Sex Ed. 101
“Hey everybody, we’re all gonna get laid!”—Rodney Dangerfield, Caddyshack Unfortunately this is typically not the case. Go to any bar or club in town and you will see that a good portion of the patrons are either single or with a group of friends. Meeting people can be hard for a majority of us. What makes a Casanova or Aphrodite? How is it that your friend (who you are by all means better than) can snag any hottie he or she has their eye on? Ask a woman what she wants out of a man, and (usually) confidence will rank high on her list. Men may not be as choosy as women when it comes to seeking out a tryst; however, I can assure you that confidence exhibited by an interested party would impress any one of us. The question is: How does one invoke confidence? Aside from taking a stroll down the yellow brick road, it is up to you. You must take pride in a trait that you possess and transmute that pride into a fuel that will power the most pathetic pickup line. While I’m sure you are very smart and probably have a GREAT personality, possessing an athletic appearance never hurt anyone’s game. Men and women who get in shape are more likely to be satisfied with their physical appearance. If you can squeeze into your ‘skinny’ jeans on Saturday night, chances are you’ll feel pretty hot when you’re on the prowl. Likewise, while the typical male apparel may trend toward the more concealing baggy look, most guys who obtain a bulletproof chest and pythons for arms won’t be shy about displaying these attributes. Looking attractive and feeling attractive are synonymous. If you can strip down to your undies, look in the mirror, and be satisfied by the changes you’ve been able to make to your body, it will grant you the confidence required to make your move on that smoking hot creature at the end of the bar.