Girls just want to have FUN! Story by: Joan Jacob Brumberg Photos by: Lauren Greenfield Layout by: Allen Stout
merican girlhood ain't what it used to be. Maybe there are pockets of girls out there who still revel in the "Little House on the Prairie" books or dress up their dolls or run lemonade stands. But they aren't catching the eyes of sociologists, who seem to agree that girls today are growing up in a hyper-sexualized peer pressure-cooker — and they don't show up in "Girl Culture," a new book from photographer Lauren Greenfield (Chronicle Books; $40.00). Even the youngest girls in Greenfield's gritty, gorgeous portraits are far too busy dressing up like Barbie dolls to play with them. A gentle warning: this is not a book for parents desperate to maintain their naivete about what's happening in their daughters' lives: these accounts show you more than you've ever imagined about the sexual and social habits of girls. No matter how well you think you understand what goes on in adolescent life, it can be shocking to read firsthand accounts of the jealousy, pettiness, meanness and general anxiety that characterize female adolescence.
Alli, Annie, Hannah, and Berit, all 13, before the first big party of the seventh grade, Edina, Minnesota. “I might look older than I actually am, but underneath it all, I’m only thirteen. It’s kind of scary. It’s a hard feeling to not know where you fit in yet,” Hannah says. Girl culture is the key to understanding what it means to be a young woman today or in the past. In every historical epoch, girls have formed a unique set of activities and concerns generated by their developmental needs as well as the adult society in which they live. What girls do, how they think, what they write, whisper, and dream,
all reveal a great deal about them and about us. Lauren Greenfield’s photographic vision of contemporary girl culture is both a revealing documentary record and a disquieting personal commentary, infused with a distinctly sympathetic but biting point of view.
The Stanford University women's swim team, Palo Alto, California. Jessica, 20 years old and one of the member says, "it may be a turnoff to guys that we’re strong, but that’s the price we pay. It’s going to feel a lot better when you’re winning a gold medal than it does feeling bad when one guy doesn’t like you because you have big muscles".
"When I win a track meet, I feel empowered. I feel part of something awesome. I like being looked up to. Kind of like when I’m dancing. The guys are just looking at you like, “Dang!” I think that’s cool". Exotic dancer and track athlete Leilani, 21, wears her track-and-field medals in her "Schoolgirl" outfit, Fullerton, California.
Things aren’t like they use to be... A century ago, the culture of girls was still rooted in family, school, and community. When they were not in school or helping Mother, middle-class American girls were reading, writing, and drawing, as well as playing with their dolls. Many young girls knew how to sew, knit, crochet, and embroider, generating homemade crafts to decorate their rooms or give to friends as they sipped hot chocolate and read aloud to one another. In a girl culture domi-
nated by concerns about the body rather than mind or spirit, familiar rites of passage—such as Bat Mitzvah, quinceañera, graduation, and prom—are also transformed into shallow commercial events dominated by visions of Hollywood and celebrity magazines. These rituals are deeply important to girls, yet they no longer carry a great deal of emotional weight. Instead, they involve frenetic forays into the marketplace, worries about what to wear, and a preoccupation with the
In private, many prayed and wrote earnestly in their diaries about how they wanted to improve themselves by helping others or becoming more serious people. Celebrated for their purity, innocence, and all-around spunk, American adolescent girls in 1900 were considered a great national resource. (Some continued to believe the old Mother Goose rhyme that girls were made of “sugar and spice and everything nice.”) A hundred years later, the lives of girls have changed enormously, along with our perception of them. Girl culture today is driven largely by com-
mercial forces outside the family and local community. Peers seem to supplant parents as a source of authority; anxiety has replaced innocence. Despite the important and satisfying gains women have made in achieving greater access to education, power, and all forms of self-expression, including sexual, we have a sense of disquiet about what has happened to our girls. In the l990s, a warning about girls was sounded by some best-selling books such as Meeting at the Crossroads by Lyn Mikel Brown and Carol Gilligan and Reviving Ophelia by Mary Pipher. These powerful
discussions alerted the nation to the psychological difficulties of growing up female in a society that silences and stifles girls even in social and educational settings thought to be enlightened. Other studies confirmed that women really are the “stronger sex”—that is, until puberty, when their vulnerability to physical and mental health problems increases. In The Body Project: An Intimate History of American Girls, I argued that our current cultural environment is especially “toxic” for adolescent girls because of the anxieties it generates about the developing female body and sexuality.
Lillian, then 18, shops at Kirna Zabête, New York, New York. “When I was a fifteenyearold girl, everyone was like, “Oh, my God, you’re like Lolita.” I’m like, “No, I’m a kid.” But this city definitely teaches you that youth and sexuality go hand in hand.
pictures that will document the event. Young women flocked to the Girl Scouts and the Camp Fire Girls, only two of many national and local single-sex groups in which they could learn critical skills under the close supervision of older women. When girls were together on their own, they chattered about new hair ribbons and dress styles and inscribed sentimental rhymes in one another’s autograph books.
Sheena tries on clothes with Amber, 15, in a department store dressing room, San Jose, California.I want to be a topless dancer or a showgirl. I think it’d be fun, dancing with my tits showing off. It’s like a goal. If I can accomplish being that, then I can accomplish anything.”
Lily, then 5, shops at Rachel London’s Garden, where Britney Spears has some of her clothes designed, Los Angeles, California. “Britney’s a role model. She’s fashionable, and she has movements that I like.”
Girl Culture asks the question, how different are the worlds of the girlish [characteristic or befitting a girl or girlhood] and the girlie [featuring scantily clothed women] in today’s popular culture? And if that
divide is narrowing, how do real girls sort out this dichotomy as they gauge their behavior by prevailing standards, girls who are often too young to fully understand the implications and motivations of what
they are shaped by? How does a contemporary female rectify her inner emotional life, her physiological instincts, and her intellectual grasp of herself in society
Showgirl Anne-Margaret in her dressing room at the Stardust Hotel, Las Vegas, Nevada. She takes a note that say, “I approve of myself” and pictures of models she admires to her mirror for inspiration. “I’m like the eighth generation that’s lived in Chattanooga. Being a Southern belle is part of the rule for the family,” says Mary Cadfy, 19. Mary poses with her classmates in a May Day at Girls Preparatory School, Chattanooga, Tennessee.
On the basis of my reading over one hundred personal diaries written by adolescent girls between 1830 and l980, I concluded that as the twentieth century progressed, more and more young women grew up believing that “good looks”— rather than “good works”—were the highest form of female perfection. The body projects that currently absorb the attention of girls not only constitute a “brain drain,” but can also threaten mental and physical health. As the influence of Eastern religions and philosophy increase in mainstream American
“Life is definitely easier—while your beauty lasts. People, especially of the opposite sex, treatyou better.” culture, we are recovering the classical ethos that the mind and body are one. The clear interdependence of the mental and physical means that their conditions are linked: when one is in crisis, under attack, or otherwise compromised, the
other responds. While they are taught about the importance of individualism, the value of self, the potential of each person to make unique contributions to the world, girls of all ages are at the same time required to conform to the preeminently important yet narrow ideals of outward beauty and sexual desirability. This situation may sound like tired rhetoric, but the photographs and interviews presented here vividly represent the actual, inarguably familiar, and widely pervasive experience itself.
Nkechi, then 17, was chosen by the New York Times Magazine to get “Oscar” treatment and wear a Versace gown ti her Crenshaw High School prom for a fashion spread, L’Ermitage Hotel, Beverly Hills, California. “Modeling is an American dream. We don’t have that industry in Nigeria. But growing up here, I’ve been exposed to it, and that’s why I want to do it. I just don’t know if it’s realistic. That’s why I’m at school.”
Young girls are among the most avid spending consumers today. Here, Aya, 16, looks for an outfitto wear to schoolin her basement bedroom, San Francisco, California.
Cindy Margolis, the world’s most downloaded woman according to the Guinnes Book of World Records, in her bathroom, Studio City, California. “In this business, beauty helps. But if all it took was a killer body and great hair, everyone would have their own TV show.”
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“Life is definitely easier—while your beauty lasts. People, especially of the opposite sex, treat you better.” Sara shops in SoHo, New York, New York.
—evolved from earliest childhood—with the powerful tides of today’s commodified womanhood and its host of fantasies and mixed messages? Although there are many young
women in the United States whose lives have not developed this harsh edge, the hyperbole in Girl Culture still rings true, suggesting the face of what’s likely to come in the decades
ahead. These haunting images should leave us feeling, but also pondering, the problems and concerns that are transforming girlhood and diluting some of its sweetness.