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Collecting (10424) The reality of marriage is that it requires a lot more than loving your partner or loving your children to make it work. It requires Communication really unique skills to manage conflict, to discuss difference of wants and learn how to negotiate a win-win for spouses. The (109950) skills that make you a good employee or boss or parent don’t work in a marriage. The lack of effective marital skills leads to the Computers loss of good feelings and love in the relationship.

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To ensure a successful marriage, start early and do relationship skills counselling prior to getting married to learn skills for effective communication, managing differences and learning how both parties can get their needs met. While it may seem odd to get help when you are happy, that is the best time to learn new skills. So often couples are caught up in many emotions of planning the wedding, usually the sex is the best it will ever be and life is not complicated. Once people get married, it takes more skills to be able to manages the demands of the individuals careers, personal time and couple time. Throw in a few kids and things can get even more complicated. Starting early and learning effective conflict management skills means therapy is shorter and results are easier to come by Go when Problems are Small If you are already married and starting to feel dissatisfied, do not wait to seek professional help. Too often couples rely on “hope” or magical thinking in their marriage. Hope or magical thinking believes that doing the same ineffective behaviors will change my partner, situation or relationship. Research shows that couples often experience 6 years of decline and unhappiness in their marriage before seeking help. Sometimes couples wait too long and counselling won’t be enough to save a marriage. If you have been experiencing a long period of marital unhappiness, do not wait to get help, even if your partner doesn’t want to come. You can go alone and learn how to improve your relationship. Before anyone ends a marriage they want to work their way out and make sure they’ve done everything they can to save it. So you can work your way out of or into a marriage with or without your partner.



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For the kids: this places a huge burden on children. Divorce itself doesn’t hurt children but two fighting parents that can’t stand each, hurl insults and are vicious towards each other, DO hurt children whether they are married or not. Stigma: staying with someone in order to avoid shame won’t make for a happy union and will lead to resentment. To keep your parents happy. Again if you are in a relationship for anyone other than yourself, it won’t work, you’ll feel a lot of anger and resentment and there is no love in that. Money: Often people fear the loss of financial stability. However, this again creates a power imbalance and this can create many power struggle fights Fear of Change: Change is inevitable, and staying in a bad situation is not enough to make a marriage work. Good Reason to Save the Marriage:

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