Bakersfield Life Magazine March 2016

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Robbie and Kathy Robbins A friendship at the heart of their relationship By Hannah Thomasson Photos by Ashley dePencier Photography

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iving and working together can sometimes be challenging for those in a close relationship, but Robbie (James) and Kathy Robbins wouldn’t have it any other way. Robbie and Kathy became the owners of Jane’s Jewelers after buying it from Kathy’s parents when they retired. They have managed it side by side for almost 26 years. When asked what their secret is to a long-lasting and loving marriage, Robbie said, “Having a deep friendship is everything. I think love is total kindness toward one another and it’s the little things and showing consideration.” “Pick your battles,” Kathy added. They not only work together, but they play together too. A lot of their personal time is spent enjoying each other’s company as there is a genuine friendship at the heart of their marriage. “We work together, and not a lot of people can do that. You have to respect the business side of it and the personal side of it,” Robbie said. This means that they are very intentional with their relationship and set aside quality time away from the business. They spend every Sunday

morning drinking coffee and being together. They also have a number of hobbies that they do together and frequently travel all over the United States and to Belgium to acquire diamonds for their store. “We don’t sit still,” Kathy said. They make generosity a part of their lives and business by giving back whenever they can. Robbie served a year in Vietnam and three years total in the Army. He frequently repairs watches for armed service personnel and doesn’t charge for the repairs. Instead, they accept donations to the Wounded Warrior Project. “I’ve learned that it’s not what you take in life, it’s what you give,” Robbie said. When asked what their favorite attribute of their spouse, Kathy said, “His zest for life; he always has something going on, whether it’s brewing beer or flying an airplane.” Robbie responded: “She gave me two beautiful daughters: Ashly, 33, and Lauren, 30. And she’s a good dancer!” Robbie and Kathy will be married for 35 years this July and say that rejoicing in each other’s differences has been an important part of their marriage. It was marriage advice that they were given and something that they have taken to heart.

JANE’S JEWELERS Where Bakersfield Gets Engaged

9530 Hageman Road Corner of Calloway & Hageman 661-587-6242 Tuesday - Friday 10am-6pm • Saturday 10am-6pm Closed Sunday & Monday

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