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Will Smith’s summer anthem is one of those tunes regarded as timeless, a classic.

Its lyrics appreciate simpler times where music, family, and backyard cookout fun were all we needed. No shoulders hunched over looking down at phone screens for the latest Instagram or TikTok notifications.

Much like the song... last year brought us back to a place where all that mattered were the little things we tended to overlook or take for granted in our busy pre-COVID lives. We like to think we are different in a way more meaningful than we could have imagined if a pandemic had not forced everyone to stay home no matter celebrity, socioeconomic, or regular everyday person status. We all had to remain in place, not knowing the outcome. Some of us rediscovered our hobbies turned new business, or decided to enroll in virtual classes because we put off getting that advanced degree too long. How about our kids seeing more of their parents because the only morning traffic had was traveling from everyone’s bedroom to the kitchen.

The area most often used as the breakfast, homeschool, workday hub until someone realized third-grade math and Zoom meetings didn’t mix.

We’ve cried and become frustrated but got hold of ourselves to make sure we were okay while helping family and neighbors from a distance. A year later, we’re not out of the woods (we still must 4 | BSM MAGAZINE | BSMANDMEDIA.COM

be careful), but things have gotten better, with vaccinations being a source of some relief as we look back and reflect on the months that reshaped us. We can share our stories, ones that even surprised us at what we were made of or could do.

This issue celebrates life, and we’re excited to share the cover story of Essence Atkins on the beaches of Malibu. The actress talks about a new ABC pilot, her longstanding television and film career, and her everyday spirit of happiness. Read this insightful interview and more like Mother and Father’s Day stories, women entrepreneurs tackling male-dominated sports professions, and young actresses making moves on the big and small screen.

May we also remember justice for George Floyd is ongoing justice for every black man, woman, and child no longer here because of police brutality. The work never ends.

We hope these next months ahead be kind to each of our readers, and we invite you to share your comments and thoughts about this issue on Instagram @bsm_mag.

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Capturing both the picturesque views of the Malibu beaches and the beauty of actress Essence Atkins by photographer Antwon Maxwell made this photoshoot fun.

Essence has a soft spirit, but she can also make the people around her laugh, like hair and makeup artists Malika Palmer and Camara AUnique, respectively, to the wardrobe stylist, Mark Q, during her

fittings.

With the beautiful sunny California weather as a backdrop, Essence was a natural in front of the camera.

The looks ranged from a white Zimmerman dress, Isabel Marant top, and printed pants from Farm Rio to a black cut-out dress by Amur (shoes Steve Madden), swimwear, MBM Swim, and the gold dress worn on the cover by Cult Gaia.

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he recent death of DMX from a heart attack was a shock to the music industry. The rapper, born Earl Simmons, always spoke honestly about his lifelong battle with drugs to his fans. Demi Lovato, who had a near-fatal overdose in 2018, remains vocal about her recovery through social media and her music. Here Addiction Specialist Patrick Cronin answers questions from the early signs of substance abuse to what exactly is “California Sober.”

What are the early warning signs of alcohol and drug addiction?

Some early warning signs can be a change in Alcohol tolerance, constant episodes

of loss of control when under the influence, and constant justification for consumption.

Some signs with less “obvious” substances can be the change in personality, health, and emotional well-being.

What can families do at the onset of substance abuse?

Learning and understanding addiction is the first step; having some knowledge about substances and addiction

can provide more empathy and connection. If you are a caregiver, make sure you are taking care of yourself first and seek professional help.

What language should people use when communicating with someone that has an addiction problem?

Unfortunately, there are no instructions on how to communicate with a loved one that is dealing with addiction. Be kind, stay consistent with your intentions, and use words of encouragement. Seek professional help. Having an intermediator and counselor can be very beneficial for communication. It’s important to remember to listen; even if you disagree with them, you must abstain from interrupting and criticizing to be more successful when it’s your time to make a point.

Should families be required to attend addiction meetings with their loved ones?

Family involvement is important, but this should be a choice since not all family relationships are the same.

Can you provide any behavioral health resources offered in the pandemic for those living with addiction?

• The National Institute on Drug Abuse (NIDA) has compiled a list of COVID-19 resources and resources specific to helping individuals with substance use disorders.

• The Centers for Disease Control (CDC) has created an exhaustive resource page for mental health during COVID-19.

• Some counseling and treatment centers were open. Ark Behavioral Health Facilities were open for inpatient and outpatient treatment. Our outpatients stayed in person as well because patients desperately needed it. We did offer telehealth as well for those that didn’t feel comfortable being in the facilities. Our services were never shut down because the testing protocol was so vigilant immediately.

Rapper and actor DMX’s death raised more awareness about drug addiction. His battle with drugs was made public, and the same for singer Demi Lovato. Do you feel celebrities have a harder time getting clean and sober because of public scrutiny?

I believe that constant exposure to expectations from managers, fans, and close circles are a big influence. Stress, depression, and anxiety can be some of the biggest triggers for

substance abuse. In order to commit to rehab, some lifestyle changes must be done, and, unfortunately, some celebrities don’t acknowledge that this is an option.

Also, please clarify the term “California Sober,” what does it mean?

Some definitions on the internet may vary slightly but most refer to California Sober as a lifestyle trend where people abstain from using alcohol and hard drugs like heroin, methamphetamine, and cocaine, but continue to use marijuana and other psychedelic substances like psilocybin, mushrooms, and LSD. What advice do you have for those looking to kick their addiction? Also, which support groups/ organizations are best in helping?

I can’t stress enough that seeking help is so important after realizing that there is a problem. There are plenty of support groups such as AA and NA that have continued their group meetings online due to COVID-19.

Patrick Cronin, addiction specialist with Ark Behavioral Health

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woman. I say that because we ecially women of color, are often segmented versions of ourselves ituations. We try to be just CEO room and leave the Mom part of home, or try to be a friend to your ithout remembering that you’re a our husband too. The Sheika I am hard to show up as my whole self I go. It’s freeing and empowering, age other women to take a holistic embrace themselves. I’m a wife, er, leader, servant, author, mentor, businesswoman. I’m all of those more every time I enter a room.

pandemic first started didn’t strain my company.

Instead, we had the technology, skills, and capacity to help our customers.

Virtual training helped me re-think some of the ways to connect with my audience, like more live series and producing new content. However, it helped me focus on finishing my first book because of what was already strategically in place.

As an entrepreneur, would you say you like to create different businesses to serve a need?

Your book, PIONEERING, is full of lessons for increasing leadership in every aspect of our lives. Can you provide an example?

“Don’t deny the wisdom you’ve gained from your past experiences - as hurtful as they may have been. Instead, allow your past to teach you, fuel you, and mature you.” An excerpt from chapter one of my book, Pioneering: 7 Leadership Essentials for Innovative Leaders.

Yes. Every time I start a business or project, I make sure it’s meeting a need. That’s part of why I’ve had the longevity that I have. I like things to look nice, but at the end of the day, it has to make financial sense for me to get involved . . . and be within my mission. If it’s a business that you want to be sustainable over time, solve a problem, meet a need.

What advice do you give to balance work and life?

I recently posted this quote to encourage others to allow their past to be their teacher. Sometimes when we step into leadership, we try to forget or abandon our past. A good leader realizes that it took all of those failed experiments to discover the lightbulb. You’ve got to allow what you’ve been through to help you evolve.

For me, number one is praying. God will give you wisdom if you seek it. Number two is taking care of yourself. This pandemic taught us all that selfcare is a necessity, not a luxury. Other than that, plan, have a team, ask for help and be okay with things not being perfect all of the time. Lean on your support system and understand life is all about seasons.

How have you been able to pivot your business “Elite 2.0” virtual training aspect in the pandemic?

Favorite pastime or ways in which you unwind?

In business, having foresight is essential. Not just planning for today but through innovation, forecasting the growth of your company is critical.

Therefore, in 2012, I started online classes to touch busy customers and complement my inperson training. Shifting to 100% virtual when the

My favorite pastime is downloading new games in my App Store and playing them. Lol. It’s silly, but it’s mindless, and it’s secretly my way of supporting innovative people who have created new apps.

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Young rising actress Faithe Herman is making her way in both television and film. She currently stars on the hit NBC drama series “This Is Us” and will reprise her role in the much-anticipated sequel 'Shazam 2' soon. The teen, who comes from a close-knit family, shares what she loves most about acting, including a recent honor and the hobbies she likes when she’s not in front of the camera. Read more here.

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Faithe rman Faithe, you play the character, Annie Pearson, on “This Is Us.” What do you like most about the role, and why do you think the show is well-received with fans?

FH: What I love most about playing Annie is that she has a really kind spirit. She is always kind to everyone, and when she’s doing her family stuff, she says something that is always funny, and she speaks her mind. So, I really love her, and she’s fun, and I think the show is well-received because the fans love the storylines and relate to them. Something that you know you can see on TV.

Yes and we’re definitely big fans of the show.

FH: Thank you.

As one of the younger actresses on the show, what are some things you learned from your older castmates you can share?

FH: So, since this is like my first time being on a big screen, I learned a lot from being around everyone. And I learned that it’s okay to make mistakes. Like

learning lines, sometimes it can be I forget it, or I tongue twist my words. I learned that it’s okay because I know every single time I do it, I remember the emotions, like whatever scene, like a sad scene; watching it on TV and seeing those scenes is also very helpful.

Oh! I watch the show, and yeah, I just learn from everyone around me. And it’s very helpful, and everyone’s amazing.

You starred in the superhero film “Shazam” as Darla Dudley a few years ago. Are you looking to do more acting roles in film?

FH: Yes. I really enjoyed doing it, and hopefully, I get to do more in the future, and I’m excited.

What was your reaction to finding out you were named “17 Black Actors Making Waves at 17 and Younger in Shadow and Act?” FH: It was really nice, and I felt grateful that others acknowledged the work that I’ve done at a young age. It was cool and exciting to see.

We hear you like to tie-dye and bake. Are there any entrepreneur ideas in the future?

FH: I definitely love baking with my sister and tie-dying. I watch home interior design shows with my mom and my sister. It would be fun to have a business or something, and my cousin enjoys it too. Hopefully, if I could decorate something in the future, that’d be really cool.

Is there anything you learned in the pandemic that you can share with people in your age group?

FH: Patience. I’d say that I’ve learned how to be patient doing auditions and memorizing my lines. It’s amazing if you get cast or not, but I mean it’s a big learning experience too. So a lot of patience and putting your hard work into it.

Your mother and aunt are twins.

Did you ever get them mixed up when you were much younger?

FH: No, I always knew which one was mom. But my aunt and mom are, of course, close, so it was always nice that when my mom was at work or not home, my aunt was around. My cousins and I all grew up close together.

When is the last time you laughed out loud without texting or messaging the word?

FH: Honestly, I laugh at a lot of things, or I just try and make it really funny. I love laughing and having a fun time.

Faithe, you are a bright young star, and it’s great meeting you.

FH: Thank you so much for having me, and it was so nice talking to you guys.

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IS TEEN MUSICIAN SCOTTY BERG THE NEXT SHAWN MENDES? The 14-year-old Kelowna native, a city south of Canada, will soon head to the “Capital of Country music” in Nashville. Read how two other Canadian-born singing sensations are high on his list of musical collaborations.

WHAT DO YOU LIKE MOST ABOUT SINGINGSONGWRITING? I love performing. I think the songwriting part can be difficult sometimes, but when it all comes together and you hear the final product, it’s amazing.

You were nominated recently for the City of

KELOWNA CIVIC AWARD FOR TEEN HONOUR IN THE ARTS. TELL US MORE ABOUT THE ACHIEVEMENT? That was cool. It’s about recognizing teens in the city of Kelowna who show leadership etc., through their art. I had many gigs canceled last year because of COVID, so I decided to raise money for different charities by busking and performing at some local wineries in the city. I just thought there were so many people less fortunate than me during that time, so why not try and help them out by using my singing.

WHO WOULD YOU LIKE TO COLLABORATE WITH MUSICALLY? Holy, that’s a great question! Probably Justin Bieber and Shawn Mendes because they are both Canadian, and I think they are amazingly talented. Bruno Mars would be pretty cool too!

HOW IS BEING A TEEN SINGER HELPED YOU DEAL WITH THE MUSIC INDUSTRY’S CHALLENGES? I think not knowing what the industry is all about yet! Just performing and writing things I like and not worrying about anything else. You hear lots of negative stuff about the industry, so just trying to ignore it and have fun.

HOW MUCH OF YOUR OWN LIFE EXPERIENCE DO YOU SHARE IN YOUR MUSIC? Well, I try and choose songs to cover in my performances that fit with my voice and ones that I can connect with; I do this because I am super passionate when I perform and get right into the songs. I think it helps bring out what the songs are about (musically).

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WHAT’S NEXT FOR SCOTTY? Well, I am super excited to say that I will be a part of Circle11 Entertainment, a management and publishing company based out of Nashville, L.A., and New York.

My parents and I have been discussing a lot of stuff with them, and it is a great fit. They are super nice, and family is very important to them, which we like. The plan is for me to go to Nashville and work with Grammynominated writers and producers to record and release some songs. I can’t wait to get started! In Kelowna, I have some gigs lined up for the summer, and I am also in track and field and basketball, play golf and mountain bike, so just keeping super busy and active with friends and family. @scotty_berg

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hawn Zanotti is an entrepreneur, author, TV producer, host, writer, and podcaster with a broadcast journalism background. Her most significant role is mom to a teen son, who plays basketball and is also in the entertainment business as an actor.

Your story as a single mother widowed when your son was eight months old.

How were you able to move forward?

It was tough, and it’s still a process.

You see, with healing, you are constantly on the journey for healing... for wholeness. When my husband first died, just putting one foot in front of the other was tough every day. My world as I knew it tumbled into pieces experiencing that type of loss, my mindset at the time was that I could not go on as a complete family unit and how this was now going to be. Losing a spouse is something like no other. My circle helped me in 20 | BSM MAGAZINE | BSMANDMEDIA.COM

the healing process early on. When the dust settles, when the funeral is over, when life is in motion, and you don’t know how to pick up and keep going, the circle you are with is most important during grief. My best friend since college, Angela, was right there initially-- would come to stay at the hospital every day and was there. Then I was wrapped around my mom, sister, and childhood best friend Cindy, who would come over every day for over a year. Once it is settled in, it’s learning how to function in life, heal your heart and keep moving. The healing process was a process of about five years for me. It took lots of self-help books, mindset training, prayer, and mediation. It then becomes a routine...a life routine of positivity and mind-shifting that becomes instilled within you and is portrayed in your life. I am healed now, but it’s been a journey to this space. I still do those things daily. I meditate every morning, workout

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every morning, listen to a podcast, and set my day goals-- I’ve been doing this daily as a routine essentially since I began the healing process of loss from his death. You learn to understand death and life differently and that we are all on borrowed time. I value my relationships so much as a result.

You live a life where nourishment, positivity, and motivation push you and your now 14-year-old child to be the best. In what ways are you refueled to continue to pour out to your family?

I get refueled to pour into my family because I am love. I LOVE love and walk in love in everything I do.

Looking at my child happy, pushing him to be his best, giving him stories of the highs and lows of life, watching him grow... is everything. Being a mom is a 24/7 job that never ends. It’s a job that I love putting endless hours in as the rewards are priceless. I am present for my child and have always been. He is my fuel...the gas in my tank...motherhood is so beautiful.

I meditate—I work out. I have a small intimate circle of friends who have been there, who are my family.

I pour into my circle, my family, my people with grace... it’s what life is supposed to be.

How is dating as a single mother? Are you open to marrying again?

Dating as a single mother is interesting. I don’t allow men to be around my child or introduce my son to men unless it’s very serious. I keep things separate in the early stages. Yes, I am open to being married again. I believe in love and partnership. My heart is healed and whole at the moment. Marriage for me is two whole healed people coming together in partnership. I would welcome that with the right person.

How will you spend Mother’s Day? My mother died six years after my husband died. My father died at the start of COVID. Mother’s Day, I will be honoring my parents in a private experience I do personally, and then I celebrate the day with my son.

He is a teenager now and always plans a surprise day that I have no idea about until that day. Mother’s Day is actually one of my favorite celebrations with him.

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The soft spirit that is

Essence Atkins enjoys

simple things but does admit to an indulgence. “I like to travel.

You won’t catch me spending it on a bag, but you will catch me spending it on hotels traveling,” laughs the actress. Most days, Essence enjoys a day at the beach, where she recently soaked in the beautiful sunny day with a bit of self-love humor for this interview. “This is what washed up looks like,” she jokes while sitting on a rock surrounded by the sandy beaches of Malibu.

“They got something coming,” she affirms for anyone who thinks women over forty can’t look and feel good. But one glance at the actress, and you would think she’s aging backward.

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“So the prayer is that ABC greenlights us into a series,” she says as we caught up with the “The First Wives Club” star during an afternoon conversation.

Essence is talking about the new ABC pilot “Black Don’t Crack” where she plays Nia Hillis Davis, a bougie, conservative politician’s wife who has lost touch with her more fun-loving college self.” Adding, “I first read the script back in February.” The writer: Regina Hicks. Essence shares she has worked with a few times during the first season of the NBC comedy “Marlon,” which lasted for two seasons and starred Marlon Wayans as the title character.

Essence appreciates her co-stars like Tisha Campbell and Sherri Shepherd, who she calls “Two funny ladies.” But one person, in particular, she became emotional seeing, Tahj Mowry. The two starred together in the 90’s sitcom “Smart Guy.” She recalls they finally met up in person in the COVID line before going to the studio stage. “We were all masked up, so we couldn’t see much of each other except for our eyes, and we just were so excited and so happy.”

Before that, their only interaction was an initial table read from their respective homes through Zoom with the rest of the cast. Much like the older sister she played a little over two decades ago, Essence couldn’t believe her TV “brother” is now a man. “Like, how are you grown?” she remembers saying to him while also acknowledging his “kindness and colossal talent,” which is something the rest of the cast soon found out. “I mean, he’s so gargantuanly talented, but he’s such a sweet and good soul that you love being around him, and everyone fell in love with him.

I mean, I already had the pleasure of knowing him, but Tisha and Sherri, and our director Kelly, and the producers they didn’t necessarily know him already, and by the end, they were just in love because he’s that incredible, as an artist and as a person.”

Knowing she’s at a special place in her life, Essence doesn’t take for granted moments where she feels blessed with the opportunities to work with amazing people like Hicks. “I love her writing, and I love her storytelling,” she says before continuing that, “Often we as middle-aged women don’t necessarily know where our place is because we’re not young anymore, but we’re not quite old, and society doesn’t really make a whole lot of room for us, so when I read the script I was so excited because I felt a huge affinity to Nia and I especially felt just a love of this story.

Essence says she can also relate to starting over in different ways as a woman of a certain age, something that “resonated” with her in terms of where she and women over forty are in their lives.

Reflecting, “I got a divorce five years ago, and I felt like I was starting over in middle age.” So, yes, Essence feels connected to the television pilot and its story because of life-changing situations. Still, she also thinks the show is funny even before she knew Tisha and Sherri were on board, but afterward says, “I just knew that I wanted to be a part of it. So I started the audition process, and there were quite a number of them, and I screen-tested for this multiple times. That’s unusual, but I was willing to fight for this because I wanted it so badly.”

Essence can’t help but be excited at the notion Viola Davis and her husband Julius Tennon are on board as the show’s executive producers. “It’s all inspiring,” she says.

“I absolutely love her!” Like most of us can imagine of Viola, Essence shares, “She has so much gravitas when she enters the room, and then you speak with her, and she’s kind. She’s so present, and it is everything that you would imagine it to be, being in the presence of, you know, black excellence and royalty as far as I’m concerned. In terms of this industry, I think that her legacy as an artist is already legendary. I believe that there will already be tons and tons of more accolades to demonstrate what an exceptional artist she is, and she’s already kind of the most recognized black lead that we had in the history of cinema, Yeah.”

Essence says she doesn’t have the vocabulary to describe how “significant and monumental” these moments are for her as an artist. Especially attaching herself to someone like Viola, who, she says, is still “quite young with plenty more work to do.” Essence’s admiration has everything to do with the “Ma’ Rainey” actress being a part of her project.

Something she says, “Demonstrates what an exceptional artist” that is Viola. “I believe in giving people their flowers while they are here,” she says while finding it amusing that she had a fangirling moment meeting the Academy awardwinning star.

Comedy or Drama? We asked while we were on the subject of television. “It’s funny. I love doing comedy,” Essence says right off. “I love entertaining and making people

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“You really have to eradicate your vanity to do comedy, and I think it’s a great exercise in humility because there is much more pressure in doing it" laugh.” Adding, “You really have to eradicate your vanity to do comedy, and I think it’s a great exercise in humility because there is much more pressure in doing it.” Though the actress likes to bring smiles to people’s faces, she says drama is “easier” because there is less pressure, which she finds funny.

How does Essence maintain her career longevity? “Energize your battery,” says the actress. No, I’m kidding... “I think there are a few things that I attribute to the longevity of my career. One of them is curiosity. Yeah, I remain curious and challenge myself to grow and learn more.

I love what I do, so when I’m not being paid to do it, it doesn’t mean I stop. I actually just signed up for an acting class next month, so I love taking classes.”

Along with cultivating her skills, Essence believes there are other reasons why she’s still around. Kindness, “Like a lot of business I had in the last twenty-plus years has been repeated business. People work with me, and they continue to work with me, and that is a big part of having success.” The TV One film star makes it known she doesn’t want to relegate anyone else in the industry because, as she says, “We do not lack for talent as black women.”

She does believe, “There is something to be said about cultivating an environment that people want to be around that makes everyone work together and not cause dissension, and that has to do with you (a person) being kind and professional. Showing up prepared, which may sound like basic tenets, but unfortunately, when I’m complimented often on those things, it makes me believe they are not so basic or easily exhibited.”

Speaking of qualities, Essence’s definition of black don’t crack involves

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“I drink a lot of water, and I don’t abuse my temple, my body.

I’m pretty good to myself. I treat myself to simple things as well as sometimes an occasional extravagance” taking care of yourself because it is a phrase she hears often. “I’m not a zealot by any stretch of the imagination about anything, but I do believe in moderation,” she says.

“I drink a lot of water, and I don’t abuse my temple, my body. I’m pretty good to myself. I treat myself to simple things as well as sometimes an occasional extravagance.”

Essence, who doesn’t tip too far over the scales, says, “I have a lot of balance, so I’m grateful for that, and I think that is also a secret to my longevity because I take good care of myself. And it isn’t just about physically taking care of yourself, but I think emotionally, creating an environment where you can thrive. Where you guard your heart.”

Spiritual and not afraid to let others know, Essence believes in having clear boundaries. “There is also the spiritual aspect of taking care of yourself, your soul, and your mind’s care. It goes beyond the exterior of who we are, and it’s the resilience of our spirit that requires maintenance, growth, self-examination, and excavation at times that isn’t always fun,” You know.

Like so many of us, Essence found different ways to maintain her mental health in the pandemic, but we’re not too sure if most did what she accomplished, and that is open a school. That’s right. It began as a need for her nine-year-old son when his school closed permanently last July. Before then, he had been doing online learning like so many school-age children. “My son

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“But I’m a believer,” so the Holy Spirit spoke to me and said very clearly, “Empty your guest house…and I was like, wait, what”

finished second-grade on Zoom,” says Essence. “It was devastating,” she says of the school closure. “My son was a student there since pre-school when he was two and a half.” Essence shares she and her ex-husband intended for their son to remain at the school up until he finished fifth grade. “Some of these kids he had been with since he was a baby, a toddler. It’s a very small private school with about 180 kids, small classroom sizes, so when I received the email, it was closing, I immediately started to panic.”

Essence thought of her son’s reaction. “I knew he’d be really devastated because he loved that place, and he loved the kids.” Googling other schools nearby with the same curriculum found the actress reading all the

protocols while seeing what it looked like for her son to be a part of in-person learning come that fall. “I just got really scared,” she says. “But I’m a believer,” so the Holy Spirit spoke to me and said very clearly, “Empty your guest house…and I was like, wait, what.” Essence let us in on the fact she had just finished decorating her “very cute” guest house (laughs).

She remembers a call with her son’s best friend’s mother, a pediatric nurse, and explained what she heard. The conversation led to Essence inviting the friend and another family to a meeting that same afternoon to discuss partnering together to create a small school in her guest house. “And we did,” she says proudly. “We hired

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"Don’t decide that because you are forty, fifty, or sixty whatever, it’s behind you. I don’t believe that" one of the teachers from my son’s defunct school that found herself suddenly, unexpectedly unemployed.

“One parent, former military (Navy), is there twice a week to teach the kids P.E. in my backyard,” she says.

“Another mom, a psychiatrist and psychology professor at Pepperdine University that has a specialty in child development, has become our ‘console,’ says Essence.”

The actress also hired another teacher with twenty years of experience instrumental in giving the directive on the school curriculum. “So this year has been third grade, and we just recently decided that we are going keep the kids together for two more years.

So we have nine students, and then next year will be fourth grade, and then they’ll go off to junior high school on their own. That’s what I did, and to be honest, I thought, oh, you know I’m of service, and that made me feel amazing.”

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Essence shares this thought when many of us feel so helpless (hopeless) because she created the school right after George Floyd’s killing. “There were all these protests, a lot of chaos,” she says. “It helped me to feel like I could channel my worry into something positive. What I didn’t expect is how it left me (feeling). Oh, I’m gonna cry, Sorry.” Taking a moment before she began speaking again, Essence shares, “I don’t have a big family. The majority of them live back east in New York, where I’m from, and then I have family in Northern California, so I don’t have many biologically here where I am. I have a chosen family. But obviously with everyone trying to keep safe and social distance”...her gentle voice trails off before adding, “I felt very isolated and, you know to have this pod of children in the backyard, playing and laughing, and being together. It gave me such a sense of normalcy and purpose. It’s been such a huge blessing, and I’m really happy to say we’ve gotten through almost the whole school year, and we end

in May. Everyone is healthy, safe, and happy, and the kids are thriving, and they love it. All the parents of the kids that attend volunteer once a week so the teachers can have a lunch break.”

Essence thinks of the question again. How has she maintained her mental health in 2020? She replies, “I had no idea how it would help me by blessing others, being of service to others, but it did. It gave me something to focus on.” The school’s name: Rison (R.I.S.O.N.). From the son of God who rose. “We are a village that takes care of one another. The best thing I could have done is being obedient to the prompting of what the Holy Spirit told me to do, and it blessed me in ways I can’t even describe.”

While on the subject of children, we asked how she plans to celebrate Mother’s Day. “I always spend it with my son unless I have to work.”

For her birthday, Essence says the two went hiking. She then remembers the time they foot raced and says, “He thought he was faster than me,” and I’m like, not yet, son, not yet (laughs). “It’s the simple things,” she says. “As long as I’m with him and we’re together watching a movie or taking a swim enjoying beautiful sunny days.” As Essence waits to travel again (with vaccinations now a reality), she shares, “I like a good trip, but goes back to the thought of her son; I know he will get me flowers and a card. He always does.”

As thoughtful as Essence was during our conversation, she is the same on social media, namely Instagram, where she previously posted a picture of her and the “Black Don’t Crack” cast and crew. The message: Feelings coming from the inside. We asked her exactly what that meant and why she thinks it’s necessary to share her inner thoughts with followers?

“I feel like if you connect with me on IG, there’s a reason.

I have the mindset that we are either blessing or cursing the people that follow. There’s no middle. I think neutrality is like a false narrative, in my opinion. You know we’re either helping or hurting, so I try to use my platforms to be of service—a place where people feel inspired or get information. Where I can promote my friend’s movies or projects, these are the things I believe. I really try to limit, you know, any toxicity around me. I don’t get to control the narrative entirely when you have many followers, but I definitely try to be intentional. I protect my heart. And

it’s not a judgmental place at all, but it’s just how sensitive I am. I limit my exposure to certain energies.”

We asked the actress what words she has for women over forty to embrace their beauty and flaws.

“You know, I think it takes work. Society is going to tell you that nothing good can happen. That you are no longer vital because you may not be able to bear children anymore, or you were not able to bear children. There’s so much messaging that well, kind of, speaks condemnation over you.” Essence then remembers the post about an Asian lady who started her fitness journey at sixty-five.

She’s now in her nineties. Saying, “This little Asian woman looks amazing. First of all, she doesn’t look anywhere near ninety years old, and you’re watching her do these workouts, and it’s incredible. I was inspired by the fact that this wasn’t a lifelong practice. We have to get out of the mindset like, oh, because it’s always been, it will always be. Every day God gives us new mercies and access to new opportunities, favor, and grace. Decide today is the day. Start today.

These days Essence knows the source of her strength.

Her joy. “I’m a work in progress, so I’m not a perfect person. I’m working on it. The source of that is my love of God and all good things in me. It is my will to pursue Him and pursue a relationship with Him that leaps off the pages of the Bible. It’s not just me identifying as Christian but me living and moving through the world where it’s evident. That’s how I’m behaving. I want to live in such a way where people can see that my faith is demonstrated to be a blessing to them and not hurting anyone. Again, it’s not about judgment. But the question: Are we a love letter or a critique?

Essence, looking out from the beaches of Malibu, again watches the water up against the sand and rocks and says, “Don’t decide that because you are forty, fifty, or sixty whatever, it’s behind you. I don’t believe that.”

On this beautiful day, Essence's skin glows as she basks in the California sun. The fierce and redefining woman enjoys all she has accomplished and the things to lie ahead, knowing there is nothing washed up about her journey..

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Look toward brighter colors and comfier shoes to signal a more cheery and relaxed style following a year of uncertainties for many of us.

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Author Alfonzo McIntosh’s latest book, “A Queen Through My Eyes,” available on Amazon Kindle and paperback, is a “poetic journey of extraordinary black women he celebrates. Queens he’s loved, admired, hurt, and who nurtured a young boy into a man after.

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You recently authored the book “A Queen Through My Eyes”. Tell us more about the title?

The title is praise and acknowledgment to all of the beautiful black women in mind, body, and soul that I have been blessed to spend time with throughout my life experiences. I had an epiphany when writing this book. I wanted to write something to celebrate black women.

I realized that the best way to do that is to celebrate the women that have impacted my life past and present.

Who is your audience, and what will people take away from this read?

Although my focus is on my black queens, I believe my audience is everyone. There is no person on this earth in

some way, form, or fashion that have not been affected by black women. Black women are a universal language, speaking to the lives of everyone around them.

Why did you choose this time to write a book of poetry honoring the black women in your life?

That’s a simple answer.

To give these wonderful women the flowers that are due to them.

How much of your experience did you pour into the book, if any?

My poetry is my experience.

I write novels, screenplays, and plays, but poetry is the genre that is mostly a reflection of me. It’s a place

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where I can open my heart and make myself vulnerable to speak the truths I see and experience. In this book, II speak on the queens I loved, admired, and hurt that nurtured a young boy into the man you see today.

What’s next for Alfonzo McIntosh?

I already have the next idea for my new book of poetry.

But right now, I am focused on a movie script I just finished. I’m excited about the project. I believe it’s a God-given project. I’m in the process of letting God lead me in the right direction toward the people I will work with on this project to get it in the theatres and streaming networks.

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The author writes about a subject in “The Widow’s Oil” that is not comfortable to talk about, and that is the “realities of grief after losing a spouse or loved one,” where she takes us on a journey of healing and her mission to help others in this therapeutic and spiritual read.

You recently authored the book “The Widow’s Oil.” Tell us more about the title?

The Widow’s Oil: Discovering God’s Purpose in the Midst of Grief uncovers the hardships and realities of grief after losing a spouse and or loved one through the eyes of The Widow in 2 Kings Chapter 4. The Story of the Widow cultivates God’s power to heal and restore a woman after a major loss. The Widow’s Oil encourages women to face grief and heartache head-on and believes that there is still a divine purpose for their lives even in a crisis.

Who is your audience, and what will people take away from this read?

My target is women who are familiar with Christianity. They have always had a resounding faith in the things of God, but tragedy hits them unexpectedly. These women are strong and faithfilled and never thought this would be a trial they would have to endure so soon. They are hurt and broken by the loss and disappointment, but they have a spot of hope that they can potentially come out victorious in this. They connect with my ministry as a whole because they are looking for both emotional support undergirded in the scripture. They are looking for the realness of reallife hurt on display and want to see what is the journey they must take to come through this valley experience.

How is being a minister helped you to deal with your grief? Did you seek outside Therapy?

As a minister, I would speak only to the fact that I had, fortunately, had the grace of God in my life to grieve. My vocation had nothing to do with it.

Having a real relationship with God, having an amazing faith community, and therapy, I believe, are the things that sustained my family and me after this great loss.

How much of your experience did you share in the book?

I share a great deal of my experience coupled with insights and revelations I received from my therapy sessions and my time in devotion. I was intentional about providing both the practical and spiritual aspects of grieving. I hope that I can shed some light on the process. Every grief journey is different.

However, I think I can help someone by providing a fresh perspective on managing their thoughts and emotions in the process.

What’s next for Nickcole Byrd?

Well, I am hoping to continue to spread my message of healing. I am the Founder of a nonprofit organization, 700 AD. Created to help women in grief and trauma thrive beyond their situations by discovering God’s purpose for their lives. I want to create spaces for women to fulfill their purpose even in the midst of their valley experiences.

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Dareia Jacobs is a wife, mother, TV & radio personality, actress, author, educator, and First Lady whose new book is an account of past church hurt and the ability to forgive in Leaving Your Pain On The Pew.

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You recently authored the book “Leaving Your Pain On The Pew.” Tell us more about the title?

My own experience with church hurt inspired me to write the book. Prior to marrying my husband, I experienced a level of church hurt that I would not wish on my worst enemy. At the time, I did not understand that there was purpose in the pain.

Who is your audience, and what will people take away from this read?

I would like for readers to understand that there is purpose even in the pain. It may not feel good in the moment, but trust God is working everything out for our good. It’s also important for us not to take the hurt personally and turn to God for healing.

He can heal our broken and battered hearts. Lastly, I would

like readers to find the courage to forgive even in the midst of the pain. Beyond forgiveness, we must muster up the strength to love even those who caused us harm.

How is being a wife and mother helped you to write the book?

I’m excited about what God is doing in my life. Being a wife, mommy, first lady, and then having a career of my own has been an exhilarating experience.

Stepping into my new roles has not come without challenges, but overall, it has been amazing! I thank God for His many blessings. And for the opportunity to be used as a vessel for His Kingdom.

How much of your experience did you pour into the book, if any?

As for my book, I hope that it heals someone who is experiencing brokenness. I want for it to speak to the hurt people who are hurting other people. Ultimately, I hope that my book transforms people’s lives for the better.

My personal goal is to live a life that brings glory to God. What’s next for Dareia Tolbert Jacobs?

I plan to continue fulfilling whatever God has purposed for my life! I am also looking to run for a state or local office such as city council or state representative within the next 2 or 3 years. I desire to serve my community and to see others thriving, healthy and whole!

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SYDNEY MIKAYLA ARTICLE BY TWINS OF MEDIA LA TRISHA & LA TASHA

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ydney Mikayla describes her latest role on a long-running awardwinning soap as “amazing and legendary.” The actress, whose upbeat energy made for a fun interview, also shared what she loves most about working behind the camera doing voiceover and the singer she would like to portray on film.

General Hospital is a fan favorite for many generations.

Talk to us about that moment you joined the show as a series regular in your role as Trina Robinson. What is it like to be a part of the daytime soap?

Oooh! That is a really good question. When I first joined, I don’t think I understood how amazing and incredible and legendary it was until I walked into the set and started seeing all the legends. You know, Maurice Benard (Sonny), and just seeing everyone, it was mind-blowing to be part of this universe and part of the longest running TV soap in history (still in production). Yeah. It was incredible. So I think I was just mind-blown to be part of that legacy.

Speaking of legends, what advice have you received, if any, from some of the veteran actors on General Hospital?

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Hmm. Well, I wouldn’t necessarily say it's advice, but I think Maura West (Ava Jerome) has really inspired me to continue and be the absolute best actress, you know, you can be. I feel like she always comes to the set so incredibly prepared and never treats any scene like, you know, just a scene. Even though she has a thousand pages of dialogue a day, she really pushes herself to know herself, drive, and be in character. She knows her character to the tee, how she dresses, how she talks, how she walks. And so, I have really learned and taken that from her, and I hope to do that as well, and just kind of, you know, really delve into BSM MAGAZINE | BSMANDMEDIA.COM | 41

my character and be as in it as she is.

What do you like most on-screen or behind the camera doing voiceover?

I actually love both. I think to become a good actor because I can be well-rounded. You know, in General Hospital, it’s very realistic acting. You are making sure you’re really just talking to one person, you’re not using a loud voice, and you’re very dramatic. You got to pull the tears, the scream, the crying out whenever needed. With voiceover, it’s much different. It’s much more physical and fun, and crazy voices to try to see if it works.

So I think the two, the dichotomy is just the difference that prepares you as an actor.

Sydney currently voices the character of Olivia on Nickelodeon’s live-action puppet comedy “The Barbarian and the Troll.”

You played Olympic gold medalist gymnast Gabby in “The Gabby Douglas Story” and won a Young Artist Award for Best Performance in a TV Movie. Along with that performance, are there other characters of a real-life person you would like to play?

Ooh! Yes! That’s really, really good. I’ve heard from quite a few people that I look like Solange. So I would love to do like, a biopic of hers. That would be so much fun.

Are you a fan of her music?

Oh yes! Absolutely, but I’m not going to say like huge, huge because I don’t want people to be like quizzing me (laughs). I don’t know all her hits from day one, but I think she’s a really great artist, and I love that she’s so different from her sister. Beyoncé and Solange kind of give me the same vibe, like Chloe x Halle, which is so interesting to me because of their very different sounds, but I think both are really needed. I like listening to Solange to relax and to find that inner peace.

I think that she’s just a great person and I love her music.

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screen with movies or film?

Yes, I hope so. You know I’m really grateful because I feel like especially for young actors, especially black actors, it’s difficult to find dramatic work at such a young age, you know. I found that I was doing a lot of oneliners, quick(y) things, or roles and stuff like that. When I was younger, it was cute to be sassy and all things like that, but I wanted to dig into something deeper at a certain age and, as an actor getting my teeth into something more. The character Trina has given me that and hopefully the tools I need to continue working with dramatic acting.

Is there something about Sydney Mikayla that most people don’t know?

Ooh! I’m not really sure, but I think people don’t know that I like to bake and cook a lot. So I’m kind of getting better at it and getting into it more. I’m also getting into makeup, which I think is pretty cool. I never really took myself as like, an artist like a visual artist. Doing that and exploring it is really interesting and fun, so hopefully, I’ll get to do some makeup collabs in the future.

I would definitely say to try new things. Like what I said about makeup, I never saw myself being a makeup person, but one day I just got up and forced myself to do it.

I’m like, hey, this doesn’t look too bad.

Whether you think you’re a bad dancer and you’ve always wanted to try that, or you just wanted to do something your entire life, like pick up a guitar or a bike ride. Whatever age you are, this is the time to step out that comfort zone and realize that you know you’re still alive. So whatever you wanted to try or experience, but you couldn’t, now you can. So go for it!

Why should people, fans, or those who may not watch General Hospital tune in to see Trina Robinson?

I think people should keep watching for the adventure and fun of it. It’s a great mix between what the future is and what’s from the past. I think people should watch old and young because you could still be surprised by what new things are coming, like great storylines. @officialsydneymikayla

Okay. Makeup collabs and maybe some cooking, baking shows?

You may see a little bit of that. You never know.

What advice do you have for young people your age to keep going no matter what?

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amara Washington, Black Woman Leader Tackling the Sports World with The Launch of a New Management and Sports Firm.

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As a successful founder of Boom Media and Image, a PR firm located in Houston, what led to the creation of Boom Effect Entertainment and Sports™ (BEES)?

Woman Gamechanger in the World of Sports

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As a publicist, our job is more than pitching our client and creating exposure. Our ultimate job is to protect our client and their brand. So we wear many hats to make sure our client is successful. Because we have to know everything that is going on, we learn a lot. Nearly four years ago, I found out that one of my client’s agents was stealing money from him, and that’s how it all started. That client asked me to manage him, and after learning the management side of things and getting the necessary certifications, it all took off from there. I met more and more athletes who truly needed these services, and I decided I wanted to continue this kind of difference to help others be successful.

The boutique sports and entertainment luxury firm aim to make its clients feel they are part of the family.

What sets it apart from other similar businesses?

We truly get to know our clients - where they grew up, how they grew up; we get to know who raised them, truly learn about

their community; we learn about every part of them that plays a role in who they are. We have traveled outside the US to visit our clients’ family roots. We also help them understand the smallest details necessary to be the best business person. For example, how to return emails, control a business meeting, and even what questions to ask. It may sound small, but it makes a difference. Just as our team is always learning, we make sure we are always positioning our clients to learn more and continue growing.

How does your company BEES communicate with athletes and entertainers to trust your team and brand?

It starts with valuing their presence. We respect their space at the table by talking with them and not at them. We take the time to truly hear them. We get to understand their creative side, their big dreams, and an understanding of what life looks like after the “game.”

What challenges have you encountered not only as a woman but a black woman working in a maledominated industry?

Name a favorite time that made you realize why you became an entrepreneur?

As a black woman working in this industry, I am usually the ONLY one in the room or at the table. Most of the men tend to do their best to intimidate me, so I not only have to understand the business clearly, but I also have to understand the game, so I can truly talk the language. I don’t believe I have this one moment that was the ‘clarity moment’ of why I became an entrepreneur. I believe I have the moments nearly every day when I get to help tell a client’s story and when I help a client truly understand their value off the field, off the court, off-camera. It’s when the clients understand they are the CEO of their brand!

Your plans for BEES for the rest of 2021?

As the world is starting to open back up, I plan to expand my relationships with financial advisors, insurance agents, sports agents, and publicists. Growing these relationships will also help increase our client base.

What is a funny athlete moment you can share?

I have so many, but one of my favorites…. It was my first year working with Houston Texans Whitney Mercilus, and his birthday was approaching, so I wanted to make it fun. So my team called the Texans PR team and got Toro (Texans mascot) to agree to cake Mercilus after practice. The plan went off perfectly, Mercilus was told he needed to do an interview, and while the Texans staff was interviewing him, Toro approached him with a Happy Birthday cake. Mercilus said, “Thank you, but I am doing an interview,” shortly after, he was caked. The video went viral and made national news. To this day, Mercilus is out to get me!!!

Best place traveled? And a favorite food?

One of the best places I have traveled is Ireland. No matter the type of restaurant you go to, potatoes are always on the menu, and they are served with everything. Potatoes are my favorite. I love all kinds of potatoes!

Complete the following sentence. I love working in sports because after...

I love working in sports because it’s competitive, it creates conversation, allows you to be creative, allows you to give back, and in so many ways, it allows you to help heal a world of pain. It’s a man’s world, and it allows me to use my voice to make room for women at the table.

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FATHER’S DAY QUIZ 2021

Which TV dad are you?

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Thale Blanc Crescent Fringe Crossbody

Let’s Get Fanatic About Fringe Bags

For a refined take on the fringe trend, check out the leather crescent crossbody bag by Thalé Blanc. Available in Black, Red and Yellow with a chain strap that can be worn over the shoulder or crossbody. The extra-long fringe embellishment emphasizes movement and adds an element of flair to the structured bag.

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There’s no doubt the ‘70s are back with billowy boho dresses, monochromatic tonal suits, and headscarves à la Jackie O. However, the grooviest item of all is definitely the fringe bag which is being done in so many different ways.

We talked with celebrity style expert Tijana Ibrahimovic and got her top fringe bag picks for Spring 2021 that are both fancy and fun!

Fendi Baguette For this season, Fendi issued their iconic Baguette bag in knitted wool with fringe yarns embellishing the front opening. It’s a bold move and we’re so here for it. What a fun and casual take on luxury that’s sure to stand out in any crowd.

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Danié Coffa Siciliana Fico Verde Inspired by figs, a delicate summer fruit of precious seasonality and endless delight, this fun and whimsical bag is a great carryall for heading into summer. A true, authentic Coffa bag made in Sicily from materials derived from Palma nana and designed with tassel, fringe embellishment.

Tarryn Simone Elsee Here is another version with the extra long fringe style designed with Italian Camel Nappa Leather and Multi Snakeskin. Great for dressing up a casual outfit and day-into-night. This foldover, crossbody bag is available in four neutral tones.

Simone Miller Vegan Puffin For an ethical version of the trend, check out this vegan fringe bag option by LA based fashion darling Simone Miller. The bag is styled in a “puffer” silhouette that can be carried as a shoulder or crossbody and makes this ‘70s trend super chic.

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Tyla-Simone and her mother Monique Crayton are the masterminds behind the successful Sienna Sauce brand that began when a favorite restaurant of the teen closed. Fast forward from her creating an original sauce in the kitchen to an appearance on Shark Tank, and this young entrepreneur is building a flavorful empire.

What inspired you to want to become an entrepreneur?

I have always had an entrepreneur mentality but, it all started when I was just eight years old. My favorite wing place closed down in NYC, and I asked my Mom if I could recreate the flavor by playing with ingredients in my kitchen. What I ended up creating was even better, and this was the birth of Sienna Sauce. When we started getting orders and making money, I realized how much of a great opportunity it was for me to start it as a business. It has been an incredible ride!

(Tyla-Simone Crayton), as a teen CEO of Sienna Sauce, how do you balance school and running a business?

“I am so blessed to have my Mom. If it were not for her, Sienna Sauce would not be here” Interview by: Twins of Media La Trisha & La Tasha

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I am homeschooled, so it has really put me in a position for discipline. I take most of my classes on Monday and Tuesday to work on my business from Wednesday through Friday. I am in my senior year and will be graduating in May as an honor student.

Your Mom, Monique Crayton, is the President of Sienna Sauce, and as seen on Shark Tank, the two of you faced some hardship in the past. How has your Mom inspired you to keep going while dealing with adversity?

My Mom taught me how hard work brings

success, as does the right attitude. When we were going through that period of homelessness, she told me that we “may be homeless physically, but we would not be homeless mentally.” That has always stuck with me and plays a big part in the drive that I have today. I am so blessed to have my mom. If it were not for her, Sienna Sauce would not be here.

me a chance to slow things down and really look into my customer’s needs and how to make it (products) better. 2020 was a hard year for us and so many, but I am thankful for it because I believe we are now in a position to elevate the brand.

What has been the most rewarding moment for your business?

What challenges has your We have received a large business faced during the amount of support after pandemic? our appearance on Shark Tank. That has been the It was a challenge not most rewarding. We had being able to connect over 10,000 orders that with people and network, first week and nearly but the pandemic gave made half a million, YTD!

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What sets your sauce apart from other sauce brands currently on the market? What is your top seller?

My goal is to change the way we use and buy sauce and give society a swift kick on how we view sauce buyers.

Sienna Sauce is a versatile non-bias product that can be used as a dip, marinade, glaze, or an added ingredient to any recipe. With a sauce being so versatile, it frees up space in your refrigerator. Sienna Sauce is classified as a BBQ sauce (according to the ingredients), but my product is not ketchup or

FINDING MY OWN WAYS a BBQ sauce; it’s Sienna Sauce! The awardwinning Sienna Sauce comes in three delicious flavors for every palette.

Tangy (the original flavor), which is my favorite, Lemon Pepper and Spicy.

The Lemon Pepper and Spicy flavors are made with the original flavor being the base of those sauces. The Lemon Pepper is our top seller and currently #1 Best Seller on Amazon.

What has been your peers’ feedback since making a deal with Shark Tank guest shark Kendra Scott?

Everyone is so excited and supportive. With the influx of orders, we’ve had these last few weeks, some of my peers have taken time to come and help us get shipments out. I am really lucky and grateful!

What’s next for Sienna Sauce?

What’s up next is we are doing a rebrand!!!! I am so excited. We will be bringing live fun to the creativity of the brand because I am young. I originally wanted it to be timeless, but now I want it to reflect more of my generation, meaning

everything INSTANT. We are in over 70 stores across the US, including HEB stores in Texas and Wegman stores in Brooklyn and New Jersey.

We plan to expand to more stores and markets within the year. Those are just a few things I can mention. Stay tuned, we have some saucy stuff coming up, and be sure to stay connected with us at www.siennasauce.com Favorite thing to do when you are not working or attending school?

I love video games, listening to music, hanging out with friends,

and spending time at home with my Mom and dog, Chloe.

Favorite social media handle for our readers to stay connected.

You can connect with me on Instagram @SiennaSauce and @CeoSauceBoss.

I recently joined the Community family, and now, you can text me at 832-400-1137 to find out about recipes, discounts, behind the scenes of our journey, new flavors, and give us feedback about what you want next!

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