Misael Rodríguez Vázquez and his father, Misael Rodríguez Garza
Has becoming a dad changed your outlook on life? Absolutely! Especially when I’m so fortunate to be a father. We endured challenges each time to become pregnant. Both were incredibly difficult pregnancies...the type you get told by doctors you should have never become pregnant. We almost lost them, but through faith, medical specialists and family, we persevered. My daughters are miracles! I count my blessings every day. My outlook is to not take anything for granted and pour every ounce of love in them. I teach them what I’ve been taught, stress core values and guide them along to find their own way.
Tell us a brief anecdote about a time in your childhood that you shared with your father and still cherish to this day. My dad is a brilliant man, cultured and well versed on current events. However, if there’s one thing he’s never been is athletic. When I was in grade school, the school had a father/son basketball game. I’ll always remember and cherish his involvement in that event. One of many moments he stepped outside his comfort zone, dressed up in basketball gear to support and make me happy. My MVP!
What is the importance of being a good role model and dedicated father? With two young girls, my goal is to raise them to become strong, confident, independent women. My dedication to them comes through motivating them, giving them attention, supporting their goals and protecting them. I’m committed to teach them respect and having caring hearts. They want our time, they seek our guidance. I’m motivated to be the type of man they’ll eventually want to marry. The more relentless I am, the stronger my bond becomes with them. I will be the most important man in their lives.
Is there one particular trait that every good father must have? Communication. Staying connected with children is crucial. Teaching them to communicate effectively will help them in friendships, relationships and their careers. Learning to express their feelings for what they believe in an honest and responsible way is equally important. Talking through hard times prepares them for life’s bigger challenges. 28
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If you could write a user’s manual on how to be a good dad, what would be at the top of your list of instructions? Tough one as many things come to mind. Children are sponges following us around, waiting to see what we say, feel, think and do. So ensuring our instructions are character building and positive is key. Recently I’ve found myself teaching them to be humble. I’m an enthusiastic parent and will do all I can to bolster their self-esteem. But being genuinely humble will shape a balanced life, and they will enjoy more meaningful and joyful relationships.
What has been the most tender moment you’ve shared with your old man? We’ve traveled miles and miles together but there’s been a few moments on road trips, when everyone was asleep in the back. It’s dark, not a soul on the road. And we just talk about family. He’s told me he approves of things I’ve done, goals I’ve achieved. Making him proud. Those have been precious moments.
Misael Rodrígez Vázquez and his father Sharing their name and profession, Misael Rodríguez Vázquez and his father, Misael Rodríguez Garza, both prominent otolaryngologists in the community, are strong, family-oriented men. Though joined through their passion for medicine, they are separated by their hectic work schedules, which deepens their need for those treasured Sunday afternoons together, enjoying lunch with the entire family. Valued traits they admire of each other are honesty, compassion, and humbleness. Has becoming a dad changed your outlook on life? It definitely has, and it has also taught me to be a better son.