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FEBRUARY IS ALL ABOUT HEARTS AND FLOWERS, AND OUR MAGAZINE THIS MONTH IS SENDING A LOT OF LOVE TO OUR LOCAL UNSUNG HEROES: TEACHERS. However long we spent time in classrooms, we all have at least one teacher who impacted our life. Teachers saw us at our best and sometimes our worst, some knew exactly what to say to us while others weren’t always the kindest, but most importantly, there were a few who encouraged us to be the best version of ourselves.

Whether they know it or not, they continue to be influential today.

My first grade teacher, Mr. Wasinger, was one of the kindest teachers I was lucky enough to have at such a young age. He taught me the power of being a good listener and always being there for your friends. When my grandfather passed away, Mr. Wasinger knew exactly what to say to make those first few days a little easier on me. He also took us on some amazing field trips — those are important too! — that opened my eager little eyes up to the world around me.

My fourth grade teacher, Mrs. Otte, started every morning with a high-five and ended the day with a hug. She was the “cool teacher” because she knew how to make us laugh and she always had the best activities planned. Even though this was a grade level when subjects got a little more difficult — I had a few meltdowns over fractions, multiplication and division — Mrs. Otte could always spot a struggling student in the crowd and provide extra help when necessary. I gained a lot more confidence in math from her, and I thankfully never had problems with the subject as I got older.

As I moved through middle school and high school, my teachers became more and more important to me. My eighth grade English/ language arts teacher, Miss Smith, made me fall in love with writing and reading in a way I never thought possible. Her classroom was where I explored my creativity and had an inkling that may-

be I could pursue a career in it one day. She also always knew when there was something wrong — I was always a happy, bubbly student so it was easy to spot — and did her best to make me feel better. When my grandmother passed away and I wasn’t able to attend the funeral in Bosnia, she provided me with words of comfort and hugs that helped more than she probably imagined.

English teachers always had a place in my heart, and sophomore year I met Mrs. Klingner, who had an infectious laugh and wicked sense of humor. We bonded over our Yugoslavian heritage and love of theater. One thing I still kick myself over is not auditioning for one of the school plays or musicals that she directed.

In college, I was so privileged to be surrounded by so many brilliant minds. Two great journalists, John Plevka and Rick Jones, influenced me greatly during those four years and honestly taught me everything I know. They were great professors and mentors during my time at Illinois State University, and today I consider them even greater friends who regularly check in with their California gal.

It just goes to show you what great teachers can do for us. Of course, this past school year was filled with unprecedented challenges. But somehow, teachers continue to inspire their students and be there for them as best as they can. They really are superheroes, aren’t they?

Remember to reach out and thank the teachers in your lives. They have one of the most important and rewarding jobs on the planet and deserve way more credit for all the work they do!

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Editor's Note Meet our Contributors The Big Picture On the Web What We're Streaming

LIFESTYLES Home & Garden Lifestyles Feature Beauty Fashion Love & Life Peace of Mind The Marketplace

EAT & DRINK Salty & Sweet Sip & Swirl What's Cooking Bites

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Honoring our teachers through the years

Education keeps growing Edible Schoolyard teaches students farm-to-table skills

O N T H E C OV E R Bakersfield Life Magazine celeberates educators everywhere.

Thank you for the dedication and passion to make a difference in your students' lives every day. This edition is sponsored by Valley Strong Credit Union.

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Personality 59 Our Town 61 What We're Celebrating 62 Bakersfield Matters 64 Study Hall 65 History 66 How Bakersfield are you?

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CONTRIBUTORS Anna Marie Frank Anna is a brain health expert, a worksite wellness specialist, published author, lecturer, business owner, and, as if that doesn't keep her busy enough, she's also the mother of two thriving children.

Follow Anna and find information on how you can become your best self @HappyWholeYou on Instagram and Facebook.

Lisa Kimble Lisa is an Emmy Award-winning former broadcast journalist who began her career in radio. She's done it all — news anchoring, producing, radio and is one of Bakersfield Life's regular contributors.

Lisa has served on countless community boards in Bakersfield such as the Junior League of Bakersfield and has been a Kern County Grand Juror, to name a few.

Lyle W. Norton Lyle is a wine enthusiast and blogger who has written a wine column for 20 years.

He incorporates wine into his passion to travel and tries to bring his readers along on the journey.

Visit his blog at lifebylyle.com.

Julie Plata Julie is a historian and lecturer at CSUB and Cerro Coso Community College. She has been a contributor to Bakersfield Life Magazine since 2015 and loves to bring the stories of Bakersfield’s past to life. When she isn’t digging through the archives, she loves spending time with her family and menagerie of pets.

Jessica Jones Jessica is a lifelong resident of Bakersfield, a wife and a homeschooling mom to two teens. She is passionate about her faith, loved ones and our community. Her hobbies include yoga, hiking, fitness, gardening, thrifting and flipping furniture. She loves to write daily in her journal, for her blog, a novel each November for Nanowrimo and now for Bakersfield Life.

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THE BIG PICTURE

THANK YOU, TEACHERS!

Working from her classroom in Williams Elementary School, first grade teacher Ruth March reacts during classroom time with her students on the first day of school in August.

Bakersfield Life Magazine is honoring educators for their hard work and dedication.

See educators who were nominated on PAGE 34.

» Read more of this story on BAKERSFIELD.COM. PHOTO BY ALEX HORVATH

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FALL IN LOVE WITH THESE ROM-COM, DRAMA PICKS “Someone Great” (Netflix): “Someone Great” stars Gina Rodriguez as Jenny, a music journalist who lands a big job at Rolling Stone that requires her to move across the country, which leaves her boyfriend of nine years, Nate, to break up with her, rather than pursue a long-distance relationship. Feeling distressed, Jenny has the help of her two best gal pals to distract her by going out for one last time in Manhattan.

In between the really sad moments one goes through post-breakup are hilarious bits from Erin (DeWanda Wise), Blair (Brittany Snow) and Mikey (Jaboukie Young-White).

What makes this film stand apart from other romantic comedies is that it’s completely relatable and realistic. Jenny, Erin and Blair are total opposites, but everyone in their 20s and 30s can relate to their individual characters in whatever stage they are in life. Not that I want to spoil this movie for anyone, but Jenny and Nate don’t resolve their differences and make up. There are a lot of somber moments in this film, but there’s also the power of growth, girl power and friendship that make this movie great.

“To All the Boys I’ve Loved Before” (Netflix): If you haven’t already watched this teen rom-com film, it’s perfect to binge watch on a girls night. Adapted from Jenny Han’s books, the film follows teen Lara Jean Song-Covey writing five love letters to boys she never planned to send until one day someone did. Lara Jean now must navigate through the havoc of those love letters and high school itself. The film also has a second adaptation available on Netflix and a third movie is in the works.

What makes this film relatable is that Lara Jean is a shy young woman who breaks out of her shell eventually when she starts dating Peter Kavinsky, one of the boys she sent a love letter to. “To All the Boys I’ve Loved Before” is a cliche teen rom-com film, but what I like about its message is that love waits for no one — even when you’re shy. Lara Jean takes a chance on love, even if that means going outside her comfort zone.

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”Portrait of a Lady on Fire” (Hulu): I personally think French is a very beautiful and passionate language, and romance films in the foreign language hit differently. This film is no exception.

Set in the 18th century, a young painter, Marianne, is commissioned to do the wedding portrait of Héloïse. The only problem is Héloïse has previously refused to pose for the portrait, symbolic for how she does not want to marry.

Marianne must paint the portrait in secret, remembering Héloïse’s features during their daily walks. Day by day, the two women become closer, which makes painting the portrait even harder, knowing that its completion means Héloïse loses her freedom.

It’s a beautiful love story that develops between these two women, and it truly tugs at your heartstrings the closer Marianne gets to completing the painting. Noémie Merlant and Adèle Haenel deliver stellar performances. If subtitles don’t bother you, you have to watch this movie.

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BL: Can you tell us about yourself and your business?

MB: I was born and raised in Bakersfield and graduated from Garces Memorial High School — Go Rams! My husband, Blake, and I actually met at Bakersfield College 14 years ago and we have been married for a little over five years now. Blake, too, has remained grounded to Bakersfield; he is an attorney and recently opened his own

law firm in Bakersfield called Bakersfield Law Group just around a year ago. We have two little dachshunds, Dukes and Dane, who I’d admit we may spoil a bit too much and undoubtedly treat as humans, but we wouldn’t have it any other way.

I am the owner and lead floral designer of Birchwood Floral Design. I primarily provide florals for weddings and events but also enjoy styling for intimate settings as well.

Prior to becoming a florist, I received my bachelor’s degree in kinesiology and was a personal fitness trainer for » See more on McKenzi Burtchaell on PAGE 14.

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many years as well as a case manager for chiropractors and a chiropractic neurologist. As you can see, just a few years ago, I was nowhere near becoming involved in floral design.

I have always enjoyed art and design, but I didn’t realize my love for floral design and wedding coordinating until I began planning my own wedding.

BL: What made you want to get into floral design?

MB: I planned and designed my own wedding in 2015 and fell in love with the whole process. I enjoyed the attention to detail and the excitement of it all. So after our wedding dust settled, I decided to give wedding planning a try! I was in the middle of planning a wedding and my bride was concerned on how to stretch a small floral budget. I simply offered to do the florals myself and I haven’t turned back since!

BL: Why do you think a gift of flowers is special?

MB: To me, the act of giving is special on its own. When you receive a gift that reflects someone’s heart and memory of you, you are reminded that you are loved and appreciated.

When you receive the gift of flowers, you are reminded that someone thought of you. Not only did they order or design the arrangement for you, but they selected the flowers that they felt reflect you. Maybe they remembered your favorite flower or simply your favorite color, but they were thinking of you when they chose that arrangement and that to me is very special.

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BL: How do you come up with different floral designs and what is your process?

MB: My process always begins with getting to know my clients on a personal level. One reason weddings are so special is that the day reflects who they are as a couple. I not only want to understand what their dream wedding flowers are, but I want the flowers to tell their love story.

After I get to know my client as well as their floral needs, I begin the process of designing. Designing an arrangement is similar to designing a room or putting together an outfit; I am looking for specific flowers to be my focal point and then deciding on coordinating a color palate that creates balance and flow within the arrangement. After the design and palate have been decided, I begin to add in texture to create depth and bring the arrangement to life.

The beauty of floral design is that there is no wrong way, there is just your way. That is why it is extremely important to me that if someone hired me to be their florist, that they get me, which is why I am personally involved in the design of every single item.

BL: Aside from being a floral designer, you’re also a stylist. How do you come up with different stage designs for your photo shoots?

MB: Designing for photo shoots is when I get to truly be myself. I love designing for my clients, but I always put their wants and needs before my own. When styling a shoot, I get to put myself first and just get lost in the creative process.

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Usually the initial inspiration for a shoot comes from a place I have been, a place I’d like to explore or a color palate I have come across. I also do florals for many shoots that have been designed by very talented wedding coordinators.

When I am invited into a pre-designed shoot, I lead with inspiration from their color palate and design influence and then add my own design and perspective to the shoot to make it my own.

BL: What is your most favorite bloom, filler and foliage?

MB: My favorite bloom would have to be the clematis (klehmuh-tuhs). I love unique florals and I love vines; this flower brings those two items together and I think that is beautiful.

However, my go-to flower in most arrangements would have to be the ranunculus (ruh-nuhng-kyuhluhs). The detail of this flower always blows me away; it comes in many colors and variations along with layers upon layers of petals. One variety is called the cloony ranunculus, which I am actually using as a focal point in today’s Valentine's Day inspired arrangement.

My favorite foliage is blueberry. The leaves are perfect on their own, but with the mixture of unripened blueberries hanging from their stems, ahh, I fall in love every time!

However, jasmine vine, southern smilax and Italian ruscus have a special place in my heart as well.

My favorite filler would have to be majolica spray roses.

I love these roses because they resemble miniature garden roses and add texture to any arrangement. I have to say though, using filler flowers is not my forte. Sometimes, » See more on McKenzi Burtchaell on PAGE 16.

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fillers give the impression that they are a cheaper product used to fill the empty space, but to me, every flower has been selected to stand on its own to accentuate the arrangement, not to hide in the background.

BL: What is one supply item you can’t live without when you set up your designs?

MB: Oasis wet floral foam is definitely a product I cannot live without!

When creating an arrangement, I have been known to be a bit of a perfectionist, OK, definitely a perfectionist. I touch every single flower and every piece of foliage that goes into an arrangement, and I continue moving each item until it finds its perfect place — even if that placement is only half an inch from where it was before. Floral foam allows me to place a flower exactly where I would like it to be and then holds that placement even through transport.

BL: What exciting things are you working on this year?

MB: This year I am excited to be working on creating packages for small, intimate weddings and elopements. Along with many other florists, almost all of my weddings in 2020 were either canceled, postponed or downsized. As heart-wrenching as it was to see couples have to place their weddings on hold, having to downsize a wedding definitely has its benefits.

Small weddings and elopements allow couples to focus on every detail that makes their day special to them, instead of becoming consumed with the needs of their guests. Weddings are a celebration of two people and their love for one another, and I am so excited to help them plan their perfect, intimate day!

BL: With Valentine’s Day around the corner, what kind of flowers do you suggest someone buy or arrange for their special person?

MB: My first suggestion would be to make your floral arrangement unique to that person by selecting flowers that they love! However, if you’re looking for flowers that are simple to arrange, hydrangeas are always a great option. Hydrangeas fill a lot of space and are very forgiving while arranging. If your special someone loves tradition, roses are always a great Valentine’s Day flower as well. However, if your significant other is sentimental, maybe arranging potted flowers in a unique vessel would be a great route for you too!

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BL: Aside from giving the gift of flowers, what else do you suggest someone buy for their special person on Valentine’s day?

MB: Gift ideas should come from the heart, especially on Valentine’s Day. One idea is to consider your significant other’s love language. In a book called “The Five Love Languages,” author Gary Chapman discusses five ways to love or experience love with your significant other.

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Those five languages include: words of affirmation, acts of service, receiving gifts, quality time and physical touch.

My suggestion would be to consider your special someone’s love language and then make a thoughtful choice on what they may like to receive. Bakersfield is full of creative businesses that can design custom made gifts such as a sign made with your anniversary date or custom baked goods.

Creating something personal might be all you need. But my husband knows a little cheese and Tlo wine is all I need to create a perfect Valentine’s Day. BL: Are there any popular floral trends people should follow?

MB: A very popular trend at the moment is dried florals and foliage. In some arrangements, dried florals and/or foliage are just used to add texture but some florists are creating arrangements made completely of dried product. This trend is especially unique if you are a sentimental person and want to hold onto your bouquet as a keepsake or create something entirely new with it afterward!

BL: What is your favorite floral design style, look and vibe?

MB: My favorite floral design style is a semi-loose, whimsical, garden-style which creates a freshly picked look. I also love when my arrangements have movement; placing flowers with dimension creates depth but also allows the arrangement to move as if it was in its natural environment.

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Tips for students as graduation approaches

Graduation season can be an exciting time for college students.

As their time draws to a close, students may be anxious to put their education to use and enter the workforce.

In recent years, newly minted college graduates faced difficult job markets. But a 2017 survey from the online jobs and professional resources website CareerBuilder found that 74 percent of employers intended to hire recent college graduates that year, marking a 7 percent increase from the year prior.

Recent graduates and students on the cusp of donning their caps and gowns may be entering a healthier job market than the one that greeted grads as recently as a few years ago, but grads should still take steps to bolster their chances of finding work as graduation nears. » Use the resources at your disposal: The final months and weeks of college are filled with distractions. In addition to final exams, students may be tempted to fill their final weeks with social engagements and extracurricular activities as they try to squeeze every last ounce of fun out of their college experiences. But students also should book appointments with their schools’ career services offices. Such offices can help students prepare their résumés. Career services offices also can help students as they search for jobs, internships or other opportunities. Career services staffs also may coach students on interview preparation. » Gather references: Strong references can help students stand out in crowded job markets. Businesses typically request

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at least three references, none of which can be family members.

Professors, current or past bosses or volunteer program supervisors who can speak to applicants’ work ethics and attitudes can make for strong references. It can take time to contact and gather information from prospective references, so students who start early won’t experience any lag time when they begin looking for work. » Get ready to dress the part: Graduates must dress the part when going on job interviews. Both men and women should purchase appropriate interview attire if they don’t already have any. Do so in advance of graduation so you aren’t caught off guard by opportunities to interview. » Find a home: Soon-to-be-graduates can help themselves by studying up on which cities boast thriving job markets and which seem to have few opportunities. Cities may have especially strong job markets for certain majors. Students who research job markets and how geography factors into their job searching equation can then begin to develop a post-graduation housing plan. Some companies may prefer local candidates, so it might be to a grad’s advantage to move to certain cities even before they’ve been offered a job. Such students can rely on temporary, part-time or seasonal employment to pay their bills until they find full-time work in their chosen fields.

Students on the cusp of graduating from college can employ various strategies as their college careers wind down to increase their chances of landing a job.

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Hydrate and refresh dry skin DEHYDRATED SKIN IS AMONG THE MANY CAUSES OF FACIAL WRINKLING, WHICH ALSO CAN BE CAUSED BY SMOKING, ENVIRONMENTAL FACTORS AND UV EXPOSURE. Aging skin doesn’t

produce as much collagen and elastin, which allows skin to spring back into place, as it once did. Treating dehydration and dryness may reduce wrinkles and refresh dry skin, giving it a more youthful appearance.

Those who want to treat dry, dehydrated skin must understand the difference between hydration and moisturizing as it applies to skincare. According to Annemarie Gianni, a skincare aesthetician and creator of Annemarie Skin Care, hydrating skin means increasing its water content by increasing the amount of water contained in skin cells. This can result in a healthy, plump complexion. Skin that is properly hydrated will keep fine lines and wrinkles from being overly apparent.

Moisturizing skin involves applying a lubricant that mimics naturally produced lipids and oils in the skin that will protect and soothe.

Hydration and moisturizing often work hand-in-hand. In addition to drinking plenty of water to hydrate the skin from the inside out, individuals can use products that contain hyaluronic acid, glycerin and sodium hyaluronate. These are known as humectants. In addition, the National Center of Biotechnology Information says that aloe can improve water content in the skin.

Once water is bound to the skin, a moisturizer will prevent the water from leaving it. Look for moisturizers with natural oils and butters to help retain moisture, like cocoa butter.

The following are some additional methods to maximize hydration and moisturize skin: • Take warm showers, as hot water can strip the natural lipids from skin and cause dryness.

• Avoid too many alcoholic beverages. Alcoholic drinks are diuretics that can cause the body to lose water, advises WebMD. • Use a humidifier indoors to amp up the moisture level in the air.

• Enjoy water-rich foods, like watermelon, cucumber, grapes and

other succulent fruits and vegetables.

• Drink the recommended amount of water per day, and limit your consumption of caffeinated and sugary beverages.

• Work out to improve blood flow and oxygenation in the skin.

• Try a facial essence. Facial essences are a principle of Japanese beauty regimens and contain fermented ingredients that support skin penetration and hydration.

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Date night look essentials even if you’re staying home

By Ema Sasic

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DATE NIGHT MIGHT LOOK A BIT DIFFERENT THIS YEAR, ESPECIALLY WITH EVER-CHANGING RESTRICTIONS ON INDOOR DINING AND ENTERTAINMENT VENUES DUE TO THE COVID-19 PANDEMIC, BUT THAT DOESN’T MEAN ALL HOPE IS LOST.

You can still get glammed up for a romantic evening, even if it might be at home. After all, spending time with a special someone is enough to make any date special.

However you two decide to celebrate your love, get out of pajamas and run to your closest to get these date night looks ready.

1. KEEP IT CASUAL WITH JEANS

You don’t have to be dressed to the nines for a perfect date night outfit. Sometimes keeping it simple with a nice pair of jeans topped with a blouse will do the trick. Play with colors to spruce up your look as well — wear black jeans with a light-colored top, or blue or white jeans with a multicolored blouse.

2. ALL EYES ON STATEMENT SHIRTS

If your date is taking place through a virtual setting, make sure your top catches their attention. Everything from lace detailing, gems, ruffles and puffy sleeves will add a little extra “oomph” to that FaceTime or Zoom call.

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3. TRANSFORM ANY OUTFIT WITH A JACKET

Even if you’re keeping it simple — black pants, jeans, a colorful shirt (that doesn’t have stains on it) — a jacket can transform your outfit and take it to the next fashion level. Men can dazzle their dates with a bomber jacket or denim jacket that pairs well with a solid-colored shirt underneath.

Women can pair a blazer or denim jacket with dresses, skirts or pants.

4. TRUST THE LITTLE BLACK DRESS

A classic is a classic for a reason.

Whatever your date night entails, a little black dress is a fashion staple that you can always count on. If you want to add some more color or texture to your look, throw on a jacket or cardigan.

5. DON’T BE AFRAID TO ACCESSORIZE

Most people probably haven’t been too fussy about their looks this year (no one’s judging), but for a special date night, it’s time to bring

the accessories out. Pair any outfit with a chunky necklace or eye-catching earrings, and dust off those special heels that you haven’t worn in a while. Even men can get in on the action — play with colors when it comes to your tie or don your favorite belt.

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Love & Life

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Greatest of these

By Jessica Jones

» “LOVE SUFFERS LONG AND IS KIND; LOVE DOES NOT ENVY; LOVE DOES NOT PARADE ITSELF, IS NOT PUFFED UP; DOES NOT BEHAVE RUDELY, DOES NOT SEEK ITS OWN, IS NOT PROVOKED, THINKS NO EVIL, DOES NOT REJOICE IN INIQUITY BUT REJOICES WITH THE TRUTH; BEARS ALL THINGS, BELIEVES ALL THINGS, HOPES ALL THINGS, ENDURES ALL THINGS. LOVE NEVER FAILS.” — 1 Corinthians 13:4-8 This passage is often read aloud at weddings, and I can see why.

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However, with a couple of deep breaths, a flair prayer for help and self-control, it is possible to give genuine kindness back. Do this enough times, and a new habit emerges, conquering the temptation to be unloving in response."

One of my favorite parts about attending weddings, besides dinner, dancing and romance, is the reminder to love better. For singles, this passage serves to encourage them to prepare as they wait for love.

Who doesn’t love love? As much I enjoy seeing and reading about love because I am a romantic at heart, I have also witnessed and experienced hindrances to love. Some of them are unforgiveness, envy, jealousy and pride. It appears that along the way, in the nitty-gritty of life, pain, lost love, rejection, abandonment and unmet expectations wear us down. If we are not vigilant, the root of bitterness can permanently reside, hindering our ability to give and receive love.

I believe that the words in this passage call us into action, contrary to the popular belief that love is only a feeling. Let’s look at “love suffers long and is kind,” for example. How many of us out there, when our loved ones are making painful choices that affect everyone, or they say hurtful things to us and others, naturally feel like being kind?

I have found this particular part of the passage to be challenging in those moments. Typically, when we experience that kind of treatment, walls go up, and we get right to work defending ourselves. However, with a couple of deep breaths, a flair prayer for help and self-control, it is possible to give genuine kindness back. Do this enough times, and a new habit emerges, conquering the temptation to be unloving in response.

The first verses of 1 Corinthians chapter 13 highlight how having all knowledge, giving all our goods to the poor and having faith that can move mountains, is nothing if done without love. Then, in verse 13, we see that out of faith, hope and love, “the greatest of these is love.”

Have you ever met someone who’s whole life radiates real love? I know I have. They leave a lasting impression. It’s tempting to think that these people have had an easy life. But if you get to know them, they have endured their share of heartache and loss. Some have even gone through life-altering tragedies. They can still love and be loved because they have determined to let absolutely nothing keep them from having a life overflowing with love.

A well-lived and vibrant life will also endure occasional hurts, pain and heartache that often accompanies relationships. But when we focus our eyes on real love and never give up, we receive the promise that love shall not fail.

Opinions expressed in this column are those of Jessica Jones.

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Peace of Mind

Love starts with yourself

By Anna Marie Frank LOVE IS IN THE AIR, PLASTERED ALL OVER THE STORES, BUT LOVE TRULY LIVES IN OUR HEARTS. There are different kinds

of love but all true love is rooted in you — it begins with you. Love may look like respect, acceptance, honoring one’s self and all things, curiosity and faith. What words come to mind when you think of where love’s roots come from?

Self-love is allowing yourself to be your true authentic self, and I am here to help you make this a core belief in what true self-love is. Let’s recognize loving one’s self goes beyond the bubble bath mentality of self-care. True love starts with honoring one’s self. True self-love is allowing yourself to be you without judgment or holding back.

Sometimes when seeking our true selves, we may find ourselves borrowing from others. And though it is great to be inspired by others’ achievements, borrowing goals and expectations from them can pull us out of alignment with our inner being, or soul — whatever you want to call it.

This then leaves us feeling like we are missing something because we are.

True self-love is staying in alignment with goals born from your soul and honoring your purpose!

With the new year, many of us can be tempted to take on resolutions, and more times than not those resolutions are not born out of alignment with our soul’s purpose.

We end up borrowing our goals when we see this celebrity or that self-help guru having a certain goal or them telling us what we should strive for. We even borrow the idea of what love is or how we should act based on others’ expectations. Be inspired by others but stay on YOUR path.

So, what happens when we borrow goals from others? Yikes! It takes us out of alignment with our true authentic self and when we do this we are not able to fully love ourselves. Borrowing another’s goal that does not resonate with our whole-being will leave us feeling like something is missing… because it is. YOU are missing.. As if not losing the weight (a goal that may have never stemmed from your higher self) means something is wrong with you or you failed — once again! You beat yourself up over an idea that you truly never wanted anyway. Let it go!

Anytime we set a goal that is genuinely aligned with our soul’s purpose, and not someone else’s, it is easier to stay on our true path, feel amazing, feel successful all while being our true authentic self.

During the month of February, I encourage you to look at your goals. Look at expectations you have for yourself. Are they truly your goals and expectations? Are these rooted in and sprouting from UNSPLASH.COM

your soul? Are they yours? Are they serving your purpose?

Do they allow you to be your true authentic self? Take this opportunity to reset your heart for true self-love of your authentic self.

Opinions expressed in this column are those of Anna Marie Frank.

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Ryan Meloche, one of the owners of Sonder, brought a bit of Los Angeles to Bakersfield when he opened his eatery.

Sonder is always a good choice, especially for celebrating love

By Ema Sasic and Julie Mana-ay Perez

CELEBRATING VALENTINE’S DAY MIGHT LOOK A LITTLE DIFFERENT THIS YEAR, BUT YOU CAN STILL COUNT ON SONDER TO MAKE THE DAY SPECIAL.

For around 2 1/2 years, Sonder has found new ways to spruce up the dining scene in Bakersfield and appreciate all of food’s flavors. Ryan Meloche, one of the owners of the eatery, wanted to bring a bit of Los Angeles to the Central Valley. Inside a sleek and cool atmosphere awaits you, while the food and drink offerings add to the overall good time.

Meloche said the menu gets updated every four months to bring in unique flavor combinations and show off chefs’

skills. Guests can start off their meal by enjoying seven bruschetta options, ranging from the classic tomato, basil and balsamic combination to more sweet options featuring fresh berries and apricot jam. Pasta, steak and seafood entrees make great meals for romantics any time of year.

Various cocktails, beers and wines make the perfect pairings. Items such as the watermelon margarita and About Time cocktail feature the restaurant’s very own fresh pressed juices. Whether you’re trying Sonder out for the first time or are a returning customer, you’ll grow fonder with the eatery with each bite and sip. » See more Salty & Sweet on PAGE 28.

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Salty & Sweet BRUSCHETTA

EMA SASIC ON THE OG: There’s nothing wrong with sticking to the basics, and Sonder has found a way to bring the flavors of Italy with this classic bruschetta. On top of soft bread you have tomatoes, basil, a balsamic reduction, parmesan and extra virgin olive oil. Every bite is flavorful, and no ingredient overpowers the other.

JULIE MANA-AY PEREZ ON THE REPUBLIQUE: If there was one dish that

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impressed me, it was the fancy bruschetta board. A lot of what makes Sonder stand out as an eatery is the unique combinations. You get sweet honey, brie cheese, fresh berries and coffee salt on this bruschetta. I promise you, it was one of the best things I’ve ever eaten — savory and sweet all at once.

ES ON THE G.O.A.T.: Three simple ingredients fill you with such joy as you’re enjoying this bruschetta. Apricot jam gives you just the right amount of sweetness while creamy goat cheese and arugula even out the flavor. I never would have thought about mixing these ingredients but after eating them together I realized that they’re the perfect combination.

JMP ON THE DUXELLE: When I first glanced at the Duxelle, I thought it was a sweet bruschetta combination. I was wrong — placed on bruschetta was gooey brie cheese, roasted mushrooms and caramelized onions with balsamic reduction drizzled on top. It was love at first bite. The brie cheese with the combination of roasted mushrooms and balsamic reduction was a flavorful sensation.

ENTREES

JMP ON THE SPAGHETTI SOFRITO:

Sometimes when you eat pasta, you start to feel heavy because of the major carb load, but Sonder’s spaghetti sofrito hit different — it was lightweight, flavorful and fresh. Pair this dish with Sonder’s red sangria for a satisfying meal.

ES ON THE SPAGHETTI SOFRITO:

Sonder's bruschetta board: The Republique (top left), The G.O.A.T. (top right), The O.G. (bottom left) and The Duxelle (bottom right).

Customers are able to choose four combinations for their board.

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What really made this dish stand out for me was how light the sauce is. Oftentimes marinara sauce feels heavy and fills you up too quickly, but you won’t have a problem with that with this dish. San Marzano tomatoes bring a unique flavor, but carrots, celery and onions add a beauty of their own. You also get a taste of Sonder’s housemade ricotta, which when mixed with the pasta sauce gives you an even lighter flavor.

JMP ON THE FILET AND SHRIMP: Two years ago, I had my first steak and since then I’ve been trying to find the best steak in town whenever I go out to eat. Sonder’s filet mignon has to be by far the best — it’s tender, buttery and sensational. What more can you want?

The watermelon margarita (right) and About Time (left).

Though the steak was the star of the dish, it was paired with shrimp that is so savory, creamy mashed potatoes and seasoned zucchini.

ES ON THE FILET AND SHRIMP: I don’t

mean to brag, but Sonder’s filet mignon is one of the softest pieces of steak I’ve had in a long time. We didn’t even need to tell the chef how to prepare the steak — he knew exactly what he was doing. The shrimp was also soft and seasoned so well. Creamy mashed potatoes and seasonal vegetables — we had zucchini — also come with this dish, and before you know it you’ll have a clean plate. This is a perfect plate to share between two people, unless you want to have all this goodness to yourself.

DRINKS

ES ON THE WATERMELON MARGARITA: Sonder prides itself on its fresh pressed juices, and that freshness was felt in this cocktail. Lime juice and watermelon syrup give you a great tart and sweet balance. For an added kick, cayThe filet and shrimp dish.

enne pepper is sprinkled on top, which you don’t see too often, but it’ll leave your tastebuds with a lasting impression.

JMP ON THE ABOUT TIME: Sonder’s

the perfect spot to meet up with someone, not only because of the delicious food options but also because of their speciality libations. Their About Time drink was as fresh as it looked — Uncle Val’s botanical gin, lime juice and cucumber rose syrup.

ES ON THE PESSIMIST BY DAOU: Red wine and I don’t usually go

well, often because I find blends that are too dark, but this Pessimist, unlike its name, was bright and cheery! You can taste so many berry flavors with each sip while also picking up on smoky notes of truffle and roasted coffee accompanied by floral accents. This wine was paired with the filet and shrimp dish and added to the yumminess.

JMP ON THE RED SANGRIA: Ordering a sangria can be a hit or miss experience, but Sonder does it right with this drink. Sonder’s red sangria was both fruity and delicious — a concoction made of Don Q limon rum, peach schnapps, pinot noir, lime juice and Sprite. It’s so good you’ll probably want a second drink!

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Pinot Noir thrives on Wine Spectator’s Top 100 list

By Lyle W. Norton AMID DIFFICULT TIMES, WINE SPECTATOR MAGAZINE HAS RECENTLY RELEASED ITS TOP 100 MOST EXCITING WINES OF 2020. No list is perfect, but

Maggy Hawk Pinot Noir Anderson Valley Jolie 2017 bottle shot.

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Wine Spectator’s criteria is complex and values cost and accessibility as well as taste.

As expected, releases from the Big Three — France, Italy and California — were dominant and comprised 57 percent of the 2020 list. This year, the pinot noir grape, with origins in the Burgundy region of France, revealed its global appeal by placing 13 releases on the list from four countries.

Among them were seven pinots from Oregon’s Willamette Valley and three from California including a repeat from 2019, the No. 2 Aubert Pinot Noir Sonoma Coast UV Vineyard 2018 (95-pt/$85).

Among multiple Oregon selections was the acclaimed No. 9 Beaux Frères Pinot Noir Ribbon Ridge Beaux Frères Vineyard 2018(95-pt/$95), from north Willamette Valley, that landed in the top 10 for the second time in four years.

More affordable Oregon wines like the No. 33 Ken Wright Pinot Noir Willamette Valley 2017 (91-pt/$22) and the No. 79 Stoller Pinot Noir Willamette Valley 2018 (90-pt/$20) were joined by a personal favorite, the No. 37 Bergström Pinot Noir Willamette Valley Cumberland Reserve 2018 (94-pt/$42). Representing the best from all their estate vineyards, the Cumberland Reserve, vintage to vintage, is among the finest expressions of Oregon pinot noir.

In addition to the lauded Aubert release, wines from maritime influenced vineyards near the North Coast rounded out the California pinot noir on the list. From a Sonoma County producer that has contributed several wines over the years is the No. 51 Paul Hobbs Pinot Noir Sonoma Coast Goldrock Estate 2018 (95-pt/$75). The Goldrock Vineyard, near the town of Annapolis, is only seven miles from the Pacific Ocean.

In a Mendocino County redwood forest at the most northern part of the Anderson Valley lies the 58-acre Maggy Hawk Vineyard, 15 miles inland from the ocean. Fruit from those vines created the highly rated No. 48 Maggy Hawk Pinot Noir Anderson Valley Jolie 2017 (95-pt/$65), aged in 45 percent new French oak and, according to Wine Spectator, “Characterized by lively acidity and structured tannins.”

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Maggy Hawk vineyard in the Anderson Valley.

Central Otago, located in the southern part of New Zealand’s South Island, has become a tourist region, partially driven by emerging pinot noir vineyards and wine production. Inland and at higher elevations, Central Otago is one of the few growing areas void of maritime influences. The region is also known for dramatic daily temperature changes that benefit pinot noir grapes.

This year’s representative is the No. 14 Felton Road Pinot Noir Central Otago Bannockburn 2018 (95-pt/$52) blended from four organic, biodynamically-farmed vineyards. Other releases from Central Otago are available

online and at wine outlets.

Another indication that the grape is flourishing, Germany, known for fine riesling, placed its first ever pinot noir release on the list. The No. 85 Koehler-Ruprecht Pinot Noir Kabinett Trocken Pfalz 2017 (90-pt/$24) is produced with very little oak and begs taste and price comparisons with other global releases. If the 2020 Wine Spectator list is an indicator, there will be more pinot noir to choose from in 2021 and beyond.

The views expressed in this column are those of Lyle W. Norton.

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Eat & Drink

Mango chia pudding

By Ema Sasic

SOMETIMES YOU WANT ALL THE SWEETNESS THAT COMES WITH A DESSERT BUT NOT ALL THE CALORIES AND ADDED SUGARS. Lucky for you, you get the best of both worlds

with this mango chia pudding. Blending sweet mangos with creamy coconut milk gives you a tropical flavor explosion that makes you forget it’s the middle of winter. Best of all, the sweetness is all natural. Enjoy this dessert any time of day, and if you’re not a fan of chia seeds, you can switch them out for oats or other pieces of fruit.

INGREDIENTS (SERVES FOUR):

• One bag of frozen mango chunks • About one can of coconut milk or coconut cream (depending on desired consistency) • 6 tablespoons whole chia seeds • Optional toppings: blueberries, raspberries, strawberries, pineapples, bananas

INSTRUCTIONS:

Let frozen mango chunks thaw for about an hour before beginning the recipe. Once they’re ready, reserve a few mango chunks for garnish and place remaining pieces in a blender along with coconut milk or cream. Use about half of the coconut milk or cream to begin with and blend until smooth. Add more coconut milk or cream for a looser pudding mixture. Add in whole chia seeds and stir until well combined.

Divide the mango chia pudding into four bowls or small containers. Garnish with reserved mango chunks and other desired fruit. Eat immediately, or let it sit in the refrigerator for a few hours.

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Lassens Natural Foods and Vitamins SOMETIMES PEOPLE THINK EATING BETTER MEANS GIVING UP THEIR FAVORITE FOODS.

But if you use organic and fresh ingredients, you can enjoy so much more than you ever thought possible. Lassens Natural Foods and Vitamins is a Lassens’ grilled chicken purveyor of natural and organic foods, which means its pesto sandwich and deli section is filled with nutritious meals to help you meet signature smoothie. your health goals. Hot sandwiches, such as the grilled chicken pesto, use the freshest ingredients (tomatoes, lettuce, onions) to make every bite even more scrumptious. If you’re thirsty, the deli also offers a variety of smoothie options. Lassens’ signature smoothie includes organic almond milk, bananas, strawberries, hemp seeds, lemon zest and bee pollen, which gives it a sweetness that isn’t overbearing.

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it’s hard to do that when you’re constantly on the go. Better Bowls does takeout in a much healthier way. Better Bowls is 100 percent plant based and gluten free. It offers signature bowls, drinks and dessert. If you’re a picky eater like me, you can order a “build your own bowl.” This bowl was based with Romaine lettuce and white quinoa topped with black beans, a flavorful tofu scramble, tender and baked russet potatoes, corn, shredded carrots, sliced cherry tomatoes and avocados drizzled with a yummy cilantro lime sauce. Customers can order their bowls in a regular or mini size depending on how hungry you are.

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Educators will likely remember 2020 for the rest of their lives. It was the year when they had students in classrooms one day and had to transfer everything online the next. Many thought distance learning would last for a few weeks, but school reopening dates continued to be pushed further back, until ultimately the year ended in a virtual format, and a new school year began the same way.

Despite the challenges with internet connectivity, technological problems and lack of motivation among some students, teachers continued to be champions and go above and beyond for their classes during unprecedented times. Bakersfield Life asked readers to nominate teachers for their dedication and commitment during this past year, and several of them are spotlighted in these pages.

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Honoring Educators Daniel Diaz Senior counselor at McFarland High School Early College After teaching and counseling students for several years — 12 years as a teacher and 14 years as a counselor — Daniel Diaz is no stranger to success.

One of his duties is to target students who are struggling or at risk and help them.

Like many of his students, Diaz grew up in McFarland. He understands what students are facing — many work in the fields, come from families without economic resources, etc. Being surrounded by a big family that emphasized academic success, however, his upbringing helps him encourage students to keep up with their schoolwork so that one day they can walk across the graduation stage and receive their diploma. It also paints a bigger picture for students — they learn that there’s more to life than working in the fields and that they can achieve anything they set their mind to.

Diaz said many of his students are struggling as they learn online because it’s not the same as their in-person experience, but he emphasizes that his students should use him as a resource, either academically or mentally. When he works with a student, they narrow down what the problem is and make a plan to counter-attack so that they can tackle their assignments and pass their classes.

Diaz said one of the things he’s taught his students is to set goals for themselves to attract success. The mantra is if you don’t set goals for yourself, you’re not headed anywhere.

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Honoring Educators Whitney Dirkse Sixth grade teacher at Stella Hills Elementary School Education and Whitney Dirkse go hand in hand. Prior to becoming a full-time educator, Dirkse worked for a nonprofit organization that helped probation and foster youth and their families. These children tended to look to their teachers as role models, and Dirkse realized the power teachers have to change lives.

When she joined the team at Stella Hills Elementary School, her experience working with children who come from disadvantaged backgrounds helped her take on her new career. Around 98 percent of students come from low socioeconomic homes, and Dirkse said she and her colleagues are always looking for ways to help take the stress off parents. Over the years she has put on various fundraisers and activities to teach students about compassion and community service. Over the past two years, the school has raised $1,200 for Red Nose Day. When COVID-19 changed the educational landscape, that didn’t stop Dirkse from caring for Stella Hills families. She planned and organized a Thanksgiving food drive for almost 40 of the school’s families and put together a Christmas Wish drive, which provided gifts and more to students and their loved ones. In her distance learning classroom, Dirkse created videos and uploaded daily lessons onto a website to help students who may have missed some portion of class due to technical problems or who need a bit of a refresher. She also sent daily assignment lists to parents so that everyone was on the same page.

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Honoring Educators Kate Karpinski Preschool special education teacher at Rosedale North Elementary School Kate Karpinski had quite an unusual start to her teaching career in Bakersfield — she moved to town a week before COVID-19 shutdowns began — but nevertheless she has tried to make virtual learning enjoyable for her preschoolers.

She wasn’t sure how virtual learning would affect her relationships with her students, but she said the connection is just as strong. Her classroom logs on multiple times a day and completes certain activities together, and she makes time to help students or families on an individual basis.

Her students with moderate/severe disabilities each excel and struggle with different tasks, so Karpinski has taken it upon herself to create individualized activities for students to work on, which she drops off at their homes. For example, if students are learning about polar bears with a focus on math, a student who excels in the subject might be handed a more challenging puzzle, while a student who struggles to identify numbers will focus on matching numbers.

For a few weeks last year, Karpinski was able to hold in-person instruction with her eight-student class. To prepare for the return to school, she focused on making her students more comfortable with seeing face masks and shields being worn. Many of her students have previously spent time in medical settings, so parents were concerned seeing masks would make them upset. Karpinski began wearing her facial coverings on Zoom, and students soon learned they could have fun while staying safe. Being back in the classroom with her students was exciting for everyone, she said, and it made her happy to see her students bond so quickly, despite only seeing each other through a computer screen.

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Honoring Educators Jennifer Pelzer K-5 special education teacher at Noble Elementary School Jennifer Pelzer knew she always wanted to be a teacher, but it wasn’t until she adopted her three youngest children from the foster care system that she found her calling: to be a special education teacher.

With her adopted children coming from an unfortunate domestic background, Pelzer made sure to educate herself on children with disabilities in order to protect them in the future. She then pursued a career in special education to be the voice for children who don’t have one.

Pelzer is a mother of six, so she is no stranger to leading a group of kids, but she acknowledges since teaching virtually, it’s been harder for her, her kids and her own students.

Pelzer is the kind of teacher who would go out of her way to help her students by visiting their homes and seeing what she can do to see them excel academically. Pelzer is used to calling parents for check-ups, making sure her special education students are OK and even dropping off food to their homes. Since the pandemic, it’s been difficult to do many of those things.

No matter the learning format, Pelzer focuses on teaching her students that education is important. She wants to encourage her students that they can do whatever and be whoever they want to be in life, no matter their background. As someone who grew up in a low-income area, she uses her own life experiences to show students what’s possible when they work hard and set their eyes on a goal.

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Kimberly Stewart South High School English teacher No matter the format of a school year, Kimberly Stewart’s main priority is to build relationships with her students. Prior to virtual learning, Stewart’s first concern was to make sure she cultivated a connection between her students so that they can engage and interact with others in the classroom. Since the pandemic, it’s been a bit difficult for students to communicate. But she still hasn’t given up on building relationships.

In her virtual classroom, Stewart divides her class into breakout groups or gives students the opportunity to talk in class to feel motivated and not feel distant from one another.

Stewart is also attending CSUB to obtain a credential in administration, so one of the ways she connects with her students is relating to them through her virtual experience and understanding that getting an education online can feel trying. By making herself “look more human” and not like a teacher, as she describes it, her students can see that she cares about them and is open to their communication.

That type of relationship building and care isn’t uncommon, however. Stewart said South High School is a hidden gem where staff members truly care about their community.

As an educator at South High School, Stewart believes the high school is a hidden gem and praises the staff for their standards and family values.

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Sunner Eighth grade mathematics/ VEX robotics teacher at McFarland Junior High School Teaching mathematics and robotics is difficult already, but having to teach everything on a digital platform may seem like an impossible task. Sukhdeep Kaur Sunner was ready for the challenge because she believes it is her responsibility to make sure her students are learning every day.

In her normal classroom, Sunner’s students are used to hands-on learning and building robots according to competition rules. With a background in computer science, Sunner has led her VFX robotics teams to great feats in recent years. Last year, three teams qualified for the state competition, and a previous team also competed in Ohio for the U.S. Championship.

Transitioning to a virtual format was a bit of a challenge.

With no possibility of having students work together, Sunner has instead focused on programming robots online. It’s been a success so far, but she is also planning on ordering and delivering robot parts to her students and having them create small builds at home.

Other ways she has tried to adapt her classroom in an online form included creating an organized, easy to navigate digital Google Classroom, using multiple digital platforms for instruction, uploading “how to” videos that provide clear expectations for routines and procedures (such as how to download a document or end a Zoom call) and reaching out to at-risk students and their parents via phone call, email and Zoom. Math is a tricky subject for many, and going totally online was not ideal, but keeping up a consistent routine with her students and offering additional support has made the journey a little easier.

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Joseph Tipay Bakersfield College, Art Joseph Tipay is a two-year studio art professor at Bakersfield College, teaching art appreciation, art history and drawing.

Since the pandemic, things haven’t been easy for most students, but because Tipay has had prior experience teaching online courses, adjusting to an online environment wasn’t a drastic change.

Tipay sets his virtual class up with multiple camera angles to ensure that his students get the same in-class experience. His class even started using Discord to connect, chat and build a community among one another.

His classroom is a positive learning community, he said, which allows for students to pick each other up, learn together more effectively and get excited about learning as well.

Tipay wanted his students to look at virtual learning as a benefit — using this time to block out all of the troubles and noises going on and thinking of it as a space just for them.

Though online learning was a smooth transition for Tipay’s classes, he understands it wasn’t always easy for all of his students. He used to live in a rural area where he didn’t have internet access so he would frequently go to Starbucks, McDonald’s and the campus parking lot for connectivity. With that experience in mind, he remained flexible all while giving students information for resources to access.

One of his favorite things about teaching is seeing a light bulb moment from his students and being proud of the work they create in his classroom.

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Diane Valdez Fifth grade teacher at Wayne Van Horn Elementary School When it comes to being ready to help in any way, shape or form, Diane Valdez is someone the Wayne Van Horn Elementary School community can count on. As a second-year teacher, Valdez has had an unusual start to her teaching career. When she had the opportunity to meet all of her students and develop a routine, in-person learning was halted. Now having to navigate the ups and downs of distance learning, she has lent a helping hand to Spanish-speaking families who are struggling as well.

She has interpreted items for the school, created helpful videos for families in Spanish and provided additional tutoring to students in her class and others outside. When one of her students expressed concern that his younger sister needed more help, Diane arranged extra support for the sibling.

Valdez found that her efforts opened doors that might have otherwise been closed to families who don’t speak English. They’re better able to understand daily tasks and can easily access assignments, she said, and it has also been helpful to other teachers. Even when students are able to attend in-person classes, Valdez hopes to continue providing additional supporting to Spanish-speaking families.

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Master's student for licensed marriage and family counseling degree/secretary for a small business and daycare assistant What does a perfect first date look like?

Going to dinner usually feels like a good first date. It allows for conversation where we can both get to know each other better.

What’s a fun fact about you?

I have been competing in pageants for the past 16 years. I am a previous Miss Bakersfield 2016 and Ms. California International 2019.

What’s the most spontaneous thing you’ve ever done?

I crashed a wedding with my mom. We went to Huntington Beach for a weekend trip. There was a wedding happening by the pier.

We decided to go sit and attend the wedding.

What’s your ideal Sunday?

Wake up and have a nice breakfast. Watch a movie and just relax. Maybe have a game night. Most importantly get myself ready for the week ahead.

Turn ons?

Someone who is active, witty and understanding. I am an active person who enjoys good banter. I find it attractive if someone can match my energy.

What’s your dream job?

Working as a therapist with adolescents who deal with mental health. Once I finish my master's degree, I plan to find a job in this field.

Recruiter for staffing agency Guilty pleasure?

Being able to do nothing and just lounge around.

What’s the most spontaneous thing you’ve ever done?

A random trip to Arizona.

Favorite movie?

Anything with Meryl Streep.

Favorite quote?

"Surrender to the cards you are dealt. It’s from that surrender that you get your power."

If you could meet anyone, living or dead, who would it be?

Beyoncé and Edith Piaf.

What’s on your bucket list?

A trip to Brazil and Greece.

What shows do you like rewatching?

"30 Rock" and "Parks and Recreation."

My ideal quality in a partner... independence and a sense of humor.

I’m a great plus-one because…

I love to dance.

Favorite local restaurant and your order?

Italian food is my favorite so I would have to pick Luigi's. I usually get a 1/2 and 1/2, red and white, or some ravioli.

What makes a relationship great?

When both people understand each other and help each other grow both in all aspects of life.

What makes a relationship great?

Good communication. Having good communication will help strengthen all parts of the relationship.

Who or what are you listening to these days?

Shay Lia, Yung Bae and Bad Bunny.

What new hobbies have you taken up during quarantine?

I decided to start my own garden. My favorite plant that I have in my garden would be my lavender. I am working on growing different herbs.

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Chris Mateo, 27

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What new hobbies have you taken up during quarantine?

Drawing and painting although I’m not very good at it.

Noemi Perez, 29

Matthew Tate, 43

What are your hobbies/interests?

I enjoy cooking, baking, working out, reading and spending time with my family.

What are your hobbies/interests?

Playing drums with an up-and-coming band, riding my motorcycle, golfing, spending time with my family.

What does a perfect first date look like?

A perfect date would be in a relaxing setting where we could talk and get to know one another.

What does a perfect first date look like?

A motorcycle ride to Ventura overlooking the Pacific.

Community relations specialist

What’s something you’re weirdly competitive about?

I am not a competitive person. I strive to always improve as a person and help others along the way.

What’s the most spontaneous thing you’ve ever done?

I went to the mall to shop and left with a new ear piercing.

Favorite quote?

"You get in life what you have the courage to ask for" — Oprah Winfrey What’s your ideal Sunday?

Church and then a family day.

Turn ons?

Someone who is humble, kind, compassionate, respectful, hardworking, self-motivated, family oriented, sets goals, selfless and loving.

What’s on your bucket list?

Visit Lake Tahoe, Colorado, Canada, go snowboarding and skydiving.

What’s your dream job?

The current position I am in.

Favorite local restaurant and your order?

Mariscos El Paraiso, Aguachiles.

I’m a great plus-one because…

I’m always positive minded, easy going and I like to have fun.

Physician assistant in the ER

What’s a fun fact about you?

I've been to a presidential inauguration.

What’s the most spontaneous thing you’ve ever done?

I went to NYC for COVID-19 relief in March 2020. Had my bags packed, will written and was in NYC in less than 48 hours.

If you could meet anyone, living or dead, who would it be?

Ronald Reagan.

Turn ons?

Spontaneity.

Turn offs?

People that say, "It is....what it is." I need something original.

What’s on your bucket list?

To see the Eastern Caribbean — St. John in particular.

Where do you want to travel to?

Europe, Italy, Australia and New Zealand.

Favorite local restaurant and your order?

Frugatti's - Garlic Chicken Calzone Deluxe - can't forget the Deluxe. We have cardiologists in town to fix the "Deluxe" portion of that calzone after we've had one too many.

My ideal quality in a partner...

Keep me on my toes and surprise me from time to time.

I’m a great plus-one because…

I live for today and appreciate the time we spend together because we are not promised tomorrow.

Who or what are you listening to these days?

Rock, country, Spanish and R&B. www.BakersfieldLife.com

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Griselda Cormier, 43

Justin Grier, 30

What are your hobbies/interests?

Camping, traveling, martial arts, hiking, working out.

What are your hobbies/interests?

Weight lifting, biking, gardening, traveling and woodwork.

What’s a fun fact about you?

I named my oldest son after Zack on "Saved By the Bell."

What does a perfect first date look like?

Outdoors, conversation, simple.

What’s something you’re weirdly competitive about?

Everything.

What’s a fun fact about you?

Best handyman you'll meet.

Guilty pleasure?

A great glass of wine.

Any hidden talents or skills that you have?

I play drums.

Mental health therapist, care coordinator, MSW

What’s the most spontaneous thing you’ve ever done?

Swing ride over a canyon in Cabo.

Favorite quote?

"We are what we think.

All that we are arises with our thoughts.

With our thoughts we make the world."

- The Buddha, quoted in the Dhammapada.

Turn ons?

Bright, friendly, easy going people.

Turn offs?

Egotistical, lazy and judgmental individuals.

What’s on your bucket list?

Tavel to France, Australia, Italy, Lake Como.

What’s your dream job?

Running an agency that is dedicated to helping people in need.

Favorite local restaurant and your order?

Uricchio’s ravioli is amazing.

My ideal quality in a partner...

Intelligent, successful, fun and generous with his time.

What makes a relationship great?

Trust, compatibility, communication and honesty.

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Electrician

What’s something you’re weirdly competitive about?

Sports.

Guilty pleasure?

Coffee.

What’s the most spontaneous thing you’ve ever done?

Fly across the country to meet someone in person for the first time.

What’s your ideal Sunday?

Light outdoor activity with loved ones.

Turn ons?

Godly women.

Turn offs?

Disrespect.

What’s on your bucket list?

Sky diving.

What’s your dream job?

Multi-business owner.

Where do you want to travel to?

Europe.

Favorite local restaurant and your order?

Any sushi place.

Terri Trento-Lascone, 61 Business owner/mobile pet groomer

What are your hobbies/interests?

I love working in my yard. I have dogs, cats, chickens, turtles, birds and a bearded dragon. I do a lot of clean up. I love to go camping, anything that involves water. Lakes, ocean, rivers and streams.

Rikki Choate, 29 Licensed esthetician

What are your hobbies/interests?

I love to be social! Anything outdoors — hikes, beach trips, wineries and road trips! I love to cook whether I'm good or not! And I love to try new restaurants as well as breweries!

What’s the most spontaneous thing you’ve ever done?

Had a trip to Hawaii planned by myself, decided the night before I left to bring my granddaughter.

What does a perfect first date look like?

The perfect date would be a destination date! Pack a lunch and head to an awesome new trail. Pack for the beach and watch the waves! As long as we stay active. I love a traditional gentleman who opens doors, etc.

What’s your ideal Sunday?

Sunday used to be my travel day. Hit the road for a couple of days, usually no crowds, cheaper rooms.

What’s a fun fact about you?

I have a dark sense of humor. I am also very honest and I've been told it's more of a fault because I have no filter.

If you could meet anyone, living or dead, who would it be?

I would love to meet my life partner.

What’s something you’re weirdly competitive about?

I hate losing any game, whether it be a board game, corn hole, any sport. As a child, I was a poor sport, even to the point of cheating!

What’s on your bucket list?

Showing my grandkids as much as I can, skydiving and a cruise.

What’s your dream job?

I am already doing my dream job, I love animals and people who also love pets.

What’s your ideal Sunday?

A perfect Sunday would be sleeping in, making an amazing breakfast with mimosas, then going on a walk/hike/bike ride and finishing off the day making dinner with enough to bring to work on Monday and snuggling on the couch watching a show/movie.

My ideal quality in a partner...

Is someone who trusts, doesn't lie, accepts me and my family for who we are and supports me through what I go through having mentally challenged adult children. Someone who can handle my love for my dog and the rest of my pets. I want to be with someone who lifts me up and gives me the chance to lift him up. Also, have love for my grandchildren and not be jealous of them.

Turn ons?

A hardworking man. I love when a man can fix anything. A beard.

After work you can find me…

Making dinner, answering messages for my business, then up in bed watching TV.

Favorite local restaurant and your order?

La Tapatia and the sizzling fajitas

I never leave home without…

My phone, granddaughter and dog.

What’s your dream job?

I always wanted to be a flight attendant and travel the world!

What shows do you like re-watching?

I love to re-watch "That 70s Show," "The Office," "Shameless" and "Weeds"

My ideal quality in a partner...

Someone who is patient with me. Calms me down. I need someone who speaks my love language which is words of affirmation and physical touch!

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David Kaplan, 30 TV news reporter

What are your hobbies/interests?

Traveling, hiking, exploring, photography, skiing, white water river rafting, adventuring, watching basketball, watching movies.

What does a perfect first date look like?

Eating outside with a beautiful view, then taking a walk and talking, listening to our favorite jams.

What’s a fun fact about you?

I have been to 49 states (all but Oregon).

Any hidden talents or skills that you have?

I can play acoustic guitar and the cajones.

Land analyst with E&B Natural Resources What are your hobbies/interests?

I love to travel and experience new cultures both domestically and internationally. I enjoy attending live sporting events and concerts. You can also find me on a golf course in my free time. I am passionate about advocating for the energy industry.

What’s a fun fact about you?

I was recently crowned Ms. Kern County and I am honored to be a positive influence within the community.

What’s something you’re weirdly competitive about?

I like to set goals and crush them. I am known as a "Goal Digger."

Guilty pleasure?

Cheese, cheese and more cheese!

Guilty pleasure?

My guilty pleasure is sneaking off to enjoy an all-day spa day.

Another guilty pleasure is listening to hip hop.

What’s the most spontaneous thing you’ve ever done?

Danced in the rain and in sprinklers on a date.

What’s your ideal Sunday?

An ideal Sunday consists of sports, food and relaxation.

What’s your ideal Sunday?

Go to church, have a nice lunch, take a nap, chill.

If you could meet anyone, living or dead, who would it be?

I would love to meet Nikola Tesla. He is a fascinating person to me and would love to converse with such an interesting mind.

How do you like to relax?

One word, Enya, haha.

What’s on your bucket list?

For fun, I want to visit all 50 states and experience every country in the world. For educational purposes, my goal is to start and finish law school.

Turn ons?

Loves Jesus, tan, humble, loyal, sweet, funny, thoughtful, cute, someone who loves family.

What’s on your bucket list?

Go to every national park in the U.S. Favorite local restaurant and your order?

Flame and Skewers Mediterranean Restaurant, a lamb wrap!

My ideal quality in a partner...

Godly.

I’m a great plus-one because…

I've always got a rhyme or a pun! Lol.

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Jamie Absher, 35

February 2021

What’s your dream job?

I love being a "Landman" but I am currently working on a podcast to advocate for the energy industry as Ms. Energy Progress so feel free to connect on social media :) I’m a great plus-one because…

The only thing in life that I can guarantee is a good time. I love to laugh and I am a great for conversation.

Who or what are you listening to these days?

I'm a huge fan of podcasts! I always listen to the Oil & Gas This Week and Elevate with OGGN, The Jordan B. Peterson Podcast and Joe Rogan.

Eric Arias, 24

Claire-Naomi Acosta, 38

What does a perfect first date look like?

A hike on the coast up to a vista point.

What are your hobbies/interests?

I love to travel, read, go to the dog park, to the gym and try new things. I'm up for an adventure and road trip! I like to play fantasy football and gamble. Go Seahawks!

Public service

What’s a fun fact about you?

I’ve been told that I get down in the kitchen!

Any hidden talents or skills that you have?

I am a proud two-time Fantasy Football champion and a mediocre alto saxophone player.

What’s something you’re weirdly competitive about?

Scrabble and Ping Pong.

Guilty pleasure?

Watching cooking shows on Food Network.

What’s the most spontaneous thing you’ve ever done?

While studying abroad in Europe, I made a last-minute decision to take a weekend trip to Greece, only to find the clearest of waters, the most delicious cuisine and some of the nicest people.

Favorite quote?

“Never scoop too much dip for your chip.” — Anonymous What’s your dream job?

Coaching a youth basketball team.

What shows do you like rewatching?

"Stranger Things" or "Cobra Kai." Where do you want to travel to?

Southeast Asia and the Philippines.

Favorite local restaurant and your order?

Lobster mac and cheese from KC’s Steakhouse.

What makes a relationship great?

Communication and trust.

What new hobbies have you taken up during quarantine?

Corn hole and running.

Elementary school librarian

What does a perfect first date look like?

Nice dinner or walk in the park/beach to get to know someone.

If the Condors were playing, a Condors game would be fun! No movies allowed on first dates!

What’s a fun fact about you?

I'm afraid to drive on the freeway! I’ll do it now, but it does frighten me! I had a dream I got squished in between two big rigs!

Any hidden talents or skills that you have?

I personally love massages. But I give great massages!

What’s the most spontaneous thing you’ve ever done?

It has to be one of the excursions I've done while traveling. Rappelling down a mountain or ziplining!

If you could meet anyone, living or dead, who would it be?

Any of my grandpas because I never got to meet them, or Russell Wilson. Russell Wilson because he has a great character and contributes to his community.

How do you like to relax?

A quiet beach and a bottle of wine listening to the waves crashing.

What’s your dream job?

Being a musician — it will keep challenging me and engage me in learning new/old trends.

Favorite local restaurant and your order?

Santiago's! Where the owner knows my order when I walk in regardless of how long it's been since I last visited. Fajitas and margaritas or whatever Santiago's has on special.

I’m a great plus-one because…

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Jennifer Montes, 30

Vincente Herrera, 29

What does a perfect first date look like?

A perfect date would be a nice dinner where we both can dress up nicely and enjoy a glass of wine and have a nice conversation.

What are your hobbies/interests?

My hobbies consist of pretty much anything that involves the outdoors. Whether it’s hiking, fishing, camping, playing sports, rock climbing and repelling, going to beach or having a barbecue with the family.

Flight attendant

What’s a fun fact about you?

A fun fact about me is I tend to go on last-minute trips across the country without anything being planned.

What’s the most spontaneous thing you’ve ever done?

The most spontaneous thing I have done is go to Hong Kong on a Friday and returned Monday.

Favorite quote?

“Life is not the amount of breaths you take, it’s the moments that take your breaths away” — "Hitch."

What’s your ideal Sunday?

My ideal Sunday is going on a hike followed by brunch with bottomless mimosas.

How do you like to relax?

My way to relaxing is taking a bath followed with a glass of wine and documentary movie or show.

Turn ons?

A turn on for me is someone who can remind me that men are still chivalrous.

Favorite local restaurant and your order?

Tacos La Villa, you could never go wrong with tacos.

My ideal quality in a partner... someone who is family means everything, who is career driven and ambitious, someone who is smart with their money but not cheap. That they love to do spontaneous things. That they are romantic, funny, respectful and a gentleman.

After work you can find me… at Target buying unnecessary stuff or at home enjoying my time with family or friends since I’m usually gone for days in a row.

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Works for the Bakersfield Fire Department

What’s the most spontaneous thing you’ve ever done?

The most spontaneous thing I have ever done was probably between taking a solo trip to Europe for three weeks or when I took the opportunity to go skydiving at a moment's notice.

Favorite movie?

"The Guardian" with Kevin Costner and Ashton Kutcher.

Turn ons?

Contagious personality and smile. Someone adventurous.

What’s on your bucket list?

Taking a trip to see the Aurora Borealis (Northern Lights).

What’s your dream job?

Being a firefighter has always been my dream job.

Where do you want to travel to?

I want to travel to Italy, Germany and Australia.

My ideal quality in a partner...

Hanging out watching movies or getting outdoors.

After work you can find me…

Relaxing at home, trying to figure out my next outdoor excursion.

I’m a great plus-one because…

I enjoy talking with people and like to dance from time to time.

I never leave home without… a change of clothes. Always ready to be outside.

What makes a relationship great?

Communication and laughter.

Who or what are you listening to these days?

Pretty much everything from country music to oldies.

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Miss Bakersfield Morayo Olujumu plans to compete for Miss California this year.

Road to the crown

Miss Bakersfield reflects on her journey to prepare for Miss California competition

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MORAYO OLUJUMU’S JOURNEY TO A BRIGHTER FUTURE BEGAN WHEN SHE WAS CROWNED MISS KERN COUNTY IN 2019.

Olujumu was born and raised in Palmdale and attended Cal State Bakersfield for her bachelor’s degree in business administration. She said she made the decision to move to Bakersfield because she wanted a hometown feel.

As a first generation Nigerian American, Olujumu said it was important for her to make a difference wherever she stepped foot.

“I come from a low-income family, so I wasn’t always able to do every extracurricular activity I could do and I al-

ways dreamed of competing in a pageant,” she said. “Every time I go back home, I see how these humanitarian issues affect the country and our status quo as a world.”

In 2019, Olujumu went on to compete for her first beauty pageant and won the title of Miss Kern County. And in 2020, Olujumu went on to compete for Miss Bakersfield USA and won the title, too.

“It was a learning experience. I didn’t have a chance to compete in pageants before so I went in on the lowest budget I could. I didn’t have a pageant coach, but I got so many sponsors. My best friend coached me so I had to pull in all my resources, but I left home with the title,” she said. » See more of Miss Bakersfield on PAGE 56.

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Go & Do Aside from getting the opportunity to compete, Olujumu was able to be a part of the competition’s mantra of uplifting women and society. And being a part of an international competition like this one has inspired Olujumu to reach wider philanthropic activities by continuing to create fundraisers for the community.

“During the last three months, I’ve been trying to host virtual dance classes or an in-person dance class to raise money for The Thirst Project — a nonprofit organization dedicated to ending the water crisis all over the world,” she said.

Olujumu added beauty pageants teach younger women how to be confidently beautiful.

“These days it can be hard to be confidently beautiful because we’re forced to see perfection in our media and everyday lives,” she said. “The competition and organization teaches us not to compare ourselves to others by setting a standard for ourselves.”

Olujumu said she wants to show the world what the Central Valley and Kern County can bring to the table. She also wants to encourage other young women to pursue pageants because of the skills you gain through the process.

“I want to show everyone that we have girls that are awesome, confidently beautiful and capable of being showstoppers,” she said. “I believe it helps young women because it teaches them to handle pressure, how to be tenacious, teaches them confidence and how to be competitive in a healthy environment — that’s something we can all take into the workforce and everyday life.”

Olujumu is set to compete for Miss California USA from April 8 through 11 in San Gabriel. The weekend-long event will consist of a motivational dinner, keynote speakers and walking on the runway.

“It takes a lot of tenacity to be able to withstand all of that and perform at your best. You fight to the finish and remain positive,” she said.

With the big competition near, Olujumu said preparing for the Miss California event has been difficult because of COVID restrictions but is doing what she can with the resources she has.

“The most important preparation is the mental part, being so prepared that I don’t get anxiety that weekend and making sure I’m confident. The preparation process is really where you earn your title and you go into the competition to pick up your crown — act like a queen until it’s time to be the queen,” she said.

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The dos and don’ts of online dating apps

By Julie Mana-ay Perez

IF YOU’RE SINGLE, THERE’S A CHANCE THAT YOU’VE EITHER TRIED ONLINE DATING OR YOU HAVEN’T CONVINCED YOURSELF ENOUGH TO SIGN UP. There are a number of pop-

ular dating apps available, such as Bumble, Tinder, Plenty of Fish and Hinge, but there’s always a common factor when you’re swiping for your potential partner. It can be an intimidating feeling talking to a stranger online, no matter what stage you are in with your love life. But it’s important to look at these dating apps as an advantage: you’re looking for your next partner more quickly and right at your fingertips.

Though I’m not a total expert, I’d had my fair share on these dating apps over the years. And while there are several elements to the dating experience, these are some tips that I learned from my own experience and my friends.

DON’T

PRETEND TO BE SOMEONE YOU’RE NOT

Being yourself is an essential key to dating so if someone doesn’t like who you are, don’t be afraid to let them go. You’ll be much happier with someone who accepts your whole self.

TAKE IT PERSONAL

Sometimes online dating can be disappointing because it seems like you’re swiping on a list of potential people who don’t live up to your expectations. Whether you’re getting rejected or rejecting someone, always remember it didn’t work out for a reason. You may have liked this person a lot but if that person you’re talking to isn’t interested, you can’t force them to change their minds. Instead of dwelling on rejection, spend your time remembering what’s great about you.

CARRY RELATIONSHIP BAGGAGE WITH YOU

Before you look for a serious relationship, make sure you understand what you want and don’t want in a partner. Set boundaries for yourself when you match with people online. If

someone doesn’t check the boxes on your list of what you need to be happy, don’t be scared to turn away. You have options.

GIVE UP TOO QUICKLY

I know dating online can be hard because not many people will turn out how you expect, but you just have to be patient. Talking to someone new is easy but continuing something with them is a process.

DO

RESEARCH

Before you meet with someone, do your research on them and be safe. Make sure they’re a real person and that their online information is authentic.

You don’t want to end up being catfished or scammed.

PUT YOUR BEST FACE FORWARD

If there’s one thing that gets attention on dating apps, it’s your photos. Step up your selfie game and get creative. There are a number of ways to do this like taking photos when you’re going out with friends, using filters or getting creative with Photoshop.

The more nifty your photo looks, the more swipeable you’ll be and it’ll start a conversation!

TALK ABOUT YOUR INTERESTS

Although it’s important to be cautious about giving out personal information online, it’s OK to talk about your hobbies and interests. Give the person you’re talking to examples of what you like to do. Doing this makes that person online see you as an actual person and connect with them.

KEEP IT FUN

Whether you’re talking online or meeting in person, keep the conversation and activity fun. While building a new relationship is serious, make sure you enjoy yourself. When you’re meeting this person, do something that can be enjoyable for the both of you.

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Date ideas while staying in

By Julie Mana-ay Perez

THE CORONAVIRUS PANDEMIC DOESN’T HAVE TO CANCEL ROMANCE. In a time of uncertainty, it’s important to find

an escape and feel a moment of relief and fun. It can be difficult to find date ideas that allow for social distancing and fun activities with most businesses closed. Whether we’re going on a first date or keeping the romance alive, we’re constantly thinking about creative ways to see that special person. Here are some date ideas that you can do in the comfort of your own home or in an outdoor setting that allows for social distancing.

NETFLIX AND CHILL

Though this idea is not bad, it just means there was not a lot of effort made into planning this date. Instead, make a Netflix and chill night special by hosting the date outdoors surrounded by blankets, pillows, fairy lights and your favorite snacks.

PLAN A PICNIC IN THE PARK

Pack a picnic basket with foods that are easy to clean up like a charcuterie spread, fruits, veggies and sandwiches. Don’t forget to pack water or your favorite beverage to share, paper towels, utensils and a blanket to enjoy the view around you.

Some parks to have picnic dates are The Park at River Walk, Hart Park and Central Park at Mill Creek.

COOK A MEAL TOGETHER

A way to bond is cooking or baking your favorite dish together. A lot of delicious dishes that require only a few ingredients and just a few minutes of preparation time can be found on Tasty’s YouTube, Pinterest, Instagram and Facebook

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accounts. My favorite food account I follow right now is @ moribyan on Instagram and Tiktok.

TAKEOUT

If you’re not into cooking and short on time, there are many local restaurants you can choose from in Bakersfield. Elevate your evening by creating the ultimate dining experience in a backyard, front porch, outdoors or even staying in and lighting some candles.

DO SOMETHING NEW

Whether you’ve been with your partner for years or are meeting them for the first time, doing something new shakes up the status quo.

Try out different hobbies you wouldn’t normally do like having a craft night, adventuring at a nearby city or even visiting museums virtually.

EXERCISE

If you and your date are the athletic type, what better way to bond than through an activity you both enjoy? With gyms closed, you start to feel unmotivated to move around again. Some at-home gym activities you can do is go for a run, walk, practice yoga in the comfort of your own home or even attempt some fitness challenges on social media.

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Ally Lara still hasn’t given up on finding her Shrek

By Ema Sasic FINDING “THE ONE” IS NEVER AN EASY TASK, AND A PANDEMIC, WHICH HAS MADE GOING OUT AND MEETING NEW PEOPLE ALMOST IMPOSSIBLE, DOESN’T HELP EITHER.

Ally Lara decided to find love last year by creating the Instagram account @FindAllyLove.

In the spring of 2020, Ally Lara, assistant manager of the Fox Theater, decided she was ready to pursue love in a whole new way: totally out in the open for Bakersfield to see on social media.

She created an Instagram account @findallylove and posted an image of herself in front of the Fox Theater with the marquee message: “Looking for the Shrek to my Princess Fiona DM on IG FindAllyLove.”

“Once I knew the message was going up, there was no going back,” Lara, 26, said. “When you have no luck in love, anything goes.”

Prior to her love campaign, Lara’s dating life wasn’t exactly what she imagined. She would date people here and there, but none turned into more serious relationships. She grew more and more frustrated, wondering what she was doing wrong in these relationships and if she was too picky when it came to love.

She later realized that things weren’t working out not because of something she was doing, but because she just wasn’t with the right guys. In order to find “the one,” she decided she would have to get a little creative.

After she introduced herself to the world of Bakersfield singles, Lara said she received more than 100 message requests from men hoping to be her » See more Personality on PAGE 60.

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Despite some hard times in love, Ally Lara is still ready to find “the one.”

Shrek. One stood out among the others, she said, and she decided to take a leap of faith.

The two went on a date to Sonder, where everything from their meal, dessert and drinks was on the house. Things finally seemed to be looking up, she thought.

That is until things came crashing down.

Lara noticed a difference with her partner and had a feeling something was off. Her gut ended up being right because she found out her partner was seeing several other people behind her back. She quickly ended the relationship and said there was no way they could get back together after what happened.

“It was hard, but I realized that I wasn’t as in love with him as I thought,” Lara said. “It was sad because it was the first relationship I had, and I thought I had failed in a way, but it wasn’t me.”

Back in the single life, Lara decided that rather than sulk around and be upset over the situation, she would focus on loving herself and doing right by her. She began working out and eating healthier, which gave her a new sense of energy that she needed, and brightened up her look with some highlights. She also relied on her friends to get through the tough moments.

“I’m not trying to become a whole different person, just

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“

It was hard, but I realized that I wasn't as in love with him as I thought. I was sad because it was the first relationship I had, and I thought I had failed in a way, but it wasn't me."

— Ally Lara

a better version of myself,” she said. “I’ve been in that low point where you’re just heartbroken, you can’t think about the future and being better, and it’s a hard place to get out of and I knew I didn’t want to go back there.”

The time also allowed her to reconsider the qualities she wants in a partner and what matters most in order to find the one. Ideally, she’d like to be with a Spanish-speaker, or at least someone who is willing to learn the language.

Someone who is open, honest and faithful is key as well.

She’s not too picky about one’s appearance, but she doesn’t mind someone who is taller than her.

“I don’t care about sports, but if you like sports, that’s great. I will be your cheerleader, I will clap and scream whenever they do a touchdown,” she said. “We can have some things in common, like if you like to get out of town for the day, go out to eat or go for a hike ... but it’s alright if we have different interests.”

Although @FindAllyLove didn’t work according to plan the first time around, Lara doesn’t regret her relationship, and she’s not opposed to trying to find her Shrek again. Perhaps a new year could spark a new romance. But even if it doesn’t happen, like Princess Fiona, she doesn’t necessarily need a man to save her from all the dragons in the world.

Great Kern County Every school semester, Meaghan Barber-Smith gives a special assignment to her students to see what they're proud of and what they're struggling with.

Teaching during the pandemic

How a Highland High School educator is helping her students mentally 2020 WAS A YEAR LIKE NO OTHER FOR EVERYONE, AND FOR STUDENTS IT MEANT THEIR SCHOOL YEAR ENDED ABRUPTLY.

She began doing the special assignment with all of her classes to see how all of her other students felt and she noticed the same discouraging responsMeaghan Barber-Smith has been an es. educator at Highland High School for 14 “After reading the responses, so many of years and is also the activities director. them were stressed, depressed and anxious,” One of her duties is to be interactive with she said. her students, but since the pandemic, Worried about her students’ mental health, teaching has shifted the classroom enviBarber-Smith turned to the help of Highland ronments immensely.

High School’s interventionist Jazmin Alberto to One of the hardest things has been not talk to her students about mental health, how to being able to interact with her students in cope with their stress and depression and covered Meaghan Barber-Smith person and helping them with what they need. the resources available to them.

“I’m pretty active with the kids but I’m basiBarber-Smith explained that one’s mental well-being cally talking to black screens all day so it makes it hard. goes hand-in-hand with their performance so it was important It’s one of the biggest struggles — seeing my kids struggle. When for her to spend her time team building and creating a better I had them with me, I could get down with them but not being mindset for her students. able to do that is frustrating and upsetting at times,” she said.

“My first class she did it with, they loved it. The students Barber-Smith runs a leadership class, which includes a wanted her to talk to all the classes because it’s what every course on empathy where she would have her students write student needs. And I had the same responses from my other one thing they’re proud of and one thing they’re struggling classes,” said Barber-Smith. with anonymously. The activity would be displayed in a gallery She also said the special assignment was an eye-opening styled walk where other students are able to take in what their experience for her students because they were starting to be peers are also struggling with and things they’re celebrating so “receptive toward other teachers and getting out of their funk.” students know they are not alone.

“One good thing about the COVID-19 pandemic is that kids Since shifting to virtual learning, Barber-Smith continued are learning how to advocate for themselves more, so I would her special assignment through an online version, still anonyencourage those who are feeling (depressed, anxious and mous, and noticed a discouraging negative spike in her stustressed) to reach out to any of the resources we have available dents’ moods after reading their responses. and talk to their friends about their feelings,” she said. “Chances “It upset me because I had some kids tell me they weren’t are, they’re all going through the same thing.” proud of anything right now and it was so disheartening,” she She also wants to advocate for students to use their school’s said. resources to get the help that they need to achieve academically.

PHOTOS BY JULIE MANA-AY PEREZ

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Individuals to honor throughout Black History Month »

AMERICA LONG HAS BEEN DESCRIBED AS A MELTING POT. People from all cultures,

continents and walks of life have blended together to paint the canvas that is the United States.

African Americans have played a significant role in forming the fabric of the United States, and every February we recognize the accomplishments of African Americans and give thanks for their contributions to medicine, the arts, sports, business, law, and much more. The following is a small sampling of the myriad African American individuals past and present who have made their mark on American history.

cessful dance companies in the world. His company was an amalgam of faces and cultures, making it unique for its time.

MARY MCLEOD BETHUNE

Mary McLeod Bethune was an educator, civil rights leader and advisor to five United States presidents.

She turned to her faith and used her voice to be a pioneer for racial progress. Education long had been at the core of Bethune’s mission, and she founded two schools and later became one of few female college presidents.

RYAN COOGLER

Ryan Coogler is the director of what has been dubbed the “biggest, blackest superhero movie” in recent history — and perhaps all time. Marvel Studio’s “Black Panther” took in $1.3 billion worldwide and became a cultural touchstone. Coogler proved he is a director of note, and the public is bound to see much more of his work in the future, including a potential “Panther” sequel.

ROBERT ABBOTT

Giving voice to African Americans in a different way, Robert Abbot was a pioneer of the Black press. He founded a weekly paper called The Chicago Defender, which would become one of the most important newspapers in history in the early 20th century. Abbott’s work would eventually pave the way for many other publications.

SERENA WILLIAMS

Serena Williams is arguably the greatest female tennis player of all time. Serena Williams has more than 20 Grand Slam titles to her name and is a face and advocate for working women. One of her more notable recent accomplishments is her successful return to the court just one year after nearly dying from complications that arose during the birth of her daughter — once again proving her mettle.

ALVIN AILEY

Alvin Ailey was a modern dance choreographer and pioneer.

He also was a civil rights activist. He founded the Alvin Ailey American Dance Theater, which became one of the most suc-

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ARETHA FRANKLIN

The world lost the “Queen of Soul” in 2018, but her influence and resounding voice live on. Her gospel-infused singing was born out of church choirs, and her famous No. 1 hit “Respect” helped become a soundtrack not only for women, but also the civil rights movement. Inducted into the Rock & Roll Hall of Fame in 1987, Franklin’s influence could be heard through singers like Whitney Houston, Beyoncé and more.

Did You Know?

The history of African Americans has been shaped by many influential figures, including various civil rights activists. Ruby Bridges may be one of the youngest. At age six, Ruby Bridges became the first African American student to integrate the formerly all-white William Frantz Elementary School in New Orleans. Although Bridges lived five blocks away from William Frantz Elementary School, she had to attend kindergarten several miles away at an all-Black segregated school. Bridges volunteered to take an entrance test to be able to attend the all-white school. The test was purportedly designed to be extremely difficult so that students would have a hard time passing it, and thusly New Orleans could avoid de-segregation if all the African American children failed the test. Individuals from the NAACP informed Bridges’ parents that their daughter was one of only six African American students to pass the test. On Nov. 14, 1960, she was escorted to class by her mother and the United States Marshals Service due to the presence of angry mobs outside the school. Bridges was the first African American student to attend the school and the first Black child to attend an all-white elementary school in the south. The first day of school proved poor as nearly all of the white parents at the school had kept their children home and Bridges spent the day with the principal. The ensuing days weren’t much better. Eventually, only one teacher in the school, Barbara Henry, formerly of Boston, agreed to teach Bridges. Bridges never missed a day of school that year, even though she ate lunch alone each day and no one played with her at recess. Her early foray into civil rights prompted Bridges to establish The Ruby Bridges Foundation to promote tolerance and change through education.

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Helping the disabled find their dream Nonprofit thrift store reopens after tragedy

By Lisa Kimble

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IT IS OFTEN SAID THAT IT IS THE PEOPLE WHO DISTINGUISH OUR GIVING COMMUNITY FROM OTHERS. Generous to a fault, their oversized hearts see a bigger picture and seek to fill a void, even when their plates are already piled high. Add Charles and Tina Heard of Bakersfield to this list of remarkable people, who in a few short years, have taken their family’s personal experience with a disability, and turned it into a nonprofit that is impacting others like them.

Their thrift store, A Dream Shared, is a small but important piece of the local special needs community. It empowers young adults with disabilities through job training and life skills. It began with a conversation about what their daughter Kelsey, now 19, was going to do after high school and exit out of her special needs program.

“We considered a number of things, did a lot of research and reached out to other families within the special education community for feedback,” Charles Heard said. “Our first concern was Kelsey, and our other was families in town like us with young adult children who will soon exit out as well.”

Dissatisfied with their options, a friend suggested a thrift store. They opened A Dream Shared downtown in 2018.

“When we started, people in Kern County were quick to help when we explained the cause,” he added. “Not only were people donating, but they were also sharing an experience for our daughter and other kids with disabilities who have dreams of working and being productive.”

It has become a family affair. Their son, CJ, came up with the name and runs the day-to-day operations while his parents hold down their day jobs. By partnering with other agencies, young adults like Kelsey sort through clothing, stack books and dust furniture donated by locals and retailers.

“My siblings and I faced a massive task when it came time to clean out our parents’ home last year. We weren’t going to have an estate sale, and serendipitously, we heard of A Dream Shared,” said Carolyn Pandol. “The Heard family was wonderful to deal with.

We loved hearing their story of employing and training people with special needs, and I know our parents would be pleased knowing their items were used for good.”

A Dream Shared was just gaining momentum when tragedy struck last fall: a fire engulfed their 19th Street store.

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From left, Tina, Kelsey and Charles Heard inside A Dream Shared's new location.

Although there is no official cause, investigators discovered the gas meter had been tampered with and suspect transients are to blame. Adding insult to injury, the following day, the Heards noticed piles of items that had been looted, now in the custody of the homeless at nearby Mill Creek Park.

While their dream faced a serious setback, their mission was not extinguished.

“That’s OK. We just started over,” said Tina Heard.

They have nearly doubled their space at a new location on Auburn Street in northeast Bakersfield. Not surprising, other longer-established nonprofit thrift stores were swift to help in the wake of the fire.

“Everyone has been so supportive of us. We want to make sure we aren’t just receiving, but ‘sharing’ with them as well,” Charles Heard said. “Our goal isn’t to get top dollar for items, but to move the inventory so workers like Kelsey have something to do the next day.”

Opinions expressed in this column are those of Lisa Kimble.

More Information A DREAM SHARED 5600 Auburn St. 661-348-4746 ADreamShared.Org

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Whether there are kids on the grounds or not, Edible Schoolyard keeps growing

By Ema Sasic

Buena Vista Edible Schoolyard Program Manager Dylan Wilson showcases some of the plants starting to grow in the greenhouse.

The Buena Vista Edible Schoolyard grows about 60 varieties of vegetables each year.

PHOTOS BY EMA SASIC

CLASSROOMS AND SCHOOL HALLWAYS HAVE BEEN QUIET THE LAST FEW MONTHS, MISSING THE YOUNG MINDS THAT MAKE THEM FLOURISH. But for at least one educational setting in Kern County, growing has continued to take place.

The Buena Vista Edible Schoolyard, a collaborative effort between the Grimm Family Education Foundation and the Panama-Buena Vista Union School District, is a garden oasis for students with green thumbs. During a normal school year, some 1,000 students from Buena Vista Elementary participate in hands-on, 90-minute garden and kitchen lessons where they learn the seed to table process.

During the COVID-19 pandemic, however, teaching students has had to undergo some changes, explained Dylan Wilson, program manager. But the core mission — encouraging students to have a positive relationship with food — has stayed the same.

When school shutdowns began in mid-March, Wilson said, Edible Schoolyard turned into a small farm. With around 60 varieties of vegetables grown each year, it was a fairly seamless transition to make. All that food went directly to the community.

“Since we didn’t have students and the food wasn’t going toward lessons, we began donating produce to the Cal State (Bakersfield) Food Pantry,” he explained. More than 3,000 pounds of produce have been donated.

In late June, the garden received the green light to welcome students back on campus. Since then, small cohorts of students at a time have participated in seasonal camps.

Wilson explained students in the fall camp met once a week for eight weeks and received four garden and four kitchen lessons. There were 12 students per cohort, and in total Edible Schoolyard saw 72 children.

“We found that a lot of our students and their knowledge of food systems increased over that eight-week period,” he said. He added parents were ready for their children to be out of the home and looking at something other than an electronic device, so experiential learning was a necessity.

Similar to how the program runs during a normal school year, students got a first-hand look at how the fruits and vegetables they eat end up on their kitchen tables. Animal and plant lifecycles, composting, garden tool handling and more are covered in the garden portion, while in the kitchen students learn how to handle various tools, such as knives and measuring cups, until they’re ready to tackle recipes.

Camps are open to all students, no matter if they attend a private, public or homeschool setting. Various COVID-19 health protocols, such as mask wearing, social distancing and temperature checks, are in place. Edible Schoolyard’s winter camp will run Jan. 11 to March 5.

There were challenges along the way, such as socially distancing young children, who want to be around friends, from each other, acknowledged Wilson, but smaller class sizes and more individualized attention on students allowed for “the interaction between the students and teacher (to be) higher,” leading to more engagement and grasping of concepts.

Outside of the camps, Edible Schoolyard, through a grant from Dignity Health, has hosted webinars aimed at parents and helping them create healthy meals for their families. Through a partnership with Adventist Health and KGET, the schoolyard also shares healthy recipes with the community every Wednesday on 17 News at Sunrise.

The garden even makes its own extra virgin olive oil. In 2012, mature olive trees were transplanted from Woodlake, and today around 350 trees surround the area. Each year Darcy Marshall harvests and presses the olives that are hand-picked. The result is a peppery and authentic Buena Vista Extra Virgin Olive Oil that has taken first place at the Kern County Fair since 2015.

The olive oil can be purchased at Lassen’s Natural Foods and Vitamins and Williams Sonoma, and all proceeds go back to the Edible Schoolyard.

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Collections of Orville Armstrong Teachers meeting at an unknown date.

Bakersfield’s unsung heroes Honoring our teachers through the years

By Julie Plata

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THE 2020-2021 SCHOOL YEAR IS CERTAINLY ONE FOR THE HISTORY BOOKS, AND WHILE STUDENTS FACE THE CHALLENGES OF SCHOOL VIA ZOOM, ONE THING THAT HAS NOT CHANGED IS THE CARE AND DETERMINATION OF TEACHERS TO RISE TO THE TASK OF THIS RECENT REALITY. Although Teacher Appreciation Week is celebrated in May, there is no time like the present to look back at how the Bakersfield community has honored its teachers.

According to the National Education Association, National Teacher Day was created through the persistence and leadership of Eleanor Roosevelt when she persuaded the 81st Congress to proclaim May 7, 1953, as National Teacher Day. It did not become an annual national day until 1980 and was elevated to an entire week in May 1984 by the National Parent Teacher Association.

But it does not take a proclamation from Congress or a special week to honor Bakersfield’s dedicated educators.

As far back as Jan. 15, 1880, the editors of the then Kern County Californian stated that the “teacher is essentially a horticulturist whose chief duty it is to take the little radishes and keep them well weeded and watered until they develop into large plants and are ready for the market.”

In the 1920s, Bakersfield was home to many teachers from both the county and from all parts of the state. The Nov. 27, 1923, Morning Echo recognized the importance of honoring those educators as “in all the world there is not a more important vocation than that of the teacher. A com-

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petent, patient schoolteacher is a pearl beyond price.” As teachers are entrusted with the education of the children “let us honor those into whose care we hand them, and let us welcome every teacher we see — welcome them individually and collectively. The city and the county should be theirs.”

Through the years, Bakersfield’s teachers have been honored and appreciated on the pages of the editorials. A letter to The Californian from D.M. Matherly declared on March 31, 1944, “the teaching profession is one of the greatest of them all, and I sometimes think the least appreciated …Three cheers to the teachers of Kern county or anywhere else, they are the guiding spirit molding the character of the children of today into better citizens of tomorrow.” An editorial from May 26, 1969, declared “the classroom teacher, in our book, is that all-important bridge of knowledge — the unsung hero on the educational scene.”

The message in the May 10, 1972, Californian regarding Teacher Appreciation Day held at Sunset School sums up the appreciation educators deserve for all they do “in the line of duty and above and beyond the call of duty, such as the teacher who gives up a recess or noon hour to give a student some special help; the teacher who loans a student a personal book; the one who comes to school early to give a student a makeup test; the teacher who praises when work is good and counsels when grades slip and the teacher who loans the students lunch money.”

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The February Puzzle

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She was one of the first women elected to the state legislature in 1918.

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She was the first woman elected mayor of Bakersfield.

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Reported in The Bakersfield Californian, Golden Valley High School students

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started a peer counseling group named this.

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What was Bakersfield High School’s original name?

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This annual month-long event in Delano, that dates back to 1975, is held every summer

to celebrate Filipino culture and pride.

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This popular American nu metal band was formed in Bakersfield, notable for

pioneering the nu metal genre and bringing it into the mainstream.

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This pizzeria was opened in 1992 by Jerry Baranowski but its new owners are Corina

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She was the first African-American woman

elected to the Bakersfield City Council, representing Ward 1.

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Bakersfield Life Editor Ema Sasic comes from

a rich cultural background. Both of her parents are from this country.

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The film “Carol of the Bells” filmed a scene at

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this historic Bakersfield location.

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This was Kern County’s first newspaper.

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This beloved eatery was awarded the James Beard Foundation’s America’s

in 37 years.

This was Bakersfield's first new freeway

Classics Award in 2011.

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10 This 2015 Disney film starring Kevin Costner was centered around this northern

former corporate department store on Wilson Road

Kern County location.

is slated to become an Amazon distribution hub.

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home in Bakersfield. It’s the only structure of his in California that cannot be seen from the

pable of controlled and sustained flight, and it won

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the Kremer prize in 1977.

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