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February 2010

The Outfield by Dan Woog

A new decade for GLBT sports

As one decade ends and another begins, The OutField pauses to survey the GLBT sports world. We’ve come a long way, baby, from the days when the term “gay athlete” was regarded as an oxymoron at best, repulsive at worst. Life is still not peachy-keen, of course. Players and coaches remain closeted. Antigay rhetoric still flows. But a tipping point seems nearer than ever. Take this story—one of several reported by Gay & Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation intern Emily Witko in a roundup titled “Media Paying Attention to LGBT Sport Issues.” When reported that Dallas Mavericks basketball player Drew Gooden referred to two Los Angeles Clippers fans as “faggots,” one of the men e-mailed Mavs’ coach Mark Cuban from his BlackBerry. Cuban quickly responded: “I appreciate you telling me. I will deal w Drew.” Similarly, when Kansas City Chiefs running back Larry Johnson used anti-gay slurs, the football team docked him a week’s pay—about $315,000—and suspended him for a game. His agent said, “Larry apologized. He learned from it, and hopefully other people learned from it. My hope is that people learn that something positive can come out of this, and that there are words that should not be used because they demean people.” Homophobic slurs are not confined to the U.S. Witko reports that Danish soccer team FC Midtjylland fired star goalkeeper Arek Onyszko for writing in his book, Fucking Polak: “I hate gays, I really do. I think it’s fucking disgusting to hear them talk to each other as if they are girls. I can’t be in the same room as someone who’s gay. Look at them kissing each other—it’s sickening.” Onyszko is no stranger to controversy. In 2008 he was fired from another squad, after a conviction of assault on his ex-wife. He served three months in prison. Back in the U.S., Major League Baseball welcomed its first openly gay owner in October. Laura Ricketts—who serves on the board of Lambda Legal—joined her family in purchasing the Chicago Cubs, for $845 million. The earth did not stop revolving—

Justin Bourne and the Cubs, a non-World Series contender since 1908, did not immediately become competitive—but Ricketts’ ascension to the highest level of the baseball world may be significant simply because no one cared. The gay sports world heard a voice for equality from a straight source, too, when former pro Justin Bourne wrote a column in USA Today headlined: “It’s Time to End the Use of Gay Slurs in Hockey.” Bourne—who, Witko says, used antigay slurs “many times himself” during his career—recognized that the atmosphere in homophobic locker rooms may keep talented gay players out of the game. “It’s time to acknowledge we’ve been unfair to the gay community,” Bourne said. “The culture of our sport can be misogynistic, homophobic and cruel. More important, it’s time to make a stand that we want it to change.” One hockey player who may benefit from Bourne’s stand—if it is heeded, and adopted, by the sport—is a 17-year-old named “Mikey.” He lives in a suburb of Minneapolis, is captain of his high school team, and blogs regularly Writing in blog-speak, Mikey says: “im gay and not out and spend my whole life with jocks who are mostly anti gay. it usually

sucks, but its cool i get to play hockey.” He writes about the usual: practices and games, shoveling snow and worrying about waking up in a hotel on a road trip where teammates sleep two to a bed, spooning with a teammate and—well, this is a family column. Check out for a look into what it’s like to be a gay high school athlete these days—and, in many ways, just a normal teenager. Finally, a shout out to an entire hockey team. This one is the girls squad from Woodstock, New Brunswick. The Lady Thunder team won a Canadian provincial human rights award for standing up for two teammates who came out. According to CBC News, Alyssa McLean and Sierra Paul were supported by Lady Thunder players—but taunted by rivals. The opposing team refused to shake the two girls’ hands. The same girls were then treated rudely at a fast-food restaurant. Their Woodstock teammates devised a plan. They created rainbow-colored buttons, with the word “homophobia” crossed out. The girls wore the buttons to games. A team in Edmundston, Canada asked what the buttons were about. The Woodstock players gave them some—and their opponents immediately put them on. The Woodstock girls were “a model for the promotion of human rights among youth,” said New Brunswick Human Rights Commission chair Gordon Porter, in making the award. Happily, they are not the only ones speaking out—and standing up—for GLBT athletes everywhere.

Sweet turnaround for Peggy Beck

Stereotypes have long held that there are no gay male athletes—but most female athletes are lesbians. However, ever since The Front Runner, authors have tackled the theme of gay male athletes far more often than females. Sweet Turnaround J changes all that. The second novel by Peggy Beck, it explores the life of 16-year-old Janey Holmes after her old school closes, and she joins a team that has not won a game in three years. Along the way she confronts her own temper, and falls in love with another girl. Like Janey, Beck was a sports fanatic. Her father encouraged her love of athletics; her mother, concerned about raising a tomboy, was less enthusiastic. Growing up in Minnesota in the 1950s and ’60s, Beck played every game imaginable –including football. But as she grew older, social strictures made coed play impossible. With no real sports available, she went through “bad emotional stuff,” Beck says. Recognizing her attraction to women made life even tougher. She gravitated to politics and folk singing. At Sarah Lawrence College, she wrote but did not show her work to anyone. “My whole life was secret,” she says. After earning a Ph.D. in the history of consciousness, she wrote fiction, poetry, articles and essays covering mythology, folklore and history. In middle age she recalled that she once wanted to be the best female basketball player in the world and decided

Peggy Beck to revisit that dream. “I wanted to write about a girl obsessed with basketball,” Beck says. “But I realized I didn’t know anything about it anymore.” She spent a year watching every practice of a team in New Mexico, where she lived. She went to the Amateur Athletic Union 15-yearold Nationals where she interviewed coaches. She attended other tournaments, and then became an assistant high school coach and a seventh grade girls’ coach. She studied videos, read coaching books and interviewed plenty of players. “I wanted to get it right,” Beck says. She got it so right the first draft of her novel was 1,000 pages. The lesbian element is important. Janey falls in love with her new best friend. The chapter where they kiss and make love is implied. Over the next two chapters, the reader agonizes as the girls can’t deal with what is going on. Janey goes through hell when Alejo won’t talk to her. During her long research, Beck had watched girls trying to figure out their feelings for other girls. She’d also heard the anti-gay remarks so typical on teams and in high schools. Because Beck had felt and heard the same things, her writing is strong and real. But it did not become truly powerful until Beck changed the narrative from third person to first. Sweet Turnaround J is not, however, only about lesbians. “It always comes back to basketball,” Beck says. “The gym is like the theater— every day is a rehearsal for a play.” The novel includes alcohol abuse, parental issues, coaching issues—all the things teenagers of every sexual orientation deal with regularly. But sexuality is often part of high school sports, and Beck does not shy from it. When Janey finally talks with a teammate, the other girl asks, “How did you know you were gay?” “I always was,” Janey says. The coach encourages Janey and Alejo to follow their feelings. That doesn’t always happen, Beck knows, but through her research into coaches and coaching styles, she realizes that the best coaches are TTSWEET continued page 13

ACCESSline, Iowa's LGBT Newspaper, February 2010 Issue, Volume 24 No 2  
ACCESSline, Iowa's LGBT Newspaper, February 2010 Issue, Volume 24 No 2  

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