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Volume 51 - No. 18

By Friedrich Gomez

Someone once said that, “All mothers with teenagers fully understand why some animals eat their young.”

It isn’t easy to be a mother. For all they do, sacrifice, and teach us, mothers often suffer in silence. Well, not always in silence.

There is something universal about an angry mom’s voice -- when she shouts out her commands. All human beings are conditioned to The Paper - 760.747.7119


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respond, no matter who you are or where you were born.

When your mother’s voice is loud enough, even the neighbors brush their teeth and get dressed quickly in a manner of animal instinct for survival. MOTHER’S DAY IS AN ANCIENT CUSTOM! Shocking news for many is that the concept of Mother’s Day is as old as the hills! And as incredible as it may sound, the world’s leading scholars of antiquity inform us that the roots of

Mother’s Day actually trace back thousands of years to ancient cultures, such as the Middle East, Greece, and Rome. (The History of Mother’s Day from the Ancient World to Today, the American University in Cairo, Egypt.) MOTHER’S DAY AROUND THE WORLD TODAY. Today, over 200 different countries celebrate Mother’s Day on different days and months of the year. For example, most Arab countries celebrate it on March 21.

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Russia celebrates it on the last Sunday in November.

America celebrates it every 2nd Sunday in May.

Regardless of what country you’re in, the international mantra seems to be the same: “It ain’t easy being a Mom!” LONG HOURS & NEW LIFE’S EXPERIENCES EARNED IN THE BATTLEFIELD. Moms are expected to do the job of twenty people or more, and to do it free.

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It’s a grueling gig, nonstop, 24/7.

Famous American singer Carrie Underwood knows the hours of motherhood are tortuous, with no sick leave, pay is non-existent, and that her diet mainly consists of eating foods that her children didn’t finish. It ain’t all glamour and kids can drive dear ol’ Mom to drink.

As one mother explained with a measure of levity at the 2020 “Symposium for New Mothers” in New York: “The most expensive part of having kids is all the wine you have to drink!”

Humor is essential in the life of mothers, as mental health experts emphasize: “You either laugh, grin and bear it,” or they measure you for a straitjacket. So if you’re going to talk hard science in child rearing, infuse some laughs along the way to relieve pressure and anxiety. Mothers are enslaved to labors and chores and therefore must learn how to be creative in their multi-tasking skills, even when such tactics are discovered by accident: As Phyliss Diller testified, “The only time I ever enjoyed ironing was the day I accidentally got gin in the steam iron.” As one humorous poster on the

Give Us This Day Our Daily Chuckle This week, a compendium of wit, wisdom and neat stuff you can tell at parties. Enjoy!

I  just paid for a 12 month gym membership.

My bank called ans asked if my credit card had been stolent. •••• High Sodium , High Cholesterol, losts of toxins . . Mr. Davis, your blood test is remarkably similar to a potato chip. •••• Apparently it’s only appropriate to say, “Look at you! You’ve gotten so big!” to children. Adults tend to get offended. •••• I never thought I was the kind of person who would wake up early to exercise. And I was right. •••• Two things to make your day be brighter and happier: a. Do not watch the news.

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symposium wall has it: “Don’t forget to pick up a bottle of wine for Mom. After all, as a toddler going through your ‘terrible threes,’ you may have been the reason she took up drinking in the first place!” SHOCKING WORLDWIDE PHENOMENON: THE WORD “MAMA” IS UNIVERSAL! One of the world’s most shocking and mystifying phenomena – and almost entirely unknown to the average person – is that virtually all babies born around the planet say the same word: “Mama” as infants.

This is astonishing in light of the fact that there is an estimated 7,000 different languages and dialects around the world, along with their own written languages. That the word “Mama” remains virtually the same in its application, basic spelling, and pronunciation in so many thousands of various languages is absolutely mind-boggling! And puzzling!

In Afrikaan, Arabic, Armenian, Bangladesh, traditional Chinese, Dutch, Hindi, Icelandic, Italian, Indonesian, Japanese, Laotian/Lao, Lithuanian, Macedonian, Norwegian, Polish, Russian, Scottish-Gaelic, Samoan, Slovenian, Spanish, Swahili, Thailand/Tai, Yiddish, Welsh, Zulu – well, you name it -- they all have the same universal name and spelling for “Mama” which upends scales.


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•••• No, it’s not water, Mr. Davis. You seem to be retaining food. •••• It’s just a simple little surgical procedure, Mr. Davis.

But we want you to pay now. •••• I’d say it’s your gall bladder, Mr. Davis. But if you want a second opinion I’d say it’s your kidneys. •••• This is a very sad but true story of the depression that can haunt a man. My friend Michael was so sick and tired of the world; of Covid-19, of the Chinese aggression, of Global Warming, BLM and the rest of the stories that our media deem important to broadcast. He drove his car into his garage and then sealed every doorway and window as best he could. He got back into his car and wound down all the windows, selected his favorite radio station and started the car. Two days later, a worried neighbor peered through his garage window and saw him in the car.

She notified the police and called for an ambulance. They broke in and pulled Michael from the car. A little sip of water and surprisingly he was in perfect condition, but his Tesla had a dead battery.

the apple cart for linguists to now see a new global range for the word’s origins!

And if a world language does not have the exact spelling match for “Mama” – it’s still pretty darn close to it, such as with French (maman), German (mutter), Filipino (si mama), French (maman), Korean (eomma), Portuguese (mamae), Swahili (ma), and Vietnamese (ma), etc.

With your computer, everyone can log onto a universal language translation mode and type in the English word “Mama” and then scroll down to virtually every civilized human language on Earth to see the same word “Mama” translated and replicated as – well, “Mama” in almost all the world’s different languages! Coincidence? Hardly.

That would be akin to lightning striking a million times in the very same spot in consecutive – not sporadic -- fashion!

As diverse as all these cultures were in their independent evolution, thousands of years ago, separated by continents and oceans, jungles from desert, all these strange tongues, dialects, and languages since the prehistoric epoch were independently formed to be different – except for the word “Mama.” God Makes Surprise Visit To Local Church

FAYETTEVILLE, NC— Parishioners at the First Presbyterian Church were left stunned and in awe of His glory Sunday, when the Lord God Almighty dropped by their 11 a.m. service unannounced. Our Father, the Almighty God, popped His all-powerful head into First Presbyterian Church Sunday.

Interrupting Pastor Terry Pridgen's sermon on His unending mercy, God appeared suddenly before His flock as an intense beam of white light, instantly dispersing the earthly forms of those seated in the first two pews. Sources said the remaining congregants had to avert their eyes from their Creator, whose booming celestial voice overwhelmed their worldly senses and humbled their hearts as He politely apologized for not calling first.

"I AM the God of Abraham, the LORD MOST HIGH, who brought you forth from the bondage of Egypt," God said unto church members, many of whom cowered in reverent fear of Him. "Thought I'd just pop in and see how things were going. Please, pretend like I'm not even here." The Supreme Being then thanked the choir for its "lovely introduction" and took a seat to the right of the altar.

The very synonym we use for Mother’s Day

One clue advanced by world experts who study the evolution of earlyhuman development is that one of the first utterances or sounds that all babies make is a “ma” sound and, ergo, most languages around the world have that same sound as the basis for their word for “mother” or, as in this case, “mama.”

It is poetic justice that the word “Mama” has always been with all cultures since birth, especially in light of the universal “Mother’s Day” sentiment of: “You’ve always been there for me, Mama” – which now appears to have quite a literal meaning, since time immemorial, with most every baby that was ever born!

WHICH U. S. PRESIDENT MADE MOTHER’S DAY A NATIONAL HOLIDAY? A Woodrow Wilson B Franklin D. Roosevelt C John F. Kennedy Correct answer is “A” for Woodrow Wilson. Although Mother’s Day traces its roots back thousands of years to ancient cultures, it was in 1914 America that President Woodrow Wilson signed a proclamation designating Mother’s Day to be held on the second Sunday in May, as a national holiday to honor motherhood.

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According to wholly repentant witnesses, who were scarcely able to look upon the Alpha and Omega, much less conceive of the enormity of His Might, God did not speak again for the entirety of the service, but was seen nodding approvingly during the Nicene Creed. Attendees reportedly did not ask the One Who Made Them Flesh why He had chosen to visit their small parish, though some suspected the church's new electric organ might have had something to do with it.

"I don't think anyone knew He was coming," said churchgoer Ron Stiehl, adding that, for once, he was happy his wife dragged him to church. "At least it seemed that way when He started walking toward us and everyone was yelling their heads off like it was Judgment Day." "Turns out the King of Kings was just making the rounds," Stiehl continued. "I thought He'd be taller."

While God did not reveal unto man a reason for His visit—nor did He, in His great wisdom, offer to pay for the six stained-glass windows that shattered from the awesome power of His presence—the Almighty sat among His followers for the last 35 minutes of the Sunday service, as well as the free coffee and pastries that followed. Sources said that Our Father sat

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Escondido Chamber May Education Meeting Announced The Chamber's May Education meeting will be on Monday, May 10th, from 12pm-1pm. Guest speakers: Escondido Union School District (EUSD) Superintendent, Dr. Luis Rankins-Ibarra and California Center for the Arts Director of Education, Sherehe Hollins. The Chamber's Education Committee is focused on connecting leaders in education to leaders in the business community. Their goal is to work together towards workforce development, cutting edge curriculum and educational resource sustainability. This General Meeting will be presided over by Dr. Ibarra. Please join us to hear about the latest in education for the Escondido region, with updates on in-person classes,

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In 1905, after the death of her mother, Anna Marie Jarvis began her fight to have Mother’s Day recognized as a national holiday. She finally succeeded with President Wilson’s official approbation. Whether one is president, king, or rich tycoon – we all had a mother. And for the most part, we all came home in diapers. Such humble beginnings should never be forgotten. Nor the sacrifice ours mothers made. In later years, when you’re a mother, you will learn how to balance your life.

As journalist and author Katie Bingham Smith says: “Some days I do yoga and don’t yell at the kids. Some days I scream at them while eating cake over the sink. It’s called balance in life.” EVEN THOUGH ANNA JARVIS FOUNDED MOTHER’S DAY, SHE LATER PROTESTED AGAINST IT, FOR WHAT REASON? A She disagreed on the selected date for Mother’s Day. B Mother’s Day became too commercialized. C Mother’s Day ignored religious associations. Correct answer is “B,” Mother’s

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details about summer programs and information about the plans for next school year. Joining Dr. Ibarra will be Sherehe Hollins. Through her role she develops and oversees arts education programs that have served 32 of San Diego County's 42 school districts, impacting over 28,000 youth and adults each year. For over 20 years Sherehe has dedicated her career to developing and implementing culturally relevant, visual and performing arts-based curricula, activities, and programs for K-Post Secondary schools and non-profit organizations.

For more information, contact the Escondido Chamber of Commerce, 720 N. Broadway, Escondido, CA 92025, or call 760.745.2125. The meeting is free and will be on Zoom at https://us02web.zoom.us/webinar/r egister/WN_6KBForiQTACbqDKI cYyRyg

Conservative Order of Good Guys Luncheon Meeting Will Be On May 11th - After all these months the Conservative Order for Good Government (COGG) was finally able to host a luncheon meeting 'in person' in April. This was a most welcome event and the served luncheon was well worth the price. Our May meeting will also be a luncheon meeting, on Tuesday, May 11th, between 11:30am and 1:45pm. The lunch will be a served meal at 12noon. The price will be $35/per person. You may also attend by Zoom for a modest $5/fee. If you would prefer to attend by

Day became too commercialized. Although Jarvis was successful in founding Mother’s Day in America, she became resentful of the overcommercialization of the holiday and expressed that was never her intention.

By the early 1920s, Hallmark and other companies had started selling Mother’s Day cards. Other businesses joined by exploiting flowers, candy, and other gift items in the name of Mother’s Day celebrations. Greatly offended over her brainchild being commercialized, Jarvis emphasized that the true meaning of Mother’s Day should be the sentiment, not profit.

As a result, she organized boycotts of Mother’s Day and even threatened to issue lawsuits against the companies exploiting her special day which she had established in loving memory of her mother. In 1925, she was arrested for protesting and disturbing the peace. Mother’s Day founder, Anna Marie Jarvis, saw the seedy part of the adage: “Be careful what you wish for. You never know who will be listening.”

In the case of Jarvis, it was the profiteering commercial businesses that were listening, and who turned Mother’s Day into a cash cow! WORLD SATELLITES & TELECOMMUNICATION NET-

zoom, you will be sent the zoom instructions by Monday, May 10th.

The speaker will be Siyamak Khorrami, General Manager of the Southern California Epoch Times. He will speak on "Fighting Fake News" and how he came to personally take on this fight. He has lived in four different countries, including China. He has enjoyed the problems and pleasures of challenging the huge publishers and getting the "Rest of the Story" out to the public. Siyamak Khorrami is the General Manager at The Epoch Times, Southern California Edition since 2017. Having lived in four different countries and led start-ups in both the U.S. and China, Siyamak understands and appreciates the values America was founded on. He cherishes this culture and society and believes that media needs to do more to promote the American values. In 2017 he was inspired by the mission of the Epoch Times newspaper and decided to join the media full time. We hope to see you on Tuesday, May 11, at the Bernardo Heights Country Club, 16066 Bernardo Heights Parkway, San Diego, 92128 (Rancho Bernardo). For reservations, contact blawson@san.rr.com or 858.217.6996. Cowboy Jack in Oceanside Mothers Day, May 9th - Cowboy Jack will be performing on Sunday, Mothers Day, May 9th, from 12noon to 3pm, at the Mellano Farm Stand, 5750 North River WORKS OVERWHELMED ON MOTHER’S DAY! Due to recent CDC precautions from the Covid19 pandemic, this year’s Mother’s Day is expected to break all records in volume of phone calls! Traditionally, more phone calls are made worldwide during Mother’s Day than at any other day of the year, and in America that includes Christmas, Valentine’s Day, New Year’s Eve, or Thanksgiving Day!

America expects to complete over 130 million phone calls on Mother’s Day 2021. (Note: Many foreign countries have adopted the same day and month for Mother’s Day as the United States so worldwide volume of calls will be unprecedented this year also! Part of this increase of calls is due to ongoing CDC restrictions.) Mother’s Day is also the busiest time of the year for restaurants, flower shops, and beauty shops and spas.

This is the least we can do for Moms. After all, we were often responsible for nearly driving our mothers stark raving mad when we were going through our “terrible threes” and the marathon challenges mothers had to endure, including extreme sleep deprivation. Famous American actress and

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Coming Soon! The Education Summit 2021 - North County Works presents Education Summit 2021, Presentation and Education Panel, May 11th, 9am-11am, Virtual. This virtual event is open to the public so spread the word to your clients and students.

The San Diego Workforce Partnership will be reporting on the priority sectors in San Diego, the impact of the pandemic on the labor market and how education can address racial inequality. Our education panel will showcase the wide variety of educational options and trainings that are available to North County residents. The traditional four year college is not the only way to a rewarding career! This event is free but registration is a must to receive virtual call-in infor-

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mother of three, Julie Bowen, puts those early formative years into proper perspective: “Sleeping with my toddler is like sharing my bed with a drunk octopus looking for its car keys!” EVEN OUR SO-CALLED ‘ENEMIES’ HAVE EMBRACED AMERICA’S VERSION OF MOTHER’S DAY! You should be sitting down before you read this next sentence, because it’s quite an unbelievable shocker!

As fantastic as it may sound, even countries that are not particularly friendly to our way of life, culture, ideology, and politics – have made a gargantuan exception by openly embracing America’s version of observing and celebrating Mother’s Day, right down to our own exact day and month on the yearly calendar (every 2nd Sunday in May)! For example, Communist China has somewhat insulated itself from the “debased and decadent lifestyle and influence of the West, particularly the United States.” And yet, China has freely chosen to openly adopt America’s exact day, exact month, and exact version in observing and celebrating Mother’s Day!

Whether one is in China or the United States, all children are mischievously common. In Chinese or

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Writer’s Awards Announced

The Paper is proud to recognize several of its outstanding writers during the past three months of cover stories.

The Gold Medal and a check for $100 goes to Richard L. “Pete” Petsrson for his fascinating cover story “Fist Fights, Peanut Butter and My Mule Jude,” first published in The Paper on January 21; You can read the story on our website here: https://issuu.com/awodigitaledition/docs/the_paper_01-2121?fr=sY2RjNTIzODE1Mzk.

The Silver Medal and a check for $75 goes to Sam Lowe for his account of meeting “the Champ,” in his “Muhammad Ali . . . the 3:17 and Me,” published in The Paper on March 11, 2021. You can read the story here: https://issuu.com/awodigitaledit i o n / d o c s / t h e _ p a p e r _ 0 3 - 11 21?fr=sYTk5ZjIzODE1Mzk

The Bronze Medal and a check for $50 goes to Michele Ivy Davis for her story “The Land.” First published on January 28, 2021, you can read the story here: https://issuu.com/awodigitaledition/docs/the_paper_01-2821?fr=sNThiYTIzODE1Mzk

The publisher of The Paper, lyle e.

Man About Town

When I was a kid, adults used to bore me to tears with their tedious diatribes about how hard things were. When they were growing up; what with walking twenty-five miles to school every morning.... Uphill... Barefoot... BOTH ways...yadda, yadda, yadda

And I remember promising myself that when I grew up, there was no way in hell I was going to lay a bunch of crap like that on my kids about how hard I had it and how easy they've got it!

But now that I'm over the ripe old age of eighty, I can't help but look around and notice the youth of today. You've got it so easy! I mean, compared to my childhood, you live in a damn Utopia! And I hate to say it, but you kids today, you don't know how good you've got it!

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davis, said: “We’re proud of the brilliant stable of writers we have and look forward to more of their brilliant work.

This is an ongoing program and writers, both locally, nationally and inernationally, are invited to submit their work for consideration. Interested writers should contact The Paper at 760.747.7119 or at thepaper@cox.net, for details. Writers are recognized quarterly.

Palomar Medical Centers Receive National Recognition

Palomar Medical Center Poway receives “A” grade from Leapfrog and Palomar Medical Center Escondido named to Newsweek’s World’s Best Hospitals 2021

Palomar Health’s two medical centers are being recognized for delivering high-quality medical care from separate national organizations. Palomar Medical Center Poway received an “A” grade from the Leapfrog Group for protecting patient safety and Palomar Medical Center Escondido was named to Newsweek’s World’s Best Hospitals 2021 list. “These awards show Palomar Health is a national leader in providing safe, top-level healthcare,” said Sheila Brown, Palomar Health’s chief operations officer. “North County residents have the best doctors, receive the best treatments and stay at the best hospitals

1) I mean, when I was a kid we didn't have the Internet. If we wanted to know something, we had to go to the damn library and look it up ourselves, in the card catalog! 2) There was no email! We had to actually write somebody a letter with a pen! Then you had to walk all the way across the street and put it in the mailbox, and it would take like a week to get there! Stamps were 10 cents! 3) Child Protective Services didn't care if our parents beat us. As a matter of fact, the parents of all my friends also had permission to kick our butts! Nowhere was safe! 4) There were no iTunes! If you wanted to steal music, you had to hitchhike to the record store and shoplift it yourself! 5) Or you had to wait around all day to tape it off the radio, and the DJ would usually talk over the beginning and @#*% it all up! There were no CD players! We had tape decks in our car or those great 8 track players. We'd play our favorite tape and "eject" it when finished, and then the tape would come undone rendering it useless. Cause, hey, that's how we rolled, Baby! Dig? 6) We didn't have fancy crap like Call Waiting! If you were on the phone and somebody else called, they got a busy signal, that's it! 7) There weren't any freakin' cell phones either. If you left the house, you just didn't make a damn call or receive one. You actually had to be out of touch with your "friends". OH MY GOSH ! Think of the horror... not being in touch with some-

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in their own neighborhood.”

Palomar Health Rehabilitation Institute Doubles Capacity for those Suffering from Loss of Functionality due to Injury or Illness

The latest expansion to the Palomar Medical Center Escondido campus brings a stand-alone, 52-bed acute rehabilitation hospital that will serve patients suffering from neuro disorders, stroke, brain injury, spinal cord injury and amputation. The Palomar Health Rehabilitation Institute will provide physiatry; physical and occupational therapy; speech-language pathology; rehabilitation nursing; internal medicine; medical and surgical subspecialty consultation; and nutritional services.

“We are more than excited to offer these critical services to our growing community,” Palomar Health President and CEO Diane Hansen said at the facility’s ribbon cutting. “This dream took 10 years in planning and execution to make a reality.”

The 58,000 square-foot, two-story building will serve an estimated 1,200 plus patients per year and be operated through a joint-venture between Palomar Health and Kindred Healthcare.

one 24/7! And then there's TEXTING. Yeah, right. Please! You kids have no idea how annoying you are. And we didn't have fancy Caller ID either! When the phone rang, you had no idea who it was! It could be your school, your parents, your boss, your bookie, your drug dealer, the collection agent... you just didn't know! You had to pick it up and take your chances, mister! 9) We didn't have any fancy PlayStation or Xbox video games with high-resolution 3-D graphics! We had the Atari 2600! With games like 'Space Invaders' and 'Asteroids'. Your screen guy was a little square! You actually had to use your imagination!!! And there were no multiple levels or screens, it was just one screen.. Forever! And you could never win. The game just kept getting harder and harder and faster and faster until you died! Just like LIFE! 10) You had to use a little book called a TV Guide to find out what was on! You were screwed when it came to channel surfing! You had to get off your butt and walk over to the TV to change the channel! NO REMOTES! Oh, no, what's the world coming to?! 11) There was no Cartoon Network either! You could only get cartoons on Saturday Morning. Do you hear what I'm saying? We had to wait ALL WEEK for cartoons, you spoiled little rats! 12) And we didn't have microwaves. If we wanted to heat something up, we had to use the stove! Imagine that!

Letters to the Editor Another Friedrich Fan

Dear Editor, The Charles Lindbergh article written by Friedrich Gomez was riveting! I imagined myself in Lindbergh's cockpit trying to stay awake. To go without sleep for so long is mind boggling. Friedrich Gomez puts the reader right in the story with his emotional and insightful writing. I remember his story about his Navy days, he really connects with the reader! Thank you for giving us a glimpse into the world of a man who was "A Flying Machine." /s/Christine Jackson San Diego County

13) And our parents told us to stay outside and play... all day long. Oh, no, no electronics to soothe and comfort. And if you came back inside... you were doing chores! And car seats - oh, please! Mom threw you in the back seat and you hung on. If you were lucky, you got the "safety arm" across the chest at the last moment if she had to stop suddenly, and if your head hit the dashboard, well that was your fault for calling "shot gun" in the first place!

See! That's exactly what I'm talking about! You kids today have got it too easy. You're spoiled rotten! You guys wouldn't have lasted five minutes back in the 1970's or any time before! ••••• Delighted to see that businesses are opening up once again! Many of our restaurants are now serving inroom dining . . at 50% capacity, but that’s better than earlier. It appears we are slowly but surely getting back to a world that is near normal. Experts are saying by July 1st we may begin to resemble the world we used to know. Lots of peope lost their jobs, their businesses . . . and loved ones. But we are tough . . and we will bounce back, difficult though it might be.

Hang in there . . and be patient with the servers in restaurants, some of them are either brand new, or out of practice. Things are gonna get better. Guaranteed!

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English, the translation is the same for all mothers of young children: “Silence is golden. Unless you have kids, then silence is just suspicious.” COMMUNIST CHINA CONFESSES ITS SECRET LOVE-AFFAIR WITH AMERICA’S MOTHER’S DAY VERSION! Never in a million years did we expect to hear such a Communist country’s secret confession to the world!

Proving once again the miraculous powers of a mother’s love, and its towering ability to sometimes heal and unite a diverse world as with a unified global Mother’s Day observance.

China’s shocking and unexpected decision to suddenly emulate America in this regard caused such a global shockwave of disbelief, that China felt compelled to explain itself through its own state-run official Communist Government newspaper, The People’s Daily publication (translated here): “Despite originating in the United States, the people of China accept (Americas’ version of) Mother’s Day holiday without hesitation because it is in line with our country’s traditional ethics – respect for the elderly and filial piety towards parents.” That still did not explain why China agreed to select the exact day and month as America for observing Mother’s Day. Which to many political observers, was a most miraculous gesture! Especially in light of the fact that most countries arbitrarily selected different days to observe Mother’s Day than America. But Communist China did not do that – they chose to align themselves alongside of the Good Ol’ U. S. of A – and openly confess to it. Sadly, such milestone facts are seldom – if ever – reported in our news media. There is an old Chinese proverb which reveals a mother’s unconditional love for her child, translated here: “There is only one pretty child in the world. And every mother has it.”

MANY COUNTRIES JOINED CHINA IN ADOPTING SAME DAY & MONTH AS AMERICA’S “MOTHER’S DAY”! Today, many countries around the world have followed suit by also accepting America’s 2nd Sunday in May to celebrate Mother’s Day, such as Australia, Brazil, Canada, Denmark, Italy and dozens of other countries around the planet! Point being: America should be most proud that our Mother’s Day has been selected by so many other countries, and cultures, and diverse people of color – despite our many differences. Proving time and again: that dear ol’ Mom is truly an American (international) superhero! THROUGH TOIL, TEARS &

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HARDSHIP OF MOTHERHOOD, HUMOR OFTEN IS THEIR SAVING GRACE. Many of the world’s greatest thinkers and philosophers have tried to capture the relentless hardships, sacrifices, and quizzical upside-down world of child-rearing. One such eloquent attempt was as follows: “Children are like crazy, drunken small people in your house.”

As a young teen growing up, I remember seeing a plague at my friend’s house years ago, where his mother had raised six hyperactive kids.

The plague showed a true-life photo of his very tired-looking mother (who honestly looked ten years older than she really was) along with her touching inscription: “I love all my children equally. Except for the one that sleeps . . . I love that one more.” THE MYSTERIOUS & UNCHARTED WORLD OF MOTHERHOOD. Unless you’re a mother, you may have been guilty of that most unpardonable sin of asking what many door-to-door survey people ask: “Do you work, or do you just stay home and take care of the kids?”

Nothing is more insulting – as if raising kids were not a full-time, arduous job!

I was 6-years-old when a pollster asked my Mom that very same question, in real life. I’ll never forget the look on my Mom’s face that day.

It was the same exact expression on her face when she used to change diapers. Luckily for the man, my Mom -who bore the rich Irish name of Molly – was a very peaceful and passive individual.

drive 7 hours east with the kids in the car and then turn around and come back.” My Dad seemed to understand and we did just that. One comedian observed that all moms strive for perfection and therefore should not feel guilty for every candy bar they have secretly eaten in a closet, frankly because they didn’t want to share.

Or all the dirty laundry they buried in their back yard. In an act of desperation in trying to keep up with the ever-mounting chores.

SPECIAL DEDICATION TO ALL OUR READERS: You didn’t think we’d forget you on your most cherished Mother’s Day, did you? This special edition of The Paper is dedicated to all moms everywhere, who comprise our valued readership. Everyone needs to take home this special issue of The Paper. The contents will make her truly aware of how mothers have shaped the world around us, since ancient times. How nations, like Communist China and Russia have joined hands with America’s version and style of celebrating American mothers! American mothers comprise wives, grandmothers, sisters, aunts, friends, and are found everywhere from the U. S. military, medical professions, hospitals, schools, colleges, law enforcement, clergy, workforce, homes, everyday friends, well – American mothers are everywhere in this great land of ours.

May God richly bless our American flag, our sacred country, U. S. military, seniors, and of course: all our American mothers: HAPPY MOTHER’S DAY TO ALL!

Being a mother is the hardest and most important job in the world.

Think about it: Mothers are in charge of literally raising the future of the world.

Sometimes mothers need “time off,” in order to maintain their sanity. After all, their job is never-ending, like 24/7 at the hospital trauma ward. It’s not that moms don’t love us all the time – they do. But, they are only made of flesh and blood and, therefore, have limitations.

All moms occasionally require some “free time” away from the kids, just so that moms are not found standing out on a ledge somewhere. Once, when I was a tiny child, I clearly remember Dad asking Mom what she’d like on Mother’s Day.

Mom just said with a very tired expression on her face and a very weak voice: “I just want you to

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Don't Let This Opportunity Slip Away; Match My Gift - Don't miss this opportunity. Thanks to our $50,000 Matching Gift Challenge from Dr. Charles and Mrs. Carol Baum, every $1 you give will still double in value — but not for much longer! Take a look at the impact you an have when you give today: $50 can become $100, to provide safe shelter; $75 can become $150, to provide lifesaving medical care; $100 can become $200, to provide rescue from emergency situations. Please help San Diego Humane Society receive every dollar of this $50,000 Matching Gift. Animals in need are counting on us! San Diego Humane Society, 5500 Gaines Street, San Diego, 92110; Call 619.299.7012, or visit the website at What's Up Downtown Oceanside - For more information about these events, contact Mainstreet Oceanside, 760.754.4512, or the website at www.mainstreetoceanside.com.

Color of Sound; ThursdaysSundays, Oceanside Museum of Art - During Autism Awareness Month, immerse yourself in a world of color and sound by exploring this multi-sensory exhibit now at the Oceanside Museum of Art. Curated by The Art of Autism, this joyful collection is inspired by synesthesia and music. Timed admission tickets are required for members and visitors. First Friday Art Walk; May 7 and every first Friday, Artist Alley Celebrate the thriving arts and culture scene in the heart of Downtown Oceanside. From 5-9pm next Friday enjoy arts, jewelry, pottery, crafts, live music and more from local artists. This free, familyfriendly event is produced by the Oceanside Friends of the Arts, a nonprofit group committed to the enhancement, encouragement and support of arts-related activities in Oceanside.

Downtown Oceanside Makers Market; May 15, Downtown Lot 35 and Artist Alley - The next makers market is popping up on Saturday, May 15, from 10am-3 pm. Shop handcrafted and artisanal goods from area makers and Downtown Oceanside businesses outside while enjoying live music. This free-toattend event will be operating under current COVID-19 protocols. Mainstreet Oceanside Farmers Market - every Thursday, all year round.

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Google promised to replace my Pixel 3A. It's been three months! Tom Kenny's Pixel 3A phone stops working. Google promised to replace it, but stalls for three months. How can he get a new phone?

Q: I bought a Google Pixel 3A phone last year. In October, while the phone was still under warranty, it stopped working. Google asked me to return the phone. I did. I've been waiting for a replacement phone since then. In November, Google said it received the Pixel. A representative assured me in writing that I would receive a replacement in 5 to 10 business days. I've written to Google several times since then to find out where the phone is. A manager said that they were having "inventory issues." I'd like to get a working phone back or a refund for the $400 I spent on the Pixel 3A. Please help! -- Tom Kenny, Allentown, Pa. A: Tom, by the time you contacted me, three months had passed. Three months without a phone is unimaginable for most people. I can't go five minutes without checking mine. (Disclosure: I'm a loyal Google customer and own a Pixel 5.) So I feel your pain.

Google should have kept you in the loop every step of the way and sent you a replacement phone immediately, and at least within the written promise of 5 to 10 business days. Instead, it sent you form letters -and excuses. The final response from a manager, claiming Google was having inventory problems, was an insult. I mean, it was the holidays, so of course they were having inventory problems. Everyone was having inventory problems. But that's not your problem; it's the company's. Instead of telling you why it couldn't get you the phone on time, maybe it should have taken a minute to explain what it was doing to help you get a phone faster. In a situation like this, where Google didn't have any new Pixel 3As to send you, it might have considered replacing your broken phone with a newer model that it did have in stock. Or it could have offered you a full refund, and you could have bought a different phone. But leaving you without a mobile device for three months is inexcusable.

I list the names, numbers and email addresses of <a href="https://www.elliott.org/company-contacts/google/">Google's customer service managers</a> on my consumer advocacy site, Elliott.org. A brief, polite email to one of them might have helped retrieve your replacement Pixel 3A faster. Your case is a classic example of corporate tone-deafness. Rather than fixing a problem -- sending

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you a new phone -- Google thought it could keep you happy by giving you the reasons for not complying To show it the error of its ways, I propose we take the manager's phones away for three months. Let's see how they do!

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I contacted Google on your behalf. It promptly sent you a new Pixel phone.



Can I get a refund for my nonrefundable hotel after the pandemic?

After the COVID-19 outbreak, Noemi Freeman has to cancel her trip to Greece. Does this mean she loses the $592 she paid for her hotel? Q: I booked a room at the Hotel Tzekos Villas in Santorini, Greece, last year through Hotels.com. The reservation was nonrefundable. Due to the virus, we were unable to leave the U.S.

I called and emailed several times to cancel and get a refund or a voucher for a future stay. Neither Hotels.com nor the Hotel Tzekos Villas would refund our money. After calling several times and receiving no response, we disputed the charge with our Chase Visa Sapphire Reserve. The credit card issuer sided with Hotels.com. Can you help me get our $592 back or a credit? -- Noemi Freeman, Aventura, Fla. A: Hotels.com should have helped you with a refund. After all, Europe was closed to Americans at the time you were supposed to visit. And if the hotel and the booking site couldn't assist you, then your credit card should have been able to help with a chargeback. It didn't. What's going on here? First, your case is one of hundreds of thousands of refund requests. It took weeks, and often months for travel companies to sift through all of them. Yours was also a complicated case, because you paid for part of the hotel with a Hotels.com gift card. It looks as if you pushed forward with a credit card dispute relatively soon after your cancellation. I understand that you wanted your money back, but once you initiate a chargeback, it limits some of your other options.

One of the options would have been a brief, polite email to <a href="https://www.elliott.org/company-contacts/expedia">a Hotels.com executive</a> (Expedia owns Hotels.com). I list all of them on my consumer advocacy site, Elliott.org. Ultimately, the problem was the type of hotel room you booked: a prepaid, nonrefundable reservation. When you agree to one of those, you're saying that come hell or high

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The Banker Who Saved America

One of the important entrepreneurs who was key to building America was John Pierpont Morgan, New York financier, who orchestrated the federal government’s financial system, as well as created the giant corporations such as U.S. Steel and General Electric through his many acquisitions and consolidations. John Pierpont Morgan Sr., born April 17, 1837, was an American banker who dominated corporate finance and industrial consolidation in the United States during the late 19th and early 20th centuries.

Morgan played a key role in the financial reorganization and formation of such well known giants like General Electric, U.S. Steel, International Harvester and communications conglomerate American Telephone &Telegraph (AT&T).

During the early part of the 20th century at the height of Morgan's career, he and his partners had financial investments in many large corporations and had significant influence over the nation's high finance as well as U.S. presidents and members of Congress. He directed the banking coalitions that stopped the national financial “Panic of 1907;” was the leading financier of the so-called “Progressive Era,” and his dedication to efficiency and modernization helped transform much of today’s American business. Yet, he was dubbed a “robber baron” because he profited in the collapse of earlier businesses such as Westinghouse. Morgan learned at an early age how to make money. At 26, during the American Civil War, in an incident known as the “Hall Carbine Affair,” Morgan financed the purchase of 5,000 rifles from a U.S. Army arsenal at $3.50 each, which he then resold to an Army field general for $22 each.

Morgan’s process of taking over troubled businesses to reorganize them became known as "Morganizations." He reorganized businesses in order to return them to profitability. Morgan’s reputation as a banker and financier also helped bring interest from investors to the many businesses he had taken over. At the depths of the “Panic of 1893,” by 1895 the Federal Treasury was nearly out of gold. Morgan had put forward a plan for the federal government to buy gold from his European banks. Morgan

came up with a plan to use an old Civil War law allowing him to sell 3.5 million ounces of gold directly to the U.S. Treasury restoring the nation’s financial surplus in exchange for a 30-year bond issue. The episode saved the U.S., and to maintain the status quo in business, Morgan, steel magnet Andrew Carnegie, and railroad mogul John D. Rockefeller, along with some Wall Street bankers donated heavily to Republican candidate William McKinley, who was elected in 1896 and re-elected again in 1900. By 1900, Morgan’s financial firm was one of the most powerful banking houses in the world, focused especially on reorganizations and consolidations. After financing the creation of the Federal Steel Company, Morgan merged it in 1901 with the Carnegie Steel Company and several other steel and iron businesses to form the giant United States Steel Corporation.

“The Panic of 1907” was a financial crisis that almost crippled the American economy. Major New York banks were on the verge of bankruptcy and there was no mechanism to rescue them, until Morgan stepped in to help resolve the crisis. Treasury Secretary George B. Cortelyou earmarked $35 million of federal money to deposit in New York banks. Morgan then met with the nation's leading financiers in his New York mansion, where he forced them to devise a plan to meet the crisis. Morgan organized a team of bank and trust executives which re-directed money between banks, secured further international lines of credit, and bought up the plummeting stocks of healthy corporations. In 1913, realizing that in a future national crisis there would unlikely to be another J.P. Morgan for a rescue, banking and political leaders devised a plan that resulted in the creation of today’s Federal Reserve System. But a similar crises occurred 100 years later. In 2008, the J.P. Morgan-Chase bank emerged as one of the world’s largest banks, but that particular financial catastrophe, which saw the downfall of Lehman Brothers investment group, proved that no bank is “too large to fail.” On March 31, 1913, J.P. Morgan died in Rome, Italy at the age of 75. He left his fortune to his namesake, John Pierpont Morgan ,Jr. The Morgan senior was estimated to have left a fortune at "only" $80 million, which prompted fellow socalled “Robber Baron” John D. Rockefeller to say: "… and to think, he wasn't even a rich man."

The 19th century “robber barons” included Morgan, oil giant John D. Rockefeller, auto builder Henry Ford, steel magnet Andrew Carnegie, and railroad mogul Cornelius (the Commodore) Vanderbilt. Together, these men truly did financially and industrially build America with Morgan providing the necessary financial and organizational “glue” that held many of the nation’s key conglomerates together.

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alone eating two cinnamon-sugar doughnuts, and was approached only once, when 5-year-old Jeremy Pacheco tried to hug the omnipotent deity. The boy's parents immediately yanked him away.

The other 112 church members avoided God entirely, and reacted to His continued stay with a mix of astonishment, confusion, fearful reverence, and the sublime inner peace that comes with the knowledge of a power greater than oneself. "I wanted to ask the Lord what heaven is like, and if my mother is there, but I wasn't sure if it's still considered taking His name in vain when you address Him directly," Wendy Alston said. "And I didn't dare draw attention to myself with two teenagers wearing blue jeans to church. I could barely look at Him, I was so ashamed." "Oh dear God," said 72-year-old church volunteer Michael Sharpe, completely enraptured by the materialization of the One True Creator before his very eyes. "Oh, dear God in heaven."

Since the Almighty's decision to stop by the First Presbyterian Church, the theological world has been thrown into chaos. Presbyterian leaders said God's appearance was indisputable proof that their denomination is the one

Priorities for the future

As the constitutionally mandated June 15th deadline for passing a balanced budget nears, discussions in Sacramento about spending priorities are ramping up.

California is facing a variety of challenges. First of all, we must get the economy up and running again, and we can use our budget surplus to help bring back jobs. Through additional investments in the Small Business Grant Program, and by targeting surplus revenues to reduce unemployment insurance debt for employers, we can get people back to work.

Our streets and roads are increasingly inadequate – we have a $6.1 billion annual shortfall to maintain our highways over the next decade. California’s wet and dry cycles will continue, and we need to invest in more water storage and conveyance facilities, improve local drinking water systems and flood control projects. With wildfires an ever-present threat, we need to make investments in better vegetation management and more equipment to slow the spread of fires, reduce their severity, save lives, protect the environment and reduce property damage.

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true faith, but afternoon sightings of the Lord at two other Fayetteville churches, as well as one synagogue, have cast doubt on that theory. "God said He just wanted to see what we were up to," Pastor Pridgen said. "This is His house, after all. He can drop in whenever He wants."

"Although, you'd think an all-knowing deity unbound by time and space would be able to give us some warning so we could at least put a bulletin in the church newsletter," the pastor added. "Not that I'm complaining or anything. All praise be to God. Is He still hanging around the parking lot?" •••• A giraffe's coffee would be cold by the time it reached the bottom off its throat. . Did you ever think of that? No.

You only think about yourself. •••• No, you haven’t gained that much weight during the Covid 19 Quarantine. Come on, chin up. No, the other one.

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Pastor Richard Huls (Retired) WHY CIVIC CLUBS?

Often, when visiting other countries and cities, I see signs stating that Kiwanis, Rotary, Lions, and other clubs are holding meetings in hotels, restaurants, or in a community hall. If you are, or have been a member of such a club, ever wonder what these movements are all about? These clubs are civic organizations made up of volunteers, who have the community in their hearts and minds to do whatever in their capacity they can to improve lives and property. I am happy to be a part of such a club called Kiwanis. It is made up of men and women, who have a passion to serve. This passion takes them beyond a traditional church role of being a part of a congregation. It moves them to an awareness of where they live, sharing in areas often neg-

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We need to invest more in healthcare, including reducing the cost of medical education, and providing more licensing options and incentives for health care workers to serve in low-income, rural and underserved areas. We need more affordable housing and we must streamline regulations to increase housing supply. We also need to ensure that law enforcement and the courts have the resources needed to enforce laws safely and equitably for all Californians. And our kids need to get back into the classroom.

These are just a few of the issues that will be addressed by the state budget. Together with members of my Caucus, I am committed to working in a bi-partisan manner to get the economy back on track, the kids back in school, to rebuilding California’s infrastructure and protecting our citizens. Assembly Republican Leader Marie Waldron, R-Escondido, represents the 75th Assembly District in the California Legislature, which includes the communities of Bonsall, Escondido, Fallbrook, Hidden Meadows, Pala, Palomar Mountain, Pauma Valley, Rainbow, San Marcos, Temecula, Valley Center and Vista.

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lected by the church. They provide services for the homeless, Children’s Museum with cleanup and painting, garbage pick-up along roadways, in parks, and beaches, funding and construction of a play center for children at Dixon Lake, and a Fishing Derby for kids, who have never caught a fish. All of this is done with donations of the members, raised in concern for others, but also with fun. Lest our readers think this is without spiritual principals, perhaps it best fulfills the second great commandment to love our neighbor as we love ourselves.

I have been a member of a local Kiwanis Club for years and find great satisfaction in the six objects, which remind all members what we are about. They are to encourage and live by spiritual values, the golden rule, the best of character in business, a highly developed citizenship, lasting friendships, and an honorable character, which is mirrored in society. Unfortunately, many in our society do not join these clubs today. I do want to emphasize in this article that these clubs provide invaluable services for the community. It is a safe and charitable way to get involved with great people and have fun doing it. Pastor Huls

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A Weekly Message from the Mayor of Your Community published in the belief that it is important for elected leaders to communicate with their constituents and that constituents have a means of hearing from their elected leaders.

San Marcos • Mayor Rebecca Jones Pop-Up Rec Returns!

You’re invited to head to your parks and learn a new sport with the return of our popular Pop-Up Rec program! The City’s Parks and Recreation Department has partnered with the San Diego Aces Disc Golf Club to offer tips and tricks on playing disc golf from 9:30 -11:30 a.m. on May 22 at Sunset Park, 909 Puesta del Sol. Whether you’re new to the sport or a disc golf aficionado, this pop-up event is for you!

The Recreation Department hosts monthly Pop-Up Rec programming to bring engaging activities to your local parks. The City features more than 290 acres of park land for you to recreate in. Be on the lookout for future Pop-Up Rec programs in parks near you! For more information, please call San Marcos Community Services at (760) 744-9000 or view upcoming Pop-Up Rec opportunities at san-marcos.net/departments/parks-recreation.

Escondido • Mayor Paul “Mac” McNamara

Greetings Escondido, I’m going to ask you this week to do a little research on Single Use Plastics. If you are not familiar, single-use plastics are goods that are made primarily from fossil fuel–based chemicals (petrochemicals) and are meant to be disposed of right after use—often, in mere minutes. Single-use plastics are most commonly used for packaging and serviceware, such as bottles, wrappers, straws, and bags. Most of us will think, so what, I recycle, and I do too, but here is the problem, and it is a big problem, most of the plastic is not recycled. Depending on your source, the amount of estimated unrecycled plastic is as high as 90%. If you look at the recycle symbol which is a triangle with an arrow on each side and a number inside it you will find there are 7 categories representing “different” types of plastic. The problem is only categories 1 and 2 can be recycled and even then, many of them are not which exacerbates the problem. Why, it’s actually cheaper to use “virgin” plastic. So even the plastic that can be recycled isn’t, hence the 90% number.

The problem gets worse. Plastics really don’t break-down like paper might, but rather they just break-up. Over time, sun and heat slowly turn plastics into smaller and smaller pieces until they eventually become what are known as microplastics. And you guessed it, those microplastics are being found everywhere. We eat, drink and inhale them. And yes, it is a growing health hazard. Next week some easy things we can do to mitigate the problem. Stay informed, Be Kind, Remember your neighbor, and Stay safe! Semper Fi, Mac, Paul P. McNamara, Mayor of Escondido

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The average American home owner has a couple of cars, each with fifty to one hundred computers and another thirty to fifty in the electrical devices scattered throughout the house. Most of these computers go quietly about their business without bothering you. Some of them collect data through their sensors and present you with alternatives so that you can take action.

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You probably own over 100 computers!

To most of us the word “computer” brings to mind the PCs (personal computers) that we use every day (notebooks, towers, desktops and all-in-ones). Prior to the beginning of the PC age marked by the release of the IBM PC in 1981, the word “computer” conjured images of large climate controlled computer rooms humming with mainframes, disc and tape drives and clattering tractor feed printers. Raw data was hard wired into the computer room from a network of dumb terminals. Today computers are everywhere.

In addition to the hundred or so computers in the home and driveway, the average American also has eight to ten “connected devices”. Connected devices are phones tablets and PCs that connect to the internet. Connected devices overlap in most capabilities. Phones, tablets, notebooks and desktop PCs for the most part have ways to accomplish the functions and applications of one another, but there are some functions they do not share. A desktop PC has very limited mobility and cannot be used “on the fly.”. Smart phones have infinite mobility, but with restrictive input methods and small screens they are unsuitable as workstations. Tablets and notebooks come somewhere in the middle.

For a general purpose home workstation a desktop/tower is a perfect solution. Many of our commercial style “refurbs are “convertibles” meaning that they can be used as a desktop or tower. The space saving advantage of this feature is that the monitor can sit on top of the computer. A WiFi dongle and a wireless keyboard and mouse complete the

The Appraiser’s Corner Bowling

I recently read that a 95-year old man rolled a 300 game, a perfect score. That was incredible in itself, but it was his tenth perfect game. That news piece brought back memories of my futile attempts when I was much younger to even get half that score. However, I do remember rolling around a 167 once or twice, and saying to myself that I would never score that high again. I was right.

But I must admit that bowling is indeed an activity (sport, game) for the entire family, and for all ages. Just stick your fingers through the holes and let the ball fly. Of course, if you have long fingernails you need to be particularly careful that you don’t break them.

But how did such a popular sport originate? Who came up with the idea of the activity that has evolved through the years that we nowadays know as bowling.

Well, the answer is not known. In the 1930s, a British anthropologist Sir Flinders Petrie discovered some objects in an Egyptian grave that resembled a crude form of bowling. So possibly the Egyptian started bowling. However, there is evidence that some form of bowling was played in England in the 1300s

during the reign of King Edward III, and later when King Henry VIII ruled.

Most likely, English, German, and Dutch settlers brought some kind of bowling to America. The author Washington Irving mentioned that Rip Van Winkle awoke to the sound of “crashing ninepins”. New York City’s Battery area was probably the location of the country’s first lawn bowling. That area in New York City, now called Bowling Green, is in the financial area. In the United States, the popularity of bowling increased tremendously in the 1800s, and bowling clubs were common. In 1895, the American Bowling Congress was formed for men, and in 1917 the Women’s International Bowling Congress was started. Bowling balls, which have been made of very hard wood, started to be made of rubber. In 1914, the Brunswick Corporation marketed the mineralite ball made of rubber.

Finally, in 1951, the American Machine and Foundry Company (AMF) acquired the patent rights to the automatic pinspotter. However, what really brought bowling to American households was the advent of none other than television.

set-up. The desktop workstation is a perfect solution if you already have a decent size monitor. If you don’t already have a monitor, consider and All-in One workstation. The convenience of having a “sit-down” workstation with a large screen and easy to use mouse and keyboard make these refurb workstations perfect for school work, banking, shopping, letter writing, video streaming, zoom meetings, Skype, or just Internet browsing. During the past few weeks we have built up an inventory of over a dozen refurbished PCs for our bargain rack, all are from $150 to $225. That’s a pretty cool price when you stop to think that

Microsoft charges $150 for the Windows 10 operating system alone. All of these PCs have the latest Win10 OS and at least four GB of RAM. We also include the Professional version of Office with Excel, Word, Power Point Outlook and Access. At this writing we have over fifty Windows 10 “refurbs” ready to go. Desktops, towers, notebooks, Allin- ones and micros at every performance level. All these PCs at great prices and all with our outstanding local tech support. There is no better bargain than these “refurbs” anywhere in the computer industry today.

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NBC first started televising “Championship Bowling”, which was followed by “Make That Spare”, “Celebrity Bowling”, as well as “Bowling For Dollars”. In 1961, ABC began televising Pro Bowlers Association (PBA) competition. Bowlers such as Don Carter, Dick Weber (and later his son Pete), and Billy Welu, among others, were seen on television by millions of Americans, and Chris Schenkel broadcasting talent became known. It is estimated that approximately 95 million people enjoy bowling in about 90 countries across the world. Nowadays there is worldwide competition under the auspices of the Federation Nationale des Quilleurs (FIQ).

bowlers on teams often sponsored by Budweiser. Musial’s bowling bag naturally had the Cardinals logo bird mowing down bowling pins. In a 2013 Heritage auction the bag went for almost $1600.

But none other than Babe Ruth tried his hand at bowling as well. This is evidenced by a bowling scorecard that he signed. The scorecard clearly shows that he rolled games of 196 and 191. Not bad for anyone. Actually, the scorecard was signed three times by Ruth, and sold for $2629. Bowling is certainly a game for everyone, except maybe for those who have long fingernails.

Collectors have been quick to look for bowling collectibles as well, notably of celebrities. For example, the bowling ball and bag that were used by Carroll O’Connor in his role as Archie Bunker in the immensely popular “All in the Family” television show were auctioned. The ball is actually monogrammed with the initials “A.B.”. The items sold for nearly $1500. Not surprisingly, baseball great Stan Musial of the St. Louis Cardinals got into the act himself. As St. Louis was regarded as the bowling capital for many years, undoubtedly Musial hung around with some of the great

Jeff Figler is a professional certified appraiser. His latest book The Picker’s Pocket Guide to Baseball Memorabilia has been #1 on Amazon. He can be reached at info@jefffigler.com or at 877-4723087.


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Vista • Mayor Judy Ritter

Re-envi sioned Corrido r Wins Award

Vista’s Paseo Santa Fe Street Improvement Project received the American Public Works Project of the Year award.

The project created a low impact green street along a mile of South Santa Fe Avenue between Vista Village and Civic Center Drive. This resulted in a two decades old vision coming to fruition with a pedestrian-friendly, beautifully landscaped thoroughfare through the downtown core. Our new Paseo Santa Fe corridor creates a sense of place and has revitalized and enhanced downtown. The recently established street enhancements will drive other downtown uses and benefit local businesses and the community alike. This honor recognizes a community improvement project, which turned a blighted road, into an award winning green and complete street!

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Travel insurance might have helped you recover some of your losses. But I think Hotels.com could have done better, too. I've heard from other travelers who said Hotels.com took good care of them during the pandemic by pushing for refunds or vouchers. It doesn't seem fair to make you eat that $592. I also think Chase Sapphire could have fought harder for you during the dispute. Those pricey credit cards advertise themselves as the traveler's best friend, but they don't always come through for you when you need them. After months of back and forth, I contacted Hotels.com on your behalf. The company refunded all of your money.

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Women Build On Adventure Race - Women Build On is officially underway for the San Diego Habitat for Humanity as of the end of April. We were joined on the job sites by several Women Builders who helped us kick things off right. They worked hard in the heat, knowing they are making a lifechanging difference for local families in need of safer, healthier, more affordable housing.

We are introducing an all-new Adventure Race! After a year of attending virtual events and "pivoting" our hearts out, we hope you are as excited as we are to ease our way back to a new normal — that means welcoming you back to Habitat job sites and to Women Build. We are also taking your health, safety, and level of comfort very seriously. That’s why we are offering the Adventure Race as an option to our Women Builders for the first time ever!

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5th District Supervisor

Jim Desmond

Helping Our Restaurants

San Diego County restaurants have suffered greatly over the last year. We’ve all seen the out-of-business signs on many of our favorite local establishments and I want to make sure we do all we can to help those holding on. I have proposed to my colleagues on the Board of Supervisors that we waive all restaurant permit fees for the upcoming year. Before the pandemic, there were 8,131 restaurants with over 126,400 workers in San Diego County. We know many of these employees lost their jobs and some restaurants are, sadly, closed permanently. We need to do all we can to help move forward and get people back to work. According to the San Diego Association of Governments (SANDAG), restaurants were among the hardest hit early in the pandemic during the first week in April 2020, with foot traffic down between 60% and 77%. As of January 2021, with the San Diego region in the purple tier, activity at various businesses remained down, between 26% to 61% percent below pre-COVID-19 level. 2.7 million jobs were lost due to the pandemic and 56% still

remain jobless.

While there is light at the end of the tunnel with the removal of COVID19 restrictions on June 15th, many restaurants will never be able to recover from the last year.

As we continue to make our road to recovery, I believe it is my personal responsibility to do all I can to preserve our small business community, which provides thousands of jobs in our region. Restaurants supply so much more than food, from jobs to a sense of community. I will do all I can to help them survive!

To contact North County Office – by appointment only 325 S. Melrose Ave., Suite 5200 Vista, CA 92081 Mon.-Fri., 8:00 a.m.-5:00 p.m. Website: www.supervisorjimdesmond.c om Email: Jim.Desmond@sdcounty.ca.g ov


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FICTITIOUS BUSINESS NAME STATEMENT #2021-9006344 The name of the business: San Elijo Neurofeedback and Psychological Services, located at 1240 San Elijo Road North, San Marcos, CA. 92078. Registrant Information: Charmaine G. Lowe 1240 San Elijo Road North San Marcos, CA. 92078 This business is operated by an individual. First day of business 12/24/2015 /s/ Charmaine G. Lowe Filed with Ernest J. Dronenburg Jr., County Clerk/Recorder of San Diego on 4/06/2021 4/22, 4/29, 5/6 & 5/13/2021

FICTITIOUS BUSINESS NAME STATEMENT #2021-9007382 The name of the business: Dalati Plumbing & Building Services, located at 1175 Beverly Way, Escondido, CA. 92026. Registrant Information: Edrees A Dalati 1175 Beverly Way Escondido, Ca. 92026 This business is operated by an individual. First day of business 4/10/21. /s/ Edrees A. Dalati Filed with Ernest J. Dronenburg Jr., County Clerk/Recorder of San Diego on 4/16/2021 4/22, 4/29, 5/6 & 5/13/2021

FICTITIOUS BUSINESS NAME STATEMENT #2021-9007394 The name of the business: NavcoSA; Navco Sports Analysis, located at 537 Holly Lane, Vista, Ca. 92084 Registrant Information: George M. & Ana L. Navadel 537 Holly Lane Vista, Ca. 92084 This business is operated by a married couple. First day of business 6/3/1992 /s/ George M. Navadel Filed with Ernest J. Dronenburg Jr., County Clerk/Recorder of San Diego on 4/16/2021 4/22, 4/29, 5/6 & 5/13/2021

FICTITIOUS BUSINESS NAME STATEMENT #2021-9007627 The name of the business: Hair Biz Hairstyling, located at 1560 Creek Street, San Marcos, Ca. 92078. Registrant Information: Debra Ann Gates 7555 Agua Dulce Court Carlsbad, CA. 92009 This business is operated by an individual. First day of business 6/1/1966 /s/ Debra Ann Gates, Owner Filed with Ernest J. Dronenburg Jr., County Clerk/Recorder of San Diego on 4/19/2021 4/29, 5/6, 5/13 & 5/20/2021

FICTITIOUS BUSINESS NAME STATEMENT #2021-9006927 The name of the business: Perceptions Interior Design, located at 1118 S. Pacific St. #F, Oceanside, CA. 92054 Registrant Information: Carolann Stark 1118 S. Pacific St., #F Oceanside, CA. 92054 This business is operated by an individual. First day of business n/a. /s/ Carolann Stark Filed with Ernest J. Dronenburg Jr., County Clerk/Recorder of San Diego on 4/12/2021 4/22, 4/29, 5/6 & 5/13/2021

FICTITIOUS BUSINESS NAME STATEMENT #2021-9006717 The name of the business: id created, located at 1780 La Costa Meadows Dr., #104, San Marcos, CA. 92078. Registrant Information: Spruce & Gander, Inc. 1780 La Costa Meadows Dr. #104 San Marcos, Ca. 92078 This business is operated by a corporation. First day of business n/a /s/ Mark Anderson, President Filed with Ernest J. Dronenburg Jr., County Clerk/Recorder of San Diego on 4/10/2021 4/22, 4/29, 5/6 & 5/13/2021

FICTITIOUS BUSINESS NAME STATEMENT #2021-9007080 The name of the business: Tigress Floral Co., located at 114 Walsh St., Oceanside, Ca. 92054 Registrant Information: Autumn Dawn Woznicki 114 Walsh St. Oceanside, Ca. 92054. This business is operated by an individual. First day of business n/a. /s/ Autumn Dawn Woznicki Filed with Ernest J. Dronenburg Jr., County Clerk/Recorder of San Diego on 4/13/2021 4/22, 4/29, 5/6 & 5/13/2021 FICTITIOUS BUSINESS NAME STATEMENT #2021-9007808 The name of the business: Imanis Fragrance; Imanis Scents; Imanis Essentials, located 640 N. Centre City Pkwy #4204, Escondido, Ca. 92025. Registrant Information: Breshanea Raeshon Duncan 640 N. Centre City Pkwy, #4204 Escondido, Ca. 92025 This business is operated by an individual. First day of business n/a. /s/ Broshanea Raeshon Duncan Filed with Ernest J. Dronenburg Jr., County Clerk/Recorder of San Diego on 4/20/2021 4/29, 5/6 & 5/13/2021 & 5/20/21

FICTITIOUS BUSINESS NAME STATEMENT #2021-9007515 The name of the business: Lucille’s Gourmet Snacky Snacks; Lucille’s Snacky Snacks, located at 864 Muirfield Drive, Oceanside, Ca. 92058. Registrant Information: Michael Alan Gallina 864 Muirfield Drive Oceanside, Ca. 92058 This business is operated by an individual. First day of business n/a. /s/ Michael Ellen Gallina Filed with Ernest J. Dronenburg Jr., County Clerk/Recorder of San Diego on 4/17/2021 4/29, 5/6 & 5/13/2021 & 5/20/21

FICTITIOUS BUSINESS NAME STATEMENT #2021-9007459 The name of the business: PR Flooring; PR Flooring, located at 809 Discovery St., #113, San Marcos, CA. 92078. Registrant Information: Pedro Rivera Rodriguez 809 Discovery St., #113 San Marcos, CA. 92078 This business is operated by an individual. First day of business 1/12/2021 /s/ Pedro Rivera Rodriguez Filed with Ernest J. Dronenburg Jr., County Clerk/Recorder of San Diego on 4/17/2021 4/29, 5/6, 5/13 & 5/20/2021

FICTITIOUS BUSINESS NAME STATEMENT #2021-9007987 The name of the business: Aria Restaurant, located a 1650 Descanso Ave., San Marcos, Ca. 92078. Registrant Information: Aria Retaurant, Inc. 1650 Descanso Ave., San Marcos, CA. 92078 This business is operated by a corporation. First day of business n/a. /s/ Parham Dinyari, President Filed with Ernest J. Dronenburg Jr., County Clerk/Recorder of San Diego on 4/21/2021 4/29, 5/6, 5/13 & 5/20/2021

FICTITIOUS BUSINESS NAME STATEMENT #2021-9007741 The name of the business: Paris’s Pampered Pets, located at 1597 East Vista Way, Suite C, Vista, Ca. 92083. Paris Mae Burnett 230 Grapevine Rd., #157 Vista, Ca. 92083 This business is operated by an individual. First day of business 8/25/2006 /s/ Paris Mae Burnett Filed with Ernest J. Dronenburg Jr., County Clerk/Recorder of San Diego on 4/19/2021 4/29, 5/6, 5/13 & 5/20/2021

FICTITIOUS BUSINESS NAME STATEMENT #2021-9007099 The name of the business: Blooms Con Amor, located at 4163 Marvin St., Oceanside, Ca. 92056. Registrant Information: Alma L. Gonzalez 4163 Marvin St. Oceanside, Ca. 92056 This business is operated by an individual. First day of business n/a. /s/ Alma L. Gonzalez Filed with Ernest J. Dronenburg Jr., County Clerk/Recorder of San Diego on 4/13/2021 4/22, 4/29, 5/6 & 5/13/2021 FICTITIOUS BUSINESS NAME STATEMENT #2021-9007812 The name of the business: Paragon Tile Contracting, located at 5507 Nanday Ct., Oceanside, Ca. 92057 Registrant Information: Michael Patrick Cudal 5507 Nanday Ct. Oceanside, CA. 92057 This business is operated by an individual. First day of business 3/01/2021 /s/Michael Patrick Cudal Filed with Ernest J. Dronenburg Jr., County Clerk/Recorder of San Diego on 4/20/2021 4/29, 5/6, 5/13 & 5/20/2021

FICTITIOUS BUSINESS NAME STATEMENT #2021-9008311 The name of the business: Oceanside Pedego, located at 201 N. Myers St., Oceanside, CA. 92054. Registrant Information: O’sides E-Bike LLC 2978 Carlsbad Blvd., Suite 130 Carlsbad, CA. 92008 This business is operated by Limited Partnership Company. First day of business n/a. /s/ John Orndorff, Managing Member Filed with Ernest J. Dronenburg Jr., County Clerk/Recorder of San Diego on 4/26/2021 4/29, 5/6, 5/13 & 5/20/2021

FICTITIOUS BUSINESS NAME STATEMENT #2021-9008045 The name of the business: R. J. Designs, located a 2416 Cades Way, Vista, Ca. 92081. Registrant Information: Joni Janine Wait 3726 Hillview Way Oceanside, CA. 92056 Renee Van Horn 2517 Sarbonne Dr. Oceanside, Ca. 92054 This business is operated by a General Partnership. First day of business 5/9/07. /s/ Joni Janine Wait Filed with Ernest J. Dronenburg Jr., County Clerk/Recorder of San Diego on 4/22/2021 4/29, 5/6 & 5/13/2021 & 5/20/21

FICTITIOUS BUSINESS NAME STATEMENT #2021-9007861 The name of the business: Jazzercise of San Marcos, located at 407 N. Twin Oaks Valley Rd., Ste 103, San Marcos, CA. 92078. Registrant Information: Jazz Fitness of San Marcos, LLC 662 Shenendoah Ave. San Marcos, Ca. 92078 This business is operated by a Limited Liability Company. First day of business 11/01/2008 /s/ Donna R. Brown, Managing Member Filed with Ernest J. Dronenburg Jr., County Clerk/Recorder of San Diego on 4/20/2021 5/6, 5/13, 5/20 & 5/27/2021

FICTITIOUS BUSINESS NAME STATEMENT #2021-9007306 The name of the business: Cali DreamCo, located at 211 Woodland Pkwy #216, San Marcos, CA. 92069. Registrant Information: Sydney Faith Pearson 211 Woodland Pkwy #216 San Marcos, CA. 92069 This business is operated by an individuial. First day of business 4/02/21 /s/ Sydney Faith Pearson Filed with Ernest J. Dronenburg Jr., County Clerk/Recorder of San Diego on 4/16/2021 5/6, 5/13, 5/20 & 5/27/2021

FICTITIOUS BUSINESS NAME STATEMENT #2021-9007968 The name of the business: American Cups and Plates; American Food Service, located at 187 Santar Pl., San Marcos, CA., 92069. Registrant Information: SSN Enterprises, Inc. 187 Santar Pl. San Marcos, Ca. 92069 This business is operated by a cooperation. First day of business n/a. /s/ Nazir Khamisa, President Filed with Ernest J. Dronenburg Jr., County Clerk/Recorder of San Diego on 4/21/2021 5/6, 5/13, 5/20 & 5/27/2021

FICTITIOUS BUSINESS NAME STATEMENT #2021-9008068 The name of the business: Luvecce, located at 1184 Caprise Dr., San Marcos, CA. 92078. Registrant Information: Yu-Jin Song 1184 Caprise Dr. San Marcos, Ca. 92078 This business is operated by an individual. First day of business n/a. /s/ Yu-Jin Song Filed with Ernest J. Dronenburg Jr., County Clerk/Recorder of San Diego on 4/23/2021 5/6, 5/13, 5/20 & 5/27/2021 FICTITIOUS BUSINESS NAME STATEMENT #2021-9006233 The name of the business: Poppin Duo, located at 706 N. Freeman St., Apt 6, Oceanside, CA. 92054. Registrant Information: Louis Yager Cantwell 706 N. Freeman St., Apt 6 Oceanside, CA. 92054 This business is operated by an individual. First day of business n/a. /s/ Louis Yager Cantwell Filed with Ernest J. Dronenburg Jr., County Clerk/Recorder of San Diego on 4/02/2021& 4/29, 5/6, 5/13, & 5/20

FICTITIOUS BUSINESS NAME STATEMENT #2021-9007298 The name of the business: CIG LIFE; CIG CAFE, located at 334 Via Vera Cruz Suite 101, San Marcos, Ca. 92078. Registrant Information: CANAAN Invest ment Group Inc. 334 Via Vera Cruz Suite 101 San Marcos, CA. 92078 This business is operated by a corporation. First day of business n/a. /s/Benjie Benas, President Filed with Ernest J. Dronenburg Jr., County Clerk/Recorder of San Diego on 4/16/2021 5/6, 5/13, 5/20 & 5/27 FICTITIOUS BUSINESS NAME STATEMENT #2021-9008254 The name of the business: The Zen Den, located at 245 Main Street, Vista, Ca. 92084. Registrant Information: Sarah Marie Terrazas 645 Venetia Way Oceanside, Ca. 92057 This business is operated by an individual. First day of business n/a. /s/Sarah Marie Terrazas Filed with Ernest J. Dronenburg Jr., County Clerk/Recorder of San Diego on 4/26/2021 5/6, 5/13, 5/20 & 5/27

ORDER TO SHOW CAUSE FOR CHANGE OF NAME 37-2021-00018649-CU-PT-CTL TO ALL INTERESTED PERSONS: Petitioner Nafize Sharifi filed a petition with this court for a decree changing names as follows: Present name: Nafize Sharifi to Proposed name Nafize Sharifa. THE COURT ORDERS that all persons interested in this matter shall appear before this court at the hearing indicated below to show cause, if any, why the petition for change of name should not be granted. Any person objecting to the name changes described above must file a written objections that includes the reasons for the objection at least two court days before the matter is scheduled to be heard and must appear at the hearing to show cause why the petition should not be granted. If no written objection is timely filed, the court may grant the petition without a hearing. NOTICE OF HEARING: Date: June 17, 2021 8:30a.m., Department 101. The address of the court is: Central Division, Hall of Justice, 330 W. Broadway, San Diego, CA. 92101. A copy of the Order to Show Cause shall be published at least once each week for four successive weeks prior to the date set for hearing on the petition in the following newspaper of general circulation, printed in this county: San Marcos News Reporter, dba, The Paper, 845 W. San Marcos Blvd, San MApril 28, 2021. /s/Lorna A. Slksne Judge of the Superior Court 5/6, 5/13, 5/20 and 5/27/2021

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IN THE MATTER OF: Abby Orozco-Arroyo Date of Birth: 06/04/2008


RESPONDENT: Eduardo Orozco-Balderas To: Eduardo Orozco-Balderas

You are ordered to appear in the Superior Court of the State of California, County of San Diego, in Department N-23 at the court location indicated above on June 03, 2021 at 8:30AM to show cause why Abby Orozco-Arroyo should not be declared free from parental custody and control (for the purpose of placement for adoption) as requested in the petition. The hearing will be conducted by video or telephone at the North County Division, 325 S. Melrose Drive, Vista, CA. 92081. IMPORTANT; EDUARDO OROZCO-BALDERAS please call the court promptly for instruction on how to attend this hearing (760) 201-8720 M-F 8:30am - 11:30 am PST.

At the hearing, the judge will read the petition and, if requested, will explain the effect of the granting of the petition, any term or allegation contained therein and the nature of the proceeding, its procedures and possible consequences, and may continue the matter for not more than 30 days for the appointment of counsel or to give counsel time to prepare.

The court may appoint counsel to represent the minor whether or not the minor is able to afford counsel. If any parent appears and is unable to afford counsel, the court shall appoint counsel to represent each parent who appears unless such representation is knowingly and intelligently waived. Someone over the age of 18 - not the petitioner - must serve the other party with all the forms and complete a Proof of Service form, such as Proof of Service (JC Form #FL-330 or JC Form #FL-355), telling when and how the other party was served and file that with the court. If you wish to seek the advice of an attorney in this matter, you should do so promptly so that your pleading, if any, may be filed on time. Date: 4/7/2021 /s/Pamela M. Parker

Judge of the Superior Court

Attorney or party without attorney: Hector Daniel Caratachea 613 S. Twin Oak Valley Road #40 San Marcos, CA. 92078 Telephone 760.481.5797 DOP: 4/15, 4/22, 4/29 & 5/6/2021

ORDER TO SHOW CAUSE FOR CHANGE OF NAME 37-2021-00018649-CU-PTCTL TO ALL INTERESTED PERSONS: Petitioner Nazifa Sharifi filed a petition with this court for a decree changing names as follows: Present name: Nazifa Sharifi to Proposed name NazifSharifa. THE COURT ORDERS that all persons interested in this matter shall appear before this court at the hearing indicated below to show cause, if any, why the petition for change of name should not be granted. Any person objecting to the name changes described above must file a written objections that includes the reasons for the objection at least two court days before the matter is scheduled to be heard and must appear at the hearing to show cause why the petition should not be granted. If no written objection is timely filed, the court may grant the petition without a hearing. NOTICE OF HEARING: Date: June 17, 2021 8:30a.m., Department 61 The address of the court is: Central Division, Hall of Justice, 330 W. Broadway, San Diego, CA. 92101. A copy of the Order to Show Cause shall be published at least once each week for four successive weeks prior to the date set for hearing on the petition in the following newspaper of general circulation, printed in this county: San Marcos News Reporter, dba, The Paper, 845 W. San Marcos Blvd, San Marcos, Ca. 92078 Date Filed April 28, 2021. /s/ Lorna A. Alksne Judge of the Superior Court 5/6, 5/13, 5/20 and 5/27/2021


Due to the COV ID-19 pandemic, which poses a substantial risk to the health and welfare of court personnel and the public, rendering presence in, or access to, the court’s facilities unsafe, and pusuant to the emergency orders of the Chief Justice of the State of California and General Orders of the Presiding Department of the San Diego Superior Court, the following Orde is made: NO HEARING WILL OCCUR ON THE DATE SPECIFIED IN THE ORDER TO SHOW CAUSE. The court will review the documents filed as of the date specified on the Order to Show Cause for Change of Name (JC Form #NC-120).

If all requirements for a name change have been met as of the date specified, and no timely written objection has been received (required at least two court days before the date specified), the Petition for Change of Name (JC Form #NC-100) will be granted without a hearing. One certified copy of the Order Granting the Petition will be mailed to the petitioner. If all the rquirements have not been met as of the date specified, the court will mail the petitioner a written order with further directions. If a timely objection is filed, the court will set a remote hearing date and contact the parties by mail with further directions.

A RESPONDENT OBJECTING TO THE NAME CHANGE MUST FILE A WRITTEN OBJECTION AT LEAST TWO COURT DAYS (excluding weekends and holidays) BEFORE THE DATE SPECIFIED. Do not come to court on the specified date. The court will notify the parties by mail of a future remote hearing date.

Any Petition for the name change of a minor that is signed by only one parent must have this attacchment served along with the Petition and Order to Show Cause, on the other nonsigning parent, and proof of service must be filed with the court.

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