Wednesday, February 14, 2018
Help build new homes for skinks Local conservation group Nga Uruora is inviting the community to come and help build rock piles beside the Paekakariki Escarpment Track to help create habitat for skinks and geckos. Project lead Paul Callister said volunteers will have a good chance of seeing two of the four species of lizards Nga Uruora have found on the escarpment so far — Northern grass skinks and Raukawa geckos. Copper skinks and brown skinks are also present but are more difficult to find. There are over 100 species of lizards in New Zealand and 85 per cent of these are at risk or threatened due to habitat loss and predation. The Lizard Habitat Restoration Project is funded by The Kapiti Biodiversity Project, WWF New Zealand and The Tindall Foundation. Weeds have been cleared from a 130sq m area and native species will be planted this winter to provide food and hiding places for native
lizards. Intensive trapping in this area also means it is relatively free of predators. The rocks are sharp so volunteers will need gloves. If you have a wheelbarrow that would also be useful but not essential. Where: Meet at the Paekakariki Escarpment Track entrance by the SH1 bridge. When: 9.45am on Sunday Feb 25. More details can be found on the event page on Facebook: www.facebook.com/events/ 1155660727936267/
SECRETIVE: Northern grass skink on the escarpment. PHOTO: PAUL CALLISTER / KAP120218SPLSKINK
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