Don’t let hate seal your fate
-By Harvey Mackay
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One day a teacher told her students to bring a bag of potatoes to school on Monday. She said each potato should be given the name of a person the child hates.
The more people the child hates, the more potatoes in his or her bag. Some bags had just one or two potatoes, while other bags were almost full and very heavy. The teacher then told her students they had to carry their bags with them everywhere they went for a full week.
for our times, as we see so much hatred and anger all around us. Those emotions cause so many problems not only in society, but also personally. Hate blocks clarity, clouding our judgment and causing us to be more impulsive and aggressive. Anger can lead to unacceptable actions that we immediately regret. Rather than enabling us to see possible solutions, we become so entrenched in our own position that we become irrational.
E. Stanley Jones American Methodist Christian missionary, theologian and author, said:
“A rattlesnake, if cornered, will become so angry it will bite itself. That is exactly what the harboring of hate and resentment against others is – a biting of oneself. We think we are harming others in holding these spites and hates, but the deeper harm is to ourselves.”
Foster open communication. Create a safe space for employees to express their concerns and feelings. Regular team meetings or one-on-one check-ins can be effective. Pay attention to what is being said and show empathy. People just need to feel heard. Lead by example. Demonstrate the behavior you wish to see in others. Treat everyone with respect and kindness. When you notice negative behavior, address it immediately. Ignoring it can lead to escalation. Implement clear policies and ensure accountability. Make sure there are clear policies in place regarding acceptable behavior and the consequences of hate or discrimination. Hold individuals accountable for their actions. Consistent enforcement of policies is crucial.
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After a while the students started to complain. The bags were heavy and awkward to carry, plus the potatoes were starting to smell bad. They couldn’t run or play games because they had to carry their sacks everywhere.
Finally, Friday arrived, and the teacher told her students they could put their sacks down, to their delight. Then she told them the meaning of the assignment: “This is what happens when you carry hate for another person in your heart. You carry it everywhere, and it weighs you down. The stench grows worse every day. The more hatred you carry, the heavier your burden. In the end, you can choose to set it down and be free.”
This story is particularly appropriate
THURSDAY, OCTOBER 2
In my view, hate is a destructive force that we should strive to let go of, replacing it with understanding and positive perspectives. Just as hate can be taught, so can love, and it’s important to focus on fostering flexibility of mind and body to counteract the negative effects of hatred.
Maya Angelou, poet and civil rights activist, said, “Hate, it has caused a lot of problems in the world, but has not solved one yet.”
Most of us have experienced feelings of hatred at one time or another. If you have wronged someone, you should make amends or at least apologize.
Disarming hate in the workplace requires a thoughtful and strategic approach. Here are
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“The Good Old Days” -By Tom Kuehne
Spam
Spam is a part of our lives. It was something that existed as long as most of us can remember. It came into existence during the great depression and became the fillin for the protein from beef and pork that most families couldn’t afford.
One thing that made Spam so popular was that it tasted good. It was a mixture of pork and several other preservation and taste enhancers to make a very versatile product that enhanced the taste of the vegetables with which it could be mixed for soup or hotdish. Although it could be sliced as a sandwich meat, it could be chopped fine as an addition to fillers such as flour to really stretch the food budget in a tasty way. It could be served hot or cold as needed. Spam was already preserved in its own metal container, so that it could be stored on the shelf for long periods, without freezing or cooling to keep it from spoiling. Many families during the 1930’s didn’t have electricity, so freezing and cooling was a problem. Those that were lucky enough to have a farm with pigs and beef could butcher their own animals, which were then pickled, dried, smoked and canned for future use. If one didn’t have their own livestock, meat needed to be purchased with money they didn’t have.
When Spam was created in the 1930’s it sold for $.25 a can, todays price is around $3.50. Its price is another indication of inflation.
I just finished reading the book, Grapes of Wrath, for the third time. I find it to be a book that was written by someone that must have experienced the relocation of families from the dust bowl to California, which was not happy to have thousands of totally broke families creating tent cities on their road ditches and riversides. There was very little work for pay and their children were starving. The treatment they received from the banks that took away their farms and forced them to go to California where the farms and fruit growers paid them often less than $2.00 per
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day, if there were any jobs available, makes the reader realize how tough it was during the depression. The California employers knew that there were 100 applicants for each job, so they treated the workers like slaves.
Inflation might be biting our budget today, but it’s better than back during the “hard times.”
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Harvey Mackay continued from pg 2 a resolution. Encourage all parties to work towards a common goal and find a way forward.
In a small village, two neighboring families had been feuding for generations. The source of their animosity was long forgotten, but the hatred persisted, affecting everyone in the community. One day, a wise elder visited the village and gathered both families together. He proposed a challenge: “Build a bridge over the river that divides your lands. Work together, and you will find peace.”
Reluctantly, the families agreed. As they worked side by side, they began to talk, share stories and learn about each other’s lives. Slowly, the barriers of hate began to crumble, replaced by understanding and friendship.
When the bridge was finally completed, it stood not just as a physical structure but as a symbol of their newfound unity. The families realized that the effort to understand one another had transformed their hearts, and the feud was forgotten.
Mackay’s Moral: Building bridges of understanding can transform hostility into harmony, creating pathways to peace and friendship.
Reprinted with permission from nationally syndicated columnist Harvey Mackay, author of the New York Times #1 bestseller “Swim With The Sharks Without Being Eaten Alive,” “We Got Fired!...And It’s the Best Thing That Ever Happened to Us,” “The Mackay MBA of Selling in the Real World,” and “Use Your Head To Get Your Foot In The Door.”
From the Desk of Pastor Bruce
“There’s no need to fear, Underdog is here!” I am dating myself just a bit today. The Underdog Show aired in the mid-60’s during Saturday morning cartoon time. Underdog was the hero of anyone who was in distress. The problem was he usually caused more problems than he fixed.
If I have learned anything in my life it is that I must rely on God. Philippians 4:13 “I can do all this through him who gives me strength.” Underdog did it all on his own strength and failed miserably, but to accomplish God’s goals we need our King and Redeemer, Jesus Christ.
Years ago, I was working on the plumbing in the basement of the old farmhouse we had purchased from Lori’s uncle. Old plumbing and I have never seen eye to eye, it seems like if I try and fix one item, something else starts leaking. This project was no different than all the rest I have done, maybe worse. It all started when our well went dry and we had to hire the well drillers. Then I had a leak, so I cut it out and fixed it. Then, another joint started leaking,
THE JUNCTION
Convenience
but as I got to looking, I noticed that whoever fixed the plumbing leaks in the past just used garden hose over the leak. There were several garden hose repairs. So, I ended up replacing all the copper in the basement. No matter what the problem, put your anxiety to rest and trust in the God who cares about you.
Today, I would like to give you just a couple of scriptures as an encouragement to include God in your day. Psalm 46:1 “God is our refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble.” And one of my personal favorites, Isaiah 41:10 “So do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous right hand.” These verses are tried and true, with my own personal experience, YOU CAN TRUST GOD! -Pastor Bruce Miller from Swanville Bible Church, 320-547-2916
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Obituaries Bridgette L. Heidgerken
Kenneth F. Thomes
Kenneth F. “Kenny” Thomes, age 79 of Melrose, died peacefully surrounded by his family on Friday, September 19, 2025 at the Cura Care Center in Melrose, Minnesota.
A Memorial Mass of Christian Burial will be held at 11 a.m. Saturday, October 11, 2025 at St. Mary’s Catholic Church in Melrose with Rev. Mitchell Bechtold officiating. Inurnment will be in the parish cemetery with military honors by the Melrose Veterans Honor Guard.
Visitation will be from 10 to 11 a.m. Saturday, October 11 at the church in Melrose.
Kenneth Frank Thomes was born February 1, 1946 in Melrose, Minnesota to Aloys and Marie (Poepping) Thomes. He graduated from Melrose High School in 1964. After high school, he served in the U.S. Army National Guard from 1963 to 1968. On July 9, 1966 he married Kathleen Middendorf at St. Mary’s Catholic Church in Melrose. Kenny worked at Kraft Foods in Melrose for 19 years and then started and operated Tri-County Pest Control, retiring in 2016. During retirement, he enjoyed golfing, hunting, fishing, going on occasional casino runs, and spending time with his grandchildren and great-grandchildren. While at the casino, he had more fun taking the grandchildren to play in arcade area than he did gambling. In his younger years, he enjoyed bowling and playing softball.
Kenny was a member of Saint Mary’s Catholic Church, American Legion Post 101, and a member of the VFW Drill Team.
Survivors include his wife, Kathy Thomes of Melrose; children, Kim (Stewart) Schwinghammer of St. Augusta, Keith (Tracy) Thomes of Alexandria, and Kyle (Kathleen) Thomes of Meire Grove; grandchildren, Ashley (Dylan) Briggs, Honor-Ra (Ryan) Miller, Dezerae Thomes, Isabel Schwinghammer, and Gabriel Schwinghammer; great-grandchildren, Gavin and Mason Briggs; and brother and sisters, JoAnn (Jerry) Loecken, Jerry (Gloria) Thomes, Mary Kay (Ron) Althaus, Karen (Greg) Studer, and Brenda (Dave) Blonigen.
Kenny was preceded in death by his parents; Al and Marie Thomes; sister and brother-in-law, Lila (David) Thomas; and one infant sister.
Arrangements were made with PattonSchad Funeral & Cremation Services of Melrose.
Bridgette Lanet (Ray) Heidgerken, 52, of Cold Spring, Minnesota, passed away peacefully on September 22, 2025, surrounded by her family. A Memorial Mass of Christian Burial will be held at 12 p.m. Saturday, October 4 at Sacred Heart Catholic Church in Freeport with Rev. Daniel Walz officiating. A private inurnment will be held at a later date.
Visitation will be from 10 a.m. to 11:45 a.m. Saturday at the church.
Bridgette was born on November 14, 1972, in Minneapolis, Minnesota. At the age of four, she and her twin sister, Angie, were adopted by Gerald and Kathleen Ray. She grew up in Orono, Minnesota, on Lake Minnetonka, where she discovered her lifelong love for the water.
Bridgette met the love of her life, Gary Heidgerken, while attending St. Cloud State University. They were married on December 11, 1999, at Sacred Heart Church in Freeport. Together they made their home in Waite Park for 20 years before moving to Cold Spring, where they lived the last 5+ years.
Of all of Bridgette’s roles in life, being Hunter’s mom was the one she cherished most. Her world revolved around him, and she poured her heart into making sure he always felt supported, loved, and encouraged. Whether it was sitting in the stands cheering at his sporting events, helping him through life’s challenges, or celebrating his accomplishments big and small, Bridgette’s pride in Hunter shone through in everything she did. Her love for him was endless and unconditional—a bond that will remain unbroken.
Bridgette dedicated nearly 30 years of her life to health care, where she found her true calling in caring for others. She began her career as a phlebotomist, putting patients at ease with her gentle touch and reassuring presence. She later worked in home health care, providing support and comfort directly to patients in their homes and helping them maintain independence with dignity. Most recently, she served as a Certified Nursing Assistant (CNA) in nursing homes, where she formed lasting bonds with residents and their families. In every role, Bridgette was known for her compassion, patience, and ability to make those around her feel cared for and valued. For her, health care was never just a job—it was a way of life and an expression of her heart for others. She loved the ocean, especially visiting Virginia Beach, Key West, and going on cruises with Angie. She enjoyed traveling to National Parks, time at the North Shore, and creating lasting memories with family. Bridgette also loved music and football, and her vibrant spirit touched everyone who knew her. She will always be remembered for her smile, laugh, sense of humor, generosity, and her ability to make others feel loved.
Bridgette is survived by her husband, Gary; son, Hunter; parents, Gerald and Kathleen Ray; siblings, Ernie Jacobson, Angela (Erik) Carlson, Roger (Traci) Ray, and Betsy (Paul) Smetana.
She was preceded in death by her brother-inlaw, Erik Carlson; grandparents; and several aunts and uncles.
Arrangements were made with Patton-Schad Funeral and Cremation Services of Freeport.
Taylor Bradley Holthaus
Taylor Bradley Holthaus, age 34 of Albany, passed away after a brave and fierce battle with a brain tumor, on Friday September 26, 2025 at his home in Albany, surrounded by those who loved him dearly.
A Mass of Christian Burial will be held at 11a.m. Friday, October 3 at Seven Dolors Catholic Church in Albany with Fr Julius Beckermann, O.S.B. officiating. Entombment will be in the parish cemetery. Visitation will be from 4-8 p.m. Thursday, October 2 and 9:30-10:30 a.m. Friday, October 3 at the Seven Dolors Gathering Area in Albany. Taylor Bradley Holthaus was born February 26, 1991 to Brad and Shelly Holthaus. He graduated from Albany High School in 2009. Many of his high school classmates remained his greatest friends throughout his life. He attended St. John’s University and earned a bachelor’s degree in business management in 2013. Taylor gained many other wonderful friends along the way. Taylor had a draw to the trucking industry. He was a broker for transportation. Taylor was employed by Fox Logistics in Avon.
On October 26, 2019, Taylor married the love of his life, Jordan Hansen and they began their life together in Albany, MN. Taylor and Jordan had a love like no other. Their commitment to one another was quite clear. Taylor was a family man. Oldest son, Mack was born in 2021 and younger son, Cam was born in 2023. Taylor loved his family more than anything. Taylor is so proud of Mack and Cam and cannot wait to watch from above to see what their future will hold.
Taylor was an inspiration to his younger brother Carter. From their shared handles of Holty1 and Holty2 to the love of sports. Their brotherhood was undeniably strong. Taylor reminds us to keep going. Don’t let the hard days win. Other siblings include Kristin Raeker (Zach Raeker), Rachel Wolf (Alex Wolf), Ben Buttweiler (Ashley Revering), Baden Larson, Aaron Kleinschmidt, and Brian Hansen (Emma Hansen).
Taylor was truly loved and will be forever cherished by all his parents. Shelly Holthaus (Paul Buttweiler), Brad and Lori Holthaus, and Steve and Cathy Hansen.
Taylor leaves behind his beloved grandmother, MaryJane Fischer. Taylor loved all her home cooked meals. He also leaves behind many aunts, uncles, nephews, niece and cousins. All who he loved dearly.
Taylor will be remembered for being a heavy hitter in baseball, life of the party, his dance moves and singing out loud to every song. Taylor enjoyed golf, MN Vikings, casino trips, sushi, and wrestling with his boys.
Taylor was especially excited to be greeted in Heaven by both his grandfathers, Joe Holthaus and Paul Fischer along with his grandmother Dorothy Holthaus.
Taylor always had a positive attitude and approach to life. He was a planner by nature and was very goal orientated. He was a true warrior with grit and determination. He reminded us that mindset was the key.
Stand strong, move forward, because the God who leads you has already written the end of your story—and it is victory!
Arrangements were entrusted with PattonSchad Funeral and Cremation Services of Melrose.
Alois A. “Al” Beste
Alois A. “Al”
Beste, age 93 of Freeport, passed away peacefully, surrounded by his family on Monday, September 29, 2025 at the CentraCare Hospital in Melrose, Minnesota.
A Mass of Christian Burial will be held 11:30 a.m. Monday, October 6 at Sacred Heart Catholic Church in Freeport with Rev. Daniel Walz officiating and Deacon Ernie Kociemba assisting. Entombment will be in the parish cemetery with military honors by the Melrose Veterans Honor Guard. Visitation will be held from 2 to 4 p.m. Sunday and from 10:30 to 11:15 a.m. Monday at Sacred Heart Catholic Church in Freeport. The Freeport Fire Department will pray the Rosary at 2 p.m. Sunday afternoon at the church.
Alois Anton Beste was born April 1, 1932 in Freeport, Minnesota to Henry and Regina (Haselkamp) Beste. He attended Sacred Heart Catholic School and graduated from Melrose High School. Al served in the U.S. Navy and was honorably discharged in 1957. He was united in marriage to Marjorie Mae “Margie” Illies on December 30, 1957 at Saints Peter and Paul Catholic Church in Elrosa, Minnesota. Al owned and operated Freeport Roller Mills/Famo Feeds in Freeport.
Al was a member of Sacred Heart Catholic Church in Freeport where he served as an usher and Eucharistic Minister. He was also a member of the Freeport Fire Department, Freeport Lions Club, Albany Telephone Association, and Community Care of Freeport. Al enjoyed farming and was an avid vintage car and tractor collector.
Survivors include his children, Jane (Craig) Pixley of Eden Prairie, John (Yvonne) Beste of Freeport, Tom (Norma) Beste of Crosslake, and Joan (Karl) Klaphake of Spicer; 11 grandchildren and 11 great-grandchildren; and sister-in-law, Lois (Phil) Williams.
Al was preceded in death by his wife, Margie Beste on February 4, 2022; parents; brothers and sisters, Ulric Beste, Emmeline Beste, Regina Beste, Mary Beste, Eleanor Beste, Julitta Beste, Francis Beste, Bill Haselkamp, and Clara “Teddy” Klobe; and in-laws, Fr. Wilfred Illies, Donald Illies, James Illies, and Lillian Illies.
Arrangements were made with PattonSchad Funeral & Cremation Services of Freeport.
Audrey E. Hall
Audrey E. Hall, age 90 of Grey Eagle, passed away peacefully, surrounded by her family on Sunday, September 28, 2025 at the Cura Care Center in Melrose, Minnesota. A private graveside service will be held at St. Joseph’s Cemetery in Grey Eagle.
Audrey Ennice Joyce was born October 16, 1934 in Riverside, California to William and Leila (Johnson) Joyce. She graduated from Grey Eagle High School in 1954 and graduated from Moorhead State University in 1967 where she earned her bachelor’s degree in education. She was united in marriage to Donald Sunquist on September 18, 1954 in Grey Eagle. Donald passed away in 1991. She then married Bruce Hall in September of 2012 in Grey Eagle. Audrey taught at St. Joseph’s School in Moorhead and at Grey Eagle elementary and high school.
She was a member of St. Joseph’s Catholic Church in Grey Eagle, Christian Mothers, and taught religious education at Grey Eagle, Upsala, and Elmdale. Audrey enjoyed gardening, baking pies, and enjoyed doing arts and crafts.
Survivors include her daughter, Shirley (Mark) Hellem of St. Paul; and grandson, Anders (Megan) Hellem of Shakopee.
Audrey was preceded in death by her first husband, Donald Sunquist on January 1, 1991; second husband, Bruce Hall on October 12, 2020; parents; and sister, Gale Joyce in 1939. Arrangements were made with PattonSchad Funeral and Cremation Services of Melrose.
Jerome Leo Young
The Mass of Christian Burial, celebrating the life of Jerome Young, age 90 of Holdingford, was held Wednesday, October 1st, at the Church of All Saints - Saint Mary in Holdingford. Burial was in the Arban Cemetery. Jerome died on Sunday at Cura of Melrose. Jerome was born June 1, 1935, to Edward and Theresa (Lange) Young. He grew up on the family farm, where he became the fourth generation to farm. Jerome met Darlene Zabinski at a dance in St. Cloud, and it was love at first sight. The two were married on February 20, 1962, at St. John Cantius Church in St. Cloud, and they farmed together where they raised their 7 children. Jerome was very active at his home parish in Arban, MN, where he was in the choir, served mass, and became a trustee. He served the parish, completing any and every task that came his way. After completing the 8th grade, he graduated from “Arban University” before attending Holdingford High School. For over 25 years, Jerome and Darlene volunteered at Albany Pioneer Days, sharing the Arban history. Jerome was on the Holding Township board for over 35 years, and was a member of the Knights of Columbus. Jerome enjoyed his Sunday drives, admiring the surrounding farmland, usually ending up at the DQ with a vanilla cone. Jerome was a social person who loved to visit family and
friends, and he enjoyed a good game of cards.
Jerome will be remembered not only for the love of his wife of 63 years, 7 amazing children, and many grandchildren, but also for his zest for bringing joy and laughter to all and any he encountered. He was a member of the Church of All Saints - Saint Mary in Holdingford.
Jerome is survived by his wife, Darlene, his children, Theresa (Mark) Beutz, Albany; Kenneth (Sandra) Young, St. Stephen; Kevin (Beth) Young, Avon; Joan (Peter) Neu, Becker; Marlene (Jeff) Panek, Hanover; Judy (Joey) Opatz, Holdingford; 19 grandchildren, and 17 great-grandchildren.
Jerome is preceded in death by his parents, his brother, LeRoy Young, his infant sister, Jeanette Young, his daughter, Janice Pauly, and his great-granddaughter, Norah Pauly.
The Art Of Conversation, Upsala
The Art of Conversation gallery, by popular demand, is holding over a show featuring the work of Jim Flaa, local watercolor, acrylic, pen and ink, and graphite artist. Jim’s work will be on display and for sale throughout October. New hours for the school year: Friday 4-6 p.m.; Saturday 10 a.m.-Noon; Sunday Noon-4 p.m.
Upcoming events include a show featuring quilts and tributes to veterans in November (a very much acclaimed show last year) and an all-student show in December. It is not too early to send submissions by email to steve@upsalacov.org or text to (218) 428-8010.
The gallery is located at 105 S. Main, Suite 2 in Upsala.
pictured: Shirley (Pohlmann) Fuchs. Submitted by Gloria (Peterson) Moran.
Friends of the Upsala Public Library sponsored a Wreath Making class on September 20th. Submitted by Tammy Frieler.
Sudoku is one of the most popular puzzle games of all time. The goal of Sudoku is to fill a 9×9 grid with numbers so that each row, column and 3×3 section contain all of the digits between 1 and 9. As a logic puzzle, Sudoku is also an excellent brain game.
Dave Says -By Dave Ramsey
Dear Dave, What are your thoughts on prenuptial agreements? I’m a divorced single mom with two boys, and I’m their primary caregiver. I’d like to get married again one day if the right man comes along. The reason I ask about prenups is I’m expecting to receive an inheritance of about $5 million sometime in the future. Would it be a good idea for someone in my situation?
-Sarah
Dear Sarah,
In a situation like yours, I’d recommend a prenup. Full disclosure: Years ago, I used to be completely against them. I’d tell folks not to get married if they loved money and material stuff more than they loved the person they planned to marry. But after doing decades of financial coaching and even crisis counseling, I changed my tune. The reason I changed my mind is that I started to realize just how many weirdos are out there.
When a dramatic amount of money is involved, a prenup can actually help the married couple by adding an extra level of protection between you and the crazies. Let’s say you marry a great guy, then his deadbeat cousin, a guy you’re suddenly related to by marriage, shows up asking for $10,000 to
open a pizza place. Never mind that he can’t even boil water. Your guy says, “Don’t look at me. We’ve got a prenup.” He looks at you, and you smile, offer him a glass of water and send Cousin Eddie on his way.
Believe it or not, that kind of stuff actually happens. Sometimes it’s the parents asking for a handout, sometimes it’s the kids - it doesn’t really matter. But it can drive a wedge between you and your spouse. Making and maintaining a good marriage is difficult. It’s hard work. You don’t need that kind of stuff creeping in and making things even harder.
Do you see what I’m saying? In my mind, the prenup is not to protect you from the guy you married. He’s probably okay. Especially if you two are mature adults who took plenty of time getting to know each other before you walked down the aisle. And if you’ve been through a divorce, you probably feel that side of things a whole lot deeper than most folks.
Now, I still don’t recommend prenups where small amounts of money are concerned. I remember one couple who each had normal finances and average net worths. The boyfriend wanted a prenup based on the fact he had a 1967 Ford Mustang. I flat out told her not to marry the guy because he loved a car more than he loved her. That’s practically planning a divorce.
And Sarah, remember this: Wealth magnifies everything. The good and the bad. If someone who has a temper becomes wealthy, they become a bully. If they’re compassionate and generous to start with, they become what we call philanthropists. Kindness and generosity become their personal brand. That’s the kind of person you want to marry.
-Dave
* Leadership and small-business expert
Dave Ramsey is the CEO of Ramsey Solutions. He has authored eight national bestselling books, including “EntreLeadership,” and he’s a host of “The Ramsey Show” and “The EntreLeadership Podcast.”
Ask The Motor Medics®
From the Hosts of the Under The Hood radio show.
Dear Motor Medics, I’ve got button envy. I bought a 2010 Prius when it was new and I
loved, well, still love my car but just not like I did after seeing a 2016 Prius. I bought my car because it was cool, lots of gadgets like a backup camera, HID headlamps and a fancy radio and displays that I didn’t even know what the info on them meant. Now there are even more gadgets. When will it end and are these new features a safe gamble to buy with a new car or do you think they will just cause more things to break down and cost me money?
-Tom in Spirit Lake, Iowa Dear Tom,
We love those buttons too! The more the better for us but that’s not everyone’s opinion. The Prius is one that has been on the leading edge of new tech for many years and each year they add a bit more. The base car hasn’t changed much. The hybrid drive is still basically the same, but the creature comforts have come a long way. New tech design is strong these days and we don’t worry much about it failing more than long-term tested devices. We all must have the newest cell phone, and they change every few months and their failure rate isn’t off the charts. New tech seems to be the trend. We want it faster and we want it now. Enjoy the ride!
-Take care, the Motor Medics
Dear Motor Medics, I’m in the market for a used vehicle and my budget can afford something in the $20k range but I am a guy who likes a fancier ride like a Cadillac or Lincoln so that means my $20k will buy me a lot less car than if I were to purchase a smaller, more mainstream brand vehicle. I have ended up with what I call lemons in the past which cost me almost what I paid for them in repairs over a few years of ownership. I found out one had been in several wrecks and even was salvaged at one time. How can I protect myself during a purchase? They all seemed so good on the test drive.
-Mark in Wyandot, Michigan
Dear Mark,
We have several of our listeners in this position. They went with a luxury car that was ten years old instead of a standard car that’s
just a couple years old with a factory warranty. When you buy an older car the added miles and time take their toll, and you are bound to have more problems. To protect yourself as best as you can we strongly suggest you do at least two things in addition to the test drive. These two things are a title history check to find out if there are damage brands reported and a mechanical inspection done by a professional mechanic. These aren’t foolproof but do catch a lot of faults.
-Take care, the Motor Medics For entertainment only. Always consult your local shop and follow all safety procedures before repairs. Come visit the Motor Medics® online at Underthehoodshow.com.
Albany Senior Dining
Volunteers Needed! Call 320-845-4070
Mon., Oct. 6: Salisbury steak, paprika potatoes, peas, bread.
Tues., Oct. 7: Chicken rice casserole, green beans, cake, bread.
Wed., Oct. 8: Bouja, sandwich, fruit cocktail.
Thurs., Oct. 9: Tater tot hotdish, mandarin oranges, cookie, bread.
Fri., Oct. 10: Baked pork chop, whipped potatoes, gravy, peas, bread. Pre-registration requested to dine daily. For more info. call 320-845-4070.
Todays Thought
The waiter walked up to me and said, “Salad servers, pincers, forceps.” I did not understand him. He was speaking in tongs.
Sudoku Answers from September 25
Grey Eagle Library Needs Your Support
By Carol Duke, GELA Board Member
The Grey Eagle Library is a wonderful gem in our community. The library is supported by the Great River Regional Library system which supplies librarians, computers and media materials. What most people don’t know is that this library is managed and financially supported by the Grey Eagle Library Association Board. (GELA). The board consists of local volunteers who want the library to succeed in Grey Eagle. The President of the board is Geri Allen who has been a strong advocate for the Grey Eagle Library for many years.
The GELA supports the library with much help from the City of Grey Eagle and the Grey Eagle/Burtrum Lions. The City owns the building and pays the electric bill. GELA pays all other expenses including those for programs, heating, insurance and repairs. The Lions are supportive when any large projects arise. As an example, when GELA sponsored a fundraiser to provide funding for Bob Kutter to write the History of Grey Eagle, the Lions Club donated the start up cash to begin the project. We appreciate the City of Grey Eagle and the Grey Eagle/Burtrum Lions for their support.
Besides having reading resourses, the library has computers to use, music to browse and a large selection of puzzles to borrow. The library also offers book club resources for all book clubs. Several times a year, the library sponsors special events and authors to enjoy.
Currently our only fundraising activity is the sale of used books donated to GELA. While this does support some of our expenses, we have been notified that Great River Regional Library requires that our front desk
Local Library Events
Sauk Centre Library • 320-352-3016
Star Watch with Mike Lynch: Make the stars your old friends as we watch the great celestial show in the skies over Central Minnesota. Get to know constellations like The Big Bear, Cygnus the Swan, Pegasus the Winged Horse, and others. Great constellation mythological stories will also be featured! We’ll have giant telescopes aimed at Saturn, star clusters, galaxies, and more. An astronomical camera system will also capture breathtaking images! Mike Lynch is a retired WCCO meteorologist and has been hosting Minnesota and Wisconsin Starwatch programs for over 50 years! Sponsored by the Friends of the Sinclair Lewis Library of Sauk Centre. Offsite location: Greystone Golf Course, 10548 Andrews Drive, Sauk Centre, MN 56378. Friday, Oct. 10: 7:30 p.m.
MN Authors Michelle Aleckson and Mollie Rushmeyer: Join us for a fun author talk from two great award-winning authors. Mollie Rushmeyer and Michelle Aleckson are Minnesota-based friends and authors who write heartfelt, faithfilled fiction. Michelle brings swoon-worthy romance and stories of grace, while Mollie weaves humor, history, and love into her contemporary tales. Together, they celebrate strong heroines, relatable journeys, and the joy of storytelling. For adults and teens. Sponsored by the Friends of the Sinclair Lewis Library of Sauk Centre. Tuesday, Oct. 14: 6:00 p.m.
Upsala Library • 320-412-2048
Card Making Workshop: Join us for a fun card making workshop with JoAnn Boeckermann who will lead instruction to create an all-occasion assortment of greeting cards, complete with envelopes. All materials provided. For adults. Limit to 10. Registration required. Sponsored by the Friends of the Upsala Public Library. Wednesday, Oct. 15: 2:30-5:00 p.m.
be replaced to accommodate ADA standards. Because the Grey Eagle Library is not owned by the Great River Regional Library system, the GELA board is responsible for the cost of the new desk. We have received bids between $12,000 and $18,000. GELA has chosen a local person to complete this project for the library for $12,000.
We are asking those in our community who love our little library and want to see it thrive to donate to our new desk fund. Because we are a non-profit, all donations are tax deductible. Donations may be sent to Grey Eagle Library Association, PO Box 57, Grey Eagle, MN 56336.
Please note, if you need a receipt for your donation, we will send it to you. Thank you for your support!
September 24, 2025: At approximately 3:40 p.m., their office received a report of a male that had been run over by a vehicle at a residence off Cannon Road, approximately four miles east of Swanville, MN in Swanville Township.
According to the Sheriff’s Office, 25-year-old Adam Throener of Swanville, MN was working on a vehicle and removed the drive shaft. Once doing so the vehicle started to move and Throener was run over by the vehicle causing severe head trauma. Throener was transported to St. Gabriel’s Hospital by Mayo Clinic Ambulance and later airlifted by North Air Care with unknown injuries.
The Morrison County Sheriff’s Office was assisted by the Swanville First Response Team, North Air Care and Mayo Clinic Ambulance.
September 24, 2025: At approximately 10:40 a.m., their office received a report of a man who had fallen from a roof at a residence located off 52nd Avenue, approximately one mile south of Upsala, MN in Elmdale Township.
According to the Sheriff’s Office, 36-year-old Aaron Backes of Cold Spring, MN was working on the roof of a barn under construction when a purlin (roof support) gave way, causing him to fall approximately 15 feet onto a concrete surface. Backes was airlifted by North Air Care and transported to the St. Cloud Hospital. His condition is currently unknown.
The Morrison County Sheriff’s Office was assisted by Upsala Fire and Rescue, North Air Care and Mayo Clinic Ambulance.
September 25, 2025: At approximately 8:34 am, their office received a report of a two-vehicle accident on Nature Road near Hilton Road, approximately one mile west of Royalton, MN in Bellevue Township.
According to the Sheriff’s Office, 66-yearold Wayne Easter of Little Falls, MN was driving a truck hauling a load of potatoes traveling west on Nature Road and 80-year-old Bernard Wilkens of Swanville, MN was driving a Ram 1500 truck traveling east on Nature Road. Easter attempted to make a left turn into Royal Farms, he failed to yield and was struck by the eastbound vehicle driven by Wilkens. Mary Suslaski-Wilkens, 77-year-old of Swanville, MN, a passenger in Wilkens’ vehicle, was transported by Mayo Clinic Ambulance to St. Gabriel’s Hospital with unknown injuries.
The Morrison County Sheriff’s Office was assisted at the scene by the Royalton Police Department, MN State Patrol, Royalton Fire Department, Royalton First Response Team and Mayo Clinic Ambulance.
Aging With Attitude Expo to be Held Oct. 17
Central Minnesota residents are invited to attend the annual Aging With Attitude Expo, taking place on Friday, October 17, from 8:00 a.m. to 1:30 p.m. at Sauk Centre High School. This free open to the public event offers a day of education, information and entertainment.
Patty Wetterling, author of Dear Jacob: A Mother’s Journey of Hope, will share her powerful story of loss, resilience and advocacy following the abduction of her son, Jacob, in 1989. Through her journey, she became a national leader in child protection, shaping laws, policies and awareness to keep children safe. Her message is one of courage, healing and the enduring power of hope.
The expo will feature two rounds of breakout sessions, giving participants the opportunity to choose from eight engaging topics, including:
1. Don’t Be the Victim!
2. Medicare Made Simple: What You Need to Know for 2026
3. Line Dancing for Beginners: Step In and Have Fun!
4. The Joy of Scribbles and the Playful Truth About Lifelong Creativity
5. To Sleep or Not to Sleep: That Is the Question
6. Spot the Scam: Protect Yourself from Fraud
7. Medication Safety: knowledge is the Best Prescription
8. Travel Smart: Tips for Stress-Free Adventures
Attendees will also have the chance to explore informational booths, hear from area experts and enjoy a free lunch.
Additionally, door prizes will be awarded at the conclusion of the event, and attendees must be present to win.
The Holy Rosary Saturday, October 11 at 12-Noon at St. Mary’s Upsala Parking Lot Please Join Us!
For more information contact: Mary at
SUPPER
Sunday, October 12, 2025 8:30 AM to 12:00 PM Sacred Heart Church Basement, Freeport
Morrison Co. Sheriff’s Office
LOST: Dodge key and key fob Friday night either in Swanville or Browerville at the football game. If found, call 612-597-2998.
ST. MARTIN: Fall City-Wide Garage Sales: October 3rd: sale times will vary; October 4th: 7am-1pm. Watch for balloons.
GARAGE SALE: Collectibles, toys, home decor, Halloween & Christmas decor, women’s & teen girls’ clothing, old Crocks, much more! Friday, Oct. 3rd-Saturday, Oct. 4th: 9am-7pm. No early sales. Cash only! 30076 County Rd 2, Grey Eagle.
RUMMAGE SALE: All Saints-St. Hedwig’s Church, Holdingford. Thurs.-Fri., October 16-17: 7:30am-6:30pm. Sat., October 18: 9am-2pm. Sun., October 19: 9am-Noon.
STORAGE: Boats, cars, etc. Mound Lake Call 320-573-3939.
WANTED TO BUY: Butcher cows, bulls, fats & walkable cripples: also horses, sheep & goats. 320-235-2664. SC-odB 11/6
WANTED: Geo Tracker, good shape, reasonable price. Call 320-267-5632. RB-tfn
WANTED: Cars and pickups from the 40’s, 50’s, 60’s, 70’s, and 80’s, in your weeds or sheds. 218-640-3807 or 218-756-2257.
FOR SALE: 1984 red Corvette, top comes off, 105,000 miles, automatic, $10,500 or B/O. Call 320-267-5632. RB-tfn
FOR SALE: Gorilla treestand deluxe used one time, $150. Call 320-573-2340.
FOR SALE: Red Oak firewood $200 per cord. Call Curtis at 320-232-0884, leave a message.
FOR SALE: Visio 42” reg. TV, good condition, we got a larger one. Call 320-8362690.
The Farm Slaughtering Custom
320-573-2607 Hwy. 238, Elmdale
Processing Mon.-Thurs.: 8 am-4:30 pm • Fri.: 8 am-6 pm Sat.-Sun.
FOR SALE: 3 deer stands, $100 each. Call 320-573-3939. 11/6
FOR SALE: Postage stamp collection, 1971-2007 Mint sets, Celebrate the Century 1900-1990. Call 320-249-3521.
FOR SALE: Gear box coin banks. Model airplanes. Call 320-333-8670.
WANTED: For scrap machinery, cars, trucks, specializing in combines. Call 320292-8993.
FOR SALE: Comfort Glow 19,500 btu kerosene/No 1 diesel heater. Call 320-2604551.
FOR SALE: Honey Crisp and Haralson apples. Apples are ripe and ready at Nancy’s Bait. Call 320-285-2405.
FOR SALE: 12yo TREK bike; rode under 100 hrs, $200. 5yo ladies Schwinn bike w/ basket; rode 15 hrs, $150 OBO. 772-5321489
Energy Assistance Program Starts Oct. 1st
Todd County Health and Human Services Announces Assistance for Home Energy Bills. The Energy Assistance Program (EAP) helps pay home heating costs and furnace repairs for income- qualified households. EAP is federally funded by the Department of Commerce and passed through the Minnesota Department of Health and Human Services. Grants are available for renters or homeowners that reside in Todd County. Services may include payment of energy bills, help with utility disconnections or necessary fuel deliveries, repair or replace-
ment of homeowner’s malfunctioning heating systems and extra assistance for households with a member over 60 to pay their monthly utility bills.
To be eligible for the program, the total gross income for all household members for three months must be less than: Household Size: 1 month income guideline
New Officers Installed for St. Cloud Diocesan Council of Catholic Women
Women of the St. Cloud Diocese gathered at the Church of St. Benedict in Avon on Saturday, September 20, 2025 for its Annual Fall Conference “Pilgrims of Hope.” The day included musical meditation with Eleanor Kiel in the morning, followed by Mass and lunch. The afternoon speaker, Leah Molitor Brix, shared how to discover hope in the midst of chaos to witness. Installation of a new president and vice president of its Council of Catholic Women took place at the end of Mass. Outgoing president, Lois Wesbur of Belgrade passed the gavel to incoming president, Sheri Streasick of Millerville. Also installed were Cindy Riedner of Morris as vice president; and Mary Griffith of Avon, as secretary.
