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hhh January. The month that starts it all over- all the things you will do differently this year, and then don’t. By the time this issue comes out, some of you may have already ditched the resolutions. Many of the statistics reflect that 80% of people give up their resolutions by the early part of February. If you are part of the 20% that is still pushing forward towards your goals, then a big kudos to you. And if you fall into the 80% majority, well, a big congrats to you too. Congratulations on taking the time for personal reflection and identifying your areas of opportunity. Creating new habits isn’t easy, and maybe it’s time we cut ourselves some slack and start playing the long game. Whatever your goals and resolutions made, from my own experience, I do know it helps to reframe our words. What if we flip those resolutions upside down? Instead of saying stop, we start. Instead of less, it’s more. Instead of a take-away, it becomes an add. We no longer want to give up; we want to give in to self-love and self-acceptance while we make positive changes towards an even better version of ourselves. Our words matter, and if we can move from using negative language to positive, well, that’s certainly a good start. While some people thrive on goal setting and others like to follow systems, we know that mentality plays a part. We know that setbacks occur, yet that’s where we can appreciate what we have accomplished, pick back up, reset, and keep forging ahead. No throwing our hands up. We are not quitters! We are strong, able, and we can accomplish anything and everything! This year, let’s acknowledge that our resolutions take time and that we show ourselves and others nothing but love. Let’s take one day at a time, make ourselves a priority, and just enjoy the journey. That’s what I’m going to try this year, and I hope you will join me.
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By Kellie Hall Stafford, Virginia
aised as a “Navy Brat” Kellie Hall
Kellie (LT Hall) served onboard for two
is originally from Stafford Virginia.
years as the First Lieutenant. In 2016
After being recruited to run Track
she moved into Human Resources
and Cross Country, she attended and
which followed by years in Recruitment.
received her commission through the
Kellie has earned military awards that
U.S. Naval Academy in Annapolis, MD in
include three Navy and Marine Corps
2014. Immediately upon graduation, Kellie
Commendations Medals, two Navy and
was commissioned as a Surface Warfare
Marine Corps Achievement medals, the
Officer and reported to the USS PINCKNEY
Navy District Ohio’s FY 18 “Inspirational
during her Western pacific deployment.
Officer of the Year” Award FY19 “Medical
Recruiter of the year” Award and 16 Gold
become whatever I wanted to me, to be
Wreaths for Recruiting Excellence.
bold and stand out. So that’s exactly what I did. When I was younger, I didn’t have
More than a Naval officer, Lieutenant Hall
the confidence in my exterior— but I grew
is also a professional model, business
confidence in my interior. That’s truly what
owner and motivational speaker travelling
is beautiful. I learned to love my greatest
nationwide to speak with girls and
attributes, I learned to love the beauty in
women about obstacles facing women
in the military and maximizing their full potential within. Kellie shared that when
As an adult, my exterior changed: the
she was a young girl, she dreamed of being
braces came off, I grew into my skin, I
“beautiful. “I was so skinny, wore braces for
learned how to do my makeup, competed
5 years, the boys in my class always asked
in pageants, and became a professional
me to pass notes to other girls for them
model. All while serving in the military. All
instead of passing notes to me. I used to
of those qualities I learned as a young girl,
pray one day I’d be the “pretty girl” and I’d
all the time I spent on myself internally,
grow up to become beautiful. During that
has made me a more confident, beautiful
time, my mom would always remind me
leader. I grew to believe in myself, I
that I already WAS beautiful. I didn’t believe
celebrated the qualities God gave me
her. She celebrated my creativity, my
instead of focusing on my exterior features.
mind, she said my drive, whit, and tenacity
That’s what beauty is to me.
were all beautiful. She encouraged me to
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y definition, a bold woman is a
Awards to New Year’s Rockin’ Eve. And
woman who knows what she
in a world so often filtered, Jenny’s
wants, a woman who is driven,
transparency is what strikes the chord
courageous, and passionate, a woman
with her fans. A New York Times best-
who speaks her mind and defines who
selling author, Jenny has written nine
she is, not what others expect her to be.
books to date. She has been open with
People can’t help but be drawn to a bold
her readers by sharing real, heartfelt,
woman because of her confidence and
hilarious, and relatable stories on
belief in herself.
topics such as pregnancy, motherhood, relationships, and everything in between.
Jenny McCarthy is a bold woman.
She kept that conversation going by hosting The Jenny McCarthy Show, a daily
Jenny McCarthy can not only be
radio show on Sirius XM that recently
characterized as a bold woman, she is an
ended after six years. If that wasn’t
unstoppable force. Her honesty, humility,
enough to keep her busy, Jenny is also a
and humor have been the springboard to a
successful entrepreneur, having created
long and successful career as an actress,
and launched countless brands. Recently,
comedian, host, best-selling author,
Jenny launched Blondies, a line of gluten-
spokeswoman, and entrepreneur.
free, ready-to-drink cocktails, and her newest passion, a line called Formless
From her early days of MTV to her
current role as a judge on the popular TV competition The Masked Singer,
Formless Beauty is a vegan, cruelty-free
no one can argue this bold woman’s
lip gloss line created and founded by
nonstop work ethic. Jenny has appeared
the beauty herself. The first collection
in numerous films and television shows,
launched with three lip colors and will be
including her own comedies, a late-night
expanding to include a variety of colors
talk show, daytime talk, and Donnie Loves
along with meticulously formulated
Jenny, a cable docu-series she executive-
foundation, mascara, and eyeshadows
produced and shared top-billing with her
that are free from hormone disrupters
husband of seven years, actor, and New
and other chemicals that are harmful to
Kids on The Block member, the one and
our health. Jenny shared that she started
only, Mr. Donnie Wahlberg.
the company because she couldn’t find a lip gloss that checked all the right boxes.
Many of us have shared memories and
“I wanted a product that was vegan,
moments with Jenny, watching her host
cruelty-free, pure Ingredients that you can
everything from the American Music
actually pronounce, not sticky but stays NEW BEGINNINGS
on, hydrating and made in the USA,” Jenny shared with us. The careful consideration goes beyond Jenny’s new line and into her messaging, by naming each gloss by a specific intention: Manifest, Dream, and Love. “I’m a huge believer in the power of our thoughts and how they create our reality. Just look at
“ I’m a huge believer in the power of our thoughts and how they create our reality. ”
how powerful placebo effects can be. Our
Don’t get me wrong, I still have insecurities.
thoughts and beliefs have real power! I
And I still enjoy the occasional Botox.
hope to inspire everyone who buys one of
But because I fell more in love with the
my glosses to put a positive intention into it
formless version of myself, I don’t feel like
so every time they use it, they activate their
I’m chasing my 20s or 30s. My wrinkles are
own positive intention into their lives.”
there because of the amount of smiling I’ve done my whole life. Whenever I see a new
Jenny shared that her definition of beauty,
one, I say to myself, ‘it’s good to know I’ve
real beauty, true beauty, comes from
been so damn happy in this life.’”
within. No exceptions. “Whether I’m glammed up or look like a hot
Jenny shares one of her greatest anti-
mess, I feel most beautiful when I feel good
aging secret weapons has been using an
about myself on the inside. This is one of
infrared sauna. “I beg everyone to look up
the reasons I named the company Formless
the benefits. Not only do you burn a ton
Beauty. Even though I’m selling makeup, I
of calories, it helps create collagen, helps
wanted to remind people that real beauty
with elasticity, shrinks face pores and
doesn’t have a form. Real beauty comes
detoxes your body. Many spas have them
from within. Thus, Formless Beauty was the
now, and I can’t express enough how much
of a difference it makes in your appearance and overall health.”
Having held titles and named on lists for the most beautiful and sexiest, I asked
We love seeing women who are passionate
Jenny if she ever felt pressure to keep those
about beauty and wellness and putting
titles. “20 years ago when I received those
their name behind a great product. Kudos,
titles, I didn’t believe them because I was
Jenny McCarthy, for being Bold, Formless,
insecure. As I got older, I found myself
and Fearless. We can’t wait to wear our
becoming more secure with how I looked.
new favorite accessory!
Q: A: Q: A: Q: A: Q: A:
Do you still shop drugstore products, and if so, what is a good go-to? I sure do. I get press on nails from Kiss. It’s amazing how much better they have gotten through the years as far as staying on and actual designs. It saves me from having to make yet another maintenance appointment for myself. I just pop them on when I need them.
Any secrets you have learned from the professionals, whether it’s skin, makeup, or hair? A few things for sure. The higher your blush placement is, the more your face looks lifted. This is the same for contour. Also, setting spray actually works! I hate any extra steps I have to do, but I will say, a good setting spray can help your makeup stay on all day.
How long do you have to sit in the chair at work for hair and makeup? Too long! People always say, “you’re so lucky to get your makeup done,” but I can’t sit still very long. I have too much energy, so it’s really hard to sit still. No wonder why I got into trouble so much in my school days. To answer your question, it’s three painful hours, lol. But is it fair for me to complain? No.
You have amazing hairstyles, and you are not afraid to change it up. What would you tell women who have been stuck wearing the same hairstyle or afraid of change? Go to a good wig store with a girlfriend and try on a bunch of different styles and shades. Not only will you have so much fun, it’s the best way to know exactly what you would look like without having to make the scary jump.
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Kelly Hu By Michelle Emmick
eauty is so vast. It comes in all
dramas, including Army Wives, NCIS: Los
forms and is really about the type
Angeles, The Vampire Diaries, and Hawaii
of person you are and how you
Five-0. She also voices the character
treat other people.”
Stacey in the popular animated series Phineas and Ferb. Her most recent
Beautiful words spoken from Kelly Hu.
project was in the Lifetime film List of
Kelly is an actress, entrepreneur, former
a Lifetime, where she played the lead
fashion model, and beauty queen who
role of Brenda Lee, who is diagnosed
was crowned Miss Teen USA 1985 and
with breast cancer and is prompted
Miss Hawaii USA 1993. Her career in
to look for the daughter she gave up
acting started in 1987, and she hasn’t
for adoption decades ago. The film
stopped since. Kelly shared that there
is dear to Kelly’s heart as her mother,
weren’t many Asian actresses when she
grandmother, and aunt all had breast
started, which she believes is one of the
reasons she never lacked in opportunity. In addition to acting, Kelly has a line “My first acting job was on a special
of socially-conscious graphic t-shirts
Hawaiian-vacation episode of Growing
called 33 Edge. She created the
Pains. I was still living in Hawaii when I
line in response to the protest and
landed the part. The show was shot in
discrimination demonstrated during
Maui and when it was finished, I packed
the COVID-19 quarantine. “My hope is
my bags and moved to Los Angeles. The
that it encourages more unity, equality
day the show aired, I took out a full page
and respect for fellow human beings.”
ad in Variety announcing my arrival and
Designing and producing her apparel
availability. I got called by 20 agents
line came during the pandemic when
before the show even premiered! Timing
the creative economy was effected the
is everything in life. I was gung-ho and
greatest. It was also during that time
willing to put myself out there and not
that Kelly shifted her overall outlook in
afraid of failure. I came to Los Angeles
terms of her expectations of herself. “I
with my eyes open and full of hope.”
wasn’t going on camera, and I had a revelation to see how the industry would
Kelly has built a lengthy resume, starring
receive me. One of the ways was letting
in shows like Sunset Beach, Nash
my hair grow out grey. I’m trying out my
Bridges, and Martial Law, which led to
white hair and becoming part of the
big screen films like The Scorpion King
silver sister club. It saves me money, its
and X2: X-Men United. She’s played
freeing and I’m not getting hit on any
high-profile roles on a variety of TV
less!” NEW BEGINNINGS
Kelly stresses that she has become much
that are supposed to be helping you
more relaxed over the last few years. “I
have an agenda, and it’s easy to make
was that crazy girl that would take three
the wrong choices. It’s important to have
yoga classes a day. I stopped that. Three
people looking out for you.”
of my grandparents lived well into their 90s, and none of them ever stepped foot
These days Kelly says she has a much
in a gym or on a treadmill.”
better understanding that living healthy is to be happy and living stress-free. “It’s
Kelly also acknowledges that her
about not spending money you don’t
friendships, which she calls her
have, wearing clothes you can’t afford,
sisterhood, play a big part in her positive
or buying cars and homes that are over
outlook. “It’s so important to have friends
your means. You have to find happiness
that you can rely on for an honest opinion.
in what you have and with the people
The most successful years of my career
you surround yourself with. At 53 years
were the most miserable because I felt
old, I’ve never been in more of a happier
like I couldn’t get the truth. Many people
“ Beauty is so vast. It comes in all forms and is really about the type of person you are and how you treat other people. ”
@kellyhu NEW BEGINNINGS
Ali Landry By Michelle Emmick
FALL BEGINNINGS NEW 2021
ust a small-town girl, Ali Landry
women suffer through without answers.
had big dreams for herself. She
“I was tired all the time, I had bouts of
knew early on that if given the
depression, brain fog, sleepless nights,
opportunity, she would use her platform
and other symptoms,” Ali shared. “There
was no way I was going to accept this, and we as women are worthy of much
Ali Landry’s rise to fame started early
in pageantry and moved quickly as she became a recognized actress,
Through research, education and her
model, and television host. Her first
commitment to find answers, three
taste of beauty was selling skincare,
years ago, Ali launched her wellness
working in her mom’s beauty shop
brand, RE/SHAPE, a lifestyle platform
while putting herself through college.
focused on overall health and wellness,
It was during those college years when
lifestyle, beauty, and fitness. Her
Ali first entered pageantry and was
platform has curated the best resources
crowned Miss Louisiana Teen USA at just
in products and services, along with
seventeen. This led to her Miss USA title
her personal network of specialists.
in 1996, and after a few acting stints, a
“I’m here to do the work and share my
famous super bowl commercial in 1998
knowledge with others. We have one
pushed Ali into what some refer to as
life, and we deserve for it to be great.
the “celebrity beauty hall of fame”- a
So many women accept sitting on the
title of which Ali has never been a driver.
sidelines. I want them to know that they
“I’ve never considered myself a sex
owe it to themselves to reshape their
symbol and never took those titles too
seriously,” Ali says. At 48 years old, Ali shares that she Beauty and wellness, however, have
wants to feel her best. Ali isn’t afraid
been a big part of this genuine beauty’s
to be vocal when it comes to her love
story. While under the spotlight of fame,
of aesthetic procedures, and she
appearances and experiences gave
currently sits on the board at Beverly
Ali a strong understanding that while
Hills Rejuvenation center. “I’ve had
someone can do as much work on the
fillers, Botox and different non-
outside as they want, it will always come
surgical treatments. I like the effects of
back to the inner journey we take. This
tightening and lifting. My concern is that
belief is what has driven Ali for years to
the cosmetic industry is like the wild,
become a student of life. Part of those
wild west. I’m interested in rejuvenation
studies centered around what so many
on a cellular level and learning about all NEW BEGINNINGS
the options so I can help educate others.”
In the fall of 2022, Ali will be releasing her book, Reshape. In her book, she shares
When it comes to health and fitness, Ali
her life story and what propelled her on
shares that she’s in better shape now than
this journey. “It’s been a huge learning
she was in her 20’s. “When you know better,
curve with big life-changing moments.
you do better. I grew up on rich southern
I’ve gotten through all those moments by
food. It wasn’t until I really educated myself
tapping into my mindset, heart set, soul set,
that I understood the effects of healthy
and health set to create a full reshape.”
choices. I love to cook, and I love the
experience of eating. I’m a foodie!” As for
It’s no surprise that Ali Landry is living the
exercise, Ali says she doesn’t exercise every
dreams and aspirations she created for
day as she has suffered from chronic pain,
herself all those years ago, and we know
and too much of an intense workout or even
that her dream of making a difference and
lack of proper sleep can trigger her pain,
using her voice for good will keep getting
but she does like Orangetheory to stay fit.
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Loving, Living and Leaving a Latina Legacy By Amy Breuer
s relatable as the many characters she portrays on television, Constance Marie is as warm and approachable in person as she appears
to be on screen. What was supposed to be a more formal interview, ended up to be a casual conversation touching upon an array of life lessons, ranging from hard work, perseverance, the pandemic, and unavoidable flexibility. Constance Marie believes one of the biggest keys to her success is the ability to pivot professionally in times of change. With a career spanning over 30 years, she laughed as she described what life was like as an actress before HD, the internet, and social media. Does anyone else remember the rotary phone or the dial tone you get when picking up a landline? Interestingly, when I asked her what changed the most over time, she said, “Technology, of course;
older women being seen as “sexy”; and
a particular interview, a project, or script,
Latin people being viewed as ‘regular
it took all of a second for her to respond
with “I have to connect to it. I have to feel like it is something of integrity; it has to
Tracing her ancestry back to 1850, she is
be something good that I am putting out
highly connected to her family, her Latin
into the world and that my daughter and
American heritage, and the important roles
my culture would be proud of.” From the
that she has played over the years. Growing
age of 13, Constance was a go-getter and
up, she quickly recognized the lack of
not afraid to put in the work necessary to
diversity and multigenerational influences
achieve the success she desired. There
around her, so saying “yes” to The George
were many times in her life that required
Lopez Show was easy. This was the first
her to stretch outside of her comfort zone.
English predominately Latin show to have
From being “painfully” shy in her younger
ever made it past 13 episodes in 75 years
years to later dancing in front of eighty-
and ultimately changed the American
thousand people, her resilience and her
perceptions of Latinos. Constance
strong sense of self are deeply rooted in her
continues to find opportunities to bring
Latinx background and she instills that same
attention to her background by seeking out
strength and work ethic into her daughter.
roles that highlight her unforgotten culture. In closing our conversation, we talked about Her latest work can be found in the Amazon
how interconnected we are and how, as
Original With Love, released on December
women, we need to support each other.
17th. Constance and the rest of the badass
When asking her how she defines beauty,
cast continue to entertain the world with this
she paused and replied so beautifully,
feel-good, romantic comedy series which
“Beauty makes you feel good. People that
leaves those that watch it feeling like they
make you feel good are beautiful.” For
have just received a big hug that they didn’t
women, we can often make comparisons
even know was needed. So, whether you
to the illusions around us or judge ourselves
want to binge-watch all of the episodes at
too harshly. Constance had once heard a
once or watch them individually to celebrate
saying about changing the narrative and
the holidays alongside the on-air family
shared… “Instead of saying what’s wrong
navigating through them, you will find and
with me, say, what’s strong with me.” Such
enjoy all the meaningful moments and be
a mindful shift in thinking can often make
a big impact! To get Constance Marie’s “glow”, remember to drink plenty of water,
All of us have a choice in the activities we
get enough sleep, and try using one of her
choose to do. When asking Constance
favorite beauty products, “Suntegrity tinted
Marie about what makes her say “yes” to
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C ELEB R ITY M AKEU P ART I ST
ELENA GEORGE @elenageorge1mkp
lena George is a legacy
social media became the come up, it
trendsetter. This eight-time
was word-of-mouth, talent, and God’s
Emmy Winning Make-Up Artist
higher plan that gave Elena everything
has used her creativity and artistry on
she prayed for and more.
the most famous faces in the world. The jet-setting Elena George started From the early days in the ’80s, before 34
doing hair in her early years of high
school and through college. She quickly
Vivica A. Fox, Mariah Carey, to Presidents
became the go-to beauty person in her
of the United States, Elena George is the
New York neighborhood, but it was her
woman behind the screen-ready face.
high school friend Sandra Denton, aka
For the last 17 years, she has also been
‘Pepa’ from top female rap group Salt-
the lead makeup artist on Good Morning
N-Pepa, that catapulted her career when
America, as the personal makeup artist
she asked her to style her hair for her first
for one of our favorite TV anchors, the
music video. That first music video was
beautiful Robin Roberts.
1987’s single “Push It,” which not only became an iconic song, it created the
When it comes to makeup, Elena’s
asymmetrical mushroom haircut trend
philosophy is less is best. “You don’t have
that everyone was rockin’ back in the day.
to paint a mask on. You want the skin to look dewy and fresh-faced. For television,
Elena shared that the style came from
especially TV anchors, it’s easy to get
a visit by Sandra to get her hair done for
stuck in a look. For Robin, I change up
the video, and the rest was history. ‘Pep’
her look every season, so her look keeps
asked me to continue styling her hair, and
evolving.” Elena shares that while she
we kept getting creative. Styles like the
can still do hair, it’s makeup that is her
one-eyed jack, pin curls and braids by Fifi.
She became my billboard where people could see my styles. Once I realized
Elena advises that too much makeup
what the word trendsetting meant and
can do more harm than good for mature
seeing people wearing a style I created, I
women, adding years to their look. She
realized the power I had when it came to
stresses that mature women should be
careful with powder under the eye as it can wrinkle you even more. “We call it
Elena had a salon with her partner Cheryl
the ‘casket look,’” she says.
Renee James, aka “Salt”, but God had a much bigger plan for both of them.
One trend we talked about was the
Elena’s plan led to millions of people
overdrawn lip. “Everything is a style,”
seeing her talent and connecting with
Elena told us. “The overdrawn lips have
people that she never imagined. While
been done for years, just differently. In the
styling hair was where Elena started, her
‘80s, it was about the black and brown
creative makeup skills made the plan
lip pencil that was used to trace the
bigger than she could dream for herself.
lip and never blended. Now it’s getting
From Aretha Franklin, Cecily Tyson,
injectables and drawing. There’s a
Angela Bassett, Gayle King, Star Jones,
balance, and if not, you can look crazy.” NEW BEGINNINGS
Elena also shared that the best thing for
do things for yourself to make you look
those who don’t have a lot of experience
and feel good.”
is to educate themselves. “There are
so many options out there today when
Elana believes that while makeup
it comes to beauty. There is really
enhances, beauty comes from within and
no excuse. Whether it’s going to the
what you project. “It all starts in the mind.
dermatologist, getting a weave, or buying
Talk to yourself and remind yourself every
some makeup at the store, try things and
Elena’s Top Tip when it comes to skincare: Vitamin C is the Holy Grail. It keeps your face looking great. Some of her favorite brands are Peter Thomas Roth, Perricone MD, and Dr. Dennis Gross. Secret Tip if you weave your hair: Weaves can mess up your edges. My Mom taught me to put A & D ointment on my scalp once a week. It works and helps!
Around the World
Jess Weiner By Michelle Emmick
ess Weiner needs a standing
Jess works primarily with Fortune 100 and
ovation. She can easily be
500 companies with the largest market
considered a game-changing
shares, which can make the biggest
leader who has spent the last 26 years
impact for positive change. She started
working to understand and educate
this path over two decades ago when
others about cultural trends that help
she was contacted by Dove, leading to a
people feel more seen, heard, and
strategic partnership on their Campaign
for Real Beauty.
Having always been a speaker,
Another recognized partnership that was
performer, and communicator from
culturally changing was the strategic
a young age, Jess grew up in Miami,
partnership with Mattel and the Barbie
left at 18, and never looked back. With
team, introducing more realistic body
stops in between, Jess became a true
types, skin tones, eye colors, and
Californian, having now spent the last
hairstyles to the doll. “We went on a
21 years in Los Angeles. Jess shares
journey to more variety and inclusivity.
that living in a place known for its
The biggest conversation on the table
appearance-driven aesthetic is exactly
was, ‘what does Barbie look like?’ And
what draws her in. “I like that tension
that shift did not happen overnight.”
point because I never lose sight that we value a very particular aesthetic and
Jess shares that brands need to focus on
that being in the epicenter of exporting
intersectionality. People have multiple
media content, I can impact the
identifiers- race, gender, abilities,
message that is being sent out.”
education, so much that makes us up. She stated that the census report from
Jess is known as a cultural expert. She
2020 reflected that 50% of kids under
sits at the intersections of studying,
the age of 18 are multiracial. “This age
researching, and teaching about cultural
group has a very different relationship
trends. “I look at what’s happening
when it comes to appearance. Trust that
regarding beauty, body image, self-
the next generation will show up to play
confidence, creativity, identity, and I
and that will be an aspiration. We are
use those insights to help contextualize
living in a beautiful, blended world, and
what people are experiencing. I track
Barbie needed to reflect that diversity!”
and look at historical and future trends.
I’m an Educator and Communicator,
Jess says that when it comes to body
helping companies stay on the leading
image, there is a body bias. From Baby
edge of diversity and inclusive content.”
Boomers to Millennials, generations
have grown up with beliefs that a larger
identify, investigate, and interrupt those
body isn’t beautiful or healthy. “These
stories.” Jess brings her smart and witty
beliefs are so subconscious, which is why
personality to each conversation with
we had to change Barbie’s aspiration to
her guests, where you can reclaim and
be traits other than a physical.”
rewrite those stories.
Jess has authored two books and is
From Barbie to business boardroom,
working on her third. Her first book, A Very
Jess Weiner is a cultural changemaker.
Hungry Girl, was penned at the young age
As a lifelong learner, truth-seeker, and
of 27 and shaped her interests in studying
teacher on a mission, Jess continues to
cultural issues. Her second book, Life
open the conversation and get to the
Doesn’t Begin 5lbs from Now, focuses on
humanity that connects us all with the
helping women change their thoughts
stories inside of us. She has taken all
and actions to appreciate their bodies.
her experience and continues to use her voice as an advocate and champion for
Besides being an author, consultant, and
motivational speaker, Jess has a podcast from Shondaland and iHeartRadio. Her
podcast series is called Dominant Stories with Jess Weiner, a principle that has been part of her teachings for years. Jess says the show stemmed from her personal and professional mission to help challenge the external and internal voices that hold someone back from living the life they deserve. “We have a dominant story that runs in our head. Stories that, not intentional, can be passed down generationally. The stories we tell ourselves about ourselves that can stop us from pursuing our passion, block us in our careers, and even sabotage relationships...if we let them.” The good news, Jess says, is that those dominant stories can be rewritten. “They don’t disappear. What we can do is NEW BEGINNINGS
I am lucky enough to live in one of the most beautiful parts of Australia, the shire of Byron Bay. This region is famous for its beaches and nature, and for attracting beautiful people from all over the world. I think everyone is beautiful. Beauty, for me, is about feeling comfortable in your own skin, whatever shape, colour, or age you are – if you like yourself and respect others – then that will always shine through.
I’ve advocated for the aesthetic community for almost 15 years, founding the Plastic Surgery Hub, Australia’s leading patient, and consumer information website. One of the more pleasing trends I have noticed over recent years is the broader acceptance of our uniqueness. We are all beautiful – regardless of our body weight, wrinkles and differences. The media, social media, and online communities have helped break down barriers. Still, there is more than can be done – and that is why I have co-founded ANYBODI, a community of aesthetic practitioners and everyday humans that support selfacceptance, self-love, wellbeing, and healthy living. Becoming a trusted source for a community seeking honest, informed advice and being an advocate for the Australian aesthetic industry continues to be my most incredible privilege.
My name is Sima Ali and I live in Lebanon. Beauty for me starts from the inside out. My beauty rituals start in the morning. I wash my face with Luminesce cleanser and then I apply the Luminesce day cream for a glowy complexion. Every morning I take supplements to feel energized throughout the day. I always drink the antioxidant drink Reserve to keep wrinkles at bay. My nighttime ritual includes washing my face with the cleanser, then applying Luminesce night cream and I end it with the PM supplements so that my beauty is taken care of as I sleep. I am an entrepreneur and a mother of two. I hold a Bachelor’s degree in business management and have spent 6 years in the humanitarian sector. I recently started my online business through which I can express my essence. And that to me is the definition of beauty, to freely express our best self through everything we do.
Eva’s Healthy Hair Tips
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Having moved to America from a small town in the Czech Republic in 2010, Eva has been cutting, coloring, and creating her way through the hairstyling industry. As an encaustic artist outside of the salon, she finds that being an artist and a hairstylist is interconnected. “Hair is very artistic because you have to have a vision on what would work well on someone else and be able to bring that vision to life.” Favorite product: Moroccan oil. It’s a great way to protect your hair from the environment. How do you define beauty: “A smile and confidence!” 44
Focus on building healthy hair from the inside out with a healthy diet. Good products from the salon. While it may be deceiving, products and brands you often see at your “big box” retail store are not necessarily the same as you get from your salon. These imitators can often be out of date or even fake. Less heat on your hair is best and if you do use heat, be sure to use a protectant.
Emeline Stout Founder of Elastique Athletics
Q. Elatique Athletics has been very successful. What do you believe is its biggest victory? Seeing this through, from the ideation phase all the way to the great reviews we get from our customers, gives me a great sense of pride. I wanted a way to make our wellness routines more attainable and believed that working on combining the Beauty world and the Apparel World into a line of products that work for us instead of the other way around made the most sense. Knowing that we’ve helped thousands of women feel better is the biggest victory. And it’s just the beginning.
Q. What has been your biggest lesson learned since founding Elastique? Know when to trust your gut. There have been countless occasions on the Elastique journey where I’ve followed advice from others (business partners, suppliers) that didn’t feel right and then it ended-up creating a huge mess. When you’re an entrepreneur, you’re spending most of your time in the unknown and need to surround yourself with experts to guide you. I’ve learned to be more intentional in my decision making, taking everyone’s advice but always making sure it feels right. If I had known this earlier, we would have moved 100 times faster but it’s all part of the process. I’m learning to appreciate the “lessons learned” part more as it is the best path for growth on a business and personal level.
of my past go-to natural/clean brands were actually full of harmful chemicals. They’re 100% independent and are doing wonders in shaping tomorrow’s beauty industry. It’s a French company but the app works great here as well. Today I swear by our friend and advisor Lisa Levitt Gainsley’s Book of Lymph, which gives you all the information and techniques you need to know to start practicing self lymphatic drainage. You’d be amazed by how quickly you can see the results once you start implementing her regimens. And, of course, l’Original leggings- they’re such a life-saver. There’s nothing better than getting a little lymphatic massage as I am rushing to get my daughters to school, sitting for hours on Zoom calls, or attending my favorite Lagree class.
Q.What are the biggest differences in beauty trends between France and the US? If you had asked me this question a couple years ago, it would have been obvious, French women are more into skincare than make-up and bodycare is as important as facial skincare. But for the past couple of years we’ve seen a shift, clean skincare brands are dominating the US market and bodycare is now fully part of the American woman skin regimen, thanks partly to (our favorite) the lymphatic drainage trend. On the other hand, young French women are getting their make-up technique inspiration from US based beauty influencers.
Q.What is your favorite beauty / skin care ritual? I love a good drainage session. I usually don’t have time to practice as often as I’d like, but I love my Sunday evening self lymphatic drainage. It’s very soothing and always makes for a great night sleep, which we all know is a must for radiant skin. Especially after all the great eating we do during the holidays, giving some love to our lymphatic system is a must. It’s fairly simple. A good facial cleanse twice a day; I love Caudalie Vinoclean. Then the SKII facial treatment essence followed by Caudalie VinoPerfect brightening cream. I also make sure to moisturize my body every day and apply Yonka’s Huile Silhouette on my legs. I finish with Saie’s slip tint and a little mascara.
Q.What are your favorite beauty must-haves right now? The cosmetic scanner app Yuka, which I swear by any time I am looking for a new product, is, in my opinion, a must have. My daughters and I can spend hours in Sephora, CVS or Target scanning cleansers, face creams, shampoos... I love their rating system, I was actually surprised by how many
Q. How do you define beauty? For me beauty is a pleasurable instant that is seen, felt, smelled or heard and leads to a smile. There is beauty in everything if you open your mind to it. When you seek those moments, you instantly feel better. NEW BEGINNINGS
Bahar Kizil is a German singer whose beauty truly shines from inside out. From a very early age it was obvious that this creative and photogenic girl was meant to be an artist. Bahar’s interest for music and love for singing has effortlessly led her to the big stage. After participating in the casting show “Popstars” her name became known all over Germany. With her spellbinding vocals, it was not surprising that Bahar won the competition. As a result, she became a member of the girlband “Monrose.” On top of platform records and sold-out tours, Monrose has performed with Jason Derulo and collaborated with British hitmaker Craig David. The years in the band gave Bahar a head start and a platform to start other projects.
Right now, Bahar is a successful Instagrammer with over 50,000 @baharkizilpolat followers. The singer’s social media content combines the showcase of her music and lifestyle, while also touching on beauty and fashion. In her mission to motivate people, she fearlessly shares her thoughts and experiences. The main message in all the posts however, is to be happy from within no matter the circumstances. Bahar always aims to set a good example for her fans, urging them to embrace themselves and strive towards set goals.
to mascara the lashes. And I am addicted to body scrub with cafe smell!
Questions Q. Are there any beauty trends from the past that you would want to bring back? At the moment, the beauty trends are very broad. But I am a fan of cat eyes, smokey eyes and desert looks in red tones. Q. What are your favorite beauty must-haves right now? Among my must haves at the moment are my eye pads, which I use in the morning to get a more awake look and I love my permanent lashes - they are a real eye-catcher in everyday life, plus I always save a lot of time on make-up when I don’t have
Photographer: @bychrishaimerl Hair: @officialyigitkhair MUA: @nicolebhm Interview/Article by: Karina Kurani 46
Q. The German press often praises you for your natural beauty and flawless glowing skin. What’s your secret? I am very happy with my skin. But that wasn’t always the case, because I tend to have extremely dry skin very quickly. I try to take care of my skin from the inside and outside With products but also through my diet and exercise. Lots of water, cold coffee (I can only recommend), especially in the summer! I also care for my skin in the morning and evening. Products here do not always have to be expensive but good. A good mix makes it! Q. What is your favorite beauty / skin care ritual? My care rituals include SAUNA, body scrub and good moisturizing masks.
My name is Betty Mwangi, and I live in Nairobi, the capital city of Kenya. I love beauty and everything it encompasses. I believe beauty is cultivated. A beautiful person is herself, knows her worth, and constantly works on herself. Its resilience, grace, compassion, and kindness. Someone beautiful radiates joy and happiness and is easy to talk to, well cultured, and well mannered. I do the 5-step skincare routine morning and night (morning) -Clean, tone, serum, moisturize, sunscreen when it comes to beauty rituals. Exfoliate twice a week. (Evening) - Clean, tone, serum, moisturize, face mask. I’m a products junkie for both skincare and makeup and love experimenting. When it comes to wellness, I meditate, pray, drink warm water, and read one chapter of a book every single morning without fail. I also walk for 45 minutes every day. Being and feeling beautiful is something we can all attain. It takes inner work, being centered, putting in the work, building your self-esteem and confidence. Beauty is living a life of purpose and doing what you love without compromise. Betty Mwangi is the founder and CEO of White Swan Media, a Social Media Marketing company. She also runs Beauty from Ashes, an online forum where women share their stories of triumph. www.whiteswanmedia.co.ke www.beautyfromashesforum.com Favorite Brands: Favorite Skincare Clinique, Estee Lauder, Clarins, Neutrogena Favorite Makeup Estee Lauder, Fenty, MAC, Revlon, Loreal, and Maybelline
While I’ve spent the last 6 years in the United States, I’m from Rome, Italy. I have been working full-time as the Pasta Queen. I love to bring my Italian Passion, beauty, and cuisine to the world. As I say, “pasta, drama, I am Italiana!” When it comes to beauty, I believe it expresses what’s on the inside. Your confidence, self-esteem, and positive attitude shine through whether you wear makeup or not. Make-up will absolutely help make you beautiful, and it might work on a photo, but when you interact with people, true beauty comes from within. Make-up wears off… I think it’s absolutely mandatory to wake up every morning, and before grabbing my phone, I spend a few minutes reflecting on all the people and relationships I am grateful for. Taking a step outside and grabbing some fresh air is amazing for the mind. I do this at night before falling asleep as well. It sets the tone for the day and a peaceful, sleepy night.
I absolutely love simplicity when it comes to beauty. I use just a few products as part of my ritual.
Eyeshadow Too Faced born this way eye shadow palette
Moisturizers Laura Mercier, IT cosmetics cc cream, plus SPF. Another line of product I absolutely love is the Ayurveda experience. I love the kesaradi face oil moisturizer.
Pencil Brown pencil from Givenchy and also Chanel eyeliner pen.
Powder Givenchy powder prisme Contouring Anastasia from the Beverly Hills palette. I use Fenty beauty’s cream for adding color to my cheeks
I do light yoga twice a week and walk an average of 2/3 miles a day. At least once a week, I reflect on all the people who bring me joy in my life and eliminate those who have entered who make me feel less confident. This is an exercise that must be done. It’s a weekly spring cleaning of some sort!
Mascara Sephora brand of mascara “size up.” Lips When it comes to lips, I use Sephora lip blush. It’s incredible, and I use it on my cheeks sometimes too. My signature red lips are a mixture of a Chanel red lip pencil, NARS “please don’t stop,” and also a red gloss from Dollface beauty.
At 38, defining beauty is now simple. It’s all about doing what makes you feel good, from eating well, exercising to treating yourself to your favorite slice of cake or a new lippy. Do what makes you feel good! And above all, have a kind heart! That’s true beauty in my eyes. In 2017, Irish-born makeup artist and designer Kerry Harvey made a career shift from a full-time award-winning business owner of ten years to work with Global Fashion Retailer Primark, based in their head office, Dublin, Ireland. In a fast-paced industry, she now shares her expertise as Lead Coordinator on Homeware and Health and Beauty. ‘My day-to-day is jam-packed, and so getting out of the city is a must in my spare time. Hailing from Donegal, a beautiful county on Ireland’s North West Atlantic Coast, I’m a true country girl at heart. We’re surrounded by fantastic seafood and scenery in Ireland. Eating out, long hill walks wrapped up warm, and finishing the day with a nice glass of wine by the fire, is a perfect day off for me! I love getting out to breathe that fresh coastal air.
Although I’m no longer involved full-time in beauty, I like to post my beauty tips for girls in their 30s/40s on my Instagram! I love sharing my 14 odd years of beauty experience. My absolute favorite thing to do daily is cleansing my skin! Washing the day away, the ritual of cleansing, and getting a little ‘me time’ leaves me feeling relaxed and happy!
Lina Meca Gutierrez I live in Palma de Mallorca, Balearic Islands, Spain, and work as a civil servant at the University of the Balearic Islands. Among my hobbies, I would like to remark that I enjoy cooking, going to the gym, shopping, and going for walks. The beauty ritual I love is to moisturize my skin. To me, beauty means feeling great about yourself and being happy and confident with who you are.
LOVING YOURSELF NEW BEGINNINGS
t’s February, and love is in the air, my friends. Prepare to be inundated by heart-shaped everything this month as Valentine’s Day approaches, and people declare their love and appreciation for those they care about the most. We will openly be declaring our love for food, people, pets, places, and things without hesitation. With all this love being so candidly and generously dished out, the love that is most often forgotten is self-love. And sadly, most of us don’t even fully appreciate the concept. Self-love and self-care do not necessarily mean a trip to the spa or a new pair of shoes, nor does it equate to vanity and conceitedness. Self-love falls into the same basket as self-awareness, self-appreciation, and positive affirmation. We can hear it every time we get on an airplane. “In case of a cabin pressure emergency, put on your own mask first before assisting others.” A simple concept, yet often we metaphorically go on assisting others with their oxygen supply, giving little thought to our own risk or preservation. It can seem counterintuitive, but taking care of yourself first has the knock-on benefit of leaving you with more energy, a more positive outlook, and, ultimately, allowing you to be more present with others. This February, take some time to think about how you can nurture yourself for a change. Consider adopting some self-nourishing practices that will allow you to shift your habits and mindset, fostering spiritual, emotional, and psychological growth. Reflecting on what you need for yourself, you should consider both physical and mental practices that you can incorporate into your self-care routine. Your internal dialogue and attitude toward yourself matter and can affect every facet of your life. Thoughts and emotions are mercurial in nature, so make the choice to embrace the ones that make you feel happy, healthy, and proud, and dismiss the ones that don’t. Similarly, you should set aside the time for activities that bring you joy and add value to your life. You do not have to reinvent the wheel. Here are a few proven products and practices I’ve started incorporating into my self-care routine: CLEANSE + RESET. Replacing bad habits with good: I’ve been replacing my morning coffee and nightly glass of wine with Organifi superfood juices and Equitea tea blends, and I feel incredible. No more sluggish mornings! I also invested in a portable sauna, and it’s a game-
changer. It forces me to slow down and feels incredibly healing and nurturing. GET INTO NATURE. Exercising in nature as much as possible. Being outdoors and breathing in fresh air shifts my entire mindset. I absolutely love hiking! Nature calms my spirit and allows me to relax into the present moment, which is usually when I am at my most creative. CALGON, TAKE ME AWAY. A warm candle-lit bath with added Lavender oil + Epson salts is my number one go-to when I need to decompress or relieve stress and anxiety; I love Dr.Teal’s bath products. This is also my favorite time to listen to an inspirational podcast, meditation, or audiobook. I highly recommend Kris Carr’s Self-Care for Busy People meditation album and all of the books offered at The School of Life. ROUTINE FOR OPTIMAL RELAXATION AND SLEEP. One of my goals this year is to optimize my sleep routine. Getting 8 (or at the very least 6) hours of solid sleep each night makes a world of difference to both your physical and mental energy levels. I am a night owl by nature, and that doesn’t work in normal society. I recently came across a podcast about optimizing sleep with Author Tim Farris and Dr. Andrew Huberman, who outline some great sleep routine tips. Dr Andrew Huberman, a tenured professor of neurobiology and ophthalmology at Stanford, has also released a tool kit for sleep which I have been implementing to help me relax and unwind. And if you’re as committed to getting a good night’s sleep as I am, another great resource is this podcast by Dr. Matt Walker, Professor of Neuroscience and Psychology; who is also the Founder & Director of the Center for Human Sleep Science at the University of California, Berkeley. Self-love is the nourishment that allows you to grow and pay it forward in the love and care you give to others. So hopefully this February you will be inspired to love yourself a little more.
Josie Bissett | @josiebissett
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Misha N. Granado, MPH, MS Misha N. Granado, MPH, MS is the founder and Certified Relationship Therapist for Love Grows: The Relationship Consultants, a boutique firm in Houston, Texas, specializing in cultivating and nurturing healthy relationships. linktr.ee/ lovegrows_misha
adore the energy that accompanies new beginnings, for it provides the space to create something new. Although we are in a new year, month, and season; the beauty is when it comes to love, you can create something new at any moment. I view relationships similar to a garden. Have you experienced a lush garden before? Let’s close our eyes and imagine a beautiful outdoor space with vibrant, diverse flowers and greenery. Moving water whether it is a gorgeous fountain or a running stream. Comfortable, soft seating options where you and your loved ones can
lounge and relax. Perhaps there are cabanas with crisp white linens gently blowing in the cool breeze. Subtle aromatherapy tickles your nose while the sun shines bright yet the trees provide ample shade. The birds are chirping or maybe the lush garden in your mind is near the sea, which provides a beautiful soundtrack as the waves ebb and flow. Feel that? The calm and relaxation felt at the thought of such a place? Now imagine if your relationships could feel this way. They can, when you become intentional and present in our relationships.
5 Steps to Grow Love: 1. Self Awareness: Are there beliefs and behaviors that are no longer serving you or no longer aligned with the vision you have for your life and relationships? Therapy is a way to discover more about you by identifying your growing areas (healing) and areas where you are blooming. The more you know about self, the more you can fully and authentically show up in your relationships. 2. Boundaries: When we do not have boundaries, we tend to take on more than we can manage and as a result resentment seeps into our relationships. Establishing boundaries are a wonderful way to honor self, others, and the relationship.
3. Active Listening: Be fully present when in the company of another. Put away the gadgets and fully immerse yourself in the moment. Listen, without interrupting, judgment or trying to fix something. 4. Practice gratitude daily: We tend to give thanks for the ‘big ticket items’ but when you begin to practice gratitude for the things that many take for granted, such as your breath, heartbeat, the gift of a new day, etc. it shifts your perspective significantly. This shift opens the door to more love. 5. Vulnerability: Trust is required for vulnerability and healthy relationships are emotionally safe places where people can be vulnerable.
It’s All About You This Valentine’s Day! Cheers to a brand new year when we get a chance to start fresh again! We all get caught up in our daily routines with family, work and commitments and tend to neglect ourselves in the process. This is the perfect time to hit the refresh button and start taking care of YOU! Instead of overwhelming yourself with strict New Year’s resolutions, go easy on yourself this year. Start off by making the decision to be the best version of YOU. Don’t compare yourself to others. That’s a recipe for disaster. Focus on your own strengths, your unique gifts and shoot for becoming your beautiful, authentic self. Take time out to enjoy the simple pleasures in life and discover what brings you joy.
1. Learn something new. 2. Visit a local tourist spot and enjoy your immediate surroundings. 3. Pamper yourself. 4. Buy fresh flowers. 5. Start a gratitude journal. 6. Create new healthy habits and do them for 28 days until they become routine. 7. Be creative. Paint. Color. Dance. 8. Help a stranger. 9. Spend time with friends and family you enjoy being around. 10. Pursue your goals in small steps and enjoy your very own journey. With each new year comes a new opportunity to better ourselves. We have chosen 12 products to help get you started.
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CONNECTION www.levelconnections.com | @april_beyer
s the CEO & Founder of Level
and relationship coach early in her career
Connections, April Beyer knows
because she recognized the need for
about love connections. Her
personal growth and guidance in today’s
company LEVEL is a hybrid of AI and
Personal Matchmaking built to solve
modern dating problems. April started
“The work we do has led to thousands
in the matchmaking industry more than
of relationships and hundreds of
two decades ago. She became a dating
I built LEVEL Connections to bridge the
We asked April some questions about
gap between dating apps and traditional,
being a matchmaker:
personal matchmaking. I created a standardized and proven process built
Tell us about your favorite match you’ve
from my twenty years of successful
matchmaking. We match couples through
It’s so difficult to pick a favorite! Each one
my EVT™ (Emotional Value Trigger)
has been so meaningful to me. John and
interview and profile questionnaire, which
Jennifer are one of my favorite love stories.
measures ten categories of compatibility
John was a successful, well-educated,
and core values.”
handsome, divorced, single dad with three young children. He came to me asking
April shares that being a matchmaker is
for a loving partner who would accept his
equal parts: being an agent, a confidant, a
kids but not look to have more. John had
private investigator, marketer, mother, life
a vasectomy and was confident he was
coach, and best friend.
done having children. I met a woman who was 40 and looking to have a family. She
“We work with highly successful, single,
had her heart set on being a mother. They
marriage-minded men and have a private,
were the perfect match, except for the
offline network where women are invited to
very important aspect of having children. I
submit a complementary application.”
begged her to meet him even though they wanted different things. She finally agreed,
Our internal team oversees my proprietary
and they quickly fell in love. He proposed,
matchmaking algorithm and creates
and she said yes, knowing she wouldn’t
introductions when we feel a match for both
be able to have children with him but felt
parties. We match couples through our EVT™
fortunate to be a step-mom to his three
(Emotional Value Trigger) interview and
children. The day before their wedding,
profile questionnaire, which measures ten
he sat her down and told her that she had
compatibility categories and core values.
changed his life and that he wanted to get a reversal to see if they could have a baby
April and her team assist with the upfront
together. It worked! They had a baby boy
communication, date schedule, and post-
two years after their wedding date. This
date feedback to ensure the accuracy
story is a good reminder to trust and have
and ease of every connection they create.
“I love my life as a matchmaker, so I still work with a few VIP clients each year who
For our couples- what would your advice
require a personalized search and want my
be to keep the spark?
guidance and support.
We need to stay curious. Couples get
“Whether you’re single or with a partner, dating needs to be scheduled into your calendar just like anything else that’s important to you.”
comfortable and falsely believe they
attention to dating our partners.
know everything about their partners.
Whether you’re single or with a partner,
Curiosity creates connection, and when
dating needs to be scheduled into your
we have this with one another, we’re
calendar just like anything else that’s
more likely to feel sexy, romantic, and
important to you. It can’t be something
loving. Wake up every day and ask your
you simply fit into your busy life.
partner how they’re doing, how they feel about the relationship, and how
Do most people come to you after
you can make their day better.
they’ve tried online dating? Yes and no. Many of our clients haven’t
For our singles, how can they avoid the
dated online because they’re too busy or
Love Bomber? (What is love bombing
require more privacy and focus for their
and how to avoid it)
personal lives. Online dating gives the
Love bombing is when someone
illusion of endless opportunities, but the
overwhelms you with love and attention
ROI is very low. When clients come to
in a manipulative way. However, many
us after dating online, they’re grateful
people use this term loosely and can
for a more curated and thoughtful
be a way of not taking responsibility
approach but still expect the volume of
for choices. It’s all about how you pay
dating apps. This approach is frustrating
attention to the signs at the beginning
because quality and volume don’t exist
of a relationship. You can avoid love
in the same sentence.
bombing by having a solid layer of selfconfidence and an understanding of
What part does beauty and wellness
what makes you unique and loveable
play in matchmaking?
long before you start dating someone.
It plays a significant role. When a
That way, when someone comes along
woman prioritizes her physical, mental,
who expresses interest in you, you aren’t
emotional, and spiritual health, she’s
surprised, and therefore, you won’t be
naturally beautiful. That’s the woman
swept away in the attention and flattery.
who walks into a room and commands
Confidence is EVERYTHING in dating.
attention because of her presence and confidence. The way we take care of our
Whether you’re single or with a partner,
beauty and health is an example of how
how important is dating?
we care for our partners. A beautiful and
Dating is just relating. So, therefore, we
healthy woman is at the top of every
should never stop. Our relationships are
man’s wish list.
the glue of our lives, so it’s incredibly
important that we focus and pay
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Big Heart Written by Jordan Peden 64
y name is Nila Gaulden. My
will find some of the friendliest, most
mom, Julie Gaulden, and
knowledgeable people I have ever
I bought The Blue Giraffe
had the privilege of working with. We
together at the beginning of 2020. Julie
emphasize kindness and joy in our
has her master’s in nursing and 30 years
workplace and I think it really shows.
of nursing experience, and I am an
My mom and I have had a lot of fun
esthetician and have my BA in English.
breathing life back into this place and
We are both passionate about kindness
carefully choosing every little detail to
in the workplace, healthy work-life
relax and delight our clients.
balance, and taking a greener approach to the wellness and beauty industry.
I grew up in Yreka, CA, a small town near the California-Oregon border. It had
The Blue Giraffe has been in business
very little in the way of resources, so we
for 20 years. It is a funky, exotic spa
often came to Medford and Ashland
and salon tucked in an oft-overlooked
for essentials. To me, Ashland has
corner on Water Street. With Beasey’s
always been an idyllic hub of amazing
on the Creek a floor above us and
food, exciting culture, and small-town
the beautiful Ashland Creek flowing
charm. A truly caring community, it is
through our grounds, The Blue Giraffe
not uncommon for Ashlandians to band
is an unexpected oasis. Inside, you
together to support someone in need,
or to celebrate successes. Nestled away
we have been there. We’ve been part of
in the beautiful mountains and forests,
the grind, and we’ve felt the weight of
Ashland is a truly amazing place to be.
the world on our shoulders. It’s so easy to get sucked into crisis mode and live
There are so many hidden gems and fun
there. We see you, and we get it. We want
places for women to explore beauty and
to encourage you to keep going and let
wellness here! Off the top of my head,
things fall away. We are encouraging
I’d highly recommend Elder Apothecary.
ourselves and our staff to do less. Don’t
It is a women-owned haven of peace,
say yes to things you don’t want to do.
community, and wellness. Willow, one
Don’t take responsibility for other people’s
of the owners, is an amazing herbalist.
feelings or traumas, even if they push
She is very knowledgeable and so
them on you. You shine most brightly
accommodating. They hold classes
when you find joy in the little things and
in the evenings and have so many
slow down. Just remember, you can’t
community activities. An absolute must
pour from an empty cup.
to experience. Dobra Tea is another. It’s a great place for a healthy bite to eat.
You can find The Blue Giraffe at:
It’s a short walk from The Blue Giraffe
and offers great tea and tasty food. If
it’s a relaxing day of self-care with the
girls you’re after, I’d recommend Chozu bathhouse. They offer group soaks, private tubs, massages, and beautiful cocktails. You’ll definitely leave with lighter shoulders. My mom and I both believe that your beauty is not defined by what you are on the outside or what has happened to you, but how you treat others and what you choose to do with what you’ve been given. I feel most beautiful when I do something kind for someone without expecting anything in return. I think we just want people to know that
My name is Julie Mitchell, and my family
do the math, you will see I’m almost 40!).
and I live in the small, Amish country town
My husband and I have always wanted to
of Ashland, Ohio. We own a store in our
own a store, but we always said “maybe
little downtown called Fig and Oak. We
someday” as we became young parents,
are a unique gift/home decor boutique,
and life became very busy for us for a while
and every purchase at our store gives
with our two boys. “Someday” came once
back in some way to various charities and
our kiddos were older and could help us
make our dream become a reality. We knew from the very start we wanted to
I met my husband when I was 17, and we
have something unique and something
were married by the time I was 18. We have
that would somehow give back to support
now been married for 21 years (yes, if you
charities as my Dad had recently been
diagnosed with Parkinson’s. That is how Fig and Oak: Shop with Purpose was created. Ashland is small but mighty! Our community is passionate about supporting one another however they can. Our downtown is making an awesome comeback by rehabilitating old buildings and opening new shops and restaurants. It is booming downtown, and the excitement and support of the community is just wonderful! We have a wonderful state park nearby and a fabulous yoga and wellness studio just right down the street from our shop. Nearly every day, we have someone thanking us for being there or telling us stories of how they remember downtown being like this when they were young and how excited they are that it is coming back to life. We have customers from larger cities that come to Ashland
Prevention, and our bars of soap give back
because they love it so much. It truly is
to clean water efforts. When we all do
a little, it ends up being a whole lot! We are always completely amazed when
Our little boutique is mostly gifts and
we run our reports and see the difference
home decor, but we try to have a little
made from our customers’ choices while
something for everyone. We have a
shopping with us and with intention.
wonderful baby and toy section for the
littles, a Gentlemen’s Corner sure to
I feel when you are the best version of
please the men in your life, and home
yourself that you can be, when you are
decor and gifts that are unique and
radiating love and kindness and self-love,
different that you won’t find just anywhere.
that is when beauty shines. Nothing is
Every purchase made at Fig and Oak
more beautiful than kindness, especially
will give back to a charity or cause. For
when you give it to yourself! I feel most
example, our candles give back to Suicide
beautiful when I allow myself time to take
care of myself and when I am surrounded by
coffee date with a close friend or postpone
others who love me exactly as I am- flaws
a not-so-important meeting to take a walk
and all, perfectly imperfect.
in the woods. If you don’t make that time for yourself, you won’t be able to give your best
A close friend of mine who was diagnosed
to those you love.
with ALS once told me, “Julie, never be too busy that you don’t take the time to take
You can find Fig and Oak at:
care of yourself.” I’ve tried to hold true to
this promise, whether it means I have to
Facebook and Instagram: @figandoakshop
put off work for tomorrow to have a special
It’s Time for a
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Strength & Resilience
AM B ER S H AW : FI N D I N G
FOOD FREEDOM 72
started dieting at 15 and made it
Not sure where to start? Amber provides
pretty much my full-time job until
three simple things that you can start
around the age of 40 - until I said
1. Start eating more REAL food. The
enough is enough, and I learned a better simple tweak of eating less food in a box I learned that the true secret to sane and
or a package is a considerable dial mover
sustainable weight loss is not about the
towards your goals.
latest fad or restrictive diet. It is all about building a lifestyle of primarily healthy
2. Start paying attention to added sugar
choices and allowing yourself the things
in your diet. I am not talking about natural
you love in moderation.
sugars like fruit. I specifically refer to “hidden sugars” that fly under the radar
It’s about staying consistent over being
found in things like salad dressings, bread,
condiments, and other “healthy” foods like granola bars.
Amber Shaw is a Body Transformation Expert who has coached thousands of
3. Stop being so restrictive and learn
women 40+ from all across the world
to release the mindset that indulging
to get off the crazy train of dieting and
in your favorite burger or piece of cake
find true food freedom so they can
occasionally will derail you. When you
feel empowered, confident, and sexy.
make nutritious choices 80-85% of the
As a Nationally Board Certified Health
time – those treats will not matter at
and Wellness Coach and a Certified
all. In fact, they will most likely keep you
Personal Trainer, Amber is committed
progressing towards your goals because
to overhauling the diet culture, giving
you are not being so restrictive, which
women the support and accountability
will allow you to be more consistent.
they need to change their lives. Her
Consistency is the key to lasting results.
mission is to help millions of women worldwide heal their relationship with food and themselves while empowering them to transform their lives, love their bodies, and create lasting results.
Tik Tok & Instagram: @msambershaw Website: www.ambershaw.com Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/ us/podcast/the-wellness-revolutionpodcast-with-amber-shaw/id1577282350
fter suffering from major burnout
self. Which for many can sound selfish.
caused by trying to make my
But, truthfully, without self-prioritization
“side hustle” my main hustle
we have nothing left to give. And, we are
while also working full-time, I realized
all here for a purpose. Teaching women
I needed to make a big change. I was 6
how to create a schedule that has their
weeks out from marrying my best friend
priorities in first, learning how to say
so the decision to make the leap was
“no” and truly be it till they see it has
scary, but ultimately it was the start of
become my mission.
having a life that allowed me to support and inspire others to do the same- Do
It started with Pilates. Pilates became
more of what they love!
the touchstone for me to prioritize myself. And then my curiosity in human
I had to ditch perfection, take messy
behavior, how we create habits and
action, and do “it” scared! Those three
routines, showed me that we do more of
phrases have become my mantras for
what makes us feel good! It’s beautiful
when I see women feeling good about themselves and what they do. Even
What I realized is my burnout and
the smallest things. Which is so hard.
overworking wasn’t something only I
We tend to think if something is “big
was experiencing. I saw women all over
enough” it’s not worth doing.
the world doing too much, doing more, working harder and trying to “balance
It’s beyond beautiful when you take
it all.” Which was leaving them, and
time for you first, even 5 minutes. It’s
me, burnout, exhausted, and massive
beautiful when you say “I can’t do that
right now but I could do it on ___ date.” It’s gorgeous when you enforce the
I now see that beauty, strength, and
boundaries that allow you to show up
success all come from prioritization of
fully in everything you do.
Lesley Logan, a certified Pilates teacher, habits and mindset coach, is the founder of OnlinePilatesClasses.com and host of Be It Till You See It podcast. Teaching Pilates since 2008, she has run multiple studios, trained hundreds of teachers and taught thousands of students around the world. When not teaching or recording she is leading retreats around the world.
L ES L EY LO G AN: D O M O RE O F
WHAT YOU LOVE
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LIWELI CBD Written By Kellie Galvin
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of CBD. Chondita, with her natural medicine background and looking for ways to relieve her aches and pains, was naturally curious to know more. Part of her research was to test existing CBD products, and Chondita stepped up to the challenge! She tried 30 different CBD tinctures packaged haphazardly and had all different colors, tastes, and effects. Through her experience and knowledge, she knew the first task was to direct a supply chain organization that created only high-quality CBD. The end goal was to create a high-quality product for someone like herself, a dedicated, busy parent trying to do it all. All of Liweli’s products are tested and lab certified. They are made for people with on-the-go lives who want less stress and more focus, without side effects T.H.C., or (tetrahydrocannabinol, or the chemical responsible for most of marijuana’s psychological effects). The Liweli product is very safe and easy to use, and organically grown in the U.S.A. Chondita Dayon, owner of Liweli, owns the entire process, from farm network to formulation. It is currently being sold online at: www.liweli.com and soon to be sold in retail outlets.
The Nurse Is In
Here are Nurse Noel’s daily eight easy steps to a happier and healthier life:
N utrition E xercise W ater S unshine T emperance A ir R est T ime - It’s a New Year! Nutrition Eat to live, not live to eat. It is a struggle, but I am begging you to see food as fuel. It helped me not to overeat and really be cognizant of what I put into my body. Focus on a diet low in sugar, high fiber, low sodium and fat. Whole grains, fruit, and vegetables are also great for the vital organs. Exercise Who besides me starts off the year with a bang in the gym consistently but fizzles out by March? Am I the only one? Slow and steady is the most beneficial. Go at your own pace and remember, safety first. Water How much water does the body require? It is not a trick question, but there is a formula to it. Take your weight in pounds and divide it by 2. That number is the amount of ounces of water your body requires daily. Ex. 160lbs /2 = 80oz. (10 glasses)
ANTH E A N O EL
“NURSE NOEL” RN BSN MS SANE
Anthea “Nurse Noel” Noel has comforted and placed smiles on the faces of her patients and their families for over 20 years as a Professional Registered Nurse. As a writer for over 22 years in the entertainment industry in the metropolitan NYC area, she has successfully entertained through television, music, and the big screen. She merged her two loves of health and entertainment, coining the phrase “Health Entertainment,” and Nurse Noel was born. She recently penned a book, Help Me to Help You While I Help Myself in the Process, where she continues to spread the message of health and wellness to the masses. Nurse Noel is determined to help those in need with the goal of making this world healthier and happier one person at a time.
Sunshine Sunlight triggers your brain to release serotonin, also known as the happy hormone. Serotonin is responsible for feelings of happiness and joy. Temperance Everything in moderation. It’s important to learn to show restraint for the things that are not serving you. Air Fresh air improves blood pressure, boosts the immune system, and aids in the effective digestion of food. Rest Are you getting eight or more hours of sleep a night? Adequate sleep is critical for optimal health. Sleep boosts the immune system, prevents weight gain, and strengthens the heart. Time Take time for you. Many times that is a difficult thing to do, but it is important that we take time for self-care.
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or the past 3 decades, she’s been
can follow Tamilee www.tamileewebb.
helping women look and feel their
com to gain access to her on demand
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award winning workouts.
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are at some point in your life you have
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Most Trusted Fitness Instructor, best
known for as the star of the famous
2. Step-up Fitness
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Tamilee Webb has always taken a no-nonsense approach to mind, body, health and fitness which is what keeps workout enthusiasts coming back. While her original videos still stand the test of time, in 2018 Tamilee launched WEBBWORKOUTS.COM, a monthly subscription and design the workout you want for yourself program. Each month new workouts are added where you can choose the length of time and the body part. It also includes a monthly calendar, daily messages, tips, and unlimited access. Tamilee believes that fitness happens from the inside out. Her advice is to find an exercise that’s right for you. Tamilee continues to mentor, manage, and produce for other fitness professions and Influencers. When home in Cardiff, California, she instructs group classes and personal training for her clients. You
The Ergonomic Zoom Boom
HUMANSCALE Humanscale is the first company to offer products that are certified as climate positive, meaning they leave the world measurably better off by offsetting the negative environmental impacts of manufacturing. For example, they created an ergonomic chair with two pounds of recycled fishing nets used in its molded construction. Also, their designs have been made to be lighter in weight at about 30 pounds. Humanscale’s suite of ergonomic offerings includes award-winning seating with selfadjusting task chairs, sit/stand desks that promote movement, smart task lighting, flexible monitor arms, and tech solutions to keep clutter under control while enhancing connectivity.
Written By Kellie Galvin
rgonomics is defined as the study of how people work in their environment. Sadly, people don’t think about their work environment until they feel physical discomforts such as back and neck pain. In 2020 about 85 million people moved their workspace into their homes overnight. How many of you reading this article can relate to the challenge of setting up your optimum workspace for working 8 hours in front of your computer? It goes without saying that spending hours working from your couch, the kitchen island, or other areas that aren’t optimized for your comfort might not be the most productive thing to do. Jonathan Puleio, Global Vice President of Humanscale Consulting, discusses how the quality of our indoor environment is closely related to productivity and satisfaction at work. Humanscale is focused on the science of designing equipment, especially to reduce operator fatigue, discomfort, and injury. They provide principles like function, simplicity, longevity, and aesthetic design as necessary for creating the ideal home/ work environment. Stand Up, Sit Down? Jonathan had interesting comments about the stand-up desk and sitting desk. Stand-up desks are trendy, and there’s an incredible amount of research; standing desks have legitimate health benefits. The challenge is getting people to use them properly, as standing for eight hours is not healthy and can take a toll on circulatory risk and degeneration of spinal disks. This challenge also relates to the misconception that people need to sit up straight, and when you think about sitting up straight, you must force your body in an unnatural
position. The best advice is to use the back of your chair that supports the natural shape of your spine. The best combination is standing for 15 minutes to 45 minutes sitting or putting yourself in a position where you’re in constant movement. Jonathan advises taking a micro break every hour to get your blood circulating. How is Humanscale different? Humanscale was able to pivot its business focus to the home-based office. In doing so, they produced a software platform that uses an online scheduling portal to schedule an appointment.
The software includes Ergo IQ to self-assess your workspace, uses E-learning program, And A.I. software to transform traditional offices into active, intelligent workspaces; this includes home evaluations to assess their work environment. This brilliant idea reduces the analysis paralysis of freezing online trying to purchase the best option for your workspace. You fill out a few questions, take a couple of photos of your current workstation and meet with a consultant that can help you take the best step in investing in your healthy workspace.
The Compliment Challenge Michelle Emmick & Dr. Beverly Pedroche
bet you can remember a genuine compliment someone gave you. That out of the blue and very specific compliment. A sentiment that made the corners of your mouth turn upward and your eyes squint and sparkle as you nodded and gave them a thank you. It felt good, right? Most of us appreciate when someone recognizes something in us. Maybe it was for your kindness, effort or your beauty. Whatever the trait, those words stuck with you because it created a feel-good emotion. It hit the sweet spot and permeated your unconscious mind. Thoughtful words can create a powerful bond between people. It can create friendships, connections and can be an easy way to break the ice with someone. So, when was the last time you went out of your way to give someone praise? It’s easy to become inwardly focused and often hyper focused that we can miss the moments of seeing others and their positive impacts. Wouldn’t it be great to take the focus off ourselves and open our eyes to the all the beauty all around us? Psychology tells us that words make an impact us, so what if we use our power for the good of others. It costs you absolutely nothing and I’m pretty sure your kind words, will give you all the feels in return. So, let’s start pumping out the positivity, shall we? According to Clinical Psychologist Dr. Beverly Pedroche, people seek psychotherapy because they want to feel good…or, at minimum, to feel less bad. Compliments are one of the small actions that you can take that helps two people feel good with one action. Talk about
efficient! How does this two-for-one deal work? When you pay someone a sincere and specific compliment, the recipient benefits from hearing that you noticed something praiseworthy about them. They experience warmfuzzy feelings. YAY! But then there’s a positive boomerang effect. You deliver this morsel of positivity and those effects bounce back onto you. Warm-fuzzies everywhere (without the mess). A cool thing that is happening “behind the mental scenes” when you’re making proactive efforts to notice praise-worthy traits to compliment about others is what’s called attention training. Attention training is often used in the treatment of anxiety to help people better control their worrisome, negative thoughts. When you’re looking for something positive to compliment, your thoughts are focused on just that, the positive. Positive thoughts contribute to positive feelings. So, go out there and be a treasure hunter of positivity gems! Behavioral activation is a common Cognitive Behavioral Therapy technique that is used primarily in the treatment of depression. Behavioral activation is an evidenced-based, structured, and individualized treatment that, in part, focuses on engaging in positive activities to boost mood. This concept of “doing something positive to feel positive emotions” can be used by all of us. And one of the most simple positive actions one can take is paying compliments. Hence the 30 day compliment challenge!
Challenge Accepted! Our Compliments to: Leigha Jones Tricia Matison-Rennells Andrea Flynn Krysta Lee Kelley Bacalles Lindsay Batrowney Dena Sciacchitano Tricia Cronk Rachel Brooks Stephanie Lafler Shelly Good Dara Peyton Tia Molina Linton Audrey Levy Alane Martens Kristin Grennan Keary Miller Adriana Oliver
Take The Compliment Challenge Here’s the challenge, for the next 30 days try giving out an authentic and genuine compliment every day to at least one person. You can start with people you know and value and deliver them some heartfelt meaningful words. All you need to do is acknowledge something unique and special about someone and let them know. That’s easy! Once you’ve conquered your circle, try moving all that positivity to n acquaintance or even a stranger.
And for those that have trouble accepting a compliment, I have another challenge for you. Learn to smile accept and say thank you. Think about the fact that someone went out of their way to recognize something special about you so take it and integrate it. You owe it to yourself! What is the best compliment that you have ever received?
Saying YES... WITH ARI ZUCKER
Aloha Friends, I am so grateful to be contributing to Ask Us Beauty. It’s a gift to share our secrets for each other and I hope that by sharing some insight into my life, my coaching business and coaching tips, you will be inspired to conquer anything you put your mind to. I want to focus this moment on your belief system and saying “yes” to committing to yourself. It’s about understanding what these two philosophies mean and how to start to embody them. Getting real with yourself and recognizing where you are in your life right now is the hardest part. What that means is you are listening, and you desire to take some steps forward to making a shift in your life. You are on the cusp of “learning a new dance” and are realizing the need for a redo or a reset, a reboot. Being ready takes courage, commitment and communication. You have to want to do the work. My first suggestion is to really think about one thing in your life that you really want to immediately change. You
things that you honestly want to shift in your life. Really take the time to write down at least 5 things. Once you have done that, let’s prioritize. Rewrite them in order of importance. Take a deep breath. Start to write down why you have this habit or issue. Be as truthful as you can with yourself. The more you write, the easier it is to start the shift. It’s okay if this takes you a few hours or a few days. Sometimes you have to get up and walk around to really discover the details. Once you have your list, ask yourself, “How can I shift my old habit? What is one thing I can do to stop myself from making the same choices?” Work with this during the next few weeks. What you will start to discover is your new belief system- the way you want to live today and moving forward. It could seem easy in the beginning and then get hard again. That’s normal. Stay with it. This will get you on the right track if you keep the commitment to yourself. Just remember, say “Yes” to a better you! Ari Zucker Positivity Advocate Coach Www.AlohaLifeCoaching.com
may have more than one. In fact, I know you have more than one. If you are not sure yet, let’s get specific. Grab a pen and a piece of paper and write a list of NEW BEGINNINGS
t is with sincere excitement that I
feelings of depression and just feeling
begin my contributorship with ASK
exhausted all the time forced me to take
US BEAUTY Magazine. I often say
responsibly of my health. I was not going
that we only get one life, so let’s make
to settle for this as just getting older; I
it a masterpiece. I take this statement
chose to figure it out.
to heart and have been working out my own reshape for several years now. I’ve
My health reshape started with a visit
focused on the shape of my heart, soul,
to a natural based doctor. They ordered
mind, and health because, afterall, they
a comprehensive blood panel that
are all connected. I believe it’s never too
provided insight into what was creating
late to reshape an area of your life that is
these health challenges. It gave me a
no longer serving you.
road map on how to naturally improve my overall wellness. This journey to
As we kick off 2022, let’s focus on our
regain my health and find answers was
health. A few years back, I was co-
the catalyst to launching my RE/SHAPE
hosting a live morning talk show. I was
Lifestyle platform for women where I
up at 5am, live at 8am, and finished by
share all the resources that have helped
11am. Initially, I thought this would be
me in hopes to pay it forward.
my ideal schedule - up early for work and finish in time to get home to take
It all starts with creating a personalized
care of family responsibilities, work out,
wellness and lifestyle plan. Once
and prepare for the arrival of my kids
I learned the factors that were
and husband. Let me tell you, this dream
contributing to my health problems and
schedule lasted for about 2 weeks. The
made the necessary changes, I felt like I
minute I returned home, I was crawling
truly got my life back.
back into bed and sleeping until my kids ran through the door. It took every ounce
Here’s to a year of extraordinary health,
I had to stay engaged and attentive to
you are worth it!
my own family. For my personal resources go to: I was already feeling a bit overwhelmed
before this new job, but this schedule
sent me over the edge. Brain fog on top of thinning hair, poor digestion, sleepless nights, low sex drive, occasional
RE/SHAPE with Ali Landry NEW BEGINNINGS
Baring it All Written by Michelle Emmick
arbara Majeski has been up in the club, performed at the club, and earned top billing at the club. Oh, and she’s baring it all! At 48, she’s found success as a Lifestyle and Entertainment Expert, a podcaster, and she is taking over the social networking app Clubhouse, a drop-in audio app where you can jump into conversations and connect with people that you would likely never have access to. “What’s great is that you can wander into a room and hear well-known voices and spaces. It’s such an interesting platform because it’s not one-on-one; it’s a podcast where you can be an engaged participant or just be a listener.” Barbara shares that what she loves most about Clubhouse is that it’s threedimensional. “On Instagram, you see me. On television, you see and hear me. On Clubhouse, you get to KNOW me. It’s a great give and take. People get to know me, and I get to know them. Clubhouse has allowed me to open up and be transparent. I share my story, and I can help others in their selfdevelopment and personal growth.” Barbara’s journey has been about baring it all, and she believes transparency and authenticity have given her a superpower. This jersey girl tags the line ‘grit behind the glamour’ because she’s
lived it. “I put myself through college, waited tables, been a door-to-door salesgirl in my ‘20s, and helped scale sales teams across the United States.” Barbara Majeski is self-made, and that’s only the first few chapters. The next few chapters for this mother of three saw her life turned upside down in an instant. The interesting part in the story is that those flips eventually got her to her center. For many years, Barbara was living a life on the outside that, to others, looked perfect. “I put so much into being a wife, mother, part of the community. I showed up and gave my best. I was such a contortionist in my marriage. I worked for 13 years to make him and others happy because I wanted to be accepted and loved. When the marriage broke, it was a feeling of being discarded.” If that wasn’t enough for someone to handle, during this same time, Barbara was diagnosed with cancer. Barbara shares, however, that what started as a complete breakdown actually became her breakthrough. “I lived my life in self-doubt and issues with self-esteem. I never felt good enough and was always a peoplepleaser. I was so broken, and on top of that, had to face mortality.”
“The conversation you have with yourself is the most important conversation you will have every day, but if you’re not in control of that narrative, you’re going to continue to struggle out of control.”
Barbara shared a personal story in which she had a random encounter with a stranger one night that opened her eyes to see herself for what she really was, a beautiful badass. “This encounter got my dial moving, and I started to take stock of who I was. I worked on myself, and I also beat cancer. Life is short, and I was ready to live my best life. I knew that coming through the other side, I had a voice, and I would use my voice to help inspire
others to live with purpose.” To take that leap and move on to the next chapter, Barbara had to amplify her profile. She immediately hired a media trainer, made her first stop at the Today show, and from there, a star was born! Today Barbara is continuing to use her strong voice to help others. She is writing her book and does public speaking. When conducting her Masterclasses, she always starts by saying, “The conversation you have with yourself is
the most important conversation you will have every day, but if you’re not in control of that narrative, you’re going to continue to struggle out of control. Take stock, find what’s not serving you, and replace new talk or even a new story.”
Barbara continues to bare it all in the club, with several others to see where their relations can evolve. “I’ve found this amazing platform where I can dive into real conversations, and I’m going to continue my mission of sharing my story to help others with theirs.”
“Life is short, and I was ready to live my best life. I knew that coming through the other side, I had a voice, and I would use my voice to help inspire others to live with purpose.”
The Beauty Couch Empowering Through Psychotherapy e all know an empowered woman
confident. Psychotherapy can help you
when we see one. She confident
identify and build on your strengths, core
and kind, ambitious and assertive. She is
beliefs, and value systems and use these
giving but knows her limits. She stands up
assets to be successful.
for what she believes in and advocates for others. She’s a freaking unicorn! Or is
Empowered women have coping skills
she? If you’re interested in becoming more
to deal with adversities. They are not
empowered, psychotherapy can help.
insulated from problems but have the tools to manage them. Psychotherapy can
Empowered women are assertive.
teach you coping skills to manage stress,
Psychotherapy can teach you how to set
depression, and anxiety. You can learn
boundaries, say no unapologetically, and
decision-making skills and techniques to
make and refuse requests confidently.
Empowered women prioritize self-care.
Empowered women are aware of the
Psychotherapy can help identify your
power of their thoughts; they keep things
unique needs (bubble baths aren’t for
in perspective. Cognitive Behavioral
everyone) and take steps to get those
Therapy teaches you to identify errors in
needs met to prevent burnout, increase
your thinking (errors that cause emotional
efficiency, and improve mental health.
distress and prevent you from reaching your full potential) and techniques
Empowered women are self-aware.
to correct these errors. Empowered
Psychotherapy will guide you through the
women see failure as part of success,
process of exploring your thoughts and
challenge as opportunities to grow. They
behaviors in order to develop insight. Self-
recognize irrational thinking, such as
awareness is necessary to discovering
catastrophizing, as unlikely or inaccurate.
your purpose, living authentically, and
understanding why you do what you do
Empowered women are kind to
and, therefore, how to make changes.
themselves, in thoughts and actions.
Empowered women are capable and
Psychotherapy teaches you that you can
be kind and driven at the same time. You’ll learn to recognize and correct your negative self-talk and realize that you deserve the same compassion that you give others. Empowered women empower women. They know that empowerment happens on an individual level and collectively. Psychotherapy helps you develop confidence and a willingness to be vulnerable so that you don’t seek to compete or compare but, instead, lift up other women. Yes, empowered women are special but not so unique that you, too, can’t be one. Don’t let their confidence fool you. They experience pain and self-doubt, but they don’t get stuck in the suffering. They look for solutions, support, or a new direction. Start with the small step of scheduling an appointment with a therapist.
Dr. Beverly Pedroche @drpedroche NEW BEGINNINGS
Inspire Always Meet our newest Ask Us Beauty Contributor! When we first connected with Marcia for our Holiday issue we knew that she had to join our team! Marcia Agius is the founder of Inspire Always. Over many years, she has been inspired by countless amazing women. These incredible individuals prompted Marcia to create a community and a forum that highlights their strengths and struggles. This group of women support and motivate each other while spreading kindness, positivity, and giving back to the community. http://inspirealways.ca/ @_inspirealways
What Inspires Me? Monica Linda @girlsquadinc
Naomi Shapiro @rocknkarma
Favorite Quote: ‘Keep the welcome mat out for the woman you’re becoming.”
Favorite Quote: “Stress doesn’t really go with my outfit.”
All the women who wake up every day to work on their businesses. Every day. I wake up everyday because we have come so far. I am a firstgeneration college graduate and woman entrepreneur. I am a warrior. And I always want to be better than the day before because I have fought like hell to be exactly where I am.
Although my creativity and inspiration are fueled by many sources such as music, art, nature, people, one’s energy and all things colorful, I find my greatest inspiration comes from the places I’ve travelled to and aspire to travel. I truly believe in people, positive energy, and good karma.
One day at a time. One post at a time. One client at a time. Where are my fellow warriors?
Lisa Sonshine @sonshinel Favorite Quote: “The only way out is through.” What inspires me is my tribe. The people I surround myself with. They inspire me to show up honestly and authentically. My 2-year-old son inspires me to see the world through his exciting eyes.
Erin Tarr @be.the. benchmark Favorite Quote: “I choose my thoughts, to create my life, and change the world. I. AM. FIERCE.” What Inspires me: All the trailblazing women that have come before me; the amazing tween and teen girls I get to work with everyday; and most of all my own three daughters Adsen, Finley & Logan.
JEN’S PI C KS FO R TH E
ULTIMATE “NIGHT IN” As Valentine’s Day approaches and romance is in the air, here are my picks for the ultimate at home spa night—even if your date is a glass of Pinot Noir and a sultry Spotify soundtrack. After a little self care, you’ll be bringing sexy ALL the way back!
For a truly decadent at home facial, take your pick of any of the Knesko Collagen Gel Masks. The serum-infused masks use precious gemstones and minerals to activate the chakras and rejuvenate the skin. Try the eye and lip masks—or go for the ultimate indulgence with a full face mask—my favorite is the Nano Gold Repair. Add the neck/décolleté mask, pour yourself a glass of wine, throw on your silk robe, and live your best life. Knesko Collagen Gel Masks: $15-$35
If the winter weather or the summer heat has left your body feeling dry and in need of hydration, start with my favorite body scrub for baby-soft skin. The Kiehl’s Crème de Corps Soy Milk & Honey Body Polish is a game changer for dry, flaky limbs. A luxurious body polish with Shea and Jojoba butters and Sweet Almond Oil, it has a subtly sweet fragrance that lingers. I love to massage it into my skin just before I get into the shower to slough off any dry skin areas. After a quick rinse, my skin transforms from crocodile to cashmere. Kiehl’s Crème de Corps Soy Milk & Honey Body Polish: $30
Once you slip into a steamy shower, reach for the L’Occitane Almond Shower Oil. Slather it on and enjoy the experience as the decadent oil transforms into a milky lotion that washes away even the most stressful day. And if you’d prefer to soak your cares away, try their Creamy & Comforting Bubble Bath. L’Occitane Almond Shower Oil: $25-$42 L’Occitane Creamy & Comforting Bubble Bath: $39
If your dreams of a tropical island getaway seem miles away, take a quick trip in your mind with the Nars
Monoi Body Glow II body oil. The fragrance will transport you to a beach in Tahiti, as you rock the day away on a hammock and sip a cocktail from a pineapple. The lingering scent of Tahitian gardenia and coconut will have you dreaming Polynesian dreams. Nars Monoi Body Glow II body oil: $59
If a fragrant body cream is more your speed, look to Jo Malone. My favorite is the Wood Sage & Sea Salt Body Crème—a unique scent that is both cozy and invigorating, the cream is loaded with conditioning oils and leaves a whisper of the fragrance behind. For the ultimate indulgence, light the candle in the same soothing scent, and spritz on the matching cologne to keep the fragrance with you all day. Jo Malone Wood Sage & Sea Salt Body Crème: $86 Wood Sage & Sea Salt Cologne: $144 Wood Sage & Sea Salt Candle: $70
I can wax nostalgic from time to time—and I still LOVE the Advanced Fango Delicato Moisturizing Mud Mask from Borghese. The mint green color, the buttercream frostinglike texture, the subtle herbal scent, and the flip-top glass jar—and I’m transported to my younger days. I have been using this mask for DECADES and it never fails to deliver on moisturized, brighter and calmer skin.
When your hands are in need of a little TLC, start your mani off with CHANEL’s Le Lift La Crème Main hand cream. Combining Botanical Alfalfa Concentrate (a gentle ingredient as efficient as retinol) with Licorice Extract— this cushiony, subtly fragrant cream will give you hands anyone will want to hold. Finish off your manicure with the cuticle oil from CND and my favorite everyday nail color, Porchester Square, from Nails Inc—a beautiful mushroom-meets-lilac shade that is the perfect wearable nude for all skin tones. CHANEL’s Le Lift La Crème Main: $65 CND SolarOil cuticle oil: $8.50 Nails Inc Gel Effect Nail Polish in Porchester Square: $15
Borghese Advanced Fango Delicato Moisturizing Mud Mask: $50
So, whether it’s a date with your partner, a night out with your “Galentines”, or a cozy night spent home alone, treat yourself to some self care this Valentine’s Day. You deserve it!
MISSION NEW BEGINNINGS
A Mission for Success Cindy Eckert
self-made serial entrepreneur
A lot of women do not know about HSDD. Can
and vocal advocate for women,
you explain what it is?
Cindy Eckert defies convention. In
Frustrating low libido is the most common
her industry, in her companies, and in her
sexual complaint for women. In fact, it affects
outcomes, her work today in The Pinkubator
millions of us. Yet so few women have ever been
continues to break barriers by investing in and
told that there’s a name for it! The medical
mentoring other women to reach her level of
term is HSDD, or Hypoactive (low) Sexual
success. She’s on a mission to make women
Desire Disorder. HSDD has a biological basis
really rich. You cannot miss Cindy. Everything
and occurs in women who can’t turn off their
she touches turns to PINK!
“everyday brain” to prioritize their own pleasure. The great news is that there are legitimate, FDA
Over a distinguished 24-year career in
approved options to address it. My company,
healthcare, Cindy spent the last ten of
Sprout Pharmaceuticals, broke through with the
those building and selling two businesses
first and only FDA approved pill, called Addyi.
for more than $1.5 billion: first Slate
Did you know there’s a little pink pill for women?
Pharmaceuticals, which redefined long-acting
We deserve options too!
testosterone treatment for men, then Sprout Pharmaceuticals, which broke through with
You are all about uplifting and empowering
the first ever FDA-approved drug for low sexual
women. Can you tell us about The Pinkubator?
desire in women, dubbed “female Viagra” by
After building two companies, I took stock of
the media. After selling the company for $1B in
what it was that I enjoyed the most about those
2015, she successfully fought to get the drug
experiences. Here was the trifecta: First, I was
back and launched it on her own terms.
moved by witnessing firsthand the change that can come when women advocate for each
Cindy has made waves and made her own
other. Second, I knew that improving women’s
success, creating mission-driven companies
lives through innovation is what fuels me to
that deliver big. Her results have become a
jump out of bed in the morning. Finally, it was
widely covered business success story featured
clear to me that one woman’s ownership can
in major media outlets. But, she is most
create an army of women owners. Take those
proud of helping others take command. The
three things and you have The Pinkubator.
profoundly positive impact those companies have made in people’s lives is what keeps her
We identify game-changing product firsts and
coming back for more.
women leaders to mentor, invest in, and elevate to transformative outcomes. Nothing brings me
We had a few questions for the self-made
and my team more joy than doing our part to
help fix the deficit that still remains in terms of
mentorship and funding for women. What do you do to keep yourself looking and feeling great? I prioritize sex! There’s a reason Nars named their bestselling blush Orgasm, right?! Not long ago an A list actress/ singer known for defying aging confessed to me that while people always ask her about her beauty routine, what she wants to say is have more sex. Scientifically, she’s right. The release of estrogen during sex improves collagen production, hyaluronic acid, and hair growth, then the oxytocin lowers stress and the breakdown of elastin. Plus, you sleep better and improve confidence. Wait, did I just geek out? HaHa. What is the one beauty tip you learned from a loved one, and who is that person? How lucky am I that my bestie, Robin, is an aesthetician? She is my go-to for all beauty tips, but this little gem surprised me. After an unfortunate latenight self-tanning incident, my panicked call to her in the morning led to the perfect cure. Whitening toothpaste to remove self-tanner! You better believe I coated myself in some Colgate and scrubbed my way back to being able to go out in public again. How do you define beauty? Beauty is charisma, intelligence, confidence, and having a sense of purpose. I realize that these are all elements of inner beauty, but to me, that’s the most important beauty.
Written By Kellie Galvin
M ARYA N N GU ERRA: A WO MAN O N A
BEAUTIFUL MISSION Founder & Chief Executive Officer, Aesthetics Biomedical®
aryAnn Guerra’s diverse and impressive career has focused on progressive health, science, technology, and start-ups. Her passion has brought technology to market, accelerated innovation from the lab into commercial businesses, and provided an incomparable consumer experience, making an impact on healthy aging for men and women all over the world. As the founder of Aesthetics Biomedical®, MaryAnn is soft-spoken but mighty. Her passion and grit allowed her to navigate the
red tape to design experiences backed by science and data to create optimal outcomes for her physician network and consumers. MaryAnn is respectfully known for creating novel programs to accelerate technology transfer from the lab into new business opportunities. She served as President of TGen Accelerators, LLC. and had an impressive career at the National Institutes of Health (NIH), where she held various senior-level positions. Her experience with NIH
provided her with a foundation to share high-level knowledge when it came to FDA regulations and clinical studies. MaryAnn worked with BioAccel, a non-profit organization that served as an incubator for investing in medical technology. While at BioAccel, she discovered a potential gem in medical aesthetics where she used her experience to streamline the proper studies to the FDA for approval successfully. Her investor and high-level advisors encouraged her to take the next step with this amazing technology and introduce it to the medical aesthetic market as CEO of her own company. MaryAnn had an opportunity in her life to leave behind health science and pivot to medical aesthetic technology. She discussed this opportunity with a friend who was the head of a major insurance company. Her friend’s profound observation was simple, “Some of the biggest health expenses are related to aging, people who don’t feel good about themselves, and who are dealing with depression. If you could do anything to help people feel good about themselves to eliminate anxiety, drink alcohol or take drugs… You will make a huge impact.” These words of wisdom inspired MaryAnn. In 2016, she founded Aesthetics Biomedical®, the parent company of Vivace®. One month later, they sold their first device. MaryAnn shares that consumers of all ages love this leadingedge technology because it provides incredible results. Known for treating fine lines and wrinkles, Vivace® uses radiofrequency with microneedles to create purposeful injury. With 36 insulated needles delivering heat into your dermis, your body automatically stimulates collagen and elastin, which in turn creates skin that looks simply luminous without pain and downtime. Quoting MaryAnn, “You don’t need to have a painful treatment to have a beautiful result with Vivace®,” It’s also the gift that keeps on giving as after one treatment, not only will you see your pore size shrink but the reproduction of collagen is long-term.
products are backed by science. Aesthetics Biomedical® launched an innovative personalized skincare product with two patents called SoME® Skincare. This product is ahead of its time, made with two clinical and lab studies and safety studies published in peer-reviewed magazines. SoME® Skincare is a revolutionary serum made with all-natural ingredients, which includes your own Platelet Rich Plasma (PRP) that lasts up to 120 days to give you a truly personalized cosmetic experience. The field of personalized aesthetics and the use of PRP to effectively achieve aesthetic outcomes is expanding daily, providing new opportunities to advance the science with Aesthetics Biomedical® at the forefront of regenerative aesthetics. The future is bright with Aesthetics Biomedical® and MaryAnn Guerra at the helm. MaryAnn has built a company with a great team behind her as she is a true investor in people. MaryAnn provides opportunities for her employees to reach their highest potential for growth, where honesty and integrity can’t be taken for granted. We look forward to what’s around the corner with Aesthetics Biomedical®! www.aestheticsbiomedical.com www.vivaceexperience.com www.someskincare.com
All Aesthetics Biomedical® treatments and NEW BEGINNINGS
Stitched with a Mission by Amy Breuer
eauty is a character trait that is
with her family fell through just 24 hours
built around the appreciation of
before departure, Stephanie Giddens’
differences and diversity. It is how
passion for social movements and desire
someone engages with those around them
to help underserved populations are far
and beauty looks different on different
from standing still. Stephanie’s interest
people” is how Stephanie Giddens, Founder
exponentially grew after she discovered a
and Executive Director of Vickery Trading
large refugee population living just miles
Company, defines beauty.
from her home in a neighborhood called
Victory Meadow. Since 2015, Vickery Trading Although her plans to relocate to Africa 106
Company, located in Dallas, Texas, has
been providing professional and personal
of things such as custom tailored drapes,
development programs that empower
bedding, pillows, suits, wedding dresses,
women to become self-sufficient and
dance or cheer uniforms, chances are you
contribute back to their local communities.
will need a “just-in- time”’ service close to
Texas became one of the top three states
home. This growing need has made sewing
for resettlement of refugees by 2021, and
an essential skill for women and those that
the Victory Meadow neighborhood is often
the first place refugees settle, so there has been a tremendous opportunity to make
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Refreshingly, Stephanie is always able
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to see the positives: “There is so much
benefits the refugees that make them. Make
misinformation about refugees and I want
a tax-deductible donation or volunteer your
people to know that they bring a strength
time in one of many ways.
(not a drain) to our community and that as humans, they bring the most beautiful, creative and colorful life to our community”. Through Vickery Trading Company’s unique and holistic 21-month program, refugee women are hired and trained to sew at a professional level using industrial machines and paid fair wages for their work while also learning English and other valuable job- readiness skills. The sewing industry is a sustainable one, and a sewer’s salary, combined with the income of a spouse, would enable a family to function well on their own and give back to their community, which is the ultimate goal of the program. “We are teaching women how to fish rather than just giving them one. We are all about the hand up, not the hand out,” says Stephanie of their approach. Currently, 98% of clothes are made overseas, but the industry is thriving here in the United States and is growing rapidly. For anyone in need
@vickerytradingcompany NEW BEGINNINGS
MEET THE AESTHETIC LEADERS
AGEJET® PLASMA TECHNOLOGY
DOCTOR NINA DEEP
r. Deep has enjoyed a lifelong
Written By: Kellie Galvin
interest in art, design, and aesthetics. These passions
prompted her to open Nina Deep MD Aesthetics in 2005. She comes from a large family of physicians including both of her parents, her two siblings, seven of her aunts and uncles, six of her cousins, her husband and two of her in-laws (and two of her children are attending medical school). After receiving her medical degree from Northeast Ohio Medical University in 1994, she specialized in Internal Medicine and was recognized as one of Columbus’ Top Doctors by The Columbus Dispatch. Nina Deep Aesthetics is a small boutiquestyle practice dedicated to providing exceptional care to each person who walks through its doors. Dr. Deep specializes in a select number of nonsurgical aesthetic procedures that
strive to provide natural-looking results.
plasma or PRP) provides a regenerative skin
Always seeking advanced treatments, she
therapy using Nitrogen Gas. Simply put,
discovered AgeJET® technology. AgeJET® is
energy travels into the deeper skin layers
nitrogen plasma technology that treats the
without breaking the surface layers. more
skin from the inside out. The technology is
youthful appearance and will continue to
not new, but it has recently been upgraded
improve for up to a year! To quote Dr. Deep,
to an outstanding treatment for patients of
“I don’t understand why plasma technology
ALL skin types for skin laxity, wrinkles, age
is not everywhere, but I couldn’t be happier
spots, acne, and precancerous Lesions. The
to offer it to my patients.” Just for the record,
all new AgeJET EYE is used, with superior
Dr. Deep is not a paid spokesperson for
results, to treat the sensitive upper and
AgeJET® just a huge fan of a company that
lower eyelids, so reflect the patient’s
can produce what it promises.
younger version of themselves by appearing wider, brighter, and more youthful. In
After years of experience working with
the past, patients with darker skin types
nitrogen plasma technology, Dr. Deep
couldn’t take advantage of the benefits
was introduced to AgeJet when selected
of laser resurfacing without potential side effects, and patients who were ideal candidates for laser resurfacing had to deal with the discomfort of treatment along with peeling and redness for up to 1 to 4 weeks to be completely healed. Using AgeJET®, Dr Deep’s patients healing time is a fraction of the time used to with traditional laser and ultrasound technologies The AgeJET® Eye is the holy grail of eye treatments. Dr. Deep has extensive experience in this industry to curate only those procedures that are safe, comfortable, and quick for her patients, hence the reason she discarded all the lasers in her practice that couldn’t equal the safety, comfort, and quick recovery AgeJET® can produce. Dr. Deep explains that plasma (not to be confused with “blood” 110
to test for clinical evaluations on AgeJET® technology. What she’s discovered is ‘less energy is better.’ She realized when treating her patients with less energy that they were recovering quickly and still getting amazing results with lower levels of energy. “It’s a new, and better, method to deliver results we expect. Like Tesla and electric cars, AgeJET® goes beyond the traditional light-based modality systems of lasers, RF, and ultrasound. Once you try it, you’ll quickly realize the efficiency, safety, efficacy and immediate benefits to your practice.” AgeJET® is expected to be available in 2022. The AgeJET® is the new Tesla skin treatment of the century. There’s a calm confidence about Dr. Deep that she’s earned with her dedication to her profession and passion for helping her patients seek solutions. She encourages women to maintain a healthy balance between hyper-focusing on looks while accepting that looks change; it is natural to hold on, but she offers solutions to move on to graceful aging. Dr. Deep speaks eloquently about women and beauty and has a lot to say on the subject. “I think it’s important for women to understand that their appearance has value at any age and caring for it requires effort at every age.” When asked about her definition of beauty, she replied, “I would say I feel most beautiful when I am connecting with others, whether it is a friend or family member, a patient, a student, or even a stranger. That is when
my inner and outer selves feel most in alignment.” Dr. Deep is distinctly aware she is a trailblazer in a generation of women in aesthetics, where technology, treatments, and definitions of beauty are constantly changing, and ’looking as good as you feel’ should be more than just a pleasant cliché; it should be a lifestyle adopted by smart and thoughtful women as they journey through the aging process. Dr. Nina Deep is an active member of The Women’s Fund of Central Ohio that invests in the potential of women and girls. She is nationally recognized as an expert in facial injections and is a sought-after trainer throughout the United States. Her years of experience and artistic eye benefit her patients and have distinguished her as a leader in the aesthetics industry. You can reach Dr. Deep at: www.ninadeep.com www.agejet.com NEW BEGINNINGS
DOCTOR JENNY LIU D
r. Liu received her medical degree from
the University of WisconsinMadison and residency and the University of Minnesota. She curtly holds the title of Assistant Professor for the department of dermatology and Medical Director for Dermatology at the Hennepin Health Care Clinic and Specialty Center.
orn in Beijing and growing up
health and skin. Dr. Liu defines beauty as
in Minneapolis, board-certified
Self-acceptance, self-love, and self-
dermatologist Dr. Jenny Liu fell in
love with dermatology because of its visual aspect and the ability to treat all genders and groups. Fluent in both Mandarin and English, Dr. Liu received her medical degree from the University of Wisconsin-
Madison and residency and the University
What is skin slugging?
of Minnesota. She curtly holds the title of
Use petrolatum (also known as petroleum
Assistant Professor for the department
jelly) to coat the entire face, especially
of dermatology and Medical Director for
using petrolatum moisturizer helps to
Dermatology at the Hennepin Health Care
minimize transepidermal water loss, great
Clinic and Specialty Center.
for dry and irritated skin. Conversely, those with oily skin may not find it ideal, and it
During her undergraduate studies, Jenny Liu
may increase penetration of ingredients
met her husband where they went through
like retinoid, which can increase irritation.
medical school and training together. He is an ENT surgeon. They have a 3-year-
Do I have to use separate face cream for
old daughter and 7-year-old bichon fries.
eyes and face?
Jenny loves skincare, fashion and loves to
You don’t have to, but you may get
additional benefits from using separate eye creams, depending on your concern.
Dr. Liu shares that what she loves most about Dermatology is making impactful
My skin is so dry in the winter, no matter
and visible changes in one’s skin, hair, and
what I use. How can I keep my skin
nail conditions. “Many don’t realize that
skin conditions can be very complex and is
Minimize or remove all actives like retinoids
more than just skincare or cosmetics. Skin
is the largest organ and greatly impacts one’s health, mental well-being, and
Use a gentle cleanser while the skin is still
quality of life. Being able to help patients in
damp. Apply a thicker/rich moisturizer.
that way is very gratifying.”
Adding a humidifier to the bedroom while sleeping can be helpful.
One beauty tip Dr. Liu learned from her mother is never to undervalue the
importance of food and its impact on one’s NEW BEGINNINGS
DOCTOR KENDALL ROEHL D
r. Kendall Roehl is a native Texan who was born in Alice, Texas. She moved to Victoria,
Texas when she was just nine, and she was raised there within a close and supportive family. She is the daughter of a teacher and petroleum consultant and has one younger brother. In her younger years, Dr. Roehl lived for sports. “I ran cross country and track, played basketball and softball. I carried my love for playing sports into college at Sam Houston State University and was even named an ‘All American’ in flag football!” Dr. Roehl grew up always wanting to help anyone or any animal that was injured or didn’t feel well. She knew she wanted to become a doctor at a very young age, and as she followed her education and interests, she discovered in medical school that her true love was in the operating room.
“On my surgical rotation, I fell in love with pediatric surgery. I also met a pediatric plastic surgeon who took care of congenital deformities, like cleft lips and palates, and he convinced me to try plastic surgery. I remember telling him, ‘I would never be a plastic surgeon,’ yet during my rotation, I fell in love with the diversity and art of plastic surgery!” Dr. Roehl went on to work with many other plastic surgeons and then met another microsurgeon like herself - a mother/wife/ surgeon. “Her practice focused on breast cancer reconstruction, and I realized that was my calling. I love helping women restore their bodies and feel good about themselves. Reconstructive surgery is the one light in a very dark time and helps women feel whole again. In that process, I really get to know those women- what they love and about their work and families. I enjoy that intimate connection with those patients and helping them walk through a very difficult chapter in their lives.” Dr. Roehl shared that she feels so blessed to be doing what she loves. “Being a plastic surgeon is one of the greatest honors, and in this profession comes some of the largest responsibilities on Earth, in my opinion. Patients are often in the most vulnerable state of their lives, and they then allow me to modify parts of their bodies (oftentimes they have a hard time looking at those parts themselves) whether for reconstructive or cosmetic purposes.”
The most rewarding part of her job is seeing the impact it has on a patient’s self-image and self-worth. “Many people judge or ridicule plastic surgery, but it truly can change a person in not only what they see in the mirror, but also in their soul. These changes trickle over into every aspect of their daily lives at work and in relationships. It brings me so much joy being part of people’s journeys and watching them transform physically and emotionally. Not every patient will share these stories with me, but those that do leave a lasting impression forever on my heart. I am so humbled and honored to be able to do this for ‘work.’” One tip Dr. Roehl shared that has been passed down is from her late grandmother: NEW BEGINNINGS
“‘You feel better and stronger, and are taken
I’ve lost 60 lbs. and have stalled for a year
more seriously with a little war paint on your
with the last 20. Should I go ahead and
face.” No matter how little sleep I have,
schedule my tummy tuck?
even after being awake for 48 hours on-
I truly respect and applaud those who have
call, I always wash my face and put some
undergone major weight loss or are taking
makeup on to feel ready to tackle whatever
steps to reach their goal weight! So many
life throws at me. People ask me all the time,
people seek surgery to “fix” their weight,
‘Dr. Roehl, why do you have a full face of
and it is not intended to be that way. My best
makeup on if you’re just going to get sweaty
work is when patients are at a stable weight
doing liposuction all day long?’ The simple
and are at or close to a good weight for their
answer and truth is because when I look my
body. I ask my patients to be at a stable
best, I feel my best and can do better work!”
weight that they can realistically maintain and ideally be at a BMI of 30 or less before scheduling a consultation with me. Having
certain parameters in place is really done for
Can you briefly explain to our readers what
the most “bang for their buck” since I’m able
to truly work on addressing their problematic
The term “Lipo 360” refers to liposuction of
areas, like stubborn areas of fat or stretched
the flanks, abdomen, and back to remove
out skin after pregnancy/weight loss.
the patient’s health and allows them to get
stubborn areas of fat from the entire circumference of the torso. This is often combined with other procedures, like the popular Brazilian Butt Lift (BBL), where the fat that is removed from liposuction is then transferred to the hips and buttocks to reshape the overall body contour. I’ve seen women with really defined abs; how do you achieve that with liposuction? “Ab-etching” - If a patient has good skin quality and wants a more defined look in her abdomen, “hi-definition” liposuction can be added. This creates the look of abs by creating hills and valleys in the skin and fat of the abdomen and gives the illusion of an extra athletic appearance.
DOCTOR NIGMA TALIB K indness, caring, and healing is in Dr. Nigma Talib’s roots. Growing up in Vancouver,
Canada, Dr. Talib spent her weekends volunteering her time cooking and cleaning for the elderly and serving the underprivileged. “I knew that this was the true me- being of service. I wanted to help those in need, and
being a Naturopathic Doctor was in my cards as a healer and caretaker,” Dr. Talib told us. It’s no wonder, then, that she has become a top Naturopathic Doctor, treating her patients from the inside out and empowering them to live healthy, radiantly beautiful lives. Dr. Talib loved that Naturopathic medicine gave her the ability to see patients with all sorts of health concerns. However, as she opened the doors to her clinic, she began to notice that her patients weren’t just concerned about their internal health; they had concerns about their appearance as well. “Time
after time, they’d start telling me that they
one but two best-selling books, Reverse
were aging faster than they thought they
the Signs of Ageing and Younger Skin Starts
should.” Dr. Talib worried that her patients
in the Gut. In addition to Dr. Talib’s book
had resigned themselves to poor health
success, she founded Healthydoc Clinics,
and poor skin as they aged, and that didn’t
which were previously located in West
sit well with her. Those who hadn’t given up
Vancouver, Canada and London, England.
hope had resorted to fillers and injections,
She is now based in Los Angeles, California.
procedures Dr. Talib believed were only disguising the problems her patients
In her books and through her practice, Dr.
were experiencing. She believed that by
Talib attends to patients’ gut health and
addressing her patients’ internal health,
nutrition. After years of focusing on what
she could help them achieve healthy,
goes in the body and how those things
youthful-looking skin. “As their medical
affect not just our overall health but our
treatment progressed and we addressed
appearance, Dr. Talib can now pinpoint
the gut problems, hormonal imbalances,
components of a patient’s diet based on
or inflammation behind pretty much all
the issues they’re having with their skin. She
of their health concerns, my patients also
shares these trade secrets in her books. “For
started to notice major skin changes. Not
example,” she told us, “if someone had
only was I helping my patients achieve
been eating more dairy in the weeks before
optimum wellness, I was also helping them
they saw me, they’d often appear with dark
turn back the clock and look better than
circles under their eyes; a higher intake of
they ever had before.”
alcohol would leave skin with more fine lines and wrinkles around their mouth,
Dr. Talib’s success with her patients’
the nasolabial folds, and the eye area; if
skin concerns motivated her to train as
I took gluten out of a patient’s diet, in no
a medical aesthetician. She felt that
time it would result in a face that was less
being able to provide medical-like skin
bloated and puffy.” Dr. Talib also discussed
treatments would complement her work
how so many foods we consume contain
as a Naturopathic Doctor. “I felt that
harmful products that wreak havoc on our
together, the two could help me absolutely
bodies. Between poor diet and inactive
determine the root causes of why people
lifestyles, Dr. Talib says that we are aging
age before they should. I saw more and
at an alarming rate and developing very
more patients, and as my knowledge grew,
damaging health conditions. However, we
I could clearly see the link between their
have the power to take back control of our
health and why they were aging.“ It was Dr.
health. “The process begins through proper
Talib’s work in the intersection of gut health
nutrition. A poor diet can lead to the spread
and skincare that propelled her to write not
of inflammation and infection,” says Dr.
“A good rule is to follow the Japanese principle of Hara Hachi Bu, which means you put down your knife and fork when you feel about 70–80 percent full. It takes a little while for your brain to catch up, but you will soon feel fully satisfied. Always eat mindfully.” Dr. Talib credits fellow Naturopathic doctors and healthcare practitioners who have mentored her over the years for shaping the doctor she is today. When asked about her definition of beauty, Dr. Talib had this to say: “I don’t believe that tackling aging or getting perfect skin is related solely to what you put on the outside of your body. It is also about what you put inside your body, as deep down inside the gut is where real aging begins.” Her book Younger Skin Starts in the Gut helps solidify this concept and allows readers to achieve beautiful skin. “The book’s Talib. “To protect your immune system,
comprehensive four-week program and
you must limit your consumption of sugar,
healthy recipes provides solutions to eight
gluten, cow’s milk, dairy, and processed
different signs of aging—including uneven
skin tone, puffiness, dark circles, and adult acne—and guarantees one blissful result:
While Dr. Talib does address proper diet
younger-looking, healthier skin.”
and nutrition, her program is not a weightloss plan. She outlines certain foods for
optimal health and more youthful skin,
but she doesn’t include portion sizes. That doesn’t mean, however, that we should go overboard on those ‘good’ foods. For patients and readers looking for portioncontrol advice or simple takeaways they can implement on their own, Dr. Talib recommends a common Japanese practice.
Australia found that eating a high GI meal raises levels of inflammatory markers three times higher than a low GI one. What about sugar substitutes? Avoid artificial sweeteners. Not only do they prevent you from losing your craving for sweet tastes, they negatively change the make-up of gut bacteria. If, once you’ve rebalanced your sugar levels, you want to sweeten foods, use a natural sweetener such as stevia, xylitol or coconut sugar instead. What are your thoughts on juicing (fruits/ vegetables)? I am a huge fan of juicing, but the main ingredient in any kind of juice should be green vegetables and not fruits—otherwise, you’re simply aging your skin with every sip.
You’ll be eating three main meals a day,
How much does sugar effect the signs of
with a beauty burst of juicing in between to
feed your cells with extra greens and other
In the United States, the average adult
natural boosts. Every time we consume a
consumes about 130 pounds of sugar every
full meal or snack too much, our digestion
year. Increased consumption of sugar
must work harder and harder; by constantly
can lead to the production of advanced
snacking, you can overstress digestion,
glycation end products.
which makes it sluggish. This can then potentially cause a buildup of undigested
As with the signs of Sugar Face, it’s not
food in the digestive tract, which can then
just the obvious sweet foods that cause
cause problems such as fermentation,
problems— refined carbohydrates that the
bloating, toxicity buildup, and a potential
body turns quickly into glucose (aka those
imbalance of bacteria that can upset
with a high GI, or glycemic index) also
everything. Juices, however, are readily
cause an inflammatory reaction. In fact,
digested by the body and nourish the cells
researchers at the University of Sydney in
within, avoiding this effect.
OR DIDN’T SHE? Only her doctor knows for sure
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TOP SCAR AND SKIN REPAIR TREATMENT
ILLNESS AWARENESS MONTH
March of 2022
DOCTOR AMY DEROSA THE HEAL IS REAL
NEW BEGINNINGS FALL 2021
efore becoming a surgeon, I was a
Over the years since this first patient, I have
dedicated student of the sciences
learned techniques to better the explant
with one goal in mind, to become
surgery. I now perform an average of 6-8
a doctor. Even before college and in grade
a week all year long. I have changed the
school, I knew I wanted to go into medicine. I
dynamic of my practice to focus on women’s
grew up in a wonderful extended family that
health and have stopped performing
supported my goals along the way. When
cosmetic augmentations. I offer free
I was a young lady, my dad died of cancer,
consults to those considering a cosmetic
barely 12. This experience helped guide my
augmentation as an opportunity to educate
future toward medicine as I wanted to help
them as to the many health risks associated
people where I felt medicine had failed me.
with breast implants.
I was a division I college lacrosse athlete on a very successful team. Memories of playing
To me, beauty is not defined by the size
in the NCAA Final Four tournament will stay
of a women’s breast. Beauty starts on the
with me forever (even though we lost!).
inside and comes through on the surface when we allow it. This means a balance of
Being on a team at this level taught me
all aspects of life. When we are not healthy,
many things useful in life, both personally
this balance is impossible. The many women
and professionally. After four years of
in my life, my mom, aunt, stepmom, and
medical school, five years of general surgery
grandmom, have instilled this in me. Still, I
residency, and two years of plastic and
have continued to learn this and so much
reconstructive surgery fellowship, I finally
more from my Bii patients, as I have seen
found myself doing what I love, plastic
lives change after removing their implants,
surgery. A few years into practice before I
both for them and their family members.
learned about breast implant illness (BII). My first patient came to me asking to have
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her breast implants and capsules removed
because she felt they were making her sick.
We discussed the surgery and my plan. I was candid that I didn’t expect her health to improve, as we were all made to think breast implants were safe. She had a complete resolution of her symptoms and returned to
health, to my surprise. I couldn’t believe it,
What does explant surgery involve?
but after several more patients she referred
It involves removing the surrounding scar
to the office had a similar response to
tissue (capsule) with the breast implant.
surgery, I knew there was something to this.
Anywhere the implant touches the body, a
capsule has formed. Removing this tissue
post explant. Either way, I have had this very
involves carefully separating the capsule
procedure done myself for Bii symptoms. I am
from its surroundings, whether breast tissue,
so glad to have done it, regardless of how my
muscle, or chest wall. The goal is to leave
breasts now look. Because, as I always tell
the breast in a state that allows it to heal
patients, your breasts do not define you.
properly while finally giving the body a chance to reduce its inflammatory levels, having removed the scar tissue and implants. What are my options after explanting? To date, the only breast implants available all have a silicone shell. Therefore, once the implants are removed for Bii, it is not advisable to have them replaced. Breasts always look different once they are removed. We all know that breast implants do damage to the breasts, with varying factors playing a role: How long the implants were in place, the size of the implants, under or over the muscle, was there a pregnancy and or weight loss/gain over the years, were the implants placed for breast cancer after a mastectomy, were they placed for breast asymmetry improvement, what is the quality of the skin, and how much breast tissue is present over the implants are just a few of them to consider. It is very similar to pregnancy. Some bodies handle pregnancy very well, and they don’t need an abdominoplasty after nine months of growing a baby. Others have lots of resulting skin laxity excess and request an abdominoplasty to improve their look. The same goes for removing breast implants. We can do some techniques simultaneously to improve cosmesis. For others, some delayed procedures, such as fat grafting, are utilized to assist with any contour changes noted
Written By: Michelle Emmick @theplasticsurgerycoach
was Breast Cancer awareness month, it’s every month that we as women need to be conscious of our health. The Ask Us Beauty platform is about education and empowerment, and therefore we believe it is
important to bring awareness on a breast topic
you may or may not be aware of; one of the
most popular cosmetic surgical procedures
that brings satisfaction for some, and serious
for physical, lifestyle,
health impacts for others.
and personal reasons.
Of the many plastic surgery procedure options
Some women feel that their
out there, breast augmentation continues to
implants could be the root cause of
rank near the top of the list. However, it’s not
their deteriorating health and a connection
uncommon for women who have implants to
between implants and illness. Hundreds of
end up wanting to have them removed later.
thousands of women are connecting inside
Facebook groups to support one another
Breast implant illness, referred to as BII, is a
regarding Breast Implant Illness. If you search
term that many women and some doctors
hashtag “BII” or any variation on Instagram,
use to refer to a wide range of health problems
you will be flooded with accounts discussing
that women develop after undergoing an
this topic. However, many doctors won’t
augmentation or reconstruction with breast
acknowledge breast implant illness with
implants. Also referred to as Autoimmune/
certainty because little research has been
inflammatory Syndrome Induced by Adjuvants
done to support women’s claims and BII is
(ASIA), BII symptoms show up with all types of
not currently classified as an official medical
breast implants. For some women, symptoms
diagnosis. This lack of certainty, research and
occur right away, while for others it can be
understanding brings the need for more education in the forefront on this issue.
years later, at which time they can explant- a surgical procedure performed to remove breast implants. Board Certified Plastic and Reconstructive surgeon, Dr. Kevin Brenner has been performing revision breast surgery, including explants, for his entire career. In his 15 years he has seen a significant increase in explant surgery for BII in the last 3-4 years. “I perform an average of 2 explants (usually with breast lifts) per week. That averages out to roughly
100 per year.” Dr. Brenner advised he does still
Sadly, stories like Melinda’s coworker are
perform breast augmentation with implants,
not that uncommon. Similar situations and
almost universally for revision breast cases.
others can even apply to women that have
“The big difference in my practice recently
had a mastectomy and reconstruction. We’ve
(aside from a shift to more explants than
talked with many reconstruction patients over
implants) is that everyone gets counseled
the years, who after going through so much
about the risk of breast implant illness as
already, later develop problems related to
part of my pre-operative informed consent
process.” We asked Dr. Brenner why he believes BII Whether breast implants are something you
is not a classified as an official diagnosis.
have, are considering, or looking to remove,
“The ICD 10 coding system is broad and
it’s important to note that plastic surgery
vast, encompassing nearly all diagnoses
is a personal decision. Those that have
and disease processes. The problem that I
worked with aesthetic patients can share
see with breast implant illness is that there
that many have gone issue free to date,
are roughly 40 different symptoms that
loving their results. Melinda S is one of those
have been associated, none of which are
patients. Melinda decided to undergo breast
pathognomonic for BII. (i.e. there is not one
augmentation three years ago at the age of
that specifically and only indicates breast
49 and is currently problem-free and satisfied
implant illness). Many, if not most, of them
with her decision. “I had wanted implants
already have an ICD 10 code associated. Until
for years after my children. However, I’m
we are able to more precisely delineate BII,
glad I waited. It was a very big and personal
this may persist as a problem.
decision for me and one I didn’t take lightly. I
visited three plastic surgeons before I chose
Dr Brenner goes on to share that there are
the doctor that was right for me. I have been
many physicians that he encounters who
fortunate to have had no issues so far and
either do not understand BII or simply do not
understand the risks.” One of Melinda’s
believe that it is a real issue. “Much like the
coworkers had an implant rupture ten years
political divide in this country, it is difficult
after her procedure. Her friend shared with
to sway one’s opinion once they hold it as
her that she was twenty-one at the time,
a firm belief. What I try to do is to educate
naïve and didn’t remember the being advised
physicians about my experience with BII
of what she could expect. She shared
patients, which is extensive. With respect to
with Melinda that after her final follow up
fellow plastic surgeons, all I can do is lead
appointment, she never saw the doctor again.
by example. In doing so over the last few
It wasn’t until a routine mammogram that she
years, I can tell that we are starting to make a
realized she even had a problem.
Ask Us Beauty wants to raise awareness
journeys, discoveries, and advocacy, they
around these and other breast matters. We
are championing this women’s health issue
know there are women who are happy, and
and making an impact.
we know there are ones that are suffering who need a platform. That was true of
Our takeaway is that while we commonly
Amanda Porta, an industry veteran who,
turn to medical opinions and scientific
after years of trying to figure out why her
data, we can’t turn away from our own
health was failing, uncovered that the root
feelings and intuition. We as women must
of her issues was what she believes to be
ask questions, voice concerns, listen to our
breast implant illness. On the mental and
bodies and continue to look for answers
emotional side, Amanda Savage Brown,
when it comes to our personal and physical
PhD LCSW (scientist turned therapist and
wellbeing. And whatever you decide
BII survivor) sheds light on why so many
regarding these topics, doing your own
of us want better breasts and what to do
research is important considering only 6
when breast implants and other fixes don’t
states currently have legislation requiring
work out well for you. Despite starting in
women seeking implants be provided with
a place of uncertainty and concern, both
a checklist of health risks prior to surgery.
stories have taken a 180 degree toward
Once you have done your research, you can
hope, inspiration, and change. Through their
then weigh both risk and reward. NEW BEGINNINGS
the breast decision I HAVE EVER MADE
Written By: Amanda Porta | @theholisticbeautycoach have worked in plastic surgery for
implant illness at the time. I had never
over 20 years. I had breast implants
been warned of the illness when I was
for fifteen of those years. My breast
getting implants in 2003, nor had I ever
implants were the root cause of my
heard a surgeon warning patients of the
chronic illness for seven years. I had
disease. I also had never been privy to a
a constellation of symptoms that
surgeon warning a patient that implants
perplexed 67 doctors that I saw over that
could cause hormonal disturbance or
period and the myriad of tests I took with
trigger autoimmune disease. Finally, in
no conclusive results. While I suffered,
December 2018, a colonic practitioner,
I never had one woman with implants
who had eleven former clients with BII,
come into any of the practices where
helped to put the puzzle pieces together
I was working complaining of these
for me- not a surgeon, nor a doctor. I
symptoms. I had never heard of breast
explanted in February 2019. I have made
almost a full recovery in two and a half
plastic surgeon in Beverly Hills for
women going through Breast Implant Illness. Having gone through the illness
I am now a patient advocate supporting
herself, Amanda Porta has explanted,
other women who are explanting due
detoxed, healed, and now guides
to breast implant illness. I worry for
women through their own explant
women because it has been known
journeys. She has advised thousands
for years that breast implants impact
of women around the world, from
your immune system. Had I known
celebrities and athletes to prominent
that fact, I might not have gotten them
businesswomen that have trusted her
in the first place. I had several active
expertise to support them through their
viruses, including Epstein Bar Virus and
health crisis. Amanda has received her
Shingles, before realizing my immune
certification as a health coach through
system was greatly compromised.
Trinity School of Wellness.
Whether or not you personally have breast implants, I guarantee you know
someone who does. Please familiarize
yourself with the symptoms. If you
suddenly feel you have had many of
(You can learn more here https://
these symptoms, come on at once,
or you have been feeling poorly and
not getting any clear diagnoses, and
you happen to have breast implants,
you may want to start researching the subject or join an online support group. Amanda Porta blends her love of aesthetics and natural health to help her clients achieve optimal results. Having 20 years of industry experience and training under some of the best practitioners in the country, Amanda saw the importance early on and believes that to get the best results for herself and others, you should incorporate holistic health into every treatment plan. She’s found a niche as a patient advocate for a prominent NEW BEGINNINGS
Busting THE QUEST FOR BETTER Breasts Written by Amanda Savage Brown, Ph.D., LCSW
@dr.amandasavagebrown spend a lot of time thinking about
them: pregnancy, breastfeeding,
breasts. I contemplate why we
weight loss, breast cancer treatment,
surgically place devices inside
or age. Others reveal painful infidelity,
breasts to increase their size or to
critical partners, professional pressure,
change, restore, or reconstruct their
or depleted post-divorce confidence.
shape. I am curious about the powerful
These are tenderly told stories of
beliefs fueling the practice, despite
longing to feel womanly, complete,
the FDA’s 2020 guidance on Things
proportionate, sexy, confident, desired,
To Consider Before Getting Breast
and safe. Whether or not you agree
with this reasoning, it’s certainly understandable. After all, we grow up
In my work with women whose lives are
in a society obsessed with breasts. We
impacted by breast implants, I ask why
learn those mounds of flesh somehow
they wanted them. Some tell decades-
display our desirability and worth. Their
old stories of hiding in shame over
size and shape bring us attention,
their underdeveloped, asymmetrical,
envy, and praise or make us targets of
or non-ideally shaped breasts. Others
ridicule, judgment, and rejection. Like
wistfully recall being satisfied with
it or not, in a breast-obsessed society,
their breasts until something changed
Whether you long for bigger, smaller, closer together, fuller, or perkier
$Genuinely validating your natural
breasts, the quest for better breasts
drive to belong as a woman in a
can dominate your view of self so
completely that it directs what you wear, where you’ll go, and how
$Letting go of how tightly you hold
you see yourself. When that’s the
your beliefs about women, breasts,
case, you rarely think to question
and belonging, and recognizing you
the social whims fueling your self-
have a choice in whether you follow
dissatisfaction. Instead, you’re busy
trying to fix the way you feel on the inside by “fixing” the way you look on
$Staying mindfully present to your
breast-related thoughts or feelings, so you know what needs your
For many millions of women, the
quest for better breasts leads to push-up bras, inserts, or surgical
$Responding to your inner pain like
solutions like breast implants. While
you would for a friend.
these fixes can help you temporarily feel better, they teach you nothing
$Discovering what matters most to
about self-acceptance. That’s
you and doing things based on your
problematic because push-up bras
values instead of social whims.
must eventually come off, inserts can be annoying, and breast implants are
$Reconnecting with the parts of you
not lifetime or problem-free devices.
that go beyond your breast-related
You spend your life on a quest you
never knowingly signed up for.
Busting the quest for better breasts
Keep in mind: these things help you
is simply about learning more helpful
change how you relate to the quest
and ongoing ways to care for the part
for better breasts, but they don’t get
of you that learned “better” breasts
rid of it. Rather than convincing you
make you better. Doing so puts you in
that breasts’ aesthetics don’t matter,
charge of decisions you make for your
these practices reclaim you from the
body and can help you struggle less
toxic messaging insisting they do.
with other arbitrary social norms, not
They free you to pursue beauty on
just those involving your breasts. To
your own terms no matter how your
get started, try:
body changes over time.
Amanda Savage Brown, PhD LCSW,
who eventually want or urgently need
is a scientist turned therapist, coach,
to remove breast implants or who are
and author. She uses science-based
adjusting to life after explant. She is
approaches to help women reclaim their
authoring a book (anticipated 2022) to
bodies, minds, and well-being from
help women with breast implants learn
things that harm them. In 2018, her
science-backed inner skills to overcome
personal life and professional expertise
the mental and emotional DIFFICULTIES
aligned as she removed her breast
of explanting in a breast-obsessed
implants and witnessed countless
women struggling with the mental
and emotional side of breast implant removal. Now, Amanda addresses the
Facebook group: Breast Implant
unmet psychosocial needs of women
Through Explant Inner Companions NEW BEGINNINGS
Is it Time to Buy New Underwear?
Written By Kellie Galvin
r. Taraneh Nazem, a board-certified Ob/Gyn physician, recommends what all women should do to stay hygienic and feel good about themselves at every stage of their
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LI FE- C H A N G I N G AESTH E TI C S
ANDREA FLYNN n grade school, I noticed my features
use a chin, and then I realized—I could use a
differed from my friends’. Bus rides
fun of for having buck teeth, a prominent
In December 2020, I explored my options to
forehead, and big lips. I’d go home and look
balance my profile. Before this, I didn’t know
in the mirror, posing with different angles and
there were options such as jaw realignment
holding my lower lip in to feel better about
surgery, dermal fillers, and silicone chin
myself. I never really got over the harsh
were long. I was constantly being made
words, but the embarrassment eased. I opted for the implant with Dr. James Rogers; It wasn’t until I immersed myself in the world
the procedure was done under general
of aesthetics as a PA that things finally
anesthesia with an incision just below my
clicked. A coworker commented that I could
chin. I also had a bit of liposuction performed NEW BEGINNINGS
to the anterior neck, which gave me more of
an overbite and a large forehead, but I also
have new confidence that I didn’t realize was possible! I’m no longer afraid that someone
My recovery involved ice packs, bruising, and
will catch my side profile in a photo, and I
surgical headbands. The discomfort was
like my larger bottom lip as it now has the
minimal. I felt numbness to the area, and the
structure to rest on.
swelling improved after a few weeks. Despite the bruising and swelling, I was utterly in awe
Andrea Flynn is an Aesthetic Physician
of my new look the first time I changed my
Assistant with Ocala Plastic Surgery in The
Villages, FL (injecting Botox/dermal fillers and working with lasers). Originally from
Does my new chin projection meet beauty
Rio Grande, Ohio, Andrea graduated from
calculation standards set by skilled
Marietta College in Marietta, OH, with an MS
physicians in the field? No. Is my profile
in Physician Assistant Studies in 2009. Her
perfectly balanced? No. Am I completely
favorite hobbies are spending time with her
in love with my results and more confident
two children, listening to audiobooks, and
in my appearance? Absolutely! I still have
Books & Media
we love The Queen of Percussion Here’s an easy question, put these two together, Music icon + drummer= Who comes to your mind? That’s easy, the one and only Sheila E! Percussionist, singer, author, and actress, this fearless beauty has touched the lives of millions around the world with her gift. The iconic Queen of Percussion shares with Ask Us Beauty that she is all about celebrating life. “I find joy in hearing the laughter from my parents, my family, and friends. God brings joy even in the midnight hour.” Sheila E defines beauty with the heart and spirit of a person. “Someone can be so beautiful on the outside and rotten on the inside. Kindness, love, and giving is beautiful.”
@sheilaedrummer @andreaflynnpac 140
Shes a 10 x 5 Most of us can recall the iconic movie scene in which the insanely beautiful Bo Derek exits the ocean and runs up the beach. The movie was called “10.” If that doesn’t ring a bell, what about the 1984 Summer Olympics when Mary Lou Retton scored two consecutive “10” scores on the vault to secure the all-around gold medal? Perfection, right? If you need a more recent example, tune in to “Dancing With the Stars.” Score a 10, and that means, wait for it, “perfect score.” So, does “She’s a 10” mean she’s perfect? HELL NO!
In January of 2021, Laurie Jabbar and Lisa O’Coyne launched their thriving podcast “She’s a 10 Times 5.” Their goal was to provide a platform and content that would help other women navigate their “second act” by rediscovering their purpose and recognizing the many amazing opportunities that come with a new chapter of life. Laurie and Lisa leverage honest conversations, informed guests, and relatable stories to inspire other women to define their own “perfection” at any age. “Our listeners are looking for a sense of sisterhood when they listen in. The goal is to feel as if they are hanging around a fire with a glass (or two) of
wine with us. We’re here to share the good, bad and ugly, while also lifting each other up.” When Laurie and Lisa say, “She’s a 10,” they are not referring to perfection. No one is perfect, and the true beauty is in our flaws and owning it all. Their podcast focuses on being a “10” at any age, which means giving it all we got. Recognizing the importance of perfect effort and not being so damn hung up on a perfect result. Embracing and even laughing at our flaws as part of the complete, beautiful, and messy picture. Celebrating bravery, taking risks, and not being afraid to fail or look stupid, emphasizing the need to rock what you got, doing the best we can, and then trying to do better the next round. Most importantly, a “10” is always the first to raise their hand, throw their hat in the ring and answer the call to help another woman in their efforts in becoming their own “10.” Loving yourself, saying yes, asking “why not,” and having faith and investing in sisterhood are being a “10, “not perfection. We ALL have the ability to be that! www.shesa10times5.com NEW BEGINNINGS
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Taking STRIVES... By Rachel Brooks | @iamrachelbrooks
verything we desire starts within.
We desire and aspire to be, do, or have requires discipline, commitment, dedication, and hard work.
When we shift our awareness, we create new perspectives, shifting from letting go of what’s holding us back to embracing who we’re becoming. This process is a practice. It is the journey.
To get to where we’re going, we must first acknowledge where we’ve been.
Each day is a gift, a new opportunity to learn, grow, let go, forgive, and surrender.
To create lasting change within, we must first ask ourselves WHY we want to change? How would it feel to become this version of you?
Every day is a new beginning, a step closer to becoming your best and most confident self.
Once you’ve identified your motive and intentions, consider what you are currently doing? How are you living? Do your habits and behaviors align with this new and improved version of you? If not, continue to ask yourself, why? Remember, everything starts within. Now, let’s take this a step further and ask yourself, what is made possible when you become the “you” you’ve always wanted to be? Who else’s lives could be impacted by your choice to transform your life radically? How would your relationships look and feel? How would it feel to be fully and unconditionally loved and accepted by yourself for the beautiful soul you are?
Let today be the day you strive for progress, not perfection. Rachel Brooks, Author of Chasing Perfection, Host of The Confident Woman Podcast.
Once you’ve answered these questions with honesty and conviction, you can begin to employ your newfound healthier beliefs, thoughts, and habits. Now, let’s get honest with ourselves and accept who we truly are - beautiful souls living as perfectly imperfect human beings, striving to be and do our best.
Timeless BEAUTY FURAHA M OYE
t is my belief that in life, we have to “feel the fear and do it anyway.” I’ve spent a good deal of time struggling and pushing back on myself because I listened to all the negative messages. Fortunately, I found my center, my art through becoming a
Custom Picture Framer; this was a blessing I could never have even dreamed possible. My birthday present to myself in my 35th year was to open my frameshop. I started framing at 23, and 50 years later, I’m still going strong. Through framing, I discovered that I could do anything and everything I put my mind to. I became confident, hopeful, driven, forgiving, and most importantly, at peace with myself. I gave up my shop, my condo, my car and moved to New York City at 50 to pursue a career as an actor; and yes, it has its ups and downs, but the most important thing is that I’ve gained enough traction to know I’m on the right path. Hope, faith, and belief in myself keep me grounded and moving forward. I have opportunities as a 72-year-old woman that my Mom could never have imagined, and for that, I’m grateful. Besides being an actor and a custom picture framer, I am a photographer, model, tap dancer, and writer.
Interview When and where were you born? Tell us
to support myself as an artist. I’ve done
and continue to do that very thing as of this
This life has been quite a fabulous ride from the very beginning. I’ve seen many ups and tremendous downs from the time I was born in Manhattan in 1949. I am an artist in multiple disciplines; actor, custom picture framer, model, photographer, singer, tap dancer, and writer. Art was a part of my life as a young girl, but at that time, I was assured I’d never be able
writing. What’s one thing you learned about beauty from your Mother/Grandmother? My Mother was an exceptionally beautiful, wise, and intelligent woman and the one thing she would often expound on was that beauty stems from your inner being. Who you are internally has everything to do with what you’ll exude externally. NEW BEGINNINGS
How have beauty standards changed?
What advice would you give the younger
Fortunately, I’ve become an older woman
generation when it comes to beauty?
at a time when aging is being embraced as
That would be to focus on being healthy,
a positive for older women. We are seeing
stress-free, living in the moment, and
more and more women who are ardently
being brave enough to pursue your deepest
pushing back on “treatments” that defy
passions for the things you love. Be all the
aging. Aging is a natural progression of living
woman you are meant to be; it starts young
and is not granted to all.
and matures like a fine wine.
What is something beauty/wellness-related that
Do you have a motto you live by?
you can’t live without?
A time-honored adage: “Treat others the
My morning routine starts with a cup of hot,
way you want to be treated.”
steaming Matcha Tea followed by a luxurious shower, after which I apply pure Aloe to my skin before applying moisturizer. It makes me feel alive, fresh, and ready even before makeup! What do you enjoy most about being your age? I love the fact that I’ve grown to be quite comfortable in my skin and no longer feel the need to excuse, explain, question, or deny any of my actions. I like who I am and the life I’m living. How do you define beauty? Beauty for me is all above love on the most visceral level. Who I am, how I feel, what I share, what I accept, what I think is exactly what I put out into the world. What is a favorite beauty product? A concealer made by Dermablend. It provides maximum coverage for dark spots, birthmarks, scars, and a host of other issues when I’m preparing to look and feel my best.
Photos by Susie Lang
ime is the currency of life. The precious gift of a single day gives us 24 hours, no more, no less, and it is up to each and every one of us to determine how we will use them. If you are like me, you’ve encountered two types of people: those who are master timekeepers and those who squeeze every second out of life and strive every day to check another box of the never-ending and everevolving bucket list. There’s a good chance you fall into one of these two categories. The whirlwind of life can be real. In a blink of an eye, our calendars can quickly fill up, limiting the amount of time we have for meaningful activities. Why does this happen? The majority of the time, our calendars are left wide-open, leaving us at the mercy of everyone else’s needs, and in other instances, it is simply easier (and more satisfying) to tick off easy goals with quick wins. Getting more time back into the day can be as simple as time blocking your calendar. Consider time blocking those activities that you feel are most important, and watch how your narrative changes in a positive way. You will feel more accomplished and satisfied with the time you have and how you are choosing to spend it. It is true that New Year’s Day remains the most popular time of the year to reflect on your intentions and set new life-changing goals. Intentions are great, but taking action is what moves the needle forward. A mindset shift from intention to action can be done at any moment in time, so there is no need to wait to reset your priorities. Decide when to spend time on activities related to family, friends, special projects or interests, and dreams you dare to dream. Creating a schedule is just like starting a new diet. You don’t want to make it so strict that you will feel like chucking it after the first month. Make sure you allow yourself some downtime but be aware of activities that can become major time-suckers if you do not set boundaries for yourself. Implementing and sticking to a new scheduling system might sound easy, but it takes time to build new habits, so having a support system is strongly encouraged; many will even require an accountability partner to keep them on track. But no matter who you are or how organized you think you may be, this magazine is bursting with a plethora of resources to help. Time is priceless, and our New Beginnings Issue celebrates you, our readers, by reminding you that this is your journey and story, so you can write it or rewrite it as you wish!