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The Abigail Column 17-year-old needs to get away from boyfriend DEARABIGAIL, I’m a 17-year-old girl, dating an 18-year-old boy. We’ve been together for eight months, and at first, it was great. Then, as our relationship progressed, he started getting really jealous. He made me delete all the boys from my Facebook page. At first it was a big deal, but now I’m used to it. He’s kind of controlling in all situations, everything has to go his way, and he makes me feel bad all the time. He tells me most of my physical features are

unattractive and constantly disrespects me. He makes me stop speaking to anyone who doesn’t like him. As you can tell, this isn’t a very healthy relationship, but I love him with all my heart. I’ve broken up with him so many times, hoping he would change. I feel as though he has stopped caring about me. What should I do? Heartbroken Dear Heartbroken, Get out immediately. Your boyfriend has all the earmarks of an abuser. He controls everything about you, finds ways to isolate you from friends, and will continue to demean and insult you until

you feel worthless — and grateful that he still wants to be with you. The next step is physical harm. And he’ll make you believe you deserve it. He doesn’t take your breakups seriously because you always come back for more. If he thought you would truly move on, he might beg you to come back — and the cycle would start all over. You are smart to see that this isn’t a healthy relationship, but you cannot make it better. Talk to your parents about him. And please get away from this manipulative man while you still can.

Sunday October 28, 2012 ARIES (March 21 - April 19): In order to encourage your ambitions to grow, you have to stop setting yourself so many impossible goals! It's not aiming high that gives you a hunger for success -- it's getting a taste of it. ****************** TAURUS (April 20 - May 20): The rush of energy you get early today may be stimulating and seductive, but try not to let it accelerate the pace of your day. There is no reason to be in a hurry, especially when this day brings so many nice things to savor. ******************** GEMINI (May 21 - June 20): A friend or family member who's been going through a rough time could use a kind word from you -- it means more to them than you might realize. ******************** CANCER (June 21 - July 22): You need to stand tall against whatever -- or whoever -- intimidates you today. Despite the way in which they might act from time to time, your boss (or some other authority figure in your life) isn't any better than you. ******************** LEO (July 23 - Aug. 22): Some less-than-thrilling news could be waiting for you in your mailbox today, so it's not a very good time for shopping or other kinds of money-draining activities! ********************* VIRGO (Aug. 23 - Sept. 22): You can share your feelings and opinions today, but don't share your resources. If a friend forgot their wallet, offer them some of your lunch -but don't offer to buy them their own.

********************** LIBRA (Sept. 23 - Oct. 22): Just like you can have too many cooks in the kitchen, you can have too many friends at the party. It's time to push your social style into a more sedate phase. ********************* SCORPIO (Oct. 23 - Nov. 21): You will start to see someone you have known very well for a very long time in a whole new light, today -- and believe it or not, they're starting to see you in a new light, too! ********************** SAGITTARIUS (Nov. 22 Dec. 21): Today, in a social or professional group setting, you should just play along with everyone else -- sure, it might be boring to play those games that people play, but it is a lot easier than trying to re-invent the wheel. ***************** CAPRICORN (Dec. 22 Jan. 19): It's going to be critical that you stay on your toes today -- you've got to be ready to move in any direction quickly, as situations might change with no notice. *********************** AQUARIUS (Jan. 20 - Feb. 18): An upcoming family gathering offers you a great opportunity to reconnect with someone who can give you a fresh perspective on where you want to take your life -so make every effort to go! *************** PISCES (Feb. 19 - March 20): Wrangling together all of the different details of your day won't be a chore for you, right now -- it will be a delightful puzzle that you will take great pleasure in solving!

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