So much fuss about marriage

A question I have in my mind, which I guess every youngster in the age group of 24 upwards would have Well I guess you guessed it, who would be my life partner, how will I meet her or him Like they show in the movies "ghanti bajegi" , "ishara hoga", hawain chalegi Kya hoga How would I know this is that person who I would be spending the rest of my life with

Well I guess its as simple as meeting someone and knowing that you would click well as friends, its the fear of the unknown and the scare of failure which doesn't let us accept it so easily and makes our mind go round and round about it

Are we giving more importance to the place that he/she stays, are we neglecting the important things and focusing on how much he\she earns

Marriage an institution of union of not just two people but two families, are we ignoring all of this and just making a mockery out of the whole system. Come see each other have coffee and feel like an achiever ... "Wow yet another blind date" how long can this last... How much of knowing each other is enough... I guess enough of knowing each other is also not enough.

In today's world the subtleties, the simplicity and the honesty is all lost.. All people want is a pretense, a flamboyant approach and attitude... Rest all of it can go take a walk

As much we think we are smart, and we can find the best for us, we are all fooled by the randomness around it. We want to know all of it before hand then to leave anything to experience it later and have a better chance of making it happen

Well I guess.... Its a gamble, roll the dice and take your chances!!!

Akta Sehgal