community,” Neuberger

said. “I began as a volunteer, learned even more about the organization and its mission through Emerging Leaders, and now I have the opportunity to serve on JFS’ board while helping to grow future young leaders.”

Emerging Leaders aims to help participants develop skills in build-

Dr. Melissa Karp named MCHE content specialist

By The Midwest Center for Holocaust Education

Dr. Melissa Karp joined the Midwest Center for Holocaust Education (MCHE) team as its new content specialist. This newly created position is intended to bolster MCHE’s capacity to develop and deliver high-quality programming, ensuring that its educational offerings continue to grow and evolve. Karp’s early work will focus on providing resources and learning opportunities for educators and school communities.

ing community relationships, empowering young leaders to volunteer in their communities and embodying the Jewish value of tikkun olam, taking action to improve the world.

“Emily’s journey is exactly what we envision,”

JFS CEO Angela DeWilde said. “We want people to see that volunteering at JFS is not only an act of service, but also a pathway to leadership in the Jewish community.”

As JFS prepares to celebrate its 125th anniversary in May 2026, the agency’s future depends on volunteers ready to lead projects, join committees and shape the organization’s path forward.

More about Emerging Leaders and volunteer opportunities at JFS is available at jfskc.org.

“I am thrilled to join MCHE and continue using Holocaust education and media literacy to counter intolerance and hatred,” Karp said. “After completing my doctoral research on the ways people enabled or fought against atrocity during World War II and how we remember those people, I look forward to continuing to teach about what can happen when we allow ourselves to be divided and how we can stand up for and with each other in these darkest moments.”

Karp earned her Ph.D. in literature from Duke University, where she successfully defended her dissertation titled “An Enemy Within: Imagining the Collaborator in Transwar France and Korea.” Her research explores themes of memory, memorialization, collaboration, resistance and the Holocaust in France.

Karp taught extensively at Duke, and “her skills were particularly evident in the insightful job talk she delivered during her interview process. Her ability to weave together history and literature enhances MCHE's programmatic offerings, enriching the way we engage with this complex and critical subject matter,” said MCHE Executive Director Jessica Rockhold.

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JFS board member and former Emerging Leader Emily Neuberger (left) poses with Development Manager Sophie Shafter and Emerging Leaders Justin Cosner and Maddie Reiches at JFS’ B’nai Mitzvah for its Food Pantry earlier this year.

JCF receives legacy gift from Susan Fisher to support community services

The Jewish Community Foundation (JCF) recently worked on a legacy gift from Susan Fisher (z”l) that reflects her lifelong values and enduring connection to Kansas City. Though Fisher spent much of her adult life in England, she was born and raised in the Kansas City area and never lost

BIAV to host Read Hebrew America class

Congregation Beth Israel Abraham and Voliner will offer a free community class for those who would like to learn Hebrew. This class is offered for free through the National Jewish Outreach Program’s Read Hebrew America initiative.

To be taught by Benny Feldman, the Hebrew classes will cover basics such as the Hebrew alphabet and basic reading skills in “just a few short sessions.” All materials will be provided.

Classes will be held on Tuesdays at 8 p.m. To RSVP and receive the location, those interested can email programming@biav.org.

her sense of belonging to the community that shaped her.

Upon her passing in September 2023, Susan established a 10year charitable lead annuity trust (CLAT), creating the Susan Fisher Fund at JCF. Her intention was clear: to give back to the community that supported her mother, Zelda Cohen (z”l), during her later years, especially the services that allowed Cohen to remain in her home independently.

A portion of the annual distribution is being granted to Jewish Family Services (JFS) to support Jet Express, a volunteer-based transportation service for older adults, and Help@ Home, which provides in-home support to help seniors live safely and independently.

"These generous gifts supporting Help@Home and JET Express allow JFS to provide high quality, dependable minor home repairs and access to services that help older adults maintain their independence in their own homes and provide

safe, door-to-door transportation to older adults who are no longer able to drive," said Debbie Bass, JFS chief development officer.

The remainder of the fund will continue to be stewarded by JCF in partnership with JFS and Fisher’s daughter, Michelle Sylvester. Together, they will identify additional opportunities within JFS that align with Fisher’s charitable vision, ensuring that her legacy evolves thoughtfully and continues to meet the needs of the community.

"I’m looking forward to working with JCF to identify additional areas that will benefit vulnerable seniors in our community," Sylvester said.

"My grandmother, great-aunt and uncle benefitted from the various outreach programs offered, and I’m excited to be able to give back on their behalf."

Fisher worked with Donald Friend, her attorney, to create the CLAT.

"One of my goals in working with Susan was to make sure her wishes were accomplished as she wanted and hopefully in a tax-efficient manner," Friend said. "I think the CLAT accomplished her goals."

This gift is an example of how JCF collaborates with individuals, their families and their professional advisors to bring their philanthropic visions to life. Whether through legacy planning, donor advised funds or more complex giving vehicles like CLATs, JCF helps donors create personalized giving strategies that reflect their values and make a lasting impact. More information about charitable gift planning is available by contacting Suzanne Galblum Dicken at JCF at sdicken@jcfkc.org or (913) 327-8286.

HBHA inviting local high school students on its 22-day Jewish Heritage Trip

Hyman Brand Hebrew Academy (HBHA) is inviting all Jewish 11th and 12th-grade students in Greater Kansas City to join its Jewish Heritage Trip, taking place this March. This 22-day journey will take students through Germany, Poland, Bulgaria and Israel for an educational experience designed to connect Jewish history and modern identity. Students will visit significant historical sites, engage with local Jewish communities and experience Jewish life across diverse cultures.

“This is an incredible opportunity

for students to connect deeply with their heritage, reflect on Jewish history and strengthen their understanding of Israel and global Jewish identity,” said Zohar Flacks, HBHA’s upper school principal and director of Jewish education. “We’re proud to provide this transformative experience to the broader Kansas City Jewish community.”

Students interested in participating are encouraged to contact Zohar Flacks at zflacks@hbha.edu by Monday, Dec. 1, for more information.

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Zelda Cohen, Michelle Sylvester and Susan Fisher

HBHA students in Jerusalem on a trip in 2022.

Sensory cart supports inclusion at Beth Shalom

This High Holiday season, families may have noticed a new addition in Congregation Beth Shalom’s lobby: a mobile sensory cart, created to help children and adults who benefit from sensory supports to more comfortably participate in services and community life.

The idea for the cart came from community member and educator Nina McNay, who recently completed the project as part of her Girl Scout Gold Award, the highest achievement in Girl Scouting. McNay has worked at the Beth Shalom’s Polsky Religious School (PRS) for the past five years, most recently as the art specialist, and is passionate about helping all learners succeed.

family — her mother, Dawn Gale, and brother, Logan McNay — also played a key role in helping raise funds and assemble materials.

Community members are encouraged to treat the cart and its materials respectfully and to return items after use so others can benefit. McNay shared her hope that this project helps create a more inclusive environment where every child and adult can find comfort and connection.

Through her involvement with Sasone, Jewish Federation’s program focused on supporting children with disabilities and neurodiverse needs in Jewish educational settings — specifically her participation in the Sasone Teen Leadership Training — McNay learned about the growing movement

toward inclusion and belonging in Jewish spaces. She saw an opportunity to bring those values directly into her home congregation.

Working with her project advisor, Sasone Director Lindsey Lipsky, and PRS Director Civia White, McNay designed and assembled a sensory cart that includes a variety of tools to support self-regulation, comfort and participation. The cart features items such as noise-reducing headphones, fidget tools, visuals and other sensory materials chosen to meet diverse needs.

The sensory cart will be available during religious school, holiday services and other synagogue programs throughout the year. Its purpose is to provide a quiet, supportive option for any congregant who might need a brief sensory break or additional tools to feel calm and focused during prayer, learning or community gatherings.

Funds for the project came from several sources, including snack-sale proceeds at PRS, a Parents’ Night Out fundraiser and grants from both the Girl Scouts and Sasone. McNay’s

“This is an area where we can always grow,” she said. “The cart is just one way to show that Beth Shalom is a place where everyone belongs.”

“When we make our spaces accessible for those who need extra support, we strengthen the experience for the entire community,” Lipsky said. “Nina is an amazing young leader, and I am excited to see where she takes her passion for disability inclusion.”

More information about Sasone and its work in the Greater Kansas City Jewish community is available at sasone.org.

The J celebrates first cohort of Building Community Leadership Council

In September, The J celebrated the completion of the two-year pilot cohort of the Building Community Leadership Council (BCLC). The program aims to strengthen leadership skills while fostering engagement, learning and meaningful connections among participants.

The BCLC was designed to develop the next generation of volunteer leaders by equipping members with tools, knowledge and relationships to make a lasting impact. Designed for adults ages 25 to 40, the program focuses on leadership skills and preparing participants for future volunteer and board roles within The J’s community.

leadership in community initiatives and partnerships, his focus has shifted to empowering the next generation of leaders to advance The J’s mission and enrich the broader community.

Emily Hirsekorn, a recent participant, earned a nomination and has since accepted a position on The J’s board of directors. She is an example of how BCLC can identify and develop emerging leaders for roles within the community.

Throughout the two-year cohort, members met with J leaders to learn about organizational operations, programming decisions and the balance between mission and financial sustainability. Sessions focused on The J’s core values, leadership development, personality profiling and community

building, which later led to a capstone project where three groups presented ideas to strengthen The J. The project selected to move forward, “Shalom Baby,” will launch through Jewish Experiences in 2026.

When asked about his involvement with the BCLC, co-chair Andrew Kaplan said, “I agreed to cochair the BCLC committee because I understand the importance of

building a sense of community within our young families to help them build lifelong friendships, as well as develop a better understanding of the Jewish Community Center and its position in both the Jewish and secular communities.”

As a longtime J member and past board chair, Kaplan brings years of experience and perspective to his role as BCLC co-chair. Following years of

“BCLC taught me about The J’s mission, values and operations while deepening my connection to its community,” Hirsekorn said. “Learning about the 2026 JCC Maccabi Games and the facility expansion inspired me to take on a larger leadership role during such an exciting time.”

Additional details about future participation opportunities will be announced at a later date. More information about the program is available at thejkc.org/bclc.

Left: A new sensory cart available for attendees of Beth Shalom services. Right: Nina McNay.

Pictured are leaders and participants of the Building Community Leadership Council, including (from left) Andrew Kaplan, Jen Salazar, Tammi Sonnino, Kim Kushner, Emily Hirsekorn, Carly Stein, Jim Sluyter, Justin Unell, Julie DeVoe, Hannah Orelove and Ariel Gutovitz. Not pictured are Katie Barrer, Natalie Bergman, Thaddeus Diamond, Neta Meltzer, Lauren Neuman and Shelly Malyarov.

50 years ago

Find more community history at kcjc.com/archive.

Using The Chronicle’s archives and community submissions, here are some recipes for you to try out. Email samk@jewishkc.org with a recipe, and it might be published here!

Zalabia

Solange Mizrahi, 1983

• 2 cups flour

Ingredients

• 1/4 oz. fresh yeast

• 2/3 cup lukewarm water

• 1 egg

• Dash of salt and dash of sugar

• Vegetable oil for frying

Instructions

1. Sift flour and salt together

2. Put yeast and sugar in 1/4 cup lukewarm water for 8 minutes

3. Beat the egg, add yeast, then add both to flour and beat vigorously

4. Add the rest of the warm water until a soft dough forms

5. Cover dough with cloth and let rise for 1 hour

6. Beat the dough with a spatula for 2 minutes then let rise at room temperature for 30 minutes

7. Heat oil in deep sauce pan

8. Dip a tablespoon in cold water, fill with the dough and slip with another spoon into hot oil

9. Do this 6 or 7 times, depending on how large the saucepan is, dipping the spoon every time in cold water

10. Fry and turn them until light brown

11. Take out and sprinkle with powdered sugar and cinnamon or honey

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• BCLC cohort (pg. 7)

• “Big Sonia” (pg. 4)

• Champagne (pg. 13)

• Hebrew class (pg. 6)

• Jewish Heritage Trip (pg. 6)

• Jody Gottlieb Ervin (pg. 13)

• Sensory cart (pg. 7)

• SevenDays (pg. 4)

SIMONGARELICH ZOHRANMAMDANI VETERANSDAY MEALSONWHEELS EMERGENCYFOODKITS GENERATIONSINITIATIVE ROCKCHALKSHABBAT BIGSONIA SEVENDAYS MTCARMEL UNBROKEN EMERGINGLEADERS MELISSAKARP LEGACYGIFT HEBREWCLASS JEWISHHERITAGETRIP SENSORYCART BCLCCOHORT ZALABIA JODYGOTTLIEBERVIN TORAHCROWN CHAMPAGNE

• Emergency food kits (pg. 3)

• Emerging Leaders (pg. 5)

• Generations Initiative (pg. 3)

• Legacy gift (pg. 6)

• Meals on Wheels (pg. 2)

• Melissa Karp (pg. 5)

• Mt. Carmel (pg. 4)

• Rock Chalk Shabbat (pg. 3)

• Simon Garelich (pg. 1)

• Torah crown (pg. 13)

• “UnBroken” (pg. 5)

• Veterans Day (pg. 11)

• Zalabia (pg. 8)

• Zohran Mamdani (pg. 1)

Jewish Federation’s Young Adults Division (YAD) hosted its October Impact event featuring The Kansas City Jewish Chronicle on Oct. 23. Editor Sam Kricsfeld and Assistant Editor Lacey Storer created and led a game of Kansas City Jewish trivia. Pictured are attendees (standing, from left) Joshua Goldberg, Matt Bayer, Amalia Newman, Dani Thompson, Michael Portman, Grace Dorman, Sam Passer, Nina Geller, Margo Hellman, YAD Engagement Associate Julia Osburn, Tim Wadsworth, Sara Galapo, Ben Novorr, Josh Winick, (kneeling) Lauren Ruben, Gabrielle Mouritzen, Sarah Navran, Rachel Kricsfeld, Storer and Elana Berger.

Left: Dr. Eran Reem, science teacher at Hyman Brand Hebrew Academy, has been awarded an educator grant for the 75th Greater Kansas City Science & Engineering Fair. The grant recognizes teachers who encourage student participation in STEM research and innovation and support their efforts in guiding students’ science fair projects. He’s pictured holding a certificate given to him by his students for asking them more than 1,000 questions over the course of his classes.

J-LEAD, the Jewish Community Foundation's young adult giving circle, recently did a volunteer day at the Mitzvah Garden. Participants harvested sweet potatoes, and learned about honey production and composting. Pictured are (from left) Julia Fineman, Michael Fineman, Max Barnett and Becky Barnett.

J-LEAD

KCJC Trivia

Mazel Tov!

celebrations

Congregation B’nai Jehudah.

Noa Lilach Steigman Falicov

Noa Lilach Steigman Falicov, daughter of Tamara Falicov & Stephen Steigman, became a bat mitzvah on Saturday, Nov. 1, at The Temple,

Noa is the granddaughter of Rabbi Linda Steigman of Overland Park, Kansas; Celia Falicov & Peter Gourevitch of San Diego, California; William and Phyllis Steigman of Boynton Beach, Florida; and Raul Falicov (z”l). She has two siblings: a brother, Ilan (16), and sister, Avital (14).

An eighth grader at Academie Lafayette Middle School, Noa enjoys science, English and social studies. She loves gaming, drawing animation, baking, silver jewelry, astronomy and traveling with her siblings.

For her mitzvah project, Noa volunteered at the Bishop Sullivan Center community kitchen, helping make and serve meals. Noa attends Kesher at B’nai Jehudah and is a madrichol at “Yalla!” working with the second grade class.

Sienna Finkle, daughter of Johanna and David Finkle, will become a bat mitzvah on Saturday, Nov. 15, at The Temple, Congregation B’nai Jehudah.

Sienna’s grandparents are Bradley Finkle and Linda Finkle. She has two siblings, Alexander and Maya.

Some of Sienna’s hobbies include playing soccer and tennis, and playing violin and piano.

For her mitzvah project, Sienna is volunteering with Jewish Vocational Service and created a drive for hygiene supplies to benefit refugees in Kansas City.

We Are HIRING! Manager, Jewish Experiences

The Manager of Jewish Experiences plays a key role in advancing the mission of Jewish Experiences, a collaboration of Jewish Federation and The J, dedicated to connecting individuals across the Jewish community through meaningful programming, strategic partnerships, and intentional engagement.

Jewish Experiences centers its work around four core program areas: Community Engagement, Professional Development & Adult Education, Israel Programming, and Affinity Groups, and the manager will contribute to the oversight and coordination of these initiatives.

For more information, and to apply: TheJKC.org/Careers

Wedding

Jordan Kuluva and Sarah Johnson

Jordan Kuluva and Sarah Johnson were married on Sept. 27, 2025, at

Wedding

Molly Oberstein-Allen and Eric Rolston

Molly Oberstein-Allen and Eric Rolston of Brooklyn, New York, were married on Oct. 12, 2025, at Lone Summit Ranch in Lee’s Summit, Missouri.

The bride is the daughter of Ace Allen and Donna Oberstein of Overland Park, Kansas, and the

Bar Mitzvah

Max Barnett Zwillenberg

Max Barnett Zwillenberg, son of Jennifer and Jeffrey Zwillenberg of Portsmouth, New Hampshire, will

Ironhorse Golf Club in Leawood, Kansas.

The groom is the son of Kerry and David Kuluva and the grandson of Phil (z”l) and Marie Koffman and Lynn (z”l) and Renee Kuluva, all of Overland Park, Kansas. Jordan works at the University of Kansas Medical Center as a research assistant.

The bride is the daughter of Monica and Brett Johnson and the granddaughter of Gary (z”l) and Hope Fitzmorris of Wichita, Kansas; and Don Ables (z”l), Barry (z”l) and Betty VanHouden of Springfield, Missouri. She has a doctorate in occupational therapy and works in Overland Park.

The couple currently reside in Leawood.

granddaughter of Milton and Sylvia Oberstein (z”l) and Louis A. and Ruth Allen (z”l). Her maid of honor was Sarah Hurd of Brooklyn, and her bridesmaids were Emily Soreghan of Dubuque, Iowa, and Paige Viebrock of Portland, Oregon. She currently works as an associate at the law firm Jenner & Block.

The groom is the son of Mike and Karen Rolston of Bethlehem, Pennsylvania, and the grandson of Jim and Helene Weyant of King’s Park, New York, and Eric and Bernice Rolston (z”l). His best man was Matt Rolston of Portland, Oregon. He currently works as an associate at the law firm MoloLamken.

Chuppah bearers were Benjamin Allen of Minneapolis, Minnesota; Emilye Lewin of San Francisco, California; Jim Rolston of Philadelphia, Pennsylvania; and Nikki Self of New York City.

The couple honeymooned in Bali, Indonesia, and Seoul, South Korea.

become a bar mitzvah on Saturday, Nov. 8, at Congregation Ahavas Achim in Newburyport, Massachusetts.

Max’s grandparents are Janet and Louis Zwillenberg of Leawood, Kansas, and Diane Goulston of New Hampshire. He has a nine-year-old sister, Natalie.

Among Max’s hobbies are playing guitar, reading, writing, snowboarding and cross country.

Max is excited for his bar mitzvah because, he says, “I can now be counted and be part of a minyan. That means that I have a voice and place and am able to make a difference. I’m excited to be able to show off all my hard work and studying when I get to read Torah in front of my family and friends. It’s a big deal, and I am excited.”

Bat Mitzvah

Bat Mitzvah

Sienna Finkle

Veterans Day

Honoring our Jewish community’s veterans

The veterans listed here (or their family members) submitted information for inclusion in this year’s special section. We sincerely thank them and all community veterans for their service.

Robert DeWitt

Specialist Robert DeWitt served in the U.S. Army from 1954 to 1956.

Jack Forman

Corporal Jack Forman served in the U.S. Army in General George Patton’s 4th Armored Division, 51st Armored Infantry Battalion. He served in WWII as a rifleman and participated in three campaigns from Germany to Czechoslovakia. He was awarded the Bronze Star and Combat Infantryman’s Badge.

Jai JohnsonPickett

Lieutenant Colonel Jai Johnson served in the U.S. Army.

Tyler Carley LeClair

Tyler LeClair served in the U.S. Army from 1997 to 2001 as an 88H/Heavy Equipment Operator. LeClair was stationed at Fort Story, Virginia, and Casper, Wyoming.

Dave Lerner

Sergeant Dave Lerner served in the U.S. Army in Vietnam from 1967 to 1968 as in the 101st Airborne Division.

Chuck Levey

Specialist 4th Class Chuck Levey served in the U.S. Army.

Howard Noah

Petty Officer 2nd Class

Howard Noah served as an AT2 (aviation electronics technician) in the U.S. Navy from 1967 to 1976.

Abe Schamis

Second Lieutenant Abe Schamis served in U.S. Army Air Corps from 1942 to 1945. He was a B-17 Navigator, part of the B-17 Flying Fortress bomber crew. He spent almost six months as a Nazi POW before Russian troops closed in and the Nazis abandoned the POW camp (see next page).

Erwin Stern

Private 1st Class Erwin

Stern served in Korea from 1951 to 1952 as part of the 28th Infantry Brigade, 79th Military Police Company.

Marshall Widman

Sergeant Marshall Widman served in the U.S. Air Force from 1968 to 1974.

Below are veterans whose names have previously been submitted for Veterans Day sections:

Aaron and Sophie Braeman (z”l)

Lillian Braeman Bell (z”l)

Richard S. Brockman

Larry Gordon

Rabbi Moshe Grussgott

Dana L. Hall

Dr. Richard Hellman

Robert Hoffman

Lynn Kuluva (z”l)

Ben Lelchook

Chip Levine

Rodney T. Minkin

Isadore Pincus (z”l)

Greg Quinn

Steven B. Schorr

Norman Shaffer

Norman R. Spero

Dr. Wallace Weber

Veterans Day (and Armistice Day) in The Chronicle

The first mention of Armistice Day in The Chronicle was on Nov. 12, 1920, when the Fortnightly Club celebrated the day with “an informal supper in the Vestry rooms of the Temple.” It does not say which temple.

ans at Kehilath Israel Synagogue.

In 1967, Jewish War Veterans Commander Cyrus Spungen’s Veterans Day message was published in The Chronicle, which read:

Jewish War Veterans to remodel museum cases, call for memorabilia donations

Jewish War Veterans Mo-Kan Post 605 (JWV) announced plans to remodel and rotate items in its two museum display cases at the Jewish Community Campus.

The two cases, located between Ram’s Cafe and Jewish Family Services off the lobby of the campus, contain historically important items and information from and pertaining to local Jewish war veterans.

In 1988, based on an idea by Chester B. Kaplan and Aaron Braeman, plans were set to create the Jewish War Veterans Museum. They felt that the Jewish Veterans of Kansas who fought for our country deserved recognition. JWV held fundraising events, including a phone-a-thon, looking for cash donations and memorabilia that could be donated or loaned for cases. The physical space was provided by the Jewish Community Campus.

Currently serving

Micah Bowron

Lt. Colonel Micah Bowron is currently serving in the U.S. Air Force and is stationed at Shaw Air Force Base in Sumter, South Carolina. He has served since 2007, and recently returned home after a six-month deployment to Saudi Arabia.

The original plan was to rotate the exhibit periodically and incorporate other items, according to Anita Loeb, the past museum director, in 1991. Currently, JWV members have started to inventory the cases, and, with professional help, are planning to update the display.

JWV is now accepting donations for inclusion with emphasis on the Vietnam War era and beyond. The case was set up mostly with World War I and World War II memorabilia. The organization is now seeking donations to include the periods of the Korean, Vietnam, Afghanistan and Persian Gulf Wars.

Those wishing to contribute a military memorabilia donation can email jwvpost605@outlook.com for more information. The organization hopes to incorporate donations into the cases whenever possible, but space is limited. Once donated, memorabilia becomes the property of Jewish War Veterans MO-KAN Post 605.

Monetary donations to help with the remodel can be made directly to the Jewish Community Foundation (5801 W. 115th St. #104, Overland Park, KS 66211), designated for the Jewish War Veterans Museum.

My father’s story

By Jeffrey Schamis

My father, Abe Schamis, was stationed in Foggia, Italy. During his 11th bombing mission in December 1944 over Regensburg, Germany, the plane became disabled due to heavy anti aircraft fire. The crew had to bail out. My dad parachuted onto a farm in Austria.

He was captured by the Nazis, interrogated and sent by a cattle car train to Stalag Luft l in Barth, Germany near the Baltic Sea. All the Jewish prisoners of war were segregated to barracks in a separate area. There was very minimal food for them and working chores to do. Fortunately, there was no physical beating.

In early May 1945, the Nazis abandoned the POW camp because Russian troops were closing in. My father sought out Jewish Russian soldiers so they could converse in Yiddish.

He and the other POWs were flown to Camp Lucky Strike near the port of Le Havre, France, to eventually be shipped out to the United States, and arrived in Newport News, Virginia, where the former POWs were serenaded by a big band playing “Don’t Fence Me In.”

One little bit of humor during his interrogation by the Nazis: On the soldiers’ “dog tags” were their name, serial number, next of kin and one of the initials C, P or H — C for Catholic; P for Protestant; and H for Hebrew.

When the Nazi saw H, he said to my father, “Hebrew?”

My father answered, “No, I’m Hindu!”

JeffreySchamisisthefatherofSabrina(Adam) Hirsch and grandfather of Caleb, who live in Overland Park, Kansas.

One of the Jewish War Veterans Museum cases at the Jewish Community Campus, which JWV plans to remodel with new items.

community news

Jody Gottlieb Ervin leaves lasting impact at JFS

Jewish Family Services (JFS) of Greater Kansas City has long been a beneficiary of Jody Gottlieb Ervin’s time, dedication and talent, and the organization has awarded her the Volunteer of the Month award.

A Kansas City native now living in Overland Park, Kansas, Ervin has been a devoted JFS volunteer for more than a decade, beginning shortly after she left the workforce in 2013. But her connection to the organization goes back much further.

“Back in 1995, I reached out to Jewish Family Services for counseling for my young children and myself while going through a divorce,” Ervin said. “Susan Goldstein was our therapist, and her warmth and guidance were amazing. Each session provided much-needed support. JFS was there for my family, and I’ll always have a special place in my heart for the agency.”

Years later, when her children were grown and she had more time to give, Ervin reached out to JFS about volunteering. It wasn’t long before she became a familiar face in the JFS Food Pantry.

“I was there twice a week until I

became a ‘Nanna,’” she said. “Now, I work behind the scenes each week, calling clients to remind them of their appointments. I’m proud to say I’ve been involved since the pantry’s inception. I love the clients and all my fellow volunteers I’ve had the pleasure of working with over the years.”

Ervin’s enthusiasm for helping others is present in all her volunteering, including assisting clients as they shop, stocking shelves or delivering meals to homebound individuals. She’s also passed on her passion for service to the next generation.

Each October, Ervin celebrates her birthday by giving back — shopping for Thanksgiving items and donating them to the JFS Food Pantry.

“This month marks eight years since I introduced this tradition to my grandsons, Tommy and Louie Dieker,” she said. “We shop together and deliver together. Children are never too young to learn the value of giving.”

In addition to her work in the Food

By Ellie Holsten

Connections between Jewish communities around the world can be found in art. This Torah crown from the late 19th century is an example of cultural exchange between Italy, France and Tunisia. It is made in an Italian style with French silver marks, showing that it was made in France after Italian design conventions. Later inscriptions of names into the silver indicate that it was used by a congregation in Tunisia.

Pantry, Ervin also volunteers for JFS’ annual Hanukkah Project.

“I’ve volunteered for the Hanukkah Project since it began,” she said. “I’ve shopped, organized gifts, wrapped them and helped distribute them. It’s a wonderful project, and I look forward to helping each year — fulfilling the clients’ wish lists.”

Jo Hickey, director of volunteers and pantry partnerships at JFS, praised Ervin’s ongoing commitment.

“As families have grown and lives have evolved, so has Jody’s involvement with JFS,” Hickey said. “She has never been too busy to make time for JFS as part of her and her family’s commitment to the community.”

Ervin’s generosity extends beyond JFS. She also volunteers with Meals on Wheels and Habitat for Humanity, finding joy and fulfillment in serving others.

“It’s truly a blessing to be able to give back to the community that was there for my children and me,” Ervin said.

“Giving back makes all the difference in the world. It’s a wonderful way to meet new people, feel more connected and model positive behavior for the next generation.”

JFS offers a variety of volunteer opportunities to fit any schedule. More information is available at jfskc.org/ volunteer.

Torah crown JEWISH WAR VETERANS MUSEUM

The situation for Italian Jews in the late 19th century was favorable, with limited discrimination and increased access to professions that could bring prosperity. This safety and security allowed the Jewish communities to create art and influence surrounding cultures, as is the case with this French Torah crown made in an Italian style.

Tunisian marks on this Torah crown are also an expected cultural exchange. Trade on the Mediterranean Sea connected the Jews of North Africa to the Jews of Europe. Many of the Jewish communities of North Africa were populated with Jews who had been expelled from the Iberian Peninsula, so these groups had pre-existing links to Europe.

More information about the Michael Klein Collection at the Temple, Congregation B’nai Jehudah can be found at kleincollection.org or by calling (913) 663-4050 to schedule a tour.

By Julie London

Hitler’s Louis Roederer Champagne

One of the rarest items located in the Jewish War Veterans Museum cases is a bottle of Louis Roederer Champagne. This particular bottle was taken from Hitler's home in Berchtesgaden, Germany, and donated to Jewish War Veterans MOKAN Post 605 by Milton B. Gordon.

Hitler’s Berchtesgaden house was sometimes referred to as “The Berghof.” Although Hitler himself did not drink, he maintained a very large cache of alcohol for his officers. He had a large inventory at the house, at Saxon Cellar (under a restaurant in Saxony), and at the Eagle's Nest mountain complex, among other locations.

These beverages were sometimes looted by soldiers as war trophies. You may remember in the book “Band of Brothers,” some members of the 101st Airborne Division celebrated the end of the war by drinking his wine and champagne.

Community members are invited to view the glasscasesinthelobbyoftheJewishCommunity Campus and view the large collection of military items donated by local veterans and their families. The cases will be updated this coming year with more current items.

Jody Gottlieb Ervin with her grandsons Tommy and Louie Dieker helping at a JFS food drive.

UPCOMING EVENTS

November 12

Kindergarten

Readiness Panel

A panel for parents on topics like developmental milestones and social emotional readiness

November 20 Annual Celebration

Join Federation for community, awards, a guest speaker and celebrating our collective impact

December 11

December 14

PJ Grandparent Huddle

Grandparents are invited to join PJ Library and Judy Jacks Berman to discuss Making Hanukkah More About Giving.

Hanukkah Glow Party

The Hanukkah party of the year! G ames, crafts, food, activities and a silent disco!

December 7

December 7

December 8

B.Y.O Bestie

“Girls Night Out” event with mocktails, cocktails, prizes, nosh and more with Authors Sara Goodman Confino and Jean Meltzer

Hanukkah Learn & Play

Preschoolers ages 3-5 are invited to join HBHA and PJ Library for an hour of Hanukkah fun!

Impact: Jewish Burial Fund

Ben Gurion Society and J-Lead members will learn about the rituals and traditions of Jewish burial.

December 14

December 16

December 20

Well Fed

Young adults are invited to connect with others and build their Jewish circle of friends at this monthly dinner club.

Hanukkah Pajamakkah

Grandparents and grandchildren are invited to celebrate with crafts, snacks and a concert at this fun free event

Bagel Bash

Federation’s Young Adults Division is invited to the biggest event of the year for drinks, bagels, and shuffleboard!

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Confronting truth in history

By Jessica Rockhold Midwest Center for Holocaust Education

Studying the Holocaust requires us to take an unflinching look at the extremes of the human experience. We rightly celebrate stories of rescue and resistance. We honor those forced to make unimaginable choices, and we elevate the humanity demonstrated in those decisions. But if we stopped there, we would not truly be learning about the Holocaust.

To confront this history with honesty, we must also face the darkness — what humans are capable of when we isolate, marginalize, persecute and murder our fellow human beings. Without this confrontation, we are not dealing in truth. We cannot fully understand this history without confronting the capacity for cruelty, complicity and silence that allowed genocide to occur.

As Holocaust educators, we are skilled at navigating the very real sensitivities of our learners and the profound sensitivities of the victims’ experiences. Our goal is to provide a balanced, compassionate and honest engagement with history. While we make careful choices about content and imagery, we do not shy away from the full spectrum of decisions and consequences faced by individuals, groups

and nations during the Holocaust. The Holocaust compels us to examine not just what happened, but how and why people made the choices they did.

To ignore or soften the ethical and moral choices that shaped this history risks becoming a form of denial — one that diminishes human agency and sidesteps the difficult truths that make this history relevant today. Only by engaging fully and honestly — especially with histories that call us to self-examination — can we truly learn. Sanitized retellings, partial truths and politicized narratives of history create fertile ground for misappropriation, distortion and denial.

At a time when historical revisionism and Holocaust denial are gaining traction, we are reminded of the essential role institutions like ours play in preserving and transmitting collective memory. The education system, museums and educational institutions like MCHE have long been entrusted with the responsibility of ensuring accurate, ethical and meaningful engagement with history. We do not take this role lightly.

MCHE remains steadfast in our commitment to historical integrity, critical inquiry and compassionate education. Thank you for standing with us as we continue to confront the truth, however difficult.

JessicaRockholdistheexecutivedirector of MCHE.

By Bridey Stangler PJ Library

If you’re attempting to measure your child’s Jewish educational progress against the masses, allow me to refer you to Pirkei Avot 5:21, the Sayings of our Fathers. According to Judah ben Tema, a child, at five years of age, should study Scripture; at 10, Mishnah; at 13, the commandments; at 15, Talmud; and at 18, he should get married. The timeline lays out milestones through the age of 100, when one is “as good as dead.”

Impressed and appreciative, I went looking for further signposts for my sons’ development as it relates to his particular area of obsession: at what age, for example, should one master the ollie, frontside slappy or pop-shove-it? When did Shammai teach his son to drop in? What does Pirkei Avot have to say on the kick-flip?

Spoiler: the rabbis do not delve into the minutiae of age-appropriate skateboard tricks. I suppose the sages looked the other way when their sons took a break from their aspirations of rabbinical greatness to practice careening down steep angled surfaces on thin wooden boards.

Flashback to Rosh Hashanah 2022. We’re in Denver, where we’ve taken Darby, then eight, to a wicked skatepark. The goal is for him to work out his shpilkes by scootering and before getting on his skateboard — a new purchase that he thinks is completely rad (that’s right – “rad”). We need him in a good mood for the impending bombshell — that he’s going to be a big brother. That’s for a different article, though.

The Denver Skatepark is 60,000 square feet of concrete waves, bowls, dips and ramps, and I am so excited for Darby to experience it. Having watched his interest in all attempted team sports wane to nothing, it’s been a thrill to see how Darby’s love of scootering has turned him on to skateboarding: a movement intensive sport requiring grace, strength and incredible balance.

Forty-five minutes in, and I am growing impatient. He’s still on the scooter, seemingly bored — almost sullen — as he coasts along flat surfaces.

Why isn’t he challenging himself?

We bought him that sick skateboard (that’s right – “sick”) and he won’t even get on it…

We didn’t come to the best skatepark between coasts so he could scooter around…

Guess who’s sullen now? Sullen, impatient and snappish because my son isn’t challenging himself. He’s not meeting my standards.

Skateboarding is an activity that Darby discovered on his own, one that he loves, that gives him space to build confidence, to take at his own pace. And as I stand there, arms crossed, expecting him to perform in a way I never could, I realize I am ruining it.

Taking a deep breath, I leave Darby to my husband’s supervision and run a few laps around the adjoining pond. It’s a relief for everyone to be free of my judgmental glare.

The truth is, he’s still on his scooter because he’s nervous: Darby has never been a natural risk-taker, and this skatepark is new and gnarly (that’s right – “gnarly”). He’s not skateboarding because he knows himself. He doesn’t feel ready. When I return, I call Darby over. I can see that he’s wary and resentful of the way I’d been watching and needling.

“I love the way you take things in your own time. You know yourself, and I appreciate that you don’t let anyone rush you – not even me.” My hands are on his shoulders, and it’s probably freaking him out that I’m standing so close at eye-level. But I want him to hear me — and I want to believe it myself.

We shrug off whatever tension remains, smile and soon go and have a delightful and delicious lunch.

Pirkei Avot says distressingly little about pushing our kids to meet our arbitrary expectations. The need to learn Mishnah, commandments and so on is, of course, not arbitrary, but, rather, foundational to spiritual development both individually and communally. Skateboarding, however — physical risk taking, knowing one’s body, pushing one’s limits — that is for each child to measure and pace on his own.

Forgive me for mixing my Midrash here, but consider Rabbi Akiva. The words of Torah impressed upon him regarding the speed of water dripping on a rock. There was no overbearing mother seeking to blast him with scripture with the force of a fire hose. Would the rabbi have rejected Torah if his mother had tried?

My son, your child and Rabbi Akiva all need the space to learn and grow in the fashion and speed that fits them.

By David Spizman Village Shalom

Revelatory ribbons commentary Honoring the Helzbergs, inspiring the next generation

When I learned that this issue of The Chronicle would feature military veterans, one image immediately came to mind: Lt. Col. Alexander Vindman testifying before Congress in the impeachment inquiry of President Trump. Seeing the rows of ribbons and medals on the uniform of this distinguished officer instantly conveyed that here was a person worthy of respect.

Thousands of years ago, another decorated chest announced that the wearer was deserving of kovod, honor. According to Exodus 28:15, the Temple’s High Priest was commanded to wear an elaborate, square breastplate as part of his sacred vestments. This meticulously-described ornament was to include rows of precious jewels representing the 12 tribes. When Temple sacrifices were replaced with words of worship, the scroll inherited the breastpiece, becoming the mantle that hangs on Torahs today.

mother (of blessed memory) as B’nai Brith chapter president. Having served on several nonprofit boards myself, I can attest that anyone serving in this capacity deserves special recognition for enduring endless board meetings and planning ever-present fundraisers.

Speaking of raising money, beginning in the 1970s, anyone making a sizable donation to the Jewish Federation has been entitled to wear a Lion of Judah pin. This 14-karat gold lion-shaped brooch features a precious gem and menorah or Star of David. Since the Federation publishes The Chronicle, allow me to put in a shameless plug: This beautiful piece of jewelry is still available to new, major donors.

As Veterans Day approaches, I find myself reflecting on the extraordinary lives of so many Village Shalom residents. Some once served our country in uniform. Others built and sustained Kansas City’s civic and cultural institutions, or gave countless hours of service to neighbors and community. Some survived the Holocaust, then rebuilt lives of purpose and generosity. Each, in their own way, represents the very best of the “Greatest Generation.”

Village Shalom’s mission. That is exactly what philanthropy makes possible. Each year, the Ages of Excellence campaign helps cover the $2.1 million in financial assistance provided to healthcare residents who have outlived their resources. These gifts ensure that every Village Shalom resident continues to receive compassionate, dignified care.

This year, we also celebrate a milestone — the 25th anniversary of the Helzberg Campus for Jewish Living. Shirley and Barnett Helzberg’s generosity made this campus a reality, and their example continues to remind us what it means to give back. To honor them is to carry their legacy forward.

Egyptians, Greeks and Romans also used medals to serve as tangible symbols of honor. In this country, General George Washington established the first military decoration, the heart-shaped Badge of Military Merit that became what we now know as the Purple Heart. More than 3,000 medals and ribbons have been issued since then, earning them their own museum: the National Medal of Honor Museum in Arlington, Texas.

Another decorative piece that tells you something about the wearer is the plastic pin bearing the name of the local organization, the Good Faith Network. Because this interfaith group promotes equity and justice, one can assume that anyone sporting this ornament supports these lofty aims.

Thinking about all of these physical awards makes me wonder what other shirt adornments tell us something about the wearer’s accomplishments. For instance, at professional conferences I attended, the organizational machers (big deals) would be festooned with ribbons resembling state fair prize winners.

One ribbon no one wants to earn is the traditional Jewish black mourning ribbon. When my husband died, I wore mine for 30 days. Though not everyone understood its significance, many sensed that it represented something somber and treated me accordingly. My daughter came to call hers the “be-nice-tome” button because of the reactions it elicited.

On a more positive note, I treasure the gold pin with a gavel and menorah that was presented to my

Similarly, I have a friend who frequent ly attends civic gatherings. When she grew tired of writing her name on those “Hello, My Name Is” stickers, she created a permanent one. Under her name she had emblazoned, “Engaged Citizen.” The first time she wore it, someone misread it as “Enraged Citizen.” Good naturedly, she notes this is often accurate.

It has been one of the real joys of my life to serve this generation via work at Village Shalom, first as a board member and now professionally, leading development and community engagement. Every day I spend with residents of different backgrounds and faiths, I’m reminded of how much we can learn from their resilience, their gratitude for even the smallest kindness and their constant desire to give back.

Recently, I had the privilege of escorting resident Dr. Judy Jacobs, a Holocaust survivor, to speak at my son Elliot’s middle school. As Judy shared her story of loss and strength, she also challenged the students to get involved in their community. That message, delivered by someone who has already given so much, was unforgettable. And it’s a message Judy lives out daily through her ongoing support of Village Shalom.

Moments like that bring into sharp focus the importance of sustaining

That’s why I’m inviting you to join me. Any increase in your gift this year to the Ages of Excellence campaign will be matched dollar for dollar by a generous donor, and any new gift from community members ages 30–50 will also be matched — doubling the impact. If you’re in that age group, I hope you’ll consider stepping forward. If not, I encourage you to invite your children, friends or colleagues to take part. Together, we can inspire the next generation to stand for the values and vibrant community the Greatest Generation has given us.

As we honor our veterans and the Helzbergs, I hope you’ll help us strengthen Village Shalom for years to come. To make your gift, visit villageshalom.org/donate or call (913) 2668119. Your support will be part of an enduring legacy.

David Spizman is the director of philanthropy and community engagementatVillageShalom.

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My favorite personalized medal was spotted on the chest of a young man who appeared to have Down’s Syndrome sweeping popcorn at a movie. Where his nametag would have been was instead a rectangle that announced him as, “The Boss.”

This proclamation made me wonder what I would have engraved if I created my own medal. I think mine would declare, “I’m a nobody. I’ve done nothing.” Quite the opposite of Col. Vindman.

Nancy Kalikow Maxwell is a Kansas City native and awardwinning author. Her book, Typically Jewish, is available through the Jewish Publication Society or Amazon. Her website is kaliwellinc.com and email is nancykalikowmaxwell@gmail. com.

Marilyn Elaine (Farber) Cowan

Marilyn Elaine (Farber) Cowan passed away on Oct. 22 at Village Shalom in Overland Park, Kansas.

Marilyn was born on July 27, 1947, in St. Joseph, Missouri. She was the beloved daughter of Hymie and Libby (Polsky) Farber. She grew up in St. Joseph, where she attended Eugene Field School and graduated from Central High School. Marilyn went on to earn her bachelor’s degree in education from the University of Missouri in Columbia in 1969. She later received her master’s degree from Baker University.

In 1972, Marilyn married Alister

George Mouat Cowan in a double wedding ceremony shared with her younger sister, Marsha. Marilyn and Alister had three boys, Bryan, David and Douglas. They settled in Overland Park to raise their family. Marilyn’s proudest accomplishment in life was raising her boys and pouring her heart into every moment of their journey. Though her presence will be deeply missed, her spirit lives on in the men they are today and in the profound love she leaves within their hearts. Marilyn was a devoted daughter, wife, mother, grandmother, sister, aunt and friend.

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tion’s capital and inspired generations through her passion for learning.

Marilyn also served as regional president of ORT, reflecting her lifelong commitment to Judaism, education and community service.

An avid bridge player who earned Life Master points, Marilyn also loved playing mahjongg and immersing herself in literature. Known for her empathy, compassion and approachability, she always made her students, friends and family feel valued and supported.

Marilyn is preceded in death by her parents, Hymie and Libby (Polsky) Farber. She leaves behind her three beloved sons, whose lives are forever shaped by her gentle strength and endless affection. Every moment she spent with them was filled with unconditional love, gentle guidance and unwavering support. Her heart was never more full than when she was surrounded by her boys and her grandchildren. Her cherished sons are Bryan (Amy), David (Kelly) and Douglas (Cara), who will forever hold onto her family values and love. Her nine treasured grandchildren, Eva, Lexi, Drake, Kennedy, Dylan, Grant, Leah, Hayes and Mae, were her pride and joy. She is also survived by her sister, Marsha Ava Conant (James); and many nieces, nephews and cousins.

Marilyn’s light also shines through her treasured friendships, including those with Kathy and Kenny Wissel, Carol Searcy and Marlis Grad, among many others whose lives she touched deeply.

Marilyn’s legacy lives on in the family she cherished, the students she inspired, the friends she loved and the many others whose lives she touched with her warmth and generosity. Her passion for teaching touched decades of students. Her encouragement helped countless young people believe in their own potential. For many, she was the teacher who made all the difference.

May her memory forever be a blessing to all who knew and loved her.

A celebration of life was held on Oct. 26 at Louis Memorial Chapel. Burial followed at Shaare Sholem Cemetery in St. Joseph.

Those wishing to honor Marilyn’s memory may consider a donation to Jewish Family Services of Greater Kansas City (5801 W. 115th St. Ste. 103, Overland Park, KS 66211 or jfskc.org/ donate).

Elise Eastman

Elise Eastman, age 74, passed away peacefully on Oct. 29 at Sunrise Senior Living Community in Leawood, Kansas.

Elise was born on Feb. 14, 1951, in Cairo, Egypt, the cherished daughter

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of Esther and Ness Pessah. She emigrated with her parents to the United States in 1960, following a short stay in Paris, France. The family settled in Syracuse, New York, where Elise attended Nottingham High School and later Onondaga Community College.

After moving to Mission, Kansas, Elise married the late Maurice Eastman. Together, they raised three sons, Abe, Jacob and Isaac.

Elise had a deep love of music and pursued her dream of working in radio broadcasting, spending time on air at local radio stations. She also enjoyed her years working in retail, where she was quick to share her warm smile. Faith was an essential part of Elise’s life. She found joy and friendship in Bible studies with neighbors and friends.

Elise is survived by her three children and her brother, Isaac Pessah. She will be deeply missed and forever remembered with love.

Graveside services were held on Oct. 3 at Kehilath Israel Blue Ridge Cemetery.

Online condolences for the family may be left at louismemorialchapel. com.

Sheldon Gerald Fleschman

Sheldon Gerald Fleschman passed away on Oct. 30 at age 91. A devoted husband, father and grandfather, Sheldon was loved by all who knew him, and his kindness and compassion were appreciated by so many.

Sheldon was born on Jan. 26, 1934, in Kansas City, Missouri, to Isadore and Jennie Fleschman. Growing up, family was very important to him, including his two older brothers and a large circle of cousins, aunts and uncles. He loved spending afternoons at the movie theater, which developed into a lifelong love of movies, television and musicals.

Sheldon worked very hard in his studies and was the first in his family to graduate from college. After receiving his business degree from Washington University in St. Louis, he served three years in the Armed Forces near Paris, France.

Back in Kansas City, he started his career as an accountant. Before long, his brother Danny played matchmaker and introduced him to Jackie, and they married in 1967. Together they raised their three daughters in Overland Park, Kansas. Sheldon worked as an accountant for Lady Baltimore Foods for 25 years. He was a lifetime member of Congregation Beth Shalom and was very involved in the Couples Club. You could also find Sheldon

in the kitchen making his world-famous pies and beet borscht.

In 2005, Sheldon and Jackie moved to Plano, Texas, to be closer to their beloved grandchildren. Sheldon immediately began volunteering for Plano Presbyterian Hospital (Texas Health) and continued for the next 20 years, proudly serving thousands of hours. He loved his “job” at the hospital, where he got to greet and visit with so many people.

Sheldon is survived by his wife, Jackie; daughters, Marianne (Jeff) Price, Mollye Fleschman and Ilene (Britt) Baumel; and grandchildren, Jaden, Sawyer and Sydney Baumel, and Hailey Price.

In lieu of flowers, the family asks that donations be made to the charity of your choosing.

Stanley Paul Goldman

Stanley Paul Goldman, 86, passed away peacefully on Oct. 18, 2025.

Stan was born on May 19, 1939, in Kansas City, Missouri, to Manual and Minnie Goldman. A lifelong resident of Kansas City, he cherished the beauty of all four seasons and the sense of community the city offered. He graduated from Southwest High School in 1957 and went on to earn his Bachelor of Science from the University of Missouri, where he was a member of the AEPi fraternity, in 1961.

Following college, Stanley proudly served in the United States Air Force reserves from 1961-67 as part of the airborne medics unit based out of Richards Gebaur Air Force Base. After his service, Stan owned and operated M&M Auto Wrecking in Belton, Missouri, for many years before retiring.

He was passionate about restoring and collecting vintage cars, with a special love for Chevrolet Corvettes. He was also an avid Kansas City Chiefs fan, a dedicated gardener and proud Missouri Tiger alumnus. He was a long time active member of the Mizzou Alumni Association.

Stan is survived by his beloved wife of 61 years, Hedy; his two daughters, Laurie Scribner and Melanie Wells; son-in-law, Jon Scribner; and three grandchildren, Jake Scribner (Kat), Kaley Wells (Talin Golightly) and Josh Scribner (Kelsey).

Stan will be remembered for his love of family, curiosity and craftsmanship and his warm steady presence that enriched the lives of everyone who knew him.

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Robert Goldstein

Robert “Bob” Goldstein passed away on Oct. 18 in Palm Beach Gardens, Florida, at the age of 98.

He was born on Nov. 11, 1926, in Philadelphia, Pennsylvania, to Max and Lena Goldstein. Bob was the third of five brothers. He spent his childhood in Atlantic City, New Jersey, where he made many lifelong friends.

When World War II began, Bob was determined to serve his country. At just 16, he tried to enlist, but his parents refused to sign the paperwork because his older brother Jack, was already serving in the Army Air Force. Undeterred, Bob enlisted in the Navy at age 17 and served as a radar and sonar operator on the USS Luke 577, a destroyer escort in the Atlantic Ocean.

Following the war, he met the love of his life, Beatrice Ollman, at a V-J Day (Victory over Japan Day) block party in Philadelphia. They were married in 1947 and went on to celebrate 75 years of marriage. Bob had an adventurous and entrepreneurial spirit. He piloted his own plane in his early years. His first business was manufacturing and selling ladies and children’s clothing. Over the years his business interests evolved. He launched a furniture company and then acquired Palley’s Jewelers in Atlantic City, New Jersey. Years later, he founded Fast Fix jewelry repair, a pioneer jewelry repair franchise that grew to 185 locations across the United States and Canada. He retired for a short while, only to start a new business of importing home goods from Vietnam. He made numerous trips there and thoroughly enjoyed the experience.

Bob lived a long remarkable life, filled with adventure, hard work and love for his family. He enjoyed watching the Kansas City Royals and Chiefs. He also loved deep sea fishing and boating, taking numerous fishing trips to the Bahamas, Hawaii, Florida Keys, Costa Rica, Mexico and Trinidad and Tobago. He will be remembered for his humor, sharp mind and boundless energy.

Bob was deeply appreciative of The Greatest Generation Foundation who arranged for him to take two trips to Normandy and an Honor Flight to Washington, D.C. These journeys meant the world to him.

He was preceded in death by his wife, Beatrice Goldstein, in 2023; and his four brothers, Abe, Jack, Billy and Melvin. He is survived by his three children, Leslie Robboy of Palm Beach Gardens, Florida, Glenn (Joyce) Goldstein of Overland Park, Kansas,

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Memorial services were held on Oct. 28 at South Florida National Cemetery at Lake Worth, Florida.

In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to The Greatest Generation Foundation in Denver, Colorado, or to a charity of your choice.

Annamaria Lichtiger

Annamaria Lichtiger passed away on Sept. 21.

She was the loving wife of Dr. Benjamin Lichtiger of Houston, Texas; the loving mother of Laura Lichtiger of Houston, Elena Diner of Houston and Sylvana Hammer of Prairie Village, Kansas; and the loving grandmother of Noah, Ariel, Maya, Avi, Illiana, Joshua and Gabby.

Her family was an integral part of her life, and she will be deeply missed by all who knew and loved her.

Because of Rosh Hashanah, no shiva was held.

May her memory be a blessing, and may her family be comforted amongst the mourners of Zion and Jerusalem.

Albert Lee Silverman

Albert Lee Silverman, 93, passed away on Oct. 28.

Born on Nov. 10, 1931 in Kansas City, Missouri, to Diana and Milton Silverman, Albert was the beloved middle sibling to his sister, Maryon, and younger brother, Teddy. He attended Border Star Elementary and Southwest High School before continuing his education at the University of Missouri, where he was a proud member of the ZBT fraternity.

After college, Albert served in the U.S. Air Force and was stationed in San Antonio. Upon returning to Kansas City, he joined the family business, Central Bag Company. His vision and leadership helped grow the company

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by expanding from textiles and burlap to paper multi-wall bags, forging a pivotal partnership with Regis Paper Company that ensured the company’s long-term success.

Albert met his life partner, Cecille Solow, at a party with mutual friends. They quickly fell in love, married and shared a beautiful life together for 67 years. Together, they raised three daughters — Lori, Vicki and Rhonda — and Albert found immense joy in his grandchildren, Mollie, Brandon, Claire, Cole and Camille. He was later blessed with two great-grandchildren.

Albert had a passion for cooking and was known for his homemade jams, bagel chips, peach milkshakes and signature Big Al’s BBQ sauce. In retirement, he enjoyed life in Palm Springs, spending time golfing, playing bridge, and later, day trading while watching MSNBC.

He will be remembered as a kind and generous man with a wonderful sense of humor.

Albert is survived by his wife, Cecille; daughters Lori (Mark) Towster, Vicki Silverman and Rhonda Shafran; and his cherished grandchildren and great-grandchildren. He was preceded in death by his parents, Milton and Diana Silverman; his sister, Maryon Jacobs; and his brother, Ted Silverman.

A memorial service was held at Louis Memorial Chapel on Nov. 2.

In lieu of flowers, the family suggests donations to a charity of your choice.

Online condolences for the family may be left at louismemorialchapel. com..

Renee Robinow Soskin

Renee Soskin passed away peacefully and surrounded by loved ones on Oct. 14, one week after her 91st birthday.

She was born in Corsica, South Dakota, on Oct. 7, 1934, to Harry and Augusta Gelfand, the youngest of two. Renee was a loving wife, mother, grandmother and great-grandmother. She lived by the mantra “attitude and gratitude,” exemplifying the power of a positive attitude and what it can achieve.

Renee’s perseverance carried her through the deaths of her beloved first

husband of 25 years, Sidney Robinow; her beloved second husband of 22 years, Arnold Soskin; and her beloved partner, Stan Sweitzer. She is survived by her three sons, Jay Robinow, Douglas Robinow and Bennett Robinow; two daughters-in-law, Marjorie Robinow and Amy Robinow; five grandchildren, Hannah Robinow, Joseph Robinow (Naomi), Aaron Robinow (Calyn) and David (Simona) Robinow; and two great-granddaughters, Rosie Robinow and Milou Robinow.

Known to many as “The Velvet Hammer,” Renee’s energetic and cando spirit began at a very young age. She was a cheerleader in high school, won the Daughters of the American Revolution college scholarship and worked in her family’s store, where she developed her keen knack for business.

Renee attended the University of Minnesota, where she met her husband, Sidney Robinow. They married in 1955 and soon after began an adventure together in Zurich, Switzerland, where Sidney attended medical school and they had their first son, Jay. Upon returning to the States, Renee and Sidney had their second and third sons, Doug and Bennett, before finally settling down in Des Moines, Iowa, where Sidney began his surgical practice.

Bennett was born with significant mental handicaps, and Renee responded, in her usual way, with vision and action. She founded a unique special education center, the Prescribed Activity Center, for Bennett and other similarly disabled children, and later developed the Shalom Home, a group home for handicapped Jewish adults, ensuring that Bennett and others like him would have a dignified place to live.

Never one to sit still, Renee also became active in the Chamber of Commerce, creating programming for convention attendees and their spouses. After the sudden passing of Sidney at the age of 52, Renee responded with courage and determination and built her own business, Des Moines Tour and Convention Services, in order to support her family.

In time, Renee found love again with her second husband, Arnold Soskin, and together they shared a rich and active life. They became “snowbirds,” splitting their time between Minneapolis, Minnesota, and Key Biscayne, Florida, and enjoyed drinking Arnold Palmers, playing tennis, attending the ballet and many happy moments until his passing in 2008. Later, she found companionship and joy with Stan Sweitzer, with whom she shared her life until his passing in 2012.

Throughout all of life’s changes, Renee’s family remained at the center of her world. She was a devoted mother and a doting grandmother and great-grandmother. She was also a keen investor, a lover of art, and she always appreciated “the three C’s: Cookies, Candy and Carbs.” She was some-

one who believed deeply in showing up — for people, for causes and for life itself.

Even as she faced significant challenges throughout her life, Renee continued to meet each day with a positive spirit. She never stopped dressing for the occasion, celebrating milestones or staying engaged with her family and friends. She joyfully celebrated her 91st birthday, still looking forward to more moments with those she loved.

Renee’s life was defined not by its hardships but by its celebrations, adventures and deep connections. She built communities, nurtured relationships and met life with elegance and resolve. May her memory be a blessing, and her spirit of hard work and compassion be an inspiration to all who knew her.

Burial was in Des Moine, Iowa, followed by a shiva at the Robinows’ in Overland Park, Kansas.

Gerald “Jerry”

Arthur Wacknov

Gerald Arthur Wacknov died unexpectedly on Oct. 10 at age 86.

Jerry was born on July 13, 1939, to Alex and Sadie Wacknov in Kansas City, Missouri. Jerry was the fifth of six children: Leonard (z”l), Paul, Donna, Betty (z”l) and David. After graduating from Southwest High School, Jerry attended Washington University in St. Louis, Missouri, and then the University of Missouri in Kansas City, where he graduated with a B.A. in economics. He married Myrna Cooper in 1963 and graduated from Columbia Law School in 1964. Jerry and Myrna then returned to Kansas City to start a family, and he began working as an attorney for the National Labor Relations Board (NLRB). In 1976, Jerry was appointed as an administrative law judge. Consequently, the family relocated to the San Francisco Bay Area. Jerry retired in 2014 after a 50-year career with the NLRB. In retirement, he spent his time following his passions: reading, hiking, bicycling and especially creating artistic furniture and sculptural pieces.

Jerry will be greatly missed by Myrna, his loving wife of 62 years; his sons, Bill, Kevin and Joel; his daughters-inlaw, Lisa and Eve-Marie; his grandsons, Nicolas and Noah; Nicolas’s fiancée, Kelsey; his siblings Paul, Donna and David; his sister-in-law, Chris; and many nieces, nephews and friends.

A memorial service was held on Oct. 16 at Peninsula Sinai Congregation in Foster City, California. In lieu of flowers, the family suggests making a donation to the Michael J. Fox Foundation for Parkinson’s Research or to any other charitable organization supporting and promoting humanitarian causes in honor of Jerry’s love for all people, especially those in need.

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1951, efforts to identify the remains were suspended.

“It was always a painful question mark,” Dr. Gilman said. “When somebody dies during a war and there’s no body recovered, it leaves an empty feeling.”

More than six decades later, in 2014, the DPAA started the Cabanatuan Project to identify the unknown remains that had been reinterred from Cabanatuan to Manila. The Department of Defense collected DNA samples from family members of missing soldiers, including Brooks, her sister and her niece, to help verify identities of the deceased.

In January 2019, the DPAA exhumed, inspected and began attempting to identify remains associated with Common Grave 707 at Cabanatuan. One set of remains, though incomplete, was for a “male individual of European ancestry” who matched the height, age and dental profiles of Garelich. To confidently determine if the remains were Garelich’s, the DPAA compared DNA from the teeth and bones to DNA collected from family members of missing soldiers from the Cabanatuan Project.

On Oct. 7, 2024, after multiple tests from anthropologists, odontologists and DNA analysts, the DPAA shared the news that they had found the remains of Sgt. Simon Garelich.

Garelich’s family members — nieces, nephews, cousins and their children — were informed last year. Brooks became the main point of contact for the U.S. Army and organized the arrangements for the reinterment. An Army major from Fort Leavenworth came to Brooks’ home and met with her and her cousins to discuss the process of returning Garelich’s remains and organizing a ceremony and reinterment.

Garelich was entitled to burial at a military cemetery like Fort Leavenworth National Cemetery, but Brooks was adamant that he be buried in the

Jewish cemetery where many of his family members are buried — Sheffield Cemetery.

“He was 22 when he died. He hardly had lived with the family, so I wanted him buried where the family was,” Brooks said.

The military arranged for Garelich’s remains to be flown to Kansas City in a casket draped in an American flag. Family members, policemen and airport staff gathered on the tarmac at the Kansas City International Airport to honor Garelich as the casket was unloaded and carried by Army soldiers to a nearby hearse.

As the airplane taxied down the runway, two Kansas City International Airport fire trucks shot arcs of water over the plane “to commemorate [Garelich’s] return,” according to airport Deputy Director of Aviation Justin Meyer.

A ceremony sponsored by the U.S. Army and Department of Defense was held at Sheffield Cemetery on Oct. 5. Louis Memorial Chapel handled the reinterment, and Rabbi Talia Kaplan of Congregation Beth Shalom led the religious portion of the service.

“It was a very special ritual, and I was humbled to be a part of it,” Rabbi Kaplan said. “Because it is a reinterment and not a funeral, we still bury the remains by placing earth on the casket, but we do not recite the full funeral liturgy.”

In addition to words from family members and a eulogy, the service included a prayer written by a Jewish member of the Armed Forces shortly after World War II and read by Rabbi Kaplan. Soldiers presented the flag to Brooks, and Jewish War Veterans Post 605 provided a display case for it.

“There was a seriousness and a caringness on [the soldiers’] faces,” Brooks said. “They didn’t know [Garelich], but he was a soulmate because he was a soldier.”

Both Brooks and Dr. Gilman expressed gratitude for the efforts of the Armed Forces and government in identifying and returning the remains

and facilitating the burial.

“They are to be commended for the efforts and the time they’ve invested in this,” Dr. Gilman said. “It’s amazing.”

“It went so smoothly, like it had been planned for years,” Brooks said.

“I would say that the whole procedure, starting with the government and the military contacting us to the way it was booked [and the funeral itself], was an absolutely perfect and unbelievable process. You couldn’t have done any better.

“I’m very family oriented and was close to all 10 of my grandmother’s

children,” Brooks continued. “...Since I’m the oldest one left and I knew [my uncle] the longest, it just meant so, so much to me.”

Brooks also expressed gratitude to Alana Schneider at Louis Memorial Chapel and Rabbi Kaplan, who both helped ensure the Jewish burial was facilitated properly.

With Garelich finally at rest, his family has received the closure they never thought they’d get.

“We are considering this a good thing,” Brooks said. “He came home, and he’s with family.”

A casket containing the remains of Sgt. Simon Garelich is unloaded from an airplane at the Kansas City International Airport on Tuesday, Sept. 30. (MCI Deputy Director of Aviation Justin Meyer)

Kansas City International Airport fire trucks shot arcs of water to commemorate Sgt. Simon Garelich’s return to the United States. (MCI Deputy Director of Aviation Justin Meyer)

Thank you for your sacrifice and service to our nation. Our family and community thank you today, and every day!

Jeremy & Liron