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3 Keys to Thriving Relationships Spring cleaning isn’t just for your home. Here’s how you can refresh your relationships for healthier, more intentional living. BY T I F FA N Y P E T E R SO N
Utah
Spring/Summer 2022
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t’s spring—the season of the new! With new beginnings, fresh starts, and nature blooming again after a hard winter, spring brings a unique energy of “coming alive” that can’t be replicated during other times of the year. One of my deepest passions is helping others to create a thriving life and a business they love with a sense of intention. And for all of us, a central, core influence to creating that thriving life is the quality and richness, depth and connection of relationships.
A Thriving Life Has Thriving Relationships
Relationships are at the heart of everything we do, and with the right tools, you can intentionally invest in thriving relationships with conscious choices that can directly influence the quality of relationships you desire.
Whether you’re wanting richer, deeper connections with family and friends or you’re wanting to see your customers and sales grow, the principles I’ll share here will help you thrive in your personal and professional life. Let’s look at three key strategies to nourish your relationships this season: 1. Freely show appreciation. Everyone wants to be seen, appreciated, and valued. And while people may not verbalize that desire, this is directly affecting the “thrive” (or, if “thrive” is lacking, the struggle) in your relationships. Relationships are always personal, and how people feel with us is our ultimate impact, influence, and “business card.” Ask yourself, “Do the people in my life feel important when they’re with me? Do they feel seen? Significant? Appreciated?” If you’re unsure, or if you’re
Feeling heard and understood is vital for closeness, connection, and trust. It’s like oxygen for the relationship. looking for ways to create more fulfilling relationships, know that small but thoughtful gestures go a long way. Taking time to write or verbally express your gratitude and appreciation has an immense power to help nourish and grow your relationships. Pro Tip: Start your “nourishing” with those who’ve been in your life for quite some time. No one outgrows the need to feel appreciated, and old relationships are well fed with appreciation and recognition.