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ELECTION EDITION

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Welcome to the Election Edition of Hotspots, probably the most important issue of the year (and our lives for that matter). I don't know about you but, between Covid-19 and what feels like four years of political campaigning, I'm spent. I remember the day I watched Donald and Melania Trump come down that escalator at Trump Tower and, I know many people are hoping that there is a reverse button on that very same escalator. The bottom line is that it is up to us to decide if the president should get four more years in the White House or, get sent back to Trump Tower to sort out his tax returns. In this edition of Hotspots, you will find it filled with helpful information about election issues, (because you can't get enough) candidates' positions and ballot recommendations for all who want to revel in the drama of voting on election day. By now you have heard that Pope

Francis said that: “Homosexua people have the right to be in civil union� Wow, talk about a 'come to Jesus' moment and I mean no disrespect. And yet, i completely inverse reality, wit the installation of Amy Coney Barrett on the Supreme Court two-thirds of the justices on th highest court in the land will b opponents of marriage equali As such, I hope you enjoy the George Freeman article which timely to say the least. Remember that complacen cost Hillary Clinton the electio four years ago and complacen can literally kill you if you let y guard down and forget to soci distance. As a husband, father and grandfather, (yes, I'm old) implore you to step up, vote a have your voices heard while staying safe at all times. We w get through this. Afterall, we i the LGBTQ+ community have faced many challenges before we always rise up and bitch-sl them back down until they ris again. Take care and love one another.


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Valentine’s Gift Guide 2021

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Couples in Love 6 Love Stories We Celebrate

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Couples in Love 6 Love stories we Celebrate!

By Scott Holland

Love is the universal language, and its always interesting to see how couples met, how long they have been together and what makes their love so special. Therefore we asked some of the couples we know to answer a few questions: What makes your love so special? All love is special, the most powerful energy in existence, ours is no different… we felt it when we irst met and we are still both greatly in love with each other some 17 years later. Michael Connell & James Walker How did you meet? We meet at local gay bar, by the pool table.

Dr. Ferdinand Cabrera & Dimitri Bakoulis Dr. Ferdinand Cabrera & Dimitri Bakoulis How did you meet? We met in a classic gay way…“the gym.”

How long have you been together? We will be together for 17 years this June… our irst date was at the Stonewall Parade in Wilton Manors back in 2004.

Michael Connell & James Walker


How long have you been together? Been together 6 years, and married 1 year.

What makes your love so special? We share mutual views on most things in life, and enjoy each other's company. We have true love for each other! Steve Ryan & Derrick Bowling How did you meet?

How long have you been together? 7 years

Steve Ryan & Derrick Bowling

We met at a dinner followed by a night out on the town with mutual friends. How long have you been together? We have been together for just over 18 years.

What makes your love so special? After all of these years, we encourage and celebrate each other's individuality, but we still thoroughly enjoy every minute of time that we spend together. Max & Lauren Zaslavsky How did you meet? I was dating her friend, and she broke up with me on super bowl Sunday. I had friended Lauren months prior because my ex was going to set her up with a friend of mine.

Months passed, and I posted on FB, does anyone want to go see Justin Timberlake with me, and Lauren wrote that she would. We met at the hard rock a week before the show. Talked for hours at the Irish pub that use to to be there. She didn't know if I was interested, I didn't know if she was interested. By the time we got to Justin Timberlake, a week later, I think we had a good idea. Then I tore my Achilles, she moved in to “take care of me,� and never left.

Max & Lauren Zaslavsky

What makes your love so special? Because she balances me out. I'm high strung and she's calm. Also, she gets my sense of humor and she has a great sense of humor.

Matt Colunga & Chris Smith How did you meet? I met Chris when he was naked on stage


Matt Colunga & Chris Smith

Christopher was living there at the time and helped run the meet and greet. We lirted that night, kept in touch, and he moved to Florida a little less than a year later.

How long have you been together? Well, our irst of icial date was New Year's Eve of 2013 and we have basically been together ever since. So, 8 years now.

at Swinging Richards Atlanta in 2003

What makes your love so special? Our love is special because it sees beyond all size, shape, gender, and presentation. We see each other for real, and we choose to love each other because of what so many overlook in the other. We have been tested and tried in so many ways, and we continue to love and persevere.

How long have you been together? 17 years together

What makes your love so special? We bring out the best in each other.

Latrice Royale and Christopher Hamblin How did you meet? We met at a show I was doing in Knoxville, TN.

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WHAT’S HOT

By Scott Holland

What’s HOT FEBRUARY 4 - 17

newcomer pageant. There were 7 contestants, and congrats goes out to Sasha Fierce on her win!

Last Thursday was a busy day of events around South

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Florida. Hunters presented the return of Pam Ann to the stage. If you have ever seen Pam perform you know how hysterical she is, but no worries if you missed this performance as she will be at Hunters every Thursday at 7:30pm through February 18.

Afterwards we headed over too Johnsons who was featuring a benefit for Roosters West Palm Beach. If you haven't heard, Rooster burned down many months ago and will be rebuilt. This benefit which raised thousands of dollars was to

help re-build. Congrats to Matt, Chris, and the entire staff of Johnsons on a very successful event!

We then went to Miami for the 2nd annual Miss Azucar

The Adrienne Arsht Center is pleased to announce a new lineup of in-person performances continuing with Yoli Mayor, Live on the Plaza at 7:30pm Miami's own powerhouse vocalist Yoli Mayor is a soulful singersongwriter reminiscent of artists like Amy Winehouse and Etta James widely known for making it to the semifinals of “America's Got Talent” in 2017. Mayor shares her passion for music, honesty and heart to make people feel something. As a homegrown Cuban-American artist, Mayor continues to perform globally and will be self-releasing her first EP soon. For tickets, which are only $15 and more information, go to Arshtcenter.org.

Falling premieres today in theaters, on digital and on demand. Falling follows John (Viggo Mortensen) who lives with his partner, Eric (Terry


include actor Marcus Scribner of ABC's “Blackish;” actor Timon Kyle Durrett of OWN's “Queen Sugar;” actor Roshon Fegan of OWN's “Greenleaf;”

Chen), and their daughter, Mó nica (Gabby Velis), in California, far from the traditional rural life he left behind years ago, while his conservative father, Willis (Lance Henriksen), lives alone on the isolated farm where John grew up. In the early stages of dementia, Willis is brought to John's California home to help him relocate. Unfortunately, their best intentions ultimately run up against Willis's adamant refusal to change his way of life in the slightest. uSATURDAY FEB 6

In an effort to change the negative perceptions of African American Men in the media, 5J Entertainment in collaboration with a prominent assembly of Black leaders and professionals is pleased to announce the pioneering documentary “What About Me” which will air in syndication today through February 28. The men featured in the film

attorney Todd Belcore of Social Change; and Civil Rights Attorney J. Wyndal Gordon, The Warrior Lawyer. “What About Me is a riveting look into the experience of African American men and their history in America,” said D. John Jackson of 5J Entertainment. “Black men and boys have endured extreme racism and prejudice in every aspect of their lives from, economics, jobs, politics and even social existence to this very day. Yet, we are still succeeding. However, the struggle continues, and our stories, emotions and traumas need to be explored, heard and discussed.” For more information about the film, please visit us on Facebook and

Instagram at @whataboutmedocumen ta7ry

Claudia Castillo ART studio presents “Anticipation” by Gabriel Garbow, showing today through Apr 2 (SU, WED & TH 4-10pm & Fri & Sat 4-11:45pm or by appointment 954.274.7047. Visit the studio at 2215 Wilton Drive, Wilton Manors or shop ONLINE at claudiacastilloARTstudio.com.

Noche Latina Saturdays at the Manor Complex celebrates Shakira in tribute to her birthday. The night will star Sasha Lords as Shakira as well as Miss Noche Latina 2020/21 Velvet Lenore, and feature the sounds of DJ Duniel. Doors open at 10pm with no cover before 11pm. uSUNDAY FEB 7

The Pub features an Under The Stars Super Bowl Tailgate Party from 4-11pm including a 20 foot screen on the Outdoor patio as well as specials all day. As always socially distanced tables and chairs at The Pub. Flip Flops Dockside Monthly T Dance (first Sunday of every month) takes


place today from 2 to 6pm with two shows. The first is from 2 to 4pm and features Rianna Petrone and Kataleya Davenport and the second show is form 4 to 6pm and features Selena Jimenez and Velvet Lenore. DJ Josh Atom Spins all afternoon!

The Alibi/Monkey Bar invites you to come watch the Super Bowl on many TV screens with great specials and the Get Lit Show starring Missy Meyakie LePaige directly following Super Bowl. uFRIDAY FEB 12

The Illuminate Coral Gables exhibition will turn the streets, historic buildings, and public spaces of Coral Gables into a brilliant outdoor museum. With downtown Coral Gables, FL as a threedimensional canvas, this firstof-its-kind exhibition will fill the beautiful city with newly commissioned and existing works by world-renowned local, national & international artists and emerging virtuosos. Unveiling today, Illuminate Coral Gables will bring stunning interactive art, video projections, and light sculptures to the streets of Coral Gables. This free experience will be on view through March 14th from 6 – 10 pm Wednesdays through Sundays.

Make a trip and break out of your shell with Barb and Star. From the gals who brought you Bridesmaids (costars and co-writers Kristen Wiig and Annie Mumolo)

comes Barb & Star Go To Vista Del Mar. Lifelong friends Barb and Star embark on the adventure of a lifetime when they decide to leave their small Midwestern town for the first time…ever. Romance, friendship and a villain's evil plot.

Breaking News in Yuba County premieres today on digital platforms and select theatres. After her husband goes missing, Sue Buttons (Allison Janney), an underappreciated suburban wife, gets a taste of being a local celebrity as she embarks on a citywide search in Yuba County to find him. In an effort to prolong her newfound fame, she stumbles into hilarious hijinks as her world turns upside down, dodging a wanna-be mobster (Awkwafina), a relentless local policewoman (Regina Hall), her half-sister (Mila Kunis) a local news reporter desperate for a story, and her husband's dead-beat brother (Jimmi Simpson), who all set out to uncover the truth behind the disappearance. Breaking News in Yuba County is a dark and twisted comedy that explores the outrageous lengths some will go to in order to garner some much-desired attention. uSATURDAY FEB 13

The Pub features a Cupid's Crush Valentine show hosted by Lady Marisa and featuring Franchesque Richards as well as vocalists Jordana Forrest & Zay at 10pm.

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AIDS Healthcare AIDS Healthcare Foundation presents a virtual Foundation presents a virtual show entitled “Burlesque: A show entitled “Burlesque: A Show About Safer Sex” at Show About Safer Sex” at 8pm. Free tickets available at 8pm. Free tickets available at AHFEvents.org. AHFEvents.org.

Noche Latina Saturdays at Noche Latina Saturdays at the Manor Complex the Manor Complex Celebrates Valentines starring Celebrates Valentines starring

Erika Norell and special guest Erika Norell and special guest Vasti Love Montana, who will Vasti Love Montana, who will be celebrating her birthday. be celebrating her birthday. The night will feature the The night will feature the sounds of DJ Duniel. Doors sounds of DJ Duniel. Doors open at 10pm with no cover open at 10pm with no cover before 11pm. before 11pm. uTUESDAY FEB FEB1616 uTUESDAY

The Alibi/Monkey Bar The Alibi/Monkey Bar presents a special Fresh Face presents a special Fresh Face show in honor of Mardi Gras show in honor of Mardi Gras at 9:30pm. They invite you to at 9:30pm. They invite you to come see a great show and come see a great show and collect your beads. collect your beads.

ArtServe is seeking ArtServe is seeking ecologically thematic works ecologically thematic works and performances that and performances that promote environmental promote environmental awareness and sustainable awareness and sustainable practices; and/or explore practices; and/or explore threats to local and global threats to local and global environments, while environments, while highlighting and drawing a highlighting and drawing a sense of urgency to the human sense of urgency to the human impact in South impact in South Florida's fragile Florida's fragile ecosystem. ecosystem. Through this Through this exhibition and exhibition and educational educational programming, programming, they are aiming they are aiming to celebrate to celebrate climate climate solutions and solutions and ecological ecological sustainability sustainability initiatives; and show initiatives; and show how humanity must how humanity must be anchored and be anchored and connected to the connected to the natural environment natural environment socially, socially, philosophically, philosophically, economically, and economically, and spiritually. The fee to submit spiritually. The fee to submit is $25 – ArtServe Members, is $25 – ArtServe Members, and $40 – Non-Members at and $40 – Non-Members at https://artserve.org/portfolio https://artserve.org/portfolio -item/call-to-artists-changing-item/call-to-artists-changinglandscapes. Submission landscapes. Submission deadline is Friday, February deadline is Friday, February 12th at 11pm EST 12th at 11pm EST

Two Bad Tourists Name 2 Two Bad Tourists Name 2 South Florida Hotels South Florida Hotels Two Bad Tourists named 2 Two Bad Tourists named 2 south Florida hotels on their 5 south Florida hotels on their 5 top Cool gay Hotels. Congrats top Cool gay Hotels. Congrats to (below are quotes): to (below are quotes): Hôtel Gaythering (Miami) tel Gaythering (Miami) Hô Located in South Beach where Located in South Beach where prestigious Lincoln Rd meets prestigious Lincoln Rd meets

the Bay. More than just a the Bay. More than just a hotel, Gaythering is a place hotel, Gaythering is a place where you can meet, socialize where you can meet, socialize and enjoy a laid back Miami and enjoy a laid back Miami vibe. vibe.

The Grand (Fort Lauderdale) The Grand (Fort Lauderdale) Fort Lauderdale boasts Fort Lauderdale boasts roughly 15 gay-specific guest roughly 15 gay-specific guest houses, hotels and resorts. For houses, hotels and resorts. For the most elegant and the most elegant and luxurious of the bunch, we luxurious of the bunch, we recommend The Grand Resort recommend The Grand Resort located just off the beach in located just off the beach in the center of town. the center of town.

Artserve Seeking Works Artserve Seeking Works that Promote that Promote Environmental Awareness Environmental Awareness

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Valentine’s Gift Guide

2021 49 Items I Recommend

By Scott Holland Valentine's Day is one of my favorite holidays, as it celebrates love. Below, I have written about many items that I am sure your loved ones would like. If you are single, then buy some for yourself. I wish everyone a wonderful Valentines Day! LIQUOR Tequila Herradura - Bottle Sizes: 750ml - Herradura.com

Silver ($46) - is matured in American white oak barrels for 45 days, imparting a light straw color and woody aroma. Vanilla and citrus characters complement the flavor of sweet agave. The smooth, clean profile of Tequila Herradura Silver has maintained its reputation as one of the finest tequilas in the world.

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Reposado ($49) - Aged beyond industry standard, Reposado's deep copper color and rounded taste set Reposado apart, along with its signature aroma of anise and spices. Casa Herradura created the reposado category in 1974 and set the standard. Then surpassed it. Reposado, meaning "rested," is aged for eleven months, nine months longer than the industry standard. The tastes of vanilla, butter and agave work in unison to create a smooth and sweet experience.

Anejo – ($59) - has a deliberately smooth taste that melts across your tongue, with hints of dried fruit and toasted oak. Age is not just a number. Añejo matures in the barrel for 25 months, more than twice the 1-year age requirement. This patience is rewarded with a beautiful amber color and a complex, spicy taste. Tequila Herradura Añejo was introduced to the world by Casa Herradura in 1962. Dos Maderas Rum 5+5 ($35.99) A Rum that has travelled the world. Dos Maderas, meaning "Two Woods", is a combination of Guyanese and Bajon rums aged in New American Oak barrels in their respective production countries. After five years, the rums journey across the Atlantic Ocean to Jerez, where they are blended together by master blender Paola Medina. The combination of the light bouquet and sweetness of the Barbadian rum combined with the robust body of the Guyanese rum creates the perfect base for all Dos Maderas rums. The rum then rests for an additional 3 years in casks of 20-year-old Palo Cortado, followed by 2 years in casks of 20-year-old Pedro Ximenez

Broken Shed Vodka ($29.99) Based out in Wanaka, New Zealand, each bottle of Broken Shed Vodka is crafted through a blend of two distinct water sources from New Zealand and sustainable whey distillate. The resulting vodka is all natural with no added sugars, no additives and is both gluten and GMO-free. The perfect vodka to enjoy on Valentine's Day.

Partida Tequila Blanco ($37.99) In Mexico, many say that tequila is a natural aphrodisiac. It is said in Redolent of blue agave, Partida Blanco is brilliant, clean and crisp; very floral, with notes of citrus. Well balanced with a fresh, pure agave flavor and a pleasant finish that lingers gently on the palate. Unlike any other Blanco and perfect for Valentine's Day cocktails.

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The Busker Irish Whiskey ($30) The Busker is a “new to world” Irish Whiskey that is born out of a modern Ireland, where the contemporary and bold meet at the crossroads of tradition. The Busker includes all four types of Irish whiskeys (Single Grain, Single Pot Still, Single Malt and Blend), and is produced under one roof at the world-class Royal Oak Distillery, the only distillery in Ireland to produce all four types. No matter their preference, The Busker portfolio offers an expression for your special someone!

Aperol – 750 ml ($25.99) Is the perfect aperitif. Its unique bittersweet taste and bright orange color derive from a secret and original recipe, that has remained unchanged over time. An infusion of ingredients including oranges, herbs and roots. The 'Perfect Serve' Recipe - In a glass full of ice, combine Prosecco followed by Aperol in equal parts. Add a splash of soda and garnish with an orange slice.

HEALTH & BEAUTY

Eraclea – Eracleaskincare.com The eraclea philosophy is to not only meet their client's high expectations, but also to raise the bar in the skin care industry by offering a luxurious line of nourishing, rejuvenating products that demonstrate proven effectiveness at an affordable price.

Revitalize EGF Serum - $225 - This new product uses synthetic EGF, this potent age-defying treatment revitalizes skin as it improves the appearance of fine lines, wrinkles, photo-aging, skin tone & texture.

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Reveal Advanced Brightening Cream - $95 - A multifunctional cream with Drone Technology using dual encapsulated super-peptides to address skin imperfections such as uneven skin tone and discoloration.

Hemp Beauty Bright Day Face Cream - $40 (1.7 FL OZ) - hempbeautypro.com This Rosehip Oil + Aloe Vera based cream brightens your day with this light-weight CBD-enhanced face cream that helps improve moisture and collagen levels while protecting skin from free radical damage.

Perfect Image – PerfectImage.com Their Social Mission is to support a culture for greater empathy and education for those struggling with skin concerns. Sea Whip Cucumber Detox Soothing Gel – ($29.95 – 2 oz) An array of skin soothing and repairing ingredients help hydrate and calm irritated and sensitive skin in this refreshing moisturizing gel. Excellent after a sunburn, wax, mask, chemical peel or other facial treatment.

Anti-Aging Peptide MegaMUD – ($29.95 – 2 oz) This advanced Anti-Aging MUD treatment combines nutrient-rich clays and healthful botanicals to remove dirt and skin debris to reveal visibly smoother, silkier skin.

Exfoliating & Clarifying UltraMUD - ($29.95 – 2 oz) Clinical strength treatment that combines the exfoliating and cleansing properties of both a mud mask and peel. This mask helps clear the way for a softer, brighter skin appearance.

MicroluminaTM Exfoliating Facial Scrub - ($29.95 – 2 oz) This exfoliator combines Volcanic Sand and Dead Sea Salt to draw out impurities, buff away dull, dead skin cells, while Micro Alumina crystals resurface your skin for a more polished and smoother skin surface. VALENTINE’S GIFT GUIDE 2021 • VALENTINE’S GIFT GUIDE 2021 • VALENTINE’S GIFT GUIDE 2021 • VALENTINE’S


Oracle Jayne Station - oraclejaynestation.com Fragrances have always been marketed based on memories, emotions, and experiences. Rarely do they actually have anything to do with either. Usually, what's inside the bottle, contains very little from the natural world. Oracle Jayne Station challenges all that. Everything she makes is about genuine moments in her life, and an authentic heritage. HOWL Hand & Body Bar Soap ($18) - Designed to mimic the desert sky over Arizona, this exclusive blend of organic coconut oil and salt soap is made from scratch, and infused with organic black charcoal, Mexican sea salt, black pepper, and vetiver. Sparkling like the desert sky at night. Gently exfoliating to make you howl. HELD Whipped Shea Butter – ($38) - Made with organic and Fair-Trade shea butter, this whipped texture is minimally processed in order to maintain the natural, skin-nourishing properties of shea that have been trusted by holistic healers for thousands of years. It has a lighter feel than solid body butters, has a fluffy, non-greasy texture that smoothly on hands or all over the body, a comforting fragrance. HOWL/HELD Eau De Parfums ($105) - Two captivating, sexy, and seductive fragrances just in time for Valentine's Day. This collection features two contrasting and coordinating fragrances, sold separately, and great for couples or singles of all genders. Choose the one that fits your mood, layer them together, or get one for you and one for your partner.

Arctic Fusion CBD Roll-On Gel vwelshop.com ($54.99) This is easy to apply and quickly relieves sore muscles, joints, chronic pain, and stiffness. The roll-on applicator targets specific areas to deliver fast-acting relief. It mimics the application of ice, which increases blood flow to the affected area, and stimulates the healing process.

Unwrapped Life Hangover Detox Body Bar unwrappedlife.com – ($13) By harnessing the power of activated bamboo charcoal and bohemian black kaolin clay, this bar rejuvenates even the most neglected skin, drawing out unwanted impurities and toxins. Healing benefits of Marula and Tamanu oil round out this formulation, along with the anti-inflammatory properties of ginseng extract. Scented with an intoxicating blend of refreshing citrus notes of bergamot and blood orange, tangled with deep earthy aromas of patchouli and cedar wood.

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Non Gender Specific Everything Cream - nongenderspecific.com – ($58) A luxurious moisturizing face cream that works to deliver phytonutrients and hydration deep into the skin, thanks to 23 powerful botanicals. This formula works to nourish the skin with natural oils that absorb quickly and are never greasy, leaving skin feeling soft with the appearance of brighter skin, refined pores and reduced redness.

WINES/ CHAMPAGNES

Date Night Stunners Case wineinsiders.com/wine-gift-set/dinner-for-twocase; One of each bottle - $99; Two of each bottle $170. Red, white & rosé to heat up your date: 2018 Fox and the Flock Pinot Noir; 2019 L'arca Chardonnay Sicily I.G.T.; 2018 George Phillips Cellars Reserve Selection No. 013 Cabernet Sauvignon; 2019 Rotondo Frappato Sicily I.G.T.; 2019 Pierofosco Toscana Rosé I.G.T.; and 2019 De La Rougerie Sauvignon Blanc

Les Dauphins 2019 Rose ($12.99) A delightfully easydrinking rosé which is matured for 2 to 6 months to produce a perfectly pink and fabulously light-bodied wine. The flavors are sophisticated and refreshing, with notes of citrus and summer fruits (think strawberry and red cherry with a hint of green apple) that linger gorgeously on the palate. This wine needs no food pairing to back it up and is delicious on its own – a great Valentine's Day gift to share with loved ones.

Codorníu Zero Brut AlcoholAnna de Codorníu Brut Free (SRP: $11) Rosé D.O Cava (SRP: $15) A delicious alcohol-free A pink Cava from Spain's sparkling wine obtained by famous Catalonia region, just dealcoholizing. A shiny pale outside of Barcelona. This yellow with fine bubbles, fresh Spanish bubbly is light on the citrus flavors, and tropical fruit palate and with aromas of red combines perfectly with any fruit, strawberries, and occasion that requires an cherries. Well balanced alternative pleasure—fine bubble, between acidity and fruity character, and harmonious. sweetness with a refreshing Codorníu Zero is not only a finish. Anna de Codorníu Brut perfect toast but a great Rosé is a perfect aperitif wine, accompaniment to appetizers, pair with creamy cheeses, seafood, salads with fruits or sharp cheese, or a salty flowers, fish and vegetables, charcuterie assortment. crudités, or desserts. VALENTINE’S GIFT GUIDE 2021 • VALENTINE’S GIFT GUIDE 2021 • VALENTINE’S GIFT GUIDE 2021 • VALENTINE’S


Kim Crawford Rosé – Drizly.com – ($19) Created by founders Kim and Erica Crawford for their friends on Ponsonby Road in Auckland, this Rosé is the “perfect anytime” sipping wine. The secret to Kim Crawford's success is serious attention to detail in the vineyards and winery, with a special focus on sustainable practices, individual vineyard block harvesting, and small lot fermentation. The grapes were harvested, destemmed, and gently crushed direct to press with minimal skin contact. The wine has a vibrant color despite having little time on the skins. Pretty pale pink color with a lively nose, brimming with bright berry and floral notes. This crisp and elegant Rosé is richly fruited with hints of watermelon and fresh berries, leading to a dry finish. Ideal as an aperitif or summer sipper, this easy-drinking wine also pairs perfectly with lighter salads and other fare. Scharffenberger Brut Rose ($29) Valentine's Day in a glass, the Rose has a pale salmon hue with integrated aromas of fresh raspberry jam and wild strawberries on a cream covered pastry base. The flavors are layered, round, fresh, fruity and long. A versatile Rosé to sip during the special day, pair with Tandoori chicken or a seafood risotto.

Nyetimber Classic Cuvee MV ($55) The pale-golden hue and fine bubbles make their flagship Classic Cuvee MultiVintage and is a great sparkling wine to celebrate V-Day with love ones. Following extensive ageing in their cellar (usually more than three years), their Classic Cuvee Multi-Vintage has distinctive toasty and spicy aromas. A palate of honey, almond, pastry and baked apples gives it a hint of decadence. Intense yet delicate, elegant yet complex – it's no wonder it's consistently crowned one of the best English sparkling wines.

MISCELLANEOUS Amped & Co – Hustle Neon Light Ampedandco.com They make unique neon lights that speak to many generations. All the original designs they create have meaning behind them. Their real neon signs are handcrafted from glass by professional benders using the same techniques as vintage neon signs - an artform that requires years of

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Snoozies –Buyersdirectonline.com – ($14.99) One of my favorites is back as Snoozies is featuring special Valentines designs that have caught my eye. Snoozies! are not socks and they're not slippers - sort of a crossover between the two and that's why they are called "foot coverings"!

practice to master. No two pieces are alike, making them a perfect statement piece for any room. Some of the ones I like for Valentine's Day are: Heart LED Wall Light ($59.99) and Diamond Neon Desk Light ($67.99). Ibkul Vino Print Long Sleeve Polo – Ibkul.com – ($94) IBKÜL is a leader in the athletic apparel world and known for their patented IceFil technology that regulates your body temperature as you move, it is moisture wick, and SUPER comfy. This fun colorful wine bottle print polo is perfect for a valentines days trip to a vineyard.Never break a sweat and stay dry in less than forgiving temperatures while protecting yourself with UPF 50+ sun protection.

Casas de Hualdo Olive Oil casasdehualdo.com - ($10.99) New to the United States, Casas de Hualdo is an award-winning Spanish olive oil company and sustainable farm located in a rich area on the shores of the Tagus River, 30 km away from the historical town of Toledo. Modern cultivation and irrigation systems allow Casas de Hualdo to craft unique oils, while preserving their natural heritage. The olives are 100% sourced from the Casas de Hualdo estate in central Spain, and the oil is extracted at the on-site mill within no more than six hours of harvest. To ensure freshness, the estate bottles the oils only on demand. Their revered selection of EVOOs are the result of constant and dedicated work, and they represent the excellence for the Casas de Hualdo team in every step of the elaboration process. VALENTINE’S GIFT GUIDE 2021 • VALENTINE’S GIFT GUIDE 2021 • VALENTINE’S GIFT GUIDE 2021 • VALENTINE’


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n Episode 4 of Season 13, the groups finally got to meet, and the “b” group found out that Eliott with two T's was still in the competition. Now, they were all in the workroom together, and they were told that this week someone would be eliminated. The mini challenge starring in cheesy holiday movies for the new RuPaul Mark channel. They will be disrupting the marketplace with films that celebrate all the other holidays than that of Christmas. Ru randomly assigns teams to mix up the groups. The teams are: Denali, Elliot with 2 Ts., Kahmora, and Olivia – they will be overacting in the Valentine's Day tearjerker called “Misery Loves Company.” Rosé, Lala Ri, Symone, and Utica – they will be overacting in a flag day romantic adventure called “God Loves Flags.” Gottmik, Joey, Kandy Tamisha, and Tina – they will be in a RomCom that celebrates Aprils Fools Day, which is called “April Fools Rush In.”

On the main stage joining Ru, Michelle, and Ross was special guest Loni Love with the runway category set as “Trains for Days.” The top three were Rose, Symone, and Kandi with Symone taking home the cash prize of $5,000. The bottom 2 were Denali and Kahmora. In my opinion, this was the clearest Lip Sync ever in the history of Drag Race with Denali staying and Kahmora sashaying away. It was so clear even Ru said that she feels bad for any of the girls that have to lip sync against Denali in the future. Denali was 100% Pure Love (pun intended). It was a pleasure to sit down with Kahmora for this exclusive Hotspots Interview.

At what age did drag become an interest for you and how did you pick your name? Drag became an interest when I was a freshman in college, like 18. I remember


seeing Tajma Hall perform and the seed was planted. Tajma eventually became my drag mother. My first name came from Kimora Lee Simmons who was very popular at that time. I changed the spelling because I wanted to be unique. My last name came from my drag mom. How excited were you when you got the call that you were cast and what was the first thing you did? Right before I got the call, I took an edible and I got the call when it hit. I couldn't handle it, and I was feeling excited, surprised, and shocked. All I could do was jump up and down. However, I was so paranoid I asked the person for his name and I googled him to make sure it wasn't a prank call.

How hard was it to keep the secret that you were on Drag Race? We are not allowed to tell anybody; therefore, it was very hard to keep the secret. I couldn't wait to share it with everyone a few months later.

Tell us about your RuPaul's Drag Race Season 13 experience? Going in you feel like you are at your best and you know your drag persona. But honestly, on the show, I learned so much about myself and learned to believe in myself. There is a reason RuPaul chose me!

Is there something you wish you had done

differently? I wish I learned how to paint a lot faster, and I wish I had a lot more fun. My inner saboteur jumped out quick. I am now building my self-confidence. Do you think there was more pressure on you since Jaida (your sister) won last season? Yes and no. I knew that being in the house of “Hall” there would be a lot of eyes on me from the judges and other contestants. I was also constantly feeling that I needed to be perfect. But on the other hand, I had to remind myself that I was there for me and I had to build my own legacy. It was my moment to shine.

Without revealing anything you may know, who do you want to win and why? Honestly, I would love any of my Pork Chop girls to make it to the end as we went through this traumatic experience together. But if I had to choose one, it would be my Chicago sister Denali. I am so proud of her.

What's your marital status? I am in a relationship and incredibly happy.

Has your boyfriend become better with your drag? Seeing me in the competition and how passionate I am with drag, made him a lot more accepting. Things are now great!

What's ahead for Kahmora? As the “look queen,” please be on the watch for more fashion and make up collaborations. Underneath all this glamour I am a gamer nerd so please stay tuned to my YouTube channel. Also, when Covid passes, I want to tour and show people that I really am a good performer! For more information on Kahmora, go to Instagram.com/KahmoraHall




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Black Love By Jameer Baptiste

Romance is in the air this month for Valentine's Day but so is black love. No, it's not what you think. Besides Valentine's Day, the month of February holds another signi icant occasion, and this great purpose is throughout February, not just one day of it – Black History Month.

It never seems to end that the community has to ight for equality. Black History Month is a moment in time where the community gets to collectively breathe, promote and celebrate the great contributions they have provided the world. In tribute to the love that is Blacks Who Rock, we here at Hotspots recognize leaders in our very own community that have personi ied Black Excellence.


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Elimination Onyx As one of the founding members of the South Florida Chapter for the leather/kink men of color organization Onyx Deep South, Elimination is an incredible man of strength, love, passion, and grace. Mr. Ramrod 2018 is wholeheartedly dedicated to his communities whether it be the leather community as an engaged celebrated member, a proud gay man in the LGBTQI+ community, or a vocal activist in the minority/POC community. #Enough www.onyxdeepsouth.com

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Nadine Smith Executive Director and one of the founders of Equality Florida (eq l), the peninsula's leading LGBTQI+ advocacy organization, Nadine Smith has been ighting the good ight for LGBTQI+ equality through her organization for over two decades now since it's conception in 1999. Smith is a force to be reckoned with, she channels her love for our community in a way that brings about justice, peace, and change for all of us who live and visit Florida. Her many accolades would consume the pages of the magazine. But know this, she has our back. www.eq l.org

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Tony Davis Nothing says self-love like that of a proud man who brings harmony and peace to a group of individuals who relish a safe space of acceptance and celebration. Tony Davis brings that cherished place to the urban bear community and their admirers with his annual South Florida fun- illed bear experience. Davis has created something unique and empowering with Heetizm Myami – the celebration is a creation of love, acceptance, pride, and joy – all the things that are the pure essence of Davis himself. www.heetizm.com

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Shenika “Nik” Harris Shenika “Nik” Harris Standing up for equality at every Standing up for equality at every turn is Nik Harris. “Attorney, activist, turn is Nik Harris. “Attorney, activist, speaker, and queer melanin magic,” as speaker, and queer melanin magic,” as mentioned on her Facebook, that is mentioned on her Facebook, that is Harris. The unafraid to back down, Harris. The unafraid to back down, always willing to speak up Harris is always willing to speak up Harris is the irst-ever LGBTQ Consumer the irst-ever LGBTQ Consumer Advocate at the Florida Department of Advocate at the Florida Department of Agriculture and Consumer Services. Agriculture and Consumer Services. There's practically nothing in the push There's practically nothing in the push for equality here in South Florida that for equality here in South Florida that Harris hasn't lent her voice, mind, Harris hasn't lent her voice, mind, body, talent, and advocacy to. As body, talent, and advocacy to. As Harris mentioned, “I plan to leave this Harris mentioned, “I plan to leave this world better than I found it.” world better than I found it.”

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Ederick Ederick Johnson Johnson

Ederick Johnson Ederick Johnson A ball of energy and life lives within A ball of energy and life lives within Ederick Johnson that can't help but Ederick Johnson that can't help but explode outward into the hearts of explode outward into the hearts of every soul he encounters. Other than his every soul he encounters. Other than his infectious aura that exudes joy and infectious aura that exudes joy and laughter, is his unwavering commitment laughter, is his unwavering commitment to the LGBTQI+ community and that of to the LGBTQI+ community and that of the black community. He's always the black community. He's always everywhere and yet always present in everywhere and yet always present in heart, body, and mind – we don't know heart, body, and mind – we don't know how he does it all but he gets it done. how he does it all but he gets it done. He's the one that makes you come, stay, He's the one that makes you come, stay, and enjoy in each setting, moment, and and enjoy in each setting, moment, and space. It's no wonder Johnson is called space. It's no wonder Johnson is called upon to lead in faith, community, and upon to lead in faith, community, and worship. worship.

Tatiana Williams Tatiana Williams The headstrong Tatiana Williams has coThe headstrong Tatiana Williams has cofounded the South Florida organization founded the South Florida organization Transinclusive Group Inc (TIG). The Transinclusive Group Inc (TIG). The transgender resource and safe-space nonpro transgender resource and safe-space nonpro it it is the only African-American led trans is the only African-American led trans organization thanks in part to its Executive organization thanks in part to its Executive Director Williams. Along with spearheading Director Williams. Along with spearheading TIG, Williams also lends her time to different TIG, Williams also lends her time to different LGBTQI+ advocacy endeavors throughout LGBTQI+ advocacy endeavors throughout South Florida. You can see her speaking on a South Florida. You can see her speaking on a variety of panels, on the board of directors of variety of panels, on the board of directors of other advocacy organizations, and as an other advocacy organizations, and as an Tatiana Tatiana organizer or leader of marches, vigils, and organizer or leader of marches, vigils, and Williams Williams community groups. community groups. www.transinclusivegroup.org www.transinclusivegroup.org


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Brielle Roundtree It was a proud moment to see the founder, Brielle Roundtree, of a queer and trans people of color book club, make headlines last year in 2020 with an exclusive write up in one of South Florida's gay publication. Bridging the Gap opens the eyes of queer and trans youth and adults to invigorating literature of LGBTQI+ nature and experience. It's not a secret society, however, to maintain the safe-space of the book club, the biweekly discussions are by invitation only. Nonetheless, we couldn't be anymore prouder to read about the great achievement of her endeavors.

Donald Gunder Known for his urban nightlife events, Donald Gunder has recently taken the nonpro it ield by storm as the co-founder and vice president of a newly minted LGBTQI+ organization that is dedicated to the mental health and HIV/AIDS prevention and treatment of the black and brown community, South Florida Afro Pride Foundation Inc. The talents that he has acquired as one of the leading event promoters in the area have helped shine a bright spotlight on the budding organization. If the momentum of the notfor-pro it proves anything it would be Gunder's commitment to its success. www.s loafropridefederation.org

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Lorenzo Robertson

Lorenzo Robertson When it comes to the advocacy for black same gender loving men you can ind Lorenzo Robertson at the helm of the crusade. As Executive Director of the Ujima Men's Collective, Robertson has committed his time to the growth, understanding, and spirituality of the black gay man. Empowerment isn't all that Robertson is made of, the humble married man is also an author, poet, and performance artist. Check out his book Eclectic Essence: Poetry for the Mind, Body, and Spirit online at www.lorenzorobertson.com. www.ujimamen.net


Nevaeh Hilton There's nothing more empowering than a black woman who is on the move to help everyone become a better version of themselves. From #Cop2CEO, the charming Nevaeh Hilton has been in the business of helping people for quite some time now. Other than getting people's credit on track as her newfound day job passion, the credit ixer Hilton keeps the South Florida Urban Pageantry System a loat with her dedication to the artform – without her, it would be somewhat of a dismal arena. And for that, we can't thank her enough because those that know, know it's not easy – it's hard work both behind the scenes and upfront.

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Anthony Winn

Velvet Lenore Velvet Lenore has been a beauty in our community for‌. (a diva never tells!). But what can be said about the enchanting Lenore is that her commitment to South Florida's (including Palm Beach County) LGBTQI+ community has been overwhelmingly abundant. The dancing queen has been bringing us to our feet with applauds for her charismatic stage performances as well as for her ability to give back and form a family unite with individuals here who might otherwise not have that togetherness. It takes a strong woman to build a family and a lasting career on the stage, and Velvet Lenore is just that, a strong enduring woman.

Anthony Winn When someone helps to do something never done before in our community that's worth recognition. And Detroit native Anthony Winn has done just that with the irst-ever Black Excellence Stage graciously provided by our 2019 Wilton Manors Stonewall Pride Parade & Street Festival. But his commitment doesn't just stop there, the powerhouse South Florida club promoter has also led the charge for the irst Black LGBTQI+ Rally in Wilton Manors that happened in June of 2020 during the height of race relations in that year. For that, we give Mr. Winn a round of applause. We can't wait to see what he has instore for 2021.

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PJ Williams

Tiffany Fantasia The love that our community has for Tiffany Fantasia solidi ies her as one of our top diva performers throughout South Florida. Her star power radiates so brightly that she has made her way into broadcast television programs like “Watch What's Happening Live with Andy Cohen.” But that doesn't stop the queen of the stage from staying humble and true to her community. Fantasia has been known to give her time and energy to great causes that extend to the black community. She's a true gem that we cherish immensely.

PJ Williams Whether here or there, a form of PJ's Chit Chat Coffee Shop and Speakeasy has been open to people of color, and frankly everyone in the LGBTQI+ community. Williams' spot is where our community can congregate and enjoy the cultural aspects of our existence. Sometimes a nice game of spades is on the table, perhaps even a tournament. It gives us a good feeling to know that there's a dwelling in which we can feel safe, comfortable, and respected. Thanks to Williams for providing us that space we need and enjoy. FB: PJ's Chit Chat Coffee Shop and Speakeasy

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Kishi Martin

Kishi Martin We would say that this pleasant gent is a newcomer dancing his way onto the stage with the big-timers but then that just wouldn't be accurate. Kishi Martin has found his footing in our community and serves us well as the ever-so inviting peer navigator at the comprehensive health and support service nonpro it Care Resource. When the joyous Martin isn't wearing his many advocacy hats (Youth Advisory Board, Unity Coalition, MSM Advisory Group, and the list goes on), you can ind him busting a groove on his social media stories – the man likes to get down.


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Meet FRANCO & ROBERTO Photos By Dale Stine Interview by Scott Holland

Roberto Diaz (27) is a Taurus and comes from Venezuela and Franco Conquista (32) is also a Taurus and comes from Italy. They live together in Miami.


How did you guys meet and was it love at first site? Roberto - We met on Instagram when I was living in Orlando and I came to Miami to meet him. Since the first night eating sushi and the next morning at the beach I decided to move here with him and leave everything that I had there. Franco - We started talking on Instagram, I was living in Miami and Roberto in Orlando. After talking for a week Roberto came to visit me in Miami and yes it was love at first sight. After this first meeting, he only went back to Orlando once to pack his stuff and move in with me.

What do you like/love best about your Boyfriend? Roberto - I love his determination and courage to do things and I love his eyes. Franco - The thing I like the most about Roberto is that he doesn't even know how beautiful he is. He has a good heart, is not cocky or selfish. I wish he could see himself through my eyes to realize how beautiful he is and how good his soul is. What do you do for a living? Roberto - I

work most of the time as a handyman but I also do renovation and work at construction. Franco - I work in fitness. I am the creator of two fitness programs; one called Bounce DanceFit and the other BADASS. I also sometimes work as a dancer as I am a professional dancer and I cant stay away from it.

What do you do for fun? Roberto - We love go to the beach, watch movies, and eat sushi. Franco - For fun I go to the gym, I go running by the beach, like to go to the cinema, eat out, theatre and of course spoil my boy. What does the future hold for you? Roberto - I hope the future hold success and happiness together and strength to overcome and learn from the circumstances. Franco - My dream is to eventually launch my fitness programs worldwide and inspire people to stay fit and keep exercising. I hope I will be sharing this success with the love of my life. Also, I see myself in a nice house by the sea with my Panda.




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Tessa Thompson Will Bring Church Ladies to the Screen

The The recently recently published published debut debut short short story story collection collection by by writer writer Deesha Deesha Philyaw, Philyaw, The The Secret Lives of Church Ladies, Secret Lives of Church Ladies, has has already already been been met met with with critical critical acclaim acclaim and and was was aa finalist finalist for for the the 2020 2020 National National Book Book Award Award for for Fiction. Fiction. Now Now Hollywood Hollywood has has come come calling calling for for the the author, author, as as Tessa Tessa Thompson Thompson (Westworld, (Westworld, Sylvie's Sylvie's Love) Love) and and her her newly newly formed formed production production company company have have optioned optioned itit for for aa film film project. project. The The book book features features nine nine stories stories that that explore explore Black Black women's women's lives lives in in the the Church Church and and how how faith faith and and desire desire intersect intersect when when those those desires desires fall fall outside outside of of that that world's world's traditionally traditionally sexually sexually conservative conservative views. views. It's It's

currently currently unknown if Thompson Thompson will act solely as executive executive producer or will also also star star in in the project, as no cast cast has has been been announced. But But with with nine nine stories to be told, told, this this could could turn into an all-star all-star project, project, so we'll be watching watching for updates.

racism as well as backlash from the Black community for taking on maid and slave roles. According to some film scholars, she also had to deal with the closet. Married four times, she was nevertheless associated with the “Sewing Circle,” a group of famous Hollywood women, all lesbian or bisexual, who

Raven Goodwin to play Hattie McDaniel in Behind the Smile

Trailblazing Trailblazing actress Hattie McDaniel McDaniel won won an Academy Award Award for for her portrayal of “Mammy” “Mammy” in the 1939 film Gone With the Wind, Gone With the Wind, the first Black Black actor actor to do so. But her career career was was far from easy after that. that. She She endured endured Hollywood

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gathered regularly to socialize, and she has been long rumored to have been involved with Tallulah Bankhead. Now a biopic about McDaniel, Behind The Smile, is in the works, and Raven Goodwin (The Clark Sisters: First Ladies of Gospel) has signed on to play the legendary actress. We'll have to wait and see the film to know if McDaniel's sexuality is addressed in the film – Golden Age Hollywood was notorious for keeping those closet doors locked tightly – but now that Queen Latifah has played her for Ryan Murphy on Netflix in Hollywood (a nod in that direction if ever there was one), we can hope.

The Capote Tapes heard (and seen) here soon

Not long ago competing Truman Capote biopics sparked renewed interest in one of the 20th centuries most

acclaimed gay literary figures, and one of them, Capote, won the late Philip Seymour Hoffman an Academy Award. Now Greenwich Entertainment will revive the legend again and distribute the acclaimed upcoming documentary The Capote Tapes to theaters and streaming in 2021. Honing in on Capote's unfinished novel, Answered Prayers, the book that proved to be too big for the author to wrangle, the film will detail the last stage of Capote's career in newly unearthed audio and archived interviews with those who knew him. Included are taped interviews from author George Plimpton for his 1997 Capote biography, Truman Capote: In Which Various Friends, Enemies, Acquaintances and Detractors Recall His Turbulent Career, as well as discussions with TV host Dick Cavett, Vogue

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Dear Andreus, The pandemic has taken quite a toll on my partner. We have been together for 4 years but live separately. He lost his job due to the pandemic and depleted his savings. Luckily, he is receiving unemployment. The issue is that he is fiercely independent and very reluctant to accept help of any kind, it just really boils down to his pride. Recently, he told me that he must move because he can no longer afford his place. I own my place and have offered on several occasions for him to move in with me, but he refuses saying that he does not like to burden people or take handouts. How can I help him without crushing his ego? Sincerely,

spend almost all my time with him and a very small circle of long-time friends. My partner is a germaphobe and has been freaking out since the beginning of the COVID-19 pandemic. He doesn't want to go anywhere and refuses to have any interaction with people outside of grocery shopping because of his fears on contracting the virus. I meet with my same circle of friends regularly, and take all the necessary precautions. Every time I meet with my friends, my partner stays away from me for days at a time because he is fearful of the possibility of infection. I feel like this is extreme and it is starting to damage our relationship. I don't know what to do. Please help. Sincerely,

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Dear Bob, Often when you take someone who is use to taking care of themselves and their own affairs without any assistance it is difficult for them to accept help from anyone, no matter who it is. If he is receiving unemployment, then he has some income, and that may be an opportunity for you to pitch the idea of him moving in with you differently. It might give him a sense of independence, and not bruise his ego if he is obligated to pay some of the bills or help with household expenses. Changing the delivery from “staying with you” to “renting” with you is very different. Delivery is everything! Best of luck.

Dear Andreus, I have a partner of 15 years. Outside of work, I

Dear Geraldo, Your situation is not unlike a lot of people during this pandemic. There is a lot of fear still going around about this virus. The reality is that some people handle it well while others do not. Both of you have valid arguments and are not wrong in your stances. It is simply a matter of perspective. You both have a right to live your lives as you see fit without negatively affecting each other or the people around you. What you must decide at this point is whether you can agree on how to go about things moving forward. There definitely should be some compromise or a middle ground here. This pandemic will not last forever, so you must both think past these difficult times. I wish you both the best of luck and good health.


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