Putting Out Fires
WHAT’S ON YOUR NIGHTSTAND?
Who’s Listening Anyway?
BY WILLIAM J. JOYNER PHOTOGRAPHY BY NICK GUTIERREZ
A GUN IN THE HANDS OF A RESPONSIBLE, LAWABIDING CITIZEN IS NO DIFFERENT THAN AN EXTINGUISHER.
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T I T L E : W H O ’ S L I S T E N I N G A N Y W A Y ?: A GUIDE TO EFFECTIVE LISTENING AUTHOR: JOHN LOVITT, ED.D. ILLUSTRATOR: BILL BRISTOW PUBLISHER: LANGMARC PUBLISHING nÒ´ĔďÒòąĉĪĉȅ“Many people underestimate the value of listening and overestimate their skill as listeners.” John Lovitt, Ed.D., wrote this short, easy-to-read book to educate people on the importance of listening and to help them improve their listening skills. Lovitt is a personal and corporate coach, trainer, psychotherapist, and writer whose passion for helping individuals improve their personal and business communication shines through the page. The author begins by sharing the importance of listening in his own life—beginning with his grandfather and father effectively listening to him as a child. He goes on to talk about emotional dehydration—how listeners can allow themselves to be drained of energy and self-esteem—and what it takes to rehydrate them. The book describes the four components of listening, the eight roadblocks that listeners put in their own way to prevent understanding, and the traps that speakers can create for listeners. Dr. Lovitt includes a scale he created to assess listening skills so readers can see where they need to improve and measure their progress. The humorous illustrations help readers understand and remember the concepts. The better people listen, the more effective they will be in their professional and personal lives. Who’s Listening Anyway?êĪ§´ëÔ®´äķąĉďĉď´ĂòëďÒ´ąò®ďòÔêĂąòģÔëÅ listening skills. I
April/ May 2017