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Alpha Upsilon Chi to hold elections in person, online By Daniel Johnson Investigative Reporter

The Alpha Upsilon Chi chapter of Phi Theta Kappa will hold officer elections in person and

electronically to ensure the inclusion of more members, Levi Turner, chapter president and Biochemistry major, said. The elections will open March 29 with

an in-person event that will include speeches by the candidates. Voting will close on the evening of March 31, Turner said. The candidates’ speeches will be

President: Tracy LaForteza, an Office Technology major, is running unopposed.

Treasurer: Brendan Miller, a Business major, is running unopposed.

Why she is running: After Being a member for two years she wanted to give back group, she said. If elected: LaFortenza wants to create fundraising for conventions and events and make Alpha Upsilon Chi Chapter a nationally recognized chapter again, she said.

Why he is running: He wanted to be more involved in the organization and with the education and skills he has, the position of Treasurer seemed to be a great way be an active member, he said. If elected: he would find ways to get members more active, he said.

ECOS to host student org event By Daniel Johnson Investigative Reporter

recorded and uploaded to the internet for members who were unable to attend the event, he said. After poor turnout for the first officer election, as reported in the


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Vice President of Secretary: Darlene Campbell, Scholarship: Gabriel Roybal, a Political Science and a Paralegal Studies major, Biotechnology major, is is running unopposed. running unopposed. Why he is running: After Reading “Empty Seats” he realized current members needed to be more active, he said. If elected: He wants to Improve member attendance while getting more information out about the activities the organization does, Roybal said.

Why she is running: The position of secretary allows her to show dedication without to be in the public eye, she said. If elected: She would push harder to get members active, Campbell said.


Student art show opens next month By Adriana Avila Managing Editor

Main campus at 8 a.m., he said. “We would like to make stronger connections among the student organizations on campus and do a greater service to our community and the student body,” he said. The volunteers will travel to off-campus sites and perform different jobs to benefit the surrounding community, Martos said. Some locations available for the service projects are a community garden, food and clothing banks that assist the needy and Habitat for Humanity.

The Executive Council of Students will launch the first Community Day to help communities around CNM campuses, Stephen Martos, ECOS president and Criminal Justice major, said. Community Day is an opportunity for members of all student organizations to volunteer with non-profit groups in the city, he said. The event is scheduled for April 6, 2013 and anyone interested in participating should meet at the Food for Thought cafeteria on see ECOS on page 9

article “Empty Seats” in volume 18, issue 19, Turner said he felt that making the voting process more accessible would enable members


“Vortex” by Augustina Wear is one of many pieces that will be featured in next month’s art show.

It takes more than the ability to create pieces of art to be an artist, which is why the Art Careers Concern class, taught by Danielle Miller, is hosting an arts exhibition in April, Ray Sedillo, a Fine Arts major, said. The exhibition “Known, Unknowns,” will be at the Downtown Contemporary Gallery, located at 105 Fourth St. SW, from April 5 to 26, with an opening reception on April 5 from 6 to 8 p.m., he said. The exhibition is intended to get the students recognized as artists and their artwork noticed

to help them create a career in art, he said. “It’s a show to get artists out there. The whole thing about the class is the career side of art,” Sedillo said. Students from the class organized the exhibition in the same way as a professional exhibition would be and completed many of the tasks in a gallery, Sedillo said. “There’s making the press release, of course, and then there’s the installation, where it’s just making the studio nice, putting up the work and stuff like that,” he said. Along with preparing the gallery and informing the masses, the other see

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Be the Honeylicious!

AYX will be holding meetings and events throughout the term. Unless otherwise noted, events will be held in portable building ST-12A, portables east of Ken Chappy hall and south of the Student Resource Center on Main campus. • March 27 - Free pizza lunch social, Main campus Cafeteria, 1 – 4 p.m. • March 29 – Meeting, 1:30 – 4 p.m. • April 16-18 Book Exchange, outside Main campus Cafeteria, 9 a.m. – 3 p.m.

Action is Our Middle Name” CNM’s Conservative Action Group is moving to bring programs of enlightenment to CNM campuses, such as speakers on the US Constitution and free market. Come help us plan a student debate on gun control at CNM. For more information, call Dan at 304-0244.

Allocation Board Accepting Membership Film Applications

CNM’s Program is trying to raise $1,000 for a short film “Honeylicious,” about two unlikely friend that end up fighting for their lives in a road trip/ bromance/ dramedy adventure. It’s Pineapple Express meets Collateral meets Fargo. Please check out our kickstarter video and help us create our film. Visit www. k i c k s t a r t e r. c o m / projects/421290 428/ honeylicious-a-shortfilm-0?ref=live

Student Film Club Looking for New Members DAT, a student film group, is looking for new members. The group creates student-led films. Students interested in making films are welcome. Students do not have to be in the film program to participate. Email Madison Coss at for more information.

The Student Allocation Board is now accepting member applications. Allocation Board meets monthly to distribute money among student organizations for events, activities, travel and equipment. Members must have a minimum 2.5 GPA, be enrolled for at least three credit hours and have completed six credit hours at CNM. For more information contact James Roach at

Job Club Accepting New Members CNM’s job club is open to students and graduates. Hosted by Job Connection Services, Tuesday at Two on Main Campus, SSC Room 207. Provides weekly discussion, opportunities to network and advisement from employment specialists. For more information go to cnm. edu/depts/advisement/ job-connection/ employment-workshops.

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on Campus program, Veterans CAN is a near-peer AmeriCorps program designed to offer critical supports to student veterans and their dependents. The program offers specific, individualized guidance related to your veteran benefits such as the GI Bill, transferring and appealing college credits, tutoring, housing, and/ or any additional support you need to be a successful student. AmeriCorps member Nicholas Aragon is located in the Student Activities Office at CNM’s main campus: (505) 224-4342 Stop in today!

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Shopping with ideals By Shaya Rogers Features Reporter

Living in a capitalist society often means that people must vote with their money. It can be difficult to find businesses that support beliefs that one holds dear. To ease the headache of such a search, the CNM Chronicle has put together a list of businesses that self-identify as LGBT-friendly and a list of businesses that support marriage between only a man and a woman. This list is a small sampling of businesses on either side of the fence. Most businesses will openly state their policy on the LGBT community either on their website or when directly phoned and asked. Businesses identified as supporting marriage between a man and a woman were identified through Businesses that identify as LGBT-friendly Buffalo Exchange Clothing Stores

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• New Mexico AIDS Services 625 Truman Street. NE 938-7100 • Rape Crisis Center of Central New Mexico 9741 Candelaria Road NE 266-7711 • Transgender Resource Center of New Mexico 4100 Silver Ave. SE 200-9086

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New Mexico’s LGBT history in a timeline 1976 – The Juniper and Metropolitan Community Church holds Albuquerque’s first Gay Pride Parade, drawing 25 participants. 1981 – New Mexico Gay Men’s Chorus, then known as the Brash Ensemble, is founded. 1983 – Albuquerque Social Club opens. 1986 – New Mexico Gay Rodeo is founded. 1997 – Inaugural Miss Pride Albuquerque pageant is held. 2004 – Victoria Dunlap, a Sandoval County clerk, issues marriage licenses to same-sex couples. 2004 – A district court judge issues a restraining order against Dunlap, forbidding her to issue further same-sex licenses. 2008 – Two bills, one that would prohibit same-sex marriage and another that would allow it, both fail in the legislature. 2009 – Legislation to allow same-sex couples domestic partnership is voted down by the State Senate. 2010 – A second domestic partnership bill is defeated by a Senate committee. 2010 – A constitutional amendment to limit marriage to opposite-sex couples is defeated. 2010 – A Santa Fe judge rules that the same-sex marriage licenses issued in 2004 were invalid. 2011 – The New Mexico Attorney General issues an opinion that same-sex marriages performed in other states should be recognized in New Mexico. 2013 – A resolution to put a constitutional amendment allowing same-sex marriage on the 2014 ballot was defeated. 2013 – A resolution to put a constitutional amendment banning same-sex marriage on the 2014 ballot was defeated. 2013 – Santa Fe Mayor David Coss announces that a resolution to recognize same-sex marriage will be introduced at the next city council meeting. 2013 – Two same-sex couples file a lawsuit against the state after being denied marriage licenses in Albuquerque.

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Emily Sarvis Biology Major Bisexual By Jyllian Roach Editor-in-Chief Editor’s note: this interview was originally three and a half hours in length. For space concerns the interview was edited to include only the most relevant information. Sexual identification is a personal and often varied thing. The CNM Chronicle sat down with a group of people with varying sexual backgrounds to discuss what life is like for them as people in Albuquerque. How did you realize what your sexual identity was? Sarvis: “I was eight or nine. I first realized I wasn’t straight actually watching “Star Trek: Voyager” and I realized I wanted to be with Seven-of-Nine and Captain Janeway. I don’t think I really knew what it meant though until about middle school.” Jensen: “Well I would say it’s kind of weird for me because I, I thought I was straight until I was 31 years old, but I always knew that I found men - certain men - were attractive without being attracted to them. It wasn’t until I had a same-sex experience when I was 31 that I was like ‘oh. This is not nearly as bad as I would’ve thought. When I first realized I could be sexually attracted to men I was like ‘I’m gay then,’ but then I was like ‘no, I’m not gay. I love women. I love having sex with women. I think women are gorgeous’ and that’s when I was like ‘Ohhh. You can be bisexual.’ Then I realized that I’m more interested in relationships with men than women. So I’m bisexual leaning more toward men, now.” Galvez: “When I grew up, you just were and nobody and


Brandon Scott Jensen Graphic Designer Bisexual you were expected to have specific roles. So from really young - I had a mock wedding at six – so from a really young age I just always identified as heterosexual, although I do think many very women are attractive. That’s just kind of how it’s always been. I don’t think I ever really had this dawning of ‘I just want to be with men’ it’s just always been that way. Silva: “I kind of feel the same way. I can’t really pinpoint at what are or certain moment in life where I said ‘Yeah, I’m straight now’ but I can identify beauty in both sexes. Even though I’m not gay and don’t have any tendencies I can see men and see beauty of a physical body or whatever.” Slattery: “For me, I knew on some level from about the age of four. I didn’t actually, and then I started cross-dressing secretly when I was about 13. I grew up in a very conservative religion in a small town so it actually took me longer to realize than it would have, because I had gotten the impression that if I was transsexual I had to be attracted to men and I’m not very much. I had a friend whose boyfriend was also Trans and I didn’t know this until early college, but I ended having talks about it. When I was 20 I finally had private internet access so I looked and I was like ‘Wow, so there’s a lot more variation here and it’s allowed. Ok good.’ The other thing is, I don’t know that the church I grew up in has this formal of a stance on it but I always figured that if I even acknowledged it I was going to go to hell. When I was 21 I spent a week where I did nothing but try to figure this out, praying, being willing to accept and then basically it was like ‘Oh yeah, I am a woman.’

Elizabeth Galvez Small Business Owner Heterosexual

I didn’t go fulltime until I was 29 but I came out to my parents about a year after I figured it out. It is probably worth noting that the only relationship I’ve had happened after I went full time.” Wells: “Basically since I was little I’ve felt different but I could never figure out in what way it was just a lingering feeling. I was raised Jehovah’s Witness which might explain –“

“There are so many labels. There’s no way to look at another person for the first time and not have a snap judgment as to something about them.” Galvez: “The rebellion?” Wells: “Fallen angel all the way. Personally, I didn’t do much dressing up when I was young. At a certain point in my life I met someone who let me know that she, as a woman, thought it was incredibly sexy to see a man with certain features in panties, stockings, garter belts, so on and so forth. Personally, any time I’ve dressed up – for me, it’s the clothes. Oh god. But really, I’ve never felt right putting on make-up and a wig in a male body because this is my male body. I feel comfortable with

clothing it feels really nice on your skin. So very recently what I’ve been talking about and thinking about for a very long time I realized that it’s ok, I realized the fact that I’m heterosexual and Trans. I don’t like who I have to portray as a man, it’s not me, I want to be sensitive.” Silva: “So you’re attracted to women and you’ve going to have the surgery?” Wells: “Not fully. I love my penis. It’s so awesome to just stand up and stare at the night sky while you’re peeing. It also has other advantages.” Galvez: “So what is it that you’re planning to do? Is it a partial transition?” Wells: “Yeah. In about a year, I’m going to start hormones. I’m going to see my doctor in April and I’m going to start therapy which is required to take hormones. Ogden: “I really can’t give you a pinpoint; I just always knew I wasn’t like the rest of the boys.” de la Cruz: “I can pretty much pinpoint the exact moment. I was in catechism because I was brought up Roman Catholic. Going through the first Holy Communion things and there was this nun and she was so banging. She was just gorgeous; I was just really drawn to her for some reason. That was the moment. I still sleep with men sometimes, but having a relationship with men, I’ve tried. But it’s just not there. As far as coming out and stuff, I really didn’t need to because I have friends over, the door would be locked. My mom is totally cool with everything. My sister and I are both gay and my other sister just got married to a man.” Silva: “Something I don’t understand is that you identify as lesbian but you said you enjoy having sex with men. Doesn’t

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Cesar Silva Engineering major Heterosexual that make you lesbian?” de la Cruz: “No. That’s the thing. I’ve tried dating guys. Identify as lesbian because I have relationships with women.” Jensen: “Whereas I, there is a 99.5557 percent chance that I will never be in a relationship with a woman again, but I identify as bisexual because there’s no word like homo-relationship or homo-amorous. But I consider myself bisexual because I enjoy sex with both.” Wells: “There are so many labels. There’s no way to look at another person for the first time and not have a snap judgment as to something about them.” What have your experiences been as far as negativity goes? Ogden: “I was in this sort of redneck town, working at a restaurant and I never had a problem until I worked a few graveyard shifts. The drunken cowboys would come in. One night, this guy was talking s**t – and he wasn’t even in my section— he could just see me. Another server came to me and said ‘Evan, stay away from that table. They’re saying a lot of f**ked up s**t about you. I’m like ‘I wasn’t gonna go over there; I’m busy over here.’ After that, I wasn’t allowed to work graveyards anymore. Because of them. The general manager said ‘Evan, I don’t want you to work graveyards anymore. I know you were just filling in a shift and being nice, but I don’t want you to do it anymore, because of this incident.’ There was no incident. The only other time I had a problems is when I was managing one night at another restaurant. Another gay guy was serving and there were problems with rednecks giving


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Ben Wells former culinary arts major Male to Female pre-op Transsexual/Heterosexual him problems. So I walk up to the table and they’re like ‘We don’t want him waiting on us, he’s a fa**ot.’ And I’m like ‘I’m sorry, he’s the only server on right now. Either he’ll wait on you or can go, or you can have me wait on you, but I’m also gay.’ They went with me, actually.” de la Cruz: “I don’t think I’ve had any negative experiences in Albuquerque, Albuquerque’s pretty cool. Albuquerque is pretty accepting. But I’ve had friends or people I’ve just met who assume I like them just because I’m gay. I’m just like ‘just because I’m lesbian and you have a vagina does not make you attractive. It does not work that way.” Slattery: “The crazy thing is that this is not with strangers. By far the most profound negative experience I’ve had was with my younger brother. I had not explicitly planned to come out to him, this was about three years after I came out to my parents, and I was living at my parents place because I had just gotten a job and didn’t have enough money to live on my own. He yelled at me at some point about how he thought I was being more feminine to impress a friend of mine and I just blew up at him. I said ‘No, this is about me.’ He did not speak to me for five years. We’re mostly on speaking terms now, but he never calls me and we never see each other unless we’re both visiting our parents at the same time.” Wells: “My mother told me she’d never talk to me again.” Silva: “When my niece came out my sister was crying and blaming herself and asking what she could have done differently. But all the men in my family were cool with it. My

Anne Slattery former Student Male to Female Transsexual/Lesbian

sister blamed herself for how prissy she made her daughter and how she bashed men.” Jensen: “I worked at a retail store, and I had issues with customers because I don’t put up with s**t from anyone, but never anything about sexuality. Then I moved to a store in the northeast heights and in the span of five months, maybe three months, I got called a f**king fa**ot by various ages, races and sexes at least 10 times. I actually ended up getting fired because I wouldn’t put up with that kind of s**t and I would end up ripping people a new asshole whenever they would say that stuff to me. The first time I was just like ‘Really? Was I just called that?’ but then after that I would get up in people’s faces, I’d kick them out of the store, but I got fired because I wasn’t providing good customer service.” Have you had any problems with others trying to tell you what your sexuality should be? Wells: “My mom.” Jensen: “All. The. Time.” Sarvis: “I feel like a lot people assume that at one point, you’re going to choose. Like ‘you’re really not into both, at some point you’re going to choose. You’re gonna get married, Emily. You’re gonna have kids and live a nice, very straight life.’ Like this is just a phase.” Jensen: “People ask me ‘Are you still bi?’” Silva: “Are you saying that you never change? That you always just stay gay, bi, straight?” Jensen: “Well, a lot of people’s sexuality is fluctuating.” Slattery: “I think a lot of people have trouble recognizing that the commonality here is

Evan Ogden former student Homosexual

that everybody who doesn’t fit the heteronormative paradigm – Do you think there which is that there are two and should be a place for only two genders, two and only hetero people? two sexes and that they are only attracted to each other.” Galvez: “I do because the amount of people who want to embrace or are open to everyone having the same rights; we should be welcome.” Jensen: “We need our allies.” Silva: “I don’t think it’s necessary. I think it’s overkill.” Jensen: “I disagree thoroughly. We need out allies. I think we need our allies to be in the trenches, so to speak. I do believe we should have straight people What about the people involved.” who say bisexualGalvez: “Two ity does not exist? years ago they were Jensen: “My brother con- having a karaoke stantly tells me ‘Oh, I believe contest at Sidewinders. bisexual people exist, you’re I don’t go to bars just not one of them.’ He because I work in one. says ‘You’re just not bisexual, But I wanted to go and you’re gay.’ try for the karaoke contest Actually, this has been most and someone said to me ‘Well surprising; most of the gay com- you’re straight.’ So? I can still munity will not accept bisexu- sing? They said ‘No, I don’t ality in general. I served on the think you’d be welcome board of an LGBT group; they there.’” didn’t care about representing Jensen: “That’s not true.” the bisexual community. Galvez: “It’s not, I Even though there’s a huge know the D.J. there, and bisexual community both he’d be totally acceptcloseted and out.” ing. But it made me feel Sarvis: “I’ve been uncomfortable. told that a lot too. That As much as the it doesn’t exist.” LGBT community Galvez: “I don’t wants to be embraced see that there is a place by the rest of the comin society, as it is now, munity on a whole, they for bisexual people also need to be willbecause everyone always ing to embrace the hetero says you have to be one way community.” or another.”

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Adri de la Cruz Psychology major Lesbian Wells: “I feel as though, if you don’t make yourself known, then you don’t get respect for who you are. But at the same time, you don’t have to be so loud about it that everyone’s telling you to shut up.” Jensen: “Because there are such a clear inequality, people have to be loud about it.” Wells: “That’s the only way you can defend.” de le Cruz: “When I was in high school I participated in the gay straight community thing and I hate it. I will never do it again, I think. I go to protests sometimes, but I can’t handle a lot of the people there. They are all about being gay. Me being a lesbian is just a part of who I am. I don’t wear rainbows. I’m not like ‘Oh my god! I’m f**king gay!’ I’m my own person with my own intellectual properties and the fact that I’m a lesbian doesn’t have to be all of it. Be who you are as an individual.” What does everyone think about the use of the phrase ‘that’s gay’ about something negative?

Ogden: “I hate that term.” Wells: “Or when people say ‘Why are you acting like a girl?’ It pisses me off. What’s wrong with being a woman?” Ogden: “And then they’ll turn around and say ‘I’m straight’ to mean ‘I’m good.’’ de la Cruz: “That’s a big Is it possible that some thing now in comedy especially. Are you active in the people are louder about People say awful, crude things LGBT community their sexuality because and others laugh about it so in Albuquerque? there is this assumption then they think it’s ok to say it that everyone is hetero? and they don’t necessarily mean Slattery: “My activism to offend people but it’s because is being forthright and honest Galvez: “I never we, as people, support that kind about who I am.” assume that.” of sh**ty media.” Galvez: “Well they don’t Jensen: “I do. I assume have a straight section in the most people are straight until LGBT community.” they tell me otherwise.” GRAPHICS BY SCOTT M. ROBERTS

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Saying no: Why some choose abstinence By Shaya Rogers Features Reporter

Jaden Cowboy, a senior at Native American Community Academy High School, said she is committed to remaining a virgin until marriage because she wants sex to be meaningful and special. “I just think it’s something really special and you should wait and share it with somebody that you really care about and that you love,” she said. Cowboy said she thinks people her age are too focused on sex and should let it come naturally. “I think they take it too lightly, for younger people my age, I think they just do it just to do it, some do it out of love, I’m not sure, but I feel like they just rush it,” she said. American society is sexually driven and sexual references included in movies, music and media

can make it seem like people should be having sex all the time, she said. “I feel like there is too much because it puts a lot of pressure on how we are supposed to be, that we should be doing it,” she said. Seeing sex all around her just makes her feel more proud of the promise she has made to herself, she said. “I feel like it’s part of me, part of who I am and I wouldn’t want to change it just to be like everybody else,” she said. She does not date and does not think dating should be an important part of her life yet, she said. Looking for someone to share herself with is not a priority and she wants to leave it alone until it happens naturally, she said. “I just don’t want to rush it because when it’s time it’ll be time, when I’m supposed to learn about that it’ll

come along when it’s supposed to,” she said. When she does start dating, she said she does not mind if the person she is with is a virgin or not, as long as the person respects her beliefs and has similar values. “I don’t really think it matters to me just as long as they’re on the same page as me and they understand where I’m coming from and they don’t pressure me about it,” she said. She does not feel much pressure from others because she has good support group among her family and friends, she said. “No matter what, I’m proud that I’m a virgin and I’m not embarrassed of it, there’s nothing to be ashamed of just because I’m not that experienced in that area of my life yet,” Cowboy said.


High school student Jaden Cowboy said she wants to wait for the right person before having sex.

Sex by the numbers

The rise of abstinence has changed pregnancy and STD/STI rates in New Mexico. Here are a list of statistics from the New Mexico Department of of Health.

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Virginity is on the rise, 27 percent of 15- to 24-year-old men have never had sexual contact (oral, vaginal, or anal) with another person. Average Age youngest age for women to have sex 16 years. Twenty-one percent of women in their 20’s haven’t had a sexual encounter yet, but by age 23 more than 95 percent of women have had sex. Average age youngest age for men to lose their virginity is 17 years. By age 19, more than 80 percent of men have lost their virginity. By age 25 more than 97 percent of men have had sex.

Pregnancy rates for teenagers aged 15 to 19 fell 40 percent from 1990 to 2008. Rates for black and Hispanic adolescents also fell, but are still two to three times higher than white teenagers. Rates among 18- and 19-year-olds were 19 percent lower than the 30-34 age groups in 2008. In 1990 they were 41 percent higher. Abortions have declined to 19.4 per 1,000 in 2008 from 27.4 in 1990, with about 400,000 fewer abortions.


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There are 19.7 million new STIs cases every year in the US. In 2008, there were 22.1 million women and men aged 15 to 24 years diagnosed with an STD/STI Less than half of adults ages 18 to 44 have ever been tested for an STD/STI other than HIV/AIDS. Each year, one in four teens contracts an STD/STI. About half of all new STDs/STIs in 2000 occurred among youth ages 15 to 24.

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to be involved even if they are unable to attend the meetings in person. “The reaction of members to the article


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duties involved in organizing an exhibition include, but are not limited to, the arts show website design, which includes all of the featured artists, their artist’s statements and photos of their works, and


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Bianca Cowboy, ECOS student relations officer and Criminology major, said this is an opportunity for groups to introduce themselves


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‘Empty Seats’ was a mixed bag of emotions consisting of everything from anger, fear and doubt to motivation and cause for action,” he said. The members that

had motivation are now the same people that are trying to make Alpha Upsilon Chi a better organization by dedicating their time and running for officer positions, he said.

“Even though we now have people running for officer positions there are still open officer seats available for members that may have an

interest in becoming more active,” he said. Members who wish to run are welcome to contact Turner at ntur ner4, he said.

Members of Alpha Upsilon Chi will be contacted via email with the link to the candidate speeches and the voting website on March 29.

editors to proofread press releases and postcard invitations, he said. The exhibition’s title “Known, Unknowns” was created because the students know each other’s works, but many people in the community do not, he said.

“The reason we named it like that was because the artist in the class everyone kind of already knows everybody, that’s where the known part comes from. The unknown is that no one knows about us. We’re unknown in the art community, we’re all new,” he said.

The Arts Career and Concerns class is only offered in the spring and in order to be admitted to the class, students must have completed 3D Design and Drawing I and II. The class teaches students how to be working artists in the professional

art community and teaches conventional skills that many occupations require, he said. “It’s not your typical studio class where you go in there for two hours and you sculpt or paint or draw for two hours,” Sedillo said, “You go in there and she talks to you about

your resumé, your artist’s statement and your bios, and how you’re going to build your portfolio to progress as an artist.” For more information on “Known, Unknowns,” contact Ray Sedillo at

to each other and make their presence more noticeable. “Students who want to participate that are not part of an organization are more than welcome to join in as well, because the school as a whole

should be able to come together to help the community,” she said. Martos said that people who are willing to participate need to be motivated and serious individuals because some of the

projects can require hard work. After the community service is complete, a social gathering will be held on Main campus so volunteers can develop connections with other student groups.

“If people would like For more information, to help out, but are not contact ECOS at ecos@ available that day they or 224-4361. can always talk to ECOS about future community services projects and we will gladly help them anyway possible,” Martos said.

Celebrate Your Achievement at the CNM Spring Graduation Ceremony!

Begin your celebration today! Deadline to apply to participate in the ceremony is March 29, 2013 CNM Spring Graduation Ceremony Saturday, May 4, 2013 at 12 p.m.

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Play time

How to buy and use the right toy By Adriana Avila and Rene Thompson Managing Editor and Staff Reporter

Shopping for sex toys can be tough for those who do not know what to search for. With the vast variety of toys, the frustration of not knowing what to buy can be overwhelming. Research online and visits to local sex shops can prevent the annoying case of receiving the wrong size or material of a toy without realizing it.

Size (and shape) matters:


There are various shapes when it comes to Latex: flexible matevibrators and dildos, and run a gamut from smaller, rial that is non-porous penile-shaped to dongs the size of a friendly dino- and can be sanitized. saur. Most sex shops carry a wide variety – from slender and short to long and wide, and are even available double or triple-ended. Research is recommended to know what your body can handle. Using a toy that is too big can cause microtearing, especially with anal play, so a good rule is to start small and work up to larger toys.


Hard plastic, jelly-rubber, acrylic, anodized metals and some silicon blends, are not capable of being sanitized because these materials are porous, which means bodily fluids and outside germs can become trapped in the material, making it unsafe for more than one use. Medical grade silicone or Pyrex, though more expensive, are safer for long term use.

Acrylic, hard plastic or PVC: porous materials that cannot be sanitized, but can be cleaned with soap and water, and are best used with condoms.

Anodized aluminum and surgical grade stainless steel: Anodized aluminum is porous, due to the anodizing process and can also cause micro-tearing, while stainless steel is nonporous and can be used for cold sensations.


Waterbased lubricant: does not stain or dry often and water or saliva reactivates it. It is safe to use on all toys and sex supplies.

Organic lubricants are marketed as natural products not containing parabens, glycerin or animal-based ingredients, and contain mostly botanicals and plant extracts.

S i l ic one lubr ica nts do not dry out easily and should not be used on toys that cannot be sterilized.

Oil-based lubricant does not dry out easily and is edible. Only use oil-based lubricants with polyurethane condoms because oil lubricant breaks down latex materials. Oil is an ingredient that can cause excretion, so if used anally, expect a visit to the restroom.

Lubricants that contain glycerin or sugar feed yeast, making it more likely for women to get an infection – ya know, down there. There are also specialty warming and cooling lubricants for desired sensation, and anal-specific lubricants tend to be more viscous, which helps the lubricants stay in place.

One-hundred percent medical grade silicone: is a flexible and durable non-porous material, and is safe to sterilize. Glass or Pyrex: are hard non-porous and safe to sanitize. Both absorb heat and cold for different sensations.

Silicone blends, or Jelly Rubber: porous materials that cannot be sanitized and can contain phthalates, which may be linked to cancer according to


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COMMUNITY Let’s talk about sex Local business offers sexuality classes

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Where Are They Now: Gadi Schwartz

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Safe, sane and consensual: Exploring the world of BDSM

The cardinal rules of BDSM

Safe: Always have safeguards for every situation, including safe words and honest communication. Sane: Always be clear headed, sober, and in a healthy state of mind Consensual: Always talk about and agree on what will happen. Remember that all participants have the right to change their minds at any time – even after a session has started.

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By Rene Thompson Staff Reporter

The world of BDSM, or bondage; discipline; sadism and masochism, is often misunderstood by those who do not live the lifestyle. BDSM can seem extreme by those who see sex in a more conventional way, but three rules of BDSM are: safe, sane and consensual, Julian Wolf, sexuality lecturer and enrolled student said. “Conventional relationships are not much different from ours, in the sense that some people communicate better than others about what is wanted form a significant other,” she said. R o x a n n e Youngblood, former student and submissive, said that she began to explore the BDSM lifestyle after learning about it in a Human Sexuality class at CNM.

“I had urges that were not understood in my previous relationships. I wanted to explore what it is that I really am, if I’m straight or bisexual or gay, as well as be able to have my particular needs be met in a BDSM relationship,” she said. Youngblood has been in a submissive/ dominant relationship for eight months and wears a collar from her dominant, she said. The collar is an outward symbol of their relationship, similar to a promise ring. The relationship can be ended by either side at any time. “At any point, if I am not into it anymore or I am not happy, I can take off the collar and walk away,” she said. Being in an environment that allows and approves of sexual

exploration has help Youngblood to accept herself, she said. “I have a much better understanding of what I want out of my relationships, and I am so much happier because I am able to fulfill my needs, and not just sexually,” she said. Ken Cornell, a long-time dominant in his private life and in public performances, said that every relationship needs communication, but BDSM relationship simply cannot survive without it. “You have to be honest about what you want up front, because if not, people can become uncomfortable in what they are seeking, and no one wants that from a BDSM relationship,” Cornell. Aside from communication, a dominant also has the responsibility of guiding a submissive and others new to the lifestyle,

so that they understand that submissives still have the right to say no at all times and that being a submissive does not mean a person has absolutely no control over what happens with them. “As a Dom I feel like a protector of my subs, in guiding them through what needs they really have, and showing my subs that there is complete trust from me to do what they want me to do and figure out what they need,” he said. Many safeguards are in place to protect all parties in BDSM relationships, such as safe words, signed agreements and having first aid kits on hand, just in case. “We have to be completely honest with one another about our needs and expectations to better understand what is really wanted from both parties,” he said.

Want to learn more? To learn more about the BDSM lifestyle, Wolf, Youngblood and Cornell recommend the following: Wolf: – this is a pay site that explores the good and bad ideas in the

“50 Shades Trilogy” while providing step by step guides to entering into a BDSM relationship. Youngblood: latches. htm – The free latches list is a pages-long document makes it easier for

new participants to talk about fetishes and kinks. Cornell: “Sanctuary Under the Crypt” is a monthly club night at Evolution Night Club, 6132 Fourth St. NW, that always includes a public fetish show. The

next show will be on March 30 at 9 p.m. the club is 18+ and charges an $8 cover. Books on BDSM: “Screw the Roses, give me the Thorns”, and “BDSM 101”.

Like most communities, those who live the BDSM lifestyle have words with special meaning within the group. Here is a list of some basic terms. Bondage - Any practice involving restraints placed on the body to restrict freedom of movement. Bottom - A practitioner who submits to bondage, training, role play and/or corporal punishment, but who is not necessarily emotionally committed to his/ her dominant partner. Top - One who takes the active role in physical scene, but does not necessarily engage in emotional/ mental control. Conditioning The term used in psychology for the deliberate process of creating a psychological link between a desired response and an unrelated stimulus. Much of what the SM community refers to as training uses classic conditioning techniques. Corporal Activities that involve the striking of one individual by another are called corporal from the term corporal punishment. Typically corporal activities include spanking, flogging, paddling, and caning. Dominant, Dom, or Dominatrix - The person who is given control in a consensual exchange of power. Dominatrix refers to

women. Dominant or Dom can refer to either sex or gender. Heavy - Intense whipping or hitting, usually with a toy such as a flogger or cane that is capable of delivering intense sensations. Masochism, masochist - The erotic enjoyment of pain, humiliation, and/or being dominated. Polyamory - The practice of having more than one intimate or sexual relationship at a time with the knowledge and consent of everyone involved. Safe word, Safe signal - A word, phrase, or action used as a signal to stop or reduce the intensity during sexual play. Sadism, Sadist Deriving pleasure from giving pain, humiliation, and/or domination to another. Sadomasochism, SM - Advanced practices incorporating the consensual use of pain, humiliation, and power exchange for erotic enjoyment. Submissive, Sub - One who surrenders control of his or her body and behavior, within pre-defined limitations, to another for erotic play. Switch - A person who enjoys taking either side in SM role or physical play: i.e. top or bottom, Dom or sub. Also, a slender flexible branch from a tree used for corporal punishment. GRAPHICS BY SCOTT M. ROBERTS

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