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As I get older, I find that the challenges of today’s technology get harder and harder to navigate. For example, I recently tried to log on to a website, only to be stopped short by the seemingly obvious and simple question, “Are you human?”
In the past I have breezed past such queries with a basic check of a box, or by picking three pictures that included a traffic light. Not today. The obstacle presented to me involved a riddle that harkened back to an SAT test.
It began innocently enough. “Click on any images that resemble the example.” Hah, I can do that! But what was I looking at? There appeared to be two subjects, however, figuring out what those things were was not going to be easy. After a few minutes it occurred to me that I could be looking at a guitar and some sort of bird. Perhaps an owl? OK, I was getting the hang of it.
On to the second part of the riddle. Pick any images that contained a guitar and/or an owl. I tried looking directly at the nine possibilities, but nothing there seemed remotely bird-like, or musical for that matter. Then I thought that maybe it was one of those 3-D
images, where you have to unfocus your eyes a bit and let things swim into view. Nope, that just gave me a headache and made me feel a tad foolish. In despair I squinted a little and tipped my head to the right. Hold on, was that the curve of a guitar? It was possible I suppose... Well, what did I have to lose? I chose three of the pictures that contained that vague shape and, closing my eyes, pressed ‘enter’. I am not entirely sure if I was correct, or if the website just took pity on me, but it granted me access — only to place me immediately into a queue, as there were too many people trying to log in at the same time!
At this point I had lost the will to navigate any more prompts or intelligence tests and I closed my computer in frustration. I spent the rest of the afternoon with a cool compress on my eyes, and a soothing libation at my elbow, wondering when I had officially become too old to understand new technology.
Catherine Uretsky Editor, The Hamlet Magazine info@estrellapublishing.com
623.398.5541
Cook With Zona
Chocolate Lava Cake
If you’ve ever been on a certain cruise line, where they serve a chocolaty dessert consisting of a chocolate cake with a gooey center, served with vanilla ice cream; you know exactly what I’m talking about!
With Valentine’s Day coming up, I know some couples might scramble last minute to make a reservation or think of heartfelt gifts for their loved ones. Personally, I’d rather have chocolate cake at home over a fancy dinner, any night! Involve the whole family while baking these sweet individual cakes to feel even more love in your kitchen! Happy Valentine’s Day! I love you all!
Prep Time: 10 mins
Cook Time: 14 mins
Total Time: 24 mins
Serves: 4
Ingredients:
1 cup Dark Chocolate Chips
1 ½ sticks of butter
4 Eggs
6 Tbsp Sugar
4 Tbsp Flour
Steps:
1. Melt the chocolate and butter.
2. Mix eggs and sugar in a separate bowl, whisk for a few minutes, then add flour.
3. Add the egg mix to the melted chocolate and mix.
4. Pour the mix into 4 individual greased ramekins.
5. Bake directly in the oven at 390°F for 14 minutes
6. Serve with ice cream and ENJOY!
If you have a recipe you’d like to share with your community email me at ArizonaCooks71@gmail.com to be featured in the magazine!
Craft Corner
Getting Started with Crochet
You’ll need:
A size H/8 (5mm) crochet hook
Medium-weight yarn in a light color
Scissors
Stitch markers (optional)
Step 1: The Slip Knot
Create a loop by crossing the yarn over itself, leaving a tail about 6 inches long. Insert your hook through the loop and pull to tighten, but not too tight - you’ll need to work into this first stitch.
Step
2: Holding the Hook and Yarn
Hold your hook like a pencil, using your thumb and index finger to grip the flat part. The yarn should flow over your non-dominant hand’s index finger, with your other fingers controlling tension.
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Step 3: Making Chain Stitches
Wrap the yarn over your hook (yarn over)
Catch the yarn with your hook
Pull it through the loop on your hook
Each completed chain looks like a small “V”
Step 4: Single Crochet Stitch
Insert hook into the second chain from hook
Yarn over Pull through chain (2 loops on hook)
Yarn over again
Pull through both loops
Making
A Simple Square
Practice making a 10x10 stitch square: Chain 11 stitches
Single crochet in each chain across Chain 1, turn
Repeat until you have 10 rows
Troubleshooting Common Issues
• Count your stitches in each row to maintain the same width
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• Use stitch markers at the beginning and end of rows
• Practice the same stitch until it becomes comfortable before moving on
• Don’t worry if your early pieces aren’t perfectfocus on consistency
Remember: Crochet is a journey of continuous improvement. Your tension and stitch consistency will naturally improve with practice.
Winter Health
Winter Respiratory and Stomach Viruses: What You Need to Know and How to Stay Healthy
As respiratory and gastrointestinal infections continue to affect communities across the United States, understanding how to prevent and manage these common viruses is crucial. Three notable viral infections - Norovirus, Respiratory Syncytial Virus (RSV), and Influenza - each present distinct challenges to public health.
Norovirus, often called the “stomach flu,” is highly contagious and causes severe gastrointestinal symptoms. The virus spreads through contaminated food, surfaces, or close contact with infected individuals. RSV primarily affects the respiratory system and can be particularly dangerous for infants, older adults, and immunocompromised individuals. Influenza, a seasonal respiratory illness, can range from mild to severe and spreads primarily through respiratory droplets.
Prevention strategies for all three viruses share common elements. Frequent handwashing with soap and warm water for at least 20 seconds is crucial, especially before handling food and after using the bathroom. For Norovirus specifically, alcohol-based hand sanitizers are less effective, making thorough handwashing essential. To prevent RSV and flu transmission, avoid touching your face, maintain physical distance from sick individuals, and consider
wearing a mask in crowded indoor spaces during peak seasons. If you contract any of these viruses, proper management is key. For Norovirus, focus on preventing dehydration by drinking plenty of clear fluids to replace those lost through vomiting and diarrhea. Small, frequent sips are better tolerated than large amounts at once. With RSV and flu, rest is crucial, and over-the-counter medications can help manage symptoms like fever and congestion. Create a humid environment using a humidifier to ease respiratory symptoms. Maintaining a clean environment is essential for preventing virus spread. Regularly disinfect commonly touched surfaces like doorknobs, light switches, and electronic devices. For Norovirus specifically, use bleach-based cleaners as other disinfectants may not be effective. When caring for someone who is sick, wear disposable gloves and wash contaminated items thoroughly.
Seek immediate medical attention if you experience severe symptoms such as difficulty breathing, inability to keep liquids down for 24 hours, or signs of dehydration. For high-risk individuals, including young children, elderly adults, pregnant women, or those with underlying health conditions, early medical consultation is recommended.
The Doctor Is In
7 Steps to Overcome Imposter Syndrome
Last month, we explored signs of imposter syndrome. This month, I’m sharing 7 steps to overcome it. Let’s get to it!
1. Acknowledge your imposter feelings. Labeling your fear can help you feel some control over it. Instead of engaging with your thoughts of self-doubt, remind yourself that this is your own personal, normal response to the situation at hand.
2. Understand the root of the problem. Figure out where your anxiety is coming from so you can gain greater control over it. (Hint: It starts in childhood with the development of self-limiting beliefs based on your genetics, environment and experiences, and it may take a deep dive into your history or even doing some therapy to figure this out.)
3. Focus on facts, not feelings. When you start feeling like a fraud, focus on positive, alternative possibilities. Look for ways to dispute your negative automatic thoughts. For instance, what factual evidence do you actually have that you are a fraud?
4. Ask yourself if the thought that you’re an imposter helps or hinders you. Does feeling fraudulent serve you in any way? What might happen if you didn’t have that thought?
5. Reframe your thoughts. Instead of telling yourself that you don’t deserve success, reframe your thoughts to give yourself more credit and enjoy the experience. Own your accomplishments instead of attributing them to luck. Accept that we all have to start somewhere. Successful people just feel the fear and do it anyway.
6. Accept that it’s normal to make mistakes, especially if it’s something new to you. Look for what you can learn from each mistake instead.
7. Reach out for support. Having a safe space to receive support will
help you reduce feelings of being an imposter. When you feel imperfect or make a mistake, reach out to an encouraging mentor, coach, friend, colleague or therapist for support.
Imposter syndrome can make you feel like you’re not good enough, you don’t belong or you are undeserving or unworthy. But it’s important to remind yourself that learning and making mistakes does not make you a fraud—it makes you human.
If you struggle with imposter syndrome, your underlying self-limiting beliefs are getting in your way. It’s time to get over yourself and get on with your life and what you want to do with it! Head on over to ThePsychoeducationAcademy.com for help with overcoming your negative thoughts.
Submitted by Dr. J. Paweleck-Bellingrodt, Psy.D.
DISCLAIMER: Material is for informational purposes and not intended to be a substitute for evaluation or treatment by a licensed professional. Material is copyrighted and may only be reproduced with written permission of Dr. Bellingrodt.
The Bug Guy
A Fresh Start: February Brings Natural Pest Control to Phoenix
As winter’s mild grip loosens on the Phoenix Valley, February emerges as a pivotal month for sustainable pest management. The moderate temperatures, typically ranging from 45°F to 72°F, create ideal conditions for natural pest control methods that benefit both homeowners and the environment.
• Desert birds, particularly house finches and cactus wrens, return in greater numbers during February, naturally controlling insect populations. These feathered allies consume thousands of mosquito larvae and other problematic insects daily, reducing the need for chemical interventions.
• Local gardeners find February optimal for planting pest-deterrent herbs like rosemary, sage, and native wildflowers. These plants not only beautify yards but also naturally repel unwanted insects while attracting beneficial ones. The cooler temperatures allow these plants to establish strong root systems before summer’s intensity.
• The month’s typically low humidity also works in residents’ favor, naturally deterring moistureloving pests like cockroaches and termites. This environmental advantage, combined with basic home
maintenance like sealing entry points and proper ventilation, creates an effective first line of defense against common household pests.
• February’s moderate climate encourages beneficial insects like ladybugs and praying mantises to become more active. These natural predators help control aphids and other garden pests, maintaining a healthy ecological balance without chemical pesticides.
For Phoenix residents, February represents an opportunity to establish sustainable pest management practices that will protect their homes throughout the year. By working with nature’s cycles and embracing biological control methods, homeowners can maintain pest-free environments while contributing to the valley’s delicate desert ecosystem. This approach not only ensures immediate pest control but also promotes long-term environmental health in our unique desert community.
Submitted by Larry Cash, of Estrella Mountain Pest Control
Puzzle Time
This samurai sudoku puzzle is a great way to engage the brain and help develop logic skills. To solve this Samurai puzzle use standard sudoku rules for every 9x9 grid: each digit from 1 to 9 can only appear once in every row, column and 3x3 box. Solutions are on our website www.EstrellaPublishing.com
Indoor Fun 4 Kids
When cooler weather or rainy days keep children indoors, there are countless engaging activities to keep them entertained and learning. Transform your living space into an adventure zone with a blanket fort building challenge - chairs, sheets, and clothespins become the materials for creating magical hideouts where kids can read, tell stories, or play pretend.
Get creative in the kitchen by involving children in baking or simple cooking projects. Making cookies, decorating cupcakes, or assembling fruit faces on plates combines fun with practical skills. Just be prepared for some cleanup afterward! For a less messy kitchen activity, set up a pretend restaurant where kids can write menus, take orders, and serve plastic food.
Movement games help burn energy indoors. Create an obstacle course using pillows, tape lines for balance beams, and boxes to crawl through. Dance parties with silly movement challenges keep kids active, while yoga sessions with animal poses can help calm energetic children.
For quieter moments, set up indoor bowling with plastic bottles, practice card games that teach counting and strategy, or create a reading nook with cozy pillows and favorite books. Remember that simple activities often spark the most imagination and engagement, and a day spent indoors does not have to be wasted.
Indoor scavenger hunts provide excitement and movement. Create clues leading to hidden treasures throughout the house, or make themed hunts where kids search for items of specific colors or starting with certain letters. This activity combines problem-solving with physical activity.
Art projects offer endless possibilities. Set up a craft station with paper, markers, glue, and recyclable materials like cardboard boxes and paper tubes. Kids can create puppet shows, design spaceships, or make their own board games. Consider covering a table with butcher paper to create a giant drawing surface.
Science experiments using household items captivate curious minds. Make slime with glue and borax, create static electricity with balloons, or watch crystals grow in a glass. These activities teach while entertaining.
Desert Romance
Arizona’s Valentine’s Day Getaways: Where Love Meets the Wild West
As February’s most romantic holiday approaches, Arizona emerges as an enchanting destination for couples seeking something beyond the conventional Valentine’s Day experience. The state’s diverse landscape offers a perfect blend of luxury, adventure, and natural beauty, creating opportunities for couples to craft their own unique love stories against stunning backdrops.
Sedona’s iconic red rock formations create an almost otherworldly setting for romance. The dramatic landscape, with its towering crimson cliffs and spires, takes on an especially magical quality during sunset when the rocks glow in deepening shades of red and pink. Luxury resorts nestled among these formations offer specialized couples’ experiences, from private vortex meditation sessions to romantic spa treatments incorporating indigenous ingredients like prickly pear, desert sage, and local clay. Popular sunset jeep tours through the red rocks book up months in advance around Valentine’s Day, so early planning is essential.
In Scottsdale, high-end resorts transform their desert properties into romantic sanctuaries. Private candlelit dinners under star-filled skies become unforgettable experiences, often accompanied by live classical music and champagne service. Many resorts offer signature Valentine’s packages combining hot air balloon rides over the Sonoran Desert with gourmet champagne breakfasts and couples’ spa treatments. The city’s vibrant arts district also provides opportunities for romantic gallery walks and intimate dining experiences at award-winning restaurants.
For couples seeking thrills alongside romance, Arizona offers countless options. Lake Powell’s hidden coves provide secluded spots for intimate picnics, while helicopter tours over the Grand Canyon create dramatic backdrops for proposals or anniversary celebrations. Private jeep tours through the desert conclude with gourmet dinners at sunset, often
featuring wines from Arizona’s emerging Verde Valley wine region.
Phoenix’s Desert Botanical Garden transforms into a romantic haven during their annual “Love in the Garden” event. Illuminated pathways wind through native desert flora, while live music and wine tastings create an enchanting atmosphere. The garden’s special Valentine’s programming often includes intimate concerts and chef-prepared dinners among the cacti and desert blooms.
For those seeking complete privacy, luxury desert camps offer exclusive glamping experiences that combine comfort with adventure. These high-end camps feature private terraces for stargazing, heated outdoor soaking tubs, and personal chefs who prepare romantic dinners in complete seclusion. February’s mild temperatures and clear skies make outdoor evenings particularly appealing, with strategically placed heat lamps ensuring comfort on cooler nights.
Whether couples prefer luxury resort experiences, outdoor adventures, or intimate desert retreats, Arizona provides a distinctive backdrop for romance
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