Many people believe that women especially Russian women on international dating sites are only after one thing: a green card, a marriage just to let them escape from poverty in their own country. While there are certainly ladies out there who want immigration rights, and have only one goal, to marry a foreign man gain citizenship then seek divorce the majority of Russian women need a more compelling reason to uproot their lives from their home country, leave behind their friends and family for an unknown future in a strange country. So why is the media so full of stories about Russian women just wanting a green card, and is there any truth in these stories?
They Believe Russian women live a terrible life in Russia Many people are still under the mistaken impression that Russian women lead a miserable life in their homeland and will do anything to escape the poverty and misery in Russia. Well this is simply not true. Russia has come a long way since the collapse of the Soviet Union, Russia is one of the wealthiest countries in the world and has a fast growing economy, and Many Russians have managed to build happy, secure lives. Tourists flock to the country each year to see the new Russia, and many Russian women enjoy successful careers, probably earning more money in their home land than they could if they moved overseas. In addition, the ladies have strong relationships with friends and family and a lifetime of memories in their homeland. For a Russian women to give up her life and move to a strange country there needs to be a lot stronger reason than a green card. It may be hard to believe but many Western men have married Russian women for a green card to live in Russia ( Now that says something?)
They hear the usual Horror Stories about the Russian Dating Industry Who hasnâ€™t heard a story about the friend of a friend who brought a wife from overseas only to learn she was after a green card? And divorced him as soon as she gained citizenship. While this certainly happens from time to time, it is by no means the norm and men should not let stories in the media or stories from a friend of a friend stopping them in their search for Russian brides, there are many thousands of Western men who met their love in Russia and have had many years of a successful marriage. You are just as likely to meet a gold digger on a Western dating site as you are on a Russian dating site, and Iâ€™m sure you would of all heard from a friend of a friend the guy who married the girl from down the road only to lose his house and business to her?
Any man who just uses some common sense can often spot the bad apples, so please don’t let any exaggerated stories scare you away.
They’ve Had Bad Experiences on Other Sites While email2femail.com goes to great lengths to ensure the validity of women on our site, many other international dating sites do not and it is these sites that give the international dating industry a bad name. Email2femail.com takes many precautionary measures to protect our clients from would-be scammers.
Many of the industry horror stories originate not from Russian dating sites, but from sites featuring women from other countries. Often this can be sites like yahoo personals, match.com, lavalife.com ,It’s important not to compare Russian women from other International dating sites and remember Russian women are not in the same position as many women , like on a Thai dating site, Russian women have different reasons foe searching for their love overseas. Unfortunately, people and the media tend to lump all women on international dating sites together, a common, yet unfortunate, mistake, and is often the reason when you mention Russian brides the thought of horror and scam comes to many people’s minds. Open-minded men should evaluate each dating site, and each lady, separately.
If you are searching the Russian dating sites for Russian brides, remember most ladies are looking for love, and Not a Green card, thousands of men have found their love in Russia and you could be next.? Best of luck in your searches.
Published on Dec 31, 2009
Stefan Hendrick provides www.email2femail.com with interesting articles on various topics related to Russian dating. He is also the webmast...