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the next headline. The hopelessness without becomes the hopelessness within. Just to survive, we separate ourselves further and further. Ultimately our aim is not merely to ties frombut thistoinner realm.Today, We don’t do survive live fully. to live this isto no getlonger a better understanding, fully about self-gratificaand often is no coherent explation. It is athere transcendent awareness nation. Instead, thereisisnorevelation, that as the One, there peace or an uncovering of the mysterious that wellbeing possible while another sufbringsThe insight, andcaring guidfers. way ofinspiration love teaches ancesharing, but remains always a mystery. and compassion and deep Thereforisall. a purpose forare every asrespect We know we happipectwhen of our livesconnected. and a protocol for est we feel manifesting as the life, divine. When we ithonour withTrust all itsis the key. Total that whatever you diversity and trust astonishing multiplicarequite creating now, peace it is always about ity, naturally is present. manifesting Peace is onetheofdivine. those qualities that Your life is aWemessage to the divine. is indivisible. are either at peace Your journey or not.life, We your talk ofstories, ‘fightingyour for peace’? haspeace no other purpose thanfrom to manino is going to come fightfest the form.means ‘a violent ing. Thedivine word initself To do this we have know life’s struggle involving the to exchange of sweetestblows gift, which love.ofActually, physical or theis use weaplife is More love but we can experience life ons’. importantly, fighting for either from love peace keepstheusperspective locked in aofconor its opposite, fear. Life separation lived in love sciousness of division, means that you trust that everything and conflict. - every experience, every ‘As within, so without’ - anobstacle, alchemeverywisdom tribulation there for the ical of the- isAncient Ones, single purpose to the handed down to ofusawakening through generadivine.ofWhen your life a painful extions ignorance andisfinally coming perience one way another, it isfor an to light. Ifinwithin youorare fighting invitation to remember, recognise, peace, without will be a to reflection of to realise. of the invitation, this duality,Because this polarity of incompatlife isenergies. perfect exactly as it is. ible Love has many qualities perWhen I think of the greatbut peacehaps theofmost demanding of makers our time - nelson quality Mandela, love, is trust. If youAung can San accept Mahatma Gandhi, Suuthe Kyiin-vitation, rise tothey a freedom they don’ttrust fightgives for peace, stand andpeace spaciousness the face of the for and theyinstand so powermostinchallenging experiences. fully a consciousness of peaceTrust that thatcan youfeel arethe walking yourofpath exactly we strength their love as you need to walknot it. You and deep respect, justmay for trip, the stumble,condition even fall but along but human forthe theway, whole spectrum of existence. As an integral quality of love,

and respecting its messages. I have long understood this but I am now so much more receptive, aler t and respectful. The other is the gift of choice and creative choice at that. Do I go along with what the doctors say (and if so, which one?) or do I withhold agreement manifest peace is my found through and a very short differently? This does journey within, into not the mean hear tI fly andin facejourney of their wisdom. athevast without.This Whatmeans doesI take vast responsibility for it,like? trusting my this journey look It looks guidance forand theflows, rightalways suppor t and harmonious toward I confessItI includes came close to atreatment. natural balancing. many, handing responsibility but my many actsover of kindness and some of antennae forespecially fear stoodof me in good forgiveness, ourselves. As I writerights this, I cannot tell you Itstead. recognises as universal a story resolution but Ibe canabused, tell you and thatofnothing should of my resolution to trust that life is wasted and squandered - nothing perfect as it is. and no exactly one. It sees that everything is Trust deconstructs the dynamic story of precious and sacred in this fear. Toofbelife.willing to trust that it is all dance divine invites transformaAs adesign process, lifereal guides us totion. Every joy andIt every in life wards the light. opensbump pathways is recognised the divine matrix that initiate our as heartfelt desires. But designed to first growcleanse and evolve, not Initiates must the blocks just you but from the whole that that keeppersonally us separate our true you are. Then we flow, we dance with lineage. Imperfection invitation to a light footprint, iswethe follow our bliss realise perfection is always, and gift the life with our truethat humanity. already here.

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to instant gratification in many areas new being, whose circumstances of life, including those where such an were unsuitable for the ways of the expectation is simply dysfunctional. ancients. Theweslyare,man, therefore, beginning. our being. To recall hamlet’s The teachings of Armenian mystic did not withdraw from the in our right The Gurdjieffian path to becom- famous question,world we forfeit George Ivanovitch Gurdjieff who was human orderbeing to achieve enlightenment; ing a fully developed to be. In effect, we choose not to be. revolves around of key learned Or to put ithow yet another way, we cease active in the first half of the 20th cen-a number but instead to work concepts and practices, the mostwithtonormal be; we lose with our soul. tury, revolved around the developcreatively life touch conditions with STEPHEn DEnHAM with STePhen DenhAM fundamental of these being attenModern studies reveal there is ment of an awarenesstion. of energy and andofdemands. The ‘self-rememAttention is the basis “self- a substantial level of mental effor t practical effor ts to remembering” enhance one’s bering’ exercises andto tasks given work on by which Gurdjieff required simultaneously personal manifestation of it.theGurdjieff to students their all-round meant process of being present fostered multiple tasks. Multitasking is counto what doing – that is, going -terproductive for two basic reasons: referred to his approach as one ‘theisway development physically demanding life without distracted 1) employees simply cannot multitask of the sly man’. And about perhaps it is abeing so work, the seeing and non-expression or divided. With sustained effor t, like a computer, and so switching from The ideas of the Armenian mystic statement linked closely to his view testimony to the low public profile ofwas a of learning to results self-remembering keynegative factor in emotions one task and to another ultimately George Ivanovitch Gurdjieff (1866- that in the normal flux of life we are a his pupils, that this way is rarely ac- the detach one’s gradually breaking hypnosisoneself of in from loss of time thoughts and efficiency; and 1949) may at first glance seem far collection of many different selves or knowledged or heardday-to-day of today. life, Whatthe rulership of the through sustained 2) theself-observation. demand and effor t involved removed discussion of multi“I”s. forKirlian each of photography us, at any given moThere is from morea to chemistry than the of nature and accident and the vagaries of generates ever the case, does it law haveof something In today’s world of considerable informationstress for tasking in the 21st century – and yet ment, there may be a different “I” in beakers and Bunsen burners many the human aura suggests that enerof our-the way employees, overGurtime can have to offer us in 2012? the many “I”s - those parts overload, of the which sly man key elements of his teachings speak charge, depending on our emotional selves with different needs and wants additional negative consequences for ofto us recall from our high school getic fields are a defining attribute only complement current thinking us now with a striking relevance. state or the situation at hand. In this The way of the sly- that mankeep wasuspredjieff first demonstrated to Western in a state of waking workplace productivity. days. Chemistry can alsosorefer living on an everyday BY JERABEk and the findings sented of workplace life isJAAN accelerating in 2012, muchto the divided of state, we things; cannot dowhile because as astudies, short cutslumber. to the breaking of theare 20th According to thissociety system, in thethe early Manypart strategies suggested by but reveal a whole other dimension quality each us like attracts level it islist common to self experience difso that of theenergy old can of seem there isand no consistent, reliable Things were notdays always going well for the goes on. But behind all vastsleep’ majorityGurdof men andcentury women are of the habitual ‘waking today’sas psychologists to counteract presents surprisingly to how we might approach life in this notprojects very long ago – saygiven two or three directing our behaviour. 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One of a recent batch of that forms ofbeckons nuclear fission gravitational converges into the energy about a state of balanceInsight from which all commendable ways to becoming Magazine and Living Now add power and magnetism to her run 24/7. I literally used to think so ter” if your dad was inclined that way so on. bodily discipline, including magnetism to her message. Author us another way. In the early 1920s he courses rolled out to companies and relationships andthrough the individual could begin to awaken Hisgood to use the Gurdforces acting between earth and as a“Iresult. newspaper. bookhouseholders, ‘A Plate of Eggs’ message. 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Despite transformative power of love. She is of love. She is a psychologist and This raises big questions formateship us presents itselfSince in questions would be so active. 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If soul is a quinpeace. would The job of the therapist/healer/faciliof their inner self spiritual teachings cipline of studying practicesDepression - with the purpose ofcome wak- and ness environment, multi-tasking is mising the integrity (www.leonis.org) offersprivate courses and private sessions. When we jump from onebased task togroup an- Leonis and sessions. She also runs tessential aspect of what it means to been cited as an influence on the cannot be dismissed as irrelevant or succumbing to stress or burnout. ing addictions humanity fromwould what hecome calledand its go. now recognised stressful, even aware go, tator is toashelp you become of and ideas. The way ofother, the we slygenerate man or a stress dedicated to bringing thewebenefits She also runs retreats in the Promised that combe human, should beofconcerned retreats in the Promised Land, a female menstrual cycle and linked to today. 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